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  • So, kissing = dating?

    I think everything I've ever learned about sex has just been overridden. I'm pretty sure that's a bad thing.

  • For you Amish people, this, in today's society, is called cuddling. :D

  • he is not amish, he doesnt have a beard! haha

  • what is the rolling in the bed for? :D

  • I wonder what the rocking back and forth is for hahahahaha and what happens especially with the men when they do that.....

  • Oh, the temptations...................­.......

  • god lives in amish country and the devil lives on bourbon st

  • I thought Elton John was gay

  • I live in amish country... amish are among the biggest hypocrites i know of. And that guy must be from amish background... his accent is spot on... and if u ever think about coming to shipshewana indiana on vacation Please remember U DONT OWN THE ROADS.... locals have to pay your tourist tax whether ur hear or not so please kindly dont be douchebags! ps not all locals are amish... its like 70% are non amish!

  • so I wonder if they have rules for having sex? Like only missionary position or something? lol

  • lol i just got done watching "Amish: World's Squarest Teenagers" and one of the girls was from this Swartzentruber Amish clan and I guess they are very very strict...

  • @HerbalJah there all hypocrites.... Watch "the devils playground"... Its about a tradition called Rumspringa. Its stupid and messed up. Part of it was filmed where i live. I know a couple people at the parties.... just check it out, ull be shocked.

  • Is that Moe from the three stooges?

  • So the Amish date just like I do, I try to bed the girls on the first date, too. See people, they are just like us.

  • weird, but whatever floats your boat.

  • Hmmmmm, different sect here. I just watched a documentary where the Amish are not allowed to kiss until marriage. O_O

    I love the Amish, but I'll be damned if I'm waiting until marriage to kiss.

  • @Topgeneral3070 each Amish community is seperate.. Old Order Amish is the most strict, and most widely known.. NO electrictiy what so ever, no kissing.. etc.. Its even frowned upon to hold hands before an engagement... they all differ!

  • If you leave on get kicked out how would anyone know !!!!

  • It's called 'Bundling' and is a very old practice, some say dating back to ancient times and many claim it was what Ruth did when she slept at the foot of Boaz on the threshing floor (he who later became her husband). It's just different practice, I wouldn't say creepy. People are reading their own ideas into a closed culture. Humans are the same the world over and even in outward (seemingly) oppressive cultures, people still have and enjoy sexual relationships. Different doesn't mean non-human.

  • 4:50 alarm clock ringing? Something is indeed wrong with this creepy video. Might be fake? I don't know about their dating, but from the few things I do know, they are not happy with so much premarital intimacy to allow something like that, and I don't think they would ever talk openly about things like that in their culture, especially allowing filming. Could be fake indeed.

  • @TheEolization yeah that's my thoughts too.

  • gotta love the haircut!!!

  • I have to agree..this is some creepy stuff..wow..

  • This is the happiest Amish Elvis I've ever seen !

  • ROCK & ROLL OMG!

    #rothchild

  • LUL

  • this is nonsense.. this is a fake and fraud.

    these are actors , no Amish, Hutterites, Mennonites would ever have them self filmed like this , much less talk like this.

    this video is a Fake,

  • This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen! Who lets teens/adults date in a bed?? This makes no sense whatsoever.

  • what if he went to the wrong bedroom and asked her brother or even worse - her parents? I would run out of there so fast

  • @TheHilljac "nuddleroller" = you are trying to say "gnuddle vuller", or turd roller. (I am David's 3rd cousin)

  • These are courtship customs of extremely old origin.

    In Colonial America a bundling board was used between the two people. But as this man candidly admits, people did give in to temptation and couldn't maintain their chastity. The penalty for giving birth to a baby out of wedlock could be severe for the woman (as in The Scarlet Letter by Hawthorne); so hopefully the man would marry her even if their firstborn arrived after only 6 months.

  • shouldnt your channel be called swartzentruberdeception?

  • weird

  • this is all fake!!! I know tons of amish people, and they do not date like this!!! stupid ass people!!

  • @countrylover12341 If I had not grown up Amish myself I might be ignorant like that too.

  • Child abuse, and now the Amish way of dating.

    From what the Amish show to the outside world, I would never have expected this.

    Unbearable hypocrisy.

    -.

  • @Mauromoustakos Their way of life is littered with hypocrisy!

