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  • So much truth! Love this. ; )

  • I needed this today! Thanks

  • I like this series, did you put it in a play list? I've seen part 1 and this one, I'm searching for the others.

  • lovebeingcolored.tumblr.com

  • "I choose to be" powerful words, love your video.

  • If you would like a free print, make a donation to the charity of your choice, web add, for charity choices, my images, and directions, on my Youtube. CLIC THIS MESSAGE

  • I really want to start a non-profit for young women mainly the ones of "african" descent to instill values of love and self-worth, but I don't know where to start. This concept is so simple and would solve SO many issues in our community. If black people just loved themselves it would eliminate so much bullshit. Not that this is persay about black people ... im just saying :D

  • your a blessing to this world sista, thank you again, i hope that aint the last of the serie tho, not that im not getting enough but this is just such an helpful reminder and inspiration, you cant never get enough! lol!

    Peace

  • luv your videos...KEEP IT UP !!!

  • Thanks alot for this vid. You are a truly great woman.

  • Brilliant...Raw & Real :)

  • ur full of it if if wusnt 4 the white prople u wouldnt be here cuz ur parents wouldnt b here r n e of ur family.. need 2 watch wut u say and how u say it on the radio and net. im an x-member of the nsm88 i left i had 2. but now im cumin back now obama lol he's a lyin joke he said he would pull the troops not put 70,000 back there, or help out with there president stuff hell hes not even black but watch wut u say yall have the panthers whites have us stop hatin

  • @skoteboy You're an ex-member of NSM88?

  • I am 15 yrs old, and i feel this was really needed, i kno my worth through the examples of great strong black women in my life. i think more ladies need to see this in schools. thanks for this and keep doing what you do

  • I am so proud of you, you have the answers and the voice. Continue to inspired and be inspired!!!

  • Your fourth and the Sixth video are your best ones. Being a women is first forgive yourself for not beeing what you wanted to be, then accept urself and with those two things come love of yourself.

    And love of yourself show in different way, taking care of urself, respecting yourself and beeing urself with everybody. Then relationship become easier because you have so much love for urself that that u r not expecting him to validate or make u happy.

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  • THIS IS A GREAT VIDEO! Yes sisters DONT SETTLE even if that means you will not marry within the parameters "black love" You sisters are Universal and have Birthed the WHOLE WORLD. Every Gene has its ROOTS Within the BlackWomans WOMB. Beginto LOVE YOUR WOMB AND YOURSELF! Take care of YOU FIRST before you try to take care of any man or anyone else. If you made choices that were not for your highest good, Get over it and START A NEW! You are the Writter of YOUR LIFE SCRIPT! THIS IS A GREAT VIDEO!

  • LOVE IT ALREADY!! I just saw this on someone favs. I think they need to put this type of topics in school for the young girls growing up, you know so then they know they wont had to settle for having babies by every men they meet. and the same with men they should have men teaching this type of stuff in school so they can respect the women and love will prevail. thanks sistafriend for the LOVE AND KNOWLEDGE preach on..

  • Thank you I totally agree with your statements!

  • Excellent series! You say what you mean, and you mean what you say. And it' the truth, raw and real! Thank you for spreading your message and giving practical and insightful advice.

  • You are just speaking to me about "settling." i am single and have been for a very long time. I used to be friends with a girl who always used to ask me if I was with someone, and of course I told her no. She used to act as if I was less of a woman/person because I refused to settle. Yet, she was never happy with herself or her relationships. I want more for myself. If you cannot love yourself by yourself for yourself, I don't believe you can be truly happy.

  • Amen sis, you are doing the right thing, why waste life settling for what is not worthy of you and your gifts. Do you know some people go a lifetime without being alone and they never really ever had the chance to fully explore themselves! "If you cannot love yourself by yourself for yourself" Well said sis, I feel your power! Thanks for joining the conversation.

  • Thank you so much for the invite, you can never hear this message enough. Great video

  • My mom said the same thing, thanks for helping me see the truth! Thank you!

  • Your mom is a very intelligent woman, please listen to her always; she really does know best! LOl

  • Saving to my favorites : )

  • You are truly beautiful! Good vibes~

  • Thank you sis! We are beautiful!

  • I agree with you on this intense subject matter! Love of self is not an easy transition to undergo. It requires indepth self inventory. Self love defies the true essence of divine law. (People of color) especially can't build solid nations inside our community without this virtue. Community or (common-unity) amoung us is lacking without this very principle. Keep teaching out here sister...this is beautiful!!!

  • "Truth 2 Power" Thank you so much brother for joining the conversation and for spreading the truth!

  • When i was younger i really didn't understand what self-love was. I thought it meant to treat myself to all the materials in life i wanted. Like one Sister said, "its self-validation." It's about loving who you are and the skin you're in. It's knowing who you are, what you need, and making sure that you get that. Loving self is the greatest gift that anyone could give to themselves. Knowing the difference of a surface love to an inner spiritual self-love is the reward.

    Know yourself!

  • Amen! I used to believe the same things, boy were we wrong!

  • Another good one, RT

  • BTW, I'm loving the bg music in this vid. nice

  • Thats our boy Coltrane! Thanks

  • Awesome video Sis!!! I wanna add that a woman that loves herself is a woman that's able to keep a family together. A woman's love is the glue that keeps a family tight, no matter what race you are. Children learn how to love from the love that moms give while that baby is in the womb. Boyz become men, men learn how to become lovers from the love that women have for themselves. A woman that loves herself is such a powerful being! Get into this ya'll!!!!

  • "Truth 2 Power" as usual Brother, thank you for always adding that cherry on the top!

  • Exactly Rani! If we self-reflect for a moment we will then realize that a lot of the problems that we've endured in the past was because we didn't love ourselves. This is so true! Self-love definitely eliminates the wrong people(men and women)from coming into our lives who have absolutely NO desire to see our growth as women. This is SOOOO important. We need to help cultivate self-love in our young children so that they won't have to experience what so many of us have. Awesome!!

  • 5*s

  • Something I'm learning about myself with this aging process. I become old, yet new.

    I use to hate the change that came with it. As of yesterday I realized, wow! I'm a part of evolution. How could I not love that- ME?

    Great vid.

  • Amen my beautiful sister; you are it the bomb! I am glad that this video just confirmed your revelation; god is sooooo good!

  • I absolutely agree with you. Self-love, Self-validation.

  • It is the only way through loving oneself all becomes in reach.

  • Taking time for yourself is so important. As we are the nurturers, we spend so much time caring for others and forget to care for ourselves. I love "The Art of Being a Woman" series!!

    When is the DVD coming out? LOL

  • Thank you sis, you are so right and then when everyone is off doing there thing we are a left alone and empty!

  • hello beautiful, I so love your style !

    MUAH!

  • Thank you sooo much sis! Smooches!

  • OBAMAO8 LADIES!

  • Obama 08 and beyond!

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