My boyfriend told me was sexually abused by his uncle who in turn paid 8 guys to rape and molest him every day. He was molested from 9-17 by his uncle. He took money from men every day who took turns to rape and molest him. There is multiple videos online that was uploaded of him and he's even too afraid of posting his face online today (at 25) so he doesn't have a twitter or Facebook. This is the worst thing ever as his mum died at 9 and he's had "no one". Main reason why he stayed with his u
People who ignore this sin respect mankind :) i am a male i hate these thing i respect woman very much because we all are having sisters and we surely dnt want that they also pas throuh these sin so respect woman respect this world ! :)
my girlfriends dad came home one night when she was seven,drunk, and she woke up with no pants on and he was in her bed with his hand up her shirt. She couldnt get up because he was holding on to her. She now cuts herself and she burned the cuts with a lighter today. She can't tell her mom because when her dad is with her she's afraid he'll do it again. Her dad also walks in the bathroom while she showering and looks at her naked. But only when her moms not home. Also he asks if shes on her per
@BizzareCorpse I'm not a guy, but I can give you a girl's view on this. Just tell her. If she truly loves you, she won't call you names or anything. She'll accept your past the way it is.
@BizzareCorpse that means you r gay.and your afraid to come out the closet..if you are,you are,if your not ,your not,plain n simple.why would you want to tell her that in the first place,you leave the past where it is,in the past.
@The98knuklz No,i was molested by a gay.Cause all gays are sexual deviants !! They get fucked in fuckin subway stations and shitters in parks and prey on young boys.Theyre sick people.Ya think id give a fuck if they just like a fat cock up there ass,no thats there business but there pedophiles.Thats why homosexuality is deviant behavior.
@BizzareCorpse If you're a girl, you can be raped by any guy on the street. If you're a guy, you can be raped too. Doesn't it just prove we're in a sick world? What does it matter if it's homosexuality or heterosexuality that causes someone to be raped? Either way, it's awful. Does it matter who or how? It's awful. End.
*waits for the typical fuck-you-dumb-faggot-rant-probably-threatening-violence*
Listen, I know I'm an asshole for even saying that, but it bothers me that people like you have a valid reason for being scared of gay people and make it even harder for gay people to be normal, to feel normal. You probably haven't read this far down, since you probably starting spewing flames, but I'd like to say sorry for being insensitive, but this is harsh times we live in.
@TheWitchdoctr Oh and just speaking to myself here, why don't girls get hated for being lesbians? Is it only with gay males?
@BizarreCorpse Anyway, elaborating from before, not all gays are rapists and talking about them like all of them are, is just fueling the Anti-gay fire. If that's your stand, then I respect it.
@TheWitchdoctr No,i read the whole comment.But why are you on a video for survivors of rape and incest talking about gay rights.?? I mean they obviously have some sort of prevelance towards sexual deviance.
@BizzareCorpse I'm not sure. I think I was on a video from Christian Anti-gay rant, so when I got here, I got pissed off. Sorry for being insensitive, again.
Great vid..I was raped by my uncle when i was 4 or 5 and repressed it until last year when i first recalled it had happened..but i can't remember the exact age. I still feel confused and full of grief from the years of suffering in silence.
my 12 yr old daughter was raped by her moms boy friend night before last , he was convicted in s carolina and did 4 1/2 yrs came to texas hooked up with my wife 4 days later he grabbed my 14yrold gaughters crotch she told her mom mom said she was a lying little bitch, but i reported it to dayton pd they didnt do shit,now he hurt my lil baby,he might be out on bond now,press release mon.liberty texas my # 936/257/8756
Yes, thank you for posting this poignant video. There is definitely a 'cultural' perception that abuse only happens to females perpetrated by males but this certainly is not the case. Sexual abuse enacted by women is a social 'taboo' that needs to be acknowledged NOW! I really feel for you guys and thanks for sharing your stories!
My dad continually beat me with a chain until something in my body broke.And when I cried he stuck his junk in my mouth to shut me up.Than he stuck it in every other hole in my body.And when I told my mom about it,she beat me saying it was my fault he did that.So I ran away and now I live with my love.Some dad he was.Or even mom.
Thank you for this video. I'm a guy that was molested, violated, verbally and physically assaulted by my mother. People think that women don't do this, especially moms on their sons. And they think that boys aren't hurt or damaged as much as girls. This is not true at all. I have despised myself my entire life. I've let people use me in disgusting ways trying to feel in control or wanted. Doesn't work needless to say. Two suicide attempts. No, it doesnt effect boys at all.
@My2tops I'm just starting to deal with my mom's abuse as abuse. I can only remember the last time she masturbated me at bathtime, and I told her to stop it. Maybe I was six or seven? One of the results is that whenever I see an attractive or sexy-looking girl on the street I cringe, afraid/angry that she might be attracted to me (or I to her). Well, I turned out gay anyway. I don't know if I should confront her or not, or if I'm making too big a deal of it. Very confusing...
@gabsylv You're definitely not making too big a deal about it. I don't know if confronting her would do any good, though. She'd probably deny it, and start making you doubt yourself. But if you remember it, you have to hold on to the fact that it's true. I hope things work out for you.
I left a video response already, yet I am drawn by back...so much so that I have featured it on my blog masteryourhealing. Douglas this really cuts to the heart of the matter. We as men keep silent, have been silent, but need to break that silence. Thank you for sharing this part of you, for the rest of us who can certainly identify. We need more posts that can help others please men don't conform any longer YOU are NOT ALONE, we are all in this together and there is healing.
@vikingrederik Thank you. We must tell our stories, because sexual abuse is an act of violence, one of the least reported acts of violence. God bless.
It is a great goal for us to eliminate childhood sexual abuse once and for all. However, in the present the other focus needs to be on helping those of us who were abused...get our voice. That one slide stands out to me "BREAK THE SILENCE."
@other1133 Check out the CBS News interview with Antoine Dodson, he was raped growing up...Bed Intruder fellow. God bless, and thank you for your comment.