  • His hair changed my life

  • this is the reason NO ONE should have left the Catholic Church...this is WACKED

  • @TheHilljac You were brainwashed..

  • @zzzwhop you do know in islam you are not allowed to even go to he rhouse at night or be alone with her in her bed until you are married right? and it doesnt bode well when you name entire cultures and religions for th eactions of a few. this man wa spointing out that this stuff does happen!! it happens in all cultures and religions. the thing is that not many men marry the women after they do this....at least the amish do!

  • Id go down staires and in the front door, on the her!

  • The bed demonstration was hilarious.

  • I went to school with an Swartzentruber her relatives are Amish... With ant luck their not these nut jobs...

  • this dude reminds me of elton john

  • @UCbrandon21 lol he does

  • @Zzzwhop Amish lifestyle Is very similar to Islam, you should read a copy of Koraan. Peace

  • @SultanOfSwords yeah excpet the prayer rituals are EXTREMley different and Amish believe Jesus is the son of God, unlike muslims who believe Jesus was a prophet. knowing what I do about both religions, they aren't similar at all to me.

  • This is the most ignorant thing I have ever seen. Why don't these people wake up and realize that the Bible doesn't teach this kind of perverted act. And who would ever be attracted to someone with a pixie haircut.

    And what is this??? a trail to see if they are compatible for each other if they are able to get aroused having to look at each other as ugly as they are all bound up in cotton sweating to death and stinking under neath all of those clothes.

    Just doesn't make any sense.

  • wow this is scary.... I would NEVER allow my daughter  to do that! any of them. screw having a boy spend the night in her bed!

  • GAY!!

  • first of all Amish people (married) are forced to let their beard grow and this guy doesn't have it !!!  why?

  • @yochilanga hes not married

    

  • this is some creepy shit

  • uhm....is this thing for real? :-S

  • I just thought of something. Outside of Amish culture, what father would let a 16-17 year old boy come over and lay in bed and rock with his 16-17 yr old girl? They actually have it better than the outside world.

  • they don`t call `em hormones for nothing...LOL

  • A few questions. I am guessing when this is allowed, the couple is close to getting married, right? What were you told you were allowed to do? Did your wife know anything about sex before hand? What happens if a couple has sex, and the guy decided he doesnt want to join the church. Will the girl be able to marry someone else if others know that she wasnt a virgin?

  • @Merryrobin No, this is done on the very first date even if they never expect to have a second date. This is what they are taught to do. When young kids turn sixteen or seventeen they have a date with someone of the opposite sex to learn about this with the full expectation that they will not have another date or ever get married. It's more of an "educational" date!! Weird, but true. I experienced it!! I'm not sure about being able to marry someone else after sex. I think you still can.

  • @Mr777captain

    At my Methodist church the teachers taught us a game called "Do you love me?" We would be a classroom of teenagers and the girls would sit on a boys lap and ask them "Do you love me?". The boy would try to keep a straight face and look the girl in the eye and say " No, I don't love you'. Then the girl would move to the next boy's lap. Just what exactly is it teaching us? Its okay to be sexual, but don't fall in love? Just keep moving on to the next person?

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  • creepiest shit I have ever seen!!!!!!!!!

  • LOL! I knew a boy who kept the horse harnessed and his shoes on just so he could get outta dodge when pop found out. Not all boys and girls get permission. LOL! Glad to see you and your bride are still getting along.

  • I like that you are sharing cultural knowledge. Very important for people to know a lot about other cultures.

  • how can they be amish this if they're uploading this onto youtube?

  • Are they related?

  • "yes, you can...*hand action*...yes, you can...ok"

    "at this time I'll go out there an unhitch my horse and harness him and feed him..."

  • His hair is old skool monk style.

    Plus grown some balls in stead of rocking them in bordom with a boner.....

    Even dogs hump pillows n shit, its natural.

  • Is this Amish porn?

  • So I'm assuming this is what actually happens. What theoretically happens? i.e. what would the bishop tell you you were supposed to do?

  • this guy is creepy. LOL , if i were her, id say ''no you CANNOT spend the night!''

  • oh man! giggidy giggidy

  • @eggo831 haha!

