This is of no use I manipulate like there is no tomorrow but I do it to get things the reason I'm looking at this video is because I wanna learn the defense so I can counter the counter with force and after watching these videos I'm a mix of all 4 types
You have just helped me officially diagnose the worst roommate I've fucking ever had!!!!
I've had some shitty ass roommates but this guy is the worst! I've even lived with a gang member before who got shot my first quarter at school. lol! But this guy now is just so bad that he qualified for 99 percent of the description sans the intelligence part. He's supposed to be moving out soon. Good fucking riddance
@goingplaces11 If your being manipulated, especially constantly, you've most likely made far too many compromises already. This behavior is so prevalent today and I know why, and have guess about certain factors, so it's actually far more common and insidious throughout all of society and inside families that most of us have become conditioned to accepting it. We can thank Marxist Leftists for subverting this once psychologically & emotionally sound society... GL!
No, no, no. N-O period. N-O exclamation point. No means no. Can't wait to throw it at'em!! i will definately walk them towards asking me the q. it will bring me great satisfaction to stand up to my bully. :D
psychiatrist are perfect manipulators. now there going after the babies now.
these are the new child predators. they already think the elderly are mental ill.
too these dirt bags a dirty shirt is a negative symptoms (poor hygiene) and ignoring them is loss of contact with reality - therefore schizophrenia, a disease (no proof) that can only be treated with anti psychotics (it's actually a bi product from industry metal waste) .then think they have authority to commit you.
Wow worst advice. Doesn't understand the mind of a manipulative person. You control your own destiny. How does saying no make you a victim? Manipulation means saying yes.
Probably done by CIA/FBI/DHS/KGB video, the dudes got the top technology in this, even though, they are total Assholes, Incompetent and Inept, they've got the top technology in fake outs, and visual manipulations, much better than, 'Photoshop'. Just wonder where would the CIA/FBI/KGB/DHS be without their technology edge, almost akin, like where they would be without an entourage and guns for an arrest on individuals. They've got NO ABSOLUTE COHONITZ whatsover! "Truth be told"
Go on patent neural implant on facebook or arihia ngaronoa on facebook and learn about the technology they use to do this and how you can stop it with countersurveilance equipment.
@zimalin Hhhmmmm, maybe that's because socio- and psychopaths are characterized by a manipulative and narcissistic personality (along with lacking empathy and all that yadiyadiyada)?
The animated objects never cited the authority of the information being provided, which does not empower me to challenge a discussion which appears to lead one to believe manipulation is always bad. Having not cited an authority, could this discussion also be characterized as a form of manipulation? What is the authority of the information being discussed? Can manipulation be characterized as good if it involves a hostage negotiator successfully manipulating a suspect to free hostages?
Yes, I totally agree with this video and have experienced a relationship with a manipulator. This does, along with other signs, reassure me that I did the right thing by leaving him when i was pregnant. Thank you.
Humans are manipulated by their desires anyway...even simple emotions can manipulate people.
Humans who manipulate others tend to try and use those desires and emotions of the others to gain what they wish.
Lucky enough for me,my desires are very specific,and my emotions are my own...and both are unrelated to my body-therefor,A person cannot manipulate me for their own gain.
Problem is...many people love to be manipulated-even without being aware of it-because they love to follow someone ells.
@GentlePoet1984 -well remember these people only seek power and control because inside they are weak and fearful, they sense your innate power and composure, so in order to gain the perceived advantage, they bully and manipulate and try to lower your sense of self esteem, in order to appear above you..
sad really when you see through them into why they do it. u are not the victim here, they are.!
@GentlePoet1984 - they like to feed off the emotional energy.. when you dismiss or ignore them they often move on, all they want is some kind of reaction.. empower yourself to avoid giving them that and things WILL change..
I have been accussed of manipulation, but I've scoured the internetz for details on what she could mean. But it turns out, that isn't not me that is manipulative. 4.40 of this video is exactly what happened. I stood up for myself and now she doesn't want to see me for 3 months. Perhaps longer.
Guess she made the mistake of giving me time to investigate.
lol am i the only one who don't think my mums an utter cunt? if your mums a psychopath then all you can say is shit happens and crack on with it. unless of course your being molested or abused.
MONEY CREATES WHAT'S "BAD" FOR EVERYONE. YOU REALLY THINK THAT MONEY ESTABLISHES THE ORDER. NO!!!!! MONEY CREATES DISCUSSION, VIOLENCE, MANIPULATION, LIES, EVERYTHING THAT YOU MAY THINK IT'S "BAD" IT'S BECAUSE OF MONEY
@RyukRasenganable not really, its more like ego.. money feeds ego.. and thats why people want more of it, in order to show off and have other people think they are a great person due to what they have and show off.
inside they are spiritually dead. vacuous and ignorant..
You need an instructional video for this? I tell manipulators in their face that their actions are manipulative .....staring them straight in their eyes with the gaze of a mafia hit-man; it works all the time. Don't use too many words, but stare them straight in their eyes making them aware you're on to them and as if you're about to strike like a cobra. Manipulators hate direct eye contact from my experience, and they cower and lose their momentum when there's an uncomfortable silence.