I dont know if U will get this but I think it is wonderfull that you came with your sexual abuse story. I was victim but I nevr told anybody till a few years ago so thank you so much
thanks for this video.. when I first saw this video I was still living at home en hadn´t spoken about what happend and was happening.. Now I´m in a shelter and I lived in a foster family... I am soon going to live on my own.. I´m a lot stronger... school noticed luckely that something was wrong and I spoke out... en they got me help...
As a mens rights activist,these stories sicken me & as a man who had a psychotic mother I can partly understand your'e pain of course I was never sexually assaulted so I can't possibly imagine how that feels. But my heart goes out to the victims!
@WCSLdglas I'm a Christian too,I've been involved in allot of political movements like the mens rights movement & I was raised by my dad but my mom did show up from time to time. When she did,she left behind child hood skars you coudn't say she's a caring nurturing person because she isn't as a matter of fact she has a multible personality disorder.And when she drinks,she becomes very hostile & violent!
@crypter27 you know, it feels more numb than anything else, the sickening thing is that the same abusers are passed around in supposedly christian schools and churchs to abuse fresh children, this is the same organization that all christian churchs are based on, we have a big problem here.
@crypter27 I may be mistaken but if you are not catholic, then you are protestant, and yes abuse certainly does go on in these institutions also, it is a huge secret though which carries shame for the one abused, there are untold numbers of people who are still silent.
Now people say i'm over-matured considering my age, and at school, i'm achually popular. The bastard was my moms boyfriend and the police found out that he also did it to his own daughter, not just me and his former girlfriends'. I'm pretty sure that he left the country, because he is such a wuss and my real dad threatned him.
to push everyone away. Meanwhile i was abused, i was being bullied by almost the whole school untill the abuse ended and i started at the shrink. The last couple of years i've matured alot, but at the age of thirteen i was acting like a 8 year old, because the abuse slowed me so much down.
I was sexually abused from when i was about three years old, to ten. Then he were arrested for doing it to his former girlfriends daugther. Then i realized what he did was illigal and i told my mom. At first she denied. Then she belived me. He only got 15 months and i had to go to shrink for four years! I'm only 15 years old now, and the abuse have lead me to highered need for sex (I would achually call it an adiction), and where ever i go, i'm the one everyone ignores because i've been trained
This is very sad. When I feel that I have a horrible life I think about the certain people that have to put up with the physical and emotional scars from abuse, abandonment, pretty much ANYTHING, and I feel sorry for those people. I wish I could snap my fingers and everything in the world could be great. But it doesn't work that way. All I'm saying is I respect these people and wish I could make everything better for them.
Aug 11 2009 my youngest son (Nick 17yrs) took his life,Passive Hanging. He could not over come his father's sexual molestation and abandonment . My son made a video for child protection in Martinsville Indiana, He was 8yrs old. His father lived in another county the prosecutor refused to follow through. Nick's Dad had a step-son who Hanged himself at 21yrs old, He left no note??? You think the prosecutor could be charged with two cases of wrongful dead? I have a typed manuscript of Nick's video.
@WCSLdglas thank you so much. i love ur video...speaking of it, i downloaded your video and i intend to present it to my class, i am a masteral student in guidance and counseling..and i will be reporting on counseling sexually abused children and i found ur video appropriate. in such regard, may i formally ask for ur permission?
anyway...me myself is also a victim..so i know how you feel..and i am making steps against it!
welll when i was younger i was im now 13 and live with my foster parents my real parents were sent to death becuz they broke my two legs so i cant walk for the rest of my life they always seem to hit my legs alot
@imissgracie It's sexual actions between family. Maybe a dad touches his daughter or a mom looks at her son naked. A girl kisses her female cousin, a boy 'play' with his male uncle.
i cant tell any1 cuz if i do, the punishment for adultery is DEATH n if i get killed my dad wud b ashamed n so he will also kill himself n i wont let tht happen. now all i can do is pray for death. i wish to die before gettin married cuz if i get married n hav sex, i wudnt bleed as i dont hav my virginity n so i wud b killed n my dad wudnt go thru all of tht n he'd kill himself.
@meowmeowarf i think you should tell one of your close realtives and confide in them you cant continue like this, if thats whats happening to you , im very sorry for your troubles
@strikerxk7 And yes, in some cases children may have been or are beeing molested by an adult or someone much older than themselves, and are just acting out what their abuser is doing to them. When a child starts showing too much interest in playing love-making, it may be a sign that the child is being molested by others much older or adults.
@strikerxk7 I agree with you, specially when a child is more than 3 years younger than the other. But like I said, I have heard professionals say that this is normal, as long as the older child is no more than three years older and doesn't force (rape) the other. A lot of children play house with each other, specially if they see their parents, a porno, or hear it from other children; out of curiosity.
Break the Silence. At age 14, I was abducted, beaten and sexually assaulted by a previously convicted pedophile. He never went to trial because he was brutally beaten to death in the streets of Providence, RI in 1975. No one has been charged with his murder. For 34 years, less than a dozen people knew my story. Now the story of my abduction, beating and sexual assault followed by the unsolved brutal murder of my assailant is a novel. Men in My Town by Keith Smith available now at Amazon
If we truly care about victims, we must start take a rational look at both prevention and prediction of sexual criminality and abuse. We must know what to look for and who to look out for. If you are tired of hype and hysteria, and want to be part of the solution please see our channel.
i'm 17 and when i was a kid, around 5 or 6, my cousin who was 8 involved me in sexual play meaning like the touching and sucking part...i never complained at the time since i trusted my cousin. As I grew up, it was hard for me forming friendships with men. Often times I avoided them...even now...I feel awkward around men my age..was my experience then considered sexual abuse?..i still remember the experience but now I absolutely hated myself for not getting mad at my cousin..
yes that is a little abusive because your cousin knew it was wrong and still took advantage of your innocence and trust. my story is close to yours and i consider it to be abuse to
@gamegina I don't think it is considered abuse when it involves children no more than about 3 years apart. They consider this normal child curiosity. Your cousin probably saw porn somewhere and was curious. But if this memory affects you in such a negative way you should seek counseling to work through your problems.
