yea i guess with all that money,,, and all those nice cars i guess i could deal with it, as long as its not up in my face cheating,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i mean most of the guys are doing it any way.
If a man can't respect me than he doesn't deserve me! If we allow men to cheat then they will keep doing it you have to hold men accountable. If a man had a million dollars I would leave because I know that my god has something much greater for me......no if ands or buts!
the way emily put it, fab has cheated in her face, dont claim her, and played her numberous times.. in HER case, RUN LIKE THE WIND. lol.
celebrity or not, you should lay down the law. i dont expect it because even the brokest man is exposed to plenty of females. for emily or chrissy to mention that on camera only gives the men to cheat secretly. no real woman would except that without a fight or debate. TEACH HIM A LESSON. i could accept one time, but 4,5,6 times.. HELL NO.
in my opinion... i would be hesistant. i might even leave for a few days. everybody makes mistakes. the trust is broken and has to be earned. but i would be hesitant depending on how long we've been together. how well the relationship is. if we're constantly fighting and its always been rocky, it makes it easier. the money isn't the factor. it's love and respect. you can't love/respect somebody when you betray the person. but the seriousness of our relationship decides whether i stay or go.
I respect what Chrissy said but 2 me it's a pass 2 say oh well since your a Man then it's ok when i think it's not ok. It is soooo disrespectful for some1 to cheat it's nasty because even though the person may say it's only sex u r still pleasing that person & no matter how u think a person swears they wouldn't tell any1 that's a lie because ppl spill beans everyday male or female
Another concern is pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and emotional illness. Eventually, whether you want it to or not, it is likely that the affairs will come home in some way, either in the form of a physical illness, a pregnant mistress, or simply one who is unwilling to abide by the terms that have been set up within your marriage. You cannot simply "ignore" this type of behavior and expect things to be copacetic forever.
We need to understand the context that marriage was born in. Originally, in western cultures, it was about money, not love. So, many times infidelity was the norm, especially amongst the wealthy because they had the most to lose out of inexpedient pairings. I think that's where we get the idea that it's ok for wealthy, powerful men to cheat.
Today, it's a different story, most of the time. People marry for things other than common financial goals. Love, lust, children, etc. Also, people have different terms to their relationships. There ARE people that are in open relationships, and each one has a set of rules regarding how those extra relationships are handled.
A good rule of thumb is, if someone cheats, multiple times, like Jordon or Tiger Woods, or Newt Gingrich, then they are probably not going to stop and their wife or partner needs to either learn how to accept that aspect of them, or leave. Now if they are someone who has one instance of weakness under extenuating circumstances, forgiveness and healing should be the first step to repairing the relationship if possible.
this is so funny! most women would SAY they'd leave and never think twice about it. but in reality, if they were placed in that situation they would feel otherwise. it happens all the time, they look down on women who stay, then next thing u know they end up staying. one commenter mentioned tiger, kobe, and so forth, but their wives stayed. sure they left eventually, but when the cheating first happened, they stayed.
point blank, there are too many women out here that want a wealthy lifestyle to leave at the first instance of cheating, and thats just bein real. u can say wut u would do and how much self-worth u have all day long today. but tomorrow when u're getting it like u want it, spendin all kinds of crazy money, wearin all kinds of expensive n designer clothes, livin in a huge house, drivin expensive cars, n makin ur broke friends envy u b/c of who ur man is, self-worth is the least of ur concerns.
I agree w/ you @cocodragon76! There is not amount of money that's worth my self esteem and love for myself. Money doesn't change that you need to be faithful to me especially if we're married and we took those vows. "forsaking all others" that includes sex. Having that kind of lifestyle is more important to some but not me. cheating is disrespectful and disloyal two qualities that I hate!! That's how i believe many men feel as well which is why they usually don't tolerate cheating!
As far as cheating...if it's that serious, if he's that weak (not strong enough to fight temptation) and if he's that disrespectful why be in a relationship/marriage?? If a man is single he can smash whoever and whenever he wants but he shouldn't be married or in a committed relationship. So instead of spreading STD's he can by all means keep his diseases to himself. His money, him buying me a pair of red bottoms, him telling me to throw it in the bag and buying me an Aston Martin won't cure
the fact of the matter is if u hav the intuition that he's being unfaithful or if u know he is being unfaithful & u stay u look like the dummy to the outside but most people who say leave him alone they are wit some basic ass dudes...but the real is if you haven't walked in "her" shoes you don't know/regular women get used to a certain type of lifestyles that a man brings and that is not just saying that its financial...of course anybody wit a celebrity is gonna pause before leaving it's natural
To ans. your question @5:30: Most married women are INDEED sharing their husbands and know it! Regardless of whether he's in "The Industry" or not. Most wives say, "He better not let me find out" Which means, he's cheating but "I let it go on as long as I dont see the evidence". Meanwhile they are sleeping with their husbands without a condom and he's been with who-knows-whom? And this is how a lot of black women end up on the county's HIV-positive rolls. No word of lie. So my answer is HELL NO!
Chrissy's said the same thing Winter said! Basically she knows she's sharing her man, she just better not find out. Now, how is that different from "Girl, just go on home, he will come around eventually." ??? On one hand you know he's cheating & you're feelings are hurt and it's out in the open. On the otherside Chrissy is pretending it doesn't exist if she doesn't see it and spending money to douse the pain. Same shit! And That's why Chrissy is so angry & violent. It has to come out somewhere.
We live in such a worldly world to where people don't really charish and respect being married. I think it really is a thing of self worth of yourself because when one steps out thats disrepecting the vows you took before each other and God. If I were in that situation I would not tolerate it, and I would be smart enough to keep a just in cash stash so that it wouldn't be a hesitation to leave.
Do to the example of relationships that I have grown-up around. I have gone into relationship with the hidden idea that all men cheat lbut on different level. But when I'm faced with it, what would I accept. I use to feel that as long as they are taking care of our home and is not disrespecting me I probably would deal with it. But I won't give him a get our of jail free card and tell him it's ok as long as you keep it in the streets.
@Shawnna36 So would you still let him have sex with you without a condom? If you find out he's cheating and you confront him, etc are you still have unprotected sex with him? And I ask pose that question to all wives and live-in girlfriends.
@WhereYaBoss Even If I decided to forgive him and stay. I would not continue to have sex with him without a condom. He destroyed that trust, and why chance that he will destroy it again since I didn't leave. The next time he might just bring me a gift home. Why chance it. I can say this because during the storms with my ex-husband and I didn't have proof but a feelingI chosed to not have sex with him, but when he wore down my defense I made him wear a comdom why risk it.
I would't take from no man, Ive been married for going on fifteen years, I agree there is always going to be someone some where that will try and out do you in a realationship. With so may woman leaving this world because of AIDS. I don't see how a CHECK can make you look past someone being unfaithful to you for a few mintunes of pleasure !!!!!!
I don't agree with cheating at all. I don't care if your rich or what kind of status you have at the end of the day your just like everyone else and we're here for God, not materialistic things. But! If that were to happen I think i would hesitate and not because of the money ect., but because of the love I have for my husband and I would want to give him a second chance to prove himself to me. Let me find out a second time and I'm out. Period. " fool me once shame on you, fool me twice..."
Why is there this notion that because someone is a celebrity, they are going to cheat and that they have a right, or free pass like you said. As if it's written in stone. Look, people make the choice to cheat. It's a choice, life doesn't just happen to you. It is a consequence of your choices. It isn't ok to cheat and the fact that people are willing to deal with the outright disrespect, humiliation, and dismissal that is infidelity is disheartening and quite frankly vile. Yeah... no thank you.
Within the last 15 years I've noticed that women SETTLE, yes, SETTLE. Chrissy is settling simply because she has NO JOB and Jim Jones is taking care of her (in whatever form that is) Emily appears to be NEEDY and needy people seek needy people. You should always demand RESPECT and never SETTLE for cheating NO MATTER WHAT MONEY they are making. Period.
@barwardotcom and by no means am i saying stay in any of my comments the questions was would you hesitate and 10 years is hesitating in the state of Cali if you are married 10 years made it where she got almost half if you want to get technically so she put awhole lot of thought in it
@barwardotcom my point exactly she didnt just pick up and leave nor did michael jordan wife she thought about it and made a business decision on her behalf
I believe Chrissy's response was incredibly realistic and feel the same way. I would never verbalize this to my man in that situation but he should have the utmost respect for you and know not to do this!
Great discussion! I think Chrissie's response was a realistic one, but she should NEVER verbalize that thought to her husband. All he should know is that if she finds out he's cheating she’s out the door. Giving a man "permission" to cheat, and having him believe it’s okay with you, is a relationship death warrant. imo.
No, I do not expect someone to cheat because they are a celebrity! at the end of the day they are still humans and rules still apply with them ! _ my opinion x
no, i would not except that, if he wants me to believe that he wants to be with me, then he is gonna have to show me some respect and stay faithful to me and ONLY me. point blank. great video girl. thanks for the topic
mann im late as hell on this lol...but on to my comment. To answer question number one. Do you assume they will cheat? Imma say i dont really assume or expect, but i would prepare myself for the possibility that it could happen. Because to be honest in the entertainment industry its possible! Now on to second question Would you leave? Honestly i cant say not sayin its kool to disrespect, but you never know till u in the situation these women are actually in. Good topic and one of my fav shows
i would have to leave honestly the day they feel its okay to disrespect me by cheating lying which is full disrespect then everything in the relationship is out the window no matter what money or comfortable life style i will not change my standard of not getting cheated on change cause of money. its kinda like domestic violence once a man hit u he bound to hit you agian so once he cheat he is bound to do it again.
Celebrity relationships are an investment (some). It's not about L-O-V-E it's about I-N.C. Chrissy is right--once you become accustomed to a certain lifestyle respect isn't really an issue it's about who's cutting in on "my" money. Vanessa Bryant put in 10 years because she knew eventually her investment would pay off. If women want to be apart of the celeb lifestyle be prepared to like Beyonce "all up in the back cause the chicks keep flocking."
I would expect it honestly,,, its hard for broke niggas to keep it in they pants soo i can only imagine whats being thrown in these celebs/high class lap lol! the real question is would i put up with it? I'll forgive once and there is a 1% chance I'll forgive twice lol thats why im not signing no prenuptual because you gone pay me broke or not if you ruin the marriage!
