Simply explaining to your children that what they're doing is wrong; and if they don't listen put them on the naughty step until they listen to you (which will inevitably happen - eventually) - this is the best way to show them who's boss! It's about perseverance. Yes it's tedious, but nobody said parenting was easy!
Hitting children teaches them nothing. In my opinion, it's lazy parenting. If you hit your children when they're naughty, then they will grow thinking that violence is acceptable, you see this all the time.
Mindful, reasonable disciplining by spanking is necessary for a child to get serious. There is no child that will not try to use the last resources of being a bad kid, if they see their parents are mellow and afraid to discipline them. The same thing with school kids. Until they see you mean business, they will do their best to walk over you.
I do agree with spanking if nothing else works. I was a horrible violent child, time outs didn't exactly cut it. I didn't learn my lesson until my brother whooped my ass one day when I was 13.
people have to learn theres a difference between spanking children & beating the c**p out of them. My opinion is that spanking them should only be a last resort if you've tried everything possible & they still act up. First warn them, then take privileges away & if they still act up or become more violent, then spank them as a way of saying thats what i feel like when you hit me, then that may put them off & reduce their violent behaviour. in the old days spanking was a way of exerting control.
Putting your hands on your kid is not assault...the bible tells us as parents how to discipline our children and that's exactly what I'll do with my kids...
I got whoopings as a kids and more parents needs to discipline their kids and if it means whopping that butt wit a belt or slapping the taste out of their mouths so be it.
Hitting your kid does nothing but instill fear and resentment towards their parents, AND makes them violent as they get older. Because they're taught that HITTING is how to get people to listen to you. People from my parents generation always say "well my parents spanked me, everyones parents did back then". My response "Yeah and thats why the world is so fucked up today, nice job your parents did."
Parents are DEFINATELY too leanient with their children...
However, there's a fine line for discipline, and I think it's left to individual evaluation, but I wouldn't go as far as to BEAT my child.. that's not condusive and can cause a lot of damage to the child's mental/emotional development.
With that said, parents DO need to be in line with their children, honestly. There's something morally fucked when your CHILD tells YOU what's what.
There's a difference between beating children and being strict with them. You can be a good severe parent without smashing your children's head into a wall. We're not beasts, we can use words and diplomacy to teach our kids autority and respect. Yes, the ones who act like BFFs with their kids in order to be 'peaceful' with them are wrong, but it doesnt mean we have to be the total opposite. Both extremes are wrong, lets act like smart human beings and find a balance, a golden mean for God'sake.
I agree and I don't agree, It totally depends on the way and the reason! But a teen who's out of control sometimes needs more that just "you're grounded". I my dad had put me through a wall (instead of just closing his eyes) I might have understood a lot sooner how much, the wild stuff that I did back then, was hurting him... just a thought...
Hitting is not just awful IT IS INEFFECTIVE. Yes kids need discipline, but that can be achieved without . A nd while NOTHING "works" all the time, spanking almost NEVER works at all.
I'm not an adult, but I do think kids need a lot more disiplin because quite a few have little respect for their parents, so they need to learn that, and beating could be an answer, as long as it's not so violent that they need to go to hostpital or have bruises or anything.
I guess we were raised in a different time! I was raised with old school method! And I respect the discipline I recieved! You look at a kid today, and they get taken away or you end up in jail! It's all a joke!
I still and always will love my mom and grandma! They kept me in line if I stepped over the line!
I love how people complain that if a kid is on drugs or kills someone "Where's the parents?" or "They should have disciplined them!" HOW can they when you people BITCH and gripe "That's abuse!" What talking solves everything? It's called tough love!
I agree with Pink because i find if you dont beat ur kids once in a while they're never gonna learn disipline and i find kids who arnt disiplined tend to be the ones living a life of crime, well atleast thats what ive always been taught, however there is a diference between abuse in terms of beating and then beating in terms of like ive said disipline
People don't understand why the crime rate for teens and young adults is up, not to mention parents these days don't know why their kids act out. MAYBE YOU SHOULD TEACH THEM DISCIPLINE AND RESPECT WHEN THEY'RE YOUNG!!! I will be doing so when I have my own, they will not be mouthy little shits like most of the kids I come across now.
In the toddler years 2-3 years old especially when verbal communication is difficult a last resort spank is in my opinion a good idea. You cannot verbally reason with a 3yr old when it's tantrum time, usually it can be handled without a spank but if used as a last resort it shocks them into changing their behaviour, the spank does not have to be hard but it's the shock factor when it is not expected that changes the behaviour. Once they can talk and understand you can reason with them
Ih8faggots1000 If you are not in fact an immature 12 year old you should never beat your wife. Spanking kids is one thing but beating your wife is unacceptable.
Her answer was to a specific situation-to kids who take adv of their parents, go out of control & parents 'spank' em but 2say 'beat' is a different issue. Spank, like spankin their butt or slapping their wrist, or sumtimes grabbin em by the collar & sayin 'please wake up', beatin is like fist2face. There's a difference b/w physical 'abuse' & 'discipline', she spoke broadly-a bad message 2those who abuse kids & abused kids who may think they deserve it. Ppl really got2 listen 2what they r sayin.
i agree with pink, i think now days parents are 2 easy with their kids....if my kids got out of line, they will get there ass beat... white people dont dis they kids they b putting them in time outs and shit..... fuck that, black people be spanking that ass if they kids gets out of line,
@Mattixg Physical action to a child should never be concidered as a punishment. Most kids thats disrespectfull to their parents are in most cases spoiled up kids that dont get their will.
And if youre attempting to beat up youre child to earn its respect you wont. You will only earn its fear.
I was a very strong willed kid. I was spanked a total of three times as a last resort, I remember each and every time and I can tell you that I never did what I did to get spanked again. I can also tell you that I am a nonviolent person, I'd be hard pressed to hurt someone in self defense even. Discipline is going to vary from child to child, good parenting isn't doing this or not doing that, it is about doing what works best for your situation and knowing your children.
@ih8faggots10000 LMAO...guess again...asshole who thinks he/she is better than everyone else. Grow the hell up already..what are you..12? I've reported before, the cops come to my house and get your info off my computer, so go ahead and be arrogant about it when they show up at your house.
@blessedmommy73 Wtf. Cops can't do shit with a youtube account. You'll be wasting their time. If your a mom, get off the internet and be a mom. Seriously.
@TheXAnimeXAlchemist well..there is where you are wrong. There was a teenager on here who was disclosing the abuse she was enduring at home. I called our local police, they came over, took the info off my computer and were able to locate her, so don't think for a moment that nothing can be done. and...so because I'm a mom, I can't use the computer? I happen to be a wonderful mother...read my other comments before you judge someone.
Kids learn best through making mistakes and having to suffer from the natural consequences of making these mistakes. The mistakes parents make these days is "saving" their children from every consequence that they have brought onto themselves. Your kids will not love you any less because you don't save them from their mess ups. Teach them that every behaviour has a consequence, the more natural the consequence, the better. Parents these days "bubble wrap" their kids and it drives me nuts.
@ih8faggots10000 well now, you just gave us all the evidence that can now be turned over to police. Thanks sir...and don't think for a moment I won't do it. I'm a foster and adoptive parent of abused children AND a nurse, and therefore obligated by law to report abuse.
She obviously means that she wants parents to actually fight for their children and not to stand there like a total loser with absolutely no control over them. The world is full of nasty people and if you act naive towards it then the inevitable will happen. The temptation to be lazy and do nothing is too strong also.
well...I have 5 children, two are now adults and I have NEVER raised a hand to them, ever...and my kids are one of the most respectful bunch. I would never tolerate anything less from them. When parenting is done right, it takes effort, time, dedication, patience and experience, but kids can most certainy be raised without physical assault. If I expect my kids to respect me, then I need to respect them as well, all while setting firm boundaries and expectations.