@FroggyHope well after the frequent experience with my cousin making friends with guys became really hard for me...even till now..i have way more girl friends than guy friends...i just feel awkward around guys especially guys around my age...and i also hate a guy touching me...like a hand over shoulder or a simple poke...it makes me hecka nervous...some people find me weird coz of it but they just don't know why...
@FroggyHope You probably have a difficult time with this because it makes you think that you are gay due to this experience. It doesn't make you gay. But do seek professional help to help you overcome your fears.
@TheBabydiamond1 what can I say!?? I'm so so very sorry you have to endure this. I have used a lot of professional help over the years and its the only way I lived this long. My revenge plan is to be really happy and live long enough to pee on a few tomb stones... be safe (as you can)
@TheMiguelherrera That would be too kind. I think they should castrate adults who rape children; cut off their sex organs. Sex is a beautiful thing that should be expressed only with consenting adults.
hey guys i am 16 and was molested as a child by a close family friend and i have kept it a secret until yesterday and it was the hardest but best decision i have ever made. please tell and you'll begin the process of healing! you'll feel much better, message me i am totally here for you <33
Child abuse in a which shape or form has to be the worst crime in the entire world. Abusers should be punished to the highest possible degree! Those who are victims and those who suspect victims should speak up. Let's stop this madness!
Brother,I need help,I went threw some things,I alwys told myself, all kids go threw it, I witnessed by cousins go threw every type of hell a parent can dish up. It gave me a sense my parents were wonderful compared my extened family. Im not sure what im looking for here,I repressed so much until I was about 22,I feel so much more buried deep inside,I search for this memory I can "let go of" it wont come out.I have never accused my Parents, yet thay have nothing to do with me or my 4 kids.
Ok. I think it is great that you acknowledge that it really did happen. That shows that you are an intelligent and strong person. Suppressing real traumatic events will at some stage bounce back at you. Either through flash backs, depression, nightmares, panic anxiety attacks, phobias, physical symptoms like stomach ulcers constant migraines etc. In order to be able to cope with daily life. People suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder sometimes take help of self harming, substance
cont. etc. To be able to just get through everyday life.
What is really important here is that you get qualified help from a Cognitive Psychotherapist. Who will uncover the real extent of the trauma you have been experiencing. Together you will work towards a realistic goal. It is very painful with Therapy, but it is the only solution to your problems. Remember you are NOT alone, and you are a good person who have not done anything wrong x.
PrincessKirlia. All forms of abuse are serious. There is no difference between them. Abuse somebody means that a person can use to control or humiliate and torture another person. Unable to defend him/her self.
i lost two friends two that type of abuse they were abused by there dad someone that dose that to there child is not human and i wish i could go back in time and save them because they rel yd on me to save them but i did nothing and it has haunted me for ten years and i have woke up screaming because of what they told me and every night i would have this nightmare of them and there dad .
Incest Survivors Anonymous, Hampstead High Street, London, The Community Centre, top floor, every Thursday 8.30 p.m. its a space for men and woman over eighteen years old, who are dealing with this stuff.
anybody that reach out to another to help them find they way is not a waste! if u lucky enuf not to need such help then i happy for u, but just cuz it hasnt happen to u dont mean u should have a closed mind an a cold heart toward those that have had to live it an to those who open up an reach out to help other like he or she self, sometimes in these cases helpin others helps urself, DONT KNOCK HIM! OPEN UR EYES FOOLISH MAN!
Break the Silence. At age 14, I was abducted, beaten and sexually assaulted by a previously convicted pedophile. He never went to trial because he was brutally beaten to death in the streets of Providence, RI in 1975. No one has been charged with his murder. For 34 years, less than a dozen people knew my story. Now the story of my abduction, beating and sexual assault followed by the unsolved brutal murder of my assailant is a novel. Men in My Town by Keith Smith available now at Amazon
I don't even really know what to say, but I know I want to let you know how utterly amazing that I think this video is. I found this video in a family member's blog about a year ago. I have since then sent it as far and wide as i can. It is truly profound and inspiring for all those who have suffered the same fate. Thank you so much for speaking out. God Bless You and may peace live in your heart.
Im not a guy, but I was sexually assaulted as a child by 3 different members of my family My ex husband was raped as a child at 12 and it totally distroyed his self image. He became abusive and violent after he revealed it to me, and that ended our marriage unfortunately, but even though we are divorced, I still pray for him every day.
@ash16robpatt :{ ruined your whole life? Your letting it control you? that's not healthy! :o everyone copes differently true but don't let it control you :} i'm slowly healing myself.
I was abused by my step grandfather when i was 6-7 for years until i turned 10, and then it stopped. I think it messed me up in some way. I still hate him! he disgusts me..
Well, I wasn't completely sexual abused. But this guy made me do nasty stuff when I was only 4. It may sound very stupid, but he gave me candies for doing bad stuff I was too little to distinguish things. No penetration, but what still hurts is that, he's my own brother. He was meant to take care of me while parents weren't at home, but he, he just did what his sexual intuintion told him to do. He was too stupid to realize the harm he caused in me. I'm sorry for everyone who's been through this.
I can't understand your pain at all. However, I can respect it and I realize just how hard it must have been for you to speak up. Hopefully you'll come out of this as a very strong person. :)
I was sexually assaulted when I was 10 by a 10 year old girl. I couldn't speak about it till I was 14/15/16. It's the heaviest burden I'll ever have to carry. Another one of my friends was also sexually assaulted by a adult male. There's creeps and wackos everywhere.
