I know this video is 2 years old, but thanks for putting it up. I went into a giggle-fest also. You both have a beautiful family. Thanks for sharing. Love from the UK. :)
You guys are amazing and you have and absolutely beautiful family. My little sister is bisexual and seeing the challenges she faces, mainly with our mother who is a fundamentalist preacher, is probably the main thing that motivates me to speak out on LGBT rights. My sister is not out to my parents and is terrified they will find out. I think I was the first family member she came out to, after she made me worry for a week it was something bad, but I love her no matter what
con't.. I have told my sister that I do not care what gender she ends up with in the end, and all I care about is the person makes her happy and treats her right. I realize that if she does end up with a female she will eventually have to come out to our parents, especially our mother, which is why I have been working on waring my mother down on the issue (and I can be stubborn and extremely protective of my sister). I love the work you guys are doing and keep it up.
I AM A GAY JAMAICAN BUT I AM AFRAID TO SHOW MY GAY SIDE BECUZ IF I DO THEN I DIE.I AM LONELY,BORED AND CONFUSED IN JAMAICA AND WOULD LOVE TO GET MARRIED TO A GUY ONE DAY AND FOSTER CHILDREN BUT I CAN NOT MEET A NICE GUY WHO WANT A RELATIONSHIP.NICE VIDEO I ADMIRE U TWO.LONG LIVE GAY PEOPLE.
Homosexuals commit more than 33% of all reported child molestations in the United States, which, assuming homosexuals make up 2% of the population, means that 1 in 20 homosexuals is a child molestor, while 1 in 490 heterosexuals is a child molestor
im only 15 and still in the closet. im still trying to figure out my "status". i know i am definently gay and i am way more attracted to men than women but there still is a little bit of striaghtness in me. i consider myself 80% gay and 20% straight but in the end i want to marry a guy... so does that make me gay? who knows. i'll figure it out eventually
@pkmn7777777 Imagine a line, on one side is straight, middle is bi & on the other side is gay. Everyone is on this line somewhere, rarely completely 100% gay or 100% straight... but at 80% you would be gay. However, being a young boy.. you can have some fun! Try dating a girl for the heck of it! Experiment in your college years, no problem. But in end if you feel like marrying a man, do it! good luck <3
@pkmn7777777 you might be bisexual, what should matter is affection not attraction, are you capable to have feeling to a girl or just boys, (sorry for my english),
I was Bisexual for a long time. what prompted me to make a choice was even a suprise to me. I realsed that if I was with a woman, I would cheat on her, but if I was with a man, I could be in love. I think women are amazing. I love them. Just for me, the one I want to wake up to is Male. the one I want to be my best friend outside of my relationship is a woman. They are the backbone of us all. Jim
Good job with these videos. I have been watching in sequence for last hour plus. Nice to see you both so loving with your family. I'd like to think my 42 YO younger brother could find the same sort of loving relationship some day soon. Also like your activism. Sickened to hear your comments at the end about negative feedback last posting. Everyone deserves to be heard; even when we object to their POV. I only wish the narrow-minded, bigoted folks (as we would characterize them)would agree.
Good job with these videos. I have been watching in sequence for last hour plus. Nice to see you both so loving with your family. I'd like to think my 42 YO younger brother could find the same sort of loving relationship some day soon. Also like your activism. Sickened to hear your comments at the end about negative feedback last posting. Everyone deserves to be heard; even when we object to their POV. I only wish the narrow-minded, bigoted folks (as we would characterize them)would agree.
Good job with these videos. I have been watching in sequence for last hour plus. Nice to see you both so loving with your family. I'd like to think my 42 YO younger brother could find the same sort of loving relationship some day soon. Also like your activism. Sickened to hear your comments at the end about negative feedback last posting. Everyone deserves to be heard; even when we object to their POV. I only wish the narrow-minded, bigoted folks (as we would characterize them)would agree.
I have gay friends who, like Bryan, came out as bi first because it was easier. But I think in the long term, being bi is in some ways less accepted because of it's ambiguity. I've heard some deeply offensive and all-too prevalent stereotypes about bis - that we're promiscuous, that we're indecisive, that we're selfish, that we benefit from passing as straight... It can be very alienating. However, I think attitudes are changing as dialogues about sexuality become more widespread and accepted.
Jay....baby! you use to get down with the sistas!!!!!! So not only are you a jar head & a cop, you got history with the ladies!!!! dude you are pushing the hotness needle off the gauge!!! LOL Bryan your MEGA HOT TO BABY.
HELLO....THIS IS THE SECOND VIDEO I WATCH OF U GUYS.....AND MAY I START BY SAYING WHAT A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY U HAVE. I LOVE UR VIDEOS, I THINK THEY R VERY INSPIRATIONAL AND EDUCATIONAL. THANK U FOR MAKING VIDEOS AND SHARING UR WONDERFUL FAMILY WITH US. UR KIDS ARE ADORABLE! I HOPE THAT ONE DAY ILL HAVE MY FAMILY AND BE AS HAPPY AS U ALL ARE. GOD BLESS U AND PLS DONT STOP MAKING VIDEOS, SUCH A GREAT THING U GUYS R DOING FOR THE GAY COMMUNITY. HUGS
don't say your not cool enough for canada! as a canadian I think your very cool and we should have more people like you to stand up for our community ! you give me insparation for the future :) and I say thank you ! keep up the good work wish you all the happiness the world can offer to you. your kids are so amazing as you two !! :s sorry for mistakes i'm from Montréal (Québec, so i'm french canadian) I hope I will have the chance one day too see you here in the most gay-friendly city !
good talk on bisexuality :D...yea, it's not easy to migrate to another country...in fact, it's complicated!!! the immigration requires this & that and most of all "the money"...i wanted to migrate to hawaii and to be with my former girlfriend of 4 years (yea, we had separated due to the distance & she couldnt bear the loneliness) but it didn't work out good. in the end, im bck in my dull hometown...anyway, life goes on...hahahaha...God bless!!! :D
Aww you guys are so cute together. As a bi guy i agree that everyone is on a scale, I may lean more to the straight or to the gay I don't care as long as I meet someone I love :D. May the force be with you.
Oh man i thank you guys so much for making this specific vid, as a true bisexual I feel that bisexuality isn't talked about enough. I really don't like the stereotypes for bi's, for one I am not greedy for sex, I could care less about sex and I feel sex should wait till a long healthy relationship is formed, and another thing is I don't think of gender as to who I want Ina relationship, it's the inside of a person, well I could go on but I've said enough lol thxs again depfox =)
I was cracking up with Selena =]. I have never been with a girl and I don't think I have ever been attracted to one so I can say that I am Gay, I tend to get really self conscious and nervous around guys I like and that has never happened to me with a girl. I think is possible for someone to like both sexes, I would have to be one to understand how it feels.
I'm Canadian and I thought I would throw this out there... my facts might be a little skewed but in highschool I remember I learned that over 50% of Canadians would not even qualify for Canadian immigration. So don't take it personally!
I'm 100% straight and Canadian and yet I love and appreciate everything you are doing with your family and with the rights movement in California... I was enraged when I heard about prop 8.
im japanese and i like to watch you families video :) coz im also gay. but i dont understand all of your talk because of my listening english skill... im trying to train it!
