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  • Can´t thank you enough, you´ve helped me more than you can imagine. God bless you Tonya.

  • you are my therapist lol.

  • Yes, video was long, but very necessary. You know, it takes time to deliver a GOOD message.

  • LOL

  • u are awesome tanya i hate to say this but your better than my therapist. i dont know what is do without your videos you are so smart and everything you say i so true. ur an amazing person your mother would be so proud of you.thank you leighann <3

  • fuck you bald headed bitch

  • wow! F-I-R-E! love you sis

  • lovely!

  • Tonya i love this vid u r the truth i believe god made u do this for a reason to change people. I cried about how i used to treat myself.. I promise to always love myself and believe in me and take care and listen to my own thoughts and learn about me. God bless you i feel reborn. I feel like your this concious coach in my head. You def. woke me up to the truth i appreciate u for that

  • @ikillapurple Well Im so glad you watched it and got something out of it :)

    HUGGGG!

    -Tko

  • I like ur honesty Tonya.

  • The long videos are fine. You made some good points.

  • Great video, don't give up your dream of helping others through your videos and messages because your video views aren't high; changing one life can lead to many changing. :-)

  • YOUR BEST SPEECH SO FAR! And I saw and liked them all. So true. People need to open their eyes (and ears obviously) and wake up, and learn to love and respect themselves first, before having any kind of relationship with another human being.

    Love from Germany, xoxo

  • *Tonya* sorry

  • Tanya...I just wanted to say...DON'T EVER CHANGE YOURSELF D: I LOVE your videos!!!! You motivate me to think things that I would not..i.e like self esteem, love, relationships....and love :/ PLEASE keep your videos in the same format ^^ your fan <3

  • I dont think your videos are to long. I love listening to you speak....you are the truth!

  • This video came at the right time, my good friend and I have been talking about men and relationships recently, I told her she needs to come check this video out! And I want to try your skin products, when I get the money, lol :)

  • LOVED IT

  • you rock girl

  • Tonya please stop feeling self conscious or whatever it is you feel about your vids. People want you to talk becouse you can nail the truthabout the way things are just right. I would love to hear more! Your vids made so much for me,thank you :) I'm waiting for another one

  • @tocha000 Well yes, I do feel self-conscious abt my Vids: I look at the #s & I want to help more people but my views are stagnated. I asked youtube abt this and they told me that I should make shorter videos. They said they dont promote long videos like mine... But I dont really know how to get the mssages I need to send in shorter vids. So its a catch 22: Make shorter videos & reach more people, or make longer videos and help less people with More info

    What would YOU Do?

    Help

    -Tko

  • @TonyaTko well since I don't post videos I didn't knew about this issue. But of course it's better to spread the message to a larger group of ppl,even if that means you have to cut on the info. Eventually people will come to see the longer ones. Do what you must to help people.

  • @TonyaTko how about making long videos and breaking them up into parts so that you can reach more people and get all your points across at the same time

  • @TonyaTko "THE SPIRIT"?!! THE SPIRIT OF WHAT?! NASTY-NESS!

  • You are so on point sister. Thank you very much for trying to help your sisters.

  • Best video I've seen in a loooonnng time!!! I need to catch up on my TonyaTko's!!! ;)

  • I really like this advice. Makes me really thinking bout my relationship.

    I feel like I'm an ugly duckling cause I'm not happy bout the things I have to do and feel like I have to make my partner happy. :(

    I hate feeling like a slave instead of a mate. This advice got me needing a change for myself. Thanks so much.

  • Love love love IT!

  • Happy New Year Tonya =) "here me..." love it

  • HAPPY NEW YEAR TONYA TKO!!!

  • ====I LOVE YOUR LONG VIDEOS==== never ever ever change

  • This is strange. I asked myself damn near all these questions recently. Wow!

  • This ISVs

  • I AM a SWAN! Thank you for the enlightenment!