  • I this maun sajt truth. These two are married, she has a dark blue dress of a married s'trueber, he is wearing a consistant costume with this sect. I think he is trying to dispell myth of Amish being so pure, almost like eenjels fall to earth. I was raised up Mennonite, we have similar practice we call it "bemumlen" or "bundeling" when it is in the bed like thus. A lot of girls go to the alter pregnant, that is a sad way to start your new married life, in an ashamed state.

  • why betray your people?

  • @cumara0seadog why be amish?

  • were those actors or was there a hidden camera?

  • doesnt that rocking in bed seem really akward? who literally "rocks" each other to sleep?

  • This looks highly suspicious and fake. Not that I want to spread hate but, considering that Amish are not allowed to make a video, never mind posting it on you tube, I very much question your motives and the legitimacy of your Amish background. Why are you doing this? How are your actions benefiting your society (assuming you are real Amish) ?

  • @frosty4700 They probably were Amish but then left the community and now they are sharing these things with average people who do not know much about Amish culture

    And I'm not really sure but I believe that Amish culture is kind of depleting and more are leaving the community

  • Isn't Sex so much better when it's feared?

  • wtf did i just watch?

  • now this is weird!!!! setting themselves up for fail

  • How on earth is that dating? My god they act like sex is a crime.

  • @tropical481 why7 betray your people?

  • we wouldn't even allow our english as you all put it to go in our daughters bedroom or be alone with a man period...

  • Is this a parody or real?

  • I guess this is no more bizarre than lying your face off on the local dating site and posting photos of yourself 10 years old. LOL

  • I was a holdeman mennonite until last March. My parents are from PA amongst all the amish and they weren't schwartzentruber but they were from a very conservative church. The talk about how the dated but it wasn't quite like this.

  • I love the Amish,but thats gross

  • dude, seriously, you guys dont realize this is a JOKE???

  • @MegaHenryman I'm sorry, but this is NOT a joke. I grew up Amish, I should know. Sad, but true. Although I grew up quite differently, this stuff is true!

  • @rettley78 yeah, i know that now.

  • @MegaHenryman It's not a joke, i grew up close to the amish have many amish friends it's no joke!

  • @Missnitamarie i know that now, as i said. i also grew up and live in lancaster county, and i work with the amish. at first i just thought someone was mocking them with this video, but i was wrong. but it should be made clear that this is about SCWARTZENTRUBER amish. there are many other amish groups, that do not do this.

  • I just made a video response - of a Amish couple dating, but they are not Swartzentruber Amish

  • Wow! In the Catholic church we were taught to avoid the occasions of sin. These folks are really asking for it.  They could end up marrying the wrong person simply from the lack of dating experience by playing the field!

  • better than dinner and a movie

  • The Amish have problems in their church and the catholics and the baptists. It would be nice is if as a church we could just sit down and talk and share our christian faith!

  • Amazing, thanks for sharing!

  • Hey look it is Roy Orbison!

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  • how come amish are so fat if they eat their own crops and work all day :S

  • you have a camera. your not amish.

  • This is culturally acceptable and tolerated even expected among Amish families. The young boys are accommodated for such things to take place. Quite odd to say the least. This is their version of sowing wild oates before being asked to commit to their life style.

  • So your a Yoder speaking for the Swartzentruber's.... thats a good idea.

  • @bswartz3 Swartzentruber in the name of the church David and I grew up in... David is my 3rd cousin.

  • I'm not saying these ways of dating don't happen at all, but I don't think it happens as much as they are trying to make people believe. I know many Amish & Mennonites and have stayed the night in their homes many times, Never have I heard of or seen "bed dating". I think this is someone who is trying to tarnish the image of the Amish.

  • @shebeeinks I believe the title of the video shows you which group he is talking about, not all Amish are the same, but the group that me and David grew up in did do stuff like this.

  • @mrdeleted Hey, my folks are Holdeman Mennonites, and I've seen some things that don't totally make sense to me, but this takes the cake. There are quite a few ex Amish in my parents church, and they've mentioned this practice a few times but definitely don't like to speak about it.

  • @Scubydoyou Ya this is not something that a lot of people want to talk about...

  • he's got that funny hair the rapist look

  • Swartzentruber porn. cool!

  • HOW CAN THE FATHERS be okay with this?????

  • wow thats a laugh, and way away from the truth

  • lol shes keen! 

  • if they would just read the word of god

    and obey it all their religious bullshit would be put to a  end

  • eew

  • FAKE!