I disagree with her, not every child is the same. Some kids can be disclipined with words and words only. For me a really good parent has no need of ever using more then words to disclipine their child
LOL theres nothing wrong with dicipline. even if that means a few smacks upside the head here and there, imo i think Pink is right :) -doesnt meant beat them black and blue.
@Roaringwhispers "a few smacks upside the head" ???? Tell that to my now 10 year old adopted daughter, who's mother did that to her when she was a baby and gave her permanent brain damage. Seriously. I have never hit my kids.
@Roaringwhispers well..as I said, I have 5 kids, and never, did I have the need to strike them. I don't get how we would get arrested for assaulting an adult, but acceptable to assault a child. The reason why I think no parent should be allowed to hit is because it then makes it too easy to lose control and seriously harm your child. Discipline teaches a child right from wrong...spanking teaches bullying behaviour. Since when do we really learn anything from fear?
@blessedmommy73 you're very lucky to have such lovely children. Some children arent as lovely and often grounding doesnt work and i think smacking the kid would be better than kicking them out.
Besides, when you raise your voice or scold a young child they get scared anyway. Discipline is fear it wouldnt work if they werent afraid to do the wrong thing again or being told off or smacked again.
& I learnt a lot from smackings, but im not scared of my mum cuz shes never beat me..
@blessedmommy73 you're very lucky to have such lovely children. Some children arent as lovely and often grounding doesnt work and i think smacking the kid would be better than kicking them out.
Besides, when you raise your voice or scold a young child they get scared anyway. Discipline is fear it wouldnt work if they werent afraid to do the wrong thing again or being told off or smacked again.
& I learnt a lot from smackings, but im not scared of my mum cuz shes never beat me..
lol you go pink i got whoop when i was child and look at me now im 17 not on drugs and never been pregnant of course im lazy and dont want to do much with my life but who cares im not on drugs :D
@AdjustedSubstance laziness is a right of passage in your life..lol...but eventually, you will get that motivation that will give you the passion for something better.
I have always admired Pink as a singer, but now I totally respect her. It is essential for parents to spank their children. Sparing the rod and spoiling the child policy is why most teenagers are just downright rude and disrespectful.
@Kabarile31 you are right about teenagers, but it's not because they were not spanked, it's because they were not given enough boundaries and expectations while growing up. Children don't need spanking, they need FIRM rules, boundaries and expectations of behaviour. As a foster home, I have seen too often, that abused children don't have " monster" parents, they have parents who simply lost control because they allowed themselves to assault their children.
@Kabarile31 i agree totally, if i wasnt spanked as a kid i probably would have turned out like all my other siblings or worse, they think they can just walk around and disrespect anyone in their path, spanking is what made me the respectful and curtious person i am today =)
Hell yeah! You wonder why kids are so bad nowadays, cuz people wanna put there kids in "time out" and not spank them. The fuck? Time out for me was after my mom beat the shit out of me and I passed the fuck out.
@JustKeepOnTrollin I have 5 kids, and I have NEVER raised a hand to them and yet they are more respectful than most kids in this world. They wouldn't dare do otherwise. When my kids hear " I am about to turn your world upside down", they cry more than if they were spanked, because it means that I am about to remove every single "extra" from their lives, leaving them ith the basics only. They know earning it all back will take an IMMENSE amount of effort and time.
@BrowniieeDoll id have to disagree somewhat because im of the younger generation and im not in any way disrespectfull as well as im my own person and do not in any way look up to these sluts shown on tv, infact i cant stand em.
@clearancequeenie I agree with you kids need to be punished with a spanking for doing something wrong. Just putting them in time out isn't enough, they won't learn anything that way because they're not afraid of a corner but they're definitely afraid of mommy or daddy's hand and will learn not to do what ever they did wrong again. I was disciplined with spankings as a child and are doing very well with my life
@101futbol there is soooo much more to discipline than "time outs". Before I became a parent, I made sure to take worshops and train myself for this immense task before I took it on..as should every single parent in this world. My kids have never been hit, and yet they would not dare be disrespectful and disobedient. When done right, and with patience, determination and confidence, it is very effective.
@BelladonaAtropina Bull shit.. I was spanked and I do not hate my parents. I spanked my kids and they are not violent and they love me. There is a difference in spanking and beating the crap out of your kids a swat on the behind gets their attention. Time outs do not work all the time. My kids are all adults now and outstanding kids. Never been in trouble with the law, go to college and work full time.
@clearancequeenie Ikr my mom spanked me an i dont hate her an i turned out fine i agree with BroeniieeDoll to cause kids these days have no respect an run wild thinking they can do w/e they want...
i have three kids two girls and a boy,they were all different,though i love them all my son was a strong willed little monster,beating him or shouting at him did nothing,children have to be convinced at as early an age as possible that you are in command,and that everything you do is done with their best interests at heart,i never had to hit my youngest daughter now she's an adult i asked her why she thought that was she said dad i always knew that when you said no that was it!
Ok, this is what you do, you don't spank them right away you say please don't do this again sweetheart...nicely, if they do it again your ground then, if they once more then you may give them a little spank on the tummy and maybe ground them also, this is how they learn. Spanking Will make them afraid, you don't want them to be afraid of you, do you? make them get closer to you, I just love it when i watch them improve their mistakes WITHOUT them being afraid to make mistakes along the road :)
@goldilux2000 trust me on this one..don't use the terms "sweetheart" and "honey" when you mean business. When you want to make sure they have your attention, change your tone..not yelling, but a FIRM tone and tell them FIRMLY what the expectations of behaviour are.You NEVER smack a child on the tummy, as a nurse, I can tell you that it is far too easy to injure internal organs. Fear of pain is NOT needed, you're right. Now, fear of losing what is most dear to them, yeah, THAT works
i agree with pink to an extent. there's nothing wrong with parents spanking their kids when their kids do things that deserve spanking(i.e. hitting siblings, playing ball in the house when they know damn well that there's fragile and expensive sh** all around them, swearing etc.) however i don't think there's anything a child could do to deserve getting put through a wall. i hope pink was exaggerating...
I personally think my parents hitting me when I was younger definitely put me in line. It sets boundaries for kids, I think. If they think they can get away with anything, then they will try getting away with anything. Once I had learnt my boundaries, I stopped trying to push them. Simple!
P!nk is absolutely right. I remember the first time I told my mom to "get the fuck in the car" my dad came home and put me through a wall. I will always remember that and have a little more respect when I open my mouth again.
All I can say is to seek a second opinion, a specialist's opinion before laying a finger on your kid. Ask those who studied children and their behavior all their life to give you a piece of their mind. It won't cost a thing, just google "spanking children right or wrong". It might change your prespective for ever.
I honestly don't know if I could spank my kids, but I'm not completely against the idea of it. I got spankings as a child and it definitely kept me in line...
Of course she didn't mean you need to smash the shit out of your children. She meant that this whole don't slap your kid if it does something bad has gotten out of control. And I agree. Once I always got run over by a car and my mother spanked the living hell out of me for not listening to her. And I have been careful ever since and remembered that moment. Look at western civ. kids. Half of them are spoilt, ungrateful bastards that bully others at school.
everyone should stop hating on pink! shes going to be the most amazing woman she obvious wouldnt do it all the time and for a little thing i highly dout this woman of many would be in trouble for 'child abuse' when you see all the childrens charitys and human rights campaigns she does?
