Hi Debbie, Hope this note finds you doing good, I can be reached @ beaupresn@yahoo.com okay if you want , to talk soon. I would like to talk when you have time. I am supprised this person of interest hasnt been found. Keep hoping one day soon it will be done with. I am also sorry to hear about your mom.
I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you and your family have found strength together since this awful event. I know your sister will be in the highest pinnacle of heaven and her killler will be in the deepest bowels of hell. I hope you can find some peace and live your life as your sister would want you to xxx
@terriealdridge1 Sorry to hear about your loss. I'm sure your sister is looking down at you and her boys with a huge grin on her face...happy that you are all ok. xxx
im soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sori 4 ur loss even though it happened in 2008 i didn't no until now but remember she is in a better place now . .
I pray, in the name of Jesus, that the person who caused this devastating loss will come forward and admit to their mistakes. It's better to confess your sins while on this earth and be forgiven, than stand before a vengeful God and face His Almighty Wrath. God bless your family, and may each day get a little easier to face.
"And I will execute great vengeance upon them with furious rebukes; and they shall know that I am the LORD, when I shall lay my vengeance upon them." ~Ezekiel 25:17
I am also so sorry for your loss,I can't believe the Police would just drop any leads they had unless they really checked them out,God Bless your Family.
Keep this in mind... the Killer will be caught. There will be a day when he pays the price by the human hand or by the power of the Almighty Christ. And Im very sorry for your loss... May God guide You and Your Family through life knowing that She is in Heaven now, In a better place. God rest her soul R.I.P.
Once again, Im very sorry and My prayers are with you and your family.
@mjniggporchmonkey You really need to grow up. You prolly never met this family. This is not something that you need to sit here and make rude comments. This family is very torn and want to have this solved it is eating them alive.
Debbie I am truly sorry for all the pain and stress this causes I really pray one day that this will be solved. I am not just saying this and then I will forget I will have you and ur family in my prayers that you can get some closure
i will take this and try my hardest to solve it when i become in the police force. i know what its like to know who is not involved in your loved ones murder because they will never find justice.
casey fan 001 these laws give the states more power to protect victims family's in the justice process.debbie vicari lost her beloved sister to a very violent crime she has been a advocate and is very informed on her sister case from what i have been reading please give her the respect that you would what if your loved one had been murdered in such a violent way.you would want the some respect.
It must be very tough to live on without your sister, but some day, like the comment below me, the killer will be found and justice will be served. If not in this lifetime, then when it ends and the killer must meet face first with his/her maker. Your sister is safe in Heaven now, it's just a shame she had to leave so soon. I don't wish bad things, but I do hope that the murderer is haunted by guilt for the rest of his/her life. God bless. You're a strong person.
try to seek out a psychic they have murder solving psychics that accually talk to the deceasded to find out what happened to them. If you don't believe in that sort of stuff well don't bother however there have been cases that have been solved due to the fact that psychics where used. look up sensing murder and watch one of them to see what you might think of the possibilities of solving what you have lost.
@colec018 There have also been cases where it was a big hogwash. I would never pay a psychic. I know people who have a gift. (I have been told I have a few of the spiritual gifts.) She can retrace her sister's steps and talk to people once more. I have seen some startling new clues with people doing that, even a case where a witness was spoken to years later who failed to tell something.
TO be honest man, Crimes solved in the USA are high when there is a witness or someone tells the cops a clue. If no one saw a murder then most likely it will not be solved unless there was a Camera. Other than that sorry for your loss and Wish you luck finding the killer.
Beatiful!!!! We need to get our voices together! I had chills listening. I lost my duaghter at age 19 to a still unsolved murder. Please read about our travels. I will gladly tell yor story wen we are next out on the road in MArch, Maybe we could gather songs/poems, etc for al the unsolved without a voice!!!!!
as long as violent people are protected, given a place to live, exercise. eat an protected (from what ?) apart from having people who love to give every killer or violent person all the care in the constitution. the constitution starts out by saying We the People, this people are not us, or people they are predator. You get what you cultivated.
I'm very sorry for your loss. Your sister was beautiful. No one should ever have to lose their loved one in such a horrific manner. I pray that the guilty party is brought to justice and it's frightening to think that he is walking the streets.
Have contacted the Vidocq Society? They work pro-bono in helping to solve long unsolved murders. Vidocq has even been featured on America's Most Wanted.