If you love them, love is limitless.. there is not limit. If a man cheats, if you really loved him, you would hesitate, simply because the love doesn't just stop. Sure the hurt comes, but whats love w/o hurt. The money will only mean something to a woman if she loves the money and not the man. OR if she is insecure about herself. With true love, hesitation is blind, you still have the choice.
I personally think that many women would stay and tolerate being cheated on because of the money unless they were married and there was no pre-nup. If he wants to cheat and you take half because of his infidelity then you don't have to say in the relationship and be disrespected because you would get the money anyway and you could still live a similar type of lifestyle that you are used to. That being said I would leave because I wouldn't trust him not to do it again and once the trust is gone..
@sansvirgin what is the point of continuing a relationship? Then you're just two people living together...there is no relationship. I wouldn't want to trade the foundation of my relationship/marriage with the person I love and my respect and love for myself for money...it's a cold bed partner and doesn't comfort you.
Some women can't even leave the men who are cheating on them even when they're only making minimum wage so i guess it's not about the money but the woman' self worth.
@nohairdontcare100 You are so right. I was thinking the exact same thing. I have been divorced and it is hard to leave, but I had to come to the conclusion that I was worth so much more than what I was being given. No one should sacrifice themselves for a partner who treats them badly.
@NikkiToney81 I feel you! I am going through a divorce for the exact same reason and it really tough especially when you have children but i guess it's for the better well I KNOW it's for the better! Blessings to you.
@nohairdontcare100 Blessings to you and your children! I know I am better for it. I don't have any kids and I'm sure it would have been ten times harder if I did. But I do know a happy momma makes for happy kids. :) Stay strong girl! :)
I think when you get married, you are married. A persons financial status should not be a "free pass" to commit adultry. You best believe that men aren't tolerating cheating on any level. So why do we as women allow them to place a double standard on us simply because he has money? This theory of "don't bring it home" is for the birds. How many times has a man's infidelity caught up with him? Case in point: Tiger Woods, Kobe Bryant, Arnold, the list goes on and on. Chritie needs to be quite.
If you want to marry just for the money and "appearance" of a relationship, it wouldn't matter. But at the end of the day, while he is out doing him you will get fed up being treated like a doormat and accepting whatever. You may even have an affair yourself to prove you are worthy because your mate doesn't show he values you. You may stay but I guarantee you will have your own side thing because it gets lonely feeling like you can't have your man's attention.
Its so easy to sit here and say what you wouldn't or wouldn't do when your not in the situation but I bet if half of us were we would most definately think twice about leaving because nothing is just black and white.
If we are married I would hope that he would thnk twice before he did any dirt... because I will be leaving with half of everything...so cheat if you want to
See this whole open relationship has everyone twisted. I expect my significant other to respect me in and outside the home no matter what type of moeny they have. Now mistakes happen if he cheated once maybe twice It can be worked out. Quick note:two wrongs don't make a right either.Just because he did something wrong doesn't mean you have have to have a comeback.
Honestly, once is a mistake more than once is a pattern and I can't go for that! When you look the other way too many times it's giving consent to be devalued - don't be #1 be the only one. aka @KReative_Works
I believe it depends on the man if he cheats not his wallet. I would not be willing to be with a person that is not loyal but I understand women that live life that way. If you have that understanding when you enter a relationship that I'm going to cheat and are honest about that its one thing. If you go behind your partners back and lie that is another thing altogether. At least if you know what is going on you can protect yourself both mentally and physically.
That would totally not fly with me....Nope....never settle or accept less than you deserve....I don't think you get a "free pass" just because you have money, a certain type of lifestyle etc...I think it depends on the female, her ultimate goal and what she is after....for love or money? definitely makes you go hmmmmm.....
If it's about finances, I'm leaving a baller quicker than a regular dude. Half a grip is still a grip. Divorce a regular dude and you better have your own cause half his regular paycheck ain't gonna be jack. To be fair, I've cheated before so I know stuff can happen so if I love him I may be willing to give it another shot IF it's a one-time thing. A serial cheater? No way. IMO, it's negligent to model that type of behavior to your children.
Chrissy buys Jim a ring. Jim loses the ring. Chrissy buys another ring. Jim buys a car. As an afterthought he buys her a ring. If she didn't walk away after that bs then she's not going anywhere.
Woman stay with broke, ugly, and stupid men that cheat......so add money and status to the equation and the situation is enhanced. Respect is key! It's not always what you do but HOW YOU DO IT!! I would drive myself crazy in type of senario. I understand both sides. I'm not sure what I would do.....but anything in your face could not be ignored or tolerated. I would have to go (hopefully with a healthy stash)
Its a damn shame if anyone thinks cheating is okay under ANY circumstance. Its not okay if its done in your damn face or behind your back!! Disrespect is disrespect and you're a fool to think otherwise
If he is sticking it with someone else he is bringing it home. So yeah I would definitely be out. Of course it would be harder, money and fame makes ppl crazy. I would rather have respect for myself and for my body. It's not natural to cheat and tolerating it for whatever reason always leaves you heartbroken in the end. It's like pretty on the outside but your all kinds of screwed up on the inside. Why would anyone want that?
No man has any right to cheat just because he travels, he is supposed to respect your love and respect your relationship, and if he doesn't you have to ask why are you with such a person. As for him having money i'd like to have my own money and not be dependent on him. I believe in a relationship if you can forgive by all means do so, however if you can't them leave, i would I stay because of money, NO, i have integrity and respect for myself & money can be made with or with him!
Sometimes I wish I was a man -_- so I could be a low-down dirty dog & not care. I think I'm going to be lonely for the rest of my life because I'm not down for all that cheating no matter who the hell he is..I do not like sharing what's supposed to be mine. If he's going to go out & do "stuff", I'm just that vengeful that I think I should do it right back. But what do I know? I've never opened my legs to anyone yet, which is another reason why I think females & males get caught up. God said wait
What in the hell is she crazy! I bet if we go back and look at her medical history she has had every disease known to man. I don't give a flip how much money you have or don't have I value my life. Not to mention the level of disrespect. I have children and i have to teach them better then that. Please ladies stop waiting around on these men get an education and make your own money.
That a hard question. My husband isn't a baller. He stayed in the military. I got out (housewife) I don't have a job or an education. He wanted to come back so I let him. Sometimes I am angry about what happened and the pain that it caused our family. But I did say for better or worse. At the end of the day if they both want to work it out be monogamous then stay. If not take half. Because wondering why he does not want to be with you is a horrible feeling that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
looking at another women and sleeping with them are 2 fully different subjects. If you're gonna look, then do so, but stop there. Don't go and have sex or fantasize about the person you're looking at. I don't like Chrissy's idea of being with a man who makes alot of cash and accept him doing his "stuff" with other ladies, then coming home to me as long as I don't get disrespected with finding out. Finding out or not, I've already been disrespected with him CHEATING ON ME!
@MsStarzy : if we keep having females settling for men disrespecting them, then they'll feel like they can do that with any female. As ladies, let's not lessen our self-respect for some money.
Females deal with dudes they know are cheating on them that is straight up broke, so of course they goin stay wit a dude that's paid. If the female is dating a celebrity and she is a regular chick she can almost bet on him cheating. If they marry the dude I think they would hope that the guy slows down or stops, but they already know what they are getting themselves into. Respect is definitely important, cause as long as stuff isn't getting rubbed in her face she can pretend that it all good.
Why would someone get married with the idea that their spouse is going to cheat. That is ridiculous, why get married? Just think about what would happen if the wife cheated on this professional athelete or whatever. He would drop her like a hot potato. Men who cheat don't value you because if he did he would NOT want to lose you. They have women at their disposal and feel that they can replace you so why would you even enter a relationship like that. All men dont cheat nor do they have to.
Sorry, I would leave because no amount of money or balling can make you HIV negative. When you get married you sign up to be together just the 2 of you. If he is not ready for that he should not get married. I think it is horrible that a woman would settle for a cheating man because he has money.....what is that all about. Personally me, my salary with alimony would be walking away. Cheating is very damaging, if he values you he will not cheat. If you value yourself you would leave.
Personally I hate to "share" when it comes to men. Reality is most men (women too) cheat because the mind will lust & wants what it shouldn't or can't have whether you're a celebrity or everyday person, its just human nature. If you are taking care of me, supplying my needs, & I'm happy then I'm not leaving. Why would I especially if its just an assumption & I don't know for sure? Don't compromise your lifestyle if you don't have to. Who's to say the next man won't do the same thing?
Chrissy is a uneducated, unemployed old bird. I expected her to have that stance. Problem is as a kept wife, are you going to have protected sex w your hubby? STD's are rampant and these men have side children too. Isn't that embarrasing to them when thier man gets the jumpoff pregnant? I just can't...I'd rather divorce him and take 1/2.
It is hard to say what you would do when you are not in the situation and i dont think the income of a man would will make a woman stays or go the average joe cheats and his woman stays. i think it is foolish to stay respect me and dont bring cheating in my home because if he respected you he wouldnt cheat. and any time you cheat you are bringing people and things (STI or having a baby on you ) into your relationship look at Magic..years of cheat got him HIV.
I don't think celebrity status matters at all. Yes there are perks but ultimately I'm with him because I love him & want to build a life with him. I prolly would hesitate, but not for the money. We are human & people make mistakes. So if he is repentant and trying to save the relationship, I would have to ask myself if everything is worth throwing away. But money or not, I will not be disrespected. Status does not give u a free pass! A commitment is exactly that...no matter how much money u have
The long and short is NO... Just because he is a celeb or athlete or whatever I don't see why he should be allowed to cheat because he is travelling. Your relationship is what you make it, the boundaries are what you make it, if he loves you respects you then he shouldn't cheat. As far as making money and not leaving, any woman should have her own things in check, material things shouldn't make you stay verses leaving with dignity.
If money is taken out of the equation, we would expect our hard working $10 an hour man to be faithful... Why not expect that same level of respect from a millionaire. If a man loves and respect you and honor his vows to you and God,,,I don't care if he were a billionaire...He's going to be faithful. Ladies don't let money cloud what's right and wrong...Cheating is wrong period, if a man wants to do that,,then he shouldn't get married in the first place...Period!!!
