Why is there more drama in a lesbian relationship?

[seventyfiveismygrade]

yep! blame it on hormones!!!

btw...add me up in facebook=mariayadnalu@yahoo.co­m

[roxannetia]

Okay I got a question that I hope you answer, well I've had a few girlfriends in the past and they all left me without warning. Thanks to them I am scared as hell that my current girlfriend might do that to. Is there any signs or way of knowing that she will leave?

[vassupimnina]

and have you ever cheated on a girl?

[vassupimnina]

how do you get over a fear that your girl might go back to men?

[reginefromrehovot]

weird i'm straight but im watching your vids mmmm??

[YoSoyJesus]

jenna i love you!

[enjoythetunes]

I know guys like this too... *sigh*

[KittyKaity100]

What should you do when your girlfriend tells you that she and another girl kissed?

[BeccaSphere]

I sing the theme for lesbiananswers in my shower..

[24kayysee]

my question is, what do you do when you like a girl who has a gf but that girl has mixed emotiones for you?

[lethalpelican]

'once you have dug your fingers into somebody you like' HA!

[TheAshleyklein]

women are so complicated creatures!! haha! i like that! I could'nt agree more. I'm 24 and I'm listening to Jenna's words of wisdom! She's like 18 I think? well, maturity doesn't come with age ^^, Anyhooo.. I like women even if they're complicated. That's the most exciting part they're not Boring creatures! ^^,

[meaningoftheunicorn]

ahaha, speaking as a fag female very true...

[FallenAngel5179]

How do you deal with extreme jealousy?

[ArgentineBard]

What should you do when your best friend tells you that he/her is gay?

[loveJesseMcCartney13]

@ArgentineBard You can take it how you want it. He/she is still the very same person he/she was the minute before they came out to you. He/she didn't change and they will be the same person. Being gay doesn't define who you are at all. It's only a small part of someone. If you need time I think they should give you that time, but if you choose not to accept it than that's your choice. You have to ask youself if you want to lose your friendship because of their sexuality. Hope I helped!

[ArgentineBard]

@loveJesseMcCartney13

Thank you soooo much!! you helped me keep my bestfriend

[loveJesseMcCartney13]

@ArgentineBard no problem at all! I'm glad I could help :)

[TheMgould1]

i am always scared of losing her...

i love you syd! <3

[HopeLoveFeelingless]

"once you have dug your fingers into somebody you like" omg xD

[MiamTslotatLove]

i like your hair, Imma lesbian... i think... and imma keep mine longgg!!!!!

[gabbiebrunette15]

Are you a lesbian? I'm so confused..

[KatyPerryShani]

@gabbiebrunette15 Yeah, she is or she's bisexual ^ ^

[FrazzleAndTheWolf]

I want to have a relationship with another woman, but I'm scared because of all the problems that seem to come with it, especially about the stereotypically short livedness of these type of relationship.

Oh and, humans in general are complicated. Don't insult our gender by making judgements like that.

[pappyrus1]

def. subscribing.

[BGiirlZ]

WHY havent I found you before? lol you make VERY good points and NOW I know how to avoid half the things you were talking about on this video. And don't act like you don't want an opinion on your hair haha I prefer long :) and as a girl who likes to ramble also, its ok :D

[evilbitchize]

What do you do when your girlfreinds freind asks if she can kiss her (your girlfreind) to see if she is a bisexual. gah! My girlfreind was asked this by a freind. my girlfreind then asked me. I said "Hell no." And etc..

[cupcakecutiepie13]

long :)

[evilbitchize]

But a question. hym..

What do you do when you have told your family that you are lezbian/gay and that you are datting her. Though she/he hasn't told theirs that they are bisexual/lezbian/gay?

And how do you handle when they haven't "came out of the box" yet with their family?

Cuz Skyler is well.. yeah

[evilbitchize]

So I hate drama. I try not to start it. Though I am clingy (as is skyler.) And I am verry possessive. I guess you could say. Though I don't mind her talking to others. It is when they flirt with her or whatever that I start becomming possessive. Other than that I love for her to go have fun with her other freinds.

[Iscutiecab]

Shit.

I am the worst girlfriend ever.

[evilbitchize]

@Iscutiecab I'm sure you are not.

[meghunshow]

5 people are homophobes O_o

[evilbitchize]

@meghunshow Don't those get on your nurves? haha

[meghunshow]

@evilbitchize ya

[Wizzard323]

I thought that's how we write :"possissive" .

[enjoythetunes]

long hair? you look awesome

[yo5612]

i'm sorry, i just sent you a personal message... awkward...