I wish you guys could come to Australia and have a better time down here, but it's no better down here. We will probably follow the US. But NZ is all legal and way ahead of us. It is beautiful in NZ, especially if you like fresh air and mountains. But it really is isolated from the rest of the world. Maybe the US does need you more than you need the US. It is all a matter of time and I guess more work...
only letting the most skilled immigrants into canada is the best thing for our society leaving in canada is a mutualy giving situation why should we let people in that won't contribute to make our country better
if we did that we would be over populated like the americans
The point system does not let in skilled workers as much as it does educated people. Which is great, but doesn't necessarily reflect our needs. In other words, someone with a PhD has a better chance of getting in than a skilled worker.
I call myself gay because I only have the capacity to love men. As for the Kinsey scale, and i'm no scholar on his work, but I believe he said about only 10% of people moved up and down that scale between gay and Bi within their life times. Even then, I think he was talking about sexua experiences rather than attraction. There's a difference between trying have sex with someone because you want to and because that's what you think that's what you're supposed to be doing.
I don't agree with Jay about Bisexuality. I agree that it exists, but this notion that everyone is Bi is nonsense. Jay is appearantly Bi himself, which is fine, but everyone's sexuality is not fluid. My sexuality is hard wired. What Jay is saying besacially amounts to what people have always told gay men, which is "you just haven't met the right girl yet", which is rediculous. People now don't seem to comprehend the definitions of sexuality.
Aww. I support you both so so so much! My brother is gay, and is wanting to marry his partner so he can retain US citizenship since he's Italian...Sadly our Federal Government doesn't grant that.
I hope we win the fight for equality, Whatever you do.. do not stop making videos..you guys reach out to so many people.. it's a beautiful thing!
Think the kids are really cute and all, but when you make these vids, can you please tell them to not be so loud or not have them in the room. I really wanted to hear this, but they are so distracting
Kids are like that. They won't speak to you all day - but as soon as you get on the phone, all of a sudden they just have to talk to you. They'll sit still on the couch to watch TV - then as soon as someone comes over, they bounce all over the place. You kind of have to be a parent to understand it. They are cute little disruptive turds though. And ... what did you want them to do - duct tape the kids to the wall so as not to disrupt your viewing experience?
Well as a Canadian I just wanted to say that even though I have gay marriage I will still fight the good fight so my neighbours to the south can enjoy it as well. Love your vids keep up the love for each-other. hope all is well.
Oh God you guis are brave! thihi thank you for the vid! ^^ and soo true I get the question (I'm bi) which do you prefer and it's almost as if you HAVE to choose and for me it's a complete impossibility. I totally in the middle of middles. I can be attracted to eny type of human male female trasnvestites and transexuals. I honestly don't care what the persen may be as long as I feel the litle IT that i recognise as atraction in a sexual way i won't deny it I may not you know go for the persen but
Sometimes we have to choose between what is right and what is easy. I have a lot of respect for those who are gay in countries like Iran and Iraq who could lose their lives just for being somewhat out, especially those who chose to stay in their country and fight the oppression by being out where they are.
i have a faved vid where an iranian father of gay boy hung him in the livingroom of his house in front of his younger brother, so he wouldnt "choose" the same gay path. i was completely stunned by this. religions, know & take responsibility for ur damage. 1 LIFE
Sean, this is so true, no one would even argue, just wanna say that we also shouldn't forget about those who live in countries that don't penalize people for being gay in any way, but public opinions about gays are so terrible that even governments act like they don't know about death squats killing gay people, or about law enforcement officers abusing their power to beat the crap out of gay people.
BTW, loved your music videos, can't get your "TURN" out of my head! :)
Kirille, adding to what you write, in South Africa where gay marriage is legal, with anti-discrimination laws for sexual orientation, is a very homphobic country and for a couple of years now lesbians have been targeted and raped, called 'corrective rape'. The men that do this believe it can turn them straight and as a way to say homosexuality is the wrong 'choice'. The police and justice hardly do anything about it. Truly shocking. SA is a violent country, high murder and rape rate in general.
And here I was thinking that South Africa was so progressive to legalize same-sex marriage on 2006-11-30. 3 years did not change anything, I guess. Well, no wonder. With 80% black population and 80% Christians. No wonder that there are problems with acceptance. But what's really disturbing is the government's nihilism. Probably, they instituted gay marriage for some benefits from overseas, just like Russia lifted criminal prosecution for gays in 1993 — to get into Council of Europe and UN.
I thought too SA was very progressive (it actualy still is when you take the legalization and ant-discr. laws into consideration), to then find out, culturally its not. The rights were legalized after abortion of Apartheid, and the then party decided no more Apartheid for anyone (Mandela's party). Unfortunately the current government is somewhat corruptive. Good legislation doesnt mean its a guarantee for a better life, as this shows.
Boys, you are SO cool enough for Canada. If it comes to that, maybe you can start a small business and get yourselves up here. How 'bout publishing an on-line magazine? It'd be a perfect fit for Bryan. If you intend to hire Canadian staff, that just might get you the points you need. I still think America needs you more right now though. Until then: bon nuit. PS Canadians aren't so big on croissants, try offering the officials poutine (fries and gravy with cheese- a French Canadian invention).
When I was first realizing that I wasn't straight, I called myself bisexual. Which lasted for about a day. xP
I quickly realized that I didn't like girls at all in 'that' way. I didn't want to marry one, or date one or have sex with one at all. Women just don't do it for me at all. In fact it makes me queezy when I think about them sexually. No offense to the ladies.
When I realized I wasn't straight, I knew I was completely gay, but as strange as it sounds, I was trying to force myself to like girls, but that didn't work out lol. But that was before I accepted myself and now I wouldn't change a thing :)
Anyway, lots and lots of people try (or have tried in the past) to force themselves to be "normal." Nowadays things are different in some countries with more visibility, acceptance & support. But when the Bible is hanging over your head and everyone thinks you're a pervert, you'll really want to at least try real hard to become "normal" again and forget about your gay period of life for good.
PLEASE PLEASE dont try to force urself to be str8. always ends in pain for urself & relationship with women. If you want to make the worst mistake in ur life then get married knowing ur gay.
^^^Just so you guys know... I have spoken to many married guys about this on a gay helpline... too many guys in this situation worried me more than the gay teens trying to deal with being gay. They take it very bad that they "wrecked" their family by not being able to BE GAY. DONT FOOL URSELF, It DEF takes a toll, many of them feel like they have wasted their best years. 1 LIFE
So true! I would never lie like that to some poor woman & put her in such position, I'd rather run away into the woods. I know it's different for everyone and times were different 10-20-30-50 years ago (arranged fake marriages for gays were common, especially for public people). Well, at least marry lesbian women (when you both know that you're both gay and this marriage is for parents, for society & for career). You don't just fool yourself, you fool your spouse, if you don't tell the truth.
If you have no comment then don't comment! And if you don't like these videos, who the heck's making you watch them?
You guys shouldn't be bothered about people's negative comments. People's opinions, whether positive or negative, reflect the person commenting and his/her state of mind.
