Early Warning Signs of Domestic Violence- - Ask Chauntel-Relationship Advice

[StiffyBoy56]

The first warning sign of domestic violence is when some big mouth bitch wont shut the fuck up & do what she is told. When she wont cook, clean or get on her knees & do what God designed her for. When she starts to think she a mans equal. Domestic attitude adjustment is sure to follow. LADIES: Are U tired of getting kicked in the head? Try being less of a cunt for a change. Keep a cock in your mouth to help U shut the fuck up. THIS HAS BEEN A PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT.

[StiffyBoy56]

The FIRST Early Warning Signs of Domestic Violence is being a big mouth insubordinate bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The SECOND warning sign is you justifiably tasting your husbands fist against your mouth.

ANY QUESTIONS????

[HairH2O]

@StiffyBoy56 LOL

[serenecelene]

@gypsymarika This sounds like what happened to me. My ex was becoming physically abusive, and his verbal abuse was escalating drastically. One of the last straws was when he got drunk and beat up my innocent bird! All the toys in my birds cage were destroyed and my bird was missing features and his beak was cracked open, and to this day he claims he never hurt my bird. He just "broke the toys." Why? "Because it was fun." My bird is safe now, and I am praying now for my ex's demise. <.<

[askchauntel]

@serenecelene thank you for sharing ur story

[askchauntel]

@serenecelene wow God Bless you! thank you for sharing your story!

[vduke]

@BennyJennyJ1 abandoning them is the only way. The person you love is the illusion he made himself out to be. If he were to hit you or cuss you out one the first date, you would leave.

Very simple.

[saffnpepa]

abuse is premeditated violent crime against an individual to destroy the life of him or her. its never a relationship. its power and control and theres no love in it at all. the words love and relationship are used as a blanket to cover up the crime and change the public perception of whats really going on. victims are often spiked with drugs and paraded in public. watch out for those who point the finger making negative suggestions about individuals. predators are trained. victims arent.

[saffnpepa]

they are not jealous. they use jealousy an excuse and say they are to try and justify their actions but the ones that attacked me admitted they arent jealous of their victims. they play jealousy games to emotionally hurt you saying if youre not jealous you dont love them and if you dont say you love them then youre nasty and uncaring. they spread flase allegations in public about those they attack to destroy the image of victims and boost their own popularity. they are often religious too.

[askchauntel]

@gypsymarika i am so glad to hear that you made it out. stay strong. be encouraged. take it oneday at a time (:

[Aldosfuturewife1]

Good intro Chauntel... thanks for posting this. As you can see, my SN is "aldosfuturewife"...i made this a few yrs ago and since then this boyfriend of mine , as of yesterday, put his hand on me...didn't hit me...but grabbed my arm and shoved me away from my car as I was trying to leave after a bad argument we had. My arm hurt and I told him he hurt me. He also displayed (as usual) 5 out of the 6 signs you mentioned. 3 yrs of this.. It's tough when you're in love..and I know I need to leave him.

[VadiaRotor]

Well, in Russia, there is a female proverb about husbands: "If he beats me, it means that he loves me". And so, domestic violence is especially widely spread in Russia, because, for many reasons, women accept their husbands doing that. I think, if a man strikes a woman, he probably thinks that he demonstrates his physical strength but the truth is he shows his moral weakness.

[nickyjones08]

Wow Chauntel, your singing voice is amazing! I see the warning signs now but it is too late, and I already married and Inlove, what advice do you have for young women who are married and in love and noticed the signs after the fact? I'm 24, my hubby never really beat me before but he is very jealous and he really would kill me if I cheated or If I were to leave him....

[Divine3231]

THANK YOU QUEEN FOR THIS VIDEO

[askchauntel]

@Divine3231 u are so welcome! and thank u for u beautiful comment (:

[liyish]

I am survivor.. You are right on point all the signs are true.. When I have a child I want to teach them about domestic violence from early age so when they start dating they don't just look only for love get blinded by love and miss all these signs.

[askchauntel]

@liyish wow I am so sorry that you had to experience that...but that is a very good idea...infact it is essential....u should tell others about ur story

[tommybrown187]

i think the greatest issue is if the person allows it to happen.Its usually starts with small things that are allowed to pass.Then as the abuser gets more comfortable and see its acceptale it becomes more blatant

[askchauntel]

@tommybrown187 great point! i totally agree!

[tecmo1]

aw man... after i heard you say the 1st warning i was like YUP! than you said number 4. i was like WOW! i know a girl that is exactly like that! im not trying to persue her tho. but i will warn my buddy and show him this vid. You are the best!!!

[askchauntel]

@tecmo1 so glad u found it helpful (:

[bol75]

Beautiful Woman Chauntel, I like the way you sing!

[askchauntel]

@bol75 thank u so much for ur kind words!

[SirJackBranning]

Real talk yeh but what if its the opposite you cant say 99 percent of the domestic violence is started from guys, girls provoke it and thats when all hell breaks down but i know its wrong but some of yall ladiez beat up guys 2, and we get the blame for domestic violence, and the harsh thing about it we keep it silence , cause we dont want the po-po`s to know that we got beaten up a chick, but on a serious note, IT TAKES TWO to Tango,

[askchauntel]

@SirJackBranning are us saying that it's the woman's fault that she is getting beaten?

[gregory483]

Chauntel:

Domestic violence can also be more subtle. For example, the person may say that are "helping" you to improve yourself by saying you're 'fat' and you need to get to the gym or that you would look prettier if you would put on makeup or style your hair in a certain way. etc.

[askchauntel]

very good point greg! I am so glad u mentioned it!

[ITZTRAG]

lol

[Fsbren13]

Nice Question, Chauntel!

This Is Real Cool!

[askchauntel]

so glad u liked it !!!!

[Fsbren13]

Oh, Thank You, Then.

Be Your Ass Sexy & Healthy!