  • Pretty through and through. You don't need make up girl! HUGS! I can't pretend you're not beautiful!

  • amen

  • Tonya, you have no idea how much you have helped me with THIS video! For real! Thank you very much!

  • Thanx! On point as usual... Love you!

  • I am going through some things right now and boy oh boy am I hearing your advice at the right time. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!

  • This message is awesome! And it came at just the right time! Thank you so much! <3

  • i love long videos because i can clean and stuff while i watch

  • Tonya, I did a video showing a book by Dr. Robin Smith called lies at the alter. This book is perfect for all status of people, married, single, ect...teaching is about ourselves and then what we should be looking for. Please check my vid or order this book. You should be able to find it for a couple of books now. I've had this book for years. This thing is a staple in my home. Men and women, get this book. It will change how you look at yourself and how you look at potential partners.

  • Tonya I absolutely love you, you are an amazing woman & I look up up to you so much. The advice you give helps not only me but many woman & men. I admire you, thank you.

  • 6 and 7 hit me hard.

  • THIS VIDEO IS SOOOOOOO ON POINT! Love you Tonya.

  • this video its just wat i needed...i want ur skin tonya

  • This message was timeless. I can appreciate everything you said from: you must get to know yourself, to being able to deal with the things that's going in your own head. You really tapped into another level!

    Peace & Blessings

  • Thnx for this video Tonya. What your are saying can go as wel for relationships with family and friends as wel.

    Much love.

  • @yasintha I am going to watch now and see :-D

    -Tko

  • great video. I don't think your vid.'s are long at all I guess because I enjoy them.

  • you look amazing without makeup! :)

  • i recently got rid of a relationship. i feel a burden uplifted of my shoulders. i waisted too many years on b.s. i really needed to hear this video. I know God used you to send this message to me as confirmation. amen sista, thank you!!!

  • good message for us guys too :) PS: you're very pretty w/out make-up Tonya! I hope I can find a woman as positive and powerful as you :)

  • @lavinder11 agreed. This was the sh...t. I was amen-Ing while on the road listening to this.

  • I don't understand how or why anyone would complain about a long video. This is free (and sound) advice!

  • Thank you. Thank you very much. 

  • Thank you :) You're right. You need to love yourself before someone else can truly love you

  • Amen..well said.

  • Looking in all the wrong places.

  • Amen Tonya...I will be by myself till I find someone willing to go to war for me!

  • I needed this sooo much Tonya, as I have been there myself. but no more.

  • @taky30 Thank you for watching dear.

    -Tko

  • your the best Tonya.. I appreciate everything you talk about in your videos. xx

  • @sokewt Thanks darlin

    -Tko

  • Am I the only one who finds her voice so relaxing?!

  • @RuleFourteen Im sure you're not. I used to do motivational tapes for myself... but I kept falling asleep while listening. Im pretty amplified in this video, so if you found some relaxation even while Im hollering, then more power to you :))

    -Tko

  • @TonyaTko I find you relaxing in general because it's so nice to see someone who's so in tune with themselves but also the world. It's very sweet of you to be so caring and share your wisdom with everyone. You are a very sweet, pragmatic woman and I know I can't be the only one who appreciates your efforts in teaching self-love, sufficiency and the ability to make someone feel as if you're talking directly to them as well as encouraging a smile. As far as the hollering, I simply see passion.:)

  • i love you too <3

  • Go big sista, Go!

  • LOVE THIS VID!!!!!

  • Okay I went back to watch your other video and this. Motivation. I cried. speaking the truth. I have much to work on internally and externally so I can can feel better.

    For one my skin is just not right, after taking a nutrition class I realized I had Keratosis pilaris and I think I also have Seb derm which always inflame my face and I get to scratching flaky skin off now I have dark spots where it scared. I hate it. My face use to be clear and smooth :(. I will definitely check out your site.

