well mr ghostbuster himself jumped on the bandwagon (smooth music like this is from kashif actually, luther tried to do this but he went on to re make other people songs which led to his fans leaving him and being broke) but this is a smooth jam though always loved it and the kids today wont get this kind of music knowledge unless you have the parent play this music and go pay 75.00 to see the artist ..says uzi polo-king of decatur
What happened to this kind of music, when music was music? I'm not fond of todays music. I miss the Debarge's, Chante Moore, Phyllis Hyman, Switch, and etc... They just don't make music like that anymore. And as for hip hop please bring back some old school when hip hop was hip hop. Somebody please come up with real music.
I not that they don't like this musica it just that they aren't being introduce to this tru music about how to treat a woman not today they learn how to disrespect scanks.
This is for the quiet storm set. Ray Parker Jr. was the man. No, he's still the man. This is the song that you listen with you with your girl on a friday evening. :)
Stacy Phillips-Barjona, and she still looks the same...a cross between Whitney Houston ans Janet Jackson. I went to school with her at Jeffferson High School and Grant High School, both in Portland, OR. Beautiful, indeed, but she wore blue contacts in the video. She's 42 years old.
okay, how did she get in the house and up to the pool? Ray should know better than to leave his door open in LA!!! She'd have walked in on a dead body if that happened today!
I LOVED Ray Parker! When he was on American Bandstand in the 80's, he picked me (a regular dancer at the time) to go up on stage and dance with him while he sang. What memories! I hope to post that clip soon. I still love you Ray!!!
wow!!! i finally found this song thanks to google i have been looking for this song for years but no one i knew remembered it.. i was like under 10 when i use to sing along to this i'm 29years old now and i still remembered the words thats how i found it..wow!!!!
Youtube is great, isn't it? I'm your age and I've re-discovered all these old commercials, shows, and songs that I had almost forgotten about. it's cool how all this stuff is now accessable.
Dragit7, it's not on any greatest hits albums because this song and the album it was recorded on is on Geffen records and he probably didn't have enough hits on Geffen to justify a greatest hits album on that label.
The more I listen to this jam the further perplexed I am on why this song is not on any of his greatest hits albums. I JUST DONT GET IT (scratching head).
I think it was due to label restrictions with the label that released his greatest hits. I don't know though...I could be wrong. Especially since this song was a big Top 10 hit in 1987.
I was just thinking how long it's been since I heard this. But I never forgot the tune. In fact, this is one of the ones I remember Ray for best. I've been downloading 80s soul songs all week and this and "Jaime" just made my list.
OMG I haven't heard this song in years, I love this song I had forgot who sing this for a minute. Thank you for posting this :) I was 10 when this came out
Three words describe this song...SEXY, SENSUAL, SEDUCTIVE! I love this song and searched for it faithfully on the web - youtube is the BOMB! I agree this song did not receive the air play it deserved. You can feel the heat from this song!!
I think it's called "I love your daughter" or something like that. Go to msn and type Ray Parker Jr lyrics in the web search - Type in the above or "how I miss her so"
This may be one of Parker's best...I am sorry that it wasn't a bigger hit...I think that AIDS was just getting big around then and that may have scared off both MTV and radio programmers...Anybody have a copy of "Over You" which was on the same album?
You know people, I had the biggest crush on this guy when I was 12. I was the only one at school that had Ray P J's After Dark album whilst they all dissed him. 1987 all over again.
Why would anybody disrespect this guy? I never understood why anybody would do that. He is/was one of the best R&B/soul artists of the 70s and 80s, and managed to put out one of the catchiest records in history (Ghostbusters).
