Should You Stay In A Sexless Marriage?

[MiuMiuStormiGirl]

My husband and I are working on it

[TheCaulfield1]

I have to say, my sex life with my husband is simply non existent at the moment and has been for a few months. I feel I am not desirable, we don't kiss or cuddle anymore and with him working shifts, if and when we do have sex, it's over in about 10 minutes. When we have had sex in the past, I sometimes feel it's a chore and it's over too quickly. I wanna be seduced and made to feel sexy and he doesn't do it for me. I am 40 years old with two children and now feel I have lost my sex drive.

[MrNightdevil1983]

Hi i'm Dan Hunter and my wife Issy and I created this review blog to review all the sex guides on the internet! We were in a sexless marriage but we made a conscious decision to save it by trying to find a solutiuon! Anyway we spent a fortune on guides/toys so you wouldn't have to! Check out our reviews and recommendations at: women-orgasm,net... We're still together and now enjoying sex again... so can YOU!

[myalisa78]

I beleive my partner is using no sex as a form of control over me, I'm constantly begging for it, but he just wont then its always an excuse, he wouldnt touch me after my fourth month of pregnacy, and to this day i can count on my fingers how many times weve been intimate in a year and a half. Im tired of it, its my major form of frustraition in this relationship that isnt going to last...I cant do it anymore. I have needs that deserve to be met, how could he not want to be with me? Im so hurt.

[hamidkadir]

Married people should never ask for sex, sex should come natural, and it must happens every day if no sex that mean no happiness as a man we need to have sex if not just go and find the right woman I'm sure there are a lot of women out there.

[EllaKathryn]

I think people should either love being married or get out. I had an email relationship with a married man (didn't tell me until too late) and he used me and once he was done, he carried on with married life and I was left feeling used and worthless. He was/is in a sexless marriage and stayed with her despite that. I was there to get his dick hard during work hours.

[DrGraceG]

in broken homes, all they see is emotional distance and arguing. That is not love and there is No respect. We learn from our families and parents. We need someone to help us and show us what real love is and what does it mean to respect another person, because without these two, there will be no sex, no trust and no love. If you need help with this contact me.

[DrGraceG]

First of all people have to KNOW what Love is, most people really do NOT. How can anyone tell if they are in love if they constantly mistake it for infatuation, or they think they are in love because the sex is great. Sex is only one of the ways you show love, there are so many ways to know you are loved and to show love. A lot of people also do not know what respect truly is. I am not trying to offend anyone, but ask your selves, what is love and what is respect. Most people these days grow up

[AlexxThug]

I personally dont think you should for any reason, relationships are all about trust, wat would u do if u go out and have sex with a random person:P, and when your all done:) you start thinkin bout y u feel inlove with ur partner, and u fall back inlove with them now there nos goin back because u broke all trust:) (sorry for my spellin im only 13:) )

[keradem]

@AlexxThug

[horticulture1]

My wife wants me to have an affair with another woman to satisfy my sexual needs. Should I go through with this or will she never trust me again?

[myalisa78]

@horticulture1 Ill tell you why shes doing that, she wants to see if you really love her, if you go with the woman though she says its ok in reality shes testing to see if you would actually go for it, and when you do get ready for the divorce, If shes insisting then obviously theres a problem between you and her, lack of sex maybe?

[DEMCAD]

Once the sex ends, the marriage ends.

[p1gta1p]

Women are whores. Simple as that.

[dhg4983]

sexless marriages are just another word for the whore con, which goes like this 1) Men are powerless before the lure of female sexuality 2) whores lure men by promising unlimited sexual fulfillment. 3) As soon as she has lured a man and has begun to extract payment, the whore withholds as much sex as she can get away with. 4) the whore understands that the more she withholds, the greater her value. 5) All women are whores. Bottom line women dont like sex in itself, just what it can give them.

[RubiconXing]

@dhg4983 well, I think a lot of women are like this, which is why I've always felt out of place (lol). I'm a nymphomaniac but as I've been told by older (married) men, it's a very rare "gift" ahahaha

[videowatcheer]

do you have children?

[highpriestrsw2]

My wife hasn't been interested in sex since our daughter was born a year and a half ago. She has no problem letting me sleep with a very attractive friend of hers. It's just sex. nothing complicated. That's our solution. I do really like being on call for sex with one of her friends. It feels like I should be in trouble with my wife because of it but I'm not because she approves. It makes it more exciting for me. Sometimes she watches and I really enjoy that.

[AtheistTower]

That's disgusting, it doesn't matter if your wife approves or not.

[DHotDoll]

The biggest problem? Marriage! It's a sham. Big Social SHAM. It causes misery for everyone more often than it promises happiness, contentment etc. And children? Let's not even go there.

[krizwatcher]

I must respectfully disagree with you. Marriage is one of the oldest institutions, dating back to the early days of Earth's history. It was instituted by God. Marriage was intended to be a joyful union between husband and wife. Unfortunately, the influence of sin is what has caused marriage to disintegrate and be defiled. I don't know if you believe in the Bible or in God, but that's my view on the matter. You can agree or disagree as you like.

[stopoutside]

Are you married? and the whole "You can agree or disagree as you like. " is one cheesy way of running away from an argument fire you just started, lol.

[krizwatcher]

No, I'm not married. I'll say that right off the bat since you've asked. And how is it a cheesy way of running from an argument, or even ANY way of running from an argument at all? I'm not running from anything, I've simply said my view on this matter, that's all. And how is it an argument fire? Please explain, because I don't think I'm following.