@tinian33 Not my mother. That's one of her tactics. She makes you afraid by giving you the death stare to prove that she's more powerful than you. Although you're right that they don't like it when you do it back. Whenever I've done it, and not backed down first, she always looked angry and defeated.
Defensive manipulation: 1) Self-possession 2) (a.) Identity the conditions of bad attitude, talk or behaviour and (b.) communicate it plainly to the offender. Be kind and considerate, but remain firm and resolved, yet open to skilled negotiation. 3) ...thinking of it... Offensive manipulation is the case of the defensive manipulation.
WOW! this video portrays all the Manipulator as "insecure" why ? they may actually be who they say they are (Smarter, better..) Although I agree with the methods used are prevalent, everyone uses these tactics, and the reasonings given for the rise of these type of behaviors is really unrefined.
As the video "freedom from conscience" points out, the definition of leadership and the definition for manipulation mean the same thing. I suppose the difference is what the person's motivations are.
I stopped talking to my brother because he's like this. I love him and all, but don't want to fall victim to his games. Seems like he would get a rush every time he's successful at ruining my day/getting the best of me.
@scarynoudlechubby I'm in the same situation with my brother.I don't want to see him for the rest of my life.Do you have any other advise about a Sociopath that is without conscience.
2:15 ehhhh wrong... remember, they're impulsive so its not like they just stop when you've screamed enough... they're psychotic people... so you don't show them that they're getting to you or that you have a strong stance as a person... you just simply act submissive... you play along with they're little games and the more you show them how submissive you are... the more they expose themselves. Otherwise, you're just saying that everyone in this life just needs more of a telling, wake up.
my brother is like this, I ignore him and it makes him really angry when he has no power over me. He turns to violence but I don't let that work on me either. Don't give them any ammunition at all and they will find someone else to victimize.
Why is it that the best vids on this topic are done by "Robot voices"? I think I need to make a vid on this and add and/or subtract any BS I see! There was some good advice here...and some disputable. Wow, almost 30,000 views from animations with robot voices. I think it's time to get real. ~Kev~
This is all well and good but HOW do you get that confidence? Confidence simply does not pop up out of a vacuum. Confidence only comes from accomplishment in hobbies, interests, and learning how to be happy WITHOUT any social interaction (doesn't mean deliberately withdraw, just that you have the attitude "if i have social interaction, that's fine; if I don't have social interaction, that's fine). The one thing that really helps is developing strong critical thinking and rhetorical skills.
@TheAngelgirl7 One of the main reasons your not confident is Her . Believe me , you myte not realise . that's bcus you actually bn around her for so long . Most pple Lose confidence by jus talkin to a manipulative person , thats why most stay away from em . You need to step away from her . tell her to kiss yo ass . she ayn gone do nothin . if she tries , punch her dumbass in the face . lol , When u bn away from her for a Long time + u talking to alot of other pple , you'll regain confidence !
@WhiteGlitterTV what you say makes a lot of sense to me, so I'm trying to step away from her little by little(because it's the only way I could do so) and I believe it's working.... I really hope it does....
@TheAngelgirl7 im tellin you stay away from that person and live your life. i was high and found that i was gettin manipulated hard body and i thought that the person that was manipulating me was ma boy but i had a reality check.... do you and regain your self esteem
She is talking about Charles Manson at times here! He was a classic manipulator. He used superior verbal skills, intelligence, and a loud voice and intimidation. It was a cover for his being uneducated. He had delusions about a national race war and his own ascendency to power after it.
Not a bad video, except for the phrase right at the end "god bless" Why make a video about combating manipulative people and then say "may the most manipulative twat ever bless you"? That is if you mean the Abrahamic god as I assume.
entitlement and insecurity...yep, that sounds familiar. No empathy and no regard for those they affect. NONE. hates himself....he said. I wish i were more skilled and knowledgeable during the relationship. No compromise...Best to go one with life that they cannot affect you....there needs to be a critical mass of folks around someone using tough love but no one wants to do the intervention he's so disliked. He "gained control of my thinking patterns and decision-making". He steals souls
entitlement and insecurity...yep, that sounds familiar. No empathy and no regard for those they affect. NONE. hates himself....he said that to me. I wish i were more skilled and knowledgeable during the relationship. SOooo much to know. No compromise...Best to go one with life that they cannot affect you....there needs to be a critical mass of folks around someone using tough love but no one wants to do the He "gained control of my thinking patterns and decision-making". He steals souls
entitlement and insecurity...yep, that sounds familiar. No empathy and no regard for those they affect. NONE. hates himself....he said that to me. I wish i were more skilled and knowledgeable during the relationship. SOooo much to know.
Introducing world-renowned clinical psychologist and the author of several books on the subject: Random YouTuber with some XtraNormal Characters. (waves)
It's caused by both. RUN from a manipulative person.They will get what they want and they will do anything to get it. Lie, Cheat, Steel and sometimes Kill. No humility at least not Real Humility it is Fake. My husband and My son are both Manipulative People. I live on alimony so the ex still has power. My son is out of my life.