[nukeallislamiclands]

@yo5612

Sorry you're a silly twat :D

[yo5612]

@nukeallislamiclands Sorry, but you're an asshole. ;) I hope someone nukes your face. :D

[nukeallislamiclands]

@yo5612

What do we have here??? Someone's feelings got hurt huh?? LMFAO!!!! :D

They say THE TRUTH HURTS.... Please try to get over your stupidity and except it.

[yo5612]

@nukeallislamiclands First thing's first. It's correction time! :D

When you say "Someone's feelings got hurt", you are implying that someone is the action of feelings getting hurt. Get rid of the apostrophe. Also, you need a comma before "huh."

Second of all, assuming you're a man, when you say silly twat, it implies that you think vaginas are silly. Sounds kind of homosexual to me...

Finally, I am not a complete lesbian. I'm a two on the Kinsey Scale. Have a nice day, Dip Shit! ;)

[AnNi3Truong]

I love your shirt...

[tank8882]

umm not to be rude but key words lesbian relationship of course there well be drama even I know that and I'm in a committed relationship with these perfect girl

[xAwkwardGirlxX]

I beat mygf when she doesn't listen(:

[epao1987]

The best thing to do when there is drama is just to apologize n get sweet not like a  all retarded and get so sensitive :P ahh If theres drama get sweet !!! Thats all they r looking for !!!

[SongsCheerMeUp]

Do you find girls or guys more confusing? Why?

[evilbitchize]

@SongsCheerMeUp I lyke this question. ;)

[SongsCheerMeUp]

@evilbitchize thanks :) like it so she can see and make a video on it <3

[evilbitchize]

@SongsCheerMeUp Okay will do!

[bikerglz1]

clingy and attentive....i think u have just described my gf LOL...great vid :)

[overeighteen711]

Long hair!...but you already knew that

[llamaxluv]

she got it hands down!

[emounicornx3]

Im bi and I really like this girl and shes lesbian, how would I ask her out??? 

[6evorev6]

I think it's simple, women in western society are psychologically abusive, men are trained to just "suck it up " an ignore it, however women are not so trained an if you a viper tongued bitch tries to sneak in some shit it turns into a shit storm because neither will tolerate it. However since women are so used to abusing males they do not know when to stop until someone blasts them in the face.

[xMIH4RU]

There's never any drama with my girlfriend and I honestly. The fact that we're both girls makes a lot of things a lot easier. But as dorky as it sounds, I think it's because we're soulmates. We've always been able to understand each other. u___u

[evilbitchize]

@xMIH4RU Haha I lyke that statment. "we're soulmates." hehe. That's how I feel with Skyler.

[bakuganluver12]

why dont straight guys understand that lesbians dont want dick?

[YoSoyJesus]

@bakuganluver12

i can answer that one. Most of them see it as a challenge that they must rise above. They must get the lesbian to show that they are superior. You're better off telling guys you're just not interested than you're a lesbian..

[zazenzach]

@bakuganluver12

why dont lesbians understand that not all straight guys think that?

[NemonicLee]

@bakuganluver12

I get the feeling they are more attracted to lesbian women more so than straight women, ironically. I know I'd totally "tap it" if a lesbian wanted me to bed her (especially if she has her lover with her.) But we all know that won't happen. *Forever Alone face*

[MissCracker14]

hahah I get the fuss part, all the other girls around me are like that & I hate it but I don't personally think i'm like that. hehhe

[millianne55]

My lgbtq group respects you ^^ Keep up the amazing work here on youtube!

[IdeSixPott]

He notado que desde que acepté que soy gay, ¡me parece que cada chica lo es también! O que todo el mundo se dará cuenta de que lo soy. Lo sé, esto suena paranoico, pero es así jaja =S ¿Será normal?

[andreitapd90]

@IdeSixPott a mi me pasa exactamente lo mismo xD

[IdeSixPott]

@andreitapd90 lol ¿Por qué ocurrirá esto? Es así, ahora cada vez que salgo a cualquier sitio estoy como "alerta". ¿Ya tu familia y amigos lo saben?

[andreitapd90]

@IdeSixPott La verdad esque no le e dicho a nadie, pero todos mis amigos lo saben igual xD y si alguien me pregunta digo que si, pero por algún motivo mi familia no se da por enterada ¬¬ y aun no estoy preparada para decirlo tampoco, creo... ¿y tu familia?

[indianavexen]

You are just so pretty! It's hard to listen sometimes and I catch myself just watching! That totally defeats the purpose of the videos, but I think you deserved the compliment. <3

[redz0709]

what do i do if when i look at a girl and my girlfriend gets mad but i do it because i can't help it.

