I watched the video and I am deeply saddened by It's content and the comments posted my mother was single with me and my two sisters I've seen some of the things she had to go through to raise three kids on her own she always taught me to respect women regardless of color and race. And also taught me that having children is a big responsibility and shouldn't be taken lightly there's a cycle that I've seen in today's society and going to break it starting with myself by making sure don't make
Why should we have any compassion for black women? Let me explain, You see what Asian women do their men dont you, they leave them for white men, and black men often leave black girls for white girls. I think if society said black women were the most desirable they would do the same to black men as well, that is leave them for some other race. So tough luck,black women we know if things were flipped you would ditch bm in a heartbeat so whatever we know u have no real loyalty to black men.
@papertreegun lol that is such a lie. BW seem to stick up for BM like crazy. It's pathetic. Look at every accused Bm and you will find BW there supporting them
First of all, I absolutely love your name Mahogany1Vixxen. Also, I agree with you wholeheartedly and I wish I had been able to choose love for myself when I was younger, but I chose to wait for the black man and so needless to say, I am now 45 yo and still single. The conclusion I came to is that Love is Love period!!! Thank you for getting the message out there that bw do not have to settle because it looks like us!
@loveyankee2 that is SAD because I seen my cousin attack his baby mama in front of their daughter and her other daughter and really pissed me off because they kids were crying and the other girl he brought over was just looking she was about laugh and I wanted to jump him so bad that day because you don't jump your baby mama in front of your child.
As a young black woman, I'm 20, and I have been done with black men romantically. Why? The blatant disrespect they show BW in front of everyone and how they brag about it is enough right there. They act like they are Gods gift to women. They compare BW to other races even though when it comes to men, BM lag behind in many things including being a father to their kids compared to other races. I have plenty more too. Black American men are really screwed up
Thank you for sharing your video, my sister. But what you suggest is not the answer for me. I agree that most bm and many ww see black women as a black penis making machine for them. But I am a bw that has worn the color black some place on my body since forever. In short, I will love my people until there are no more stars shining in the night ski. I see black people as so very beautiful. I want jump ship like some coward, because the story is not over yet, it is just beginning. Awake bw
The things you talk about in this vid sound like domestic violence...verbal insults, verbal assualt, psychological damage, etc. It's just not physical, yet...but if you're in a romantic relationship and can say that your partner makes you feel less than human...RED FLAG! No matter the race, ethnicity, etc.
Enough is enough with the BS we as black women put up with. I am in a IR with a wonderful Korean American man. At first, I was just attracted to him just for who he was as a person. But after I started to get the hatred from black men and seeing all of these internet videos and posts about how black men dehumanize black women, I'm happy I made the choice I did. I'm glad that I never was originally attracted to black men either cause it saved me in the end.
@ancel1961 It's not that simple. We're defending ourselves, and as long as were being victimized by the very people that should protect us, were going to to continue to voice this injustice.
Hopefully, Black women will open their eyes and expand their horizons. You don't have to have a Black man in your life. There are plenty of other men and they ARE attracted to Black women. Trust me. I am a 60 year old, dreadlocked mother who would date Black if asked, but has never been asked. The only men interested in me are White; and I seem to have more in common with them anyway. Black men don't see me--I'm invisble to them--and they to me. Wake up young women, please!
@yogini34 its funny because you're dreadlock and these stupid black men claiming that we should go natural, yet when you're natural, they ignore you....assholes!
@tony666ism The Census shows 45% of black men have NEVER married. 20% of the FEW black men who married in 2008, married interracially. Most black men don't want to marry and form families with black women, but they tell us and the world we're terrible because they want to keep us for side sex and to breed dark-skinned babies to keep the population going. We're not humans to them. They don't care about the happiness and quality of lives of black women and the black children they create with us.
Furture will prove this vid to be TRUTH!!!! Black women are now outperforming black men in the educational system and the corporate world. Do not let TV fool you! Black men are used to sell products....that's all!
After 3 failed relationships with black men I gave up on love. I had 3 children and a lot of anger. I have always tried to show love to all people but my black brother I held above all. What did I get in return for the love I gave...pain! Deep, crushing , soul shattering pain..And DRAMA..One day I thought outside of the box and noticed the world beyond me and He noticed me...I have been happily married to a man of another race for 5 yrs . We have formed a loving and supportive family :)
This makes somethings in my life make sense. I have had some horrible experiences with my black brother. I tried relationships with black men and each time I got hurt in very bad ways. I am not saying all just the ones I tried to love. I am now married to wonderful man that really loves me and my children. We have formed a very loving family. I had given up on love altogether before we met. It doesn't matter to me that his skin is different, for the first time I am being loved in return.
They rely on black women to stand up for them when they face discrimination, they rely on black women to have black children, they rely on black women to organize marches when a black man is shot etc etc. But this is all about changing as I type, they are making it harder and harder for us to sympathize, which is not good b/c they have the worse position in society.
just like those same black men didnt like Kiesha Cole cuz they say she bashes them. i was so happy when i heard her songs cuz she was like a guide and mentor and educating to black women saying stand up for urself and dont take any abuse or crap thats not love
Many black men in america are deranged! Pure and simple. They kill each other, go to jail in record numbers and pull down their own communities with crime and violence. Then the run and marry Becky the 1st chance they get. We just have to cut our losses. Write them off and start over with some men who know how to be men.
*To black men stating that they're "highly offended" by white men courting black women is somewhat hypocritical. I've read the "anguish" and the "hurt" expressed by black men who constantly disrespect black women. Black men beat, rape, tear down self esteem just as much as any insecure man on the planet. Don't determine someones happiness based on what you "feel" isn't "correct" when black NBA players date and marry anything but black. It isn't fair!
this video is so true the black man feel that hip hop has elevated him to the status of the white man....lmfao. They feel they can pick and choose of any race. They don't want the black woman reminding them that they are black. Secretly they hate themselves for being dominated by the white man. Unlike black women who are not dominated by the white man. We have risen to the challenge and succeeded despite great opression and have even gotten to the level of white women.
the black woman has become the scapegoat for this phucked up society, and we're not taking it anymore...we're the shyt and anyone that doesn't agree can go to hell...and if that means the black man SO BE IT!! i can live without his azz and any man for that matter....lol
@youngqueen112 By black men publicly disrespecting black women and telling the world that they've turned their backs on us, other ethnicites are now openly disrespecting us because they think it's open season on black women! And because of this it seems as though black women have become the laughing stock among other ethnicities of women!
@betterunited I do feel that its open season on us. I feel somewhat threatened by it too. I hate that we have no protection. :( ......I think we have become the laughing stock among other ethnicties of women too. They have begun to question our womanhood. I don't know about other bw but I feel sad about the fact that I don't really know what a real man is supposed to look like. I feel like not many people sympathize with our struggles anymore and some think our pain is funny.
@Machelle3200, True!, I also find it funny how the latest blogs, 20/20, hot topix, gossip magazines , you name it, are watching "closely" what Black Women are doing next. The focus is really on us for some reason. BM on youtube will continue to fall on their own sords, while BW even as single parents, abused at times, are finding happiness in other places. And nobody in this world, can tell me that this doesn't anger BM (while chasing WW). I just wish it hadn't took us so long to move on......
what I'm saying doesn't apply to all black men but I think some of them approach ww differently ,when I was in class once I noticed how the black guys tone with the white girl was much different , more respectful its like just because your a blk girl you automatically get spoken to differently sometimes their appraoch with you
Fuck all you people...maybe if you weren't all sitting around your computers talking about how screwed up the other sex is and disgracing your race...MAYBE things wouldnt be as bad....f'in youtube scholars (smh)
@tommypickles09 Take your own advice...you're the type of male the video is referring to. You say you hate 80% of all women, call successful black women "bitches" who don't deserve marriage, and instruct other black males not to marry black women. This video will remain as a response to the abuse of evil misogynists like you. The only time you feel the "race" is being disgraced is when mistreatment of black women by black males is called out. You have no problem trashing BW all over the site.