  • @ikkinnikk Hey lovely, I just want to say that you're awesome and anyone can change. If you want to change really quick, I recommend "The Secret" movie and book. It will change your life. By the way, I cleared up the skin on my face through visualization and not using harsh soaps. Happy new year, God bless you and remember - what you focus on grows :)

  • @ikkinnikk Oh hunny, Im so sorry to hear it. KP is chicken skin right? I have to get the forum back up so I can ask who used what to get rid of that. Two of my customers came back to me telling me they had gotten some relief, but I dont know which of my products they used.

    :-/

    -Tko

  • Woooooo! I am feeling this video Tonya. Thank you for all your inspiration and wisdom in 2011. Happy New Year!

  • @GenevieveDosSantos Thanks sweetie, Happie new year to you too :))

    -Tko

  • Tonya, you have blessed me tdy with your words. Thank you.

  • @emynmolly Glad you got something from the video. Thank YOU for watching & spreading the word

    -Tko

  • Great video Tonya!

  • girl you better stop it i say !!!.......thank you thank you thank you

  • @runnybunny83 Okay... Im stopping it :-P

    -Tko

  • omg i didnt want u to stop!!!! I LIKE UR LONG VIDs. cuz u speak the truth!!!!

  • @akakesha LOL~ Tell that to the complainers :-P

    -Tko

  • a word spoken in due season is like apples of gold on pitchers of silver. This was a very inspiring video Ms. Tonya as always. that is some serious stuff. Be who you WANT... to be. You attract who you are... Lord have mercy lol looking at my track record I need to make some changes LOL thanks again for the video Ms. Tonya.

  • @natamil Im so glad you got it... Thank you! :-D

    -Tko

  • Thank you so much!

  • Haven't watched in a while. I need to catch up! I had to click on this cause It's how I'm feeling now and I want to be less insecure about myself in the new year...so yeah.

  • OMG you hit this one out of the ballpark! God must have channeled this message thur you!

  • @Aloebunny Thank you, I do feel that way some times; like the message comes from an alternate realm :)

    -Tko

  • WOW GIRL

  • i love your videos.....please please make more.

  • Tears, Tears, Tears, Preach.......ohhhh you are keeping it real. Thank you for this...

  • @Twotonetmw Dont cry sweetie-pie :,-)

    -Tko

  • Oh Tonya!! You spoke to me at 10:49. I have been dealing with a situation and you broke it down for me. I am a swan trying to live among ducks. Oh my goodness!! I have had my Ah Hah moment!! You made tears come to my eyes!! I understand now and I need 'the' Swan T-Shirt. Thank you!! BTW! I'm still working toward my Gold Bikini!

  • @The0Original0Kajmere LOL! Yes... hunnie, how long have you been working towards the gold bikini? Let me see some before pics & some now pics :)

    And yes, you made me go and watch that part... yes you have to get around swan... but first you have to KNOW you're a Swan :))

    -Tko

  • But Tonya...I feel this way in OUR relationship....you treat me so bad. Why you treat me like animal lol! Another great video. I envy your brain!

  • @TheDreemchaser Im so sorry you feel that way. I DO Love you. Im in contact more with you than my own little sister... So cheer up/ I give as much as I possibly can spare to give... I know its not much at all times... but still I try. :-/

    -Tko

  • Dear miss Tonya I love your videos. Thank you!

  • I truly enjoy and appreciate you and what you offer in your videos! Many blessings to you in this coming new year!!!

  • @themostbasicblack Thank you so much :)

    -Tko

  • I love your long videos tonya, mid video, I was worried about it being over. I loved this video so much, thank you for all of what you said.

  • @Oohsuger Im so glad you enjoyed it and benefited from it. I know you say you like the long vids, but I wish I could find a way to say everything in a shorter amt of time... I know you like it, but I get many complaints... I also do wish people could be able to watch more if they were shorter... and/or pass them around. I fear ppl who dont know me, wont even take the time to listen bcz they get turned off by the long time :0/

    -Tko

  • WOT says your skin site is not safe. I don't usually open pages that are not safe so check that out. I enjoyed the video. I wanna try those coconut rum balls or whatever they are. lol

  • @mrkillerman My site is one of the MOST secure most tightly encrypted sites you can enter. You have to update your browser dear.