@knowledgeisthepower1 Yes, they are; My mom is one, my husband of 28 yrs is one, and my mom is one. I broke away and had my freedom. Then I was injured and now have a horrid back and cannot work. Due to my illness he still has control because I live on alimony. I had so many dreams.
after watching this video I think everybody has a sense of manipulation in their personality and their way to be. I am a manipulative person as well but for the well. Think this video has help me to understand myselft more and how to get out of certain situation to avoid to get in a actions of manipulation.
There are some very valid and interesting points in this video. A little difficult to listen to because it was computerized, but good, nonetheless. Thanks for sharing.
well i guess im manipulative but im not really agrresive or never care about people,
im carefull about what i say looks like a slight side to manipulation knowladge popularity and can really get people to do what i want (not forcing them but being pursuasive) ;)
I have been watching this video over and over. Couldn't be more right, had i knew about this video much much earlier, i would have prevented myself from being so dissapointed with such manipulative individual and doubt myself. These kind of people are constantly trying to brain wash and YES, avoid associating with these vampires.
I have a neighbor who is pulling the superior feel of using logic and that everything must have a logic person to getting you towards sex, money and success. I He says that people like me and poor people and those with only a high school education or no education or black people are " not part of the real world." That I'm nothing unless I live in a big city and are making money and have an asian wife. I think he's delusional.
@4SCARECROWS - What a horrible neighbour! My colleague had a customer like that, and I told her not to discuss personal things with him, that will stop him 'using that info against her'. That neighbour sounds really insecure.
Very well stated facts on this video. I too make videos on this topic. Yes, the best way to deal with these people is NO CONTACT. Disengage yourself from their life.
No, you cannot dump a manipulative mother. But you can learn how to deal with her behavior.
Identify the manipulative behavior. Show her what she is doing, why it is wrong, and how she needs to communicate with you. If she cannot modify her behavior, then you must modify how you respond to her manipulation
@1001samurais Ah, no I don't want to dump my mother! You only get one mother in life and no matter how your mother chooses to behave, you have a choice as to how to react. I'm trying my best b/c no matter what, I love my mom.
@darlingdino - yes, if it is your mother it is difficult. I have the same problem. Mine often threats to get rid of me out of her life.. unless I give her money etc.
@darlingdino Well, actually you can. Once you have reached the age of 18 or 21...depending on which country you are living in, you are in titled to break of contact with even your parents! I did it, it has been hard...my parents have stalked me, banging on my front door etc. So you do need to be strong.Do I feel quilty...no, why should I? Manipulative people are the scum of the Earth! My parents used and controlled me for years...they have had their fun and I owe them nothing.
@StrappingyoungLad11 Ok....lol. I'm learning to deal with her and give the crap she gives right back to her. You have to set boundaries. Tough love. Hey, best wishes to ya too ;)
@darlingdino If the parent is toxic enough to your well-being, yes, you can. The alternative is to "just" be really firm about your boundaries - which is a boatload easier to say than to do, especially when an offspring has been conditioned since childhood to ignore his or her own boundaries.
@ElizabethIsabelle That is very true. My mom has her good and bad qualities, as we all do, but now that I'm older I can see that it was learned from her mother. The difference with me is that I am able to see into this and ultimately set boundaries which I am working on.
@chaosworshipper If you're replying to me, I'm 35 and moved out when I was 22. My mother still tries to be manipulative if she doesn't get her own way. A person doesn't have to be a minor or still live with their mother for her to still be a manipulative person.
But as the video advises; just cutting off oppertunity for her to manipulate will, at very least, ease your stress.
Obviously, the "ungrateful child" excuse will come up, but that is still no *reason* to not allow someone to be their own person (vis a vis, how religion not also refuses to allow people to be human, but demands they apologise for being how they were "created").
The reason I'm hammering the comparison in is to give you an idea of how difficult it will be, emotionally.
However, logically, it can be as a walk in the park, especially when it's your own personal freedom and happiness that you act in favor of having, as well as less stress and clarity of thought and action. Drawing a line in the sand is merely the first step (first step's always a doozy, tho).
Yeah..."learn humility" not likely.
CassieAnnaCary 6 hours ago
THEY'RE ON TO ME!
unknownuser09PS3 14 hours ago
I wish Whitney and Rihanna recognised this...:-((
happier2012 2 days ago
OMG Black men...lololololol
happier2012 2 days ago
I AM A GENIUS HAHAHAHA
TheLiviawest 5 days ago
People get mad because I'm oblivious to their manipulation until I reflect later.
returnoftheramble 6 days ago
I get called manipulative because I have a limited range of emotions. I'm very objective.
returnoftheramble 6 days ago
They do not perceive themselves. They are usually entitled to everything, d.
returnoftheramble 6 days ago
I'M IN YOUR HEAD I'M IN YOUR HEAD
Thrashvel 1 week ago
Another phony expert-using you tube for a self esteem boost. At the very least this dickhead could have cited his-her information sources.