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thanks for posting this! haven't seen this video since it came out. The song is kind of cheesy but I was in love with Ray Parker Jr. back then that I didn't care. I just wanted to look at him. I remember thinking that girl in the video was so damn lucky! I wanted that to be me. Hey, I was a teenager then:-)
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lol pure thilf, wat i cheezy tune, but lets face it u no u secretly like it, this song is a discrace but at the same time an absolute clasic lol, it so bad its good lol
Sexiest tune ever imho x
DREAMYLEE 2 years ago
YES INDEED
STLEO1 2 years ago
just simbly a great song thanks ray
MrCarlball 2 years ago
I'd walk on hot coals to get to this man back when this song was out! LOL!
bestmusic96 2 years ago
What a Booty-Call!!!LOL
henryhansun 2 years ago
Yeah this is what I called music
porkisgood4u 2 years ago
Well, I guess I'd better go take a cold shower. This video is off the chain--smoking! I don't think I should sleep alone either.
antiann52 2 years ago
Grande Ray Parker !! I love your music... da sempre il mio favorito.....
lucbuc64 2 years ago
i remember this!.....oh snap.
HoneySuckleIncense 2 years ago 3
A time when we had REAL music!!!
hardlines4 2 years ago 3
There's no reason for YOU to sleep alone, that's for sure.
edwards2694 2 years ago
There's no force stronger than Motivation through Love... Peace to all of the Lovely Ladies, you keep me driven!
noprocrastination 2 years ago
This is a rare gem.
DancingEar08 2 years ago
Beautiful song!! Big Ray!!
daphnemarie74 2 years ago
well mr ghostbuster himself jumped on the bandwagon (smooth music like this is from kashif actually, luther tried to do this but he went on to re make other people songs which led to his fans leaving him and being broke) but this is a smooth jam though always loved it and the kids today wont get this kind of music knowledge unless you have the parent play this music and go pay 75.00 to see the artist ..says uzi polo-king of decatur
uzipolo 2 years ago
The song is still so damn COLD!
GMONY5 2 years ago 2
This song will ALWAYS be my jam...I LOVE THE HELL OUT OF IT!!!
vinylbitchie 2 years ago
What happened to this kind of music, when music was music? I'm not fond of todays music. I miss the Debarge's, Chante Moore, Phyllis Hyman, Switch, and etc... They just don't make music like that anymore. And as for hip hop please bring back some old school when hip hop was hip hop. Somebody please come up with real music.
SidniOrchids 2 years ago 4
This is a great song and great message I agree
lisa46100 2 years ago 2
Now this is real smooth R&B music!!!
DAMN!!!, I miss this kind of music.
Too bad the new generation of R&B music is not like this one.
drobo74 2 years ago 4
I enjoy these musics very much, glenn jones is another one, freddie jackson, why dont fuckin kids today don't like this kind of stuff?
Heratiochristofisson 2 years ago
I not that they don't like this musica it just that they aren't being introduce to this tru music about how to treat a woman not today they learn how to disrespect scanks.
RHAMES1234 2 years ago
Maybe they get put off by the neon hand rails ha ha haaa....
refrek 2 years ago
Very very nice vid Trent, thanks so much!!
elviraprincesdlanuit 2 years ago
I was 10 when this came out in '87.
70sbaby80schild4life 2 years ago
I was about 12. Were those not the good ole days. Who would of thought back then that we would have this thing called the "web."
The world has really changed both good and bad. It is long way from Reagan to Obama land huh?
idaniel4 2 years ago
Sexy man, sexy voice, sexy song!!
Krispcremelatina 2 years ago
This is one the smoothest tracks ever! I love it!!
balious2012 2 years ago
This is for the quiet storm set. Ray Parker Jr. was the man. No, he's still the man. This is the song that you listen with you with your girl on a friday evening. :)
baxstar 2 years ago
Boy, this song is still smooth.
JellyBean2144 2 years ago
I remember this. Very nice.
soulsistah100 2 years ago
Class track great album too that i have.
Shame Ghostbusters Theme is all most people know from him untill they findout how good he is.
wonderstuff1961 2 years ago 2
I used to listen to this music in my high school days.
I really love this song!