    -Tko

  • Tonya, I can't view your website...when i talk in your website the first thing that comes up is a login page. But i dont have an account......help!!!

  • @ICETSUCKS You have to go to TkoSkin do t com... there is no login page which pops up, you shuold see the holiday baskets.

    -Tko

  • @TonyaTko Think u for this wonderful Talk of wisdom it really helped me out. 

  • I/We Like You!

    But You talk too much at times!

    Nice advertising!?

    Your True agenda!?

  • Happy New Years Tonya!!!!!!

  • Thank you for this video..I much need to hear this, passing it along to girlfriends who need to hear it also..Thanks again TonyaTko.

  • @msjerrielb Thank you for passing it along... I wish more people would. There are too many who need the messages, who will never know they even exist.

    -Tko

  • Saving 100$ for this basket

  • You have an awful lot of relationship advice miss love guru,but here's a question,do you even have a relationship yourself?i bet you dont,typical armchair expert LOL..

  • @onlyjoetee I would complain & then block your comment, but everyone needs haters.

  • @maipai101 if someone critiques you,it doesnt mean they "hate" you!that is an extremely childish perspective!!

  • @onlyjoetee I agree with that sentiment, and have said it myself multiple times. But You know what I was referring to so act like you know. You just made a childish comment with no proof what-so-ever to prove your claim. You don't have to date a million people to be an expert. Tonya is a very good observer.

  • @maipai101 everybody is an observer,you have to be very successful at something to advice other people on it.A fat person cannot come and tell you about nutrition.Unless this woman is very happily and successfully married for a long time,forget advice...

  • @onlyjoetee I didn't know you had to be currently in a relationship just to give advice about one. SHUT UP and take your bullshit ass comments somewhere else. She's obviously BEEN in relationships you idiot.

  • @kadejah19 physician heal thyself.....

  • @kadejah19 if you didnt know that a person needs to be in a very successful relationship in order to give advice to others,then you are a fucking stupid asshole!!would you take financial advice from someone who is broke?you fucking idiot!!

  • @onlyjoetee What makes you think SHE WANTS to be in a relationship??? That's my point. By the way I'm far from stupid. Name one thing she's talking about that's irrational?????? I'

  • @onlyjoetee You're basically saying that because she's giving advice and happens to not be in a relationship, then nothing she is saying makes sense???

  • @kadejah19 How can you give advice about something you yourself are not very very succesful at?HOW??

  • @onlyjoetee yes I would financial advice from someone who is broke because he would tell me how not to waste my money like he did his.

  • @kadejah19 be happy and succesfully married locktight for years,THEN give others "advice" otherwise its the blind leading the blind!!

  • @onlyjoetee Everyone doesn't believe in marriage..... Despite its awesome prevalence in the relationship discussion, we know marriage to be an entirely fabricated social construct, built from economic scrap and agrarian remnants, greased by religious dogma and fueled by our mad desire to build an even marginally effective container for the most slippery wonder-demon of all: Love

  • @kadejah19 Marriage is the unltimate memorial of commitment and relationship,in every single society on the face of this earth!!!!!!!

  • @onlyjoetee WRONG!! Being married or not being married does not measure your aptitude on relationships. Half of all marriages end in divorce and you best believe a good majority of the married 50% probably have some serious issues (i.e. look at what Kobe, Tiger's and many politician's wives had to put up with for years) But because they have that piece of paper they are more qualified??? I thinks NOT! Some people are just willing to settle.

  • @bene2727 I hope more people thumbs up your comment. The gender standards of worth and usefulness in this country are so skewed & sad. For example:The standard many use for if a man can give good advice to women, is if he is a "player."