"Too trusting"- what's the world coming to? People who would cut another person into pieces shouldn't be allowed on the streets ever. Animals. RIP Diana +++
They never found the remains. SHe was always too trusting of people and eager to make a friend. ALl they need to do is open the case and test the DNA of the remains against all the possible suspects. I have been trying for years to get the case eropened but with budget crunches etc cases like this have been tossed into a box at the bottom of some basement somewhere in the hall of records. RIP Di.
I wish solving 17 year old murder was that simple, but the horribly inaccurate police work on the part of tucson detectives, as well as no solid help from anyone who cared about her, the case has little chance of ever being solved. I have solid suspects, and they have the arms, that they could DNA test easily then profile the DNA against that of everyone involved, but that requires that they would even reopen the case.
the frustrating thing is that they have closed Diana's case, technically. I have tons of infiormation about possible suspects but it is hard to get them to do anything about it. Even taking the remains that were found, could yield enough DNA to at least give us some idea of who the killers arent. rip DI.
So very sorry for your loss. Your tribute brought tears. Beauty from devastation .. what an awful price to pay.
My reason for writing is selfish; it is my hope you will understand, and perhaps assist me. My son was shot and died as a result. You took bold steps in your tribute .. and I wish to take similar steps. However, my goal is to raise public & press awareness of the circumstances surrounding the shooting.
How devastating to discover your daughter is dead, mainly because of her severed arms. Ignore the village idiots like that Casey person. I'm sure you have good reason to suspect the ones named. My prayers are with the entire Vicari family, and all those who loved Diana.
and his son Kenneth Jr., 22, a corrections officer, who is accused of tossing the bottle. They had been able to hunt down Groff—or so they thought—because of Megan's Law. "This law didn't stop no crime," Vicari says. "It created crime. And what if I'd been killed? I got two children of my own. What would Megan's Law have done for them? Nothing."
IS THIS WHAT YOU THINK MAKES YOUR NAME FAMOUS? IF SO CAN'T YOU SEE WHAT FALSE ACCUSSATIONS CAN DO TO PEOPLE? YOU ARE SLANDERING SEVERAL MEN.
black ski mask. "You're Michael Groff—you're a child molester," the man growled as he began punching and kicking Vicari.
When the dust settled and the police arrived, it became clear that Vicari had been the victim of a botched vigilante attack. Charged with burglary, assault, conspiracy and criminal mischief in the incident were the Handys' neighbors 52-year-old carpenter Kenneth J. Kerekes—who had allegedly been wearing the ski mask—
Pennsylvania truck driver Tom Vicari would be the first to agree. When the heat failed in his Allentown apartment, he and his fiancée, Barbara Keller, spent the night of Jan. 9 with her cousin John Handy in nearby Phillipsburg, N.J. The couple bunked on a living-room sofa, sharing quarters with 25-year-old Michael Groff, Handy's live-in nephew, who slept on the floor. At about 1:30 a.m., Vicari, 41, drifted off to sleep.
Forty-five minutes later he was set upon by a burly intruder wearing a
How can you just slander these mens names when clearly they cannot ALL be guilty? How would you like someone to make a You Tube site and say DEBBIE VICARI COULD BE A CHILD KILLER---MAYBE---DEBBIE COULD BE A HOOKER---MAYBE----HEY MAYBE YOUR SISTER WAS KILLED BY HER PIMP....HOW ABOUT I MAKE A WEB SITE SAYING THAT? How about I make a web site saying she died because she was a drug dealer? WOULD THAT BE OK? I think you are a complete BITCH for making a web site and naming people as you did.
Someday, somehow, the killer would be caught.....I'm sorry for ur loss.....the case maybe unsolved in this world...but i know he'll get his punishment from Allah of al his sins...maybe we're diff religion, but my prayer are with her....
Your prayer is beautiful and I love it. What religion one is doesn't matter to me. That we have a God by any name and that he loves us and cares for us and we can pray to him for strength for us and others is what personally matters to me and that you are so kind as to do this for me and my family and sister is beautiful. Your words and kindness helps. Blessings love and thanks to you. I think we are really more the same than different.
@ladysongbird32 Girl spoken so wonderfully.... God may not come when you want him to, but he'll be there RIGHT ON TIME! Keep the faith, NEVER give up if you know in your heart. Justice be it in this life or the next is going to happen.
