Homosexuality is no more a choice than heterosexuality. If you don't think so, then exactly when did you choose to be heterosexual? I choose to be straight, did everything a church told me to to become straight, got an exorcism to become straight, and almost committed suicide when none of their BS worked. There are many people who went to a church instead of someone not so ignorant and many of them now are dead by suicide or traumatized and atheists as a result of the church.
"I wasn't going to have hair any more...wasn't going to work out as much and lie out in the sun..." WTF? This guy is not only a douche he's full of crap!
Of course, you cannot be an "ex-gay" any more than you can be an "ex-black" or "ex-tall". With enough indoctrination, self-loathing, "religious" pressure and societal hatred, anyone can deny, suppress, reject, and ignore his innate self, but in the end, since you can't change who you really are, what's the point?
Honestly, if he really is madly in love EMOTIONALLY & PHYSICALLY to his wife, than he is not straight, he would be bi! Probably always was but never understood what bi really is! Now don't get me wrong, I'm a super lesbian, at first I thought I was bi but then realized I was actually gay since I didn't have emotional romantic feelings for guys. I know gay people who secretly tell me they were always bi, but afraid of it, then they fall in love with opposite sex, & come out as bi.
Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes. This is good News!!! Gay people can be delivered from homosexuality!!! Spread the news.!!!! Lets put an end to this "Gay history " education that's takeing place in California. It's not needed.
@Twoodssax1234567, why is it 'good news" that people can be brainwashed into hating themselves so much that they deny who they really are? The vast majority of "ex-gay" men ultimately admit that they cannot, have not, and will never change from gay to straight, and end up returning to same-sex relationships, thereby devastating their wives and children. When "religious" and societal pressure compels people to live a lie, and pretend being gay is "wrong" and can be changed, everyone suffers.
I dunno, I just can't find it in me to hate or even mildly dislike ex-gays. Of course what they believe is rubbish but it's fun to watch and they're kind enough people. As a bi with no idea what I am (I just sleep with whatever I see first) who knows, I guess I'm just past the "gay community"s uptightness.
@JermzzzyFTW I'm lesbian, I believe people who were gay first then turn out to be bi, I really do! What I don't believe is people who say they went from gay to straight, sorry, if you still feel emotional and physical attraction to men, even though you feel it for the woman you are with, you are at least bi! It's all a scale baby!
He said he left being gay because, "Honosexuality is for the young. There is a time when I wasn't going to have hair anymore, there was a time where I wasn't going to work out every day, lay out in the sun and be as much of a commodoty as I was..." Heart breaking. so he felt he couldn't stay HOT, so he couldn't have a relationship, so he switched to women because they would love him regardless when gay men apparently couldn't?? The man needs help. All he's doing now is living life on the down
BenjaminWirtz.... he's still gay, Allan said in some article that he "still struggles" the ex gays have diluted themselves into believing they can change, the only thing they change is the behavior!
Because there are scientific proof that sexuality is something that you can't change, its imprinted in your biological makeup, he contradicts himself alot in alot of interviews, and his treatments are not approved by the scientific community and known to be harmful to alot of people, many who went through the program have attempted suicide. The overwhelming evidence is there that people can't change their sexuality.
Well you still have to support the man and his decisions with his life... it is his life and we are not the judges of it. DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO TO BE HAPPY.
WTF? Repairative therapy is a crock of horseshit. It destroys lives, like it almost destroyed mine! I almost commited suicide because of being gay. Repairative therapy is a root of evil. I am PROUD to be a gay man, who IS created in the image of God just like eveyone else. Why do "christians" think it is their job to change us? WTF?!
@scooter80218 I don't get why Christians always make others' business theirs? I bet he feels good, because now society is happy about him. Maybe he's bisexual.
@scooter80218 created in the image of God is following his character, his values , his thoughts , his morals.............This would not be homosexuality . You can be proud of who you say you are ........I am proud of being ex-gay for over a year now .........and I have never been to repairitive therapy......." The word is profitable for reproof , doctrine and correction"
Alan Chambers is the current president of Exodus. So what happened to the two guys who started Exodus? They fell in love and now denounce Exodus. I am sure we will see this Alan Mary in a picture or newsstory caught with his hand in the male cookie jar.
They offer "Alternative treatment" because society especially conservative christians believe you have to treat the disease known as homosexuallity. What a bunch of shit. If it makes you happy and your not harming anyone let them live their lives....FUCK!
Re: "if these people really changed, then they would simply be straight - - not professionally ex-gay."