Thank you very much for posting.
nc0512 3 years ago
Somebody had the remix of this song a few months ago and they took it down. It was like 7 minutes long...
bowwow73 3 years ago
Ray, one of the greatest songs ever! Thank you!
auralava 3 years ago
who is that girl? she's beautiful!!
gertrudicous 3 years ago
i wonder who she is, she was very pretty but she's probably about 50 yrs old now
JerzeeGrind 3 years ago
Stacy Phillips-Barjona, and she still looks the same...a cross between Whitney Houston ans Janet Jackson. I went to school with her at Jeffferson High School and Grant High School, both in Portland, OR. Beautiful, indeed, but she wore blue contacts in the video. She's 42 years old.
blackprince206 2 years ago
Stacy Phillips-Barjona...42 years old, from Portland, OR, now living in south Carolina...5 kids, still looks the same.
blackprince206 2 years ago
okay, how did she get in the house and up to the pool? Ray should know better than to leave his door open in LA!!! She'd have walked in on a dead body if that happened today!
Other than that, good song.... LOL
dariusdynamite 3 years ago
The wink at 3.47
helmsly2010 3 years ago
now he plays with the Pursuaders
bnstl 3 years ago
great song
jazzfunk61 3 years ago
i just sent this to u lol - should hav checked txts first
eiderduck2 3 years ago
stupenda..........
marcostyle1971 3 years ago
People always thought he sounded white/caucasian.
asm1976 3 years ago
a large number of blacks do have euro mixture from their ancestors
RHAMES1234 3 years ago
he's to me in my mind is one of the best
he gets better in time'
bnstl 3 years ago 2
I wonder where Ray is now?
MrsMJ2007 3 years ago
Has new ablum touring with the crusaders
DaFaceManXXX 3 years ago
Good deal. He was a good singer.
MrsMJ2007 3 years ago 2
great song. you really dont hear nothing this smooth these days. guys can really learn from this.
edwardzaku 3 years ago 5
DAMN I MISS THE LATE 80'S..
memories of atlanta & nightlife & all...
MMAJISTY 3 years ago 7
way back R/B. music. love it....
kellyowie 3 years ago 6
this song is a fucking good souvenir in algiers in 1989...hakim
pinkhakimfloyd 3 years ago
Good music (all types) makes it's way around the world doesn't?
cjfl1962 3 years ago
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Ray was nice, I'd call him a poor mans Lionel Richie..lol
lamac66 3 years ago
watch you talking bout...
SosaDaBestNotTony 3 years ago 2
Man, look at that PHONE, looks like a cruise ship...lol
lamac66 3 years ago
the bass line sounds so familiar , I think it's a patti austin song.. in the heat of heat or sumn like that
kamelgee 3 years ago
Aw, man...this used to be my song back in the day...we used to seriously cool out to this; thanks so much for the posting.
TLDavis1230 3 years ago
this guy is mint ...love anything this guy does with raydio or solo
gram77ok 3 years ago 4
I didn't know this video was that sexy. The kiss is what blew me away. Dang, some women have all the luck (SIGH)
antiann52 3 years ago
I've got to stop looking at Ray, too. What radio station is he on?
antiann52 3 years ago
When music was MUSIC!!
hardlines4 3 years ago 2
he is a heaps good singer
uiio2345 3 years ago
BE STILL, MY HEART. hooo Lord...
empirecarpetsux 3 years ago
He sings very good, he romance / stylis, synthesizer rymth in
the background !
Trusten1984 3 years ago
He gets REALLY sexy @ 3:33!!
AvaDeMarco 3 years ago 2
Loooove this song!!! Ray Parker, Jr. was and still is the man!!!!
TLDavis1230 3 years ago 2
she is so groovy, like the video and song is.
waxwarrior03 3 years ago
Wow! Is he still alive?
Dameka247 3 years ago
i grew up with this guys music wonderfull stuff
oneoleqt 3 years ago
that woman is fine azz hell!! i wanna jump in Rays place...lol
GerardFreeman 3 years ago
So so sexy! wouldn't it be great to hear this voice in your ear????
blossbink 3 years ago 2
Smooth.