Women need to stop being so weak and easily bought. Do you think men have these conversations?! No! They are not having the disrespect. Ain't no way in the world Jim Jones or Fab or any other celebrity male for that matter would be okay with their wive sleeping around while they are out touring or playing ball. Meanwhile we will put up with all kinds of crap just to get a Hermes bag and drive a nice car. Why not just be a side piece, have your freedom and still get a house and car!
I totally understand what Chrissy was saying, but I didn't agree with Winter's approach. We can't judge that a woman is stupid, weak, crazy, etc for staying with a man for cheating. In my opinion men of any status have the ability to cheat one way or another - there are many levels of cheating! Chrissy's point was about respect - keep your side thing a under cover. Seems that Emily had them in her face. How can she go back to that? Chances are he won't stop that since she let it go on so long.
First off Emily and Fab are not married. So at this point she is in the same position as the side pieces he has. If she thinks his checks are getting spent on them she is an idiot. Matter of fact the money that should be for her and his kids is being spent on them to be exact!
Having money doesn't give you the excuse to cheat. If you are in a committed in a relationship, it's just that point, blank period. I think women because tolerate cheating, these men do what they do. its disrespectful. Women should value themselves more, and if they are really truly interested in you they will respect you. I would'nt give a man a pass to cheat beacuse the have money. Be your own woman and get your hustle on to make your own money.
i put nothing pass no guy @ no time. but i do believe in second chances & sometimes 3rd. but it comes a point when you just get tired & no matter how much money a person has. if im hurting it cant keep me around. but on the other hand... regular men with regular jobs cheat too. so either you gone have a mind that says im gonna get cheated on & do nothing or im gonna get cheated on and BALL out of control. or just sit back & wait for that perfect guy, witch might take years or not even @ all
certain status would be able to get away with alot more. But if you are a strong independent woman, even if you forgive and forget the 1st or 2nd time, eventually the hurt will override the luxury & you wouldn't put up with it for long. Also, even thogh I don't agree with Chrissy (if a man cheats openly or secretively it's disrepecting you) I do understand that a feeling that someone is cheating is not the same as proof. So in this situation, if you just have a feeling, but no proof, than stay!!
To me its all about how you view yourself. If you think the only way a man of status will stay with you, pamper you, & keep you in a comfortable lifestyle is for you to turn a blind eye to his infedelity, than that says alot about what you think of your self worth. On the other hand, when you're in love with someone, certain things are easier said than done. If a woman can put up with a dude that she's married to who's not working, but he's making babies everywhere, than I think someone with a
It's really not what u do its how u do it!! Rich,broke,have a lil money or Whateva.U are going to respect me period.Now with that said I don't care what nobody say a broke NIGGA a chick will leave without a thought.I dude with money u def.ly going to hesitate.Think things through.Evaluate the situation.Whatever u want to call it because u have more too lose.That's my opinion.Btw love ur videos and u should def.ly have more topics like this!!
To me,it depends on what you want from your relationship. If you want loyalty and fidelity,dont settle for anything less. If you want a man that wanders,you will be cool with that. The money and celebrity should not matter. Be true to what you expect from the relationship.
own, and as far as stds go you can those from a toliet, and also when he gets back home the first place we going is to the clinic, i understand respect is important in a relationship and to me respect is about acknowledgement and feeling secure with a person and the position you have, there are more women then men in this world and most men cheat even the most GODLY men cheat and when you look at it like that its like be alone or be a lesbian and theres nothing wrong with that but woman cheat to
honestly i wouldnt leave its not a maybe or a idk i wouldnt leave, especially if we grew together, i wouldnt go into a relationship knowing he would cheat i would go into ANY relationship with a real mind set especially one with a famous person like chrissy said alot of woman now a days will give their body before their name to a man or woman with money and thats their business i dont judge, all i know is his checks at the end of the day belong to me, my name will be on everything he wants to
As a christian I put God first not mankind. I think that if you allow your partner to cheat on you because he makes enough money to take care of your entire family then you are telling him by your actions that he is better than you because he has more money, and since you prefer to be comfortable instead of respected as an EQUAL partner in the relationship you tolerate his behavior. I would rather struggle and then reach my success on my own, this comes from a women who has been homeless before.
I think some women that are with rich or powerful men are more willing to tolerate infidelity because they have incentives (i.e. money) to stay. Like Chrissy said, she has a very comfortable life with Jim, and when you get accustomed to that lifestyle, I imagine it's hard to let go of it. For some of us, no amount of money will make up for being disrespected or cheated on, it's really all about what you value more for yourself. I wonder will she feel the same way after they get married.
Good Topic. I believe that it is all about self control. I do not believe the whispers about "all men cheat, its natural for men to cheat", etc. I believe that any human has a choice. Cheating and keeping it quiet is not showing any type of RESPECT. That's the loophole I find in Chrissy's rationale. Personally, the only thing about my relationships that I would allow to be open is Communication. I could go on and on, but I'm not going to write a book on YT.
i should`nt expect it ,because u gone respect that i`m not accepting that.nah if i find out u cheating,we may try and work it out and talk about what we expect from each other,but if u do it again we gone rapp it up and i`m out.a celebrity in my mind is just a person and they have a job that they make good money on,no amount of dollar can heal a person`s heart from that kind of hurt.
It's easy to say "I wouldn't put up with that" when you've never been in that situation. Most of the comments I read were "I'd leave." However, I doubt everybody would. There are so many women out here taking shit off of broke men so I know they wouldn't leave the rich one. I'm just saying. Money really does talk and unless you truly understand your worth, treasure your right to respect, and love yourself more than any man or dollar, you could find yourself sacrificing happiness for a Prada bag!
I think respect is everything. Respect yourself and respect others. That said, I do think people are entitled to have certain understandings. If everyone in the situation is aware of what's going on, and are genuinely happy with the situation that's all there's to it. They should leave some room to re-evaluate the situation every now and then because feelings and thoughts do change. Now if I personally was on that situation you mention I would not get mad, just get all :) (not my quote).
For me I could not deal with it, all the money and cars in the world cannot take away HIV. They better get some independence about themselves and stop waiting on someone to do it for them. I LOVE myself to much to allow someone to disrespect me over and over.
I think this a hard question. If I was with a man like that and "we" were ballin... I would make sure some of our crap was paid and in my name. Marriage is more complex. You will still be rich if you leave him. Precisely why I don't believe in playing house. I won't assume they will cheat because that points to not valuing myself, but I would be realistic on our unique obstacles that we may have to deal with. It's funny how many people holler how they would leave and have been disrespected for
Girl, disrespect is disrespect, finances involved or not. Why would you knowinly give a man the go ahead to disrespect you because of the industry he's in? Why? If you can lower yourself to being a doormat, then I say go ahead, lose your self-respect, your self worth, self-esteem, self-pride, dignity, etc. for the sake of a dollar and see how that works out for you. Ask Juanita Jordan, ask Vanessa Bryant. They tried it, but eventually had to leave taking the dough with them..
bringing home a disease or money is a difference its so sad that nowadays women take shit for the price of celebrity some people dont care to be cheated on money money it speaks volume i can't do cheating i see the fantasy of it but morally i can't do it never meet a celebrity or dated someone with money but there's a thing called woman's worth.... so why accept a man for his wrong because of money hummmmmm ??
I'm not the type of chick who will settle for a relationship like that because I will never allow myself to depend on a man financially. Period. If he ups and cheats I can bounce with the security of knowing I got my own. It may not be as much as he got but I'm not in the relationship for his money anyways. The fact that I even know he is doing it is more than enough ammunition for me to leave. Cheating on me is the ultimate disrespect and money can't fix it with a woman like me.
this is exactly why i never want to be with someone who "provides" for me. u follow that money trail if u want to, i guarantee there's a trap at the end with YOUR name on it. i agree, only in the sense that when u're married to someone with much more money & time outside the home than u, there's a 90% chance that u'll be exploited. & some women can deal with that. cool.
i personally can't deal with a platinum wedding ring that feels more like a platinum noose.
He should have enough respect for u to wrap it up to not let you find out period none of that should be a factor because he should be like the C.I.A he should go out his way to make sure there is no drama coming your way if u find out than the respect is out the door
If you do forgive, what's the penalty? What will keep him from doing it again and again putting you at risk for STDs baby mamma drama etc. Why should any woman have to put up with this, especially if they're not married? Keeping a marriage is one thing but not this whole wifey thing, there is definitely no legal benefits.
Chrissy's advise is somewhat valid. Although this should apply to a married woman. If a man is willing to put a ring on it that means something. Fab is just foul. He is out and out disrespecting her. I believe that if any man cheats it's a deal breaker period. These days you don't know what your man will bring to you. AIDS, kids out of wed lock, fatal attraction B's. These men may try to keep these hoes in check but there is profit in speaking out!!!
seen women accept disrespect because of finances. I would be stacking a good amount of the money he gives me and put it in a seperate account. then once I feel like I saved up enough money I would leave his sorry ass. you had your fun cheating ad I had fun walking away with your money. bye bitch!
I'm not a fan of crissy either cause she too childish but I too agree with her advice she gave Emily. we as women should by no means, allow anyone to disrespect us. PERIOD! I don't care about your social or financial status. you will not be disloyal and expect me to stick around. me will be men no matter what his career is. we can trust them but so much but don't let me find out. I may give him a chance out of love, not for money. I've
I get all that but Vanessa Bryant stayed 10 years and she knew about Kobe cheating so really would you be like Vanessa?honestly yes I would have to think and treat the situation like a business strategy
@msvibrant2323 Right, stayed 10 years, but she eventually LEFT. Staying did not work out for her. It was when she left that she got what she went in for.
I think all woman should set standards and stick to them, I'm really big on respect and money rules all evil...mean anything wrong can make it right..that's just the world we live in..however stand for something,if not, you pretty much will Seattle for anything...Respect go long ways not just for other but for yourself.
I'M OUT! There's to much stuff out there that he could bring home. It would fuck me up more to know I caught something from him, he all the fun and I gotta provided the care? For him, me and the kids?? That's all he need to focus on in the beginning and he would have his family in tact. AND believe me when I say I'm going out like Vanessa Bryant. PAID with the houses... Faithfulness pays.