@Mahogany1Vixxen True about these niggers and your vid spoke the words of truth. To many times, unlike my black dad, who happens to be a retired cop, too many NIGGER males think it's okay to fuck a womyn and leave her without doing shit for her (except maybe controlling her, beating her ass and wanting her to pay HIS bills) and being supported by her. Fuck that shit! And they wonder why white men swoop us up! Niggers, not black men, need to learn.
@Mahogany1Vixxen I just fav'd your video. Truer words have never been spoken about these misogynist niggers. Just wait till you see my vid at McD's and the two NIGGERS who think fear, intimidation and attempted RAPE is the way to attack...oops, I mean, "attract" a woman. Fucking niggers.
@tommypickles09 But wait a minute, aren't you sitting around on your computer.,............you stupid asshole!! Your ignorant, racist comments are not needed.
Yes, I definately see this more and more. Like black women think that it is their sole responsibility to keep the black community well populated, but these black men have children and then a nonblack woman comes along and they're out the door quicker than the baby's born. I for one refuse to be this stereotypical black woman. I don't see any self -respecting woman doing this and putting up with black men's BS.
Agree with you. Black women do not to stand up for themselves and not put up with the abuse. It is abuse pure and simple. Black women need to stop having babies without a ring on their finger. If a black man wants a black women to have his child without marriage he is abusing her and the child. Worst of all he does not respect her or see her as worthy.
I normally don't respond to issues like these because It doesn't apply to me, but I do want to say this: Stop blaming a man (black or white) for your problems, you as a adult woman should be smart enough to know your worth. If you don't know what a good man is then you don't need one..so do yourself a favor and get some self-esteem and don't let any man treat you less than you want to be treated. And that goes for black & white.
Part of what you say is true...women should take responsibility for our own destinies, know our worth and find men of any color who know it too. That's what the video is saying.
But you're saying that growing up hearing the negativity of the black community should NEVER have an effect on black women and girls. Um, not realistic. Anyone would absorb negativity if they're bombarded by it. That's why we need to escape from those breaking us down. The abusers are responsible for their actions.
@Papasean7 Once again I say that men (black or white) are not the black woman's problem. No one can dehumanize you without your permission. Black women are some of the most beautiful to ever walk the earth but if you don't know your worth and stand firm, then you're bound to fall to submission of being taking advantage of. Don't let it happen! Simply!
@Mahogany1Vixxen The problem lies with the modern society. They have lost religious values and only pray to money and beauty. But there are still some religious people who value a woman's modesty. So I would advise black women to stop believing in this liberalism and start believing in God! Then God would automaticlally bestwo favors on them! If not in this world, then the hereafter!
@PersonOfBook You're the type of evil man I'm talking about in the video. I've seen your comments. You go around on the site and call black women "whores," say we're ugly while black men are good-looking and worse. I don't know why you came here faking, but you don't fool me. The spirit that fills you is the devil's.
@PersonOfBook@PersonOfBook The Bible doesn't say "women who are whores are evil." The Bible says "no fornication." So, if you are creating those whores by whoring with them, then you are a whore and just as bad. Hypocrite. Black women don't sleep around any more than anyone else. U.S. studies show that black women have LESS sex on average than other women, especially white. Nasty males like you bring black women AIDS and other STDs by sleeping with numerous women, and sometimes men.
@PersonOfBook Google "Sexual Behavior and Selected Health Measures: Men and Women 1544 Years of Age, United States, 2002." Black women have far LESS sex partners than any other group of women on average in their lifetimes. White women have the highest...by far. Black men have the MOST sexual partners of any men - by far. Black women aren't the whores. That would be black men whoring, and maybe the white women they sleep with, because they always get the trashiest. BM and WW bring BW their STDs.
Make that 1544 a 15-44. -> "Sexual Behavior and Selected Health Measures: Men and Women 15-44 Years of Age, United States, 2002." You'll see it on the Center for Disease Control website. That wasn't the only study, either.
@PersonOfBook oh sure its socitys fault Is not black men's fault if they call us ugly fat bitches talking about how superior other women are to us saying no one else wants us but then torment us if we date outside our race As usual its societys fault
@Papasean7 when children grow up being de-humanized, the programming is set. In order to de-program & heal their negative self image, it will take them a life time. And that is only if they are lucky enough to realize they need to de-program.
Wow well spoke. That's right no one can abuse you without your permission. If a black women allows a black men to get her pregnant without marriage she is condoning the abuse. No man would who loves and respects a women is going to make babies with her and yet not marry her. That's like treating her like an animal.
@PorkChopMissPiggy , You can be abused without even knowing some of these BM by just being a BW walking down the street. Dont be a BW walking down the street with confidence, you will get called bitches and hoes in a minute or a BM will bodly walk up on you and grab you or sometimes try to fight you if your not intrested in him, now thats abuse.
@Papasean7 We real black women know our worth. It is just sad and painful to see black men go to other races and treat the beautiful black and intelligent woman like she is a dog. Single women don't even miss ya'll asses.
i notice if black women were to speak more highly about white men then about black men then every one (incuding other black women) would come crashing down on her saying how wrong and racist it is for her to do that
but when black men speak more highly about white women then black women
no one says a word
they figure if black men are saying it then it must be true
that is the truth, I'm with you on that. I think that a black owmen we are going to have to individually fight for our on. But, we can take in sisters that are on the same path and imbrace them for support.
@l7ary, and dollazndiamondz, true and true. I'll add, the media, has an agenda, it's war on black women, and that's all there is to it. Someone told me, she heard a focus group say "society isn't interested in seeing black women/white men couples in film" Thus, they promote accordingly.
actually, I usually see it the other way around. black women, out of curiosity and confusion, often will question or even talk down a man who promotes women of another race over his own ethnicity...ppl, look up mr. and mrs. loving and let it go. love has no color and it's sad that many people truly have been mistaking abuse as love.
I refuse to be a punching bag for misogynistic black men!
Black Men who post hateful propaganda videos are despicable men who don't say anything in defense of black women aren't any better in my book. Love Letters to black women ain't gonna cover it if you don't defend the honor of black women. Love ain't just sweet nothings Love is I got your back and you got mine.
We Settle on what we believe we deserve. Each of us as women as human beings deserve the best. That inclused You, Me my neighbor, your neighbor, he woman that works at 7~11, we each deserve to be treated w/ respect. Don't sell your selves short. I don't. I know deserve the very best!! I don't have a million bucks in the bank yet what I do have in my relationship w/ me beloved is more precous then rubies & gold!!
I really wish she would make more videos. I would like to see more black women speak up about these annoying hateful black "males". I haven't been in a relationship with one of them since 2003. Best desicion I've ever made so far.
Bw are dating out because even though bm who date out try to convince us that were useless and unwanted (pathetic and sad of them, huh?) many men want beautiful, classy bw! Plus, bw don't date other races trash like bm do! I think that's discusting. I want to date/marry good bm but they're lusting after trailer trash ww and pretending good bw don't exsist. I don't get it.
How exactly does your comment help with the abuse that black women experience in the black community? Are you saying everyone who experiences group discrimination should just forget about it and "get along"? Should those white women have forgotten about the feminist movement they meant to benefit themselves? Should black men have forgotten about the civil rights movement they meant to benefit themselves? Or is it only black women who aren't allowed to address our abuse?
this is why we get the attractive & well educated bw, simply because they have high standards just like the attractive ww(notice that you hardly see an attractive ww with a bm) thats because the only ones fighting for thier attention are the trailer trashed ww&ghetto bw..no decent woman puts up with this. im a white man and i loooove bw
There are well educated black women everywhere. (Those with or without a college degree.) Attractiveness and being well educated has nothing to do with having high standards. Women of any ethnicity, "attractive" or not, "well educated" or not, fall victim to low self-esteem, low standards, and other unfortunate characteristics. I see beautiful and well educated women on my campus all the time. I associate with, though not many, a few that have very low self esteem.
