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  • this is completely stupid, society is fucked up, and so all these individuals suffer because of others' ignorance. if people just accepted others, or at least tolerated people none of this would happen!

  • Good vid. No one is ever happy are they?  The thing is - I wen thru of some of this.

  • THE STRGHT WORLD MAKES GAY MEN DO THIS CANT COME OUT WITHOUT TAKING SHIT FROM PEOPLE SO THEY GET MARRIED.

  • seriously commercials? the world is going down

  • The heterosexual spouse without a doubt will get a lot of sympathy while the homosexual husband will most likely loose everything. She will get a divorce, get the house and the kids and the husband has to deal with the society. Why does God create homosexuals and does not accept them? This is the question I will ask God in judgement day. Not having a leg, being blind and handicap is a lot easier than being gay. So from now on stop asking people why aren't they married,etc.

  • The society forces gay men to get married. They keep asking why aren't you married? Where's your girlfriend? They keep pressuring gay people to get married. I don't think it is the gay men's intentions to betray a woman. A lot of gay peopel are ashamed, struggling and not embracing their gayness.It is the straight people's fault because they're so judgmental and nosey. As we gay people were growing up, how many time did we hear that being gay is bad. I feel sorry for the guy more than the wife.

  • ... This is sad......

  • This is so sad. I feel so sorry for these people. I can't imagine someone I love committing to me and then finding out they were lying all along. :(

  • The ultimate victim has been the homosexual throughout the whole ordeal. He/she was the victim as a child being beaten up by the ills of society and the church; a victim as a teenager being told by the church that hetrosexual marriage would fix him/her. A victim of the shame planted within him/her and allowed to grow. How in the world a straight spouses "victimization" overrides any of this is hetrosexist and disgusting. The church is the ultimate abuser using the homosexual as its pawn!

  • HAHA! Wheat thins...

  • the homosexual spouse suffers during the marriage while the heterosexual suffers when their homosexual spouse comes clean. life sucks

  • wow

  • Throughout recorded history, and pre-recorded, marriage has been between a man and a woman. Period. It may have become political, but it was for raising a child. If two gay men cannot naturally ( by biological means ) procreate, then there is no point to marriage.

  • @geoscience Sorry mate, but you're wrong. Marriage in its current incarnation is a fairly modern concept compared to the span of human history. Same sex unions have been recorded throughout history, often in equal status to opposite sex unions. Some simple research will show you this. Also, modern marriage has little to do with children. Single people can have children, unmarried couples can have children, gay couple can have children. Marriage isn't about children, think before you type.

  • @industrialist22 Nope. I did my research. Normal marriages came long before gay ones did. You look at the greeks and you drop your jaw in awe at their debauchery, but you gave up on normal marriage already and thought that was the coolest thing you've seen. Gay people cannot conceive children. Modern marriage has A LOT to do with children. Some only marry for children. But Marriage is a union to provide a healthy environment to raise kids and grow in love; with your OPPOSITE.

  • ROFLMAO this is too funny

  • It's easy to tell if the other person is gay.

  • @sabdow wrong =\ its not

  • This is messed up.. I have never been deceived to this point and I am a gay guy.. I must note that I would never mess with a married man or a guy who is seeing someone that is just trashy.. and shows that the person or persons committing the act have less of moral standards.. If they get caught they deserve everything that they get and hopefully it is full of hell

  • im not saying been gay is wrong but why should they have rights they dont need them !! go live in sin like been gay is a sin

  • gay men used to always get married. get women pregnant. keep em at home to take care of them and the kids. only since people started being friends before marriage has this become a problem. marriage now is about love and friendship and sex not procreation and tribal unity. if gay people could marry, these false marriages would not happen.

  • @zaynzaynzayn They can marry in the UK!

  • @zaynzaynzayn

    some gay men marry women because they need the comfort of a "normal" family , a nurturing woman/wife/mother , kids , and they fulfill their sexual needs in homosexual relationships ....i guess.....they will do the same when gay marriage will be legal.

  • Wow, I want Gwen's life!

  • the most boring documentary ive seen lol

  • this is funny. how can people be so nieve lol my husband isnt gay it would be obvious if he was. you just know. there are clues lol

  • These people have no right to destroy someone else because they didn't have the courage to understand that they are homosexual. It's bad enough that you're under pressure but to cheat someone who loved you so much makes you a sore loser.