I am very touched by your sweet memorial video of your loved one. I pray someone will be brave & come forward with information soon. God is so good; without Him carrying me, I would be lost. May Almighty God cont. to carry you too.
Thank you very, very much from our entire family. It warms our heart sthat so many would come forward and bring their kindness to us this way as you have. It really is touching. Thank you.
Blessings and love and again, sincere thanks to you and yours,
if there was a reason for the death penalty, this is it!! Good luck to you and your family. I hope you get the closeure you need. She was a beautiful young lady, she would have been pretty close to my age now, I was 22 in '92. I wouldnt know how to react....
I think you pretty much hit it on the head. I didn't know how to react either. Pretty much a numb state of being for quite some time. I just did. I was 23 when Di was murdered. As for the death penalty, I have given up with the politics of justice because it leads to too many arguments and only fight to keep dangerous crimnals off the streets so that less people are hurt. Sad but true statement. Thank you for your kind statement. I love what you wrote.
it was a such a privilige to listen to your song. I lost a friend who was like a sister to me. I am 100 percent sure she was murdered. They closed down the investigation though
Blessings to you and Diana and blessings to my friend Eva-Marie.
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend Eva-Marie. I hear of so many cases where it likely was a murder but it is closed as something other than. These are very frustrating situations. I am so sorry. Initially when Di was missing I assure you we were told that she was likely a runaway like everyone else is told. It is hard to get anyone's attention. My prayers and condolences are with you and your Eva-Marie.
I'm sorry for your loss. I understand how you feel. I had a cousin almost 26 years old who committed suicide almost 3 months ago and I never knew why she did it. I've spent the last few months screaming at myself wondering why. When what you love gets taken from you, all you want is to know is the truth. You have my condolence through this tragedy. Be strong for your sister and for your love ones.
First, Thank you for your kind words about my sister. Very appreciated, and you are right, it is so hard not knowing. The mind keeps going in circles. Next I want to offer my deepest condolences to you and to your family for the loss of your cousin. I once spoke to someone that went through a loved one's suicide and she mentioned the hardest thing was having nowhere to be angry except with the one she loved and miss so much which was devastating to her. Be well & Love and blessings to you.
I know this may sound horrific, but the two days that my Mom was searching for Diana, she just kept saying to me and praying to God, "please God, if we don't find Di, please let us find her body, let us find something, something so we know, don't let us be left in the dark." I see people with missing loved ones and my heart breaks for them. We went through hell, but at least we know. Now I am crying. I wish she were here. Blessings and love,
I can only imagine the week your family went through. And I am so glad it turned out the way it did. Thank you for sharing your story with me. You do know a huge part of what we went through because in those days a loved one is missing you imagine everything. Our minds prepare for the worst.
I know this may sound horrific, but the two days that my Mom was searching for Diana, she just kept saying to me and praying to God, "please God, if we don't find Di, please let us find her body, let us find something, something so we know, don't let us be left in the dark." I see people with missing loved ones and my heart breaks for them. We went through hell, but at least we know. Now I am crying. I wish she were here. Blessings and love,
RIP Diana. I remember this like it was yesterday, very sad. My mom and her mom worked together at Tucson Medical Center and were very good friends. I still have one of the buttons with her picture as a matter of fact. God Bless.
Wow, I am so so sorry to hear about Your loss, Your Angel. A beautiful name. TO think that someone was 20 MINUTES AWAY! But your story DOES give me hope and yes solving a case would bring about some peace for my family. My friend Danielle Parker was just on the news about her Mom's unsolved case also in Tucson, Arizona. It is truly so difficult. Her Mom's name is Gail Parker. I pray she also finds justice. Thank you SO MUCH for the myspace add and the hope. Love and Blessings.
ok wow this actually made me cry... and making me cry isnt that hard but still good job.
i know how it feeels to lose someone i am related to a gilr who was killed in 1991 in seguin texas her name was Angel and her case was unsolved for 15 years until one day this guy that lived 20 minutes away was found and convicted. he was convicted by a man that was the father of someone that i hated... anyways theres always hope i will help as much as i can... i will add you on myspace...
