I agree with the words so much and its rar to find anyone who thinks this way. There is no virginity to loose, unless you believe it and decide to feel that. In which case its still only in the mind. I don't see how "sex", a natural drive could change anything about you that you don't want to, or make you "lose" anything. To me tere would be no difference between "1st time" (whatever even counts as that), and 90th time sex hah. If virginity existed why doesn't masterbation count anyway?
Ugh, thank you for existing. ;___; I'm a 22 year old "virgin," and as much as I tell myself that I shouldn't feel ashamed or embarrassed because it's just a stupid social construct, I still sometimes do. Looking at it this way makes me feel a whole lot better. :)
You are a kazillion dfferent kinds of brilliant. Thank you for sharing your common sense filled voice with the world. Here's to hoping that the right people hear your message.
You are a kazillion dfferent kinds of brilliant. Thank you for sharing your common sense filled voice with the world. Here's to hoping that the right people hear your message.
I was gonna say that eight people wanted SO MUCH to believe in virginity because then they could call themselves special for never being able to get laid, but that's just a nasty, mean-spirited, sex-as-a-power thing to say. So I won't say it. :(
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you tail-end winks make me feel like i've been sodomized in a port-a-potty. also, to ppl complimenting this guy's videos...i can understand that some of you agree with his philosophy, but please don't compliment his musical ability. it is atrocious. this dude should just write out his points in prose.
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i may have thumbs up your comment because i am belligerently clicking my mouse... i meant a thumbs down... you suck. your music sucks. keep cutting your wrist because you completely suck... please die so your music dies with you. you suck.
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i may have thumbs up your comment because i am belligerently clicking my mouse... i meant a thumbs down... you suck. your music sucks. keep cutting your wrist because you completely suck... please die so your music dies with you.
Yeah no, that's entirely ignorant. Being a gender-annihilist a.k.a a feminist generally reflects pseudoscientific ignorance. Gender isn't solely a social construct, in fact it has biological roots which are simply enhanced by social influence. Take a class in neurosexism and you'll be enlightened.
@AtheistTower Denying that there are biological differences between people is silly, and some are categorized as biological gender. That said, biological gender is influenced by environmental factors (e.g. foods, chemical exposure, types/amounts of physical labor, etc.) that are determined by social processes, there are not only 2 bio genders, and there is wide variance in expressed traits within a given gender category. The argument isn't that gender doesn't exist, it's that it's mostly social.
@AtheistTower Well.... GREATLY enhanced (and not so much "enhanced" as enforced), and these differences are fairly minute. There's more overlap (similarity) than difference when one compares le bell-curves.
@AtheistTower : And equating feminist with gender-annihilist generally reflects a profound cluelessness about what either of those terms mean so you're not exactly in a position to be calling other people "ignorant" here.
I watched a special on VH1 last night called The New Virginity and I found myself being angry due to the lack of knowledge about "virginity" and the false misconceptions about what virginity means. I couldnt have articulated any better, you have captured my exact feelings on the issue.
I went through a few years in my teens where I felt like my identity as a bisexual would never be accepted as long as I was a virgin. I... think that might be *why* I sought out my first sexual partner, and that was NOT a good idea.
So thanks for that little bit in the Santa thing against being pressured to "lose" your virginity. And, of course, the "we're not virgins" thing would also have been applicable to younger-me. I hope some high school kids find your work. ^_^
@RemedialBossfight I was the same way. I knew it was bullshit, but I wanted to be seen as the bisexual that I was so badly that I lied about having been experienced sexually with both binary genders. That caused my first time to be pretty sucky. I now identify as queer, since I'm attracted to a bunch of different genders, and I'm a genderqueer myself.
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MarlieMewy 4 weeks ago in playlist More videos from debaser9779
Your music reminds me of early Mountain Goats.
sheldonmosbeck 1 month ago
Thank you so much for sharing yourself with all of us. You make us feel brave and not alone.
