Heyy. As a person trying to settle into a new identity and find a new name, I really appreciate this video. I always wonder and want to ask how/where trans people found their new names. I bet your mom appreciated having a say in it, even though you didn't have to do that. I also think it's pretty cool that you have the HBK on your arm. I can understand distancing ourselves, starting over, but now you have a piece left, if you want it, that is. Thanks for the video!
my gay grandma is ts in the making. she has had work done on her face and is moaning for more feminine curves and tits... yet she hasnt had the dick castrated. well, i just wanted to say i can understand whre youre coming from cus i see how uncomfortable she get when people call her BJ. no one knows what her real name is. now her name is Vanity Shantae Cole... not sure on the middle name but the first and last is a certain... and hers is legally changed. new license and everything. goodluck pa.
yea being referred to by a name thats ill fitting can be annoying and some people use it to spite you. Shows you how happy they are with themselves. but I wish your gma the best.
Xavier is a VERY nice, obviously masculine and virile, name--as indeed is Alexander as well. A very strong name, than befits u! And, yeah, not that I know all that especially much about tatts (not having any myself), but I should think that a good tatt artist should be able to turn that "K" into an "X". U might have to have part of the "K" laser-removed, but then again maybe (hopefully) not.
I think a good tattoo artist would be able to turn a K into an X. Maybe? Idk. I wish you well though man. Can't wait to get to where you are. Right now I can't even stand to hear names that are eve slightly similar to the one my mom gave.
i kno das rite, i got a new puppy & cudnt decide on a name n googled yorky puppy names lol, i used to have a lil boyfriend in 2nd grade (before i was so gay lol) n dat was him name mhm he was a ladies man, anyway i like ur jacket
Word man. This is friggin' weird. Pretty much the same process you went through, was very similar to mine. Same name, almost same process....Am I the bad twin and you are the good one?
In Portugal Xavier... its saying like Shhh Shhhavier. not like X, but writting it's the same. Your name came from Basque countries, neighbours of mine, Spain. And in some places of Spain it's Javier, cuz it's the real original name. And Alexander it's Greek and came from latin, and then was an evolution of romanic, but the origin its aléksein ("defend") + andrós from anēr("man") so u can translate to "Protector of men".
And btw, K shouldn't be too hard to turn into an X as a tattoo..
taylorsacracker 2 months ago
I think Xavier fits you. :} You look like an Xavier.
taylorsacracker 2 months ago
you cud go by Javier too..
the latino version
ssips720 1 year ago
Hey, this was posted on my birthday. :D
kougafan 1 year ago
Heyy. As a person trying to settle into a new identity and find a new name, I really appreciate this video. I always wonder and want to ask how/where trans people found their new names. I bet your mom appreciated having a say in it, even though you didn't have to do that. I also think it's pretty cool that you have the HBK on your arm. I can understand distancing ourselves, starting over, but now you have a piece left, if you want it, that is. Thanks for the video!
keys0800 1 year ago
@keys0800 yea, I knew she'd want to take part so, I left my middle name undecided. no problem though.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
my gay grandma is ts in the making. she has had work done on her face and is moaning for more feminine curves and tits... yet she hasnt had the dick castrated. well, i just wanted to say i can understand whre youre coming from cus i see how uncomfortable she get when people call her BJ. no one knows what her real name is. now her name is Vanity Shantae Cole... not sure on the middle name but the first and last is a certain... and hers is legally changed. new license and everything. goodluck pa.
jayhdee5 2 years ago
yea being referred to by a name thats ill fitting can be annoying and some people use it to spite you. Shows you how happy they are with themselves. but I wish your gma the best.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
hey man, What buzzer number do you use on your hair when its that short??
Thanks so much.
katiewantsafastone20 2 years ago
wish I could tell you, my Dad normally cuts my hair & thats my hair after its grown a little. so I normally have it shorter.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
Xavier is a VERY nice, obviously masculine and virile, name--as indeed is Alexander as well. A very strong name, than befits u! And, yeah, not that I know all that especially much about tatts (not having any myself), but I should think that a good tatt artist should be able to turn that "K" into an "X". U might have to have part of the "K" laser-removed, but then again maybe (hopefully) not.
BourneArgonaut 2 years ago
I think a good tattoo artist would be able to turn a K into an X. Maybe? Idk. I wish you well though man. Can't wait to get to where you are. Right now I can't even stand to hear names that are eve slightly similar to the one my mom gave.
TanzElement 2 years ago
I love your [new] name.
N ur a sexy ass man
paytonbc 2 years ago
thank you
laidbaqq 2 years ago
& cud defintily changed the k on ur arm into an x...i think...rite? lol
iBodyDaPoonani 2 years ago
My aunt and I thought about it.. I have no idea what my cousin wants to do with his version of the tat.. but I'm thinking I'll keep it anyway.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
i kno das rite, i got a new puppy & cudnt decide on a name n googled yorky puppy names lol, i used to have a lil boyfriend in 2nd grade (before i was so gay lol) n dat was him name mhm he was a ladies man, anyway i like ur jacket
iBodyDaPoonani 2 years ago
lol cute. thanks.
I said the next dog I get, I'll name Ci-Ci, my best friends nick name.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
Word man. This is friggin' weird. Pretty much the same process you went through, was very similar to mine. Same name, almost same process....Am I the bad twin and you are the good one?
thegaymaker 2 years ago
lol what a coinkydink!
but what makes you think I'm good sir?
*evil grin*
laidbaqq 2 years ago
lol true true. Who knows the complete story of what happens when the cam isn't filming*aside from the pole dance haha*
But congrats none the less man! Bravo on moving forward for yourself
thegaymaker 2 years ago
Your name sounds like an X-man. In your case, a T-man.
aboutds0uffle 2 years ago
well if you want to take chromosomes into consideration....
but there is someone in the world who calls me Professor >_>
laidbaqq 2 years ago
It's a dope name, though. Who uses dope anymore? It's so 90s, right? But really, it fits you to a t.;)
aboutds0uffle 2 years ago
lol nothing wrong with throw back words.
thanks
laidbaqq 2 years ago
It fits you well bro....sweetness
underartisticeval 2 years ago
In Portugal Xavier... its saying like Shhh Shhhavier. not like X, but writting it's the same. Your name came from Basque countries, neighbours of mine, Spain. And in some places of Spain it's Javier, cuz it's the real original name. And Alexander it's Greek and came from latin, and then was an evolution of romanic, but the origin its aléksein ("defend") + andrós from anēr("man") so u can translate to "Protector of men".
Hope you like it.
SaintJay1989 2 years ago
my lil bro name is xavier... i want name my kid xavier...i love that name
studdedout2 2 years ago
I like xavier that name is so you!.....Its so your personality, I think Xavier is perfect.
sigmund30 2 years ago 2
sexy...
:)
ilovejalisa 2 years ago