Online Relationship! Never Met and We're Already Fighting!

[WeddingPlanner00]

IM IN A LDR. WE MET WHILE HE WAS IN PRISON. I TALK TO ALL HIS FAMILY.... I EXPERIENCE THE QUESTION YOU READ. Help!!

[DraconianAngel]

Physical contact does not automatically equal a "real" relationship. You can hook up with someone easily at clubs or bars for a one-night stand. When going on first dates, very rarely you'd permit the other person to touch you intimately anyway. And of course, some promiscuous people get plenty of "physical contact" without being in a "real" relationship. Really, how much can you learn from a person from just meeting them? Humans have deceived each other before without the aid of the Internet.

[prettyeven]

i seriously don't believe in loving people you haven't met. online relationships allow you time to think over your words and charm the other party in some sense. i a realtime relationship, the way you communicate with each other is spontaneous and body language plays a part in loving each other as well, not just mere words. sure you can develop relationships online, but not love. mere words typed online can charm you but real love and interaction can leave you feeling goosebumps...

[tziirkq]

@prettyeven

That's why Superman invented web cams.

[Jennivision]

We were already engaged before we ever met because we loved each other, shared the same values and just glued together. Being cheated on by someone you're engaged to would be devastating! But hey, I bet these 2 couldn't understand being engaged online either. Cause, ya know, it's somehow not real even though it's 2 people typing to each other or talking on the phone.

[Jennivision]

and these two are really ignorant and shouldnt be giving advice about online relationships if they can't even fathom that you can be cheated on by an online partner. I have been married 2 years and we've been in a relationship for 8 years and we met online.

[Jennivision]

I don't get why it says "haven't met but we're ALREADY fighting"... why wouldnt you fight in an online relationship? you have feelings enough to be in a relationship in the first place so it's completely normal to have things associated with strong feelings, like fighting, which happens in most relationships.

[Bloodflame]

thanks for this shitty advice. i know who not to listen to for anything now... you obviously don't understand online relationships. nobody does unless they have been in one. currently, i am in one such online relationship, and i love my girlfriend dearly. and i know she loves me too. yes, we have our problems from time to time, but that's normal in any relationship, near or far. we work out our differences and carry on, just like you would in a "local relationship". love knows no distance.

[ahmaketharim]

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[1ActionBabe]

3 things bothers me.... 1.Their voices. 2.How they think they have "knowledge" about online dating 3. HIS HAIR!!! I mean.... He is almost bald! xD

[uthetube09]

I don't know what bothers me more here. The liquid kryptonite they're drinking, the way they look at each other after every point, or the obviously fake plant in the background.

[90ESSO]

she's not cheating on some one she has never met !!! >> she's cheated on some one she love ! Relationships its not all about physical contact ! ,,, it's about LOVING some one ,, feelings, distance doesn't matter!!!physical contact come only to express this love it doesn't give you the permission to cheat ! YOU CANT cheat on some one you love even if its an online relationship ! ,,, she cheated on you then she didn't love you !! :(

[Skyzdalimit20]

Itz the pain that getz to us the most ,Like when you wake up in the morning and you didn't get to talk to em online or phone for a couple of dayz do to WiFi connectivity issues or just to busy ! Most likely we all begin to wonder why their not replying to your messages ! I know it hurts but you just gotta keep your head up and be persistent and positive ok ! don't let one or two days get to you ! Be as patient as possible ! LDR Takes time and if you really love that individual ! Just be there 4m

[chumpyman]

Why is a raging homo giving advice on stright relationship advice?

[VideoChannel08]

dan and jenn are always negative when giving advice -_-

[muslimqueen]

you dont need physical contact to make it work i am in a LRD relationship with my hubsband we started LD and did not meet till 1 year into our relationship then meet for 2 weeks and i had to leave again. but were happy and in love and yes LDR are very had but till that other person can move with you you have to go threw it at least you get to know eatch other and know you IN LOVE with that person for them and not for the physical parts of the relationship as i said a relationship is not just sex

[BAMBAMandTAYSHANAY]

--Tend To Disagree!!

You Dunno My Lifee! How I Feel! How Kyle Feels! Gosh..-.-

[BAMBAMandTAYSHANAY]

This Likee. I Dunno Crushedd My Hopes!

Argh!!

Yeahh I'm Only A Young Teenager - But I Met My BoyFriendd On myYearbook. We've Been Dating For About A Week Now & He Only Lives About An Hour Away ((Ik That's Likee Nothing)) But I Always Keep In Contact Withh Him For Hours Everyday. He Is Olderr Than Me By Sometime & He Says He Loves Me & He Wants To Be Together For A Long Time & Nobody Can Stop Him From Datingg Me. But This Dan Dude Just Saidd You Don't Really Love The Person Or Whatever? I Ten

[muslimqueen]

@BAMBAMandTAYSHANAY Dont let anyone crush your hopes, what may work for one person may not work for everyone. my and my husband started are relationship long distance and we did not meet till after a year of being together i met him and stayed with him for 2 weeks and were married and happy and i love. yes you will fight sometimes and get jelouse cuz its long distance but if you talk and tell eatch other about your day ect everything will be ok. a relationship is not just about sex.