MonkeyPrinciples 2 weeks ago
Manipulative people will never learn ! Get away from them as soon as you can!
sn9696 3 weeks ago 7
nigga$
OrganicKing 3 weeks ago
nigga
OrganicKing 3 weeks ago
This is of no use I manipulate like there is no tomorrow but I do it to get things the reason I'm looking at this video is because I wanna learn the defense so I can counter the counter with force and after watching these videos I'm a mix of all 4 types
MrNinja82 3 weeks ago
@MrNinja82 And now I'm aware that you have learned the defense so it's going to be harder for you
chess1302 1 week ago
LOL: 1:01 Loololollololololololoollolololol :DDDD big fail
SuperLongestusername 1 month ago
I AM A MANIPULATIVE SHREW!
JazzGagaLover 1 month ago
lmao! carry on.
politicalpostulate 1 month ago
You have just helped me officially diagnose the worst roommate I've fucking ever had!!!!
I've had some shitty ass roommates but this guy is the worst! I've even lived with a gang member before who got shot my first quarter at school. lol! But this guy now is just so bad that he qualified for 99 percent of the description sans the intelligence part. He's supposed to be moving out soon. Good fucking riddance
deathandthelament 1 month ago
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chess1302 1 week ago
@goingplaces11 If your being manipulated, especially constantly, you've most likely made far too many compromises already. This behavior is so prevalent today and I know why, and have guess about certain factors, so it's actually far more common and insidious throughout all of society and inside families that most of us have become conditioned to accepting it. We can thank Marxist Leftists for subverting this once psychologically & emotionally sound society... GL!
AbsitReverentiaVero 1 month ago
that sounds EXACTLY like my manipulator!
i've been practicing my no's for two days now.
No, no, no. N-O period. N-O exclamation point. No means no. Can't wait to throw it at'em!! i will definately walk them towards asking me the q. it will bring me great satisfaction to stand up to my bully. :D
srhyng 1 month ago
lol....My god, I've been doing it all wrong. I kept compromising and hoping that person would change. I'm laughing at myself now.
goingplaces11 1 month ago
psychiatrist are perfect manipulators. now there going after the babies now.
these are the new child predators. they already think the elderly are mental ill.
too these dirt bags a dirty shirt is a negative symptoms (poor hygiene) and ignoring them is loss of contact with reality - therefore schizophrenia, a disease (no proof) that can only be treated with anti psychotics (it's actually a bi product from industry metal waste) .then think they have authority to commit you.
CliveGains80s 1 month ago
Wow worst advice. Doesn't understand the mind of a manipulative person. You control your own destiny. How does saying no make you a victim? Manipulation means saying yes.
MushroomKingdom602 1 month ago
the person who's being manipulated is a filthy lying little whore.
terraflux16 1 month ago
Manipulations of characteristics.
terraflux16 1 month ago
@terraflux16 clever
Jasumi 1 month ago
very useful
buichithien1982 1 month ago
hi mom, this is dedicated to you
creamiercorn 1 month ago
Probably done by CIA/FBI/DHS/KGB video, the dudes got the top technology in this, even though, they are total Assholes, Incompetent and Inept, they've got the top technology in fake outs, and visual manipulations, much better than, 'Photoshop'. Just wonder where would the CIA/FBI/KGB/DHS be without their technology edge, almost akin, like where they would be without an entourage and guns for an arrest on individuals. They've got NO ABSOLUTE COHONITZ whatsover! "Truth be told"
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MakeNewLaws 1 month ago
great video and God bless :)
TheDoritosfan1 1 month ago
AUTOTUNE! :P
manurule987 2 months ago 6
is manipulation when they dont let you speak, and go mental when you enter a room etccc
Sunnyrach 2 months ago
i had 2 years of it!!!!
Sunnyrach 2 months ago
I like Letterman's new format.
jerome3151 2 months ago
manipulative individuals oddly sound like sociopaths
zimalin 2 months ago
@zimalin Hhhmmmm, maybe that's because socio- and psychopaths are characterized by a manipulative and narcissistic personality (along with lacking empathy and all that yadiyadiyada)?
11moiise 2 months ago
@11moiise Yea, makes sense. Agreed. Although... where are the dividing lines between them ?
zimalin 2 months ago
someone got dumped
majorkeybaree 2 months ago
it describes someone I know
kolokilop 2 months ago
The animated objects never cited the authority of the information being provided, which does not empower me to challenge a discussion which appears to lead one to believe manipulation is always bad. Having not cited an authority, could this discussion also be characterized as a form of manipulation? What is the authority of the information being discussed? Can manipulation be characterized as good if it involves a hostage negotiator successfully manipulating a suspect to free hostages?
MrHardrock357 2 months ago
Yes, I totally agree with this video and have experienced a relationship with a manipulator. This does, along with other signs, reassure me that I did the right thing by leaving him when i was pregnant. Thank you.
yoivanadance 2 months ago
Humans are manipulated by their desires anyway...even simple emotions can manipulate people.
