Self Injury, help with cutting and self harm

[JakeVrandom]

Words of wisdom " Dance your heart out" lmfao ...

[ajjrfan]

I aint never cut myself on purpise. My way of dealing with shit is I go out to the garage & work on my 62 Chevy Truck. Shes helped me get my mind off so many things that i cant even count that high. Shes almost done now all i gotta do is change out the gears in the rear, wire everything up, a little body work then ill be all set. It really helps cuz all my anger/sad times for the past 5 years has gone to that truck and now im seein a finished product. makes me feel acomplished and happy inside

[sammyBBes]

I Just started on my wrist with sissers :/

But yeah i guess i do need to see the blood to feel better. I just dont know how to tell my parentas and friends without them freaking out :/ xx

[brokenteddybear100]

lol when u sai scratching urself i scartched my leg cuz i have like a bajillion bug bites •o• yah there painful but thts VERY IRONIC

[MindFuckedMusical666]

Cut my body now, 2 years, 2 months trying be fine (Excuse my english, i'm spanish) And the Self Injury is... Fuck, you know all of these, are perfectly... Thanks for the video. :)

[senicriver1]

what if u dont have any one 2 talk 2 ... i kno this sounds like a lie but i have no freinds and my famly is the cause of it all they yell at me because im not like them im not perfect..

[BeautifulHyster1a]

BRAVO, great video hun ;) thank u

[EMOxxxTRAGEDY]

I love this video. thank you so much

[flippy102]

Ok, obviously you never done drugs if you think they are a 'coping mechanism'. I used 2 self harm but stopped. Plainly put, now i'm happy and use drugs all the time, for fun. BTW you're hot.

[EMOxxxTRAGEDY]

@flippy102 stupid ass head

[flippy102]

@EMOxxxTRAGEDY oh thanks.. What do you think is better smoking a spliff and doing the odd line or cutting ones self up??

[EMOxxxTRAGEDY]

@flippy102  rather smoke xD but I dont. . .

[hardcoreyoungflirt]

If anyone ever needs to talk i'm here i used to cut and undestand.

[shysty013]

theres only one way to overcome these things...and thats to serve the overcomer thus making you an overcomer as well...oh you say "who is the overcomer?" His name is Jesus Christ!!

[EMOxxxTRAGEDY]

@shysty013 for real???

[shysty013]

@EMOxxxTRAGEDY yes for real!!!

[LilMizzSkittles69]

1) when you keep saying cut burn scatch it doesnt help at all

2) it's not that easy.

[AimzyBaby83]

i find the strenght to stop

for months and then sumthing will severly upset me and i will just cut or burn :( x

[THEdevilWEARSprada29]

i really want to tell my step dad but i can say it

[Pinoysolja7]

Just cry and let it all out. I bet you will feel better....

[RadioStarrr15]

This is all so true.

Crying helps, too. It just exhausts you of your energy and you can't feel any more pain.

It works for me, anyway.

[die4ne1]

i feel like i need to see the blood to feel better

[lo0ser555]

yeah and more evrytime =(

[SilentBloodShed]

i know..u really cant stop once u start cuttin urself :(

[lo0ser555]

i hate that

but i havent dit in almost 2 weeks

but its hard evreyday i feel more worse

[SilentBloodShed]

same goez for me..ur rite about this

[laughinluvinLIVIN]

ya, me too. it's like, a never-ending addiction. i've tried everything......

[hiiiiiwaaaaatsuuuuup]

instead of do things that other people can't see like that ice thing to make it so they don't know your pain,how bow't this pray God will never give you something that you can't handle. if you have a friend that cuts then do like me and my friend do. we go to them each day and if they have any new cuts they have to write a sentence about good things about themselves.

God is an AWESOME God, Tori

[argos090]

I agree with im12yrsonly, keep up the good work

[im12yrsonly]

wish there were more people like u in this world

it would be a much better place if there were

[smem056]

the ice cube thing i will try thanks :]

[TitchyTashaLaa]

there is no way to overcome it! u cannot stop

[megarock101]

I love you! lol. Ur so understanding!! I think we would make good friends! :) have a nice day.