The abuse that many black men dole out to black women is unforgivable! I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to abuse. I would never date a man after he hit me even once! First it's a hit then more violent follows!
I totally agree this maybe why Im so picky. I don't put up with shit. Call me a bitch, say I have an attitude, maybe I will live longer. But i will stand beside my man not behind him.
Tell it sistah! I've noticed many of the same behaviors about BM towards BW myself on the Internet social networking sites like Facebook, YouTube and MySpace. Such negativity and nastiness towards Black women to me is uncalled for. Not sure why this has been happening with more frequency over the past 10 years, but since I've been on the web with CompuServe in 1992, I've seen this hatred and evilness grow... doubling every year.
SO disgusting that you feel the actions of a BM who rape, abuse and make misogynist hate speech against BW is acceptable and understandable JUST because his ancestors were slaves. ALL groups have been invaded, oppressed, and/or enslaved at some point in history. How many centuries are you going to get a free pass to harm whomever you want, even innocent women?? Are you kidding me? That just goes to show how much you care about BW...not at all.
Those BM aren't babies. They KNOW right from wrong and CHOOSE to do the WRONG thing. There is NO excuse. Instead of conveniently shifting the blame to "whitey" so BM don't feel so bad about the psychological abuse and crimes, they MUST be forced to confront the consequences of the things they do and say (the women they're hurting) and take responsibility for them. I refuse to overlook it or try to nurse anyone who hate me and sets out to hurt me with abusive words or crimes by just "loving" them
That's a lie sold to women, that they can cure people who make the choice to be evil by just loving them more. Right, because yeah that works...if you're in a relationship with a man and he's beating you bloody, or maybe just publicly calling you every name in the book like these BM on YouTube do to BW, just love him more, right, and he'll be magically cured. Hopefully your mind and your life survive intact. Right?
The elite has the power. Most WM are average, middle class men.
No one said all WM love BW. All I said is BW should overlook color and each should find a man who loves her, yes good WM included. Of course you have a problem with that...because you want BW to be with men who hate them...if it's a BM. You want BW to stand by each and every BM unconditionally, no matter what he says or does to us. That's why they just continue with the abuse, because they know they'll be no consequences.
I agree that is why I refuse to lower my standards for any man. It's bad enough that BM display misogyny towards black women. What makes it even worse is how the media stereotypes black women too.
I hate the stereotypes that black women have to face. We are always the bad guys, Its never looked at how black men treat us. I wish more bw would date outside of their race.
Would you like to go to jail because people who commit crimes share your color? Slavemasters are all long dead. It's stupid to hold someone today responsible for something they didn't do and can't change.
I don't care what "group" you belong to, if YOU as an individual treat me bad, I have NO loyalty to you. If you treat me well you have my love and loyalty. THAT is self-love. Settling for staying single, having OOW babies or having babies with any bad man just as long as he's dark is stupid.
So every generation of bm should get a free pass and shift blame to "whitey" for his behavior, including how he treats bw, for all of eternity. Bw are supposed to go and breed with bad bm because self love is all about breeding kids who look like us. Yup, because all of those babymamas who settle for sharing you with several women or when you're on the road to jail all love themselves, of course.
Always the same old tired excuses. I'm not going to waste my time arguing with sissified bm.
That is why I hate mammies like Melosidad they defend black men even though the black men they defend are scum! I think mammies are worse than those black men vent faggots!
If anyone is guilty of self-hatred it's the mammies!
I agree with almondtealleaf2 and I7ary about defending bm and no one defending bw. look at how 50 cent publicly dragged Vivica Fox's name and reputation through the dirt. Afterwards, Vivica stated in an interview that she would never disrespect or talk badly about a bm. wtf?! 50 cent never even apologized and helped eminem try to drag Mariah down. and black community buys their albums and laughs with them instead of standing up for these women. screw bm!
And the black community wonders why bw are so masuline. No one is their to defend the bw. I am often pissed because many times good bm aren't their to stand up for them as my bm huband is and he's sick and tired of bm treatment of bw. Look at Halle Berry when she made a comment in Essence saying "she tried bm". She later went back and explained her interview saying she wasn't trying to degrade all bm. Many times bm don't do this. How many came against DL Hughely comment to the bw ball players.
I've never dated outside of my race, but I'm in my 30's and I have been raped, physically and emotionally abused as a teenager by bm (suffered severe physical injuries and was hospitalized). I have dated college educated men who tried to drag me into their "player" fantasy world. I am presently not dating but when I'm ready to date I will consider men outside of my race and will not limit myself to bm anymore.
I agree with this video. I will add that even educated black men treat bw poorly. At my college and law school, there were disproportionate amount of bw to bm-in other words, more bw then bm. the bm took advantage of this-bm acted as pimps and treated bw as prostitutes, often referring to bw as hoes and bitches even when they didn't know some of these bw well. bm cheated so blatantly on the bw. bw were catering to their every need and bm didn't appreciate them.
I was very upset with my sister because she believes Rihanna was abusing Chris Brown and deserved a beat down. I scoffed at her defending Chris Brown. Because I know in my heart of hearts had Rihanna been white instead of black Chris Brown would be rotting in a cell with no hope of ever seeing the light of day.
I find black women are too identified with blackness and not our womanhood. Damn the black community to hell! We are women too! Let black men fend for themselves!
Bw have been so brain wash by the black community until its patheic. Thats why I'm seriously dishearted by the black community who have left bw out to defend for themselves including the black churches. I too had to go up against a bw at my job who made the comment that Rhianna must have done something for Chris Brown to attack her almost saying she deserved it. Even the white women attacked her for saying this and asked me why would she say such a thing. Needless to say I was pissed.
BM are fools bw are so pretty but you allow them to treat you messed up thats why they do it and when you put your foot down you now have an attitude ..some bm don't know what they want from observation
Sisters choose a man. They actually pursue alot of the things U say are negative in this video. Plenty men , myself included were not raised by our black mothers to respect our sisters.Most mothers dont get along with our sisters either!HAHAHA!! Its a mess. I dont allow brothers to put all sisters is a bad category when they start all that F*ck them bitches stuff but U shouldnt put all brothers in a bad category like the guy who hurt U either.
wow. this was great, and not only confined to the black community...the hispanic especially dominican community is the same....probably cuz we have A LOT of black in us
Mostly they have no social, economic or political power, which are still seen as manly things. Easier to take comfort and feel like a man by relying on big penis myths (sexual power) and being sexually promiscuous because it's all play. The rest requires actual work.
Thank you for this video, just last week I turned down a black mans advances to go out with me cause I DONT DATE MARRIED MEN, and he chose to give me an elderly brother type advice, saying I should never date a white man and guess what? he was married to a white woman...soooo funny, I just nodded and he asked 4 my number when I was coming down the train....I told him i dont use phones....and walked off.
If black men are getting animosity from black women. I say too many black men deserve animosity ! They have earned it with their misogyny and the constant soul destroying propaganda on youtube and the wider culture. I suggest the good black men speak out against the misogyny and distance themselves from black men vent!
DarkLady, that's what I thought it was at first, another nut case black woman hating black males, like a certain other one on You Tube.
But Mahogany explained that not only does she not need therapy, she is responding to various males who hate black women and have posted unbelivably vulgar things about them. She is not attacking black men, as I understand it, she is responding to these awful psycho websites that sound like a nazi or klansman writing about black women, but nope, its blackguys!
I've heard a story about a young black girl who was raped by four young black youths. The sad part is that Professor Henry Gates tomfoolery got more coverage than the victim of a real crime. Henry Gate's situation would have been diffused if he had simply cooperated with the cops instead of acting like a moron.
Who told you to go out and fight thugs to get our attention? You're the ones angry at everything in the world and look for someone to plummet just to feel better.
