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  • i used to get depressed over unrequited love...then i took an arrow to the knee

  • I think the only way I get by is to live for the moments when this person and this situation is not on my mind. Those times are always there in between the dark moments. Even if it's just for a little while it's better than nothing.

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  • I'm in a situation of unrequited love. Its the worst feeling that I've ever felt in my life, I can't go-on without her. She means the world to me, my heart refuses to accept the fact that she'll never be mine. I'm in a depression, all I ever do or want to do anymore is sleep, when I sleep, I usually don't dream, sleeping keeps me from thinking. I often contemplate suicide, I don't know what to do, I truly want to die.

  • @catclaw357 Same here. But don't top yourself. Trust me, it's hard work but stick with what you know to be true. Anyone that can feel it will eventually get it. There's a better day around the corner. Truly. :)

  • @catclaw357 well said johnny x Catcaw no woman is worth being that upset over, someone who wants and deserves you will be just round the corner and make everything ok again, just hang in there xx

  • I am going to have a drink.

  • shit happens...

  • M so in love with the quote and your piece of writing. Its simply beautiful! I could in every way relate to every word you typed in there. Its super! Hope to see more of your work! :)

  • Jasper & his kind remind me of dementors from Harry Potter, soul stealers - but at least he never slagged off the fiancee to Iris before he proposed, cried over the phone he couldnt give her face to face closure as she may look at him and not love him anymore(?!) oh or wait until her birthday to announce he's knocked her up either.....

    Thanks for wasting what should have been the happiest years of my life.....Loser ;0)

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  • this song makes me cry so bad and this movie works perfectly with it. Love it!

  • that's a very moving video.. especially the text in the beginning, really well-made!

  • the piece of writing at the beginning nearly made me cry. It's the worst feeling in the world, every day I wake up wanting to die and every time i see him my heart tears apart with the agony of knowing that I'll never be with him..

  • When I first saw this movie and the opening monologue I had no idea what Unrequited love was but truthfully I knew what it was but just didn't know that it was called "unrequited love" I know it all too well. yes indeedy. Great movie

  • dis is my 2nd c0mmentin dis vide0...alth0 ive said i m0ved 0n, there r jus th0se days dat i cant get him 0utta my head...& n0t dat i see his child 0h g0sh it kills me...its dis never endin pain, but i d0nt wish him anythin bad...true l0ve lets g0...<3

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  • I am on the receiving end of this problem. The guy has been in "love" with me for over 15 years and he says he can't give up. I am married to someone else. I have always been very nice to him, because I feel so sorry for him. Reading these comments only makes it worse for me. I wish I could do something to help him move on. I can't force myself to have feelings I don't have.

    I just realized how bad this can be. I hope you can all move on. Life is too short to be spending it this way.

  • guys, dont worry. i was madly in love with someone i couldnt have, and who woud never even know i breathed.. i have to say, it is harder then anything else you can go through. i should know. but the thing with unrequited love is that it doesnt last. not to say it cant go on for years, but once your ready- you can gather up the strength and courage to cut that person out of your life, and that it will pass.. i promise. it wont be like this forever. peace and love xx

  • It has come to the point where I can´t stop thinking about him. Everything I do reminds me of him, and days at school I try to avoid him as much as possible. I absolutely hate him but I love him at the same time. I love him. I love him so damned much.

  • @pomfan07 leaving to spain in the fall and i need support from everyone here

  • She left me a few days ago. We were together for a year, but we were good friends before we started dating. I loved her so much. She loved me too. A few weeks ago we just stopped talking though...I wanted it to work out. I really really did. She said she just didn't feel the same any more. I gave her everything of me, and now it feels like there's nothing left. I have no motivation to do anything, I don't want to let go of the most beautiful person I've ever met. I don't want to let go..

  • I'm going through that right now, but i think i may have actually forced him into accepting the inevitable fate which is us together

  • i have a heartache like this now too_i (L)my ben. OMG

    CRY!!!!!!! :'(

  • Can I just say that you're all wonderful. A lot of people could easily have left silly or mocking comments but you've all been so lovely and supportive and understanding of each other :) I'm glad you all like the video x x

  • I love him. I love him so much. He doesn't love me. He can't love me. Because I'm a guy too. I wrote a Valentines card for him, but I couldn't send it. I bought a teddy bear with a heart pillow on it for him, but I couldn't give it because I just couldn't. Fucking unrequited gay love's a bitch.