The thing is...if you expect your man to cheat before you get in that relationship, WHY go in??WHY are you in that relationship to begin with??? unless you find cheating acceptable; #just sayin..It's that same logic with anything else..if you expect your man to beat you up, why get in that relationship? if you expect your man to steal from you, why get in that relationship? i'm sayin...you get what you expect. If you don't want what you expect from that person, RUN THE OTHER WAY!..and FAST!
It's the truth.Com in the industry there in yea it look at cookie and magic johnson wat can happen so it up to them to accept it to me I will not accept it is so much diseases of there money cannot control that
So basically alot of women are saying they would leave if they found out they mate was cheating but what if u came in with nothing now u have kids and u telling me u wouldn't even think about staying #somebody is lying
HELL NO I DONT AGREE WITH THAT CRAZY BIATCH CHRISSY...SHES A GOLD DIGGER ANYWAYS...SHE'S BEEN AROUND. I READ AN ARTICLE ABOUT HER PAST SHE ALWAYS DATED BIG BALLERS SHE EVEN SLEPT WITH JAY-Z AND STOLE ABOUT 40,000 DOLLARS FROM ANOTHER EX OF HERS WHO WAS ANOTHER RICH THUG.
Good topic of conversation. My opinion-I believe a lady/man is going to stay in a relationship regardless of the wealth. I think it more boils down to the comfort of them being with that one person for such along time & the fear of having to start all over with someone else. I have heard Chrissy mention before that never had a problem with Jim on that level (the cheating) she straight up said she wouldn't deal with it.
So Chrissy is saying her man can cheat but he shouldn't bring it at home?? Lol....frailty, thy name is woman! You can't leave STDs at the door. My sister just found that out the hard way. She didn't want to know what the husband was doing until she got HIV. The whole as long as he keeps it in the dark argument is dangerous. Isn't that what men on the downlow are doing?? Look at the HIV epidemic in our community.
I dont condone cheating btw. I'm saying, men make mistakes, and men are human. But if the respect ain't there then its nothing! U have woman out here making it easier for them to cheat bcuz they have the I don't care about her,he with me mind frame! RESPECT is a major factor in this situation! If u Lucky to find the one that's faithfulin this type of status then more power to ya! He out there somewhere.
I totally agree men of all pay grades cheat the proof is in the pudding but when u are involved with someone who has reached a certain level of financial stability respect is very important in a relationship because with money there is power etc and when u are not really contributing that much to the lifestyle y'all living sometimes respect goes out the door and alot of times women might put up wit stuff u might not put up wit with Tyrone the garbage man so if he is taking care of u and u haven
It is a certain level of respect! In Emily's case it was like open a mag and pow there is fab with some chick helllllllll no! Y? B/c there is no respect. Do what u do b/c I can't control this person's every move. I cant go to every concert, city, etc. He goes to/do. But if its in my face like Emily had it the he would have to go. I'm not a tabloid chick but far as I know Jim haven't done half of what fab let the world see. When u home, u home have resource enough to not let me see it.
Omg....I'm not sure what perfect land everyone is living in, but I'm sorry I don't reside their. I reside in America and in America, brothers, men, gays, women, etc... Are all cheating.. Regardless of what you may want to believe... It is what it is.. So if u gonna leave every guy that cheat on u, then u lgotta lotta folks to go thru.... I never said I agree with cheating, but I will forgive someone if needed.....
Well, I've never been in a relationship with someone who is wealthy, so I could not say 100% what I would do if they cheated. I am, however, 99.9% sure that I would not accept such disrespect as part of my relationship. I know how to be faithful, and I expect the same from my mate. I understand what famous/rich people have perpetuated as the norm, but we need to hold ourselves to higher standards regarding how we treat each other. Chrissy and Emily are unfortunately brainwashed, I think...
All men don't cheat, however I do believe men who are out of the house most of the time or have lots of money, along with status are high-risk. When you get into a relationship you should make it clear what type of relationship you want. If you're in a monogamous relationship, then why expect something other? I feel like some women will settle for that out of low-self worth and/or greed. I watch the show, Chrissy is 42 yrs old, and is in her last days; it makes sense why she would say that.
this dont me go hmm it makes me SMGDH! It is a sad day when a woman gets on tv and says lay down and take it long as u dont find out and respects u!! Screw that money or broke CHEATING IS CHEATING STD is STD!This world has got so wrapped up in so much money,martial stuff No one should be able to be bought! cuz u a star dont mean u cant be a truthful/loyal/faithful like we are already sendin message to stars its ok cuz u famous! partners stand up more to star mates they wont feel so free to
Chrissy is just as lost as Emily. Someone once told me that the value that you place on yourself is the same value that others place on you. Being a celebrity does not give you a pass on common decency and many of them feel that they can do anything because of money. We as people have gone so far away from what matters. To me her friend said some of the dumbest mess i ever heard ! As women we need to wake up and start to value ourselves more. This anything goes mentality is wearing me out.
I would leave but! Being the person I am I would have started branding myself at the beginning so I could be financially set to do those things on my own. It's never ok for anyone to be cheating man or woman but don't just sit back & let it happen. That's where stds and humiliation come from.
To me it depends on a few things. What a person values for example if family is important to me and keeping my fam together know matter what than I may stay with a man I know is not being faithful (that happens in everyday marriages not just high profile) but if I value money and I'm with someone who brings home lots of money than I may care less because his faithfulness is not as important as my stability. But the bottom line is no person wants to be cheated on but the "reality" is that it doe
Ok, first of all the person who said they have a Best Friend who stayed with a Ex Pro-Football playa who did those things to her and she stayed and he gave her HIV, this is why you don't settle, my friend is also Married to an Ex Foot-Ball Playa 18 years and he's been cheating the whole time, to me when people stay its because they are simply Materialistic and can't imagine being out of that lifestyle, if a Man Cheats once he will always cheat, one reason why Women aren't Valued any longer today
it depends if you married him for money or because you love him.
fol2choco 1 day ago
yea i guess with all that money,,, and all those nice cars i guess i could deal with it, as long as its not up in my face cheating,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i mean most of the guys are doing it any way.
susustarr 1 week ago
This is such Bullshit. Grow up, Get married, Be faithful. What does money have to do with it?
carlacher2 1 week ago
If a man can't respect me than he doesn't deserve me! If we allow men to cheat then they will keep doing it you have to hold men accountable. If a man had a million dollars I would leave because I know that my god has something much greater for me......no if ands or buts!
BibathaDiva 1 week ago
the way emily put it, fab has cheated in her face, dont claim her, and played her numberous times.. in HER case, RUN LIKE THE WIND. lol.
celebrity or not, you should lay down the law. i dont expect it because even the brokest man is exposed to plenty of females. for emily or chrissy to mention that on camera only gives the men to cheat secretly. no real woman would except that without a fight or debate. TEACH HIM A LESSON. i could accept one time, but 4,5,6 times.. HELL NO.
(love this topic)
h00dsexii89 1 week ago
in my opinion... i would be hesistant. i might even leave for a few days. everybody makes mistakes. the trust is broken and has to be earned. but i would be hesitant depending on how long we've been together. how well the relationship is. if we're constantly fighting and its always been rocky, it makes it easier. the money isn't the factor. it's love and respect. you can't love/respect somebody when you betray the person. but the seriousness of our relationship decides whether i stay or go.
h00dsexii89 1 week ago
Anyone would hesitate in any real relationship, add money you will hesitate even more. Be honest ladies!!!!!!!
shlinda1 2 weeks ago
I respect what Chrissy said but 2 me it's a pass 2 say oh well since your a Man then it's ok when i think it's not ok. It is soooo disrespectful for some1 to cheat it's nasty because even though the person may say it's only sex u r still pleasing that person & no matter how u think a person swears they wouldn't tell any1 that's a lie because ppl spill beans everyday male or female
Nee717 2 weeks ago
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Another concern is pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and emotional illness. Eventually, whether you want it to or not, it is likely that the affairs will come home in some way, either in the form of a physical illness, a pregnant mistress, or simply one who is unwilling to abide by the terms that have been set up within your marriage. You cannot simply "ignore" this type of behavior and expect things to be copacetic forever.
nerdmom920 2 weeks ago
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nerdmom920 2 weeks ago
We need to understand the context that marriage was born in. Originally, in western cultures, it was about money, not love. So, many times infidelity was the norm, especially amongst the wealthy because they had the most to lose out of inexpedient pairings. I think that's where we get the idea that it's ok for wealthy, powerful men to cheat.
nerdmom920 2 weeks ago
Today, it's a different story, most of the time. People marry for things other than common financial goals. Love, lust, children, etc. Also, people have different terms to their relationships. There ARE people that are in open relationships, and each one has a set of rules regarding how those extra relationships are handled.
nerdmom920 2 weeks ago
A good rule of thumb is, if someone cheats, multiple times, like Jordon or Tiger Woods, or Newt Gingrich, then they are probably not going to stop and their wife or partner needs to either learn how to accept that aspect of them, or leave. Now if they are someone who has one instance of weakness under extenuating circumstances, forgiveness and healing should be the first step to repairing the relationship if possible.
nerdmom920 2 weeks ago
this is so funny! most women would SAY they'd leave and never think twice about it. but in reality, if they were placed in that situation they would feel otherwise. it happens all the time, they look down on women who stay, then next thing u know they end up staying. one commenter mentioned tiger, kobe, and so forth, but their wives stayed. sure they left eventually, but when the cheating first happened, they stayed.
MerryJ3000 2 weeks ago
point blank, there are too many women out here that want a wealthy lifestyle to leave at the first instance of cheating, and thats just bein real. u can say wut u would do and how much self-worth u have all day long today. but tomorrow when u're getting it like u want it, spendin all kinds of crazy money, wearin all kinds of expensive n designer clothes, livin in a huge house, drivin expensive cars, n makin ur broke friends envy u b/c of who ur man is, self-worth is the least of ur concerns.
MerryJ3000 2 weeks ago
I agree w/ you @cocodragon76! There is not amount of money that's worth my self esteem and love for myself. Money doesn't change that you need to be faithful to me especially if we're married and we took those vows. "forsaking all others" that includes sex. Having that kind of lifestyle is more important to some but not me. cheating is disrespectful and disloyal two qualities that I hate!! That's how i believe many men feel as well which is why they usually don't tolerate cheating!