I am so sorry to hear about your Angel, What a pretty name! Your story does indeed give me hope and hope to others like me with unsolved murders. I just can't believe the perp was 20 minutes away! How that must have made you feel! Solving this case would resolve many issues in my family's lives. No more looking over my shoulder wondering if the next person I date is that person or if he/they are still casing us. It haunts me. Esp with the gory details. And justice for Di!
I can't even begin to think what you must be going through.
To lose your sister like that is horrific;and she must have been so frightened.And to still be waiting for justice after all these years..G-d!You are showing immense courage to show this;but it might jog people's minds;memories.Good luck Angel.
Thank you so much Tuks. It really is a lot. The recent resolution that the Walsh family got gives hope to families like mine. It really does. It also in some ways gives us permission to talk about the fact that there is always a hole until resolution comes. I know nothing will bring Di back but an answer could make me not afraid to talk to prospective dates, to walk down the street without wondering "is it them?" Plus just resoloving the murder. Last thing I can do for my sister. Luv to U TUKS!
This is so horrible. My love goes out to you and your family. The worst is not knowing who did it. There's no closure. Damn him to hell. If this life time doesn't get him Karma eventually will. Trust me.
Thank you so very much for your words, They do mean a lot and I do appreciate them. We all do. It has been hard.Usually things are just fine. Most of the the time in fact but it gets to me and us at times... and at those times it helps when people like you reach out. So thank you. :) Love and blessings to you too.
I meant every word You, your family & especially your sister are in my prayers. Never give up. Please have a good Christmas and know your sister is with you My story is different than yours,in a nutshell... once in my life was a really horrible man. He got away with so many horrible things. The last days of his life were very painful and he was scared of dying because he knew he did wrong. I'm sure he's paying for it now and so WILL the man that hurt your sister. My loves with you Deb.
Thank you again and I am so sorry for what happened to you. Thank you for sharing it with me. It seems you have dealt with it really well. In general I really do too. I just have my days :) I hope you have an absolutely wonderful Christmas too :)
Blessings and love and Happy Holidays :)Thanks again.
Anytime Deb:) I don't mind sharing it. We have to talk about it...It's been 20 yrs for me and it only feels like yesterday. The man I was speaking of was my father. He's passed and hasn't moved on (I know this but another story )probably because God won't let him. He's in misery for his own doings forever on the other side and so will that bastard get his for what he did to your innocent sister. Keep in touch
This is so incredibly tragic. I am so sorry for you and your family having to endure such horror. I have just one word for the person who did this - "KARMA". Thinking outside the box, have you had any dreams about Diana? Sometimes valuable information comes through dreams, cases HAVE been solved that way. As odd as that may sound. Whatever it takes, you know what I mean? Closure for Diana as well. Perhaps EVP would bring new information. Worth a try. Blessings.
That is very interesting... When My Mom was alive she used to have dreams about Di but I haven't. Perhaps I wasn't open to it. Maybe I will open myself up to it. I hadn't thought of it. It is a good idea. Thank you so much for your kind words :) Even after all of this time, closure really would be nice. Blessings and thanks.
I cry everytime i see this. I couldn't imagine the pain. She was a beautiful women. But she is in a better place. No one can hurt her again. The people that hurt you sister should face a consequence worse than death. God Bless You. You will get through this because love will always be stronger and your sister is with you every day. Once again God Bless You
Thank you so very much. That means a lot. It makes it nice somehow to know that others care too. So your words comfort. I do feel her and when people like you say such beautiful things in a way it makes me feel like a piece of her is with me at that moment. So thank you. Blessings and love to you and may God bless you.
Thank you so much :) I truly appreciate your kindness. I will defnitely check out your videos. Laughter has been a HUGE part of what has gotten me through the tragedy. So weird videos are WAAAAY up my alley! Thank you for your kind words and your wonderful weird videos bringing the world laughter :)
Thank you so much for caring. The world is defnitely crazy. Both sick and beautiful at the same time. From my sister's murder I have found both extremes. I have been thrown into the worst hell yet met the most incredible people I could have ever believed existed. The trick is to remember that normal days are still the norm. But not to forget that this does happen. It's sometimes hard to do. Thank you so much for reaching out, It means a lot. Blessings and love.