    If only he knew how much I could care for him.. If only he fucking knew how much love I'd give him.

    Fuck it, I'm going to go and cry.

  • Mahn thats tough. :( i know its hard to believe someone when they tell u they really know how you feel but i really do. i love this girl so much and i know that she doesnt love me. whats worse is she keeps getting into realationships with guys and then she breaks up with them and then she likes someone else only its never been me no matter how hard i try i will never be able to love someone and i only wish she knew how much i love her :( :'( unrequited homosexual love is shit to be honest

  • that word makes me think of me and a certain somone and of Dante and Beatrice

  • the best thing to do is move on...you can't make someone love you no matter how hard you try...let the person be happy && wish them happiness is the only solution, well it was my solution...=]

  • true we can't control...the buddhist tell you to let go...but be honest it hurts...

  • 'On My own' has to be one of the most tragic songs of all time. So it's pretty depressing that it sums up my feelings.

  • I've come to understand that we can't control other people...we can't make someone love us....and I think we put people on pedestals, those we can't have...but they are just people.....

    Better to find someone who can love you...and if you like someone just tell them....if they reject you...atleast you had the courage to speak...and it empowers and strengthens you....you won't be trapped anymore...you'll find love....it should be reciprocal.

  • unrequited love is a b*tch...

  • agreed.

  • Shit man, i hate unrequited love. It gave me heartache, depression, misery, and turned me into an alcoholic!

  • nice song. Another great unrequited love song is "The Lonely Moon" from Tenchi Muyo. A sample:

    Sometimes I cry for you

    Knowing you don't want me to

    Sometimes I whisper to the stars up in the sky

    That I want to find the way to your soul

    Kiss in the sun when morning comes

    You don't seem to count the hours

    When we are not together

    The Japanese version has been my signature song for karaoke for years.

  • I have shared your pain, with the heart-breaking agony over that person who just doesn't love you. My guy was also aware of my feelings aswell and played his mind games for 6 years. I took him back so many times, and each time he never changed. He is the same guy as Jasper and Big from Sex and the City. He wanted me at hand and to be off limits to anyone but him but never completely wanted me. But that has ended now, finally left him behind and moved on.

  • hey awesome vid!

    another really good unrequited love song is 'not that girl' from wicked. its positivley heartbreaking.

  • @amountamount I agree! check out my vid of me singing it :) x x

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  • there were worse tale than yours mate, when you have loved someone and you have a perfect chance to get things right for 3 long years, but somehow this moron letting it gone away just like that...

  • i decided not to believe in love anymore (u can say i had an iris moment ... i met this guy who was like perfect :so i thought and way after he decided to introduce me to his wife ... then he was like well can't we still be friends? ... so i deleted his number and went out to drink

  • OMG the same thing happened to me :(

    but "my" man was kind of an ass..he recognizes my feelings towards him and didn´t stop playing games with my heart ...

  • i know ur pain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • I'm suffering horribly on the exact same thing. I've liked this girl ever since the year started, she was really fun to be with and stuff, but i wish i never told this one guy who told his friend who's a gossiper, who yelled out my crush at the lunch table. i wish i never told anyone and never had to go through this.... and now She's been in EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of my dreams for a MONTH. the worst part is that I'm only in SIXTH grade and i know that it's gonna keep getting worse

  • kid you got a long way to go

    and its only going to get worse

    work out...incessantly..it helps it go away for a while everytime..

  • what's her number? let me talk to her. it ain't right like this!

  • Oh, man, I feel your pain there - five freaking years of it. People just use that kind of thing to manipulate you at that age (IDK about now, I haven't 'liked' anyone for five years). Best thing to do is ask, but I know how difficult that can be, so I won't advise either way.

    I hope you find happiness ^^.

  • have you ever had dreams of the one you love unrequited? I haven't spoken to mine in 3 years, live thousands of miles away, and in my dreams he assures me he will return to me, but now is not the time. fucking twisted, eh?