ICEGOD2 4 years ago
I LOVED Ray Parker! When he was on American Bandstand in the 80's, he picked me (a regular dancer at the time) to go up on stage and dance with him while he sang. What memories! I hope to post that clip soon. I still love you Ray!!!
angelgoulet 4 years ago
I Love Ray!! He also has great Jazz cd's too!! With his sexy self!!
YummyChoco1 4 years ago
Wow he's wearing Z Cavaricci pants
I remember wanting a pair in every color!
new91178 4 years ago
Great tune one of my all time fav's
Eyerex 4 years ago
i LOVE this track....its on a master cuts compilation...that i still have.....80's were the best!!
Panos1963 4 years ago 3
wow!!! i finally found this song thanks to google i have been looking for this song for years but no one i knew remembered it.. i was like under 10 when i use to sing along to this i'm 29years old now and i still remembered the words thats how i found it..wow!!!!
flaunt2 4 years ago
I know - me too! I must have played this video 100 times after finally locating it. I now have it on cd thanks to Limewire.
mocaorchid 4 years ago
I love this song !! Masterpiece of the 80`s
lalunera1997 4 years ago
Youtube is great, isn't it? I'm your age and I've re-discovered all these old commercials, shows, and songs that I had almost forgotten about. it's cool how all this stuff is now accessable.
oceanbelow 4 years ago
Where can I get to put this on myspace?
linkup 4 years ago
You could probably try clicking share and forwarding it to your My Space address Goodluck
mocaorchid 4 years ago
Where can I get to put this on myspace?
linkup 4 years ago
Wow! Where did they find this? This was my song but I could have done without those little shorts in the pool scene. LOL!
lilysky30 4 years ago
LOL! Male dukes...gotta love him though
mocaorchid 4 years ago
He and Tyrone Davis sound the same .
kewanw16 4 years ago
Dragit7, it's not on any greatest hits albums because this song and the album it was recorded on is on Geffen records and he probably didn't have enough hits on Geffen to justify a greatest hits album on that label.
nekinono 4 years ago
Sounds like a booty call to me. lol
nekinono 4 years ago 3
Ok! ...and I like it!
mocaorchid 4 years ago
The more I listen to this jam the further perplexed I am on why this song is not on any of his greatest hits albums. I JUST DONT GET IT (scratching head).
dragit7 4 years ago 2
I think it was due to label restrictions with the label that released his greatest hits. I don't know though...I could be wrong. Especially since this song was a big Top 10 hit in 1987.
marcusrob02 3 years ago
...the album is "After Dark", and I love it!!!
cippi966 4 years ago 2
The biggest lie ever told: "I won't try nothin', baby." Great song for the 80s, though.
barrys 4 years ago 2
Lol..........good point!!!
joekiddphonehome 3 years ago
I was just thinking how long it's been since I heard this. But I never forgot the tune. In fact, this is one of the ones I remember Ray for best. I've been downloading 80s soul songs all week and this and "Jaime" just made my list.
cathridge 4 years ago
OMG I haven't heard this song in years, I love this song I had forgot who sing this for a minute. Thank you for posting this :) I was 10 when this came out
ladygirl99 4 years ago
Beautiful black soul.. before gangsta fucked it all up!
scaryleary 4 years ago 2
Touche! and I am an African American!
Crander1962 4 years ago 3
WONDERFUL !!!! Ray is great !!
Sexyabbestia !! ( Italians understand this...)
lucbuc64 4 years ago
OMG!!! I haven't heard that song since it first came out when I was 10.
nick7477 4 years ago
Which album is this song listed on? I would like to burn this to cd - Bearshare doesn't have it - is there another site?
mocaorchid 4 years ago
Three words describe this song...SEXY, SENSUAL, SEDUCTIVE! I love this song and searched for it faithfully on the web - youtube is the BOMB! I agree this song did not receive the air play it deserved. You can feel the heat from this song!!
mocaorchid 4 years ago
ULTRA BLACK SOUL!!!
aquerius23 4 years ago 3
This is a classic. I was a youngster when this song was out.