Yes...a "smart" black man apparently does know better than to "beat down thugs for black women's attention"...he beats down BLACK WOMEN with his words and expects our attention and affection, because we have a racial loyalty to breed with him! Laughable. Maybe punching a girl to get her attention worked for sissies in preschool.
There are women of all colors doing porn. Most porn stars aren't black women. Most black women DON'T do porn. All of his channels try to prove we're all wannabe porn sluts.
If BW made a channel showing a new black thug getting arrested for killing off his 'hood with drugs/guns each day, you'd be in tears.
If you don't like what the media shows of BM, that's not BWs fault. You're not man enough to face those in charge of media like you're not man enough to face thugs, so you beat down women
They abuse us because we're black and women. It's group bias. So it's ok to point out other types of group bias...racial bias, gender bias...but just not black men's bias against black women? I still haven't gotten a valid reason why not. Funny no one has said black men don't say these things. So then you know it's true that they do, but we're not supposed to talk about it because exposing their abuse embarrasses them. Here's a hint...we wouldn't have to talk about it if they'd knock it off.
But unlike some, I don't advocate begging these men to stop their mistreatment, or sitting around hoping it will happen. They're going to do what they want anyway. Waiting around needing them just puts the power in THEIR hands. It gives them a CHOICE about whether or not to stop the abuse, and they have nothing to lose and everything to gain if they continue. That's why black women should move on with our lives, including finding men (any color) who'll treat us right.
Sorry Mahogany, I couldn't stand to read those postings of black women hating men. Took one glance and had to stop. Just ate lunch and don't wanna lose it.
Black men posting hate against black women ? I'll tell them they are sick for two reasons. Abusing women, and for being racists. Never heard of those "hate black women' clubs. I am not criticizing you for calling attention to abuse, I'm saying it's much, much bigger than black women only as Indian brides are regulary set on fire.
Well if you're completely out of the loop it doesn't make sense for us to talk. Look at the comments on my first video mid-way down the page about BlackMenVent. One of its members who used to create anti-black women videos on youtube killed a black girl. The vids are in my favorites. You can't think that with all of the crimes against black women in these neighborhoods already that these men organizing and arranging hate campaigns against us won't be a problem.
The same mistakes the males in our community have done over the YEARS!!!!
adrinalus 2 months ago
I watched the video and I am deeply saddened by It's content and the comments posted my mother was single with me and my two sisters I've seen some of the things she had to go through to raise three kids on her own she always taught me to respect women regardless of color and race. And also taught me that having children is a big responsibility and shouldn't be taken lightly there's a cycle that I've seen in today's society and going to break it starting with myself by making sure don't make
adrinalus 2 months ago
Why should we have any compassion for black women? Let me explain, You see what Asian women do their men dont you, they leave them for white men, and black men often leave black girls for white girls. I think if society said black women were the most desirable they would do the same to black men as well, that is leave them for some other race. So tough luck,black women we know if things were flipped you would ditch bm in a heartbeat so whatever we know u have no real loyalty to black men.
papertreegun 4 months ago
@papertreegun lol that is such a lie. BW seem to stick up for BM like crazy. It's pathetic. Look at every accused Bm and you will find BW there supporting them
lissaskiell 3 months ago 5
First of all, I absolutely love your name Mahogany1Vixxen. Also, I agree with you wholeheartedly and I wish I had been able to choose love for myself when I was younger, but I chose to wait for the black man and so needless to say, I am now 45 yo and still single. The conclusion I came to is that Love is Love period!!! Thank you for getting the message out there that bw do not have to settle because it looks like us!
Monikblessed 4 months ago 3
lol
tankbrazy89 4 months ago
@loveyankee2 that is SAD because I seen my cousin attack his baby mama in front of their daughter and her other daughter and really pissed me off because they kids were crying and the other girl he brought over was just looking she was about laugh and I wanted to jump him so bad that day because you don't jump your baby mama in front of your child.
TevinGMedia 5 months ago
As a young black woman, I'm 20, and I have been done with black men romantically. Why? The blatant disrespect they show BW in front of everyone and how they brag about it is enough right there. They act like they are Gods gift to women. They compare BW to other races even though when it comes to men, BM lag behind in many things including being a father to their kids compared to other races. I have plenty more too. Black American men are really screwed up
loveyankee2 5 months ago 9
Thank you for sharing your video, my sister. But what you suggest is not the answer for me. I agree that most bm and many ww see black women as a black penis making machine for them. But I am a bw that has worn the color black some place on my body since forever. In short, I will love my people until there are no more stars shining in the night ski. I see black people as so very beautiful. I want jump ship like some coward, because the story is not over yet, it is just beginning. Awake bw
newmindseye 6 months ago
The things you talk about in this vid sound like domestic violence...verbal insults, verbal assualt, psychological damage, etc. It's just not physical, yet...but if you're in a romantic relationship and can say that your partner makes you feel less than human...RED FLAG! No matter the race, ethnicity, etc.
1Meeshe011 7 months ago in playlist Skin Color Issues, Colorism, Light Skin vs. Dark Skin
Blk males are soooo insecure.
kmcl11 8 months ago 17
what kills me is that these ignorant ass black men will sit up and talk about black women like they're not sh't to another race of women!
betterunited 10 months ago
black men are an abomination!!!!!!!!!!!!
betterunited 10 months ago 5
Enough is enough with the BS we as black women put up with. I am in a IR with a wonderful Korean American man. At first, I was just attracted to him just for who he was as a person. But after I started to get the hatred from black men and seeing all of these internet videos and posts about how black men dehumanize black women, I'm happy I made the choice I did. I'm glad that I never was originally attracted to black men either cause it saved me in the end.
DaPrincess007 11 months ago 12
One good thing about living in this country is that we are free to choose
If you feel Black men are not treating you well...Don't date them...And stop whining
ancel1961 11 months ago 3
@ancel1961 It's not that simple. We're defending ourselves, and as long as were being victimized by the very people that should protect us, were going to to continue to voice this injustice.
betterunited 10 months ago 4
Hopefully, Black women will open their eyes and expand their horizons. You don't have to have a Black man in your life. There are plenty of other men and they ARE attracted to Black women. Trust me. I am a 60 year old, dreadlocked mother who would date Black if asked, but has never been asked. The only men interested in me are White; and I seem to have more in common with them anyway. Black men don't see me--I'm invisble to them--and they to me. Wake up young women, please!
yogini34 11 months ago 6
@yogini34 its funny because you're dreadlock and these stupid black men claiming that we should go natural, yet when you're natural, they ignore you....assholes!
2300lisa 6 months ago 2
that really is all they see us as
breeders
did you hear about that billboard they put up
with the little black girl saying
"the most dangerous place for an african american is in the womb"
they said it is irresponsible for black women to get abortions when the black population is so low
tony666ism 1 year ago
@tony666ism The Census shows 45% of black men have NEVER married. 20% of the FEW black men who married in 2008, married interracially. Most black men don't want to marry and form families with black women, but they tell us and the world we're terrible because they want to keep us for side sex and to breed dark-skinned babies to keep the population going. We're not humans to them. They don't care about the happiness and quality of lives of black women and the black children they create with us.