Humans who manipulate others tend to try and use those desires and emotions of the others to gain what they wish.
Lucky enough for me,my desires are very specific,and my emotions are my own...and both are unrelated to my body-therefor,A person cannot manipulate me for their own gain.
Problem is...many people love to be manipulated-even without being aware of it-because they love to follow someone ells.
Wharwulif 2 months ago
just great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
revanchedumodeste 3 months ago
here here !!! :)
VerystrangeMaster 3 months ago
this sounds like my dad
pressbox1492 3 months ago
@GentlePoet1984 -well remember these people only seek power and control because inside they are weak and fearful, they sense your innate power and composure, so in order to gain the perceived advantage, they bully and manipulate and try to lower your sense of self esteem, in order to appear above you..
sad really when you see through them into why they do it. u are not the victim here, they are.!
SovereignBeing 3 months ago
@GentlePoet1984 - they like to feed off the emotional energy.. when you dismiss or ignore them they often move on, all they want is some kind of reaction.. empower yourself to avoid giving them that and things WILL change..
tell me how it goes..
SovereignBeing 3 months ago
I agree with the substance in this video.
Swampymcswamp 3 months ago
the guest is annoying.
Saffrocastier1 3 months ago
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what a load of crap
rimaaelita 3 months ago
This is brilliant! :-)
catascouts 4 months ago
Please provide the title of the book from which this information was taken. Good stuff this.
eckleburg22 4 months ago
I actually find this quite insightful and helpful. Thanks so much.
eckleburg22 4 months ago
Think: Can U survive no your pc or xbox?
if yes, great, you are not aliened.
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oxfordinvestigations 4 months ago
dead on!
BeAwareofMarianne 4 months ago
I have been accussed of manipulation, but I've scoured the internetz for details on what she could mean. But it turns out, that isn't not me that is manipulative. 4.40 of this video is exactly what happened. I stood up for myself and now she doesn't want to see me for 3 months. Perhaps longer.
Guess she made the mistake of giving me time to investigate.
Defhrone 4 months ago
lol am i the only one who don't think my mums an utter cunt? if your mums a psychopath then all you can say is shit happens and crack on with it. unless of course your being molested or abused.
JDeMuse 4 months ago
Great theory...but painfully boring to watch and listen
ocpando 4 months ago
@Ichliebemusikundybd I dont have a dick.
carouselwings 4 months ago
MONEY CREATES WHAT'S "BAD" FOR EVERYONE. YOU REALLY THINK THAT MONEY ESTABLISHES THE ORDER. NO!!!!! MONEY CREATES DISCUSSION, VIOLENCE, MANIPULATION, LIES, EVERYTHING THAT YOU MAY THINK IT'S "BAD" IT'S BECAUSE OF MONEY
RyukRasenganable 4 months ago
@RyukRasenganable not really, its more like ego.. money feeds ego.. and thats why people want more of it, in order to show off and have other people think they are a great person due to what they have and show off.
inside they are spiritually dead. vacuous and ignorant..
OverSoulMatrix33 4 months ago
@OverSoulMatrix33 wow I agree with that. thank you : )
RyukRasenganable 4 months ago
Great advice!
pandamadness1 5 months ago
HAHAH, the host staring at her boobies..
carouselwings 5 months ago
You need an instructional video for this? I tell manipulators in their face that their actions are manipulative .....staring them straight in their eyes with the gaze of a mafia hit-man; it works all the time. Don't use too many words, but stare them straight in their eyes making them aware you're on to them and as if you're about to strike like a cobra. Manipulators hate direct eye contact from my experience, and they cower and lose their momentum when there's an uncomfortable silence.
tinian33 5 months ago
@tinian33 Not my mother. That's one of her tactics. She makes you afraid by giving you the death stare to prove that she's more powerful than you. Although you're right that they don't like it when you do it back. Whenever I've done it, and not backed down first, she always looked angry and defeated.
desertsonata 4 months ago
Defensive manipulation: 1) Self-possession 2) (a.) Identity the conditions of bad attitude, talk or behaviour and (b.) communicate it plainly to the offender. Be kind and considerate, but remain firm and resolved, yet open to skilled negotiation. 3) ...thinking of it... Offensive manipulation is the case of the defensive manipulation.
Adeikov 5 months ago
WOW! this video portrays all the Manipulator as "insecure" why ? they may actually be who they say they are (Smarter, better..) Although I agree with the methods used are prevalent, everyone uses these tactics, and the reasonings given for the rise of these type of behaviors is really unrefined.