Have0ne0nMe 2 months ago
This is going to my favorite!
shahoney 2 months ago
this is awesome
ragemydarlingrage 2 months ago
I agree with the words so much and its rar to find anyone who thinks this way. There is no virginity to loose, unless you believe it and decide to feel that. In which case its still only in the mind. I don't see how "sex", a natural drive could change anything about you that you don't want to, or make you "lose" anything. To me tere would be no difference between "1st time" (whatever even counts as that), and 90th time sex hah. If virginity existed why doesn't masterbation count anyway?
sacredrealm 3 months ago
wtf how do I get here????
tupcho33 4 months ago
Thank you for this.
onedaysoon111 5 months ago
He may not be a virgin, but he is definitely a mangina.
shmiggen 6 months ago
How do you know if your a virgin
Moisesito366 6 months ago
best ever.
jkbowie 6 months ago
Ugh, thank you for existing. ;___; I'm a 22 year old "virgin," and as much as I tell myself that I shouldn't feel ashamed or embarrassed because it's just a stupid social construct, I still sometimes do. Looking at it this way makes me feel a whole lot better. :)
moonfootshaw 8 months ago 9
Looooove this
queenofrock617 8 months ago
every time he winks and starts playing...I don't know if a little piece of me dies, or if I live a little more D:
riojayful 8 months ago 2
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xcutekatie18x 8 months ago
ZACH IS HOT.
TremblingTortoise 8 months ago
You are a kazillion dfferent kinds of brilliant. Thank you for sharing your common sense filled voice with the world. Here's to hoping that the right people hear your message.
Je11YbeanQueen 8 months ago
You are a kazillion dfferent kinds of brilliant. Thank you for sharing your common sense filled voice with the world. Here's to hoping that the right people hear your message.
Je11YbeanQueen 8 months ago
This is amazing.
pinglala 8 months ago
If your lyrics were a flavor of ice cream they would be the flavor: Awesome.
feline256 9 months ago
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AtheistTower 9 months ago
omg love nice job.
nannoninn 9 months ago
Too awesome to not fave.
SgtChilly 9 months ago
hate the voice, love the lyrics! wtf society?
kickasskat79 9 months ago
This is amazing. "I'm going to get all your consent love" is when I fell utterly in love with this song. Excellent. *standing ovation*
thoughtful 9 months ago
...you are now my favorite human being on the planet. Congrats.
MsAnnieCreamcheese 9 months ago
you're my fucking hero.
pun intended.
queersomething 9 months ago
Maybe there is some sense in the content but the song is awful ^^
Derax2 9 months ago
@Derax2 Have you heard the phrase "tongue in cheek" before?
nannoninn 9 months ago
I was gonna say that eight people wanted SO MUCH to believe in virginity because then they could call themselves special for never being able to get laid, but that's just a nasty, mean-spirited, sex-as-a-power thing to say. So I won't say it. :(
GuoBia 9 months ago
If you're going to appropriate a song, the least you could do is fit the new lyrics to the existing rhythm. Seriously, dude, this is awful.
aquidis 9 months ago
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you tail-end winks make me feel like i've been sodomized in a port-a-potty. also, to ppl complimenting this guy's videos...i can understand that some of you agree with his philosophy, but please don't compliment his musical ability. it is atrocious. this dude should just write out his points in prose.
glpiggy 9 months ago
@glpiggy whoa whoa whoa, trigger warning pal!
conorhennessey 9 months ago
I think this just changed my life. lmao I love you.
Clairew14 9 months ago 4
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i may have thumbs up your comment because i am belligerently clicking my mouse... i meant a thumbs down... you suck. your music sucks. keep cutting your wrist because you completely suck... please die so your music dies with you. you suck.
Jabroni05 9 months ago
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i may have thumbs up your comment because i am belligerently clicking my mouse... i meant a thumbs down... you suck. your music sucks. keep cutting your wrist because you completely suck... please die so your music dies with you.
Jabroni05 9 months ago
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This guy has some serious issues.