Mahogany1Vixxen 11 months ago 16
Good video.
feldman30012 1 year ago
Furture will prove this vid to be TRUTH!!!! Black women are now outperforming black men in the educational system and the corporate world. Do not let TV fool you! Black men are used to sell products....that's all!
sandroeleven 1 year ago 9
@sandroeleven White people are using stupid idiots to destroy our people, and they do it willing. If i had one wish, black men would not exist!
betterunited 10 months ago
Great video! Very eye-opening. More Black women need to see this.
bronxgirl712 1 year ago
They see black women as a dime a dozen
and they see other women as something you earn
didizemer 1 year ago 7
After 3 failed relationships with black men I gave up on love. I had 3 children and a lot of anger. I have always tried to show love to all people but my black brother I held above all. What did I get in return for the love I gave...pain! Deep, crushing , soul shattering pain..And DRAMA..One day I thought outside of the box and noticed the world beyond me and He noticed me...I have been happily married to a man of another race for 5 yrs . We have formed a loving and supportive family :)
squishychocolate1 1 year ago 19
This makes somethings in my life make sense. I have had some horrible experiences with my black brother. I tried relationships with black men and each time I got hurt in very bad ways. I am not saying all just the ones I tried to love. I am now married to wonderful man that really loves me and my children. We have formed a very loving family. I had given up on love altogether before we met. It doesn't matter to me that his skin is different, for the first time I am being loved in return.
squishychocolate1 1 year ago 9
They rely on black women to stand up for them when they face discrimination, they rely on black women to have black children, they rely on black women to organize marches when a black man is shot etc etc. But this is all about changing as I type, they are making it harder and harder for us to sympathize, which is not good b/c they have the worse position in society.
morningafter86 1 year ago
just like those same black men didnt like Kiesha Cole cuz they say she bashes them. i was so happy when i heard her songs cuz she was like a guide and mentor and educating to black women saying stand up for urself and dont take any abuse or crap thats not love
KieshaJ55 1 year ago 8
Many black men in america are deranged! Pure and simple. They kill each other, go to jail in record numbers and pull down their own communities with crime and violence. Then the run and marry Becky the 1st chance they get. We just have to cut our losses. Write them off and start over with some men who know how to be men.
2Baiforev 1 year ago 9
Does anyone know what happened to the sherocks07 youtube member?
youngqueen112 1 year ago
*To black men stating that they're "highly offended" by white men courting black women is somewhat hypocritical. I've read the "anguish" and the "hurt" expressed by black men who constantly disrespect black women. Black men beat, rape, tear down self esteem just as much as any insecure man on the planet. Don't determine someones happiness based on what you "feel" isn't "correct" when black NBA players date and marry anything but black. It isn't fair!
pockahantis 1 year ago 11
this video is so true the black man feel that hip hop has elevated him to the status of the white man....lmfao. They feel they can pick and choose of any race. They don't want the black woman reminding them that they are black. Secretly they hate themselves for being dominated by the white man. Unlike black women who are not dominated by the white man. We have risen to the challenge and succeeded despite great opression and have even gotten to the level of white women.
SexiPlaygirl1983 1 year ago 10
@SexiPlaygirl1983 Well spoken sista. Love ya
betterunited 10 months ago
black women come to me please!
albusai 1 year ago 7
@albusai haha
lalatutu123 1 year ago
excellent video!
berrygirlfinn 1 year ago
beautiful and truthful...made me feel soooooooo much better THANK YOU SISTRIN!
NuwaniDeNubianLadyIE 1 year ago
black men's egos never stop amazing me
they act like a separate race on their own
they're the shit until
when it comes to explaining their faults
then they turn into victims
and all of society is out to keep the black man down
l9ois 1 year ago 6
very true!
msmelody1960 1 year ago
I PREFERABBLY date latin guys.
They appreciate a fine dark skin girl.
Black men treat us like shit and leave
us for the lighter woman. So fuck them
and fuck lil waynes "i like a long haired
thick redbone" i like mine high yellow
and CURLY HAIREDDDDD!Hhahahah
MrsCamilleBaby 1 year ago 7
It's amazing because with out black women
black men wouldn't exist
a black women is demonized if she breaths a bad word against a black man
but no one does anything to defend a black woman against all the abuse she deals with
they say
"hey if he did something bad to you, you most likely did something to deserve it
l9ois 1 year ago 7
Great Video, very true. Cgirl2020
Creditgirl2020 1 year ago
sad but true
aylix89 1 year ago
the black woman has become the scapegoat for this phucked up society, and we're not taking it anymore...we're the shyt and anyone that doesn't agree can go to hell...and if that means the black man SO BE IT!! i can live without his azz and any man for that matter....lol
Machelle3200 1 year ago 18
@Machelle3200 I agree with you. We seem to be everybody's punching bag. People feel that they can just put all their displaced angry on us.
youngqueen112 1 year ago 3
@youngqueen112 By black men publicly disrespecting black women and telling the world that they've turned their backs on us, other ethnicites are now openly disrespecting us because they think it's open season on black women! And because of this it seems as though black women have become the laughing stock among other ethnicities of women!
betterunited 10 months ago 5
@betterunited I do feel that its open season on us. I feel somewhat threatened by it too. I hate that we have no protection. :( ......I think we have become the laughing stock among other ethnicties of women too. They have begun to question our womanhood. I don't know about other bw but I feel sad about the fact that I don't really know what a real man is supposed to look like. I feel like not many people sympathize with our struggles anymore and some think our pain is funny.
youngqueen112 10 months ago
@Machelle3200, True!, I also find it funny how the latest blogs, 20/20, hot topix, gossip magazines , you name it, are watching "closely" what Black Women are doing next. The focus is really on us for some reason. BM on youtube will continue to fall on their own sords, while BW even as single parents, abused at times, are finding happiness in other places. And nobody in this world, can tell me that this doesn't anger BM (while chasing WW). I just wish it hadn't took us so long to move on......
Creditgirl2020 1 year ago 5
@Creditgirl2020 Awesome sista! remember that your sistas love you!
betterunited 10 months ago
@Machelle3200 I want to shake your hand for this comment.
BigBlaqueKat 1 year ago
Thank heavens I found a video about something that is not being talked about at all.
What about taking care of ourselfs and children and mental state first, people who don't know their being vitimized don't know it your right.
TiaIng8 1 year ago
what I'm saying doesn't apply to all black men but I think some of them approach ww differently ,when I was in class once I noticed how the black guys tone with the white girl was much different , more respectful its like just because your a blk girl you automatically get spoken to differently sometimes their appraoch with you
CerebralMadness 1 year ago 24
@CerebralMadness Thats so true black guys would slit their throat before ever admitting that
l7ary 1 year ago
@CerebralMadness yes yes and you hit it right on the head..
gotOranges 1 year ago
Fuck all you people...maybe if you weren't all sitting around your computers talking about how screwed up the other sex is and disgracing your race...MAYBE things wouldnt be as bad....f'in youtube scholars (smh)
tommypickles09 1 year ago
@tommypickles09 Take your own advice...you're the type of male the video is referring to. You say you hate 80% of all women, call successful black women "bitches" who don't deserve marriage, and instruct other black males not to marry black women. This video will remain as a response to the abuse of evil misogynists like you. The only time you feel the "race" is being disgraced is when mistreatment of black women by black males is called out. You have no problem trashing BW all over the site.
Mahogany1Vixxen 1 year ago 62
@Mahogany1Vixxen True about these niggers and your vid spoke the words of truth. To many times, unlike my black dad, who happens to be a retired cop, too many NIGGER males think it's okay to fuck a womyn and leave her without doing shit for her (except maybe controlling her, beating her ass and wanting her to pay HIS bills) and being supported by her. Fuck that shit! And they wonder why white men swoop us up! Niggers, not black men, need to learn.
HappyHookerTV 1 year ago 4
@Mahogany1Vixxen I just fav'd your video. Truer words have never been spoken about these misogynist niggers. Just wait till you see my vid at McD's and the two NIGGERS who think fear, intimidation and attempted RAPE is the way to attack...oops, I mean, "attract" a woman. Fucking niggers.
HappyHookerTV 1 year ago 5
@tommypickles09 But wait a minute, aren't you sitting around on your computer.,............you stupid asshole!! Your ignorant, racist comments are not needed.
QueenFantasi 1 year ago 3
Girl i LOVED this video you hit the hammer right on the nail YOU GO GIRL!!! Thank you
Jade049 1 year ago 6
that's why i hate and don't date black men....too much drama.
hottieho13 1 year ago 5
Yes, I definately see this more and more. Like black women think that it is their sole responsibility to keep the black community well populated, but these black men have children and then a nonblack woman comes along and they're out the door quicker than the baby's born. I for one refuse to be this stereotypical black woman. I don't see any self -respecting woman doing this and putting up with black men's BS.
xoaliciaxoangel 2 years ago 9
Agree with you. Black women do not to stand up for themselves and not put up with the abuse. It is abuse pure and simple. Black women need to stop having babies without a ring on their finger. If a black man wants a black women to have his child without marriage he is abusing her and the child. Worst of all he does not respect her or see her as worthy.