Kiss my black ass you beat the shit out of your child cause when they get older just expect the ULTIMATE DISRESPECT so don't be all surprised if it happens.. but don't beat them too much cause then they'll be abused children >.>.. highly doubt you want that to happen o.o.. so yeah beat the shit outta your kids :D but don't abuse em ._.
@Sara21persian I don't think she meant heat ur belt up and beat them till they bleed or to like beat the shit out of them because to forgot to say "bless you" wen someone sneezed. but i have to agree kids every now and then need a good ass whooping
@jndafney ok then no problem, my answer for you is you're so immature and stuped and illitrate that you think there's nothing better than that, almost all of us experienced that in our life and all of us can see its effect if we open our eyes. those parents who punish their children physically don't deserve to have a kid. they are never good enough to be a parent.
@Sara21persian ok first off who are u to say i or anyone else for that matter doesnt deserve to have a child second i know how to use words as a matter a fact i can use them very well third id like to say i do know other parenting methods beside beating a child but if my 5 yr old got done cussing me out there is no way in hell im telling them to have a timeout but i do believe in positive reinforcement, talking to them and timeouts might even do good in certain situations
@jndafney In future your child will disrespect you in such way that you will question yourself that what have I done to deserve this, then remember my answer : You've done enough to not deserve his/her respect by beating him/her. why don't you beat your partner, your collegues, your parents when THEY get onto your nerve?? because you CAN'T, but a child can't protect itself, can't defend itself, can't do nothing. All I'm saying is that you'll find out when it's too late.
@Sara21persian Ok what ur speaking of is child abuse. And I'd like u to know I DO NOT believe in child abuse. What I'm talking about isn't "beating" a child. I feel that word isn't right. Please allow me to further explain beating someone is "I'm pissed at u, ur getting on my nerves so im going to beat you til i feel better" And that is wrong. What I mean is disciplinary measures meaning " I've told you repeatedly I've tried every other reasonable option but YOU'VE decided u wanted persist"
@Kaiser2284 wtf? my parents never raised a hand on me or my sister. And we both learned from them anything we needed to live in this world. you obviously got beaten when you were kid and I think it's pathetic to give your children the same treatment.
@slanis ok, I'm going to answer to this comment because from the way you phrased it, it seems like you are a reasonable person(anlike other comments or answers i`ve read)
So, i phrased it wrong. I said beating but i actually meant spanking, sorry `bout that. Now I still have the opinion that spanking is not bad depending on the reason behind and only when necesary-and ther ARE times-. was also spanked for wrong reasons believe me i can defferentiat. i respect your op. though. hope you can mine
That's a different story then. hehe. When I read 'beating' I was shocked. Spanking is something else. Still, I'm not for spanking kids, but I'll admit that there are those who really deserve a good spanking. And like you said it's not bad if there is a reason (good reason) behind it. I respect your op. too :))
@Sara21persian i think parents that NEVER spank there children "dont deserve to have a kid" . dont know what you whent through in life to have such un opinion but i think YOU are clearly the immature one here. After all the state and rudeness, and clear lack of respect that children/youngsters display nowerdays is proof that "never spanking/touching your child" is not the right way
@Kaiser2284 You are sick and you need a doctor, they who don't beat their kids love their kids respect them and want a good childhood for them as well as a good future, I can believe that your parents beat the shit out of when you were a child that's why you don't know any better way, that's why you're abusive and proud. I honestly wish people like you never existed so that children could be safe.
You are the dumbest fucking poster on youtube. Fist off, it depends on age. And parents dont immediately spank their kids on the first or second mistake. But again it depends on the childs age.
Ive seen kids "bully" their parents. Dumbasses like you with their head up their ass. Its a tiered approach and a spanking is the last resort. You are arrogant to think your method of parenting is the ONLY one in existence. People like you raise the likes of Timothy McVeigh..
@Mattixxg I don't think my method of parenting is the only one in existence whatsoever, as I'm very much aware that basterds like you still, in 21 century beat their child and feel proud of themselves. I do believe that those who beat their child don't deserve to be a parent, like you. You are a neanderthal, what do you know about parenting. Do your own lttle thing in life and don't make a child feel miserable and alone and abused in this world. Honestly, I wish people like you never existed.
Once more ignorance falls from your mouth. This shit has NOTHING to do with making yourself feel good. Who the fuck spanks a child and feels good about it. Your ignorance lies in not knowing other parenting methods. Your ignorance lies in the levels in which a parent does decide to use corporal punishment on their child.
You COMPLETELY ignored the other levels in which corporal punishment is used. Again, ive seen kids curse out their parents, hit their parents. What the hell??
When that child gets out into the real world, they are going to be dead or in prison. The environment you set up for your kid will be how they see the world outside. So..you have a kid thats wild like that curse and talk shit to their parents, theyll come across someone whose NOT mom and dad and will kill them or put them into the hospital. Its called discipline. Or even a cop...you can NOT talk shit or hit a cop like you can with your parents. Im GLAD my parents disciplined me
@Mattixxg I believe if you discipline your child from the very beginning, you will never have to beat him in order to show him what's right and what's wrong. He would that understanding by then. Physical action is not an option, it might be temporary but in long- term it will backfire. How do you want to teach a child to respect you when you beat him? You can't because what you do and what you expect him to do are completely against each other.
@Mattixxg I believe if you discipline your child from the very beginning, you will never have to beat him in order to show him what's right and what's wrong. He would that understanding by then. Physical action is not an option, it might be temporary but in long- term it will backfire. How do you want to teach a child to respect you when you beat him? You can't because what you do and what you expect him to do are completely against each other.
And for the ZILLIONTH time, ever fucking kid isnt the same. Some kids you can look at and that will get them in line. Some you can talk to sternly, some you can yell at, others, take toys away, or restriction from tv.
Then there are those who require a spanking with a belt. Some kids are VERY defiant. And they understand spankings. Kids arent stupid and to test the boundaries all the time.
@Mattixxg Honestly, when I read your comments, it just breaks my heart in half. with a belt? How could you abuse his weak and vulnerable body like that? You might forget, but he never will, cause the feeling of humiliation that you caused him will hunt him forever and in every stage of his life. I believe physical punishment happens when parents don't know any better and it doesn't mean that there isn't any better, it just means that they are not educated enough to be a parent.
Funny as how you never addressed the kids who are violent to their parents and how to deal with that. You are living in a world where everything is NOT pretty. Look at paris hilton, linsdey lohan. Rich, spoiled. Key world being spoiled. Mom and dad did Not discipline their kids and look at what happened to their lives.
You have no idea what you would do if your kid cursed you out or beat YOU up....you have a hard time understanding that all kids are different.
Personally, i think youre high on weed..but i digress...like i was saying, every child can NOT be raised the same. They all have their thresholds. Again, you dont address the aggressive and violent children either. I find that funny how you avoid that. And dont come with that "they were abused" bullshit. Because ive seen children CURSE OUT their parents, Hit and threaten their parents. Even kids who the parents had to call the cops on them.
@Mattixxg@Mattixxg First I have to say I don't smoke or drink... And then those kids who behave that way,they learnt it from someone close to them,perhaps from their parents. Their parents are their role model,the father shouts,makes it ok for them to shout too,mom cursts,makes it ok for them to curst too.In a household where this doesn't happen,when the kid sees it at school, he just knows that it's wrong, so he woudn't dare to bring it to home cause he knows that's not acceptable there.
Ill end with this. Every child is different. U can NOT say that ONE method will work with everyone. Thats EXTREMELY ignorant and incredibly narrow minded. Some strong willed kids do need spankings while others just need to be yelled at or talked to.