Good luck and have a great life to everybody else who have gone through this.
one time my friend walked alone at night in the streets and this dude with a hoodie he kept following her then he reached his hands out for my friend luckily i was there and i grabbed a rock and threw it at his head! me and my friend made a dash for it! so yeah we were lucky well my friend was
my friend & i almost got raped at different times...she wuz walking home from arbys & then a black dude with cornrows & a scar under his eye grabed her & she in2 her ear"im goin to rape u & kill u bitch"
then i wuz walking home from school alone and he wuz following me Im glad that he didnt get either of us bcuz we r like sisters....lucky for me that wen i got clos
^*uncle. Cos he had no one.
jennymar 10 hours ago
My boyfriend told me was sexually abused by his uncle who in turn paid 8 guys to rape and molest him every day. He was molested from 9-17 by his uncle. He took money from men every day who took turns to rape and molest him. There is multiple videos online that was uploaded of him and he's even too afraid of posting his face online today (at 25) so he doesn't have a twitter or Facebook. This is the worst thing ever as his mum died at 9 and he's had "no one". Main reason why he stayed with his u
jennymar 11 hours ago
People who ignore this sin respect mankind :) i am a male i hate these thing i respect woman very much because we all are having sisters and we surely dnt want that they also pas throuh these sin so respect woman respect this world ! :)
humayun498 4 days ago
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daisy19992 1 month ago
my girlfriends dad came home one night when she was seven,drunk, and she woke up with no pants on and he was in her bed with his hand up her shirt. She couldnt get up because he was holding on to her. She now cuts herself and she burned the cuts with a lighter today. She can't tell her mom because when her dad is with her she's afraid he'll do it again. Her dad also walks in the bathroom while she showering and looks at her naked. But only when her moms not home. Also he asks if shes on her per
Cobra2639J3T 3 months ago
What a bunch of melodramatic bullshit!
lemonrind 4 months ago
@lemonrind cos rape is funny. HA HA HAAAA! GO FUCK YOUR SELF IF YOU CAN!!
gethsoftware 3 months ago
@gethsoftware I never said rape was funny. I said this video is bullshit.
lemonrind 3 months ago
I want to tell my girlfriend but im scared shel think im gay.Does anyone have any experience on this.
BizzareCorpse 6 months ago
@BizzareCorpse I'm not a guy, but I can give you a girl's view on this. Just tell her. If she truly loves you, she won't call you names or anything. She'll accept your past the way it is.
MollieMusic101 6 months ago
@MollieMusic101 Thank you
BizzareCorpse 6 months ago
@BizzareCorpse No problem. :)
MollieMusic101 6 months ago
@BizzareCorpse that means you r gay.and your afraid to come out the closet..if you are,you are,if your not ,your not,plain n simple.why would you want to tell her that in the first place,you leave the past where it is,in the past.
The98knuklz 1 month ago
@The98knuklz No,i was molested by a gay.Cause all gays are sexual deviants !! They get fucked in fuckin subway stations and shitters in parks and prey on young boys.Theyre sick people.Ya think id give a fuck if they just like a fat cock up there ass,no thats there business but there pedophiles.Thats why homosexuality is deviant behavior.
BizzareCorpse 3 weeks ago
@BizzareCorpse If you're a girl, you can be raped by any guy on the street. If you're a guy, you can be raped too. Doesn't it just prove we're in a sick world? What does it matter if it's homosexuality or heterosexuality that causes someone to be raped? Either way, it's awful. Does it matter who or how? It's awful. End.
TheWitchdoctr 2 weeks ago
@TheWitchdoctr The difference is if your a girl you can get help.If your a guy,your a faggot..Ive been suffering in silence for years.
BizzareCorpse 2 weeks ago
@BizzareCorpse Not long enough.
*waits for the typical fuck-you-dumb-faggot-rant-probably-threatening-violence*
Listen, I know I'm an asshole for even saying that, but it bothers me that people like you have a valid reason for being scared of gay people and make it even harder for gay people to be normal, to feel normal. You probably haven't read this far down, since you probably starting spewing flames, but I'd like to say sorry for being insensitive, but this is harsh times we live in.
TheWitchdoctr 2 weeks ago
@TheWitchdoctr Oh and just speaking to myself here, why don't girls get hated for being lesbians? Is it only with gay males?
@BizarreCorpse Anyway, elaborating from before, not all gays are rapists and talking about them like all of them are, is just fueling the Anti-gay fire. If that's your stand, then I respect it.
TheWitchdoctr 2 weeks ago
@TheWitchdoctr No,i read the whole comment.But why are you on a video for survivors of rape and incest talking about gay rights.?? I mean they obviously have some sort of prevelance towards sexual deviance.
BizzareCorpse 1 week ago
@BizzareCorpse I'm not sure. I think I was on a video from Christian Anti-gay rant, so when I got here, I got pissed off. Sorry for being insensitive, again.
TheWitchdoctr 1 week ago
great video i hope others feel there is hope i am just a supporter for this x
MissMirandaRG 7 months ago
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somebody1special 7 months ago
Hi,
About a year ago, we have had some contact about my past.
It is and was so true that God can heal you and all.
Your wish for me was to find a really good man and all.
I've found him :P
In july we will be married for one year allready and we have a beautiful daugther.
So you see:
GOD REALLY SAVES AND TURNS ALL BAD INTO SOMETHING GOOD.
God bless you and all your work with helping others to deal with their past.
ArjanHylkje 8 months ago
Great vid..I was raped by my uncle when i was 4 or 5 and repressed it until last year when i first recalled it had happened..but i can't remember the exact age. I still feel confused and full of grief from the years of suffering in silence.
sberth91 8 months ago
How do men get raped anyway is it by other men or us it by a women???
flacco908 8 months ago
my 12 yr old daughter was raped by her moms boy friend night before last , he was convicted in s carolina and did 4 1/2 yrs came to texas hooked up with my wife 4 days later he grabbed my 14yrold gaughters crotch she told her mom mom said she was a lying little bitch, but i reported it to dayton pd they didnt do shit,now he hurt my lil baby,he might be out on bond now,press release mon.liberty texas my # 936/257/8756
nivlek64 8 months ago
Religion has nothing to do with abuse with one is Catholic or Protestant. Abuse is Abuse plain and simple!!
philly0768 8 months ago
Yes, thank you for posting this poignant video. There is definitely a 'cultural' perception that abuse only happens to females perpetrated by males but this certainly is not the case. Sexual abuse enacted by women is a social 'taboo' that needs to be acknowledged NOW! I really feel for you guys and thanks for sharing your stories!
philly0768 8 months ago
My dad continually beat me with a chain until something in my body broke.And when I cried he stuck his junk in my mouth to shut me up.Than he stuck it in every other hole in my body.And when I told my mom about it,she beat me saying it was my fault he did that.So I ran away and now I live with my love.Some dad he was.Or even mom.