  • This is better than Conservative Christian paranoid groups and actually pretty intelligent emotional and cool.

  • WTF!?

  • then hand job

  • Sickening

  • @stargate4698 - I agree - Sick and put together with a sick mentality.

  • I have done a lot of research and yes all night. They are not as pure as they try to protray. Their is also a lot of abuse in a lot of the families that go covered up.

  • Wow, i was raised Irish Catholic and pretty strict. I also thought the Amish were strict.

    It's to bad we never had dating like this, in bed on the first date, awesome.

    I remember dates at the movies with her parents behind us, or the table over.

    Amish dating is the way to go

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  • your not amish if you have electronics! lol

  • @desenagrator thats not true. you are reformed amish. I have friends who are amish and have a car and a computer. But they are still amish. Just reformed amish. Its different rules but the same general beleif

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  • @desenagrator The guy that made this video is my husbands uncle. He's not amish anymore that's why he can have electronics but lydia is right some order of amish do have electronics depends on which one you are a part of.

  • lol

  • I'm a christian and I will tell you now...they really SHOULD NOT be in the girl's bedroom. And they really should not be in the same bed unless they are married. I never knew they would carry dating to this extent!

  • i,m orthodox jewish and i find this so interesting wonder how many orthodox jewish ppl checked this thing out.

  • the rarest form of dating seems the ONLY way the orthodox jewish date! sitting, never touching and talking..

  • He looks like George Jones!

  • WTF

  • A very strange but interesting culture. Thanks for the insight.

  • amish dating is soo much more simple than the modern dating -.-

  • By golly, somthing tells me this guy aint lying!!

  • ...you gotta be kidding. For real??

    Goodness I could barely kiss a girl, let alone be in her BED! I never would have thought...

    Thanks for the demo, A.D.

  • kingdomboost, That's okay, lots of people are gay.

  • Is your mind really that polluted?

  • What do you mean MY mind? You are the person who made the comment. I was just replying to you.

  • You suck.

  • awsum. video plz xD

  • hahahahaaaaa I must have missed this one!

  • Remember people this is not true for all Amish groups, but I know for this particular group this really does happen..but it is all very strange..seriously.

  • It certainly is bizarre that a group that calls themselves conservatives would "date" in bed. The Bible says to "avoid even the appearance of 'evil'"...it makes no sense that they'd put them right in temptations way. It's asking for "trouble" if they don't believe in pre-marital sex. Did they just do away with those dating boards I've heard about or did they never really use them?

  • No, we never had any dating boards. Dating boards were never use in our Amish culture.

  • Really? No Amish culture at all? Do you know where they used them or is it a rumor?

  • I believe in history (of bed courtship) they were used, but not in the Amish

  • @Amishdeception whats a dating board?

  • @TDOTEMPIRE It is a board that is between the couple to keep them apart...

  • @Amishdeception And then a baby would soon be born.....But then the guy HAS to marry her at that point, eh? :-)

  • @Amishdeception You are NUTS. Why spread LIES??

  • @mandtconstruct No he is not.

  • @AutymnRosa thing is if they get pregnant they have to marry and if they have to marry they have to join the church. They let them do this to keep so many from leaving the church!!!

  • Is that true or all of this is comedy?

    True or not it seems to me that these are personal to each and that we need not know that ...

  • True (I was Amish too)

  • Do they really have bedside dates like that? Do the bishops really think this is appropriate?

  • it is called "bed courtship", or "bundling", and yes, that is still a Swartzentruber Amish practice.

  • Does the man stay all night? And are both sets of parents aware of this?

  • You did not answer my questions. Do the man stay all night? And do the parents of both kids know about this?

  • He would leave before morning (at least try). Of course some may not know who their kids are dating, but for the most part, yes.

  • Ooooh my goodness!!!!!!!!!

  • Just shocking! My dating was going to the movies or go seeing

    a concert. I can't imagine jumping into bed... I was so happy with just heavy kissing. I dated quite a bit to meet different people... How else do you know what you like at such a young age. Thank you for sharing your x community. Thank you for the work you do to help others.

  • Thank you for letting us into your lives.

  • "Could I take yer panties off again?" [LOL]

    Seriously, though, this was very informative.

    Denki.

  • bizzare.

  • yes very strange but interesting i used to live in parishville growing up as a young boy

  • Thank you for sharing this with us.

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