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  • that's right. kill yo self since u dont wanna act right. selfish ass!

  • damn was it hurricane season or some shxt

  • My favorite ashanti video!

  • I love the extended version!!!

  • Now shes a role model for domestic violence...Rihanna take note.

  • i love this video

  • DAMMMMMMMMMM IT KEEPS GETTING HUNG AT 4:42 AND WONT GO PAST THAT POINT!!!! SUP LIKE THAT??

  • This one of the best video concepts ever

  • this is fucking awesome.

  • He was just jealous becuase she was moving forward in her life getting her dreams accomplished, and he was doing nothing. this may sound heartless but he got everything he deserved. thats some mean krama. now he has to answer to god. Dont ever let a man put his hands on you. If he do LEAVE!!! becasue that nothing but satan trying to hold you back.

  • O'Dog

  • Lol Larenz Tate's pimp hand is strong here.

  • Stop talkin while i'm talkin ! STOP LOUD TALKIN ! You don't show no respect ! damn , sound like me & my girl...

  • For me this is one of the best RnB songs EVER. I also think it's one of Ashanti's best songs. Brilliant video, brilliant song  brilliant meaning. STAY STRONG LADIES.

  • that sex scene was bomb!

  • nigga he would not be hitting me like i got a knife u wont some

  • damn this video so real.. shit like this happens every day

  • STOP LOUD TALKING!

  • thats karma baby..dont f*ck with Ashanti!!

  • dhatts agood azz song hell

  • Larenz tate is sooooo ugh!

  • that was dramatic she should fucked that nigga up from the get go

  • Please follow me at @Yolo_Wildgirl_

  • Larenz Tate is so sexy when he's mad

  • OMG I LOVE LARENZ TATE!!

  • How did She out Run him Lol My mother went through the same shit wit my father i saw it as kid him always putting his hands on my mother it was notthing me and my brother could do and its some things u just cant forgive people for I love my father but i wil never forgive him for what he did to my mother cuz she physicaly traumatized. She will never be the same and he's not sorry for what he did he's a poor excuse for a father and a man i told myself i will never do that to a women.

  • @2707zay My mother pulled a knife on my dad when they got into. That's probably why he would beat us.

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  • follow me @ifxckedvanity ^_^ We need Ashanti to make music like diz again

  • Larenz is sooooooo FINE!!!

  • im in a similar situation...just emiotional and verbal, but lucky for me i got a chance to get the EFF OUTTA HERE before I end up on snapped like @yushineko

  • Death upon arival

  • this guys a dick

  • i love this song i can relate to this whole song i did love him but no one should put up with this everrrr i learned the hard way but the only thing thts matter is i got out<3.

  • at 3:28 he started to sound like chris brown rimended me of rhianna and chris brown incident

  • long ass video

  • i have never seen this version!! LOL and im a ashanti fan

  • this doesn't just happen to women it also happens to men. i just men and women tht r abusive cud just think if it waz the other way round. h8 it soo much

  • @GhettoFabalisLAMB ifu r 13 and ur in tht relationship y the hell r u still in it??? u hav the adavantage of being young. meaning there places u think mite not help. 1st of all SCHOOL!! ur too young 4 this no guy shud treat u lyk this. u hav soo much potentials try ur best 2 get outof it or u'll hav the rest of ur life filled of regrets. and the ealier u get out the easier it is

  • @GhettoFabalisLAMB WELL THANK YOU FOR SHARING UR STORY , IM IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW , AND I USE TO JUDGE OTHER WOMEN AND SAY WHY STAY ITS EASY TO LEAVE , SHE STUPID TO STAY ALL THOSE MEAN COMMENTS , I JUST GOT HIT LAST NIGHT AND THE DAY BEFORE ,YES YOU CAN CALL THE COPS BUT IT TAKES 20 MIN WHERE I LIVE I COULD BE DEAD , SO I TAKE IT AND HOPEFULLY IT WILL STOP

  • @JAKAYLA253 trust me i am also a victim but, where there's a will there is a way. trust me u can find the strength and courage within urself to be free from such a relationship. it's because for now you hav patience trust me when u r fed and tired and hav ran out of luv 4 him, tht is weh u will think abt saving urself with the God behind u 2 help

  • --* ashanti DID her thing in this video and this song

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  • 911 would havee been called

  • this song is amaizing

  • I LOVE THIS VERSION SO BADLY

  • Amazing.

  • I cry everytime i hear this song or see the video i been in abusive relationships and to have the man you love just get up and smack you or choke you and you don't u dnt no why ... i just cant stand ah man who take there anger out on females

  • Damn this a music video or a Lifetime movie, lol. JK this was nice.