You know, I would be dishonest if I said I had not thought about how I wished that upon this person or persons on many many occasions. Now that my Dad has finally started talking about it he has said it is the hardest thing he will do, not taking vengeance himself. His faith keeps him from doing so, at least he hopes. He hurts. We all do. But again, destruction must end somewhere and love must begin. Love WILL win. It is stronger. Thank you again so much and may God bless you.
Have you submitted this story to AMW or Cold Case Files? I really pray for your family. I think about the case and the fact that not only was your sister murdered, but the killer is still out there. And I agree with your position on the polygraph. Those things work on the notion that a guilty party has remorse or fear of being caught. Serial killers lack both, so passing a polygraph is a walk in the park for them. This has all the markings of a serial killer, but one on the move.
I haven't yet but I will find out the proper steps to do so and I will do that. It is a good idea. Thank you so much. IF the guy they initially convictied is actually the one, not only is he the killer he is free and on the streets. I am going to do a video soon introducing myself on camera. I will give info the public hasn't ever had. It's time to give it all out. I just can't hold back anymore. People should be safe. My safety at the expense of others. It doesn't compute.
It must be, that the murder falls into a trap. There must be justice. The murder should have a heavy punishment. He destroyed not only your sister's live, but also the lives of her family.
I hope and pray for an honest judgement, so you can come to terms with your sorrow.
Thank you so much Coby and you are so right. In fact, an amazing thing happened yesterday. I talked to my Dad yesterday and I ended up writing a paper this morning I think I will read on a video I may do and upload here tonight or tomorrow. I titled it, "My Dad woke up today". I think he cried for the first time in nearly 16 years. For the first time I heard the Dad I knew before my sister's murder. I never thought I would see him again. Thanks for your kindess and may God Bless you.
also, just to say lie detector is not reliable at all! i'm sure detectives involved in this case are watching this teacher - they do not let "off the hook" potential maniac - base on some lie detector..no no! they are watching all creeps you mentioned - its a long waiting game. but it will and for good..
Thank you so much. I truly hope so! It seems ludicrous to me to let a simple lie detector allow someone off the hook. He seemed to me to be the most likely suspect being the one tha had an actual tie with a possible motice. However I will say the detective truly bel;eives it is Lemuel Prion. And I have the UTMOST repsect for the detective. Others think it is still PRion as well. We will soon see. I need to call the and see the status of th DNA. I think I will call this morning. TY so much! DV
beautiful eyes she has..! it is good that you are still searching - sooner or later - he will be found! they always do some mistake that brings them to justice. no exception - he will fail too!
Thank you again.. so much. I most certainly hope so. Though the years pass and the pain fades.. we always do want answers and though the word "closure" is a term that is sort of media used primarily, some type of answer would help. The murderer behind bars would make me feel safer. I hate living not knowing if I am going to run into the person. It's not fair. It really isn't. Why am I living in a prison walking the streets? This is not justice. TY again so much and God bless you. Debbie Vicari
Hope you can find some release from your troubles soon and the person that comitted this horrific crime is made to pay,hard to believe that these kind of people are out there but they are, don't let him destroy more lives by neglecting your own,I am sure Diana would not want that for you. I mean this in the kindest way, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS from all your IRISH FRIENDS.
Thank you so very much. Incredibly beautiful words and I shall heed them. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kindess and obvious caring. And may God bless you and yours as well.
Thank you so much. The song poured out to a chord progression already in existence when I was practicing to sing at a pomc vigil 3 months after my sister's arms were found in a dumpster in Tucson. Then later in 2000 when I started to do music as a vocation Luis Payron asked me if I had ever written a song and I mentioned I had written lyrics and a melody to this. He said that was writing. The song has helped others who lost people. So here it is. It kind of wrote itself.
Thank you so much. It is a very difficult world to live in. After my sister's murder I found out about a particular type of pornograpjhy that included dsimemberment. There was a serial dismemberment case where a guy was caught and afterward he had this type of porn in his possesion. We do need to be careful of what exists. You make some very good points. It is just hard to know where the line is. Thank you and thank you for your kind words about my sister.
Thank you. I could not even begin to know completely understand what you have had to go through, all I can do is imagine. I also think as responsible woman we need to start a movement that really addresses these issues that impact us in everyday life.
I heard just the other day that now that some children are entering relationships as young as 10yrs old, little girls at even earlier ages are getting emotional and yes physically abused! NOT acceptable!