U dont give kids enough credit. They can ALSO push the limits and try and manipulate mom and dad. it is not beyond them to do so. Also..you NEVER mentioned age as i have. It depends on age.
@Mattixxg All I can say is to seek a second opinion, a specialist's opinion before laying a finger on your kid. Ask those who studied children and their behavior all their life to give you a piece of their mind. It won't cost a thing, just google "spanking children right or wrong". It might change your prespective for ever.
well I think "beating the crap out of your kids" don't necessary mean violence. the point is to break them down and build them back up. that's what I think she's saying. so be careful... violence didn't work on me. I freak the fuck out when my dad beat me. I didn't learn anything, it only gave me more fuel to be angry with him.
i really hate it how everyone says beating kids is wrong (especially the majority of airheaded americans). i mean beating them to death is, but a spank never killed anyone. I'm 23 and I realize that hadn't it been for my parent's bitchslaps i would be in the shitter.
@cemilutz so u sayin that if ur mom was to come up and slap u to the ground u would say i love u mommy can i rub ur feet then cook 4 you o and then take out the trash and clean ur toilet and breakup with my girlfriend/boyfriend cuz u hate him/her and then walk away with a smile on ur face not the least bit upset or pissed off
Beating is different from spanking. If someone meant spanking, they would say spank. But beating is wrong, and not only that, but you're generalizing a whole country. Hope you know what you're saying here.
sometimes beating kids works and sometimes it dont!! for me my ma would beat me, but of coarse i was disrespectful i didnt care who it was any one of my fam. talk crap and ill say something back, for me i can say it worked for me i have a 4 year old sometimes just yelling makes him cry but of coarse he is autistic so when he gets tantrums ppl think he needs a beating when he himself has a disorder, do i beat him??? no!
I totally agree with her. I'm asian and in asia beating up your kids for discipline is completely RIGHT. I was spanked so badly when I was kid. I'm glad my mom did it, I love her, it's because of her disciplined that I'm the way I am too day.
@hacksign000 Excuse me? in Asia? please don't be that general. Their are countries whose people are doing everything within their power to stop what your mom has done to you and you are glad for.
Oh my God. I feel sorry for that kid she's carrying. I have a feeling that she'll be the strict unapproachable kind of mother and Carey will be the sweet kind father the daughter will always run to.
Simply explaining to your children that what they're doing is wrong; and if they don't listen put them on the naughty step until they listen to you (which will inevitably happen - eventually) - this is the best way to show them who's boss! It's about perseverance. Yes it's tedious, but nobody said parenting was easy!
charrrrlottification 20 hours ago
Hitting children teaches them nothing. In my opinion, it's lazy parenting. If you hit your children when they're naughty, then they will grow thinking that violence is acceptable, you see this all the time.
charrrrlottification 20 hours ago
Mindful, reasonable disciplining by spanking is necessary for a child to get serious. There is no child that will not try to use the last resources of being a bad kid, if they see their parents are mellow and afraid to discipline them. The same thing with school kids. Until they see you mean business, they will do their best to walk over you.
ididete 1 day ago
I do agree with spanking if nothing else works. I was a horrible violent child, time outs didn't exactly cut it. I didn't learn my lesson until my brother whooped my ass one day when I was 13.
LittleMsMadness 2 days ago 3
@LittleMsMadness Agree
imgreat234 1 day ago
Holy fuck what are those critters above his eyes?
FnjordKnot 5 days ago
people have to learn theres a difference between spanking children & beating the c**p out of them. My opinion is that spanking them should only be a last resort if you've tried everything possible & they still act up. First warn them, then take privileges away & if they still act up or become more violent, then spank them as a way of saying thats what i feel like when you hit me, then that may put them off & reduce their violent behaviour. in the old days spanking was a way of exerting control.
gaylestephen 6 days ago
I wish a child would raise their hand to me...they'll be up in a hospital somewhere!!!
prettid051 6 days ago
Putting your hands on your kid is not assault...the bible tells us as parents how to discipline our children and that's exactly what I'll do with my kids...
prettid051 6 days ago
I got whoopings as a kids and more parents needs to discipline their kids and if it means whopping that butt wit a belt or slapping the taste out of their mouths so be it.
prettid051 6 days ago
What a stupid cunt...
Zentz29 1 week ago
Hitting didn't do anything but teach me to hit back.
xJustynLx 1 week ago
Hitting your kid does nothing but instill fear and resentment towards their parents, AND makes them violent as they get older. Because they're taught that HITTING is how to get people to listen to you. People from my parents generation always say "well my parents spanked me, everyones parents did back then". My response "Yeah and thats why the world is so fucked up today, nice job your parents did."
Hotice770 1 week ago
Parents are DEFINATELY too leanient with their children...
However, there's a fine line for discipline, and I think it's left to individual evaluation, but I wouldn't go as far as to BEAT my child.. that's not condusive and can cause a lot of damage to the child's mental/emotional development.
With that said, parents DO need to be in line with their children, honestly. There's something morally fucked when your CHILD tells YOU what's what.
FoodNazi001 1 week ago
There's a difference between beating children and being strict with them. You can be a good severe parent without smashing your children's head into a wall. We're not beasts, we can use words and diplomacy to teach our kids autority and respect. Yes, the ones who act like BFFs with their kids in order to be 'peaceful' with them are wrong, but it doesnt mean we have to be the total opposite. Both extremes are wrong, lets act like smart human beings and find a balance, a golden mean for God'sake.
megabulle 1 week ago
The host has the biggest eyebrows I have ever seen!
anubis1974 2 weeks ago
I agree and I don't agree, It totally depends on the way and the reason! But a teen who's out of control sometimes needs more that just "you're grounded". I my dad had put me through a wall (instead of just closing his eyes) I might have understood a lot sooner how much, the wild stuff that I did back then, was hurting him... just a thought...
tusindfrydpigen 2 weeks ago
For each day, Pink gets a more confortable position on my 1st place Idol
caspromVX 2 weeks ago
I got a yard stick to beat pink with, right here...
sickwititty 2 weeks ago
Hitting is not just awful IT IS INEFFECTIVE. Yes kids need discipline, but that can be achieved without . A nd while NOTHING "works" all the time, spanking almost NEVER works at all.
simonewatson3 2 weeks ago 2
Totally agree with you.
megabulle 1 week ago
wtf is up with that guys eyebrows
CROCODILEYEAST 2 weeks ago
I'm not an adult, but I do think kids need a lot more disiplin because quite a few have little respect for their parents, so they need to learn that, and beating could be an answer, as long as it's not so violent that they need to go to hostpital or have bruises or anything.
ilovemusicals33 2 weeks ago
....he put her through a wall...is she serious? lol obviously impossible but I immediately thought of her getting her head banged to a wall =/
YounngRose 2 weeks ago
I guess we were raised in a different time! I was raised with old school method! And I respect the discipline I recieved! You look at a kid today, and they get taken away or you end up in jail! It's all a joke!
TheMardevilfan 2 weeks ago
I still and always will love my mom and grandma! They kept me in line if I stepped over the line!
I love how people complain that if a kid is on drugs or kills someone "Where's the parents?" or "They should have disciplined them!" HOW can they when you people BITCH and gripe "That's abuse!" What talking solves everything? It's called tough love!
ariesflame85 2 weeks ago
hitting children is assault. try getting over the fact you are a crap parent if you feel you have to bash your children.
Photonzos 2 weeks ago
The guy who's talking is just so cute.. lashes are rich.. lol
preferredguyforyou 3 weeks ago
I was never hit and I grew up fine, but I knew if I stepped out of line I would get hit. So it's really just the fear lol.