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Shawnna36 2 weeks ago
As far as cheating...if it's that serious, if he's that weak (not strong enough to fight temptation) and if he's that disrespectful why be in a relationship/marriage?? If a man is single he can smash whoever and whenever he wants but he shouldn't be married or in a committed relationship. So instead of spreading STD's he can by all means keep his diseases to himself. His money, him buying me a pair of red bottoms, him telling me to throw it in the bag and buying me an Aston Martin won't cure
najahwill 2 weeks ago
the fact of the matter is if u hav the intuition that he's being unfaithful or if u know he is being unfaithful & u stay u look like the dummy to the outside but most people who say leave him alone they are wit some basic ass dudes...but the real is if you haven't walked in "her" shoes you don't know/regular women get used to a certain type of lifestyles that a man brings and that is not just saying that its financial...of course anybody wit a celebrity is gonna pause before leaving it's natural
alyssamaria18 2 weeks ago
To ans. your question @5:30: Most married women are INDEED sharing their husbands and know it! Regardless of whether he's in "The Industry" or not. Most wives say, "He better not let me find out" Which means, he's cheating but "I let it go on as long as I dont see the evidence". Meanwhile they are sleeping with their husbands without a condom and he's been with who-knows-whom? And this is how a lot of black women end up on the county's HIV-positive rolls. No word of lie. So my answer is HELL NO!
WhereYaBoss 2 weeks ago
Chrissy's said the same thing Winter said! Basically she knows she's sharing her man, she just better not find out. Now, how is that different from "Girl, just go on home, he will come around eventually." ??? On one hand you know he's cheating & you're feelings are hurt and it's out in the open. On the otherside Chrissy is pretending it doesn't exist if she doesn't see it and spending money to douse the pain. Same shit! And That's why Chrissy is so angry & violent. It has to come out somewhere.
WhereYaBoss 2 weeks ago 4
BTW I love your voice! You could do radio and make mon-ay!
WhereYaBoss 2 weeks ago
We live in such a worldly world to where people don't really charish and respect being married. I think it really is a thing of self worth of yourself because when one steps out thats disrepecting the vows you took before each other and God. If I were in that situation I would not tolerate it, and I would be smart enough to keep a just in cash stash so that it wouldn't be a hesitation to leave.
rena034u 2 weeks ago
Do to the example of relationships that I have grown-up around. I have gone into relationship with the hidden idea that all men cheat lbut on different level. But when I'm faced with it, what would I accept. I use to feel that as long as they are taking care of our home and is not disrespecting me I probably would deal with it. But I won't give him a get our of jail free card and tell him it's ok as long as you keep it in the streets.
Shawnna36 2 weeks ago
@Shawnna36 So would you still let him have sex with you without a condom? If you find out he's cheating and you confront him, etc are you still have unprotected sex with him? And I ask pose that question to all wives and live-in girlfriends.
WhereYaBoss 2 weeks ago
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@WhereYaBoss Even If I decided to forgive him and stay. I would not continue to have sex with him without a condom. He destroyed that trust, and why chance that he will destroy it again since I didn't leave. The next time he might just bring me a gift home. Why chance it. I can say this because during the storms with my ex-husband and I didn't have proof but a feelingI chosed to not have sex with him, but when he wore down my defense I made him wear a comdom why risk it.
Shawnna36 2 weeks ago
I would't take from no man, Ive been married for going on fifteen years, I agree there is always going to be someone some where that will try and out do you in a realationship. With so may woman leaving this world because of AIDS. I don't see how a CHECK can make you look past someone being unfaithful to you for a few mintunes of pleasure !!!!!!
#reallove
Citifinsistah 2 weeks ago
@Citifinsistah TELL IT!!!!
WhereYaBoss 2 weeks ago
I don't agree with cheating at all. I don't care if your rich or what kind of status you have at the end of the day your just like everyone else and we're here for God, not materialistic things. But! If that were to happen I think i would hesitate and not because of the money ect., but because of the love I have for my husband and I would want to give him a second chance to prove himself to me. Let me find out a second time and I'm out. Period. " fool me once shame on you, fool me twice..."
tay299 2 weeks ago
@tay299 U literally took the wordds out of my mouth..especially that we r here for God! <3
xoPistolxo 2 weeks ago
cheating is just plain stupid... rich or poor
just be honest with yourself and your partner b/c disease is real. one night of pleasure could lead to a lifetime of sickness and pain.
irockashortdo 2 weeks ago
Why is there this notion that because someone is a celebrity, they are going to cheat and that they have a right, or free pass like you said. As if it's written in stone. Look, people make the choice to cheat. It's a choice, life doesn't just happen to you. It is a consequence of your choices. It isn't ok to cheat and the fact that people are willing to deal with the outright disrespect, humiliation, and dismissal that is infidelity is disheartening and quite frankly vile. Yeah... no thank you.
ladyjbug841 2 weeks ago
Within the last 15 years I've noticed that women SETTLE, yes, SETTLE. Chrissy is settling simply because she has NO JOB and Jim Jones is taking care of her (in whatever form that is) Emily appears to be NEEDY and needy people seek needy people. You should always demand RESPECT and never SETTLE for cheating NO MATTER WHAT MONEY they are making. Period.
VickyVue 2 weeks ago
@barwardotcom and by no means am i saying stay in any of my comments the questions was would you hesitate and 10 years is hesitating in the state of Cali if you are married 10 years made it where she got almost half if you want to get technically so she put awhole lot of thought in it
msvibrant2323 2 weeks ago
@barwardotcom my point exactly she didnt just pick up and leave nor did michael jordan wife she thought about it and made a business decision on her behalf
msvibrant2323 2 weeks ago
I believe Chrissy's response was incredibly realistic and feel the same way. I would never verbalize this to my man in that situation but he should have the utmost respect for you and know not to do this!
alarissaj 2 weeks ago
Great discussion! I think Chrissie's response was a realistic one, but she should NEVER verbalize that thought to her husband. All he should know is that if she finds out he's cheating she’s out the door. Giving a man "permission" to cheat, and having him believe it’s okay with you, is a relationship death warrant. imo.
GirlsLoveYourCurls 2 weeks ago
No, I do not expect someone to cheat because they are a celebrity! at the end of the day they are still humans and rules still apply with them ! _ my opinion x
sugarsweetiiepie 3 weeks ago
or, if he cant, then i'm cheating too lol
songbirdsongstress25 3 weeks ago
no, i would not except that, if he wants me to believe that he wants to be with me, then he is gonna have to show me some respect and stay faithful to me and ONLY me. point blank. great video girl. thanks for the topic
songbirdsongstress25 3 weeks ago
but i agree totally wit chrissy
Musicianchick25 3 weeks ago
mann im late as hell on this lol...but on to my comment. To answer question number one. Do you assume they will cheat? Imma say i dont really assume or expect, but i would prepare myself for the possibility that it could happen. Because to be honest in the entertainment industry its possible! Now on to second question Would you leave? Honestly i cant say not sayin its kool to disrespect, but you never know till u in the situation these women are actually in. Good topic and one of my fav shows
Musicianchick25 3 weeks ago
I DEF EXPECT THAT THEY WOULD CHEAT
chibuogu1 3 weeks ago
WOMEN WHO ARNT MARRIED TO CELEBS HESITATE SO Y CANT WOMEN WHO R MARRIED HESITATE
chibuogu1 3 weeks ago
i would have to leave honestly the day they feel its okay to disrespect me by cheating lying which is full disrespect then everything in the relationship is out the window no matter what money or comfortable life style i will not change my standard of not getting cheated on change cause of money. its kinda like domestic violence once a man hit u he bound to hit you agian so once he cheat he is bound to do it again.
msjmail 3 weeks ago
Celebrity relationships are an investment (some). It's not about L-O-V-E it's about I-N.C. Chrissy is right--once you become accustomed to a certain lifestyle respect isn't really an issue it's about who's cutting in on "my" money. Vanessa Bryant put in 10 years because she knew eventually her investment would pay off. If women want to be apart of the celeb lifestyle be prepared to like Beyonce "all up in the back cause the chicks keep flocking."
thisthatandthethird 3 weeks ago
My standards and self respect is not worth the fame and fortune (period)
LadyKy7 3 weeks ago
I would expect it honestly,,, its hard for broke niggas to keep it in they pants soo i can only imagine whats being thrown in these celebs/high class lap lol! the real question is would i put up with it? I'll forgive once and there is a 1% chance I'll forgive twice lol thats why im not signing no prenuptual because you gone pay me broke or not if you ruin the marriage!
LadyKy7 3 weeks ago
Ya'll are goin' IN!!!!! I LOVE IT! Thanks so much for the responses and feedback on this topic! I'm loving this exchange of ideas and view points!
TheSocialiteLife 3 weeks ago
If you love them, love is limitless.. there is not limit. If a man cheats, if you really loved him, you would hesitate, simply because the love doesn't just stop. Sure the hurt comes, but whats love w/o hurt. The money will only mean something to a woman if she loves the money and not the man. OR if she is insecure about herself. With true love, hesitation is blind, you still have the choice.
KeiKeaJ 3 weeks ago
I personally think that many women would stay and tolerate being cheated on because of the money unless they were married and there was no pre-nup. If he wants to cheat and you take half because of his infidelity then you don't have to say in the relationship and be disrespected because you would get the money anyway and you could still live a similar type of lifestyle that you are used to. That being said I would leave because I wouldn't trust him not to do it again and once the trust is gone..
sansvirgin 3 weeks ago
@sansvirgin what is the point of continuing a relationship? Then you're just two people living together...there is no relationship. I wouldn't want to trade the foundation of my relationship/marriage with the person I love and my respect and love for myself for money...it's a cold bed partner and doesn't comfort you.
sansvirgin 3 weeks ago
Winter is sent from hell by Satan. What she said is twisted and so immature!
kingdomanointed 3 weeks ago
Omg...just saw this, vid response will happen!
MzChellesoul 3 weeks ago
@MzChellesoul Please do! I'd love to see it!