[brookeafterlia]

The advice in this video is fail.

That is all.

[chemical2276]

get to the fucking question....urgh!

[usedcardboardboxes]

Online relationships are just as crazy as offline relationships. It requires two patient and compassionate people to give and take. That's not easy, and computers certainly won't eliminate the need for love in a relationship.

[bekkablah]

My fiance and I have been together almost 3 years.

We've met once (this year) and we clicked just perfectly in real life.

The reason it took so long was because all my family was very against the whole thing and we live on opposite sides of the world.

He's coming out here in 8 days and it's all I look forward to.

We didn't go looking for an online thing though, we just happened to use the same online forum (Yahoo! Answers) and it just happened.

Soooooo, it works but it is fucking hard!

[oriondeath]

@bekkablah Hey, you're almost in the same situation I'm in. I've been dating my girlfiend online for a year and we also met on Yahoo Answers. We've never met in person yet, because she thinks her parents would hate the idea of us being together. She's going to college and living on campus next month so we can see each other whenever we want so her parents can't control her. It's really hard, especially when you can't physically communicate, but it really just takes patience.

[bekkablah]

@oriondeath He got into a car accident and couldn't come and visit me. It devastated me. But I love him so it's worth it. The reason I'm telling you this is because it sounds like at least you two are in the same country. Just communicate with each other everyday and set goals to make the relationship a 'real life' one because otherwise it's so frustrating sitting here thinking 'what the HELL is this all for!?'

Good luck =]

[EliteDoomer]

"Love" is for people with no game.

[tarkinfish]

@EliteDoomer No game? Please elaborate.

[EliteDoomer]

@tarkinfish 'Game' is a collection of abilities which allow one to gain the positives of being with people yet not the negatives. One with good game has sex with multiple people and yet does not have to pay for the raising of children. People without game link themselves to only a very few number of individuals and due to such they end up sacrificing themselves trying to please someone else or "build a family". "Love" is simply a trick by nature to get us to replicate.

Listen to Tom Leykis.

[Indiegirl007]

Time for some open and honest truth. I will admit, once upon a time I was in an online relationship that lasted two years. We met in a chat room, and then next thing you know we were talking to each other and the chemistry was so THERE. But like Dan said, your imagination starts to fill in things about the person, when really it's not even true. That's what happened with him, and we just grew apart. I stopped talking to him. Couldn't take it anymore.

People, face to face is the way to go.

[Shaziaka]

The World is in the hands of those who have the courage to dream and run the risk of living their dreams...

[19SAL93]

thats very bad advise, its not the same for everyone, people arent desperate, it just happens, you guys crush peoples hope,

[6Nubia9]

Thanks for the vid... I was also in an online relationship -.-

Even though I'm only 14 XD I think i really loved him, he just got tired and said he wouldn't be able to handle the distance between us... and of course, we wouldn't be able to meet until we are 18!

I'm trying to "get over" him.. and it's really hard! makes it harder when he's saying he does not give a shit about me anymore for some reason >.>

[Cloversnook]

I saw this video about a year ago and I hated it and it upset me so bad but now... I totally agree with it. I understand what you guys were saying and I believe you should have a real, face to face, relationship. not through email or IM. a real boyfriend/girlfriend. I"m very now.. in person. and I think it is so much better and your simply happier haha

[OSOK995]

Yeah it's kinda hard to date online, I know this girl we've been together for just over a year now and the fighting was too much that we blocked each other like a month ago.

You kinda have nothing to do but argue after a while.

Or maybe it's just us ...

I still love her to death though.

Sad thing is she'll never know that.

[xPorcelainLolitax]

Ohhh, those drinks used to be green and now they're blue. Tasty. :)

Well, I think you CAN cheat on someone although you've never met, that is if you promised to not be with anyone else and to be committed to each other.

That's how I see it. =P

[LeftLiberalSoCal]

Lol! What a sissy her boyfriend is! I would be very surprised if she did not cheat on him.

She probably gets the urge do get her holes pounded by a REAL MAN every once in a while because this guy is a pansy!

[porschebaby001]

I have online bfs lol, they are fun to chat with when I am bored but it's hard to believe people take these relationships seriously! Things are better in the real world, come on.

[frobidoug]

FREAKS! GET OUT MORE!!!

[plezrespect01]

lmao exacly

[avra1976]

iv been in an online relationship for 7 yrs and only learnt now that the bitch called kiren had been cheating n lieing to me. pls check our her inocent face by typing "kiren gorgon" on you tube. shamelss bitch.

[plezrespect01]

7 years...???¿¿¿

[LukeMonaco]

Yeah, I agree. There's also a lot of frustration with having a relationship over the internet because of the lack of seeing the person and seeing their reactions.