ProudtobeaCanuck 3 weeks ago
Beat Your kids they come out so well... Ex 1 Pink
greattechreviews 3 weeks ago
I agree with Pink because i find if you dont beat ur kids once in a while they're never gonna learn disipline and i find kids who arnt disiplined tend to be the ones living a life of crime, well atleast thats what ive always been taught, however there is a diference between abuse in terms of beating and then beating in terms of like ive said disipline
JennieRevolver 3 weeks ago
I also agree with Pink.
People don't understand why the crime rate for teens and young adults is up, not to mention parents these days don't know why their kids act out. MAYBE YOU SHOULD TEACH THEM DISCIPLINE AND RESPECT WHEN THEY'RE YOUNG!!! I will be doing so when I have my own, they will not be mouthy little shits like most of the kids I come across now.
JellieBellieButtons 3 weeks ago
Im 14, and i got smacked when i was younger. And i am happy my parents done that. Because i know some kids my age are fair little cunts.
JerseyShoreHardy 3 weeks ago
@JerseyShoreHardy I'm your age, and couldn't agree more. Happy my generation isn't all lost ;)
ThePiaablabla 3 weeks ago
@ThePiaablabla LOL. Not all hope is lost ;)
JerseyShoreHardy 3 weeks ago
THAT IS SO TRUE. Some spoilt little kids turn out to be little cunts
JerseyShoreHardy 3 weeks ago
In the toddler years 2-3 years old especially when verbal communication is difficult a last resort spank is in my opinion a good idea. You cannot verbally reason with a 3yr old when it's tantrum time, usually it can be handled without a spank but if used as a last resort it shocks them into changing their behaviour, the spank does not have to be hard but it's the shock factor when it is not expected that changes the behaviour. Once they can talk and understand you can reason with them
TalkToTheBody 3 weeks ago
Her music glorifies alcoholism
biozamadotcom 3 weeks ago
Even spanking a kid is a form abuse. Besides , one day they're gonna turn and batter the shit out of you , spanking is wrong anyway. :L
LilRaverBrooke 3 weeks ago
I agree with Pink 100% There is nothing wrong with spanking children, it's when it turns over to abuse that's the problem.
Traceeztube 3 weeks ago
Ih8faggots1000 If you are not in fact an immature 12 year old you should never beat your wife. Spanking kids is one thing but beating your wife is unacceptable.
evilkitty573 4 weeks ago
Her answer was to a specific situation-to kids who take adv of their parents, go out of control & parents 'spank' em but 2say 'beat' is a different issue. Spank, like spankin their butt or slapping their wrist, or sumtimes grabbin em by the collar & sayin 'please wake up', beatin is like fist2face. There's a difference b/w physical 'abuse' & 'discipline', she spoke broadly-a bad message 2those who abuse kids & abused kids who may think they deserve it. Ppl really got2 listen 2what they r sayin.
AnamikaRealm 1 month ago
i agree with pink, i think now days parents are 2 easy with their kids....if my kids got out of line, they will get there ass beat... white people dont dis they kids they b putting them in time outs and shit..... fuck that, black people be spanking that ass if they kids gets out of line,
divascorpio1 1 month ago
All i can say is pluck ur eyebrows......
LuciaLOL1 1 month ago
@Mattixg Physical action to a child should never be concidered as a punishment. Most kids thats disrespectfull to their parents are in most cases spoiled up kids that dont get their will.
And if youre attempting to beat up youre child to earn its respect you wont. You will only earn its fear.
AndyYoAble 1 month ago
you should be able to cain the little bastard if they talk back to there mom or dad
Normpercy 1 month ago
I was a very strong willed kid. I was spanked a total of three times as a last resort, I remember each and every time and I can tell you that I never did what I did to get spanked again. I can also tell you that I am a nonviolent person, I'd be hard pressed to hurt someone in self defense even. Discipline is going to vary from child to child, good parenting isn't doing this or not doing that, it is about doing what works best for your situation and knowing your children.
rylraven13 1 month ago
@ih8faggots10000 I bet you also chew Skoal
ty1on77 1 month ago
@ih8faggots10000 LMAO...guess again...asshole who thinks he/she is better than everyone else. Grow the hell up already..what are you..12? I've reported before, the cops come to my house and get your info off my computer, so go ahead and be arrogant about it when they show up at your house.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
@blessedmommy73 Wtf. Cops can't do shit with a youtube account. You'll be wasting their time. If your a mom, get off the internet and be a mom. Seriously.
TheXAnimeXAlchemist 1 month ago
@TheXAnimeXAlchemist well..there is where you are wrong. There was a teenager on here who was disclosing the abuse she was enduring at home. I called our local police, they came over, took the info off my computer and were able to locate her, so don't think for a moment that nothing can be done. and...so because I'm a mom, I can't use the computer? I happen to be a wonderful mother...read my other comments before you judge someone.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
@blessedmommy73 ....I have read your comments. They just so happen to be the only comments I see when I scroll down.
TheXAnimeXAlchemist 1 month ago
Kids learn best through making mistakes and having to suffer from the natural consequences of making these mistakes. The mistakes parents make these days is "saving" their children from every consequence that they have brought onto themselves. Your kids will not love you any less because you don't save them from their mess ups. Teach them that every behaviour has a consequence, the more natural the consequence, the better. Parents these days "bubble wrap" their kids and it drives me nuts.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
@ih8faggots10000 well now, you just gave us all the evidence that can now be turned over to police. Thanks sir...and don't think for a moment I won't do it. I'm a foster and adoptive parent of abused children AND a nurse, and therefore obligated by law to report abuse.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
She obviously means that she wants parents to actually fight for their children and not to stand there like a total loser with absolutely no control over them. The world is full of nasty people and if you act naive towards it then the inevitable will happen. The temptation to be lazy and do nothing is too strong also.
DanKanzas 1 month ago
well...I have 5 children, two are now adults and I have NEVER raised a hand to them, ever...and my kids are one of the most respectful bunch. I would never tolerate anything less from them. When parenting is done right, it takes effort, time, dedication, patience and experience, but kids can most certainy be raised without physical assault. If I expect my kids to respect me, then I need to respect them as well, all while setting firm boundaries and expectations.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
@ih8faggots10000
Ah.
So you use corporal punishment on a full-grown woman as well?
You are aware that's called abuse right?
I hope she divorces your ass.
KOSMOSandTELOS 1 month ago
Equal treatment in equal circumstances. 'nuff said.
Crosfyr 1 month ago
I disagree with her, not every child is the same. Some kids can be disclipined with words and words only. For me a really good parent has no need of ever using more then words to disclipine their child
smalloneftw 1 month ago
WAX YOUR FUCKING EYEFURS!!!!!!!!!!!!
tt247jer 1 month ago
LOL theres nothing wrong with dicipline. even if that means a few smacks upside the head here and there, imo i think Pink is right :) -doesnt meant beat them black and blue.
Roaringwhispers 1 month ago
@Roaringwhispers "a few smacks upside the head" ???? Tell that to my now 10 year old adopted daughter, who's mother did that to her when she was a baby and gave her permanent brain damage. Seriously. I have never hit my kids.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
@blessedmommy73 I did say discipline, not abuse
& the last part of my comment states exactly what i do and dont mean.
Obv whatever that carer did is and example of what i dont mean... theres no need or excuse to justify hitting children like that =\ wtf?
& some kids just really need a smack now and then usually when they get older.