    In my videos the base denominator is SELF LOVE. I hope before listening to anything from ANYBODY, a person will internalize it and see if it makes sense.

    -Tko

  • @bene2727 The wives of these very rich and powerful men know what their men get up to. I'm pretty sure Tiger's ex wife wouldn't have married him if he hadn't made a fortune from golf. I don't understand why people get surprised by rich and powerful men cheating on their wives. A LOT of women want them, beautiful, charming, intelligent women.

  • @bene2727 you do not use celebrities and sports stars as the measure of the importance of marriage to society.My father and mother have been married for 50 yrs,go ask them or those like them

  • @onlyjoetee By the way if you listened to the entire video before running your mouth you would have heard her state that sometimes you learn about love or relationships by the situations that didn't work for you. I'm a chemical engineer. And in research, we learn through mistakes.... So.. Having said that.. I'm done with you.

  • @onlyjoetee I c ur point. but somethings, the reason you know wot not to do is because u have had several failed attempts. like the saying goes, i have failed 100 times so I know 100 ways not to do it. her advice her enlightening and useful. She is giving her opinions and not giving RULES.

  • @celeronuyi Thank you.

    -Tko 

  • @onlyjoetee Her videos are about self love, then they are about loving others. The fact is, Tonya is this beautiful strong woman. In this specific video, she is talking about how sometimes you need to be single to discover yourself before getting into a relationship and getting hurt. A lot of people NEED to hear this. Next time its better to listen to the video before criticizing. This woman helped many many people. she's so much different than the 'typical armchair expert'.

  • @Oohsuger Thank you very much. At the end of the day, my videos are about SELF LOVE.

    The MOST Important relationship I talk about cultivating is the one inside of YOU. Once you have that self-love down pat, everything else falls into place.

    Whenever taking advice from me or anyone else, make sure that it sits well with your spirit. And whether the message travels thru me from the most high, or not, it has to resonate and make sense to YOU.

    Im just a conduit.

    -Tko

  • @onlyjoetee

    "i bet you dont,typical armchair expert LOL."

    That sounded like a hating comment to me, not a critique.

  • @lavinder11 whats hate got to do with it?dont be stupid,just because i dissagree with you does not mean i hate you!!

  • @onlyjoetee

    That is a hateful comment, not one that is meant to improve Tonya's role as an advice giver.

  • @lavinder11 why do you keep using the word hate?whats hate got to do with anything?this woman is always giving advice on relationships,which she is clearly not qualified to do.Its like a broke person giving financial advice,or a fat person giving nutritional advice LOL

  • @onlyjoetee Thank you for subscribing to my videos and commenting.

    I think most ppl are coming out in opposition of your statements because you started out with negativity : "I bet you dont have a relationship" - "Typical Armchair Expert" "LOL?"

    The only reason Im commenting back is because you finally followed up with sound & respectful input. I love to engage in logical meaningful dialog. (continued)

  • @TonyaTko #1, I'm in a relationship now where I have to make the decision of whether to get married. Marriage is not a magic hat, where once two people jump in, all of a sudden they become experts.

    #2 I dont give advice on marriage and how to be happily married & when I do spk on it I interview many diff ppl (like your parents) & relay the info w/full disclosure of the sources to my viewers

    #3 The main relationship I help to cultivate is the relationship we have with OURSELVES.

    cont

  • @TonyaTko #4 I speak on my life experiences and what has worked for me, and the multitudes of the people I've interviewed, as well as what has NOT worked (I've never been in an abusive relationship, but becz I speak on SELF LOVE, I can accurately advise a person that loving him/her self means leaving this situation).

    #5 As I grow & evolve I will continue to help those with whatever info I can provide or be used as a conduit from the Most High, to provide

    (continued)

  • @TonyaTko #6 At the end of the day it is each person's responsibility to decide what he/she will/won't abide by & incorporate. My viewers are not mindless drones. People take what they need when the need it. Look around, The spirit moves me to make a message when others need to hear it, as it also brings them to the video to hear it

    #7 I understand your logic, but please point to any min/sec of this video where you feel the info I am giving is ill, mis-guided, or hurtful

    (Cont)

  • @TonyaTko #8 There are many different parts of my videos which help many different people at different stages of his/her life.