GardevoirX282 9 months ago
Thank you for this video. I'm a guy that was molested, violated, verbally and physically assaulted by my mother. People think that women don't do this, especially moms on their sons. And they think that boys aren't hurt or damaged as much as girls. This is not true at all. I have despised myself my entire life. I've let people use me in disgusting ways trying to feel in control or wanted. Doesn't work needless to say. Two suicide attempts. No, it doesnt effect boys at all.
My2tops 9 months ago
@My2tops I'm just starting to deal with my mom's abuse as abuse. I can only remember the last time she masturbated me at bathtime, and I told her to stop it. Maybe I was six or seven? One of the results is that whenever I see an attractive or sexy-looking girl on the street I cringe, afraid/angry that she might be attracted to me (or I to her). Well, I turned out gay anyway. I don't know if I should confront her or not, or if I'm making too big a deal of it. Very confusing...
gabsylv 6 months ago
@gabsylv You're definitely not making too big a deal about it. I don't know if confronting her would do any good, though. She'd probably deny it, and start making you doubt yourself. But if you remember it, you have to hold on to the fact that it's true. I hope things work out for you.
MckyMseNTarotCrds 6 months ago
@MckyMseNTarotCrds Thank you. I'm determined they will. ^^
gabsylv 6 months ago
God save Us ALL...
KellysKaus 10 months ago
I left a video response already, yet I am drawn by back...so much so that I have featured it on my blog masteryourhealing. Douglas this really cuts to the heart of the matter. We as men keep silent, have been silent, but need to break that silence. Thank you for sharing this part of you, for the rest of us who can certainly identify. We need more posts that can help others please men don't conform any longer YOU are NOT ALONE, we are all in this together and there is healing.
vikingrederik 10 months ago
@vikingrederik Thank you. We must tell our stories, because sexual abuse is an act of violence, one of the least reported acts of violence. God bless.
WCSLdglas 10 months ago
i like this video check mine out ok
2theprezident 10 months ago
It is a great goal for us to eliminate childhood sexual abuse once and for all. However, in the present the other focus needs to be on helping those of us who were abused...get our voice. That one slide stands out to me "BREAK THE SILENCE."
vikingrederik 10 months ago
Thank you. I was abused to.Your video helped. Keep up the good fight.
other1133 11 months ago 2
@other1133 Check out the CBS News interview with Antoine Dodson, he was raped growing up...Bed Intruder fellow. God bless, and thank you for your comment.
WCSLdglas 11 months ago
I dont know if U will get this but I think it is wonderfull that you came with your sexual abuse story. I was victim but I nevr told anybody till a few years ago so thank you so much
Billy
aququa1bill 11 months ago
ya I'm sitting here watching this and thinking I'd better not type an anonamous comment and admit being abused, this goes deep.
movadoband 11 months ago
thanks for this video.. when I first saw this video I was still living at home en hadn´t spoken about what happend and was happening.. Now I´m in a shelter and I lived in a foster family... I am soon going to live on my own.. I´m a lot stronger... school noticed luckely that something was wrong and I spoke out... en they got me help...
xLisamaria 1 year ago
@xLisamaria you're welcome! God bless you.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@akshunyob yes they do.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
As a mens rights activist,these stories sicken me & as a man who had a psychotic mother I can partly understand your'e pain of course I was never sexually assaulted so I can't possibly imagine how that feels. But my heart goes out to the victims!
crypter27 1 year ago
@crypter27 my pain is gone, i turned my life over to Jesus Christ.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas I'm a Christian too,I've been involved in allot of political movements like the mens rights movement & I was raised by my dad but my mom did show up from time to time. When she did,she left behind child hood skars you coudn't say she's a caring nurturing person because she isn't as a matter of fact she has a multible personality disorder.And when she drinks,she becomes very hostile & violent!
crypter27 1 year ago
@crypter27 No such thing as a personality disorder. There is only estrangement from God. I will pray for her.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas So true,thanks!
crypter27 1 year ago
@crypter27 yw! God bless.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@crypter27 you know, it feels more numb than anything else, the sickening thing is that the same abusers are passed around in supposedly christian schools and churchs to abuse fresh children, this is the same organization that all christian churchs are based on, we have a big problem here.
movadoband 11 months ago
@movadoband Thats Catholic,you don't see that shit happening with Prodastens
crypter27 11 months ago
@crypter27 I may be mistaken but if you are not catholic, then you are protestant, and yes abuse certainly does go on in these institutions also, it is a huge secret though which carries shame for the one abused, there are untold numbers of people who are still silent.
movadoband 11 months ago
its weird how 98% of sexual abuse against children is committed by hetrosexual men
subbtopp 1 year ago
@subbtopp prove it.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
Is that Casper Van dien at 2:18?
greenalert08 1 year ago
u really have got hard time in your childhood , it's sad ,thx for ur vid
44okiru44 1 year ago
Now people say i'm over-matured considering my age, and at school, i'm achually popular. The bastard was my moms boyfriend and the police found out that he also did it to his own daughter, not just me and his former girlfriends'. I'm pretty sure that he left the country, because he is such a wuss and my real dad threatned him.
Undulaaten 1 year ago
to push everyone away. Meanwhile i was abused, i was being bullied by almost the whole school untill the abuse ended and i started at the shrink. The last couple of years i've matured alot, but at the age of thirteen i was acting like a 8 year old, because the abuse slowed me so much down.