PorkChopMissPiggy 1 year ago 11
@xoaliciaxoangel - like tiki barber cheating on his pregnant wife with a white bitch
these bm are a waste
openmindedfemme 1 year ago 4
I normally don't respond to issues like these because It doesn't apply to me, but I do want to say this: Stop blaming a man (black or white) for your problems, you as a adult woman should be smart enough to know your worth. If you don't know what a good man is then you don't need one..so do yourself a favor and get some self-esteem and don't let any man treat you less than you want to be treated. And that goes for black & white.
Papasean7 2 years ago
Part of what you say is true...women should take responsibility for our own destinies, know our worth and find men of any color who know it too. That's what the video is saying.
But you're saying that growing up hearing the negativity of the black community should NEVER have an effect on black women and girls. Um, not realistic. Anyone would absorb negativity if they're bombarded by it. That's why we need to escape from those breaking us down. The abusers are responsible for their actions.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago 5
@Papasean7 Once again I say that men (black or white) are not the black woman's problem. No one can dehumanize you without your permission. Black women are some of the most beautiful to ever walk the earth but if you don't know your worth and stand firm, then you're bound to fall to submission of being taking advantage of. Don't let it happen! Simply!
Papasean7 2 years ago 7
Yeah I agree. We're responsible for ourselves and deserve the best. I'm just saying black women should walk away from anyone who's abusing us.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
@Mahogany1Vixxen The problem lies with the modern society. They have lost religious values and only pray to money and beauty. But there are still some religious people who value a woman's modesty. So I would advise black women to stop believing in this liberalism and start believing in God! Then God would automaticlally bestwo favors on them! If not in this world, then the hereafter!
PersonOfBook 1 year ago
@PersonOfBook You're the type of evil man I'm talking about in the video. I've seen your comments. You go around on the site and call black women "whores," say we're ugly while black men are good-looking and worse. I don't know why you came here faking, but you don't fool me. The spirit that fills you is the devil's.
Mahogany1Vixxen 1 year ago
@PersonOfBook The problem some black women have is listening to the abusive language of evil "men" like you - and believing them.
Mahogany1Vixxen 1 year ago
@Mahogany1Vixxen I accidently hit the thumbs down!
betterunited 10 months ago
@Mahogany1Vixxen If I am evil, then many of the black women are no saints either! Anyone women who whore her body around is evil!
PersonOfBook 1 year ago
@PersonOfBook @PersonOfBook The Bible doesn't say "women who are whores are evil." The Bible says "no fornication." So, if you are creating those whores by whoring with them, then you are a whore and just as bad. Hypocrite. Black women don't sleep around any more than anyone else. U.S. studies show that black women have LESS sex on average than other women, especially white. Nasty males like you bring black women AIDS and other STDs by sleeping with numerous women, and sometimes men.
Mahogany1Vixxen 1 year ago 3
@PersonOfBook Google "Sexual Behavior and Selected Health Measures: Men and Women 1544 Years of Age, United States, 2002." Black women have far LESS sex partners than any other group of women on average in their lifetimes. White women have the highest...by far. Black men have the MOST sexual partners of any men - by far. Black women aren't the whores. That would be black men whoring, and maybe the white women they sleep with, because they always get the trashiest. BM and WW bring BW their STDs.
Mahogany1Vixxen 1 year ago 27
@Mahogany1Vixxen - these black men know that bw have less partners
they always saying how stuck up we are and how we dont give them no play
while simultaneously saying we give it up the fastest- they dont know how to make sense!
openmindedfemme 1 year ago 6
Make that 1544 a 15-44. -> "Sexual Behavior and Selected Health Measures: Men and Women 15-44 Years of Age, United States, 2002." You'll see it on the Center for Disease Control website. That wasn't the only study, either.
Mahogany1Vixxen 1 year ago 3
@Mahogany1Vixxen AMEN!
vford43 1 year ago
@PersonOfBook - then most white women are evil cause they are the BIGGEST WHORES!
openmindedfemme 1 year ago 7
@Mahogany1Vixxen - he is just another black man who failed in life
nothing new here
openmindedfemme 1 year ago 4
@PersonOfBook oh sure its socitys fault Is not black men's fault if they call us ugly fat bitches talking about how superior other women are to us saying no one else wants us but then torment us if we date outside our race As usual its societys fault
l9ois 1 year ago 9
@Papasean7 when children grow up being de-humanized, the programming is set. In order to de-program & heal their negative self image, it will take them a life time. And that is only if they are lucky enough to realize they need to de-program.
godsnameisiam1 2 years ago 4
Wow well spoke. That's right no one can abuse you without your permission. If a black women allows a black men to get her pregnant without marriage she is condoning the abuse. No man would who loves and respects a women is going to make babies with her and yet not marry her. That's like treating her like an animal.
PorkChopMissPiggy 1 year ago 7
@PorkChopMissPiggy , You can be abused without even knowing some of these BM by just being a BW walking down the street. Dont be a BW walking down the street with confidence, you will get called bitches and hoes in a minute or a BM will bodly walk up on you and grab you or sometimes try to fight you if your not intrested in him, now thats abuse.
blissfullyme1980 1 year ago 15
@Papasean7 We real black women know our worth. It is just sad and painful to see black men go to other races and treat the beautiful black and intelligent woman like she is a dog. Single women don't even miss ya'll asses.
supervirtuouswoman 1 year ago 7
i notice if black women were to speak more highly about white men then about black men then every one (incuding other black women) would come crashing down on her saying how wrong and racist it is for her to do that
but when black men speak more highly about white women then black women
no one says a word
they figure if black men are saying it then it must be true
No one sees anything wrong with this
l7ary 2 years ago 30
that is the truth, I'm with you on that. I think that a black owmen we are going to have to individually fight for our on. But, we can take in sisters that are on the same path and imbrace them for support.
dollazndiamondz 2 years ago 7
@l7ary, and dollazndiamondz, true and true. I'll add, the media, has an agenda, it's war on black women, and that's all there is to it. Someone told me, she heard a focus group say "society isn't interested in seeing black women/white men couples in film" Thus, they promote accordingly.
Papillonmuscogee 1 year ago
@l7ary I must agree with you, that is a valid argument.
Papasean7 2 years ago
actually, I usually see it the other way around. black women, out of curiosity and confusion, often will question or even talk down a man who promotes women of another race over his own ethnicity...ppl, look up mr. and mrs. loving and let it go. love has no color and it's sad that many people truly have been mistaking abuse as love.
1eDITORcHRIS 2 years ago
black men for years have been on the front line saying they are the ones are discriminated the most against because of their race
always saying how they hate being seen in a negative light just because they are black
So naturally black women are going to get mad when they talk about other race of woman being better than black women
they look like hypocrits
l7ary 1 year ago 3
I refuse to be a punching bag for misogynistic black men!
Black Men who post hateful propaganda videos are despicable men who don't say anything in defense of black women aren't any better in my book. Love Letters to black women ain't gonna cover it if you don't defend the honor of black women. Love ain't just sweet nothings Love is I got your back and you got mine.
breetherooster 2 years ago 25
We Settle on what we believe we deserve. Each of us as women as human beings deserve the best. That inclused You, Me my neighbor, your neighbor, he woman that works at 7~11, we each deserve to be treated w/ respect. Don't sell your selves short. I don't. I know deserve the very best!! I don't have a million bucks in the bank yet what I do have in my relationship w/ me beloved is more precous then rubies & gold!!
scootersue105 2 years ago 5
I really wish she would make more videos. I would like to see more black women speak up about these annoying hateful black "males". I haven't been in a relationship with one of them since 2003. Best desicion I've ever made so far.
luvto2badork 2 years ago 9
Bw are dating out because even though bm who date out try to convince us that were useless and unwanted (pathetic and sad of them, huh?) many men want beautiful, classy bw! Plus, bw don't date other races trash like bm do! I think that's discusting. I want to date/marry good bm but they're lusting after trailer trash ww and pretending good bw don't exsist. I don't get it.