TheSocialiteLife 3 weeks ago
Some women can't even leave the men who are cheating on them even when they're only making minimum wage so i guess it's not about the money but the woman' self worth.
nohairdontcare100 3 weeks ago 28
@nohairdontcare100 You are so right. I was thinking the exact same thing. I have been divorced and it is hard to leave, but I had to come to the conclusion that I was worth so much more than what I was being given. No one should sacrifice themselves for a partner who treats them badly.
NikkiToney81 3 weeks ago
@NikkiToney81 I feel you! I am going through a divorce for the exact same reason and it really tough especially when you have children but i guess it's for the better well I KNOW it's for the better! Blessings to you.
nohairdontcare100 3 weeks ago
@nohairdontcare100 Blessings to you and your children! I know I am better for it. I don't have any kids and I'm sure it would have been ten times harder if I did. But I do know a happy momma makes for happy kids. :) Stay strong girl! :)
NikkiToney81 3 weeks ago
I think when you get married, you are married. A persons financial status should not be a "free pass" to commit adultry. You best believe that men aren't tolerating cheating on any level. So why do we as women allow them to place a double standard on us simply because he has money? This theory of "don't bring it home" is for the birds. How many times has a man's infidelity caught up with him? Case in point: Tiger Woods, Kobe Bryant, Arnold, the list goes on and on. Chritie needs to be quite.
cocodragon76 3 weeks ago 15
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I completely agree.
ladyjbug841 2 weeks ago
@cocodragon76 Let's not forget Steve McNair...!
sking3225 2 weeks ago
If you want to marry just for the money and "appearance" of a relationship, it wouldn't matter. But at the end of the day, while he is out doing him you will get fed up being treated like a doormat and accepting whatever. You may even have an affair yourself to prove you are worthy because your mate doesn't show he values you. You may stay but I guarantee you will have your own side thing because it gets lonely feeling like you can't have your man's attention.
c0c0puffz 3 weeks ago 2
Its so easy to sit here and say what you wouldn't or wouldn't do when your not in the situation but I bet if half of us were we would most definately think twice about leaving because nothing is just black and white.
MsBeautyOBSESSIVE 3 weeks ago
get to it, are you crazy?
TheSOULSISTER75 3 weeks ago
If we are married I would hope that he would thnk twice before he did any dirt... because I will be leaving with half of everything...so cheat if you want to
kekei2004 3 weeks ago
See this whole open relationship has everyone twisted. I expect my significant other to respect me in and outside the home no matter what type of moeny they have. Now mistakes happen if he cheated once maybe twice It can be worked out. Quick note:two wrongs don't make a right either.Just because he did something wrong doesn't mean you have have to have a comeback.
kekei2004 3 weeks ago
Honestly, once is a mistake more than once is a pattern and I can't go for that! When you look the other way too many times it's giving consent to be devalued - don't be #1 be the only one. aka @KReative_Works
Kayek67 3 weeks ago
I believe it depends on the man if he cheats not his wallet. I would not be willing to be with a person that is not loyal but I understand women that live life that way. If you have that understanding when you enter a relationship that I'm going to cheat and are honest about that its one thing. If you go behind your partners back and lie that is another thing altogether. At least if you know what is going on you can protect yourself both mentally and physically.
MsPinkandShiny 3 weeks ago
That would totally not fly with me....Nope....never settle or accept less than you deserve....I don't think you get a "free pass" just because you have money, a certain type of lifestyle etc...I think it depends on the female, her ultimate goal and what she is after....for love or money? definitely makes you go hmmmmm.....
txcutie75 3 weeks ago
If it's about finances, I'm leaving a baller quicker than a regular dude. Half a grip is still a grip. Divorce a regular dude and you better have your own cause half his regular paycheck ain't gonna be jack. To be fair, I've cheated before so I know stuff can happen so if I love him I may be willing to give it another shot IF it's a one-time thing. A serial cheater? No way. IMO, it's negligent to model that type of behavior to your children.
SDot2385 3 weeks ago
I'm with the ladies who said to "stash the cash" Instead of ordering shoesI would be ordering up a few accounts...lol...tomorrow is not promised
KissezLady 3 weeks ago
Chrissy buys Jim a ring. Jim loses the ring. Chrissy buys another ring. Jim buys a car. As an afterthought he buys her a ring. If she didn't walk away after that bs then she's not going anywhere.
KissezLady 3 weeks ago
Woman stay with broke, ugly, and stupid men that cheat......so add money and status to the equation and the situation is enhanced. Respect is key! It's not always what you do but HOW YOU DO IT!! I would drive myself crazy in type of senario. I understand both sides. I'm not sure what I would do.....but anything in your face could not be ignored or tolerated. I would have to go (hopefully with a healthy stash)
vincentlc 3 weeks ago
Its a damn shame if anyone thinks cheating is okay under ANY circumstance. Its not okay if its done in your damn face or behind your back!! Disrespect is disrespect and you're a fool to think otherwise
misssweetbabee 3 weeks ago 2
God Forbid I sit there and watch you cheat on me ! Am I looking for aids tho ?
TinieMs 3 weeks ago
If he is sticking it with someone else he is bringing it home. So yeah I would definitely be out. Of course it would be harder, money and fame makes ppl crazy. I would rather have respect for myself and for my body. It's not natural to cheat and tolerating it for whatever reason always leaves you heartbroken in the end. It's like pretty on the outside but your all kinds of screwed up on the inside. Why would anyone want that?
mkcole07 3 weeks ago
No man has any right to cheat just because he travels, he is supposed to respect your love and respect your relationship, and if he doesn't you have to ask why are you with such a person. As for him having money i'd like to have my own money and not be dependent on him. I believe in a relationship if you can forgive by all means do so, however if you can't them leave, i would I stay because of money, NO, i have integrity and respect for myself & money can be made with or with him!
jjzanice 3 weeks ago
Sometimes I wish I was a man -_- so I could be a low-down dirty dog & not care. I think I'm going to be lonely for the rest of my life because I'm not down for all that cheating no matter who the hell he is..I do not like sharing what's supposed to be mine. If he's going to go out & do "stuff", I'm just that vengeful that I think I should do it right back. But what do I know? I've never opened my legs to anyone yet, which is another reason why I think females & males get caught up. God said wait
LoveFuturePresent 3 weeks ago
What in the hell is she crazy! I bet if we go back and look at her medical history she has had every disease known to man. I don't give a flip how much money you have or don't have I value my life. Not to mention the level of disrespect. I have children and i have to teach them better then that. Please ladies stop waiting around on these men get an education and make your own money.
lovely122797 3 weeks ago
That a hard question. My husband isn't a baller. He stayed in the military. I got out (housewife) I don't have a job or an education. He wanted to come back so I let him. Sometimes I am angry about what happened and the pain that it caused our family. But I did say for better or worse. At the end of the day if they both want to work it out be monogamous then stay. If not take half. Because wondering why he does not want to be with you is a horrible feeling that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.
purlplens 3 weeks ago
looking at another women and sleeping with them are 2 fully different subjects. If you're gonna look, then do so, but stop there. Don't go and have sex or fantasize about the person you're looking at. I don't like Chrissy's idea of being with a man who makes alot of cash and accept him doing his "stuff" with other ladies, then coming home to me as long as I don't get disrespected with finding out. Finding out or not, I've already been disrespected with him CHEATING ON ME!
MsStarzy 3 weeks ago
@MsStarzy : if we keep having females settling for men disrespecting them, then they'll feel like they can do that with any female. As ladies, let's not lessen our self-respect for some money.
MsStarzy 3 weeks ago
Females deal with dudes they know are cheating on them that is straight up broke, so of course they goin stay wit a dude that's paid. If the female is dating a celebrity and she is a regular chick she can almost bet on him cheating. If they marry the dude I think they would hope that the guy slows down or stops, but they already know what they are getting themselves into. Respect is definitely important, cause as long as stuff isn't getting rubbed in her face she can pretend that it all good.
MzQue13 3 weeks ago
Why would someone get married with the idea that their spouse is going to cheat. That is ridiculous, why get married? Just think about what would happen if the wife cheated on this professional athelete or whatever. He would drop her like a hot potato. Men who cheat don't value you because if he did he would NOT want to lose you. They have women at their disposal and feel that they can replace you so why would you even enter a relationship like that. All men dont cheat nor do they have to.
21angali 3 weeks ago 3
Sorry, I would leave because no amount of money or balling can make you HIV negative. When you get married you sign up to be together just the 2 of you. If he is not ready for that he should not get married. I think it is horrible that a woman would settle for a cheating man because he has money.....what is that all about. Personally me, my salary with alimony would be walking away. Cheating is very damaging, if he values you he will not cheat. If you value yourself you would leave.
21angali 3 weeks ago
Personally I hate to "share" when it comes to men. Reality is most men (women too) cheat because the mind will lust & wants what it shouldn't or can't have whether you're a celebrity or everyday person, its just human nature. If you are taking care of me, supplying my needs, & I'm happy then I'm not leaving. Why would I especially if its just an assumption & I don't know for sure? Don't compromise your lifestyle if you don't have to. Who's to say the next man won't do the same thing?
cmblake2002 3 weeks ago
Chrissy is a uneducated, unemployed old bird. I expected her to have that stance. Problem is as a kept wife, are you going to have protected sex w your hubby? STD's are rampant and these men have side children too. Isn't that embarrasing to them when thier man gets the jumpoff pregnant? I just can't...I'd rather divorce him and take 1/2.
72Crabadams 3 weeks ago 3
It is hard to say what you would do when you are not in the situation and i dont think the income of a man would will make a woman stays or go the average joe cheats and his woman stays. i think it is foolish to stay respect me and dont bring cheating in my home because if he respected you he wouldnt cheat. and any time you cheat you are bringing people and things (STI or having a baby on you ) into your relationship look at Magic..years of cheat got him HIV.