Undulaaten 1 year ago
I was sexually abused from when i was about three years old, to ten. Then he were arrested for doing it to his former girlfriends daugther. Then i realized what he did was illigal and i told my mom. At first she denied. Then she belived me. He only got 15 months and i had to go to shrink for four years! I'm only 15 years old now, and the abuse have lead me to highered need for sex (I would achually call it an adiction), and where ever i go, i'm the one everyone ignores because i've been trained
Undulaaten 1 year ago
This is very sad. When I feel that I have a horrible life I think about the certain people that have to put up with the physical and emotional scars from abuse, abandonment, pretty much ANYTHING, and I feel sorry for those people. I wish I could snap my fingers and everything in the world could be great. But it doesn't work that way. All I'm saying is I respect these people and wish I could make everything better for them.
God bless their souls.
cassiepielol 1 year ago
"let it go' IS EASY for somone to say when there not the one who has been affected by it for years
Shytobe 1 year ago
Aug 11 2009 my youngest son (Nick 17yrs) took his life,Passive Hanging. He could not over come his father's sexual molestation and abandonment . My son made a video for child protection in Martinsville Indiana, He was 8yrs old. His father lived in another county the prosecutor refused to follow through. Nick's Dad had a step-son who Hanged himself at 21yrs old, He left no note??? You think the prosecutor could be charged with two cases of wrongful dead? I have a typed manuscript of Nick's video.
adrianne79 1 year ago
looool ahahahah this video im adding to my favourites cos its hilarious hahahahhaa
and all the people who disliked it were raped by their dad hhahaha
Pipweed 1 year ago
tHIS IS AWESOME.. I am also a victim and i am ready to speak out. iTS HARD TO LET GO. My thoughts and actions today stem from the abuse.
dasilentminority 1 year ago
what is the title of the song? pls???
carmgel55 1 year ago
@carmgel55 When Dad Was A Strong Man
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas thank you so much. i love ur video...speaking of it, i downloaded your video and i intend to present it to my class, i am a masteral student in guidance and counseling..and i will be reporting on counseling sexually abused children and i found ur video appropriate. in such regard, may i formally ask for ur permission?
anyway...me myself is also a victim..so i know how you feel..and i am making steps against it!
carmgel55 1 year ago
@carmgel55 yes, of course you can use it for class. thanks for asking.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
what i dont get is why so many people believe that men cant be raped, THEY CAN!!
kittycat13458 1 year ago
welll when i was younger i was im now 13 and live with my foster parents my real parents were sent to death becuz they broke my two legs so i cant walk for the rest of my life they always seem to hit my legs alot
PoisonIvyTv 1 year ago
SOMATIC EXPERIENCING THERAPY!
MassagePatriot 1 year ago
what does incest mean?
imissgracie 1 year ago
@imissgracie It's sexual actions between family. Maybe a dad touches his daughter or a mom looks at her son naked. A girl kisses her female cousin, a boy 'play' with his male uncle.
Things like that.
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CaliforniaKing64 1 year ago
god bless u all
marypop64 1 year ago
i cant tell any1 cuz if i do, the punishment for adultery is DEATH n if i get killed my dad wud b ashamed n so he will also kill himself n i wont let tht happen. now all i can do is pray for death. i wish to die before gettin married cuz if i get married n hav sex, i wudnt bleed as i dont hav my virginity n so i wud b killed n my dad wudnt go thru all of tht n he'd kill himself.
meowmeowarf 1 year ago
@meowmeowarf Have you turned to Jesus? Jesus cleans and heals.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas im not a christian
meowmeowarf 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas Jesus Heals Christians Destroy?
Huntergather 1 year ago 2
@meowmeowarf i think you should tell one of your close realtives and confide in them you cant continue like this, if thats whats happening to you , im very sorry for your troubles
impyink 1 year ago
@meowmeowarf thanks for making me laugh, troll
h3ll0xzx555 1 year ago
@strikerxk7 And yes, in some cases children may have been or are beeing molested by an adult or someone much older than themselves, and are just acting out what their abuser is doing to them. When a child starts showing too much interest in playing love-making, it may be a sign that the child is being molested by others much older or adults.
FroggyHope 1 year ago
@strikerxk7 I agree with you, specially when a child is more than 3 years younger than the other. But like I said, I have heard professionals say that this is normal, as long as the older child is no more than three years older and doesn't force (rape) the other. A lot of children play house with each other, specially if they see their parents, a porno, or hear it from other children; out of curiosity.
FroggyHope 1 year ago
Break the Silence. At age 14, I was abducted, beaten and sexually assaulted by a previously convicted pedophile. He never went to trial because he was brutally beaten to death in the streets of Providence, RI in 1975. No one has been charged with his murder. For 34 years, less than a dozen people knew my story. Now the story of my abduction, beating and sexual assault followed by the unsolved brutal murder of my assailant is a novel. Men in My Town by Keith Smith available now at Amazon
keithsmithnj 1 year ago
dont let it go!
leontinamoldovan 1 year ago
let it go!!! i was also sexually abused wen i was 6 or 7 or 8, dont know!!! n ma parents are also the respectable ppl! i havnt told that to any1
meowmeowarf 1 year ago
@meowmeowarf DO NOT LET IT GO. Pray to God, get healed and forgive. But if it DID happen, you must tell others your story.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas wish i cud tell some1
meowmeowarf 1 year ago
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cdfitz100 1 year ago
If we truly care about victims, we must start take a rational look at both prevention and prediction of sexual criminality and abuse. We must know what to look for and who to look out for. If you are tired of hype and hysteria, and want to be part of the solution please see our channel.
SOTVPRESENTS 1 year ago
can anyone help me?
i'm 17 and when i was a kid, around 5 or 6, my cousin who was 8 involved me in sexual play meaning like the touching and sucking part...i never complained at the time since i trusted my cousin. As I grew up, it was hard for me forming friendships with men. Often times I avoided them...even now...I feel awkward around men my age..was my experience then considered sexual abuse?..i still remember the experience but now I absolutely hated myself for not getting mad at my cousin..
gamegina 1 year ago
@gamegina
yes that is a little abusive because your cousin knew it was wrong and still took advantage of your innocence and trust. my story is close to yours and i consider it to be abuse to
cdfitz100 1 year ago
@gamegina I don't think it is considered abuse when it involves children no more than about 3 years apart. They consider this normal child curiosity. Your cousin probably saw porn somewhere and was curious. But if this memory affects you in such a negative way you should seek counseling to work through your problems.