Thank you so so much. One day I hope to make it to the UK. Such loving people there. My mother's side of the family is English and Irish. With all of the love coming from there I can see where she got it from. Thank you so much for your most kind sentiments.
Thank you so much for your beautiful and kinf words.. Even I cry still watching the video. And I lived it. And I sing the song. But I put th pohoto of my sister at the end for a reason. Because I imagine her sleeping peacefully until I see her again. But it still makes me cry. I too hooe the guilty man pays for this. Your emotion and kindness touches my heart.
Hmmm, well first , thank you again for the blessings :) Second it has been almost sixteen years. Time helps, it allows for introspection. I chose to live and I do believe in God. I also beleive in humankind. Look at all the comments on this page. How can I not? One person cannot destroy the beautfy in this world. I choose to see what is still beautiful. My sister was one of them and so are many of those commenting. You are. I thank you for saying that though. And thank you for being part of it
It might be helpful to post pictures if you have any of anyone that is suspected in this crime. People often change their names to avoid to getting caught.
That is an excellent Idea, I was trying to figure out a way to add a new video with more information. I have a minor surgery first thing tomorrow and won't be back for a day or two. Once I am feeling ok from it I will get newspaper clippings back and if I can find anything from anyone I will do that. I will also talk to the old PI and the detective. Thank you so much for the idea. This is hard to do but means too much to me not to do it. Excellent advice. Thanks again so much.
you're welcome...I will keep you in my thoughts and if I think of anything else I'll post a comment. I remembered that particular one because of that program with the missing children guy...they used to say that all the time about people changing their names.
Shit man i just don`t know what to say.I am sorry for your loss, and i hope the murderer is caught!And i am sure your sister is looking over you and your family.
Thank you so so much irishxxkelt. We are hoping and prayig for closure and I think this is going to help us get it. Your kind words and wishes mean so much. Your taking the time to write them down here is most appreciated. Thank you so very much!
You have given me and my family a beautiful gift. Thank you for that. And thank you for thinking of my beautiful sister Diana. I do miss her. There are many like her and I don't pretend she is any better than the many that are murdered and in situations similar to hers but she is one of them and it would be nice to get answers. October 24th will be 16 years. I thank you and my wonderful brothers and sisters in Great Brittain. From the bottom of my heart. God bless you all.
Thank you so very much. I just recently spoke to my other sister Angie and my brother Brian who still live in Tucson Arizona. My Mom has already passed away in 2000 and my father is very ill so I haven't told him of the recent DNA. My brother is hopefull as is my sister. We have not given up. Your support means a lot to us. Thank you so much.
Thank you so very much and I am so so sorry to hear of your sisters untimely demise. My deepest sympathy and sorrow. May she rest in peace and may God bless you.
Thank you, to lose a loved one under any circumstance is tragic, but to lose you sister and not know who did it must be torture. I admire your dedication to her memory and your quest for justice. God bless you in your efforts. Sincere regards.
THank you so much jefeisdguard. I appreciate both the condolences and your passing it on. I truly feel answers will come with more people passing the word. My most sincere thanks. Blessings.
Thank you so very much. Your prayers and those of others I truly beleive are what is going to bring finality. The kindness I have seen here has brought me to tears and has brought me some renewed faith. I just can't thank the people here enough. Thank you so so much.
Thanks for sharing this, I will pass it on to my friends too.
LadySongBird32, no one could ever imagine what you are going through, I am so sorry for your loss, but know this, Diana is at peace now and in a better place. God Bless You.
Thank you so very much Chief. Your words,kindness and blessings are very appreciated. She is in a better place. I suppose it is I that is selfish and misses her. But the thought crosses my mind about who is out there still hurting others. Now that DNA exists I can't just sit back. It's tough. And I do miss her. I only let it in sometimes. Thank you for your beautiful kindness. May God Bless you.