Roaringwhispers 1 month ago
@Roaringwhispers well..as I said, I have 5 kids, and never, did I have the need to strike them. I don't get how we would get arrested for assaulting an adult, but acceptable to assault a child. The reason why I think no parent should be allowed to hit is because it then makes it too easy to lose control and seriously harm your child. Discipline teaches a child right from wrong...spanking teaches bullying behaviour. Since when do we really learn anything from fear?
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
@blessedmommy73 you're very lucky to have such lovely children. Some children arent as lovely and often grounding doesnt work and i think smacking the kid would be better than kicking them out.
Besides, when you raise your voice or scold a young child they get scared anyway. Discipline is fear it wouldnt work if they werent afraid to do the wrong thing again or being told off or smacked again.
& I learnt a lot from smackings, but im not scared of my mum cuz shes never beat me..
Roaringwhispers 1 month ago
@blessedmommy73 you're very lucky to have such lovely children. Some children arent as lovely and often grounding doesnt work and i think smacking the kid would be better than kicking them out.
Besides, when you raise your voice or scold a young child they get scared anyway. Discipline is fear it wouldnt work if they werent afraid to do the wrong thing again or being told off or smacked again.
& I learnt a lot from smackings, but im not scared of my mum cuz shes never beat me..
Roaringwhispers 1 month ago
lol you go pink i got whoop when i was child and look at me now im 17 not on drugs and never been pregnant of course im lazy and dont want to do much with my life but who cares im not on drugs :D
AdjustedSubstance 1 month ago
@AdjustedSubstance laziness is a right of passage in your life..lol...but eventually, you will get that motivation that will give you the passion for something better.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
What is that language the gays speaking?! Gayish?!
brainfoodjunky 1 month ago
I have always admired Pink as a singer, but now I totally respect her. It is essential for parents to spank their children. Sparing the rod and spoiling the child policy is why most teenagers are just downright rude and disrespectful.
Kabarile31 1 month ago
@Kabarile31 you are right about teenagers, but it's not because they were not spanked, it's because they were not given enough boundaries and expectations while growing up. Children don't need spanking, they need FIRM rules, boundaries and expectations of behaviour. As a foster home, I have seen too often, that abused children don't have " monster" parents, they have parents who simply lost control because they allowed themselves to assault their children.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
@Kabarile31 i agree totally, if i wasnt spanked as a kid i probably would have turned out like all my other siblings or worse, they think they can just walk around and disrespect anyone in their path, spanking is what made me the respectful and curtious person i am today =)
shaes83 1 month ago
Hell yeah! You wonder why kids are so bad nowadays, cuz people wanna put there kids in "time out" and not spank them. The fuck? Time out for me was after my mom beat the shit out of me and I passed the fuck out.
JustKeepOnTrollin 1 month ago
@JustKeepOnTrollin I have 5 kids, and I have NEVER raised a hand to them and yet they are more respectful than most kids in this world. They wouldn't dare do otherwise. When my kids hear " I am about to turn your world upside down", they cry more than if they were spanked, because it means that I am about to remove every single "extra" from their lives, leaving them ith the basics only. They know earning it all back will take an IMMENSE amount of effort and time.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
i knew pink was tough
Niami777 1 month ago
It works so stop gucking hating!
trinity75424 1 month ago
I hate pink....
Xtinacandyman44 2 months ago
It's called a reality check. You should try it. It works.
alleygh0st 2 months ago
I completely agree with Pink, the younger generation have absolutely no respect and look up to these sluts they see on t.v.
BrowniieeDoll 2 months ago 39
@BrowniieeDoll TRUE. they should look up to her instead..
faaaduma 1 month ago
@BrowniieeDoll id have to disagree somewhat because im of the younger generation and im not in any way disrespectfull as well as im my own person and do not in any way look up to these sluts shown on tv, infact i cant stand em.
JennieRevolver 3 weeks ago
@clearancequeenie I agree with you kids need to be punished with a spanking for doing something wrong. Just putting them in time out isn't enough, they won't learn anything that way because they're not afraid of a corner but they're definitely afraid of mommy or daddy's hand and will learn not to do what ever they did wrong again. I was disciplined with spankings as a child and are doing very well with my life
101futbol 2 months ago
@101futbol there is soooo much more to discipline than "time outs". Before I became a parent, I made sure to take worshops and train myself for this immense task before I took it on..as should every single parent in this world. My kids have never been hit, and yet they would not dare be disrespectful and disobedient. When done right, and with patience, determination and confidence, it is very effective.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
Violence breeds violence that's all i can say.
BelladonaAtropina 2 months ago 2
@BelladonaAtropina Bull shit.. I was spanked and I do not hate my parents. I spanked my kids and they are not violent and they love me. There is a difference in spanking and beating the crap out of your kids a swat on the behind gets their attention. Time outs do not work all the time. My kids are all adults now and outstanding kids. Never been in trouble with the law, go to college and work full time.
clearancequeenie 2 months ago 23
@clearancequeenie That doesn't mean a thing. Irrelevant comment.
BelladonaAtropina 2 months ago
@clearancequeenie i agree with you, i think hitting ur kids is a better disiplene then time outs.
divascorpio1 1 month ago
@clearancequeenie Ikr my mom spanked me an i dont hate her an i turned out fine i agree with BroeniieeDoll to cause kids these days have no respect an run wild thinking they can do w/e they want...
mooncat429 3 weeks ago
i have three kids two girls and a boy,they were all different,though i love them all my son was a strong willed little monster,beating him or shouting at him did nothing,children have to be convinced at as early an age as possible that you are in command,and that everything you do is done with their best interests at heart,i never had to hit my youngest daughter now she's an adult i asked her why she thought that was she said dad i always knew that when you said no that was it!
blackoutrus 2 months ago
@blackoutrus I get this "look" that I give my kids...they're faces drop and the "oh shit" look on their faces show up...lol
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
I LOVE PINK
TaintedxHalo 2 months ago
LOL!!!! "He put me through a wall....that's the only reason why I'm still alive." -- lol!!
neetrab 2 months ago
what the hell is up with that mans eyebrows lmao
TheTinycat 3 months ago
Those childhood beatings have had a real effect on her brain cells..
ssips720 3 months ago
My mom used to slap me when i was young if i were disobedient.
It made me to be the strong person that i am and i love my mom more than anything in the world.
JustShutUpAndLoveMe 3 months ago
Ok, this is what you do, you don't spank them right away you say please don't do this again sweetheart...nicely, if they do it again your ground then, if they once more then you may give them a little spank on the tummy and maybe ground them also, this is how they learn. Spanking Will make them afraid, you don't want them to be afraid of you, do you? make them get closer to you, I just love it when i watch them improve their mistakes WITHOUT them being afraid to make mistakes along the road :)
goldilux2000 3 months ago
@goldilux2000 trust me on this one..don't use the terms "sweetheart" and "honey" when you mean business. When you want to make sure they have your attention, change your tone..not yelling, but a FIRM tone and tell them FIRMLY what the expectations of behaviour are.You NEVER smack a child on the tummy, as a nurse, I can tell you that it is far too easy to injure internal organs. Fear of pain is NOT needed, you're right. Now, fear of losing what is most dear to them, yeah, THAT works
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
Parents need to hit their kids, not beat them! Pink didn't mean beat the sit out of them, but to discipline them!
zchbddy90 3 months ago
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i agree with pink to an extent. there's nothing wrong with parents spanking their kids when their kids do things that deserve spanking(i.e. hitting siblings, playing ball in the house when they know damn well that there's fragile and expensive sh** all around them, swearing etc.) however i don't think there's anything a child could do to deserve getting put through a wall. i hope pink was exaggerating...