Jay I find it strange how you 'discovered' you were gay, I've heard quite a few guys say that. For me, I always knew I was different, and personally accepting I'm gay wasn't as big of a hurdle.
It's almost like in 00s in Russia, when I figured it out: no info about what does it even mean, people don't talk about it, no visibility on TV or anywhere... young people are clueless about that stuff, and all those lies spread by Bible thumpers don't really help. I remember how clueless I was. If I had all the info I have now, maybe it would be easier to comprehend.
Brian and Jay, you guys are doing a great job. I haved watched your other videos, and I have told my friends and family about them. I've encouraged them to watch. Do you guys also own an antique store? You mentioned it once in one of the videos.
Bryan Grandmother Owns an Antique store she doesnt make any money but loves doing it. Bryans grandfather has cancer so bryan works the store on saturdays to help his grandmother out
i came out to my friends and family bout a month ago (everyone but my dad) my friends are all cool with it but when i told my mom she wants me to identify myself as being Bi. i got really angry at her for this. (also called being gay creepy) but i'v figured that she's just concerned for my saftey at shcool aand stuff. still scared to tell my dad
Great kids, they just are doing what kids do: play =). You post great videos and help a lot of people to understand and broaden their minds. For example: I had my issues on gay adopting kids (do to my upbringing). Even do I always belived we had the right, I was not sure in the practice. You proved me wrong =), you make excellent parents!!!
I understand you expose yourselves and some people may be rude, but your effort is not in vain and you are making a diference.
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I'd like to ask why your profile says you're "a very private family" yet you have no problem very publicly showing your family to millions of viewers across the world for cheap political gain?
I have a question -> I know that a lot of times marriages have rough times and sometimes can get very boring (I'm only 16, this is what I've heard), obviously there are different instances, but I'm wondering if you guys have had some of those rough times or boring times, and kind of how you "spice up" your relationship. Obviously I don't mean anything sexually. You can totally ignore this if you want, just thinking out loud :).
Yes...we have those times. Life is hard enough on its own and being a parent on top of that makes you extra busy. The most important thing to do is keep talking to each other...don't assume they know how you feel or that your day is so boring you don't have to share it. Not talking is a trait of mine that really rubs jay the wrong way. You have to always remember that you are friends first and formost...at least in my opinion.
While I agree with the points system in Canada, it sucks that you didn't qualify. You clearly have experience in your own fields. I think you guys should have been allowed citizenship no doubt.
My cousin is married to the man he loves, and I'm so thankful that we've got equality here. But the fact that you guys are still in the US tells me that there is hope! The world needs people like you bringing equality to the places that need it.
thanks for this vid... ive been struggling so much being bisexual... until now i couldn't accept it but maybe one day if the right person comes then i can be me...
If I were a US citizen, I won't even consider moving to Canada, because US is not so far away from delivering civil rights for gay people. I believe that by 2020 this will be done. So, as I am 24, I would be OK to wait 10 years. But Jay & Bryan are in their late 30s & they're married with kids, so I understand why they would consider moving. It's totally different.
Why would I stay in the USA? To fight! To be a part of that movement that finally got it right! And I would be proud of that!
I agree with you about moving to Canada. It seems too much to me like running away from our problems and issues. That sets a bad precedence in your mind.
It is so great to see a gay couple raising kids. Being a parent is the hardest job in the world if done correctly. Kudos to you both. As a retired teacher I know good parents make all the difference in the world to the life of a child.
From my experience of being a gay black man. ALOT of un-suspecting people are most likely LGBT. Its just that being LGBT is so stigmatized that you'll never notice half the time. I mean you can still get killed in certain areas for being gay.
I thought this was really interesting, I totally understand about wanting to move to another country if the supreme court would make such a ruling. I also tend to agree with Jay on sexuality. Bisexuality definitely exists and there are many bisexuals that i think along with transgendered people are forgotten most in our society. Forget the people who attack you, I for one will always defend you guys, well....except for those Star Wars jammies! :)
wow poor Selena ,she must be so tired ..my lil sis use to be like her when she was little,after 10 she became like Selena ,but nowadays as a grown up ,she is just just tired and go straight to the bed :P
American ex-pats can still vote from anywhere in the world. My colleague at work can vote in elections and she has never even lived in the USA, she just has a passport because she was born on a US army base.
YAAAAAYYYYY YOU ANSWERED MY QUESTION! I couldn't agree more, I think that everyone is bisexual to a certain degree. I was so excited that you chose my question by the way that I had to link the video to all of my friends haha. I basically sounded like Selena does in this video giggling with happiness. And yes, Brian, a lot of people claim bisexuality as an easy way of coming out as a gay man or woman, but it definitely does exist in full for others.
oh and ...in making my comment about Bisexuality I didn't mean to give the impression that I don't think it exsists on its own...I do...I was just attempting to agree with Jay and expand on the topic a little.
Very true about what you said about bisexuality. When it comes to me I find bi to be the best label for me since I only have a slight preference towards guys. I think the only difference is just that I'm a little more picky with girls. I do agree that everyone is probably a little bit bisexual at least even if it's just minuscule. I think as a social species we use sex as a social bonding thing rather than just for reproduction so it makes sense.
I still remember when I was about 10 or 12 sitting on the swing in the summer our back yard and being visually GLUED to watching our 30 something muscular neighbor mowing the grass with a t-shirt that seemed to be sprayed on.
I did not know what it meant at the time.
Now I do.
Some people still think being gay is a choice..I think not ..
Cheers!
(PS...I still would sit on a swing TODAY if we had one and watch the same show!! LOL :)
My thoughts are that we should just all live and love as humans. I don't understand the need for labels. How much angst has been caused by someone's need to define their sexuality for other people? To turn back the hands of time....
There are several countries looking good to me lately. I've always been one of those "There's no better place to live than America" people. I'm learning how that is just not the truth. :-(
You're right, about one thing, just because you label yourself gay, straight, bi, doesn't mean you perfectly fit into that label. For me for example. If anyone ask, I label myself straight because I find women more attractive than men. I also wouldn't date another man. However, I also consider myself to be demisexual. But yet, I've had those very rare moments where I've experienced primary sexual attraction. How's that for confusing.
I just have to say, You Guys are so Great and such an inspiration to me! I just recently subscribed to you and it has helped me so much. I am gay and have always been but I do not live the life style by choice, at least that is what I tell myself. The truth is I just haven't found the right person for me. Great video, great looking family, and you all are so lucky to have one another. Take care and Stay safe!
Once again Thank You Leffew family for a great video. Many gay people have thought about moving and some have left this country because of not being able to marry the one they love. I have thought about it countless times myself and what keeps holding me back is my nephews. If i would leave this country it would tear them apart. They are so use to seeing their uncle Thom 3 to 4 times a week. Keep posting the Gay Family Values, people are listening and it is making a impact on lives.
Yep- as a police officer I know about those long shifts - I just got off work now on Sunday evening . Don't have regular weekends off usually. I guess its a cop's life. LOL
I know you guys have to think about your family, but I'd hate it if you had to move to a different country. I think we gays need to try to hold on and stay put or else things will get worse, and the next generation of gays who are born in this country will have it harder. I'm a 22 year old gay male who's lived here in Texas most of my life and I have no intention of going anywhere. My conservative, red state will just have to deal with it.