EXACTLY! There's a link to another video here in which a psychologist made a documentary showing only 4% of people who try to "change" are successful--and ALL of them, ALL of them work in the ex-gay movement. (As if a 4% success rate weren't pathetic enough.)
@InXanadu2 That is pathetic! I bet they weren't really completely gay in the begining. Maybe bi. I can't believe they can enjoy sex with a woman otherwise.
@zeldaofarel I agree with you, I'm a lesbian and I've had sex with guys in the past, I liked it, it was nice, wasn't horrible, but emotionally romantically I'm just not there with guys, never have been, never will be! If he is towards his wife, then he is bi, not straight!
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Homosexuality is no more a choice than heterosexuality. If you don't think so, then exactly when did you choose to be heterosexual? I choose to be straight, did everything a church told me to to become straight, got an exorcism to become straight, and almost committed suicide when none of their BS worked. There are many people who went to a church instead of someone not so ignorant and many of them now are dead by suicide or traumatized and atheists as a result of the church.
MrSurfingdreamer 2 months ago
hat therapist is really stupid.
ec123456789able 5 months ago
"I wasn't going to have hair any more...wasn't going to work out as much and lie out in the sun..." WTF? This guy is not only a douche he's full of crap!
suvariboy 5 months ago
@aehre2
You're only partly right. Sexuality is developmental, biological, and innate.
ZelphKinderhook 6 months ago
Of course, you cannot be an "ex-gay" any more than you can be an "ex-black" or "ex-tall". With enough indoctrination, self-loathing, "religious" pressure and societal hatred, anyone can deny, suppress, reject, and ignore his innate self, but in the end, since you can't change who you really are, what's the point?
GodCreatesGays2 6 months ago
@GodCreatesGays2 Well said.
missburn 6 months ago
@missburn, thank you. :)
GodCreatesGays2 6 months ago
Honestly, if he really is madly in love EMOTIONALLY & PHYSICALLY to his wife, than he is not straight, he would be bi! Probably always was but never understood what bi really is! Now don't get me wrong, I'm a super lesbian, at first I thought I was bi but then realized I was actually gay since I didn't have emotional romantic feelings for guys. I know gay people who secretly tell me they were always bi, but afraid of it, then they fall in love with opposite sex, & come out as bi.
sillykatz 6 months ago
Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes. This is good News!!! Gay people can be delivered from homosexuality!!! Spread the news.!!!! Lets put an end to this "Gay history " education that's takeing place in California. It's not needed.
Twoodssax1234567 7 months ago
@Twoodssax1234567, why is it 'good news" that people can be brainwashed into hating themselves so much that they deny who they really are? The vast majority of "ex-gay" men ultimately admit that they cannot, have not, and will never change from gay to straight, and end up returning to same-sex relationships, thereby devastating their wives and children. When "religious" and societal pressure compels people to live a lie, and pretend being gay is "wrong" and can be changed, everyone suffers.
GodCreatesGays2 6 months ago
@Twoodssax1234567
Yes, gay history SHOULD be taught in schools! Gay people are as much a part of our society as anyone else.
ZelphKinderhook 6 months ago
i hate this audio soooooooooooooooooo much!!!!!
speedx50 1 year ago
lol.. If gays can become straight. Than... how many men decide to become gay?
I thought guys don't have a choice to be gay and women due:)
kingofthenight1 1 year ago
I dunno, I just can't find it in me to hate or even mildly dislike ex-gays. Of course what they believe is rubbish but it's fun to watch and they're kind enough people. As a bi with no idea what I am (I just sleep with whatever I see first) who knows, I guess I'm just past the "gay community"s uptightness.
JermzzzyFTW 1 year ago
@JermzzzyFTW I'm lesbian, I believe people who were gay first then turn out to be bi, I really do! What I don't believe is people who say they went from gay to straight, sorry, if you still feel emotional and physical attraction to men, even though you feel it for the woman you are with, you are at least bi! It's all a scale baby!
sillykatz 6 months ago
the conversion guy is full of bull
Freakfazee 1 year ago
He said he left being gay because, "Honosexuality is for the young. There is a time when I wasn't going to have hair anymore, there was a time where I wasn't going to work out every day, lay out in the sun and be as much of a commodoty as I was..." Heart breaking. so he felt he couldn't stay HOT, so he couldn't have a relationship, so he switched to women because they would love him regardless when gay men apparently couldn't?? The man needs help. All he's doing now is living life on the down
jackson4socks 2 years ago 3
low and haing his beard/family in 'real' life. I feel sorry for him and his wife.
jackson4socks 2 years ago 4
How do all you people know that you can't change? He didn't want to be gay how can you say he doesn't you can't read his mind.