[weirdboy118118]

i dont get y people hu havent cut thmselves think tht they no the reason y , if u have cut (like me) u no the reason

[elmst1427]

Dancing...

[sachiko808chan]

Thanks.

This video helped me a lot,

especially about the part when you love something, do it a lot when you're mad.

I really liked that part[;

[troy6562]

first step is to not blame yourself for things you cant controll think about the bad things that someone might told you about your self make a list of your negatives that you think on one side of the paper and make positive I STATMENTS ON THE OTHER SIDE FOR EXAMPLE MY FATHER WOULD TELL ME YOU CANT SO I WROTE IT DOWN AND ON THE OTHER SIDE I WROTE I CAN DO ANYTHING

[greyghost84]

I used to cut. But I haven't in a while. I also used to punch a wall, not a soft wall in the house, but hard wood, or brick to feel pain. I broke my hand a couple of times. I think I haven't done this in a while because I talk more now, and am open to my parents. I am also lucky to have very supportive family.

[Aidenroxsox]

Same, i get so far without it, and then i just go back. it realy frutstraites me, but im determind to stop. ps, good video!!!!!

[pinkblackwitch]

keep trying! <3 -A'Liah

[Aidenroxsox]

gone a month so far, am feelin good. i agree, keep tryin!

[pinkblackwitch]

i tried to stop cutting... it hasn't worked yet.

:(

[samsam1234fg]

av u stoped cutting yet ?

[pinkblackwitch]

well, i have for the past 85 days =D

[GDScoutOwns]

I played guitar when i was angry but...at the end i kinda needed new strings.

[stopselfinjury]

Thank you for posting this. Encouraging others to stop doing this is the BEST thing you can do with the experience, it will help you cope also. You want more incentive to stop? wait till your kids DON'T ask about your scars...and you find out they started cutting themselves because YOU did it. Thank you for encouraging others to stop, finding safe coping methods really is important.

[adenowa3232]

I punch a punching bag, works really well. sometimes I'll punch a wall or something, and Ive really hurt my hand a few times. I wonder if that would be considered self harm. Anyway any sought of exersize is a realloy positive and effective way to deal with anger, it releases natural dopamine (happy hormone) into your system too, and releases your negative energy.

[adenowa3232]

Thats such a good point there are so many positive ways to overcome these soughts of problems, the sad thing is, alot of people i think dont want to overcome them. They enjoy the image of it, on some level, i think. Great vid

[AMIR471]

well now to be an adult: i think its awesome that you show your opinion unlike some ppl thats dont want to show there faces (including me) and i think your opinion

on things like that not only self injury but bulimia . GOOD JOB

[lennceberus]

I cope by getting tattoos.

[FoxyGrandpaYo]

When i'm really angry i punch the wall, usually helps me vent the anger, i think thats pretty normal way to deal with it, i wouldn't dream of cutting myself. but i only get that angry maybe a couple times a month. most of the time i swear my head off for a few minutes and that really helps or use a stress toy.

[chevkoch]

You are very welcome. I'm really happy to hear you are in a brighter phase of your life now. Not an easy achievement, I bet. Honestly, all the best to you.

[chevkoch]

Thanks for the beautiful momentum to put your message out regarding this. I hope you or whoever around you who has a history of cutting is doing fine now.

[eminemboi4]

lol, it sounded like you want us to run away from home at 02:05

[cosmos2020]

Actually I did this years back when I was about your age. What it does is mask the temptation of doing it, but as soon as the caffeine wears off you might start to do the self injury again. When you wake up, start by drinking black coffee, then at noon, and stop just before you go to sleep otherwise you'll be up all day.

It works for some as it gets your mind energized to think and do other things.

[cosmos2020]

I cope by drinking coffee, lots.