[dhg4983]

Its funny because I am really negative when it comes to women's motivation for sex (purely for personal gain), but I think the institution of marriage is the bulwark of civilization, without marriage we become nothing more than hunter-gathering savages. Marriage is the glue that holds everything together and allows for a stable transition from generation to generation.

[tamapalagi]

The problems we make for ourselves is we take everything too personal. We need to get away from the self centeredness that rules behavior. We always ask how can you do this too me when in fact the person did it to themselves. I think it's ok too sleep with as many partners as you can. Monogamy is a death. It's a death to the only thing you have ownership of. Your body.

[rachiti]

Monogamy is wonderful. Sex without emotional intimacy is like low-calorie ice cream. It'll do in a pinch, but it pales in comparison to the real thing.

[tamapalagi]

Monogamy is the decision to give up your sex life for one person. I would rather my girlfriend give up smoking. Seriously I would rather she sleep with another guy than smoke. My girlfriend can go longer without me than a cigarette. I went away for my dad's funeral and i bet she smoked more when I was gone. Sex isn't love and it's just as rewarding with a stranger than with your mate. If you can't enjoy casual sex that's a personal choice. More of an issue I would say.

[elgagalari]

when you're living in monogamy you don't know what you're missing

[highpriestrsw2]

I completely agree with you! I chose monogamy but was given casual sex as a door prize because my wife is realistic and knows that It's better for me to have sex with a friend of hers than with a complete stranger that she can't trust. I like it better this way.

[mts881]

This advice is pretty lame. "In Love" is such a passive feeling. It is an effect, something that happens after you do stuff.

It is also very individual-focused. If YOU don't respect them. If YOU enjoy them. Are they objectively respectable? Do they have enjoyable qualities? I know if I am pissed at my wife, I don't feel like that at the moment, but it doesn't change that she is a nice person.

Focus on changing yourself, being a strong person and building a strong relationship.

[notreallyworried]

There's sex after marriage?

[thphaca]

Hahahah nice one.

[007bcom]

Let me assure you that if its sexless... there is very likely porn and sexual impurity involved! Believe it or not.

[videowatcheer]

not so much i think thats jumping to an uneducated conculsion

[Drakerot]

I like the counseler, while Dan and Jenn are drinking fruity bombay sapphire mix she's drinking Jack n Coke. She's hardcore.

[dimphil]

That male pattern baldness is going to turn her off soon. Go to hair finders, makers whatever just 32 and losing hair. Poor dude.

[beijebeije]

yup good advice. hard to do.

[Keldrath]

be a man.... use your hand.

[rickenbacker13]

I've heard better advice...

[ajbarnstormer]

Or buy a blow up doll, or sheep depending on how hardcore you are, shag it every night and let the wife do the cooking.

[macscujo]

When you get a little older, kids out of the house and your wife does not want sex any more because she has gone through the change. Have a dam affair and tell your wifeto go see a doctor. Been ther done that and its great. She doesn't worry aboutme jumping on her bones and te woman in the affair is very sexual. All happy in the end.

[ajbarnstormer]

damn right!

[RockDudeRon]

Third That! doing so myself

[tamapalagi]

100% correct. Why should you be misserable.

[tamapalagi]

The best thing about sheep is you can eat them twice.

[fuckserbrussians1]

i wouldn't be able to resist my wife

[ajbarnstormer]

Yeah but just have an affair

[wolfinside]

Good advice! I tried "staying for the sake of the kids". It seemed very noble at the time, but I saw pretty quickly that it was hurting way more than helping the kids. Kids aren't dumb, they know whats going on.

[besharmnikamma]

as a cuckold hubby i feel husbands should stay in a sexless marriage while women should leave

[xthatrandomguy]

if you're gunna marry, also make sure its amazing sex for a life time.

[LiambsDen]

Hi Dan & Jenn, I just want to share the inuterine memory that fuels this very natural pathway to the pain/pleasure door and that is when you have sex,the navals obviously are touching and the inuterine memories begin to open. There were 3 people involved in our first experience with the love energy, so its a natural subconscious craving to return to our fierst impression of love. This also opens interesting theories on the origin of the gay/lesbian consciousness awakening on the planet.

[Huffnhustle]

?!? what crystals told you this?

[buddyd007]

can an affair help the marriage

umm let me think, umm no it cant,

it can create alot of confusion and hate

so dont even think about cheating or even looking at another person intamitly just keep it simple and just ask your partner what you want to do sexually, just say baby your leaving me high and dry whats up or if your a nympho and your partner doesnt want it all the time like you do you have to respect them and dont push the ''subject''

[gossamerwindweb]

sexless marriages are SO sad, in my opinion. I would fall apart :(

[tlndofa]

she dont say nothing bout leave just forefillment,like ya said,trust.dan gets it,shows.i been on the short end of the stick as a child ,i ended it after they ended...no offense my hearts a luv figure not my fn brain.hey good show

[Ayecone]

How ironic griebel11.

great advice as usual Dan and Jenn

[griebel11]

first comment fags

[mathias1211]

you are probably the fag since you even bother to brag about having the first post

[orangesforeveryone]

Even though you're the first one to comment your comment is not displayed first, FAGGOT =)

[RunescapeJcpenny]

meeeeeee

[SWinger7]

You're my hero griebel11. lulz