FroggyHope 1 year ago
@FroggyHope well after the frequent experience with my cousin making friends with guys became really hard for me...even till now..i have way more girl friends than guy friends...i just feel awkward around guys especially guys around my age...and i also hate a guy touching me...like a hand over shoulder or a simple poke...it makes me hecka nervous...some people find me weird coz of it but they just don't know why...
gamegina 1 year ago
@FroggyHope You probably have a difficult time with this because it makes you think that you are gay due to this experience. It doesn't make you gay. But do seek professional help to help you overcome your fears.
FroggyHope 1 year ago
@gamegina yes it is sexual abuse but :{ telling on him now if he hasnt done anything since wont get you any kind of justice.
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TheBabydiamond1 1 year ago
@TheBabydiamond1 what can I say!?? I'm so so very sorry you have to endure this. I have used a lot of professional help over the years and its the only way I lived this long. My revenge plan is to be really happy and live long enough to pee on a few tomb stones... be safe (as you can)
sanctuary62 1 year ago
Jesus is the answer.
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas Jesus is yours not mine.... so thanks but no thanks
sanctuary62 1 year ago
@sanctuary62 Why are you so defensive?
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@WCSLdglas They aren't being defensive, they just don't like other religions being pushed on them.
EmoraChan13 1 year ago
yer dont let it go and hes every ones
tiggywiggy17 1 year ago
i think they should hang all those child abusers
TheMiguelherrera 1 year ago
hi, i wrote this song, and i have to say that hanging child abusers only makes matters worse: why increase the cycle of violence?
WCSLdglas 1 year ago
@TheMiguelherrera That would be too kind. I think they should castrate adults who rape children; cut off their sex organs. Sex is a beautiful thing that should be expressed only with consenting adults.
FroggyHope 1 year ago
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HAHAHAHHA U GUYS GOT RAPED
this was the funniest thing ever reading yours guys comments like wow u guys are funny hope it happens again
gurpreet131 1 year ago
i hope you all find peace you deserve it
kizziejip 1 year ago
hey guys i am 16 and was molested as a child by a close family friend and i have kept it a secret until yesterday and it was the hardest but best decision i have ever made. please tell and you'll begin the process of healing! you'll feel much better, message me i am totally here for you <33
koolhorsechick 2 years ago
what0s the name of the song?
theyellowsubmarine0 2 years ago
Child abuse in a which shape or form has to be the worst crime in the entire world. Abusers should be punished to the highest possible degree! Those who are victims and those who suspect victims should speak up. Let's stop this madness!
nmarchesano 2 years ago
Brother,I need help,I went threw some things,I alwys told myself, all kids go threw it, I witnessed by cousins go threw every type of hell a parent can dish up. It gave me a sense my parents were wonderful compared my extened family. Im not sure what im looking for here,I repressed so much until I was about 22,I feel so much more buried deep inside,I search for this memory I can "let go of" it wont come out.I have never accused my Parents, yet thay have nothing to do with me or my 4 kids.
3AtomicJabez8 2 years ago
Ok. I think it is great that you acknowledge that it really did happen. That shows that you are an intelligent and strong person. Suppressing real traumatic events will at some stage bounce back at you. Either through flash backs, depression, nightmares, panic anxiety attacks, phobias, physical symptoms like stomach ulcers constant migraines etc. In order to be able to cope with daily life. People suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder sometimes take help of self harming, substance
Tattooedgirlie 2 years ago
cont. etc. To be able to just get through everyday life.
What is really important here is that you get qualified help from a Cognitive Psychotherapist. Who will uncover the real extent of the trauma you have been experiencing. Together you will work towards a realistic goal. It is very painful with Therapy, but it is the only solution to your problems. Remember you are NOT alone, and you are a good person who have not done anything wrong x.
Tattooedgirlie 2 years ago
it shouldnt of hurt...to be a child!! :( thanks man... i love what youve done for us... break the silence brothers... stop child abuse.
talibilm1 2 years ago
God helped me get through sexual abuse/rape.
Psalms 129:2 They have greatly opressesed me from my youth, but they have not gained the victory over me.
chocolatechipparadis 2 years ago 13
@chocolatechipparadis Amen to this. This is what I tell myself.
FroggyHope 1 year ago
I'm a victim of emotional abuse, and some physical abuse. And I'm not an adult.
PrincessKirlia 2 years ago
PrincessKirlia. All forms of abuse are serious. There is no difference between them. Abuse somebody means that a person can use to control or humiliate and torture another person. Unable to defend him/her self.
Did you get help with the Trauma you experienced?
Tattooedgirlie 2 years ago 2
i no wat it is all like to have this done to you it sux and can life with it and feel alone
MrBloodyscars 2 years ago
It is so true "that it shouldn't hurt to be a child". Thank you for Breaking the Silence on child sexual abuse. Much Respect!
reVerse2bfree 2 years ago 3
Brought me to tears.
jpigues1 2 years ago
i lost two friends two that type of abuse they were abused by there dad someone that dose that to there child is not human and i wish i could go back in time and save them because they rel yd on me to save them but i did nothing and it has haunted me for ten years and i have woke up screaming because of what they told me and every night i would have this nightmare of them and there dad .
unclecode90 2 years ago
Wow, that is really messed up and I feel for you. God bless you.
bleachedout000 2 years ago
This is so sad but yet inspiring how he turned his anguish into something positive to teach and help others...this is so courageous.
mariposasoleil 2 years ago
beautiful video. Thank you . Its good to make people aware that this happens to little boys too and sometimes even harder to speak about it
- love all-ways : )
jayel71 2 years ago
Incest Survivors Anonymous, Hampstead High Street, London, The Community Centre, top floor, every Thursday 8.30 p.m. its a space for men and woman over eighteen years old, who are dealing with this stuff.
BombMaking4Beginners 2 years ago 6
It takes a lot of strength to speak of such a painful experience, and to forgive. I commend you.
The song is also very good. It is poignant and inspiring.