I happen to agree with you Daniel. I was raised an a very patriotic home...my dad being a vet. It would be a gut wrenching decision to have to make and would ONLY be taken as an extreme resort from my opinion...Jay feels a little differently.
lol strangly i came out as gay and everyone is fine with that but then i am slowly EASINg into Bi? O+o thats kinda awkward hahah lol but i dont think i AM bi? i just think i APPRECIATE women LOL is that bi? :S
I am proud to be bisexual... well I guess pansexual. It's odd I just don't find myself seeing the gender line. I love who I love, and that's how I see it. I don't consider it to be shallow, or easier. In fact I found myself, as a man, to be more penalized for it
@oscarrs13 thats what i thought to lol. I didnt realize we had a point base system to see if your good enough. tho it probably does help kep the bad eggs out. but This family are CLEARLY not bad eggs. I wish they would have moved here. It would of made Canada that much better.
HAhahaha i luv her
HorrorTvProuductions 1 day ago
I know this video is 2 years old, but thanks for putting it up. I went into a giggle-fest also. You both have a beautiful family. Thanks for sharing. Love from the UK. :)
MarkjdLionheart 1 month ago
You guys are amazing and you have and absolutely beautiful family. My little sister is bisexual and seeing the challenges she faces, mainly with our mother who is a fundamentalist preacher, is probably the main thing that motivates me to speak out on LGBT rights. My sister is not out to my parents and is terrified they will find out. I think I was the first family member she came out to, after she made me worry for a week it was something bad, but I love her no matter what
vnorthru 3 months ago
con't.. I have told my sister that I do not care what gender she ends up with in the end, and all I care about is the person makes her happy and treats her right. I realize that if she does end up with a female she will eventually have to come out to our parents, especially our mother, which is why I have been working on waring my mother down on the issue (and I can be stubborn and extremely protective of my sister). I love the work you guys are doing and keep it up.
vnorthru 3 months ago
I burst out laughing when Selena went into that giggle fit :] Good Job with then videos [:
SuperUmpaLumpas 4 months ago
I AM A GAY JAMAICAN BUT I AM AFRAID TO SHOW MY GAY SIDE BECUZ IF I DO THEN I DIE.I AM LONELY,BORED AND CONFUSED IN JAMAICA AND WOULD LOVE TO GET MARRIED TO A GUY ONE DAY AND FOSTER CHILDREN BUT I CAN NOT MEET A NICE GUY WHO WANT A RELATIONSHIP.NICE VIDEO I ADMIRE U TWO.LONG LIVE GAY PEOPLE.
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Homosexuals commit more than 33% of all reported child molestations in the United States, which, assuming homosexuals make up 2% of the population, means that 1 in 20 homosexuals is a child molestor, while 1 in 490 heterosexuals is a child molestor
G41MCombo 11 months ago
im only 15 and still in the closet. im still trying to figure out my "status". i know i am definently gay and i am way more attracted to men than women but there still is a little bit of striaghtness in me. i consider myself 80% gay and 20% straight but in the end i want to marry a guy... so does that make me gay? who knows. i'll figure it out eventually
pkmn7777777 1 year ago
@pkmn7777777 there is no rush take all the time you need.
depfox 1 year ago
@pkmn7777777 Imagine a line, on one side is straight, middle is bi & on the other side is gay. Everyone is on this line somewhere, rarely completely 100% gay or 100% straight... but at 80% you would be gay. However, being a young boy.. you can have some fun! Try dating a girl for the heck of it! Experiment in your college years, no problem. But in end if you feel like marrying a man, do it! good luck <3
snowangel223 10 months ago
@pkmn7777777 you might be bisexual, what should matter is affection not attraction, are you capable to have feeling to a girl or just boys, (sorry for my english),
aandre311 4 months ago
you are a very nice and handsome couple
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@markab26 Blush thanks ;O) Have a great Christmas
depfox 1 year ago
I was Bisexual for a long time. what prompted me to make a choice was even a suprise to me. I realsed that if I was with a woman, I would cheat on her, but if I was with a man, I could be in love. I think women are amazing. I love them. Just for me, the one I want to wake up to is Male. the one I want to be my best friend outside of my relationship is a woman. They are the backbone of us all. Jim
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Good job with these videos. I have been watching in sequence for last hour plus. Nice to see you both so loving with your family. I'd like to think my 42 YO younger brother could find the same sort of loving relationship some day soon. Also like your activism. Sickened to hear your comments at the end about negative feedback last posting. Everyone deserves to be heard; even when we object to their POV. I only wish the narrow-minded, bigoted folks (as we would characterize them)would agree.
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Good job with these videos. I have been watching in sequence for last hour plus. Nice to see you both so loving with your family. I'd like to think my 42 YO younger brother could find the same sort of loving relationship some day soon. Also like your activism. Sickened to hear your comments at the end about negative feedback last posting. Everyone deserves to be heard; even when we object to their POV. I only wish the narrow-minded, bigoted folks (as we would characterize them)would agree.
scattered21100 1 year ago
Good job with these videos. I have been watching in sequence for last hour plus. Nice to see you both so loving with your family. I'd like to think my 42 YO younger brother could find the same sort of loving relationship some day soon. Also like your activism. Sickened to hear your comments at the end about negative feedback last posting. Everyone deserves to be heard; even when we object to their POV. I only wish the narrow-minded, bigoted folks (as we would characterize them)would agree.
scattered21100 1 year ago
I have gay friends who, like Bryan, came out as bi first because it was easier. But I think in the long term, being bi is in some ways less accepted because of it's ambiguity. I've heard some deeply offensive and all-too prevalent stereotypes about bis - that we're promiscuous, that we're indecisive, that we're selfish, that we benefit from passing as straight... It can be very alienating. However, I think attitudes are changing as dialogues about sexuality become more widespread and accepted.
kendims 1 year ago 2
Jay....baby! you use to get down with the sistas!!!!!! So not only are you a jar head & a cop, you got history with the ladies!!!! dude you are pushing the hotness needle off the gauge!!! LOL Bryan your MEGA HOT TO BABY.