[MegaDaedae13]

Umm..I like one of my best friends and weve kind of dated but she says shes not gay what does it mean?

[luckynumber04]

i am a female, and when ever i look at another female i get those butterflies and i like them and all.. i was wondering what the next step was.

[XxCannibalxPrincessx]

@luckynumber04 make friends with them(:

[luckynumber04]

@XxCannibalxPrincessx i am friends with her . we are going to hang out soon and shes gonna spend the night(: but should i ask her if she likes me ? or just kiss her, cuz shes bi.

[samiam1821]

You should try the short maybe like a shoulder length thing would be cute

[TransmissionHydrogen]

If you cut your hair short I actually might cry! But you're so beautiful so short hair would still look nice :)

I have a question: How do you let someone know you're a lesbian without being to 'in their face.'

Its just, sometimes when I'm interested in a girl I want her to know I'm a lesbian, but I don't know how to go about it!!!

[MultiBlicker]

i wish i had seen this...video BEFORE my last relationship

[Alcoabball21]

Can you please rule the world? <3

[blonde198821]

keep your long hair lol

[blonde198821]

Jenna do you like piercings and or tattoos? :)

[purplemonster38]

I don't know if i'm a lesbian but i really find your advice useful even if it isn't really focused on a unsure chick like me.

[destiny95dolphin]

please keep long hair

[helloimally]

Long hair, just saying =)

[HoapiliKealoha]

Question: if i have a bf and this girl likes me a lot its been about a year and only couple days ago she told me but i only like her as a sister like nothing more than that and she keeps asking me questions what me and him do or what we are talking about. is she jeleous or something? idk how else to tell her i already told her i only like her as a sister or a close friend. and i dont wanna be mean or a jerk head and say i dont like you like that. i just dont want to hurt her feelings.

[vanityinsanity6661]

i also have a question: how do you know if someone is a lesibian caz i have a crush on this girl and i dont know if she is gay what do i do???

[HoapiliKealoha]

@vanityinsanity6661 dont worry i like this girl in my class too but just try go up to her and ask if she wants to hangout you can start from there and then get to know her. and dont just tell her you like her right away she might freak out and think its gross. so just take your time.

[Kathy96xD]

@lovereid I 100% agree with you on "falling for a bisexual who has a boyfriend but says they like you" 100% agreed. Jenna help please <3

[lovereid13]

almost every single point applies to me...wow. I needed this soooo badly.

[apblue07]

short hair! i really think you'll look good with short hair :) or try this buz thing that juliet simms did look it up :P

[NiknSaf]

I laughed because this is so true... every point you raised, i was just like 'yup... yup... yup' ;) (long!)

[GirlsAloudGeek]

I just noticed she's got a pool table.. :)

[lovereid13]

I have a question for you: how do you deal with dating a bisexual? or falling for a bisexual who has a boyfriend but says they like you

[xxxEMOlovevxxx]

@lovereid13 oh, i am in that situation :(

[nukeallislamiclands]

@lovereid13

Not that I feel like dick slapping you, but, most women are stupid. They reason with emotional feelings and not logic..

There's no such thing as a lesbian, like a chick saying she doesn't need food, she's in a state of denial.

Drama is what happens when two state of denial stupid bitches get together and try to go without a man giving them what they need, Giving them what their bodies are specially made for, meanwhile, they try and go against their humanity

[yo5612]

@nukeallislamiclands Sexuality is an uncontrollable part of nature. Also, many people who hate homosexuals are homosexual themselves. PS: If you nuke all Islamic lands, the world will be destroyed. Good thing that includes assholes like yourself.

[nukeallislamiclands]

@yo5612

Do you know what happens to a mare when she is around a stallion??

SHE GOES FUCKING CRAZY

Kinda like you if you ever saw me with my long beautiful hair down, and without you even knowing I have a huge cock :D

Again, what's uncontrolable is you and your sexual frustrations and emotions if you were ever in the same room with me..You would make a mare seem normal..

[yo5612]

@nukeallislamiclands I don't fall for tools. Besides, I'm not a lesbian, I'm a two on the Kinsey scale. Also, considering I hate racist, prejudice assholes, I would not go crazy. All I would do is make you sing soprano for weeks to come.

[evilbitchize]

@lovereid13 ok Yes I love this question. Considering olots of reasons. But My current gf is a bisexual.

