Every now and then I come across your videos. They are wonderful to watch and so are you. I like style and your wit. May you be Blessed with much! (jim)
I feel your pain. In my case...I see a shrink and take my meds. LOL
I came out late in life and it's either guys 20 years older or 20 years younger than me. I don't want to change diapers either way. :P. I'ts very discouraging I know.
the reason your having these difficulties plain and clear its because your black. blacks are the least desired in the gay community, no one not even other blacks would even think of dating a black guy. here in america where racism is ingrained, its especially a probelm
"blacks are the least desired in the gay community."
Not true, depends on how attractive or goodlooking that "black guy" is or someone's preference. I lived in WeHo and I've seen a lot of (very goodlooking) black men with white or latino men. From my own personal experience I get hit on all the time mostly by white men. By me being masculine, muscular, having been in the military (Marine), let's face it, that appeals to a lot of gay men regardless of race, just saying.
@MrJuly1990ish "Black men have to be muscular to be considered attractive by the racist white gays" well thats pathetic. Are there Black twinks in the gay community because it seems as if a black gay man's position in the gay world is defined by the white gays.
i'm having a hard time finding that special man in my life. What's bad is that I've managed to have sex with guys and none of them wanted to be my boyfriend. Of course, i almost did get into a relationship with someone this year or a couple of years back because we were chatting off of the internet. Now today I found out that this one black guy is dropping my name like a bomb or something around one of my friends as a way to get girls. WTF?!
go see a shrink... you're talking to a camera. You look like you' 've reached the bottom of nervous breakdown. If you meet someone , shut your mouth, forget your ego and be open on what the other can say...
So true, I have the same problem. But, I've concluded that the 'problem' is not with myself, but with 95 percent of the fucked up population. So that makes me feel better. Dude, there's nothing wrong with you- hang in there Bud!
LMAO! Man, I'm in the same boat. I've been single and virtually dateless for 6 years now. I've got the "anywhere-but-where-you-are-itis" AND I'm black and attract mostly older (usually white) guys over 40. But other than that, the only (local) guys interested in me are the ones I'm not interested in, and vice versa. Any time we BOTH like each other, it doesn't go anywhere due to bad timing/circumstances. I feel like God keeps playing pranks on me, and I almost don't trust him/her/it anymore. LOL
Every now and then I come across your videos. They are wonderful to watch and so are you. I like style and your wit. May you be Blessed with much! (jim)
PozVille 3 months ago
I feel your pain. In my case...I see a shrink and take my meds. LOL
I came out late in life and it's either guys 20 years older or 20 years younger than me. I don't want to change diapers either way. :P. I'ts very discouraging I know.
bostricano 3 months ago
the reason your having these difficulties plain and clear its because your black. blacks are the least desired in the gay community, no one not even other blacks would even think of dating a black guy. here in america where racism is ingrained, its especially a probelm
djespn 1 year ago
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"blacks are the least desired in the gay community."
Not true, depends on how attractive or goodlooking that "black guy" is or someone's preference. I lived in WeHo and I've seen a lot of (very goodlooking) black men with white or latino men. From my own personal experience I get hit on all the time mostly by white men. By me being masculine, muscular, having been in the military (Marine), let's face it, that appeals to a lot of gay men regardless of race, just saying.
MrJuly1990ish 1 year ago
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mammygirl69 2 months ago
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@MrJuly1990ish "Black men have to be muscular to be considered attractive by the racist white gays" well thats pathetic. Are there Black twinks in the gay community because it seems as if a black gay man's position in the gay world is defined by the white gays.
mammygirl69 2 months ago
@djespn GOOD. That means I don't have to kill a HOMO.
oneworldkingdom 4 months ago
i'm having a hard time finding that special man in my life. What's bad is that I've managed to have sex with guys and none of them wanted to be my boyfriend. Of course, i almost did get into a relationship with someone this year or a couple of years back because we were chatting off of the internet. Now today I found out that this one black guy is dropping my name like a bomb or something around one of my friends as a way to get girls. WTF?!
790936 2 years ago
go see a shrink... you're talking to a camera. You look like you' 've reached the bottom of nervous breakdown. If you meet someone , shut your mouth, forget your ego and be open on what the other can say...
poglay 2 years ago
So true, I have the same problem. But, I've concluded that the 'problem' is not with myself, but with 95 percent of the fucked up population. So that makes me feel better. Dude, there's nothing wrong with you- hang in there Bud!
Tmhen 2 years ago
I think some people pick up on your vibe, when your not looking their always in your face, but when you looking they can't see you
jaquaw 2 years ago
weird
iiicy 3 years ago
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Keon006 3 years ago
LMAO! Man, I'm in the same boat. I've been single and virtually dateless for 6 years now. I've got the "anywhere-but-where-you-are-itis" AND I'm black and attract mostly older (usually white) guys over 40. But other than that, the only (local) guys interested in me are the ones I'm not interested in, and vice versa. Any time we BOTH like each other, it doesn't go anywhere due to bad timing/circumstances. I feel like God keeps playing pranks on me, and I almost don't trust him/her/it anymore. LOL
qlwewlq 3 years ago 2
Man, I'm glad I'm not alone! I think God hates us and wants us to suffer!
Petrades 3 years ago
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I think ur right, u fuckin fagget ass nigga.
Ctwebsyter 3 years ago
ROFL at the scratch "i've done a black guy" off the bucket list. omg.
thanks xander :) we'll both find someone eventually!!
xypowerpop 3 years ago