  • Only someone who has been through this understands the pain involved.. It's much worse than being cheated on... The person who most likely knew exaclty who they were steals your whole life and turns it into a lie... No memory is ever the same.. I really don;t want to hear that they were just trying to fit into soceity it's no excuse to destroy someone else through fraud.

  • What a well written piece of work....just stumbled across it and watched. Compassion and open mindedness is a healer

  • Commercials on Youtube? Jesus Christ.

  • @papatoony

    How else are they meant to make money?

  • sometimes you don't know the man would be masculine and thats messed up

  • i married a woman... i am gay ... in the eighties... i was raised on the evangelical church ...so much pressure.... luckily we remain freinds ...people need to know it is ok to be gay..and not destroy someone elses life by trying to be straight and get married...seen it over and over...

  • Hmmm... Maybe this is the reason that gay people marry straight people. If it were "ok" with society, then we would have no reason to attempt to repress our true nature and certainly no reason to marry someone of the opposite sex.

    I agree that it is wrong to marry someone of the opposite sex if you know that you are gay. However, a society that demonizes being gay and prevents people from marrying someone of the same sex needs to accept the obvious outcome that they have created.

  • How is it true nature if every religion and science see it as unnatural? Are you implying you are a freak?

  • @Wizsol Religion is the opinion of men, so it holds no sway whatesoever. There is NO science that proves homosexuality is any more unnatural than heterosexuality. Not a single science. Also, 100's of animal species have homosexual relationships, so according to nature it is quite natural.

  • @Beeht yes there is because if it was norm then both sides could have children

    thats science in its self if it was right it would be apart of nature there for its not right !!

  • @hapenny44 It is true that reproduction is a part of nature but it is not anywhere near all of what nature encompasses. Homosexuality is not unique to humans, it is quite normal in the animal kingdom. Again I will state the facts. There are no proven sciences that tell us homosexuality is unnatural infact there are studies to the contrary that show homosexuality is a normal part of nature. So far approximately 450+ species have been shown to have clear homosexual behaviors.

  • @Beeht human nature not forst pets nature !!! if a guy marrys a girl then says ups sorry im gay bye bye ??? wrong yes very wrong ! to gays hey lets get married and have kids were will the kids come from ?? befor u know it kids down the line will have no clue of who they really are !! marrige is not for gays and if it ever becomes a right for them it will make a joke out of what marige means ! if they want rights live as human nature is ment ,

  • @hapenny44 You obviously don't have the intelligence required to understand the world you live in. Your arguement has failed. This will be my last response. Have a nice simple life meant for simple people.

  • @hapenny44 HAHAHAHA, you believe in God, miracles, and the supernatural? I didn't realize this was still ancient times. Our culture is evolving, get with the times already. Religion is old news. You are retarded. Watch out Zeus might get you if you don't sacrifice an animal to him. Whatr an idiot.

  • @Detrimental2 go live in sin is a saying u sad nut sack !! as for god's ever flots ur boat !! and its what an idoit retard !! were did i say anything about gods?? man are ment to be with woman !! girls are ment to be with boys !! to carry on the human code of natures law !! thats y u have a dick in ur brain !! they only reson people go gay is because they cant get with the other sex .

  • @hapenny44 umm duh? thats the whole point of "being gay" its your mentallity of loving another man or woman.

  • @moor4348

    do you think they love their wives?...those who never admit they're attracted to men ...

    it is better to tell her , at least she knows what happened to her....otherwise , she might think it is her fault , she doesnt look good , so on

  • @moor4348

    many gay /bi men want sex with other men but can not imagine sharing their life with a man. some want a "normal" family , with a woman by their side , feel comfortable that way , want to have kids , to be good husbands....or so they say , i read a lot about that... guess why ?!

    is a woman married to a gay/bi male wasting her life? is any sort of consolation to make her accept the truth?..

  • @moor4348 Is it possible for a gay man to fall in love with a straight woman, but have no sexual feelings whatsoever? Is love based on looks? If you were born blind, would orientation matter?