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ablackguy123456789 3 months ago
I personally think my parents hitting me when I was younger definitely put me in line. It sets boundaries for kids, I think. If they think they can get away with anything, then they will try getting away with anything. Once I had learnt my boundaries, I stopped trying to push them. Simple!
jackuhreee 3 months ago
P!nk is absolutely right. I remember the first time I told my mom to "get the fuck in the car" my dad came home and put me through a wall. I will always remember that and have a little more respect when I open my mouth again.
blondybash321 3 months ago
I love pink even more now!!!!...Beat that ass!!!!
unforgetablechick10 3 months ago
Spanking your kid is not the same as beating your kid. Pink meant spanking. End of story.
maiashafgirlwildlark 4 months ago
I don't agree with BEATING children. I do agree that sometimes children need a spanking.
FantasyPNTM 5 months ago
How could someone like P!nk, who supports anti-violence and equal rights, would support violence to children??
sconat1994 5 months ago
I would never think of pink like a parent who would beat her kid, im really dissapointed..
lile22222 5 months ago
@lile22222 I wonder ewhat her thoughts on that are now that she has a baby girl.
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
All I can say is to seek a second opinion, a specialist's opinion before laying a finger on your kid. Ask those who studied children and their behavior all their life to give you a piece of their mind. It won't cost a thing, just google "spanking children right or wrong". It might change your prespective for ever.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
I honestly don't know if I could spank my kids, but I'm not completely against the idea of it. I got spankings as a child and it definitely kept me in line...
righteousgroove 5 months ago
WHAT THE HELL! WHO DOES THAT TO A CHILD! VIOLENCE IS NOT THE ANSWER. I mean neither is world peace...but common.
RihannaNavy505 5 months ago
Of course she didn't mean you need to smash the shit out of your children. She meant that this whole don't slap your kid if it does something bad has gotten out of control. And I agree. Once I always got run over by a car and my mother spanked the living hell out of me for not listening to her. And I have been careful ever since and remembered that moment. Look at western civ. kids. Half of them are spoilt, ungrateful bastards that bully others at school.
cynicalandbored 6 months ago 55
@cynicalandbored Wow it must have been hard always getting run over by a car, and spanked after. Your life sucked
MrWadestar 2 months ago
@MrWadestar I meant almost not always of course. WTF. Wonder why I still got thumbs up when my comment didn't really make much sense.
cynicalandbored 2 months ago
@cynicalandbored LOL just had a laugh about the wording I knew it was to read almost, just got a funny picture in my head over the wording.
MrWadestar 2 months ago
@cynicalandbored Exactly. I agree too. Kids have nothing to be scared of these days which causes them to behave badly.
LadyGaGaOfficialCha1 1 month ago
SPANK YOUR KIDS
KaelaBz 6 months ago
@KaelaBz NO THANK YOU. LOL
blessedmommy73 1 month ago
everyone should stop hating on pink! shes going to be the most amazing woman she obvious wouldnt do it all the time and for a little thing i highly dout this woman of many would be in trouble for 'child abuse' when you see all the childrens charitys and human rights campaigns she does?
stoopidhannah 6 months ago
Haha pink is da best!!!!!
Lubyyy100 6 months ago
hahahahaha i love her
CeLticFire1251 6 months ago
Kiss my black ass you beat the shit out of your child cause when they get older just expect the ULTIMATE DISRESPECT so don't be all surprised if it happens.. but don't beat them too much cause then they'll be abused children >.>.. highly doubt you want that to happen o.o.. so yeah beat the shit outta your kids :D but don't abuse em ._.
MsSexybunneh 6 months ago
Fuck Pink, Fuck everyone who beats their children. Fuck them
Sara21persian 7 months ago
@Sara21persian I don't think she meant heat ur belt up and beat them till they bleed or to like beat the shit out of them because to forgot to say "bless you" wen someone sneezed. but i have to agree kids every now and then need a good ass whooping
jndafney 7 months ago
@jndafney ok then no problem, my answer for you is you're so immature and stuped and illitrate that you think there's nothing better than that, almost all of us experienced that in our life and all of us can see its effect if we open our eyes. those parents who punish their children physically don't deserve to have a kid. they are never good enough to be a parent.
Sara21persian 6 months ago
@Sara21persian ok first off who are u to say i or anyone else for that matter doesnt deserve to have a child second i know how to use words as a matter a fact i can use them very well third id like to say i do know other parenting methods beside beating a child but if my 5 yr old got done cussing me out there is no way in hell im telling them to have a timeout but i do believe in positive reinforcement, talking to them and timeouts might even do good in certain situations
jndafney 6 months ago
@jndafney In future your child will disrespect you in such way that you will question yourself that what have I done to deserve this, then remember my answer : You've done enough to not deserve his/her respect by beating him/her. why don't you beat your partner, your collegues, your parents when THEY get onto your nerve?? because you CAN'T, but a child can't protect itself, can't defend itself, can't do nothing. All I'm saying is that you'll find out when it's too late.
Sara21persian 6 months ago
@Sara21persian Ok what ur speaking of is child abuse. And I'd like u to know I DO NOT believe in child abuse. What I'm talking about isn't "beating" a child. I feel that word isn't right. Please allow me to further explain beating someone is "I'm pissed at u, ur getting on my nerves so im going to beat you til i feel better" And that is wrong. What I mean is disciplinary measures meaning " I've told you repeatedly I've tried every other reasonable option but YOU'VE decided u wanted persist"
jndafney 6 months ago
@jndafney So you didn't mean that you hurt your child physically as a punishment. If so there was a misunderstanding.
Sara21persian 6 months ago
@Sara21persian i think parents that NEVER beat the children dont deserve to have kids. its part of growing up. YOU are clearly the immature one here
Kaiser2284 5 months ago
@Kaiser2284 wtf? my parents never raised a hand on me or my sister. And we both learned from them anything we needed to live in this world. you obviously got beaten when you were kid and I think it's pathetic to give your children the same treatment.
slanis 5 months ago
@slanis ok, I'm going to answer to this comment because from the way you phrased it, it seems like you are a reasonable person(anlike other comments or answers i`ve read)
So, i phrased it wrong. I said beating but i actually meant spanking, sorry `bout that. Now I still have the opinion that spanking is not bad depending on the reason behind and only when necesary-and ther ARE times-. was also spanked for wrong reasons believe me i can defferentiat. i respect your op. though. hope you can mine
Kaiser2284 4 months ago
@Kaiser2284 hehe :)
That's a different story then. hehe. When I read 'beating' I was shocked. Spanking is something else. Still, I'm not for spanking kids, but I'll admit that there are those who really deserve a good spanking. And like you said it's not bad if there is a reason (good reason) behind it. I respect your op. too :))
slanis 4 months ago
@Sara21persian i think parents that NEVER spank there children "dont deserve to have a kid" . dont know what you whent through in life to have such un opinion but i think YOU are clearly the immature one here. After all the state and rudeness, and clear lack of respect that children/youngsters display nowerdays is proof that "never spanking/touching your child" is not the right way
Kaiser2284 5 months ago
@Kaiser2284 You are sick and you need a doctor, they who don't beat their kids love their kids respect them and want a good childhood for them as well as a good future, I can believe that your parents beat the shit out of when you were a child that's why you don't know any better way, that's why you're abusive and proud. I honestly wish people like you never existed so that children could be safe.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
@Sara21persian
You are the dumbest fucking poster on youtube. Fist off, it depends on age. And parents dont immediately spank their kids on the first or second mistake. But again it depends on the childs age.