Luvnme09 3 weeks ago
I don't think celebrity status matters at all. Yes there are perks but ultimately I'm with him because I love him & want to build a life with him. I prolly would hesitate, but not for the money. We are human & people make mistakes. So if he is repentant and trying to save the relationship, I would have to ask myself if everything is worth throwing away. But money or not, I will not be disrespected. Status does not give u a free pass! A commitment is exactly that...no matter how much money u have
Ambrolysha 3 weeks ago
The long and short is NO... Just because he is a celeb or athlete or whatever I don't see why he should be allowed to cheat because he is travelling. Your relationship is what you make it, the boundaries are what you make it, if he loves you respects you then he shouldn't cheat. As far as making money and not leaving, any woman should have her own things in check, material things shouldn't make you stay verses leaving with dignity.
jjzanice 3 weeks ago
It just seems dumb to commit to someone who isn't doing the same for you. Your telling them they are worth it but your not...
knightrhyda 3 weeks ago
@knightrhyda so true!
nohairdontcare100 3 weeks ago
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If money is taken out of the equation, we would expect our hard working $10 an hour man to be faithful... Why not expect that same level of respect from a millionaire. If a man loves and respect you and honor his vows to you and God,,,I don't care if he were a billionaire...He's going to be faithful. Ladies don't let money cloud what's right and wrong...Cheating is wrong period, if a man wants to do that,,then he shouldn't get married in the first place...Period!!!
ebonydyme100 3 weeks ago
Women need to stop being so weak and easily bought. Do you think men have these conversations?! No! They are not having the disrespect. Ain't no way in the world Jim Jones or Fab or any other celebrity male for that matter would be okay with their wive sleeping around while they are out touring or playing ball. Meanwhile we will put up with all kinds of crap just to get a Hermes bag and drive a nice car. Why not just be a side piece, have your freedom and still get a house and car!
knightrhyda 3 weeks ago 3
I totally understand what Chrissy was saying, but I didn't agree with Winter's approach. We can't judge that a woman is stupid, weak, crazy, etc for staying with a man for cheating. In my opinion men of any status have the ability to cheat one way or another - there are many levels of cheating! Chrissy's point was about respect - keep your side thing a under cover. Seems that Emily had them in her face. How can she go back to that? Chances are he won't stop that since she let it go on so long.
domlew71 3 weeks ago
First off Emily and Fab are not married. So at this point she is in the same position as the side pieces he has. If she thinks his checks are getting spent on them she is an idiot. Matter of fact the money that should be for her and his kids is being spent on them to be exact!
knightrhyda 3 weeks ago
And lets not get into the STD'S!!!!
cocoadiva33 3 weeks ago
Having money doesn't give you the excuse to cheat. If you are in a committed in a relationship, it's just that point, blank period. I think women because tolerate cheating, these men do what they do. its disrespectful. Women should value themselves more, and if they are really truly interested in you they will respect you. I would'nt give a man a pass to cheat beacuse the have money. Be your own woman and get your hustle on to make your own money.
cocoadiva33 3 weeks ago
oh, and love the random topics... thumbs up
darealsweetness 3 weeks ago
i put nothing pass no guy @ no time. but i do believe in second chances & sometimes 3rd. but it comes a point when you just get tired & no matter how much money a person has. if im hurting it cant keep me around. but on the other hand... regular men with regular jobs cheat too. so either you gone have a mind that says im gonna get cheated on & do nothing or im gonna get cheated on and BALL out of control. or just sit back & wait for that perfect guy, witch might take years or not even @ all
darealsweetness 3 weeks ago
Afterall, marriage is sacred & too many people don't treat it as such today. Ok, sorry ya'll, I'm done!!!!!!
aaadddixon 3 weeks ago
certain status would be able to get away with alot more. But if you are a strong independent woman, even if you forgive and forget the 1st or 2nd time, eventually the hurt will override the luxury & you wouldn't put up with it for long. Also, even thogh I don't agree with Chrissy (if a man cheats openly or secretively it's disrepecting you) I do understand that a feeling that someone is cheating is not the same as proof. So in this situation, if you just have a feeling, but no proof, than stay!!
aaadddixon 3 weeks ago
To me its all about how you view yourself. If you think the only way a man of status will stay with you, pamper you, & keep you in a comfortable lifestyle is for you to turn a blind eye to his infedelity, than that says alot about what you think of your self worth. On the other hand, when you're in love with someone, certain things are easier said than done. If a woman can put up with a dude that she's married to who's not working, but he's making babies everywhere, than I think someone with a
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aaadddixon 3 weeks ago
It's really not what u do its how u do it!! Rich,broke,have a lil money or Whateva.U are going to respect me period.Now with that said I don't care what nobody say a broke NIGGA a chick will leave without a thought.I dude with money u def.ly going to hesitate.Think things through.Evaluate the situation.Whatever u want to call it because u have more too lose.That's my opinion.Btw love ur videos and u should def.ly have more topics like this!!
Jacks23Ms 3 weeks ago
To me,it depends on what you want from your relationship. If you want loyalty and fidelity,dont settle for anything less. If you want a man that wanders,you will be cool with that. The money and celebrity should not matter. Be true to what you expect from the relationship.
monimom3 3 weeks ago
own, and as far as stds go you can those from a toliet, and also when he gets back home the first place we going is to the clinic, i understand respect is important in a relationship and to me respect is about acknowledgement and feeling secure with a person and the position you have, there are more women then men in this world and most men cheat even the most GODLY men cheat and when you look at it like that its like be alone or be a lesbian and theres nothing wrong with that but woman cheat to
monaehoney 3 weeks ago
honestly i wouldnt leave its not a maybe or a idk i wouldnt leave, especially if we grew together, i wouldnt go into a relationship knowing he would cheat i would go into ANY relationship with a real mind set especially one with a famous person like chrissy said alot of woman now a days will give their body before their name to a man or woman with money and thats their business i dont judge, all i know is his checks at the end of the day belong to me, my name will be on everything he wants to
monaehoney 3 weeks ago
As a christian I put God first not mankind. I think that if you allow your partner to cheat on you because he makes enough money to take care of your entire family then you are telling him by your actions that he is better than you because he has more money, and since you prefer to be comfortable instead of respected as an EQUAL partner in the relationship you tolerate his behavior. I would rather struggle and then reach my success on my own, this comes from a women who has been homeless before.
chinagreer86 3 weeks ago
I think some women that are with rich or powerful men are more willing to tolerate infidelity because they have incentives (i.e. money) to stay. Like Chrissy said, she has a very comfortable life with Jim, and when you get accustomed to that lifestyle, I imagine it's hard to let go of it. For some of us, no amount of money will make up for being disrespected or cheated on, it's really all about what you value more for yourself. I wonder will she feel the same way after they get married.
MsDaniJay 3 weeks ago 21
Good Topic. I believe that it is all about self control. I do not believe the whispers about "all men cheat, its natural for men to cheat", etc. I believe that any human has a choice. Cheating and keeping it quiet is not showing any type of RESPECT. That's the loophole I find in Chrissy's rationale. Personally, the only thing about my relationships that I would allow to be open is Communication. I could go on and on, but I'm not going to write a book on YT.
MzSassyScorpio 3 weeks ago 22
@MzSassyScorpio Well said...I agree. =0)
monimom3 3 weeks ago
i should`nt expect it ,because u gone respect that i`m not accepting that.nah if i find out u cheating,we may try and work it out and talk about what we expect from each other,but if u do it again we gone rapp it up and i`m out.a celebrity in my mind is just a person and they have a job that they make good money on,no amount of dollar can heal a person`s heart from that kind of hurt.
mz5044lyfe 3 weeks ago
I still wouldn't put up with that whether he is successful or not. It is still not respect!
victoria3473 3 weeks ago
It's easy to say "I wouldn't put up with that" when you've never been in that situation. Most of the comments I read were "I'd leave." However, I doubt everybody would. There are so many women out here taking shit off of broke men so I know they wouldn't leave the rich one. I'm just saying. Money really does talk and unless you truly understand your worth, treasure your right to respect, and love yourself more than any man or dollar, you could find yourself sacrificing happiness for a Prada bag!
sladariusc 3 weeks ago
@MsJerseyDiva72 I am soooo proud of you!
Kinkycurlycoil 3 weeks ago
I think respect is everything. Respect yourself and respect others. That said, I do think people are entitled to have certain understandings. If everyone in the situation is aware of what's going on, and are genuinely happy with the situation that's all there's to it. They should leave some room to re-evaluate the situation every now and then because feelings and thoughts do change. Now if I personally was on that situation you mention I would not get mad, just get all :) (not my quote).
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MsJerseyDiva72 3 weeks ago
For me I could not deal with it, all the money and cars in the world cannot take away HIV. They better get some independence about themselves and stop waiting on someone to do it for them. I LOVE myself to much to allow someone to disrespect me over and over.
Fabulousmommy0309 3 weeks ago 2
Real talk Hun I said it all
nexabomba19 3 weeks ago
I think this a hard question. If I was with a man like that and "we" were ballin... I would make sure some of our crap was paid and in my name. Marriage is more complex. You will still be rich if you leave him. Precisely why I don't believe in playing house. I won't assume they will cheat because that points to not valuing myself, but I would be realistic on our unique obstacles that we may have to deal with. It's funny how many people holler how they would leave and have been disrespected for
yasjencon 3 weeks ago
Girl, disrespect is disrespect, finances involved or not. Why would you knowinly give a man the go ahead to disrespect you because of the industry he's in? Why? If you can lower yourself to being a doormat, then I say go ahead, lose your self-respect, your self worth, self-esteem, self-pride, dignity, etc. for the sake of a dollar and see how that works out for you. Ask Juanita Jordan, ask Vanessa Bryant. They tried it, but eventually had to leave taking the dough with them..
BarWardotcom 3 weeks ago
bringing home a disease or money is a difference its so sad that nowadays women take shit for the price of celebrity some people dont care to be cheated on money money it speaks volume i can't do cheating i see the fantasy of it but morally i can't do it never meet a celebrity or dated someone with money but there's a thing called woman's worth.... so why accept a man for his wrong because of money hummmmmm ??
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I'm not the type of chick who will settle for a relationship like that because I will never allow myself to depend on a man financially. Period. If he ups and cheats I can bounce with the security of knowing I got my own. It may not be as much as he got but I'm not in the relationship for his money anyways. The fact that I even know he is doing it is more than enough ammunition for me to leave. Cheating on me is the ultimate disrespect and money can't fix it with a woman like me.
SOflySofine 3 weeks ago
this is exactly why i never want to be with someone who "provides" for me. u follow that money trail if u want to, i guarantee there's a trap at the end with YOUR name on it. i agree, only in the sense that when u're married to someone with much more money & time outside the home than u, there's a 90% chance that u'll be exploited. & some women can deal with that. cool.
i personally can't deal with a platinum wedding ring that feels more like a platinum noose.