  • @moor4348 I think it is sad that some homosexuals are made to feel that they have to not only lie to themselves, but lie to someone who believes they are someone they're not, and ultimately being deceitful to their "better half" for their entire lives, only to end up destroying that persons life in the long run. Yes it isn't right to put restrictions on homosexuals, they should be free to marry if they want to, but that does not justify ruining someones life to protect themselves.

  • @hammersmoomoo I do think it is wrong for a gay person to marry a straight person when they know that they are gay - I mentioned that in the message above that you are responding to. However, it is the heterosexual majority that has created the circumstances for these marriages to take place. When that majority accepts same-sex marriage and the natural existence of homosexuality in general, inter-sexuality marriage will likely only occur with both parties fully aware of the others sexuality.

  • @moor4348 I know, i read your message. =P I was simply saying that regardless of the circumstances or why someone feels they need to do something to feel "normal", when it involves totally deceiving someone to the point that they are basically completely oblivious to the fact they are being used as a cover up for their "better half's" true identity, that can't be justified no matter how you look at it. Ruining someone elses life to try and make your own better is just wrong.

  • @moor4348 And yes I agree that it is the hetero majority that causes some homosexuals to feel the need to do things like this, however, there comes a point when individuals need to start taking responsibility for their own actions.

  • @moor4348 You can blame the hetero majority for making some homosexuals feel like they need to do something to feel "normal", but you can't blame them for an individual deciding that covering up his own identity at the expense of someone elses life. That is all on the individual, not the heterosexual community.

  • @frontlinebassist777

    And why do you suggest it is that way?

  • this is partially why I wish society would let other people live their lives and be who they are. that way no one would have to feel ashamed or feel they have to hide, hurting others in the process because they could never be themselves in public.

  • I have no doubts that these men and women are guilty for their adultery and the pain and suffering they have caused to their families/spouses. However, we must also not forget that the environment society creates, stigmatizes homosexuality as 'sin' or 'unnatural' and ultimately leads them to this form of deception through guilt and fear.

  • So much hate in this comment section.

  • dear sisters i feel for you.this is why i HATE secrecy because it leads to this kind of stuff.stay strong and dont blame yourself.blessed be

  • you probably should'nt expose such information on the internet, you fool. go back to reading your school books and piss off.

  • I'm a gay guy. But I still feel so sorry for this woman. She seems very down to Earth.

  • I left my lesbian wife for my brothers gay husband.

  • wow that's some messed up stuff right there

  • What? So you went gay as well?

  • Lolz!

  • Shame on those cowardly men who sacrifice their children and wives to their homosexuallity...If only he had enough balls to admit it!

  • A very valuable video on youtube.

    Thank you, I know some people this will help.

  • Are you married to a gay?

  • Sad ugly white bitch whore.

  • Wow, strong comeback! It is called a typo. You still need to learn your place, you second hand whore. You and YOURSELF need to get some sense.

  • Why don't you (a) get a life (b) keep your igornant "thoughts" to yourelf (c) learn to read better (d) get some new batteries and (e) learn your place in society.

  • Ah, I guess you haven't learned how to read and you clearly don't know male from female. What a loser!

  • It's probably less likely to happen nowadays, but it is still very possible. Religious upbringings might cause one to repress their feelings of attraction to the same sex, and maybe even marry for the reasons given by the gay husband near the end of the film. If I marry, this is one of the conversations I plan to have beforehand -- "Have you ever had these feelings, and did you explore them?" Because I have seen people go through this and it is horrible. I don't want to deal with it.

  • Very good documentary, although it would have been nice to see a more age-diverse group. I was able to understand how it would be like to be in the shoes of either the gay or straight spouse. Maybe the good news is that it IS a generational thing, and that the next gen won't feel the need to deny their true sexuality.

  • "Ear ring in the right earlobe" She has some real detective like Velma from Scoby Doo.

  • You're very uglee! Racist cunt face!

  • Queer? That's funny. DId you marry a homo or are you just an ugly dyke? Racist bitch! White trailer trash. God, you're homely!

  • Your words are just as worned out and tired as your ugly racist face, but not as worn out as your pussy.

  • You're ignorant and bigoted.

  • Agree... And being black is a race not a behavioral disorder or something lol....

  • Are you sure about that?