Ive seen kids "bully" their parents. Dumbasses like you with their head up their ass. Its a tiered approach and a spanking is the last resort. You are arrogant to think your method of parenting is the ONLY one in existence. People like you raise the likes of Timothy McVeigh..
Mattixxg 5 months ago
@Mattixxg I don't think my method of parenting is the only one in existence whatsoever, as I'm very much aware that basterds like you still, in 21 century beat their child and feel proud of themselves. I do believe that those who beat their child don't deserve to be a parent, like you. You are a neanderthal, what do you know about parenting. Do your own lttle thing in life and don't make a child feel miserable and alone and abused in this world. Honestly, I wish people like you never existed.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
@Sara21persian
Once more ignorance falls from your mouth. This shit has NOTHING to do with making yourself feel good. Who the fuck spanks a child and feels good about it. Your ignorance lies in not knowing other parenting methods. Your ignorance lies in the levels in which a parent does decide to use corporal punishment on their child.
You COMPLETELY ignored the other levels in which corporal punishment is used. Again, ive seen kids curse out their parents, hit their parents. What the hell??
Mattixxg 5 months ago
@Sara21persian
When that child gets out into the real world, they are going to be dead or in prison. The environment you set up for your kid will be how they see the world outside. So..you have a kid thats wild like that curse and talk shit to their parents, theyll come across someone whose NOT mom and dad and will kill them or put them into the hospital. Its called discipline. Or even a cop...you can NOT talk shit or hit a cop like you can with your parents. Im GLAD my parents disciplined me
Mattixxg 5 months ago
@Mattixxg I believe if you discipline your child from the very beginning, you will never have to beat him in order to show him what's right and what's wrong. He would that understanding by then. Physical action is not an option, it might be temporary but in long- term it will backfire. How do you want to teach a child to respect you when you beat him? You can't because what you do and what you expect him to do are completely against each other.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
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@Mattixxg I believe if you discipline your child from the very beginning, you will never have to beat him in order to show him what's right and what's wrong. He would that understanding by then. Physical action is not an option, it might be temporary but in long- term it will backfire. How do you want to teach a child to respect you when you beat him? You can't because what you do and what you expect him to do are completely against each other.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
@Sara21persian
And for the ZILLIONTH time, ever fucking kid isnt the same. Some kids you can look at and that will get them in line. Some you can talk to sternly, some you can yell at, others, take toys away, or restriction from tv.
Then there are those who require a spanking with a belt. Some kids are VERY defiant. And they understand spankings. Kids arent stupid and to test the boundaries all the time.
Mattixxg 5 months ago
@Mattixxg Honestly, when I read your comments, it just breaks my heart in half. with a belt? How could you abuse his weak and vulnerable body like that? You might forget, but he never will, cause the feeling of humiliation that you caused him will hunt him forever and in every stage of his life. I believe physical punishment happens when parents don't know any better and it doesn't mean that there isn't any better, it just means that they are not educated enough to be a parent.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
@Sara21persian
Funny as how you never addressed the kids who are violent to their parents and how to deal with that. You are living in a world where everything is NOT pretty. Look at paris hilton, linsdey lohan. Rich, spoiled. Key world being spoiled. Mom and dad did Not discipline their kids and look at what happened to their lives.
You have no idea what you would do if your kid cursed you out or beat YOU up....you have a hard time understanding that all kids are different.
Mattixxg 5 months ago
@Sara21persian
Personally, i think youre high on weed..but i digress...like i was saying, every child can NOT be raised the same. They all have their thresholds. Again, you dont address the aggressive and violent children either. I find that funny how you avoid that. And dont come with that "they were abused" bullshit. Because ive seen children CURSE OUT their parents, Hit and threaten their parents. Even kids who the parents had to call the cops on them.
Mattixxg 5 months ago
@Mattixxg @Mattixxg First I have to say I don't smoke or drink... And then those kids who behave that way,they learnt it from someone close to them,perhaps from their parents. Their parents are their role model,the father shouts,makes it ok for them to shout too,mom cursts,makes it ok for them to curst too.In a household where this doesn't happen,when the kid sees it at school, he just knows that it's wrong, so he woudn't dare to bring it to home cause he knows that's not acceptable there.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
@Sara21persian
Ill end with this. Every child is different. U can NOT say that ONE method will work with everyone. Thats EXTREMELY ignorant and incredibly narrow minded. Some strong willed kids do need spankings while others just need to be yelled at or talked to.
U dont give kids enough credit. They can ALSO push the limits and try and manipulate mom and dad. it is not beyond them to do so. Also..you NEVER mentioned age as i have. It depends on age.
Mattixxg 5 months ago 16
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@Mattixxg All I can say is to seek a second opinion, a specialist's opinion before laying a finger on your kid. Ask those who studied children and their behavior all their life to give you a piece of their mind. It won't cost a thing, just google "spanking children right or wrong". It might change your prespective for ever.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
asking pink to hit you is like asking for a suicide
StuffBurner 7 months ago
well I think "beating the crap out of your kids" don't necessary mean violence. the point is to break them down and build them back up. that's what I think she's saying. so be careful... violence didn't work on me. I freak the fuck out when my dad beat me. I didn't learn anything, it only gave me more fuel to be angry with him.
StuffBurner 7 months ago
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Piss on her
titanicman2 8 months ago
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Fuck you bitch, shame paps didn't kill you.
deadlybug 8 months ago
i really hate it how everyone says beating kids is wrong (especially the majority of airheaded americans). i mean beating them to death is, but a spank never killed anyone. I'm 23 and I realize that hadn't it been for my parent's bitchslaps i would be in the shitter.
cemilutz 8 months ago 3
@cemilutz so u sayin that if ur mom was to come up and slap u to the ground u would say i love u mommy can i rub ur feet then cook 4 you o and then take out the trash and clean ur toilet and breakup with my girlfriend/boyfriend cuz u hate him/her and then walk away with a smile on ur face not the least bit upset or pissed off
titanicman2 8 months ago
@cemilutz
Beating is different from spanking. If someone meant spanking, they would say spank. But beating is wrong, and not only that, but you're generalizing a whole country. Hope you know what you're saying here.
DarkHeart365 6 months ago
That guy needs some major help on his eyebrows!!
Westvolleyball02 8 months ago
sometimes beating kids works and sometimes it dont!! for me my ma would beat me, but of coarse i was disrespectful i didnt care who it was any one of my fam. talk crap and ill say something back, for me i can say it worked for me i have a 4 year old sometimes just yelling makes him cry but of coarse he is autistic so when he gets tantrums ppl think he needs a beating when he himself has a disorder, do i beat him??? no!
meliboo26 8 months ago
Beating children is wrong, they wont listen to their parents more beacuse they've got hitten. I know that from own experience, but I still love Pink
EleniLenander 8 months ago
I totally agree with her. I'm asian and in asia beating up your kids for discipline is completely RIGHT. I was spanked so badly when I was kid. I'm glad my mom did it, I love her, it's because of her disciplined that I'm the way I am too day.
hacksign000 8 months ago
@hacksign000 Excuse me? in Asia? please don't be that general. Their are countries whose people are doing everything within their power to stop what your mom has done to you and you are glad for.
Sara21persian 5 months ago
yes exaclty! haha @Th3Individual
MrsJadenSmith1 8 months ago
Oh my God. I feel sorry for that kid she's carrying. I have a feeling that she'll be the strict unapproachable kind of mother and Carey will be the sweet kind father the daughter will always run to.
123Jenny90 8 months ago
You're gorgeous pink and freakin amazing! Good statement totally agree!
dipdopdee 8 months ago
Does He/She "pink" have a cock? Sure looks like it.
TheFloydReport 8 months ago