    #9 To answer your question: YES, I am an expert of Self Love & True High Self Esteem. It just so happens that the relationship you have with others begins with the relationship you have with your SELF.

    #10 There are many married in 1 toxic relationships for a lifetime if you feel more comfortable adhering to their advice, by all means, leave my vids

    -Tko

  • @TonyaTko In conclusion, you have to trust the people, they know what they are doing, they know why they come to my videos.

    My experiences loving myself as well as the wrong & right persons make me qualified to give the advice I do. As well as your parents experience makes them qualified for theirs. I personally would much rather take advice on how to avoid being a booty call from someone who has BEEN one, than someone married at 18 in the post-antibellum era 50 yrs ago.

    -Tko'd

  • @TonyaTko like King Solomon said,there is nothing new under the sun.Booty calls were going on a thousand yrs ago too LOL.We all chose someone willingly,then when we dont get what we thought we would from them,we call them the "wrong" person LOL,but if you look at your life like a staircase,they were all the right person at that stage in your development.Personally,i have no regrets at all romantically...

  • @TonyaTko One thing i like about you TKO,you take a good punch,i really like that quality in a person,you dont just throw a tantrum and block people who dont automatically agree with you,like most people who make vidz on youtube.A great preacher told me marriage is like 2 potatos being mashed into one,go for it,you definitely have the resilience to be a success .It is the great insignia of any relationship.Ironically,i think you and i would probably make great pals,mental sparring partners LOL

  • @onlyjoetee I can admit I wasnt expecting THIS response from you... but nonetheless, I am getting ready to do my annual video on marriage and am interviewing married couples who have been married 5+ years. The topic is 10 things I wish I asked before I said "I Do" I would LOVE to interview your parents. The interview takes 20 minutes, is, totally anonymous and will help thousands of people.

    My last vid abt the 5 easiest ways to catch a husband helped14K viewers.

    -Tko

  • @TonyaTko there are some qualities about you i really like,perhaps thats why im drawn to your videos.Id like to interview my parents LOL,they come from a generation where even the word divorce was taboo,just the word itself alone!!

  • @TonyaTko in the late 70s my dad went crazy for a few yrs,99% of women would have divorced him probably.My mum didnt,because of her strong faith in God and iron clad belief in her vows and with serious prayer he actually came back to his senses and they carried on to this day!!imagine that!!

  • WOW...that's powerful. When your mental started dealing with you after the surgery is reflective of the inner sickness that may have created the tumors, trying to come out. The physical was removed but the mental started knockin. POWERFUL!

  • @nomakeupcutie I never thought about it like that, but thank you... this could be very true... just a part of the whole healing process. Thank you again :-D

    -Tko 

  • Preach it Girl!! Excellent advice as always.

  • I wish this video was longer, thanks so much TonyaTKO I needed this

  • I needed this video. Thank you.

  • I agree with you. When you turn off the television and the radio, you will begin to analyze your life. And when you get deep into it, you will realize what mate you need in life and who your real friends are. In this life you better realize who you are or people will tell you who you are.

  • @successismine100 Thank you SO MUCH! You get it :-D

    ((Hugs))

    -Tko

  • The long videos are EVERYTHING to me! I literally grab a drink and watch the entire videos THANKFUL that someone takes the time to break it down like you do. Thanks again! Stay in your natural flow! =)

  • @lloyd614 THanks bay :)

    -Tko 

  • I love long videos ur never boring to me!!!

  • Heeeeeeeeey tonya I missed you hope u have a wonderful New Years! XOXO!!!

  • im glad to see you back ! Tonya can you follow me back on twitter please? @iAmAdamsanti i would really like to speak to you.

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