OmniaVincit414 2 years ago
wow I stupidly,didnt think this type of abuse existed, how terribly igorant of me.
thank you for telling your story. i like the part when you said "when you are a child, it is so hard to tell your story of abuse."
and the part of the song that goes "And that's what I'll remember.
The image is frozen even larger than it was."
Im so sorry you had to suffer that imaginable pain. your quite a survivor, im proud of u.
hopstop3721 2 years ago 3
What is so funny about rape? Absoloutely nothing.
sniperElias666 2 years ago 9
@sniperElias666 lol SUPRISE BUTT SECS
jimmybobjesus 11 months ago
anybody that reach out to another to help them find they way is not a waste! if u lucky enuf not to need such help then i happy for u, but just cuz it hasnt happen to u dont mean u should have a closed mind an a cold heart toward those that have had to live it an to those who open up an reach out to help other like he or she self, sometimes in these cases helpin others helps urself, DONT KNOCK HIM! OPEN UR EYES FOOLISH MAN!
juggalojes 2 years ago
thx for the vid an links, blessed be
juggalojes 2 years ago
some links in the video are dead, here are a few
stepchat. com
survivorschat. com
add them :)
xxemopuddlexx 2 years ago
I, for one, think rape is a bad thing.
sniperElias666 2 years ago 6
... no? you think?
ThEfUcKiNgKiNg777 2 years ago
thanks for this video
myneco123 2 years ago
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keithsmithnj 2 years ago
I don't even really know what to say, but I know I want to let you know how utterly amazing that I think this video is. I found this video in a family member's blog about a year ago. I have since then sent it as far and wide as i can. It is truly profound and inspiring for all those who have suffered the same fate. Thank you so much for speaking out. God Bless You and may peace live in your heart.
motherspork 2 years ago 2
this is a very sad story i am terribly sorry and thank u for making this vid...
sonnyaveronajrrox 2 years ago 15
sad
mandycool24 2 years ago 15
i was a very loucky child to have not done anything but love me
lrulez415 2 years ago 8
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Telegram20 2 years ago
funny. but Jesus rules.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
yeap..
RagnarokVampire 2 years ago
GOD'S MY MUM :D
and my dad
katieontoast 2 years ago
i got abuse by my dad
wut could i do ?
cacho11zaku 2 years ago 3
u guys really need 2 speak out i will pray 4 u and hopefully god will still love who did this 2 u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
bigd1245678 2 years ago 5
im so sorry for you thats relly sad
efru15 2 years ago 2
Im not a guy, but I was sexually assaulted as a child by 3 different members of my family My ex husband was raped as a child at 12 and it totally distroyed his self image. He became abusive and violent after he revealed it to me, and that ended our marriage unfortunately, but even though we are divorced, I still pray for him every day.
desiree01201969 2 years ago 3
That is so horrible. I am so sorry to read your comment. I can't even begin to think where to start. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
dcleblan2009 2 years ago
aww thats sooo nice
heroheroine30 2 years ago 4
i pray for you people who are abused :(
or was...
x
De3Bot 2 years ago
i do not think you survive abuse you live with it, i was raped when i was 10 and try and survive it everyday, i am now 32
niekie4sure 2 years ago 4
well said.............
driverain2 2 years ago 7
nothing worse than abusing an innocent and defenseless human being, whether its a child or an elderly person
WKaliberr 2 years ago 3
very touching
dsgaepno 2 years ago
i was sexually abused as achild by my dad....it started when i was three and did not end till i was 7 it ruined my whole life is all i can say
ash16robpatt 2 years ago
i will pray for you.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
@ash16robpatt :{ ruined your whole life? Your letting it control you? that's not healthy! :o everyone copes differently true but don't let it control you :} i'm slowly healing myself.
akatsukisunshine 1 year ago
I was abused by my step grandfather when i was 6-7 for years until i turned 10, and then it stopped. I think it messed me up in some way. I still hate him! he disgusts me..
kriss18robinson 2 years ago
it is disgusting, and happens to many grandchildren. try not to hate. i will pray for you.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
thank u for telling your story..it's so rare that men would speak up and go through the healing process. u can see mine, as well.
love u,
suppoting u,
admiring u.
:)
malloryToU 2 years ago
thank you.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
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I feel sad for you.
tatanalaa 2 years ago
you shouldn't. speak out against sexual abuse and turn to Jesus Christ for salvation.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
Well, I wasn't completely sexual abused. But this guy made me do nasty stuff when I was only 4. It may sound very stupid, but he gave me candies for doing bad stuff I was too little to distinguish things. No penetration, but what still hurts is that, he's my own brother. He was meant to take care of me while parents weren't at home, but he, he just did what his sexual intuintion told him to do. He was too stupid to realize the harm he caused in me. I'm sorry for everyone who's been through this.
nantyliana 2 years ago
thanks for your story, very interesting, not uncommon, either.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
I can't understand your pain at all. However, I can respect it and I realize just how hard it must have been for you to speak up. Hopefully you'll come out of this as a very strong person. :)
Beautiful vid. <3
Boofeh 2 years ago 3
thank you for the complement. Jesus has healed my pain. God bless you.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
I was sexually assaulted when I was 10 by a 10 year old girl. I couldn't speak about it till I was 14/15/16. It's the heaviest burden I'll ever have to carry. Another one of my friends was also sexually assaulted by a adult male. There's creeps and wackos everywhere.
Good luck and have a great life to everybody else who have gone through this.
bloomzhs065 2 years ago 2
thanks for your comment.
WCSLdglas 2 years ago
one time my friend walked alone at night in the streets and this dude with a hoodie he kept following her then he reached his hands out for my friend luckily i was there and i grabbed a rock and threw it at his head! me and my friend made a dash for it! so yeah we were lucky well my friend was
polar1panda 2 years ago
my friend & i almost got raped at different times...she wuz walking home from arbys & then a black dude with cornrows & a scar under his eye grabed her & she in2 her ear"im goin to rape u & kill u bitch"
then i wuz walking home from school alone and he wuz following me Im glad that he didnt get either of us bcuz we r like sisters....lucky for me that wen i got clos