[ViviDeathSkater]

I thought about this like 10 videos ago, you would look GREAT with short hair ;D , you have complexion for short hair

[100001663]

hi jenna i just wanted to say that your vlogs have helped me alot. i have had a hard time for the last couple of months with being gay, wondering if this is right, where to meet girls and so on and so forth. your videos have put so much light on what ive been thinking about, and i just wanted to thank you.

[NameSadlyTaken]

BEAUTIFUL eyes :)

[LaSenoraG]

i can't imagine....being with a man is dramatic!

but two same sexed passionate creatures? AMAZING INSANITY LOL

[ShikiaChikaDarkia]

"women.. women are complicated creatures" xDD so true we are

[norahalkadi]

U made me absolutely confused :'(

[NOWORRYS08]

hi i think i find your answers helpful and meaningful in good ways, so i hope you can answer this and this is my question.. how to make lesbian partner happy and secure in your relationship.? .. I hope my question generalized enough.. thanks ^_^

[13ilovejoshua]

how do you know if a girl in 10th gd is les without asking her? :///

[toolfangirl]

how do you be a lesbian in middleschool? i just came out last year to my parents and family...but i want people at school to know whithout me telling them because my schools kinda homophobic...what do i do i mean its weird

[lala567ize]

did u sing the Intron urself??? :DD

[kedminst]

Short!! :D

[phattypoop101]

we have the same ringtone!!!!!!!!!!!

[largenpink]

I fancy you.

[neverendingchrissi]

Keep it long ;))

[MsKmz16]

Why gay can't accept for being gay? thats my question i hope you will answer it.. im so confused..

[welcome2GDparadise]

GENIUS.

[THETiggerstail25]

Medium length or longer

[crazzekidz3]

jenna i think ur very pretty

[lionkinq]

whats your zodiac sign????

[Mrsdramaqueen99]

Hay jenna (: I rely am unsure about my sexuality, I like guys and have been with guys, but not like u know, in bed *cough. And that's a good thing cause I am only thirteen, but my predicament is that whenever I play truth or dare at parties, the pervy boys ask my and my BFF, Brooke to make out. I actually enjoy it. She happens to already be out as a bisexual, and I think I am one too (:

[theperfectlife07]

How does jenna know all this info

[musicmania531]

Here's my question: how to tell if a girl is gay. I know you talked about it already but a more detailed in depth video would be super helpful. For example, it's harder to tell with a feminine girl and that's my major problem, so yea hope you do a video on it

[JaziKasi]

do notttt cut your hair. btw can you go on your formspring it's been 10 months lol

[jardshaw210]

i think u should have ur hair how u want it if u want it short cut it but if not then dont who cares what others think do what u want theres always some1 who will like u if ur hair is short or not but tell me this why would som1 be with some1 for there hair lol :)? like ur with them not for looks its for who they are the looks are just bonus oh and sry i have Dyslexia

[Emflyxox]

You have 69 videos...hehehehehe...I have the maturity level of a 12 year old boy...hehehehehe...hehe

[sarahLOPEZ760]

how do you get over your straight bestfriend you fell in love with ? :(

[silvalover143]

how are u sapost to get over your first?

[silverstarz1000]

Omg it's like you have all o my life's answers! :D I am so happy that I don't do any of the incorrect things lol

[jiandanful]

by a beginner: ARE LESBIANS, ALWAYS RUNNING AWAY, WHEN THEY HAVE A JUST A LITTLE DOUBT 'BOUT YOUR FEELINGS, INSTEAD OF JUST ASKING, IF STHG WENT ,ACTUALLY, WRONG??ok got me, that's my situation. thing is, i still dont get what i could have done so wrong, that made her change her mind bout me and didnt want to go further anymore, though she was interested in me(may be a beginner but i knew she was)

I just dont want to make the same mistake again, if i actually made a mistake!!

[andacmp]

Sunny as always, (cairo egypt).!!

[katminni]

The reason your video does that is because it auto white balances blue and orange is the back and forth from inside to outside light. I'm a film major :D

[ModeratelyModest]

You have a cute voice. xD

[darklayer101]

there isn't more drama in a lesbian relationship... its all depends on how mature the couples are and weather there truly ready to be dating or to be in a relationship  I've dated guys and girls and in all my relationships, the ones that I've had with guys have been more complicated and just drama, drama, drama..all the time. They just were not mature enough.

[blacknwhitetwin]

YEW SHOLDNT DO IT.AT ALL.PERIOD.

[posiearosa16]

What Type Of Lesbian Is You ? And Do You Have Good Relationships?