SUPREMEQUEEN09 1 year ago
Canada -foreign !!
iraqidolphin 1 year ago
HELLO....THIS IS THE SECOND VIDEO I WATCH OF U GUYS.....AND MAY I START BY SAYING WHAT A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY U HAVE. I LOVE UR VIDEOS, I THINK THEY R VERY INSPIRATIONAL AND EDUCATIONAL. THANK U FOR MAKING VIDEOS AND SHARING UR WONDERFUL FAMILY WITH US. UR KIDS ARE ADORABLE! I HOPE THAT ONE DAY ILL HAVE MY FAMILY AND BE AS HAPPY AS U ALL ARE. GOD BLESS U AND PLS DONT STOP MAKING VIDEOS, SUCH A GREAT THING U GUYS R DOING FOR THE GAY COMMUNITY. HUGS
ALONSO
Alonsomusica 1 year ago 2
don't say your not cool enough for canada! as a canadian I think your very cool and we should have more people like you to stand up for our community ! you give me insparation for the future :) and I say thank you ! keep up the good work wish you all the happiness the world can offer to you. your kids are so amazing as you two !! :s sorry for mistakes i'm from Montréal (Québec, so i'm french canadian) I hope I will have the chance one day too see you here in the most gay-friendly city !
gallaxi219 1 year ago
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gallaxi219 1 year ago
i am canadian and i love it here being gay
alexromonof 1 year ago
Bryans cute .. wow ;p
iNouraQ8 1 year ago
hopefully & someday, we (LGBT) would have that law for same-sex marriage/domestic partnership in terms of immigration :)
chrised79 1 year ago
good talk on bisexuality :D...yea, it's not easy to migrate to another country...in fact, it's complicated!!! the immigration requires this & that and most of all "the money"...i wanted to migrate to hawaii and to be with my former girlfriend of 4 years (yea, we had separated due to the distance & she couldnt bear the loneliness) but it didn't work out good. in the end, im bck in my dull hometown...anyway, life goes on...hahahaha...God bless!!! :D
chrised79 1 year ago
Aww you guys are so cute together. As a bi guy i agree that everyone is on a scale, I may lean more to the straight or to the gay I don't care as long as I meet someone I love :D. May the force be with you.
halifaxx55 1 year ago
Oh man i thank you guys so much for making this specific vid, as a true bisexual I feel that bisexuality isn't talked about enough. I really don't like the stereotypes for bi's, for one I am not greedy for sex, I could care less about sex and I feel sex should wait till a long healthy relationship is formed, and another thing is I don't think of gender as to who I want Ina relationship, it's the inside of a person, well I could go on but I've said enough lol thxs again depfox =)
wii1221 1 year ago 4
she is conagous now i have them too
MsMadtatter 1 year ago 2
I was cracking up with Selena =]. I have never been with a girl and I don't think I have ever been attracted to one so I can say that I am Gay, I tend to get really self conscious and nervous around guys I like and that has never happened to me with a girl. I think is possible for someone to like both sexes, I would have to be one to understand how it feels.
SharinByakuGan 1 year ago
I'm not sure. Alberta is actually moving in the right direction. I have a gay friend in Calgary and he's actually living it large there!
treetri88 1 year ago
I'm Canadian and I thought I would throw this out there... my facts might be a little skewed but in highschool I remember I learned that over 50% of Canadians would not even qualify for Canadian immigration. So don't take it personally!
I'm 100% straight and Canadian and yet I love and appreciate everything you are doing with your family and with the rights movement in California... I was enraged when I heard about prop 8.
You guys are fantastic.
emgoat 1 year ago 4
and someone tries to say the kids are unhappy.... lol hardly.
depolarized 1 year ago 4
LOL i got fixated on the game of scissor paper rock i forgot what i was watching! LOL!
radioxxflyer 1 year ago 4
im japanese and i like to watch you families video :) coz im also gay. but i dont understand all of your talk because of my listening english skill... im trying to train it!
wallacedai 1 year ago
bag of croissant (hope i spell it right) priceless. but its true. you need to be almost like a millionaire to be here.
kittycathappy 1 year ago
I wish you guys could come to Australia and have a better time down here, but it's no better down here. We will probably follow the US. But NZ is all legal and way ahead of us. It is beautiful in NZ, especially if you like fresh air and mountains. But it really is isolated from the rest of the world. Maybe the US does need you more than you need the US. It is all a matter of time and I guess more work...
saintfletcher 2 years ago 2
Too bad you guys couldn't come to Canada. Beautiful family.
The point system is very flawed!
vikingaprinsessan 2 years ago 3
the point system is not flawed at all
only letting the most skilled immigrants into canada is the best thing for our society leaving in canada is a mutualy giving situation why should we let people in that won't contribute to make our country better
if we did that we would be over populated like the americans
ethanisafage58 2 years ago
The point system does not let in skilled workers as much as it does educated people. Which is great, but doesn't necessarily reflect our needs. In other words, someone with a PhD has a better chance of getting in than a skilled worker.
vikingaprinsessan 2 years ago
stop punishing the kids, they want to watch cartoons
ugboy1 2 years ago 9
LOL so true ;O)
depfox 2 years ago
I call myself gay because I only have the capacity to love men. As for the Kinsey scale, and i'm no scholar on his work, but I believe he said about only 10% of people moved up and down that scale between gay and Bi within their life times. Even then, I think he was talking about sexua experiences rather than attraction. There's a difference between trying have sex with someone because you want to and because that's what you think that's what you're supposed to be doing.
homoguy563 2 years ago 4
I don't agree with Jay about Bisexuality. I agree that it exists, but this notion that everyone is Bi is nonsense. Jay is appearantly Bi himself, which is fine, but everyone's sexuality is not fluid. My sexuality is hard wired. What Jay is saying besacially amounts to what people have always told gay men, which is "you just haven't met the right girl yet", which is rediculous. People now don't seem to comprehend the definitions of sexuality.
homoguy563 2 years ago
I never said that. I said there is a sliding scale from 100% Gay to 100% straight and all types in between
depfox 2 years ago 5
@depfox - but there is problem being bisexual is there?
SilverRanger92 1 year ago
Aww. I support you both so so so much! My brother is gay, and is wanting to marry his partner so he can retain US citizenship since he's Italian...Sadly our Federal Government doesn't grant that.
I hope we win the fight for equality, Whatever you do.. do not stop making videos..you guys reach out to so many people.. it's a beautiful thing!
,Lisa.
KuaLisa 2 years ago 6
my husband to be name is Bryan too :) I hope when we have a family ours will be as cute as yours
ThisKidCanDance 2 years ago 4
Think the kids are really cute and all, but when you make these vids, can you please tell them to not be so loud or not have them in the room. I really wanted to hear this, but they are so distracting
Nicklerobot3121 2 years ago
sorry about the distraction the kids usely dont get that carried away
depfox 2 years ago
well its all done anyhow. All in all you guys are still great
Nicklerobot3121 2 years ago 2
Kids are like that. They won't speak to you all day - but as soon as you get on the phone, all of a sudden they just have to talk to you. They'll sit still on the couch to watch TV - then as soon as someone comes over, they bounce all over the place. You kind of have to be a parent to understand it. They are cute little disruptive turds though. And ... what did you want them to do - duct tape the kids to the wall so as not to disrupt your viewing experience?
M0US3P0T4TO 2 years ago 8
Well as a Canadian I just wanted to say that even though I have gay marriage I will still fight the good fight so my neighbours to the south can enjoy it as well. Love your vids keep up the love for each-other. hope all is well.
DAIGORO14 2 years ago 19
Thank You
depfox 2 years ago
Lol the kids are so distracting, reminds me of when I was that age. But they're cute. I want kids now.
Boeu13 2 years ago
please don't get me wrong, but her laughing, may have been her (conscious or unconscious) way of saying she didn't want to be in the vid.
also, suggestion, you may try playing some background music with your vids.
afa86 2 years ago
I love hearing Selena laufgh.. :P Shes soo cute.. :P
musicnthunder 2 years ago
its so funny watching the kidz laugh xD
candycane520 2 years ago
wow great video. best handling of the topic of bisexuality i have heard in a long time.
regemo 2 years ago 3
I held on to the bisexual label while I was in the military, but that label quickly dropped it after I was discharged.