MissASP1993 2 years ago 8
what I find really sad is despite all of this
the majority of black women will still keep a concrete devotion to black men
you look on any video on here were the slightest bad thing is said about black men
there is always black women ,aking comments defending them
or there are ones who say
"even though black men treat us fucked up, i will always stick wth them"
that's truely an abusive relationship
when the women defends him no matter what he does
l9ois 2 years ago 78
@l9ois, that's a dumb woman if you ask me. Low self esteem as well. Hmm, could BM be talking about these BW?
Papillonmuscogee 1 year ago
@Papillonmuscogee - no ...these bm are talking about all bw cause they bitter
openmindedfemme 1 year ago 3
@l9ois - yeah those kind of bw are kind of sad...wish they knew the stupidity of what they are doing
openmindedfemme 1 year ago 3
whats the name of this song and who isit by?(i forgot to ask)
whiteduke101 2 years ago
It's a Tori Sparks song called "Trouble."
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
black, white, can't we all just stop generalizing and get along? We are equal.
carterfelderva 2 years ago
How exactly does your comment help with the abuse that black women experience in the black community? Are you saying everyone who experiences group discrimination should just forget about it and "get along"? Should those white women have forgotten about the feminist movement they meant to benefit themselves? Should black men have forgotten about the civil rights movement they meant to benefit themselves? Or is it only black women who aren't allowed to address our abuse?
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
this is why we get the attractive & well educated bw, simply because they have high standards just like the attractive ww(notice that you hardly see an attractive ww with a bm) thats because the only ones fighting for thier attention are the trailer trashed ww&ghetto bw..no decent woman puts up with this. im a white man and i loooove bw
whiteduke101 2 years ago 15
There are well educated black women everywhere. (Those with or without a college degree.) Attractiveness and being well educated has nothing to do with having high standards. Women of any ethnicity, "attractive" or not, "well educated" or not, fall victim to low self-esteem, low standards, and other unfortunate characteristics. I see beautiful and well educated women on my campus all the time. I associate with, though not many, a few that have very low self esteem.
floetic2003 2 years ago
so? the whole point is, i think women who respect thierselves should not take any of this
whiteduke101 2 years ago 5
Thank goodness!! :)
private4sapphire 2 years ago 3
The abuse that many black men dole out to black women is unforgivable! I have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to abuse. I would never date a man after he hit me even once! First it's a hit then more violent follows!
breetherooster 2 years ago 8
I totally agree this maybe why Im so picky. I don't put up with shit. Call me a bitch, say I have an attitude, maybe I will live longer. But i will stand beside my man not behind him.
lwiggins2able 2 years ago 8
Tell it sistah! I've noticed many of the same behaviors about BM towards BW myself on the Internet social networking sites like Facebook, YouTube and MySpace. Such negativity and nastiness towards Black women to me is uncalled for. Not sure why this has been happening with more frequency over the past 10 years, but since I've been on the web with CompuServe in 1992, I've seen this hatred and evilness grow... doubling every year.
Debsterism 2 years ago 18
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startec25 2 years ago
SO disgusting that you feel the actions of a BM who rape, abuse and make misogynist hate speech against BW is acceptable and understandable JUST because his ancestors were slaves. ALL groups have been invaded, oppressed, and/or enslaved at some point in history. How many centuries are you going to get a free pass to harm whomever you want, even innocent women?? Are you kidding me? That just goes to show how much you care about BW...not at all.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
Those BM aren't babies. They KNOW right from wrong and CHOOSE to do the WRONG thing. There is NO excuse. Instead of conveniently shifting the blame to "whitey" so BM don't feel so bad about the psychological abuse and crimes, they MUST be forced to confront the consequences of the things they do and say (the women they're hurting) and take responsibility for them. I refuse to overlook it or try to nurse anyone who hate me and sets out to hurt me with abusive words or crimes by just "loving" them
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
That's a lie sold to women, that they can cure people who make the choice to be evil by just loving them more. Right, because yeah that works...if you're in a relationship with a man and he's beating you bloody, or maybe just publicly calling you every name in the book like these BM on YouTube do to BW, just love him more, right, and he'll be magically cured. Hopefully your mind and your life survive intact. Right?
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago 2
The elite has the power. Most WM are average, middle class men.
No one said all WM love BW. All I said is BW should overlook color and each should find a man who loves her, yes good WM included. Of course you have a problem with that...because you want BW to be with men who hate them...if it's a BM. You want BW to stand by each and every BM unconditionally, no matter what he says or does to us. That's why they just continue with the abuse, because they know they'll be no consequences.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
I agree that is why I refuse to lower my standards for any man. It's bad enough that BM display misogyny towards black women. What makes it even worse is how the media stereotypes black women too.
breetherooster 2 years ago 10
I hate the stereotypes that black women have to face. We are always the bad guys, Its never looked at how black men treat us. I wish more bw would date outside of their race.
lwiggins2able 2 years ago 12
Can you answer some question.
1) where or when did I say it was ok to abuse bw.
2) Which group of people have had 400 years of slavery.
3) Loving white more than you love yourself makes a person what?
REMEMBER THE FIRST LOVE, IS SELF LOVE, A PERSON WHO DOESN'T WANT TO PRODUCE A CHILD IN THEIR OWN IMAGE. is clearly in a state of delusion
startec25 2 years ago
Would you like to go to jail because people who commit crimes share your color? Slavemasters are all long dead. It's stupid to hold someone today responsible for something they didn't do and can't change.
I don't care what "group" you belong to, if YOU as an individual treat me bad, I have NO loyalty to you. If you treat me well you have my love and loyalty. THAT is self-love. Settling for staying single, having OOW babies or having babies with any bad man just as long as he's dark is stupid.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago 2
So every generation of bm should get a free pass and shift blame to "whitey" for his behavior, including how he treats bw, for all of eternity. Bw are supposed to go and breed with bad bm because self love is all about breeding kids who look like us. Yup, because all of those babymamas who settle for sharing you with several women or when you're on the road to jail all love themselves, of course.
Always the same old tired excuses. I'm not going to waste my time arguing with sissified bm.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago 3
I agree!
private4sapphire 2 years ago 3
this is a very true video! nothing wrong about it
colormebelle 2 years ago 7
That is why I hate mammies like Melosidad they defend black men even though the black men they defend are scum! I think mammies are worse than those black men vent faggots!
If anyone is guilty of self-hatred it's the mammies!
almondtealeaf2 2 years ago 12
I agree with almondtealleaf2 and I7ary about defending bm and no one defending bw. look at how 50 cent publicly dragged Vivica Fox's name and reputation through the dirt. Afterwards, Vivica stated in an interview that she would never disrespect or talk badly about a bm. wtf?! 50 cent never even apologized and helped eminem try to drag Mariah down. and black community buys their albums and laughs with them instead of standing up for these women. screw bm!
batonbeauty 2 years ago 10
And the black community wonders why bw are so masuline. No one is their to defend the bw. I am often pissed because many times good bm aren't their to stand up for them as my bm huband is and he's sick and tired of bm treatment of bw. Look at Halle Berry when she made a comment in Essence saying "she tried bm". She later went back and explained her interview saying she wasn't trying to degrade all bm. Many times bm don't do this. How many came against DL Hughely comment to the bw ball players.
nessa1267 2 years ago 15
what did dl hughley say
colormebelle 2 years ago
I've never dated outside of my race, but I'm in my 30's and I have been raped, physically and emotionally abused as a teenager by bm (suffered severe physical injuries and was hospitalized). I have dated college educated men who tried to drag me into their "player" fantasy world. I am presently not dating but when I'm ready to date I will consider men outside of my race and will not limit myself to bm anymore.
batonbeauty 2 years ago 17
I agree with this video. I will add that even educated black men treat bw poorly. At my college and law school, there were disproportionate amount of bw to bm-in other words, more bw then bm. the bm took advantage of this-bm acted as pimps and treated bw as prostitutes, often referring to bw as hoes and bitches even when they didn't know some of these bw well. bm cheated so blatantly on the bw. bw were catering to their every need and bm didn't appreciate them.
batonbeauty 2 years ago 14
I was very upset with my sister because she believes Rihanna was abusing Chris Brown and deserved a beat down. I scoffed at her defending Chris Brown. Because I know in my heart of hearts had Rihanna been white instead of black Chris Brown would be rotting in a cell with no hope of ever seeing the light of day.