[mylifeasmaye]

you look good with your long hair but i dont think it would look bad if you cut it either :)

[MsMuffDiva]

jenna anne you have a brilliant mind & well spoken. btw, sorry about the 3 postings. the 1st was my final draft ... plz disregard the 2nd & 3rd.

[MsMuffDiva]

the women are wonderfully complex ... the women that like to argue are complicated.

[MsMuffDiva]

women are complex ... the ones the like to argue are complicated

[GaaraKakashiSasuke]

I think short is worth trying if you want to :) And thanks, this really helped me out.

[TheMemphisPaintball]

you are very, very, very smart.

[JoshuaAlexandre]

You make me wish I was a lesbian. Sadly, I'm just a homosexual male. All gay guys care about is sex, drinking and talking behind people's backs. =/

[ShaxonMayrax205]

Long

[mazizreallycul]

Heya im just wondering, like as a general question, can abuse verbilly, physically or sexually from the opposite or same sex at a young age change the outcome of your sexuality later on in life??? Again, its just a general question, i havnt had to deal with any abuse other then being called fag and gom and all :L

[BrittanyQuesada]

por favor. be my lesbitherapist? :)

[apollo292]

I Think you're awesome with or without long hair so do it if you wanna do it!!

It would chang and sometimes changing is good ^^

[Zilliance]

Fuck you are amazing at understanding relationships. p.s You're gorgeous [=

[unbelieveable5711]

Why do  lesbian relationships last so long?

[yovelaviv]

SHORT HAIR IS WAY MORE SOPHISTICATED, SO YUS!!!!!!!!

[hello00036]

omg stay with long hair totaly

[acrist777]

@Wing2000Man u know the funny thing is, homosexuality dates back to ancient greece, we haven't exterminated the human race yet.... homosexuality is found in over 400 species of animals, and homophobia is only found in 1, which seems unnatural?

[SWhiteStripes]

Wing2000Man if u took the time to make ur dumb comment about lesbians, what do u know ur self about humanity ur self the fact that u let this video bother u and u dare to send horible comments is just rude, Jenna ur awsome screww this guy

[acrist777]

@Wing2000Man there are 7 billion people on the planet, if 8% of them don't want to make babies i'm pretty sure that would be a good thing... and even if they do a lot of gay couples adopt. so stfu. a few gays aren't gonna exterminate the human population because we aren't making babies, i'm sure a solar flare or super nova or global warming would kill us before that.

[Wing2000Man]

@acrist777 listen u F.B. imagine that people millions of years ago used to think like your pervert mind!! you would not even exist !! u think about that B.

[Wing2000Man]

this is 100% WRONG!!!!! , IMAGINE that all girls are lesbians !! this means no life on the planet!, why do people do this?? this is not fair at all. females should be with males and males should be with females. i hope alot of people agree!

[whitefirevampire]

@Wing2000Man I believe their is a reason that the whole world is not gay. I think all "diseased, disabled" or individuals, whatever you want to call it, are here on this earth for a reason. This earth is overpopulated as it is. Gay people are a blessing to this world. Even animal populations have gay parts. The dwarf chimpanzee's entire population is bisexual. The lesbian mothers take care of the young. If gay animals did not exist in some species they would not survive. People need to research.

[drumrgrl814]

Long hair ;)

[shaindeer]

Lol I think you explained my who realationship with my girlfriend :\

[lalocaamy]

can i marry you? i cook :3

[lalocaamy]

can i marry you? i cook?

[libre05]

hilarious!!! THis is SOOOOO true!

[bugz2grrl]

right right lols!! im get mad easily when she doesnt pick up the fone..make me think she cheats on me..or busy with someone else better than me.

[indigoDroog]

you look really cute in plaid :P

[motherrussiaful]

okay so how do you think anyone should approach a straight/gay? girl if you are into her and are not sure if she is gay?

[TheKabamGirls]

I hear your washin machine ! ;)

[FreeloaderLOL]

Ew lesbians

[AshlynnSkylineMusic]

I love your vids!! Do what you want with your hair, but I personally love the long hair :))

[NikkiJacks101]

your an AMAZINGGG person. i wish i could find someone like you but definitely keep the long hair it looks great :)

[luvtospreadtheluv]

My girlfried does EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THOSE THINGS THAT YOU SAID!!!!!! And we've been fighting soooo much nowadays! This was absurdly helpfull Jenna!! Thank Yooou Soooooo Much!!!! <3

[luvtospreadtheluv]

OH MY GOD! THIS VIDEO WAS CRAAAAZY HELPFULL!!! JENNA.. I SERIOUSLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY... I LOOOOVE YOOU!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAA!

OMG... THANK YOU! <3