HurricaneKyle2 2 years ago 4
Oh God you guis are brave! thihi thank you for the vid! ^^ and soo true I get the question (I'm bi) which do you prefer and it's almost as if you HAVE to choose and for me it's a complete impossibility. I totally in the middle of middles. I can be attracted to eny type of human male female trasnvestites and transexuals. I honestly don't care what the persen may be as long as I feel the litle IT that i recognise as atraction in a sexual way i won't deny it I may not you know go for the persen but
TheGingerLady 2 years ago 2
Heya depfox. I was just wondering: what's the music playing at the beginning of the video. It's so catchy!
zeryx28 2 years ago
1:10 cat!
happiesthought 2 years ago
Haha,..... I love, love, love your family! So cozy seeing you all in your pj's and all ready for bed.
Selena and Daniel were having such a good time, and I love their laughs. How can you not adore those amazing kids?
Thanks for sharing your amazing family with all of us. It always brings a smile to my face whenever I see a new video from you. Love Sarah.
sarah4hp 2 years ago 23
Sometimes we have to choose between what is right and what is easy. I have a lot of respect for those who are gay in countries like Iran and Iraq who could lose their lives just for being somewhat out, especially those who chose to stay in their country and fight the oppression by being out where they are.
SeanChapin1 2 years ago 7
I agree I give a lot of respect for those who live in countries like Iran where everyday being gay is a life and death decision.
depfox 2 years ago
i have a faved vid where an iranian father of gay boy hung him in the livingroom of his house in front of his younger brother, so he wouldnt "choose" the same gay path. i was completely stunned by this. religions, know & take responsibility for ur damage. 1 LIFE
sleekcartim 2 years ago
We have also featured that video on our blog and facbook acounts its very powerfull
depfox 2 years ago
Sean, this is so true, no one would even argue, just wanna say that we also shouldn't forget about those who live in countries that don't penalize people for being gay in any way, but public opinions about gays are so terrible that even governments act like they don't know about death squats killing gay people, or about law enforcement officers abusing their power to beat the crap out of gay people.
BTW, loved your music videos, can't get your "TURN" out of my head! :)
KirilleXXI 2 years ago 3
Kirille, adding to what you write, in South Africa where gay marriage is legal, with anti-discrimination laws for sexual orientation, is a very homphobic country and for a couple of years now lesbians have been targeted and raped, called 'corrective rape'. The men that do this believe it can turn them straight and as a way to say homosexuality is the wrong 'choice'. The police and justice hardly do anything about it. Truly shocking. SA is a violent country, high murder and rape rate in general.
summersonset 2 years ago 5
And here I was thinking that South Africa was so progressive to legalize same-sex marriage on 2006-11-30. 3 years did not change anything, I guess. Well, no wonder. With 80% black population and 80% Christians. No wonder that there are problems with acceptance. But what's really disturbing is the government's nihilism. Probably, they instituted gay marriage for some benefits from overseas, just like Russia lifted criminal prosecution for gays in 1993 — to get into Council of Europe and UN.
KirilleXXI 2 years ago
I thought too SA was very progressive (it actualy still is when you take the legalization and ant-discr. laws into consideration), to then find out, culturally its not. The rights were legalized after abortion of Apartheid, and the then party decided no more Apartheid for anyone (Mandela's party). Unfortunately the current government is somewhat corruptive. Good legislation doesnt mean its a guarantee for a better life, as this shows.
summersonset 2 years ago 3
I love the question vids :) this is great you guys rock !!!
michaelman333 2 years ago 2
BIsexuality does exist. period. case closed. that is all.
sleekcartim 2 years ago 5
@sleekcartim of course bisexuality exists, what an ignorant thing to say.
1Vella 2 years ago
@sleekcartim lol ops misread your comment lol
1Vella 2 years ago 3
my rents live in canada, they will let you use their ocean boat dock & sneek ya in lol.
sleekcartim 2 years ago 3
Boys, you are SO cool enough for Canada. If it comes to that, maybe you can start a small business and get yourselves up here. How 'bout publishing an on-line magazine? It'd be a perfect fit for Bryan. If you intend to hire Canadian staff, that just might get you the points you need. I still think America needs you more right now though. Until then: bon nuit. PS Canadians aren't so big on croissants, try offering the officials poutine (fries and gravy with cheese- a French Canadian invention).
warmgulfwind 2 years ago 4
When I was first realizing that I wasn't straight, I called myself bisexual. Which lasted for about a day. xP
I quickly realized that I didn't like girls at all in 'that' way. I didn't want to marry one, or date one or have sex with one at all. Women just don't do it for me at all. In fact it makes me queezy when I think about them sexually. No offense to the ladies.
elvickRULES 2 years ago 4
When I realized I wasn't straight, I knew I was completely gay, but as strange as it sounds, I was trying to force myself to like girls, but that didn't work out lol. But that was before I accepted myself and now I wouldn't change a thing :)
IAmGoombaSniper 2 years ago 4
@IAmGoombaSniper
Anyway, lots and lots of people try (or have tried in the past) to force themselves to be "normal." Nowadays things are different in some countries with more visibility, acceptance & support. But when the Bible is hanging over your head and everyone thinks you're a pervert, you'll really want to at least try real hard to become "normal" again and forget about your gay period of life for good.
KirilleXXI 2 years ago
PLEASE PLEASE dont try to force urself to be str8. always ends in pain for urself & relationship with women. If you want to make the worst mistake in ur life then get married knowing ur gay.
sleekcartim 2 years ago 3
^^^Just so you guys know... I have spoken to many married guys about this on a gay helpline... too many guys in this situation worried me more than the gay teens trying to deal with being gay. They take it very bad that they "wrecked" their family by not being able to BE GAY. DONT FOOL URSELF, It DEF takes a toll, many of them feel like they have wasted their best years. 1 LIFE
sleekcartim 2 years ago 2
So true! I would never lie like that to some poor woman & put her in such position, I'd rather run away into the woods. I know it's different for everyone and times were different 10-20-30-50 years ago (arranged fake marriages for gays were common, especially for public people). Well, at least marry lesbian women (when you both know that you're both gay and this marriage is for parents, for society & for career). You don't just fool yourself, you fool your spouse, if you don't tell the truth.
KirilleXXI 2 years ago 2
If you have no comment then don't comment! And if you don't like these videos, who the heck's making you watch them?
You guys shouldn't be bothered about people's negative comments. People's opinions, whether positive or negative, reflect the person commenting and his/her state of mind.
Jay I find it strange how you 'discovered' you were gay, I've heard quite a few guys say that. For me, I always knew I was different, and personally accepting I'm gay wasn't as big of a hurdle.
navdizzle 2 years ago 5
Times were different (80s, I guess).
It's almost like in 00s in Russia, when I figured it out: no info about what does it even mean, people don't talk about it, no visibility on TV or anywhere... young people are clueless about that stuff, and all those lies spread by Bible thumpers don't really help. I remember how clueless I was. If I had all the info I have now, maybe it would be easier to comprehend.