  • wow I have really come a long way, I am glad to say I no longer have feelings for the girl I used to love since it became clear that no matter what I did she would never love me. for all the others out there experiencing unrequited love I have some advice. forget about her no matter how hard the pain is, you must take her out of your mind and throw out any feelings you have for her. I know it may be unthinkable but I have done it and so can you. After guard your heart from unrequited love

  • That is probably good advice, but very hard to do. Letting it run its course is easier and gets it out of your system by the time it's over with.

  • Yeah thats me..

    I'm feeling pretty awful now too :(

    Those words at the start were like i was reading about myself..

    Well apart from the "man" part i just replaced that with girl..

  • Poor Iris...she is so sweet...THAT JASPER IS SUCH A ASSHOLE!!

  • MattWalton93,

    That is exactly how i am feeling:/

  • I think I'm in this cruel feeling right now because I have fallen in love with this girl I know. Apart from the fact that I've seen her looking at me a few times and I think she either may like me or she may just be checking if Im looking at her if she feels creeped out. I just dont know what her real feelings are for me but I really wish I could be with her, but I'm loosing hope.....

  • been in love with a girl for 3 years.... the quotes are true... they've been the worst and most dark times I've ever gone through... you find yourself staying friends only so you don't lose their company because it matters so much to you

  • Im trying to get over a girl myself. The worst part is she wants to stay friends and I love being around her even though she doesn't love me back. I really find myself wishing I never met her.

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  • strong feeling unrequited love.......i have suicidal thoughts because of it...

  • Hang in there man. I lost my wife of 10 years. Time heals everything. It just takes time.

  • thanks man. its very hard to get over when its your bestfriend lol....and im really sorry about your wife.

  • The worst part about unrequited love, is how the heart is destryed in the process... asfter the pain, it's just as if one had just losen the abillty to love.

  • Sadly, it can take years to heal...

  • yea, im ready to just give up on love all together, ill find happiness somewhere else

  • Unrequited love is a kind of grief. Your heart itself is totally numb one moment and screaming the next.

  • i absolutely agree. unrequited love is the worst thing in the world, and iris describes it perfectly. i love this film because when i watch it at least i can forget for a while that i have loved the same person for over 2 years who love me :(

  • even worse when its ur best friend. now thats rough

  • dude the exact same position.......what sucks more too....is like this is the first person ive ever felt this much for in my life and now my heart is fucking shattered...not only do i have to live in the agony of this kind of grief but i have to live in agony because were really good friends and she has a boyfriend.....i absolutely hate this fucking feeling.

  • the same girl for 2 years and still counting. worst feeling in the world, without a doubt

  • i did like iris' story more, although for me i could relate to amanda's story more because i have a boyfriend in the military

  • There is nothing worse than loving someone who feels he is incapable of loving anyone... :'( I feel for anyone going through this very thing. Perhaps one day we will find the perfect match, but for now we keep searching for them and jumping from relationship to relationship. I wish the one I am in love with, could see past the things he has been through, and love me in return. To believe there is a woman out there who thinks he is perfect...As, I do. His smile, laugh, kisses, body, all perfect<3

  • love this movie so much!

    and love the songs they played especially the ones that Hans Zimmer produced!

    You should have with the music played "Iris and Jasper - Hans Zimmer"

    that would have been a good fit, but this song itself is good though!

    Awesome video (:

  • This movie made me cry buckets. When I saw Les Mes i cried buckets. I'm crying now too because I also love someone who does not love me, and keeps leading me on like Jasper does. But I still love him. Seeing this and knowing others are going through it makes me feel a bit better. I hope that things get better for all of you, I really do.

  • yea I know exactly how you all feel I too am going through a unrequited love for a girl who simply does not love me back nomatter what I do. and it is the worst feeling I have ever felt in my entire life.

  • same here, i feel numb

  • same here mate! oh well 4 months later hope you feel better. This has just happened to me to I've never felt like this before hope the pain goes soon!!!

  • same here! It really does hurt!

  • yeah i know how u feel man.

  • "This video is for anyone who's ever felt the sheer agony of loving someone who doesn't love you back. "

    I know how Iris felt as well...cos im going it thru now

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