CharlieRicarlo 4 years ago
He has said it all......A Man Should Never Sleep Alone!!!!!
shanker240274 4 years ago 2
Thanks for this one.
Ray Parker Jr. had another sweet song, not that known:
The lyrics were something about a sad guy talking/begging to the mother 'misses Jones' of his ex girlfriend.
Does somebody knows which song I mean?
gallardogt 4 years ago
I think it's called "I love your daughter" or something like that. Go to msn and type Ray Parker Jr lyrics in the web search - Type in the above or "how I miss her so"
mocaorchid 4 years ago
Thanks.
That the one yes.Couldn't find the lyrics right away but I'm sure somebody will upload the song someday.
gallardogt 4 years ago
THANKS for this post! I have not seen this video in literally 20 years! AWESOME!!
bearnkilt 4 years ago 3
Very good Ray Parker!to me music wiht feeling.
edestci 4 years ago
This was a good album, after dark.
furiousangeltwo 4 years ago
This may be one of Parker's best...I am sorry that it wasn't a bigger hit...I think that AIDS was just getting big around then and that may have scared off both MTV and radio programmers...Anybody have a copy of "Over You" which was on the same album?
peeterpoon 4 years ago
this album was the shhheeeeiit!!
newsiemen4u 4 years ago 2
You know people, I had the biggest crush on this guy when I was 12. I was the only one at school that had Ray P J's After Dark album whilst they all dissed him. 1987 all over again.
enaeb 4 years ago 2
Why would anybody disrespect this guy? I never understood why anybody would do that. He is/was one of the best R&B/soul artists of the 70s and 80s, and managed to put out one of the catchiest records in history (Ghostbusters).
marcusrob02 3 years ago 3
Fool
SosaDaBestNotTony 3 years ago
why would you disrespect this guy.best R/B soul artist of the 70s and 80.
kellyowie 3 years ago 5
MERCI MERCI j'ai vu le clip sur m6 une chaine française cordialement
feldgendarm 4 years ago
FELDGENDARMERIE?
edestci 4 years ago
Whatever happened to Ray? I used to think this guy was the sexiest thing alive. :P
JenniM1020 4 years ago
He does smooth jazz work now.
ICEGOD2 4 years ago
Thanks for the update
JenniM1020 4 years ago
That's right -- man should not sleep alone. Women were put on this earth so that such a thing does not happen. :)
ech4848 4 years ago 2
Good track
Ayochief 4 years ago
You gotta love the jheri curl & the big ass cordless phone.A classic!
1bigmann 4 years ago
The wink he does after he kisses the lady...LOL
helmsly2010 4 years ago 2
Thank you so much for posting this!
helmsly2010 4 years ago 2
Men should not sleep alone.
Don't steal my wives...I mean wife:)
okay whatever:(
AcePilot101 4 years ago
looks kinda like Lando Calrissian
Gepetto88 4 years ago 4
maybe he played Lando!
lol XD
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stupidgirls1306 4 years ago
thanks for posting this! haven't seen this video since it came out. The song is kind of cheesy but I was in love with Ray Parker Jr. back then that I didn't care. I just wanted to look at him. I remember thinking that girl in the video was so damn lucky! I wanted that to be me. Hey, I was a teenager then:-)
LeahLove27 4 years ago 3
GOOD VIDEO
josatinho 4 years ago
I will have nightmares now
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lilmissmexo 4 years ago
nice tune
cyshadowx 4 years ago
I think this is a pretty good song.
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beautifulbali 4 years ago
lol pure thilf, wat i cheezy tune, but lets face it u no u secretly like it, this song is a discrace but at the same time an absolute clasic lol, it so bad its good lol
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