Ethioness 6 months ago
@Ethioness "they may actually be who they say they are (Smarter, better..) " a bit of an oxymoron
Clariccy 4 months ago
Excellent, Kudos to you!
heaven7valley 7 months ago
i was victimized for 4 years, in the end told them to fuck off, they hit me and left me alone. im now much happier
LukeGNR94 7 months ago
As the video "freedom from conscience" points out, the definition of leadership and the definition for manipulation mean the same thing. I suppose the difference is what the person's motivations are.
edwardsson777 7 months ago
what is with the stilted robotic voice? The content is interesting but I can barely concentrate on what she's saying because of it
Otterley07 9 months ago 51
@Otterley07 Smoke less pot, just kidding, peace man!
dekerranda 1 month ago
This is such a retarded video. Stop using computer generated audio
ERASER1091988 9 months ago
I stopped talking to my brother because he's like this. I love him and all, but don't want to fall victim to his games. Seems like he would get a rush every time he's successful at ruining my day/getting the best of me.
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RETIREMESOON 6 months ago
@scarynoudlechubby I'm in the same situation with my brother.I don't want to see him for the rest of my life.Do you have any other advise about a Sociopath that is without conscience.
RETIREMESOON 6 months ago
@scarynoudlechubby In in the same position. Feels good to know that I am not alone.
felixduhcat89 4 months ago
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scarynoudlechubby 10 months ago
I am now clear that the modern world we have today has been created by manupative people, so these guys are not so bad as we might think.
antrot25 10 months ago
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MrLukasart 10 months ago
2:15 ehhhh wrong... remember, they're impulsive so its not like they just stop when you've screamed enough... they're psychotic people... so you don't show them that they're getting to you or that you have a strong stance as a person... you just simply act submissive... you play along with they're little games and the more you show them how submissive you are... the more they expose themselves. Otherwise, you're just saying that everyone in this life just needs more of a telling, wake up.
Dolphidood 11 months ago
my brother is like this, I ignore him and it makes him really angry when he has no power over me. He turns to violence but I don't let that work on me either. Don't give them any ammunition at all and they will find someone else to victimize.
MrROTD 11 months ago
Read Patricia evans books they are good reserch
Auther4 11 months ago
Why is it that the best vids on this topic are done by "Robot voices"? I think I need to make a vid on this and add and/or subtract any BS I see! There was some good advice here...and some disputable. Wow, almost 30,000 views from animations with robot voices. I think it's time to get real. ~Kev~
unclearless 11 months ago
Wow, this video is BAD! Anyone taking this advice will just end up becoming a victim as this advice will not work.
By challenging a manipulative individual, you make yourself more interesting to them and they will oppose you.
If you really want to be left alone, just make yourself as boring as possible.
micesacle 1 year ago
This is all well and good but HOW do you get that confidence? Confidence simply does not pop up out of a vacuum. Confidence only comes from accomplishment in hobbies, interests, and learning how to be happy WITHOUT any social interaction (doesn't mean deliberately withdraw, just that you have the attitude "if i have social interaction, that's fine; if I don't have social interaction, that's fine). The one thing that really helps is developing strong critical thinking and rhetorical skills.
filrabat 1 year ago
The clinical psychologist talks like a robot. Maybe she has been manipulated too much.
ChariotOfFaith 1 year ago
GOD!! my best friend is just like this.... even worst!! and I'm tired of being her friend.... DAMN!! if I only was a confident person....
TheAngelgirl7 1 year ago
@TheAngelgirl7 One of the main reasons your not confident is Her . Believe me , you myte not realise . that's bcus you actually bn around her for so long . Most pple Lose confidence by jus talkin to a manipulative person , thats why most stay away from em . You need to step away from her . tell her to kiss yo ass . she ayn gone do nothin . if she tries , punch her dumbass in the face . lol , When u bn away from her for a Long time + u talking to alot of other pple , you'll regain confidence !
WhiteGlitterTV 1 year ago
@WhiteGlitterTV what you say makes a lot of sense to me, so I'm trying to step away from her little by little(because it's the only way I could do so) and I believe it's working.... I really hope it does....
TheAngelgirl7 1 year ago
@TheAngelgirl7 im tellin you stay away from that person and live your life. i was high and found that i was gettin manipulated hard body and i thought that the person that was manipulating me was ma boy but i had a reality check.... do you and regain your self esteem
Jamil131millz 11 months ago
this is creepy
2345username2345 1 year ago
She is talking about Charles Manson at times here! He was a classic manipulator. He used superior verbal skills, intelligence, and a loud voice and intimidation. It was a cover for his being uneducated. He had delusions about a national race war and his own ascendency to power after it.
JoeyFudd 1 year ago
Not a bad video, except for the phrase right at the end "god bless" Why make a video about combating manipulative people and then say "may the most manipulative twat ever bless you"? That is if you mean the Abrahamic god as I assume.