BenjaminWirtz 3 years ago
BenjaminWirtz.... he's still gay, Allan said in some article that he "still struggles" the ex gays have diluted themselves into believing they can change, the only thing they change is the behavior!
vegas787 2 years ago 3
Because there are scientific proof that sexuality is something that you can't change, its imprinted in your biological makeup, he contradicts himself alot in alot of interviews, and his treatments are not approved by the scientific community and known to be harmful to alot of people, many who went through the program have attempted suicide. The overwhelming evidence is there that people can't change their sexuality.
YotJoey 2 years ago
u ever notice dese ex gays always always always act femmy?
jogu78 3 years ago
prolly cos dey dont want us to hear it
jogu78 3 years ago
There is now such thing as an ex gay. You either are or you're not. These people have so much self hate I almost feel sorry for them.
GetTheHook 3 years ago
no wonder... his wife looks like a man.... joke
marikitna 3 years ago
haven't these people ever heard of bisexualism?
DRArtist88 3 years ago
But the point is he wouldn't admit he is a bisexual, he calls himself straight
YotJoey 2 years ago
uhm, so hes bisexual. whats the big deal?
ydna2003 3 years ago
He's gay & brainwashed...sad case.
AlanAlfredoSauce 3 years ago 6
I agree. It is as simple as picking up a Playgirl magazine and looking at it just to perform with his wife.
ChavoMysterio 2 years ago
USED TO BE?????? GET REAL QUEEN.
adehmark 3 years ago 3
Well you still have to support the man and his decisions with his life... it is his life and we are not the judges of it. DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO TO BE HAPPY.
scotlegranail 4 years ago 8
He has every right to do this and I hope he's truly happy and adjusted, still it seems unconvincing.
bigfilmhat 3 years ago 3
WTF? Repairative therapy is a crock of horseshit. It destroys lives, like it almost destroyed mine! I almost commited suicide because of being gay. Repairative therapy is a root of evil. I am PROUD to be a gay man, who IS created in the image of God just like eveyone else. Why do "christians" think it is their job to change us? WTF?!
scooter80218 4 years ago 17
@scooter80218 I don't get why Christians always make others' business theirs? I bet he feels good, because now society is happy about him. Maybe he's bisexual.
zeldaofarel 1 year ago
@scooter80218 created in the image of God is following his character, his values , his thoughts , his morals.............This would not be homosexuality . You can be proud of who you say you are ........I am proud of being ex-gay for over a year now .........and I have never been to repairitive therapy......." The word is profitable for reproof , doctrine and correction"
enaudnella 1 year ago
Yes, of course people wake up in the morning and say: "I want to be GAY today!"... *rolls eyes*
summerstudios 4 years ago 5
Alan,May God Bless You and your family.
damon5683 4 years ago
agreed
gdunntm 2 years ago
Alan Chambers is the current president of Exodus. So what happened to the two guys who started Exodus? They fell in love and now denounce Exodus. I am sure we will see this Alan Mary in a picture or newsstory caught with his hand in the male cookie jar.
badone112002 4 years ago
They offer "Alternative treatment" because society especially conservative christians believe you have to treat the disease known as homosexuallity. What a bunch of shit. If it makes you happy and your not harming anyone let them live their lives....FUCK!
Ramz8465 4 years ago 2
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Way to go, Alan!
ExodusStudents 4 years ago
I think he's more whacky than bi - if these people really changed, then they would simply be straight - not professionally ex-gay.
Robguy66 4 years ago 4
@Robguy66
Re: "if these people really changed, then they would simply be straight - - not professionally ex-gay."
EXACTLY! There's a link to another video here in which a psychologist made a documentary showing only 4% of people who try to "change" are successful--and ALL of them, ALL of them work in the ex-gay movement. (As if a 4% success rate weren't pathetic enough.)
InXanadu2 2 years ago
@InXanadu2 so true !!
Nathonda 1 year ago
@InXanadu2 That is pathetic! I bet they weren't really completely gay in the begining. Maybe bi. I can't believe they can enjoy sex with a woman otherwise.
zeldaofarel 1 year ago
@zeldaofarel I agree with you, I'm a lesbian and I've had sex with guys in the past, I liked it, it was nice, wasn't horrible, but emotionally romantically I'm just not there with guys, never have been, never will be! If he is towards his wife, then he is bi, not straight!
sillykatz 6 months ago
@InXanadu2 4% were probably actually bisexual, which is why they were able to "convert".
sillykatz 6 months ago
He's Bi!
swaters 4 years ago 4
Seriously. I hate how people think there's only gay & straight.
SeanZ 3 years ago 3