KirilleXXI 2 years ago
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navdizzle 2 years ago
Brian and Jay, you guys are doing a great job. I haved watched your other videos, and I have told my friends and family about them. I've encouraged them to watch. Do you guys also own an antique store? You mentioned it once in one of the videos.
95127ces 2 years ago 3
Bryan Grandmother Owns an Antique store she doesnt make any money but loves doing it. Bryans grandfather has cancer so bryan works the store on saturdays to help his grandmother out
depfox 2 years ago
i came out to my friends and family bout a month ago (everyone but my dad) my friends are all cool with it but when i told my mom she wants me to identify myself as being Bi. i got really angry at her for this. (also called being gay creepy) but i'v figured that she's just concerned for my saftey at shcool aand stuff. still scared to tell my dad
triked14 2 years ago 5
That is so cool you came out triked14! She just wants to hold on to some little hope that you wont get a boyfriend.
She will get over it I am sure.
orangegoblin82 2 years ago 2
Great kids, they just are doing what kids do: play =). You post great videos and help a lot of people to understand and broaden their minds. For example: I had my issues on gay adopting kids (do to my upbringing). Even do I always belived we had the right, I was not sure in the practice. You proved me wrong =), you make excellent parents!!!
I understand you expose yourselves and some people may be rude, but your effort is not in vain and you are making a diference.
BTW liked the SW shirts.
mackmeck13 2 years ago 4
Kids sometimes were too loud :)) But.. still a good video!
Cyprusa 2 years ago 2
This comment has received too many negative votes show
I'd like to ask why your profile says you're "a very private family" yet you have no problem very publicly showing your family to millions of viewers across the world for cheap political gain?
MaleOrderBride 2 years ago
I guess if you consider equal treatment under the law "cheap political gain" then so be it.
depfox 2 years ago
Funny, I've read "we WERE a very private family", past tense.
Millions of viewers? I wish!
Cheap political gain? No comment.
KirilleXXI 2 years ago 3
it is WERE :O)
depfox 2 years ago
saskatchewan is the worst period.
RuralBrett 2 years ago
I have a question -> I know that a lot of times marriages have rough times and sometimes can get very boring (I'm only 16, this is what I've heard), obviously there are different instances, but I'm wondering if you guys have had some of those rough times or boring times, and kind of how you "spice up" your relationship. Obviously I don't mean anything sexually. You can totally ignore this if you want, just thinking out loud :).
KowaiTori 2 years ago 5
Yes...we have those times. Life is hard enough on its own and being a parent on top of that makes you extra busy. The most important thing to do is keep talking to each other...don't assume they know how you feel or that your day is so boring you don't have to share it. Not talking is a trait of mine that really rubs jay the wrong way. You have to always remember that you are friends first and formost...at least in my opinion.
depfox 2 years ago
Wow, Bryan is really sexy.
FFXIfan93 2 years ago 8
Thank you guys so much! You are great people!
Aaron741963 2 years ago 2
While I agree with the points system in Canada, it sucks that you didn't qualify. You clearly have experience in your own fields. I think you guys should have been allowed citizenship no doubt.
My cousin is married to the man he loves, and I'm so thankful that we've got equality here. But the fact that you guys are still in the US tells me that there is hope! The world needs people like you bringing equality to the places that need it.
Keep fighting the good fight. You inspire us!
PurpleHoneyBear 2 years ago 5
thanks for this vid... ive been struggling so much being bisexual... until now i couldn't accept it but maybe one day if the right person comes then i can be me...
MrK3v1n28 2 years ago 5
Great video. LOL@Selena.
sassygalady 2 years ago 3
If I were a US citizen, I won't even consider moving to Canada, because US is not so far away from delivering civil rights for gay people. I believe that by 2020 this will be done. So, as I am 24, I would be OK to wait 10 years. But Jay & Bryan are in their late 30s & they're married with kids, so I understand why they would consider moving. It's totally different.
Why would I stay in the USA? To fight! To be a part of that movement that finally got it right! And I would be proud of that!
KirilleXXI 2 years ago 3
I agree with you about moving to Canada. It seems too much to me like running away from our problems and issues. That sets a bad precedence in your mind.
Comixbear1 2 years ago 2
You guys do good work and make good videos. Nobody ever escapes some criticism, but don't let that get you down. Keep 'em coming.
wolfcub82 2 years ago 2
very good vid as usual guys ..... Nite! :) Rex
rextrek 2 years ago 2
Come to Sweden!! :) You can even marrie in the Swedish church here and we do have exactly the same rights as heteros have!
orgay3 2 years ago 4
I wish I could move to Sweden but I don't even have a clue about how immigration works there!
treetri88 1 year ago
teeheehee XD her laugh scared me towards the end XD
death8kami 2 years ago
It is so great to see a gay couple raising kids. Being a parent is the hardest job in the world if done correctly. Kudos to you both. As a retired teacher I know good parents make all the difference in the world to the life of a child.
Flanole 2 years ago 6
From my experience of being a gay black man. ALOT of un-suspecting people are most likely LGBT. Its just that being LGBT is so stigmatized that you'll never notice half the time. I mean you can still get killed in certain areas for being gay.
revemupman 2 years ago 4
Sad but true...I had hoped we had grown beyond those days...
Bryan
depfox 2 years ago
I thought this was really interesting, I totally understand about wanting to move to another country if the supreme court would make such a ruling. I also tend to agree with Jay on sexuality. Bisexuality definitely exists and there are many bisexuals that i think along with transgendered people are forgotten most in our society. Forget the people who attack you, I for one will always defend you guys, well....except for those Star Wars jammies! :)
Fightdog 2 years ago 2
wow poor Selena ,she must be so tired ..my lil sis use to be like her when she was little,after 10 she became like Selena ,but nowadays as a grown up ,she is just just tired and go straight to the bed :P
lailaagrado 2 years ago 4
Another great video! I can't wait for the next one!
cenbergjr 2 years ago 3
American ex-pats can still vote from anywhere in the world. My colleague at work can vote in elections and she has never even lived in the USA, she just has a passport because she was born on a US army base.
orangegoblin82 2 years ago 3
I was wondering what are ur kids fav tv shows and singers?
beautifulpaperflower 2 years ago 2
YAAAAAYYYYY YOU ANSWERED MY QUESTION! I couldn't agree more, I think that everyone is bisexual to a certain degree. I was so excited that you chose my question by the way that I had to link the video to all of my friends haha. I basically sounded like Selena does in this video giggling with happiness. And yes, Brian, a lot of people claim bisexuality as an easy way of coming out as a gay man or woman, but it definitely does exist in full for others.
alifeinthelens 2 years ago 6
:D thank u! Alot of ppl think its made up but its not theirs a whole spectrum of sexuality!
beautifulpaperflower 2 years ago 3
Sorry it took soooo long. Life just swept us away there for a while...
depfox 2 years ago
oh and ...in making my comment about Bisexuality I didn't mean to give the impression that I don't think it exsists on its own...I do...I was just attempting to agree with Jay and expand on the topic a little.