[plezrespect01]

exactly

[mraaronyuppy]

i believe only mic and cam are worth trying,and if youmeet alot ofyour signifficant others friends.

otherwise just typing and pictures are just not a relationship.even cam n mic are still skimpy

[mraaronyuppy]

i believe itsreal,its no where near as good as real love in person,but yes it exists. but it has a VERY thin line of real and fake.

ive done it,sometimes it can work till you meet in person,sometimes though,most of time for that matter theyre either using you,or there not taking it seriously.

my friend had an online girlfriend that was 4 years long,then they broke up,got bk together,and met up in person str8 away!!

they eventually broke up due to she cheated on him a month later at a party.

[okamimiyazaki]

Yes you can be in a romantic relationship online. However, it is no substitute for real life and unless you meet them it will usually not last very long. It also depends on the degree to which you communicate with them, typing vs. talking vs. video chat.

[shecries8989]

I met my fiance online and I am really happy and yes I have met him

[alphamale300k]

I met my girlfriend online, on a game secondlife. I knew she lived close to me so I started talking to her and we met and had sex first night I met her. And relationship is going pretty good except for all the STD's she gave me

[ianisamonkey]

hahaha

[49933]

lmfao!! i hope yerr kidding!!

[plezrespect01]

lol wooow

[Huntersmoon1]

why cant i see the video

want to chat with singles fC

[NeroZaizuka]

I'm betting they don't live anywhere close to eachother, but, many people probably met online, and then met in real life and found the best person they could be with.

So, I agree, go meet this person if you really think you're in love.

[o0AGE0o]

OR go meet this person to get raped and killed... Either way shit will happen. You might find someone you want to be with, or some psycho who chops your balls off lol.

[kubomon17]

read the question, then answer it. stop interrupting the fucking question. that shit is so ANNOYING!

[raindrop10155]

no offence i love the show, but does dan have add ? lol

[nickpkes]

idk and i think that dan just trys to fill in his opinions and there is just so many of them that he says it while saying the question

[alphamale300k]

I dont mind dan going off like he does, its entertaining, but I hate when jenn cuts him off from what he is saying.

[Playgirl2day]

l do well with long distance relationships but then l like my space too

[snoopyloopy]

but at the same time, research has still shown that people who have a relationship in real life still oftentimes view their partner as more (or less) than they are. called honeymoon stage. once each individual realizes that they were filling in and assuming things, then the real relationship starts, whether online or not.

[gammypage]

I was also in a similar situation and fucked it up bad lol, not fun hehe. On the other hand, this would've been great to hear back in the day!, keep it up guys! =D

[belail8]

my long distance relationship sucked as hell..((

[belail8]

mostly my long distance love was with the chick i was with and then had to move away but love over internet BS no i dont think thats a good idea....

[x0xthemadhatterx0x]

Its honestly quite sad, in my opinion at least, that relationships and something as big as love is decided via internet. They say they love each other but how can u really know if you've never looked that person in the eyes before. Its easy to hide behind a screen and type out some words that could possibly be quite empty. The best thing, I think is to meet up and have a real conversation about it then and only then will you be able to tell how that person really feels.

[imassbbfan]

Dan and Jennifer, you didn't really answer his question, and he said that they are planning on meeting.

[jiggytimegal]

i met my fiance on an online chat room...6 months later we met face to face....3 months later we moved in together and we have been together ever since...very much in love and happy together.

[Darkcasanova]

hehe good for you guys.

[belazela]

@jiggytimegal

Thats lovely and encouraging

[aleterra]

What is that blue drink you always have?

[mathias1211]

blueberry martini i think

[HappySoldierHE]

it doesnt matter if you havent met. its called feeings.even if you havent met them you start having these feelings for the other person no matter if they live somewhere else. you wouldnt understand if youve never been in a online relationship.

[lavinder11]

I've been in an online "relationship" before.

I don't think they're real. They've been at it for three years and they have yet to meet. Sure, he can be upset that she cheated or stepped out of their "relationship," but there really isn't he can do about it.

If they both wanted it to be real they would have met by now.

[HappySoldierHE]

they probably havent met because maybe their both young in age. or maybe they dont have the money to travel. theres alot of stuff that goes on.i do agree that 3 yrs is a long time and still havent met. but think about it. if they can last a "online relationship fpr 3 yrs,they should have it good being together when they do meet.

[lavinder11]

They didn't last for three years. He said she cheated on him before. Being together online is different than in real life.

[nitewolf979x]

i agree with

HappySoldierHE..love is love..i've been in a relationship online with this amazing girl for 3 months..we are planning to meet in the summer..never had any problems..online relationships can work..you have to work at them and be committed

[MsSunnyAngel]

@HappySoldierHE i totally agree

[BloodAppleKiss]

@HappySoldierHE VERY true

[fighter8262]

She is using you

[alijaan16]

Ok i can kinda understand online relationships but how the HECK can there be cheating.

[mathias1211]

i guess if you chat with someone else or some shit like this

[femifrosk]

what a joke

[GracianoPique]

Stupid, how could u love someone u dont even know?

[mazukoto]

I know that you can get to know people very well online...

But there are loads of cheaters and old stupid men too...

[bubbasmiles]

you know what would be funny if he

met this girl and found out she was

a 300 pound black man hahahahahahaha

[BarrettWilliams]

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