EbonyEthereal 3 weeks ago
He should have enough respect for u to wrap it up to not let you find out period none of that should be a factor because he should be like the C.I.A he should go out his way to make sure there is no drama coming your way if u find out than the respect is out the door
msvibrant2323 3 weeks ago
If you do forgive, what's the penalty? What will keep him from doing it again and again putting you at risk for STDs baby mamma drama etc. Why should any woman have to put up with this, especially if they're not married? Keeping a marriage is one thing but not this whole wifey thing, there is definitely no legal benefits.
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classyglamourgirl04 3 weeks ago
Chrissy's advise is somewhat valid. Although this should apply to a married woman. If a man is willing to put a ring on it that means something. Fab is just foul. He is out and out disrespecting her. I believe that if any man cheats it's a deal breaker period. These days you don't know what your man will bring to you. AIDS, kids out of wed lock, fatal attraction B's. These men may try to keep these hoes in check but there is profit in speaking out!!!
kitabare76 3 weeks ago
seen women accept disrespect because of finances. I would be stacking a good amount of the money he gives me and put it in a seperate account. then once I feel like I saved up enough money I would leave his sorry ass. you had your fun cheating ad I had fun walking away with your money. bye bitch!
GlamAddiction101 3 weeks ago 3
One word: R-E-S-P-E-C-T!
Monkeynati 3 weeks ago
I'm not a fan of crissy either cause she too childish but I too agree with her advice she gave Emily. we as women should by no means, allow anyone to disrespect us. PERIOD! I don't care about your social or financial status. you will not be disloyal and expect me to stick around. me will be men no matter what his career is. we can trust them but so much but don't let me find out. I may give him a chance out of love, not for money. I've
GlamAddiction101 3 weeks ago
I get all that but Vanessa Bryant stayed 10 years and she knew about Kobe cheating so really would you be like Vanessa?honestly yes I would have to think and treat the situation like a business strategy
msvibrant2323 3 weeks ago
@msvibrant2323 Right, stayed 10 years, but she eventually LEFT. Staying did not work out for her. It was when she left that she got what she went in for.
BarWardotcom 2 weeks ago
I think all woman should set standards and stick to them, I'm really big on respect and money rules all evil...mean anything wrong can make it right..that's just the world we live in..however stand for something,if not, you pretty much will Seattle for anything...Respect go long ways not just for other but for yourself.
Imrockn27 3 weeks ago
I'M OUT! There's to much stuff out there that he could bring home. It would fuck me up more to know I caught something from him, he all the fun and I gotta provided the care? For him, me and the kids?? That's all he need to focus on in the beginning and he would have his family in tact. AND believe me when I say I'm going out like Vanessa Bryant. PAID with the houses... Faithfulness pays.
fuzzyspirals 3 weeks ago
The thing is...if you expect your man to cheat before you get in that relationship, WHY go in??WHY are you in that relationship to begin with??? unless you find cheating acceptable; #just sayin..It's that same logic with anything else..if you expect your man to beat you up, why get in that relationship? if you expect your man to steal from you, why get in that relationship? i'm sayin...you get what you expect. If you don't want what you expect from that person, RUN THE OTHER WAY!..and FAST!
LaWillz 3 weeks ago 2
It's the truth.Com in the industry there in yea it look at cookie and magic johnson wat can happen so it up to them to accept it to me I will not accept it is so much diseases of there money cannot control that
mila0487 3 weeks ago
So basically alot of women are saying they would leave if they found out they mate was cheating but what if u came in with nothing now u have kids and u telling me u wouldn't even think about staying #somebody is lying
msvibrant2323 3 weeks ago
hell no PERIOD
michelle3868 3 weeks ago
HELL NO I DONT AGREE WITH THAT CRAZY BIATCH CHRISSY...SHES A GOLD DIGGER ANYWAYS...SHE'S BEEN AROUND. I READ AN ARTICLE ABOUT HER PAST SHE ALWAYS DATED BIG BALLERS SHE EVEN SLEPT WITH JAY-Z AND STOLE ABOUT 40,000 DOLLARS FROM ANOTHER EX OF HERS WHO WAS ANOTHER RICH THUG.
RoseyNYC 3 weeks ago
Good topic of conversation. My opinion-I believe a lady/man is going to stay in a relationship regardless of the wealth. I think it more boils down to the comfort of them being with that one person for such along time & the fear of having to start all over with someone else. I have heard Chrissy mention before that never had a problem with Jim on that level (the cheating) she straight up said she wouldn't deal with it.
mamatosh05 3 weeks ago
Gonna repeat my comment..lol
So Chrissy is saying her man can cheat but he shouldn't bring it at home?? Lol....frailty, thy name is woman! You can't leave STDs at the door. My sister just found that out the hard way. She didn't want to know what the husband was doing until she got HIV. The whole as long as he keeps it in the dark argument is dangerous. Isn't that what men on the downlow are doing?? Look at the HIV epidemic in our community.
maame85 3 weeks ago
I dont condone cheating btw. I'm saying, men make mistakes, and men are human. But if the respect ain't there then its nothing! U have woman out here making it easier for them to cheat bcuz they have the I don't care about her,he with me mind frame! RESPECT is a major factor in this situation! If u Lucky to find the one that's faithfulin this type of status then more power to ya! He out there somewhere.
MsPoohbear86 3 weeks ago
Continuing from my last post I would definitely have to ponder for awhile just being honest but
msvibrant2323 3 weeks ago
I totally agree men of all pay grades cheat the proof is in the pudding but when u are involved with someone who has reached a certain level of financial stability respect is very important in a relationship because with money there is power etc and when u are not really contributing that much to the lifestyle y'all living sometimes respect goes out the door and alot of times women might put up wit stuff u might not put up wit with Tyrone the garbage man so if he is taking care of u and u haven
msvibrant2323 3 weeks ago
It is a certain level of respect! In Emily's case it was like open a mag and pow there is fab with some chick helllllllll no! Y? B/c there is no respect. Do what u do b/c I can't control this person's every move. I cant go to every concert, city, etc. He goes to/do. But if its in my face like Emily had it the he would have to go. I'm not a tabloid chick but far as I know Jim haven't done half of what fab let the world see. When u home, u home have resource enough to not let me see it.
MsPoohbear86 3 weeks ago
You Made It PLAIN!!!!
jadakiss228 3 weeks ago
@bfly I know what the topic is about. My response was because someone else brought yandy up.
shelbyvan 3 weeks ago
Leave, I would just leave. Money shouldn't be part of a relationship, it should be about love. Just my opinion :)
anamclovin 3 weeks ago
Omg....I'm not sure what perfect land everyone is living in, but I'm sorry I don't reside their. I reside in America and in America, brothers, men, gays, women, etc... Are all cheating.. Regardless of what you may want to believe... It is what it is.. So if u gonna leave every guy that cheat on u, then u lgotta lotta folks to go thru.... I never said I agree with cheating, but I will forgive someone if needed.....
Cocosmith4u 3 weeks ago
Well, I've never been in a relationship with someone who is wealthy, so I could not say 100% what I would do if they cheated. I am, however, 99.9% sure that I would not accept such disrespect as part of my relationship. I know how to be faithful, and I expect the same from my mate. I understand what famous/rich people have perpetuated as the norm, but we need to hold ourselves to higher standards regarding how we treat each other. Chrissy and Emily are unfortunately brainwashed, I think...
vonnababy2 3 weeks ago
I think Chrissy is dumb, and needs to keep her shitty advice to herself. And learn some anger management.
shany9988 3 weeks ago
All men don't cheat, however I do believe men who are out of the house most of the time or have lots of money, along with status are high-risk. When you get into a relationship you should make it clear what type of relationship you want. If you're in a monogamous relationship, then why expect something other? I feel like some women will settle for that out of low-self worth and/or greed. I watch the show, Chrissy is 42 yrs old, and is in her last days; it makes sense why she would say that.
shany9988 3 weeks ago
this dont me go hmm it makes me SMGDH! It is a sad day when a woman gets on tv and says lay down and take it long as u dont find out and respects u!! Screw that money or broke CHEATING IS CHEATING STD is STD!This world has got so wrapped up in so much money,martial stuff No one should be able to be bought! cuz u a star dont mean u cant be a truthful/loyal/faithful like we are already sendin message to stars its ok cuz u famous! partners stand up more to star mates they wont feel so free to
Mrscottrell4105 3 weeks ago
Lol @nay984
iusedtolovehim 3 weeks ago
Chrissy is just as lost as Emily. Someone once told me that the value that you place on yourself is the same value that others place on you. Being a celebrity does not give you a pass on common decency and many of them feel that they can do anything because of money. We as people have gone so far away from what matters. To me her friend said some of the dumbest mess i ever heard ! As women we need to wake up and start to value ourselves more. This anything goes mentality is wearing me out.
taky30 3 weeks ago 2
I would leave but! Being the person I am I would have started branding myself at the beginning so I could be financially set to do those things on my own. It's never ok for anyone to be cheating man or woman but don't just sit back & let it happen. That's where stds and humiliation come from.
memejanielle85 3 weeks ago
To me it depends on a few things. What a person values for example if family is important to me and keeping my fam together know matter what than I may stay with a man I know is not being faithful (that happens in everyday marriages not just high profile) but if I value money and I'm with someone who brings home lots of money than I may care less because his faithfulness is not as important as my stability. But the bottom line is no person wants to be cheated on but the "reality" is that it doe
LifeIsMyTeacher 3 weeks ago
Ok, first of all the person who said they have a Best Friend who stayed with a Ex Pro-Football playa who did those things to her and she stayed and he gave her HIV, this is why you don't settle, my friend is also Married to an Ex Foot-Ball Playa 18 years and he's been cheating the whole time, to me when people stay its because they are simply Materialistic and can't imagine being out of that lifestyle, if a Man Cheats once he will always cheat, one reason why Women aren't Valued any longer today
MsSLYFACE 3 weeks ago
Yandy was mad because she wants Jim. She is his mgr. Not his accountant. How he spends his money isn't her bizness.
For that she really needed her ass whiped
shelbyvan 3 weeks ago