FordPrefect23 1 year ago
Stop. Manipulating. Me. :P
funetiks 1 year ago
everyone is manipulative in a way to get to success
rememberthisize 1 year ago
Sounds like she's describing a Sociopath.
anthonyjperri 1 year ago
Very informative and useful. Did not like the choppy voice though, was annoying
UCorona87 1 year ago
entitlement and insecurity...yep, that sounds familiar. No empathy and no regard for those they affect. NONE. hates himself....he said. I wish i were more skilled and knowledgeable during the relationship. No compromise...Best to go one with life that they cannot affect you....there needs to be a critical mass of folks around someone using tough love but no one wants to do the intervention he's so disliked. He "gained control of my thinking patterns and decision-making". He steals souls
marshajohnish 1 year ago
entitlement and insecurity...yep, that sounds familiar. No empathy and no regard for those they affect. NONE. hates himself....he said that to me. I wish i were more skilled and knowledgeable during the relationship. SOooo much to know. No compromise...Best to go one with life that they cannot affect you....there needs to be a critical mass of folks around someone using tough love but no one wants to do the He "gained control of my thinking patterns and decision-making". He steals souls
marshajohnish 1 year ago
entitlement and insecurity...yep, that sounds familiar. No empathy and no regard for those they affect. NONE. hates himself....he said that to me. I wish i were more skilled and knowledgeable during the relationship. SOooo much to know.
marshajohnish 1 year ago
entitlement and insecurity...yep, that sounds familiar.
marshajohnish 1 year ago
THIS IS JUST SHIT !!!
MrLukasart 1 year ago
you need a video for this? seriously? just look into someone's eyes! if they are manipulating you or someone else, you can see it in there.
OdeToNecrophilia 1 year ago
@OdeToNecrophilia
Like retard rage?
JonnyRello 1 year ago
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OdeToNecrophilia 1 year ago
I wonder, if there are so many psychopaths what happens when we meet each other mua ha ha :)
jzeerod 1 year ago
god bless!? akdjI^%%$# ultra combo breaker on that master manipulation. buh bye now...
LordAnu 1 year ago
sounds like Tommy ``so on and so forth`` Davis
108deko 1 year ago
Wow, I wish I had this information will I was growing up. This is good, help puts things in perspective. Thank you for posting.
SSPHOENIQUERA1 1 year ago
Thanks so much for sharing this! This was very helpful!!!!
Oc4ever12 1 year ago
What an exciting show! I wonder how can I get in the studio audience.
perfectbeat 1 year ago
Introducing world-renowned clinical psychologist and the author of several books on the subject: Random YouTuber with some XtraNormal Characters. (waves)
iamcuriousblue 1 year ago
How to get rid of manipulative person:
1)invite him or her for a trip to the open sea
2)once there, disable him/her by any means necessary (avoid killing, it is almost always horribly messy)
3)attach heavy load to his/her feet
4)drop him/her to the sea
Del249 1 year ago
@Del249
Thanks! :D
Illumirage 1 year ago
So being manipulative is about trying to control others and get what you want. I am concerned with being able to spot this.
devotionalnonduality 1 year ago
It's caused by both. RUN from a manipulative person.They will get what they want and they will do anything to get it. Lie, Cheat, Steel and sometimes Kill. No humility at least not Real Humility it is Fake. My husband and My son are both Manipulative People. I live on alimony so the ex still has power. My son is out of my life.
MsDezzyzRayz 1 year ago
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bionichb 1 year ago
this is so awesome!!!! I know someone that is this person,thanks so much!!!
333handsomesons 1 year ago
Pscychopaths at work. There everywhere these kinda ppl.
knowledgeisthepower1 1 year ago
@knowledgeisthepower1 Yes, they are; My mom is one, my husband of 28 yrs is one, and my mom is one. I broke away and had my freedom. Then I was injured and now have a horrid back and cannot work. Due to my illness he still has control because I live on alimony. I had so many dreams.
MsDezzyzRayz 1 year ago
@MsDezzyzRayz if you need help try a channel or resource which is set up for this purpose. You Tube is not an example of this.
vapourmile 1 year ago
this shit is creepy. creepy as hell. I'm in hell. this is spot on. my childhood.
larsiemannen 1 year ago
LMFAOLMAO
xxxGetCrunkkk 1 year ago
Wow. Im VERY Munipulative, how do I fix this? :/
xxxGetCrunkkk 1 year ago
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ynotawoody 1 year ago
yeah but what if they are your frkn boss
lethel4444 1 year ago
after watching this video I think everybody has a sense of manipulation in their personality and their way to be. I am a manipulative person as well but for the well. Think this video has help me to understand myselft more and how to get out of certain situation to avoid to get in a actions of manipulation.
joelitos2000 1 year ago
Obama? Or is he just a neurotic narcissist?
tantrikwizard 1 year ago
w w w . x t r a n o rm a l . c o m
ynotawoody 1 year ago
There are some very valid and interesting points in this video. A little difficult to listen to because it was computerized, but good, nonetheless. Thanks for sharing.
shelterbuddy 1 year ago
well i guess im manipulative but im not really agrresive or never care about people,
im carefull about what i say looks like a slight side to manipulation knowladge popularity and can really get people to do what i want (not forcing them but being pursuasive) ;)
finalfantasy13c 1 year ago
What amazing computer programming!! I'm don't like controlling people.
seaco2000 1 year ago
chyange to ''how to manipulate''
esrapk 1 year ago
bhaahha i manipulate everyone.
themindfuck 1 year ago
this video creeps me out
shamrock118 1 year ago
I have been watching this video over and over. Couldn't be more right, had i knew about this video much much earlier, i would have prevented myself from being so dissapointed with such manipulative individual and doubt myself. These kind of people are constantly trying to brain wash and YES, avoid associating with these vampires.