  • unless you're another race ACTING black

  • How does another race "act" black? That is a stereotypical statement and quite ignorant.

  • i guess you're the ignorant one who DOESN'T KNOW how to read between the lines so i'll just be really straightforward w/my clarification: when you're walking in the ghetto and you see 5 black guys hanging out with one white guy, and the white guy yells out 'sup my nigga?' as you're driving by.... THAT'S another race acting black. we call them wiggas.... wannabe's. We = everyone. it actually came from a rap song by a black man. is that clear enough for you? you don't even know what ignorant means

  • and that example is not a sterotypical one either, at least not where I live. You see it EVERYWHERE here.

  • white kids who listen to only hardcore rap, 'yo yo yo' wherever they go, dressed in the latest 50 cent video inspired clothing with a do-rag under their straight-rimmed ghetto fabulous hat and swinging bling that hangs down to their belly buttons.... yeah... that's acting black. you can't sit here and tell me it doesn't happen. unless of course you're just stupid/ignorant/BLIND.

  • Racist bitch!

  • racist bitch? do you REALLY think i give 2 shits about what anyone thinks of me in the REAL world, let alone on YOUTUBE of all places?? no. im not fucking racist you dumb cunt. i was talking about STEROTYPES. then i commented on how some asshole doesnt think that people of one race try to act like another. now how the FUCK is that racist??!! it's just callin' it for what it is. Can you not READ?? Maybe so, but COMPREHENSION totally eludes you. how old are you anyway? 12?

  • You're a racist idiot. So, when a black person speaks properly and does not have an urban accent, then by your own definition of acting like another race: the black person is acting white? It is people like you who perpetuate stereotypes. It is time for you to grow up and travel the world. You are a sheltered little girl.

  • absolutely not. i was making a point. acting normal is just that. normal, educated, articulate, intelligent. that has nothing to do with race. i was talking about when someone of one race (white) acts like another STEROTYPICAL race. hence the examples i gave of a wigga acting black. you people are really retarded if you think im racist by saying anything that i said already. HOW THE FUCK IS EXPLAINING SOMETHING = RACIST?? I talk to EVERYONE i see. i do not discriminate in any way, shape or form.

  • and as far as growing up and seeing the world? i've probably seen more things and been more places than you have, and i don't have ANY 'growing up' to do. i dont hate anyone, and im most certainly NOT racist. i voted for obama, dickhead. would a racist person do that? HELL NO.

    as a matter of fact, the only people i hate are STUPID people. and it's not even hate. i just ignore them. but obviously i haven't been doing that lately....

  • Racist bitch. Get a life. Voting for Obama? Wow, that is so PC. What do you want a watermelon to make you feel good? How about some barbecue? Racist cunt face.

  • it's more like straight to hell with YOU. im not fucking racist. i was using the sterotypes as EXAMPLES. who's the ignorant twat?? YOU MUTHER FUCKER. holy shit you're so fucking dumb it pisses me off! how can anyone be as stupid as you?? holy fuck. stereotypical EXAMPLES does NOT equal personal viewpoints, FUCKFACE!! shit! learn some fucking C-0-M-P-R-E-H-E-N-S-I-O-N!!!! do you know what those 2 words me?> stereotype AND example?? or do i have to get REAL literal with you? fucking dumbass

  • You are a steretype of the perfect angry American woman who is unattractive, so she has to spread her hatred for other people on the Internet. You are a racist bitch. Are you a lesbian too?

  • Angry and ugly...bad combination for a racist.

  • Don't stereotype, you racist twat!

  • You're stupid.

  • you're the stupid one.... the one (of many) that obviously can't comprehend SHIT. or maybe you over analyze, or take things too fucking seriously. who the fuck knows... who the fuck cares??! but shit, im not stupid, and im definately not racist, BITCH.

  • Racist cunt bitch. You're ugly too, especially for a white girl. They're usually so pretty. I guess you have bad genes.

  • lets see YOU, you fucking WHORE. no, you're too fucking scared to put a pic OR a video up there, NOT ME. and 'especially for a white girl'... 'usually they're so pretty?' who's the fucking racist miss lady lumps, or is it lady clumps....cuz evidently your intelligence gene ran straight out your mom in a clump and down her fucking leg. why dont u come to my town and say this shit to my face? yah, it'd never happen cuz you're a PUSSY.