Bryan
depfox 2 years ago
Bryan- Ohhh no I got that, I'm sorry if I came off the wrong way. I think you both did a gracious job in explaining yourselves and your views.
alifeinthelens 2 years ago
no problem...just being clear ;)
depfox 2 years ago
How funny is it that the only woman that I ever found attractive enough to have a sexual relationship with was African American, too!
finnryan 2 years ago 2
Just when I think you guys can't get any cooler, you go and put some 'Canadian Please' in your post. Fantastic video. :)
Jhaaghon 2 years ago 3
I was watching the video with baby James and he started laughing when Selena was giggling.
See you guys soon :)
agphotography1569 2 years ago 5
omg, Selena had me rolling on the floor ! =) she reminds me of my niece so much! lol
thedancetuber 2 years ago 2
Very true about what you said about bisexuality. When it comes to me I find bi to be the best label for me since I only have a slight preference towards guys. I think the only difference is just that I'm a little more picky with girls. I do agree that everyone is probably a little bit bisexual at least even if it's just minuscule. I think as a social species we use sex as a social bonding thing rather than just for reproduction so it makes sense.
WerewolfOfTheWater 2 years ago 4
Great vid guys!
I still remember when I was about 10 or 12 sitting on the swing in the summer our back yard and being visually GLUED to watching our 30 something muscular neighbor mowing the grass with a t-shirt that seemed to be sprayed on.
I did not know what it meant at the time.
Now I do.
Some people still think being gay is a choice..I think not ..
Cheers!
(PS...I still would sit on a swing TODAY if we had one and watch the same show!! LOL :)
stoner829 2 years ago 4
LOL I used to think my neighbor who was a cop was the best looking man in the world..... Hmmm is that why I became a cop.
depfox 2 years ago
Perhaps Jay. There is just something about the uniform that oozes with masculinity..I wonder how many gay men go into the business???
Now THAT would be a great video or 60 Minutes segment!!!
BTW..we saw you in your uniform. The three letter word describing you begins with the letter "H" and ends with the letter "T".
(excuse me-being bad here!)
stoner829 2 years ago 3
i think he is probably the second sexiest cop other.... :)
KENNY04151963 2 years ago 3
Oh my goodness! Selena has the most infectious laugh! Too cute!
rygy82 2 years ago 3
My thoughts are that we should just all live and love as humans. I don't understand the need for labels. How much angst has been caused by someone's need to define their sexuality for other people? To turn back the hands of time....
There are several countries looking good to me lately. I've always been one of those "There's no better place to live than America" people. I'm learning how that is just not the truth. :-(
debbieomi 2 years ago 3
Bolth Great Points.
depfox 2 years ago
That "Canadian please" vid rocks, it's my main vid heh
smettiuss 2 years ago
Thats where I found It hope they get lots of love...
depfox 2 years ago
It is shameful that you even have to consider leaving the US! Ive thougt of moving to New Zealand myself...
1DRock37167 2 years ago
You're right, about one thing, just because you label yourself gay, straight, bi, doesn't mean you perfectly fit into that label. For me for example. If anyone ask, I label myself straight because I find women more attractive than men. I also wouldn't date another man. However, I also consider myself to be demisexual. But yet, I've had those very rare moments where I've experienced primary sexual attraction. How's that for confusing.
Justinfhtube 2 years ago 2
Id label you Brave ;O)
depfox 2 years ago
I just have to say, You Guys are so Great and such an inspiration to me! I just recently subscribed to you and it has helped me so much. I am gay and have always been but I do not live the life style by choice, at least that is what I tell myself. The truth is I just haven't found the right person for me. Great video, great looking family, and you all are so lucky to have one another. Take care and Stay safe!
LathanJV36 2 years ago 3
Once again Thank You Leffew family for a great video. Many gay people have thought about moving and some have left this country because of not being able to marry the one they love. I have thought about it countless times myself and what keeps holding me back is my nephews. If i would leave this country it would tear them apart. They are so use to seeing their uncle Thom 3 to 4 times a week. Keep posting the Gay Family Values, people are listening and it is making a impact on lives.
tommy2tone 2 years ago 3
16 hour shift? Sucks to be you.
Justinfhtube 2 years ago
Yes I do that three times a week so that bryan can stay home with the kids ;O(
depfox 2 years ago
you are a GREAT dad and provider....thinking of others....
KENNY04151963 2 years ago 3
Yep- as a police officer I know about those long shifts - I just got off work now on Sunday evening . Don't have regular weekends off usually. I guess its a cop's life. LOL
copman109a 2 years ago
well if your family moved to Canada (which is where i live :-) ) it would get that much better. I love your family.
bobby472 2 years ago 3
I know you guys have to think about your family, but I'd hate it if you had to move to a different country. I think we gays need to try to hold on and stay put or else things will get worse, and the next generation of gays who are born in this country will have it harder. I'm a 22 year old gay male who's lived here in Texas most of my life and I have no intention of going anywhere. My conservative, red state will just have to deal with it.
danielzero 2 years ago 3
You have a point there.
timtheloner 2 years ago
Thanks. I usually don't leave comments on videos. I'm generally real quiet about what I think.
danielzero 2 years ago 3
I happen to agree with you Daniel. I was raised an a very patriotic home...my dad being a vet. It would be a gut wrenching decision to have to make and would ONLY be taken as an extreme resort from my opinion...Jay feels a little differently.
Bryan
depfox 2 years ago
I'll always stand by you guys.
Oh, and those monkeys are hilarious!!
talentguynyc 2 years ago 4
lol strangly i came out as gay and everyone is fine with that but then i am slowly EASINg into Bi? O+o thats kinda awkward hahah lol but i dont think i AM bi? i just think i APPRECIATE women LOL is that bi? :S
konrox 2 years ago 2
sexuality is more like a string. We're all basically around the middle.
timtheloner 2 years ago 4
ahah now if only the "straight" guys wud asks gays out LOL
konrox 2 years ago 3
only the shadow know konrox ;)
depfox 2 years ago
lol thanks, meh i think im too worked up with this "labling" withing the gay community, aha i think ppl sud just be happy PERIOD
konrox 2 years ago
third comment great video again
sbstnjck 2 years ago 2
if I had the money I would move to canda there more accpting then america
rainbowpagan 2 years ago 2
If you move to Canada, don't move to Newfoundland. While the province is beautiful many newfoundlanders are ignorant biggots.
Justinfhtube 2 years ago 2
@rainbowpagan well we would be happy to have you :-)
bobby472 2 years ago 2
good video. I understood where you were coming from this week. Maine was a big disappointment.
=)
Erik
StraightActingGayGuy 2 years ago 2
I am proud to be bisexual... well I guess pansexual. It's odd I just don't find myself seeing the gender line. I love who I love, and that's how I see it. I don't consider it to be shallow, or easier. In fact I found myself, as a man, to be more penalized for it
AsheIsTheRaven 2 years ago 3
You have to qualify to move to Canada?! that's crazy.
oscarrs13 2 years ago
@oscarrs13 thats what i thought to lol. I didnt realize we had a point base system to see if your good enough. tho it probably does help kep the bad eggs out. but This family are CLEARLY not bad eggs. I wish they would have moved here. It would of made Canada that much better.
bobby472 2 years ago 2