I have never faked an orgasm but have also never been given an orgasm in bed. My partners were aware of this but they didn't seem to care. I guess I've been sleeping with the wrong people.
is this a real "true story" joy?... sounds so imature, why would the guy be upset about it? and what dose that have to do with the relationship? If you don't tell him then how are you ever going to work things out? If he makes her afraid to tell you she not cumming then what rite do you have to be mad at her? It's just stupid. The story makes no sence to me = S
Joy, I'm a gay male, and I think my sexuality is more female than male in terms of my sexual response. I cannot get aroused by physicality alone and require emotional/intimate connection, a non-goal oriented experience, etc. As such, some may wonder why I'm mostly asexual (even very low drive to masturbate) these days since I've not been successful in finding anyone worth it.
Been checked out by the doctor, all blood values are normal. It's psychological they think, & I'm seeing a counselor.
I agree just tell me if you aren't getting there. It isn't about destination but more about the journey. If you never get there then we know that there is something we need to figure out together. What works with one person doesn't always work with another. If we aren't told then we will never know. PLEASE talk to us about what YOU want us to do. We won't be offended because we want you to enjoy it as much as we do (maybe more then we do).
I have never faked an orgasm but have also never been given an orgasm in bed. My partners were aware of this but they didn't seem to care. I guess I've been sleeping with the wrong people.
FM897 1 year ago
You've got yourself another fan
Banaany 1 year ago
is this a real "true story" joy?... sounds so imature, why would the guy be upset about it? and what dose that have to do with the relationship? If you don't tell him then how are you ever going to work things out? If he makes her afraid to tell you she not cumming then what rite do you have to be mad at her? It's just stupid. The story makes no sence to me = S
TheRealMcCoy14 2 years ago
Joy, I'm a gay male, and I think my sexuality is more female than male in terms of my sexual response. I cannot get aroused by physicality alone and require emotional/intimate connection, a non-goal oriented experience, etc. As such, some may wonder why I'm mostly asexual (even very low drive to masturbate) these days since I've not been successful in finding anyone worth it.
Been checked out by the doctor, all blood values are normal. It's psychological they think, & I'm seeing a counselor.
jrg305 2 years ago
faking orgasms only deprives the faker - fool the faker
scorpio1066 2 years ago
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Merci Joy.
SpiritualSlutt 2 years ago
I agree just tell me if you aren't getting there. It isn't about destination but more about the journey. If you never get there then we know that there is something we need to figure out together. What works with one person doesn't always work with another. If we aren't told then we will never know. PLEASE talk to us about what YOU want us to do. We won't be offended because we want you to enjoy it as much as we do (maybe more then we do).
craziace1978 2 years ago
If only there could be such a positive response to one telling the other it's not working. It's usually a depressing moment for both parties.
jrg305 2 years ago