  • @acoolchick

    oh no a Lifetime movie would had been WAY more dramatic

  • I agree I havent watched that video in a long time and that shit is deep man :( u think that shit really happened to her? damnn idk

  • larenz tate is fine as hell.. but no way in hell ill let any type of man do me all kinda ways.. Get with the program

  • This video was deep :(

    

  • love this song

  • THANK GOD I NEVER HAD TO GO THRU NOTHING LIKE THIS BUT I KNOW WOMEN WHO DID ...GOD BLESS YOU ALL [[ GET OUT !!! ]]- MEC

  • oooo i would have went to jail..lmfao but the end still gives me the chills

  • she got a lot of eminem snippet of sounds going on in this beat

  • classic old school sample,,and larenz tate was swole af

  • i would beat the dude with a broom if i have too lol

  • lmao dhese comments bhe tu funny...i luv dhiz video

  • I never saw the extended video..luv it!

  • he slappec the shit outta her dammm

  • i swear i thought this was a movie 2 da song started playnin again lol

  • interesting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!

  • epic

    

  • whoop her ass!!!!! she shouldve stayed in the kitchen!

  • Probably her best video... Larenz played his role perfectly...

  • nobody understands this shit until you go through it ...on .some real shit this whole video is deja vu to me

  • @cia10231 me too. :( all toooo happy to have it over with,,,excepet i busted everything dwn!!! including that b**

  • @tellmeverything123 i am too! smh its crazy isnt it ?! how you can relate to a song so much . i bet you did

  • Omg is it me or the beginning sounds like Nicki minaj - right through me :O !!!!!

  • i know this is random, but Larenz Tate can get itttttttt!!!!!!!

  • 7:09 was there any point in asking that?

  • As long as I knew this song and the original video has been out I have never seen the extended version. Its really good love this version.

  • I love that Ashanit addressed the issue of Domestic Violence no wants to talk about and  it easy to pass judgemtnts or say you never be in the situation or what you do . Be mindful of you say.......

  • This is Ashanti's best work!!! I've always loved this song, the video is great......it's like a mini movie....real good!!! Love it!!!

  • Love This Song <3 & The Video :) !

  • fucking while it's raining? hey i wouldnt know...im only a 14 year old VIRGIN lmfaoo

  • I would not be in a situation like this....if there's ever a day i find myself being physically abused by anyone in a relationship...you will see my ass on Snapped....for sure

  • @yushineko Amen girl

  • This song is a remake. This is Issac Haye's song. If anyone of you watched the movie Dead Presidents this song was being played when they were driving on the highway. Larenz Tate played in that movie and he is in this video. Isn't that a concidence.

  • I SAID OPEN THIS GOD DAMN DOOR RIGHT NOW SHAWN

  • I would simply fuck him up

  • He can get it wit fine ass!!!!

  • Weak ass man

  • Goddamn Larenz is sexy as fuck with his short ass!! lol

  • he is finee lol

  • LARENZ TATE IS SOOOO HOT!!!! watch love jones and youll see why

  • THAT LET YOU KNOW THAT YOUR MAN DO NOT GET YOUR BACK WHEN YOU TRY TO FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS

  • It hurts me to know that I've had a two men slap me like this & I didn't do shit about it!!!! smh ahhhhh fuck

  • They don't make videos like this anymore. This was a great story

  • never forget your selfworth..........

  • That was a "BITCH SLAP" in the beginning Damn!

  • Larenz Tate baby you got it going on. One word for you; GORGEOUS!!!!!

  • *applause 4 ashanti* lol

  • damn that nigga fine!!!!!!!!!

  • @keondraj08 yes yes he is!!!!

  • yaa ANDREWW! how u gon do tha to ma nigga shan -___-

  • Woww

  • Ughh she too soft. I would've grabbed a knife

  • This intro reminds me of Eminem's - Stan

  • 5:48 oh my Damn! lol hahaha

  • best video ever

  • Ha. Don't Judge Me.......I used to jam this 24/7......Knew all her songs......Good times

  • I can't take these girls serious who type in broken English. How old are you getting your ass whooped? 14? You're not in love, you're in lust. You're not old enough to experience a real relationship. Personally, I think some of these girls love to be treated like crap. It makes them feel like they have something genuine when they obviously don't.

  • I'VE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT!! I STAYED BECAUSE I THOUGHT HE'D CHANGE AND BECAUSE I LOVED HIM!!! WAS IT WORTH IT??? HELL NAW!!! YOUNG BEAUTIFUL QUEENS, TAKE IT FROM ME, IF HE DO IT ONCE, HE'LL CONTINUE 2 TO DO IT!! INSTEAD OF ME TRYING 2 STAY LOYAL 2 AN ASS, I SHOULD'VE BEEN LOVING MYSELF!!! IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF, U WILL LEAVE AS SOON AS A MAN PUT HIS HANDS ON U, BECAUSE IF HE LOVED U HE'D RESPECT U!!!

  • @lashawn237 thats deeep. girl ! real shit !

  • @lashawn237 Could not have said it better myself.