I find black women are too identified with blackness and not our womanhood. Damn the black community to hell! We are women too! Let black men fend for themselves!
almondtealeaf2 2 years ago 14
Bw have been so brain wash by the black community until its patheic. Thats why I'm seriously dishearted by the black community who have left bw out to defend for themselves including the black churches. I too had to go up against a bw at my job who made the comment that Rhianna must have done something for Chris Brown to attack her almost saying she deserved it. Even the white women attacked her for saying this and asked me why would she say such a thing. Needless to say I was pissed.
nessa1267 2 years ago 21
One of the realest qoutes ever!
posseiscool28 2 years ago 2
It's amazing because with out black women
black men wouldn't exist
a black women is demonized if she breaths a bad word against a black man
but no one does anything to defend a black woman against all the abuse she deals with
they say
"hey if he did something bad to you, you most likely did something to deserve it"
l7ary 2 years ago 22
Thank You my dear. Well said!!
GurlCaa 2 years ago 5
BM are fools bw are so pretty but you allow them to treat you messed up thats why they do it and when you put your foot down you now have an attitude ..some bm don't know what they want from observation
1MysteriousWorld 2 years ago 7
I am simply in shock by the accuracy of this vid. ((((applause))))
brownsugababe2006 2 years ago 7
Alot of brothers behave this way, this is true.
Sisters choose a man. They actually pursue alot of the things U say are negative in this video. Plenty men , myself included were not raised by our black mothers to respect our sisters.Most mothers dont get along with our sisters either!HAHAHA!! Its a mess. I dont allow brothers to put all sisters is a bad category when they start all that F*ck them bitches stuff but U shouldnt put all brothers in a bad category like the guy who hurt U either.
chronwell 2 years ago
I don't know what has caused these monsters to believe they are victims
l7ary 2 years ago 7
wow. this was great, and not only confined to the black community...the hispanic especially dominican community is the same....probably cuz we have A LOT of black in us
patriciacarrasco 2 years ago
@patriciacarrasco
You have just as much black n u as we do. It has nothing to do with being blavk.
MissASP1993 2 years ago
It is kind of sad that black men are so desperate that they have to brag how well endowed they are.
Even it that is true it is just something they were born with. They did nothing to achieve this.
It would be liking bragging you are not bald.
hermanglimsher 2 years ago 11
Mostly they have no social, economic or political power, which are still seen as manly things. Easier to take comfort and feel like a man by relying on big penis myths (sexual power) and being sexually promiscuous because it's all play. The rest requires actual work.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago 3
Thank you for this video, just last week I turned down a black mans advances to go out with me cause I DONT DATE MARRIED MEN, and he chose to give me an elderly brother type advice, saying I should never date a white man and guess what? he was married to a white woman...soooo funny, I just nodded and he asked 4 my number when I was coming down the train....I told him i dont use phones....and walked off.
hemsyyy 2 years ago 11
I wish Melosidad would take a career as a full time Punching Bag for Black men vent faggots. I hate mammies like her.
almondtealeaf2 2 years ago 4
If black men are getting animosity from black women. I say too many black men deserve animosity ! They have earned it with their misogyny and the constant soul destroying propaganda on youtube and the wider culture. I suggest the good black men speak out against the misogyny and distance themselves from black men vent!
almondtealeaf2 2 years ago 7
The video has a positive message, but I sense some hostility as well.
DarkLadyJade 2 years ago
DarkLady, that's what I thought it was at first, another nut case black woman hating black males, like a certain other one on You Tube.
But Mahogany explained that not only does she not need therapy, she is responding to various males who hate black women and have posted unbelivably vulgar things about them. She is not attacking black men, as I understand it, she is responding to these awful psycho websites that sound like a nazi or klansman writing about black women, but nope, its blackguys!
000266617 2 years ago 8
I've heard a story about a young black girl who was raped by four young black youths. The sad part is that Professor Henry Gates tomfoolery got more coverage than the victim of a real crime. Henry Gate's situation would have been diffused if he had simply cooperated with the cops instead of acting like a moron.
almondtealeaf2 2 years ago 6
Who told you to go out and fight thugs to get our attention? You're the ones angry at everything in the world and look for someone to plummet just to feel better.
Yes...a "smart" black man apparently does know better than to "beat down thugs for black women's attention"...he beats down BLACK WOMEN with his words and expects our attention and affection, because we have a racial loyalty to breed with him! Laughable. Maybe punching a girl to get her attention worked for sissies in preschool.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
There are women of all colors doing porn. Most porn stars aren't black women. Most black women DON'T do porn. All of his channels try to prove we're all wannabe porn sluts.
If BW made a channel showing a new black thug getting arrested for killing off his 'hood with drugs/guns each day, you'd be in tears.
If you don't like what the media shows of BM, that's not BWs fault. You're not man enough to face those in charge of media like you're not man enough to face thugs, so you beat down women
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
You know what just kills me?
I constantly hear black men say black women only want low down thugs
When I hear this I think to myself
"If these black men have such a problem with thugs why don't they take it up with them"? because they sure don't act like it
Hell they usually got 4 or 5 homeboys who think they're 50 cent
but do they say any thing to them NO
It's easier for their punk asses to attack the women
l7ary 2 years ago 12
They abuse us because we're black and women. It's group bias. So it's ok to point out other types of group bias...racial bias, gender bias...but just not black men's bias against black women? I still haven't gotten a valid reason why not. Funny no one has said black men don't say these things. So then you know it's true that they do, but we're not supposed to talk about it because exposing their abuse embarrasses them. Here's a hint...we wouldn't have to talk about it if they'd knock it off.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
But unlike some, I don't advocate begging these men to stop their mistreatment, or sitting around hoping it will happen. They're going to do what they want anyway. Waiting around needing them just puts the power in THEIR hands. It gives them a CHOICE about whether or not to stop the abuse, and they have nothing to lose and everything to gain if they continue. That's why black women should move on with our lives, including finding men (any color) who'll treat us right.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
Sorry Mahogany, I couldn't stand to read those postings of black women hating men. Took one glance and had to stop. Just ate lunch and don't wanna lose it.
000266617 2 years ago
Black men posting hate against black women ? I'll tell them they are sick for two reasons. Abusing women, and for being racists. Never heard of those "hate black women' clubs. I am not criticizing you for calling attention to abuse, I'm saying it's much, much bigger than black women only as Indian brides are regulary set on fire.
000266617 2 years ago
Well if you're completely out of the loop it doesn't make sense for us to talk. Look at the comments on my first video mid-way down the page about BlackMenVent. One of its members who used to create anti-black women videos on youtube killed a black girl. The vids are in my favorites. You can't think that with all of the crimes against black women in these neighborhoods already that these men organizing and arranging hate campaigns against us won't be a problem.
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
Good vid, but I have one question... What is DBR?
hulk12078 2 years ago
DBR = Damaged Beyond Repair
Mahogany1Vixxen 2 years ago
very good vid. its refreshing to see a video on you tube that doesnt slam black women.
MOCHADEVIL83 2 years ago 5
I love this video. T