AtheistTower 9 months ago
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We all have. In part thanks to societies messed up concepts of gender. This song is awesome.
JaquesCorbeau 9 months ago
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@JaquesCorbeau
Yeah no, that's entirely ignorant. Being a gender-annihilist a.k.a a feminist generally reflects pseudoscientific ignorance. Gender isn't solely a social construct, in fact it has biological roots which are simply enhanced by social influence. Take a class in neurosexism and you'll be enlightened.
AtheistTower 9 months ago
@AtheistTower Denying that there are biological differences between people is silly, and some are categorized as biological gender. That said, biological gender is influenced by environmental factors (e.g. foods, chemical exposure, types/amounts of physical labor, etc.) that are determined by social processes, there are not only 2 bio genders, and there is wide variance in expressed traits within a given gender category. The argument isn't that gender doesn't exist, it's that it's mostly social.
JohannVII 9 months ago
@AtheistTower Well.... GREATLY enhanced (and not so much "enhanced" as enforced), and these differences are fairly minute. There's more overlap (similarity) than difference when one compares le bell-curves.
goldeeswagga 8 months ago
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@AtheistTower speak english you fucking nerd
VitaEdoSA 8 months ago
@AtheistTower : And equating feminist with gender-annihilist generally reflects a profound cluelessness about what either of those terms mean so you're not exactly in a position to be calling other people "ignorant" here.
arkalen29 8 months ago
@AtheistTower Take a class in feminism and you'll be enlightened. You obviously have no idea what it is.
extmach 8 months ago
You are awesome and adorable.
Buzzgirl0519 9 months ago 6
ROCKING, MAN! ROCKINGGGGGG!!!!!
GuoBia 9 months ago 3
I watched a special on VH1 last night called The New Virginity and I found myself being angry due to the lack of knowledge about "virginity" and the false misconceptions about what virginity means. I couldnt have articulated any better, you have captured my exact feelings on the issue.
Bravo!!!
I adore you!
activistgirl20 9 months ago 8
You're my hero! We need more people like you. <3
mounstruo16 9 months ago 7
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AtheistTower 9 months ago
MARRY ME PLEASE AND WE CAN BE NON-VIRGINS TOGETHER ;D
hollium 9 months ago 6
singer + strummer + major hottie = bad ass
ninestraycats 9 months ago 3
Oh. Oh, I love this.
Obsessionful 9 months ago 2
I like you ..a lot. :)
kimsammyful 9 months ago
Might I suggest a companion book? Too late! The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti. Definitive reading. You are awesome and so is this song! :)
fashionista16 9 months ago 3
I went through a few years in my teens where I felt like my identity as a bisexual would never be accepted as long as I was a virgin. I... think that might be *why* I sought out my first sexual partner, and that was NOT a good idea.
So thanks for that little bit in the Santa thing against being pressured to "lose" your virginity. And, of course, the "we're not virgins" thing would also have been applicable to younger-me. I hope some high school kids find your work. ^_^
RemedialBossfight 9 months ago 30
@RemedialBossfight I was the same way. I knew it was bullshit, but I wanted to be seen as the bisexual that I was so badly that I lied about having been experienced sexually with both binary genders. That caused my first time to be pretty sucky. I now identify as queer, since I'm attracted to a bunch of different genders, and I'm a genderqueer myself.
TheraPissed 9 months ago
This made my day. You continue to be awesome!
MrBowties 9 months ago
awesome! my second favorite after porn this way
diamondmystc240 9 months ago
every single one of your songs make me happier about being alive. the whole world needs to hear them.
paulievenna 9 months ago 40
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AtheistTower 9 months ago
God thank you for that. Really.
crazymittenz 9 months ago 2
Was this in reaction to anything? Virginity's not much of a status symbol here.
FunkyFlower7 9 months ago
awesome.
boy0boi 9 months ago
Love the santa thing!
ZErawrMONSTER 9 months ago
you are so cute!!!! And I love these videos! Great work! *I'll give you a hug if you want it*
coolsteven2 9 months ago