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abisai0medrano 1 year ago
check out passive aggression, lack of empathy and sociopaths
jonessmithGB 1 year ago
I have a neighbor who is pulling the superior feel of using logic and that everything must have a logic person to getting you towards sex, money and success. I He says that people like me and poor people and those with only a high school education or no education or black people are " not part of the real world." That I'm nothing unless I live in a big city and are making money and have an asian wife. I think he's delusional.
4SCARECROWS 1 year ago
@4SCARECROWS - What a horrible neighbour! My colleague had a customer like that, and I told her not to discuss personal things with him, that will stop him 'using that info against her'. That neighbour sounds really insecure.
cyclepod1 1 year ago
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cyclepod1 1 year ago
Very well stated facts on this video. I too make videos on this topic. Yes, the best way to deal with these people is NO CONTACT. Disengage yourself from their life.
begood4000 1 year ago
this twitter channel is about abuse & self improvement:
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TheEmotionalAbuse 1 year ago
What if a parent is manipulative? It's not like you can just dump your mother :(
darlingdino 1 year ago 34
@darlingdino
No, you cannot dump a manipulative mother. But you can learn how to deal with her behavior.
Identify the manipulative behavior. Show her what she is doing, why it is wrong, and how she needs to communicate with you. If she cannot modify her behavior, then you must modify how you respond to her manipulation
NaomiChambers 1 year ago
@darlingdino you could you just dont want to.
1001samurais 1 year ago
@1001samurais Ah, no I don't want to dump my mother! You only get one mother in life and no matter how your mother chooses to behave, you have a choice as to how to react. I'm trying my best b/c no matter what, I love my mom.
darlingdino 1 year ago
@darlingdino - yes, if it is your mother it is difficult. I have the same problem. Mine often threats to get rid of me out of her life.. unless I give her money etc.
cyclepod1 1 year ago
@darlingdino - yes, same problem here. Mine wants no contact with me.. unless I give her money and never ask for it back.
cyclepod1 1 year ago
@darlingdino you can move away
MrEbayStuff 1 year ago
@darlingdino Well, actually you can. Once you have reached the age of 18 or 21...depending on which country you are living in, you are in titled to break of contact with even your parents! I did it, it has been hard...my parents have stalked me, banging on my front door etc. So you do need to be strong.Do I feel quilty...no, why should I? Manipulative people are the scum of the Earth! My parents used and controlled me for years...they have had their fun and I owe them nothing.
TheDraeStar 1 year ago 15
@TheDraeStar You're Awesome!
anthonyjperri 11 months ago
@darlingdino
I guess that depends on how old you are and/or if you still with her.
AbstractLucidity 1 year ago
@darlingdino I did !
MsDezzyzRayz 1 year ago
@darlingdino
move out nigga.
StrappingyoungLad11 1 year ago
@StrappingyoungLad11 Well I'm a 35 year old white female who moved out when I was 22....
darlingdino 1 year ago
@darlingdino
oh ok then srry for calling you an african American!=P
and thats good that you moved! best wishes sister!(=
StrappingyoungLad11 1 year ago
@StrappingyoungLad11 Ok....lol. I'm learning to deal with her and give the crap she gives right back to her. You have to set boundaries. Tough love. Hey, best wishes to ya too ;)
darlingdino 1 year ago
@darlingdino If the parent is toxic enough to your well-being, yes, you can. The alternative is to "just" be really firm about your boundaries - which is a boatload easier to say than to do, especially when an offspring has been conditioned since childhood to ignore his or her own boundaries.
ElizabethIsabelle 1 year ago
@ElizabethIsabelle That is very true. My mom has her good and bad qualities, as we all do, but now that I'm older I can see that it was learned from her mother. The difference with me is that I am able to see into this and ultimately set boundaries which I am working on.
darlingdino 1 year ago
@darlingdino
You can move out. Meanwhile, suffer until you're 18.
chaosworshipper 1 year ago
@chaosworshipper If you're replying to me, I'm 35 and moved out when I was 22. My mother still tries to be manipulative if she doesn't get her own way. A person doesn't have to be a minor or still live with their mother for her to still be a manipulative person.
darlingdino 1 year ago 20
But as the video advises; just cutting off oppertunity for her to manipulate will, at very least, ease your stress.
Obviously, the "ungrateful child" excuse will come up, but that is still no *reason* to not allow someone to be their own person (vis a vis, how religion not also refuses to allow people to be human, but demands they apologise for being how they were "created").
The reason I'm hammering the comparison in is to give you an idea of how difficult it will be, emotionally.
Xunkun 1 year ago
However, logically, it can be as a walk in the park, especially when it's your own personal freedom and happiness that you act in favor of having, as well as less stress and clarity of thought and action. Drawing a line in the sand is merely the first step (first step's always a doozy, tho).
Xunkun 1 year ago