  • oh, and JUST incase you missed it.... I'M NOT FUCKING RACIST!! and i'd yell that RIGHT in your fucking face if i ever met you. hell, i'd write it on paper and jam it down your throat with my fucking fist you degenerate. i despise racism, it's not MY fault that sterotypes exist for me to use as examples you fucking TWIT.

  • Bye, racist dyke pussy eater. I am done with you. Go grab your stap on a fuck yourself silly. Get the black cock and pretend like you're not a racist cunt. It is going to be a stretch...just like your stretched out pussy.

  • oooo.... big slams for such a pathetic little dude. ha ha, yeah fun game we play, eh? you're a fucking BABY. you're 19, living in a shithole country. and you tell me to travel the world? where you been in your short years? i get that you;re calling me racist because you think it's pissing me off.... so far off-base too.... i know who and what i am. nothing anyone on YOUTUBE (or in real life) can say will ever change that. esp. some losers like you and lady. HILARIOUS!!!

  • Yes, and I also hate the "Black" lifestyle it's just so unnatural...

  • is that sarcasm? LoL black people are completely natural LoL the stereotypical lifestyle is a little messed up: pimping and beating their women, smoking all their money, thuggin on the streets. but that's just the stereotype.... not all black people behave like that. i guess you were just being sarcastic, it really doesnt make that much sense! = )

  • That was pure sarcasm, it was a response to your pathetic anti-gay comment below.

  • really?

    so every heterosexual reproduces?

    expecially the one's who adopt children,

    choose not to have children,

    can't have children

  • Umm, Homosexual sex goes hand in hand with heterosexual sex. No we can't make children, and? That doesn't make it any less natural or any more gross.

    I find skinny women icky, fat men icky and poop icky, that doesn't make any of them unnatural.

    There is nothing unnatural about two willing and loving people consummating that love.

  • And with an opinion like that, you were never meant to come out of your mothers vagina, therefore you're unnatural! Welcome to the club. ^_~

  • haha his gay

  • is this real?

  • burak583, the nazi time is over.

  • God, this is WHAT happened to me 3 years ago and it devastated me.

    I loved my husband so much and almost killed myself. The betrayal was traumatic. He used ME as a front for his 'cover'.

  • why do peaple do this stuff Its the 21 century be who you are

  • i would love to come home and find my wife with another woman. thatd be sweet to nail them both in the ass whether they wanted to or not,theyd be gettin fucked by me.

    as for a finding a guy with my wife. thats just two free kills in my book. that shit would have to be done right there and then to actually have a good chance of healing and having a normal life for yourself from then on. just my opinion.

  • Thou shalt not kill?

  • stupid bastard

  • I dont think so!God is like a father to us!And a father wants his Children to be happy!And when a Man loves Man they have the same feeling like when a Women loves a Man!They feel HAPPY!God gave us the love!And he accept us as what we are!!!He created us!And he didnt make a failure!The Gay People arent Failures!And your too!Even if your think Gays should be killed!

  • Have you ever thought they may not have been gay when they got married?

  • I was horrified when I discovered both my parents, our dog 'sissy', my brother and seven of our tropical fish were actually gay. This really helped, thank-you.

  • gay dog and fish? wow now ive heard it all. How'd u figure out they were gay?

  • I caught the dog watching 'Brokeback Mountain' and pleasuring himself and every time I play Diana Ross, the fish go crazy!!

  • if both were male or female!

  • I think like chunkylover56.

    and @queerbait610 :

    What you say is completly stupid! -__-

    There is nothing bad about being gay!

  • It's something wrong? A guy finds out that he is gay, and his wife finds out. Good for him.. everybody wins. The truth comes out, instead of living in a marrige based on a lie. The man can live the life he wants and the wife can do whatever she wants. Finito!

    Don't be such cry babys about it!

  • what if they are married for 10 years bunch of kids and plans?

  • Thankyou for this video...

  • Troll

  • homophobes that can't spell, should be banned in the us!

  • I had pressure to marry but i didn't, i travelled, you get any pressure from family to marry that's called conditional love, that means they will only give you love and approval on condition you do what they want to. That's not love, that's control, there's no love when there's control. Sad and Scary.