    

  • @lashawn237 Dats Tru Sh*t Love It-

  • @lashawn237 AMEN GIRL they dont change I know this bastard FOR YEARS and over the years he got worse and worse they dont change I gave him so many chances he just wont change and no he wasnt my bf, husband, or my lover WORSE my sperm donar father take from me they dont ever change take from me!!

  • @lashawn237 Girl you are so right. I dont ever want to go through a relationship were a man has to control me or better yet think that he is GOD there's only one and he wasnt him I loved him but I loved myself more and maybe its a problem with dudes these days cuz women put up with alot other hoes hatin muthaf*kas they hatin ass friends jus crazy where are all the rewal ones we"ll never know til its too late

  • @lashawn237 Agree; if you as a man (or) woman?, Have to result to this (Violence) as a means of getting your point across, then she's (or) He? Is not the one.. Life is so short, But from the jump" a true understanding on both parts, of the relationship must be established and upheld, (ITS MOTIVES AND DIRECTION) on both parts (if not?) Then it wasn't meant to happen, so then move on.. Better yet' marriage before sex, the God honored system of creating long everlasting true love.. God bless"

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  • @00sydnee What? Type in English you idiot then maybe i can understand what you are trying to say.

  • lol at the phone though 5:50

  • women.. know your worth!

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  • Larenz Tate<3

  • Wow..ive neva seen tha extended version..and well...not 2 b mean or anything..he deserved evrything he got

  • yeah this is a amazing video, i love ashanti,i'am waiting on ashanti to bring a new cd out and i hope it is soon

  • I thought that was ashanti in bed with him.

  • When this song & video first came out I was around 15 or 16. I remember thinking that I would never allow myself to be in a relationship like that. 5 years later, I was. I understand this video completely. You're thinking why the hell would she put up with this? Sometimes you don't even realize how it looks till you see it from the outside. You just start to believe this is how love is.

  • dear ashanti please make this into a movie....PLEEASSEEEE..this is a must see

  • this....has to be.....the most AMAZING music video I have ever watched.....wow

  • damn they look too much alike

    its larenz which is really sexy btw lol

  • her male costar is Lahmard Tate not Larenz

  • "Stop loud talking!"

    Is that even a proper grammar? It's funny though

  • The beat is sampled. And the original song was in a scene from a movie called Dead Presidents starring the same man in this video Larenz Tate

  • that video was amazing

  • Where can I rent a truck from LoLL Get my drift

  • i felt soo bad when he slapped her

  • so that was chris brown?

  • The 6 dislikes must like getting their ass beat

  • she wuz smart at the end

  • ashanti should have been an actress too!

  • @MszMarieMonroe she is. She plays in Resident Evil, John tucker Must Die, coach Carter, and bride and Prejudice.

  • @SymphonyRay6 you right i forgot about that!

  • @MszMarieMonroe (: Well now you remember.

  • @WilljB0456 ignorance is so sad too see...

  • DMN HE FINE!!!

  • o wow i have never seen this version. I loved it!!!

  • i love larenz tate hes a mean actor!!...

  • wow i neva saw this part before

  • ITS CALLED ACTING

    ITS CALLED A VIDEO

  • @Beautystand thnk yu fa telln dez dum fukks dat

  • You don't know what you would do until you were put in this situation. It's not easy to leave someone you love.

  • Ooowee..If he beat me iWould've been out..But if he brouqh another woman in my house then his asx would've been qrass!!! STRAIGHT UP!!!

  • I look at this from another angle. Some men can't handle their lady being "bigger than life". Some women can't handle their man being "bigger than life" or "not bigger than life". Larenz Tate's character fits the latter.

  • nobody can say what they would do until theyre in the situation honestly>...

  • @lilpooch211 true!

  • @lilpooch211 ikr i was always like i cant wait to a nigga put his hands on me , and when it did happen i stayed like a idiot ....

  • common folks its a video she is just protraying what a lot of women go through

  • When situations happen like that mostly guys who hit women wont let them leave.

  • I dont know why she would be so dumb enough to back to him all he gon do is hit her over and over again he dont love her.

  • u would like to believe that something like this isnt happening in the world but it is, sadly. woman should know what their worth. u should never be treated like trash.

  • It's funny how some people claim to love someone but they hurt them continuously, physically and emotionally............smdh!

  • Whoa did anyone see his face twisting lik a demon @ 5:01 ?

    Scaryy. but thats the evilness in him (not literally cuz it jus a video) but 4realz that goes to show u there are evil ppl in the world

  • YES for a MOVIE! Rain on me! OPEN THIS DOOR !!!!!

  • Damn Larenzo Tate sexy!

    

  • Brilliant Video

  • DID NOT KNOW THRER WAS AN EXTENDED VERSION OF THIS SONG

  • Lorenz Tate can get it.....

  • @angelicasimpsonmusic but not ashanti her acting is weak lol