  • Maybe the Wives shoulda noticed when there Husbands kept puffing on Cuban Cigars......

  • Thankyou for this video. This is the story of my life .... gay and married. I know it is hard for people to understand why one would do this, and the answer to that is complex. I am about to leave a home I love, a wife I love, and family I love because after all authenticity is all that works.

  • does your spouse and family know?

  • Yes - they have known for 8 years. I am now moving into my own place, however with the blessing of wife and three children, as the only thing that works is to be our truth and to not worry about the prejudices and judgements of others - a big lesson for me that.

  • hmmm...WOW! Good luck!

  • you ignorant proud fuck, you're going to ruin so many ppl's lives, all for the selfish reason that you don't want to get a bad a reputation. You're ruining your own life. You're gonna hurt your wife, your kids, your family. Fuck you.

  • They are subconsciously forced into marriage because society dictates their lives.

  • omg very scary and also sad cause those people were married many years

  • gosh its their fault those women...how the hell she doesnt feel hes cheating on her and how the hell cant she sense hes gay..like his attitude and etc..its not the gays fault ..its the lover who is stupid not to notice O.o lol..

    First rule : before u get married to your lover show him a gay guy or lesbian stripping and seducing him and if he/she doesnt get turned on then ur good to go Xd and good luck with your marriage.

  • This seriously would not be a problem if society stopped making a big deal of being gay.

    I am a gay guy and I would never marry a woman. But there's a lot of gay guys/women out there who are "convinced" by society that it is natural or holy to marry someone of the opposite sex.

  • Agreed. I'm not gonna marry a guy just because society wants me too. I'd rather be happy.

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  • Thank you Freud:) I am glad you care so much for my reality and how I view reality. It's not a " belief" it's more of an experience over the years and watching someone come out of their shell from years of threats directed at a young age. He is a happy and successful man and is loved by his family and friends too. No I am not easily decieved and grew up in too rough a town to be naiive and for the delusions well sorry man can't help you with your judgement there. Be well

  • Fuck the world.

    Damn, so much fucking hate..

    When will it ever end? stop with this religion, homosexual, morals, stop!

    It's fucking up our world.

    It's all their fault.

    Everyone involved in a religion, just stop.

    You're fucking up our world..!!

    "For it was not god who created man, but it was man who created god"

    Think about it dumb fucks.

  • Let me guess your religious and you believe not only being gay is wrong but your god is higher or more truthful or right. I have known I was gay since I was a kid and I am loved , accepted and happy. So no thanks we do not need your help or your personal religious views projected on me or other gays. Maybe it is your religion and beliefs that need some help?

  • I think you've answered you own point you've known your sexual orientation and my anecdotal one which is essentially that if an individual knows they are gay which marry the opposite sex and further more why do many knowingly marry in religious institutions of the Abrahamic faiths? What two consenting adults do is not my business nor my concern unless in infringes upon me

  • No I was thrown out on the streets at 17 and exiled from a catholic family. My real family has come together over the years and it took alot of work. My husband found out @ 62yrs that he is gay and it came down to supression as his reaction early on in developmental years, from the religious political and biological backrounds. His children love and accept him as well as his Xwife. It made us all stronger and I learned that some of the greatest blessings are behind the pain. Bless U & Family 2

  • This was actually directed at "revelation".

    We don't need any saving, & my relationship with the divine ONE is fine. We have problems just like everyone else. I know heterosexuals who have far more problems than gays and vice versa. We have been living in a time for thousands of years where the norm has projected that feeling one way or another is wrong. These times are changing fast and this new paradigm it is about who you are not what you do with your nerve endings. This is the new earth...

  • Also Pigsshitonthe... it sounds as though your reality of what is plausible and that in which defines these" realms" are way different than others. If you have not been through it or something similar with someone close then it seems so foreign and indeed I am sure it appears beyond strange. We are all ignorant if we don't understand it or have not been through something. It is the experience itself, the journey, it's all we have and for these people this is their journey...

  • I'm a heterosexual male but grew up knowing that the brother of someone close to me was gay; I don't wish to preach hate through the pretext of religion by screaming "battyman". It seems to me that these sorts of issues stem from not being honest - as one man expressed it in this video. But this is where homo