Oh my gosh... I am so sorry for your loss. Calling whoever did that to your sister mean, would be an understatement.
olycat123 2 weeks ago
Rest in peace...they moved so quickly and we moved in ...a full renovation ....im sorry;(
DamianWhispers 3 months ago
Awwww!!!:(((((((( im so sorry for your loss
KaityKelly 3 months ago
Hi Debbie, Hope this note finds you doing good, I can be reached @ beaupresn@yahoo.com okay if you want , to talk soon. I would like to talk when you have time. I am supprised this person of interest hasnt been found. Keep hoping one day soon it will be done with. I am also sorry to hear about your mom.
purplepants691 4 months ago
I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you and your family have found strength together since this awful event. I know your sister will be in the highest pinnacle of heaven and her killler will be in the deepest bowels of hell. I hope you can find some peace and live your life as your sister would want you to xxx
hussaruk 6 months ago
i know how u feel my sister was murdered sept 9th 2005 still unsolved i have her 3 boys there my world
terriealdridge1 8 months ago
@terriealdridge1 Sorry to hear about your loss. I'm sure your sister is looking down at you and her boys with a huge grin on her face...happy that you are all ok. xxx
hussaruk 6 months ago
WOW! This song is breathe taking beautiful, the words are sooo beautiful & the ladies voice is like an angel
RIP dear sister
evelove1958 1 year ago
My sincere condolence and thoughts are with you
silentfades 1 year ago
im soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sori 4 ur loss even though it happened in 2008 i didn't no until now but remember she is in a better place now . .
Ravendrkns 1 year ago
Remembering Diana Dawn Vicari, I hope the person responsible is caught soon.
RIP
Crowrocker71 1 year ago
I pray, in the name of Jesus, that the person who caused this devastating loss will come forward and admit to their mistakes. It's better to confess your sins while on this earth and be forgiven, than stand before a vengeful God and face His Almighty Wrath. God bless your family, and may each day get a little easier to face.
"And I will execute great vengeance upon them with furious rebukes; and they shall know that I am the LORD, when I shall lay my vengeance upon them." ~Ezekiel 25:17
risadanielle 1 year ago
I am also so sorry for your loss,I can't believe the Police would just drop any leads they had unless they really checked them out,God Bless your Family.
pjtnletsgovols9 1 year ago
Keep this in mind... the Killer will be caught. There will be a day when he pays the price by the human hand or by the power of the Almighty Christ. And Im very sorry for your loss... May God guide You and Your Family through life knowing that She is in Heaven now, In a better place. God rest her soul R.I.P.
Once again, Im very sorry and My prayers are with you and your family.
dayman137 1 year ago
she was wanking me so hard and her arms came off hahahahahahaa
mjniggporchmonkey 1 year ago
@mjniggporchmonkey NOT funny at all. You will have a hard time explaining this one when it is your time.
illmakusmile 1 year ago
@illmakusmile yes fuck her she was only a slut hooker
mjniggporchmonkey 1 year ago
@mjniggporchmonkey You really need to grow up. You prolly never met this family. This is not something that you need to sit here and make rude comments. This family is very torn and want to have this solved it is eating them alive.
Debbie I am truly sorry for all the pain and stress this causes I really pray one day that this will be solved. I am not just saying this and then I will forget I will have you and ur family in my prayers that you can get some closure
I am
molloel1 1 year ago
i will take this and try my hardest to solve it when i become in the police force. i know what its like to know who is not involved in your loved ones murder because they will never find justice.
mhutton11 1 year ago
casey fan 001 these laws give the states more power to protect victims family's in the justice process.debbie vicari lost her beloved sister to a very violent crime she has been a advocate and is very informed on her sister case from what i have been reading please give her the respect that you would what if your loved one had been murdered in such a violent way.you would want the some respect.
58teresa1 1 year ago
He will get his, if not this life, certainly in the next. God doesn't forget.
Victims and their families have no rights, it's all about the criminals.
Wish you hadn't have had to write or sing this song. You have a beautiful voice
ca94nhl 1 year ago
He will get his, if not this life, certainly in the next. God doesn't forget.
Victims and their families have no rights, it's all about the criminals.
Wish you hadn't have had to write or sing this song.
ca94nhl 1 year ago
It must be very tough to live on without your sister, but some day, like the comment below me, the killer will be found and justice will be served. If not in this lifetime, then when it ends and the killer must meet face first with his/her maker. Your sister is safe in Heaven now, it's just a shame she had to leave so soon. I don't wish bad things, but I do hope that the murderer is haunted by guilt for the rest of his/her life. God bless. You're a strong person.
YellowMellowJello 1 year ago
Sorry for your loss. Perhaps I can help, please look att my video and, if you want to, send me the pictures.
YourFutureToday 1 year ago
try to seek out a psychic they have murder solving psychics that accually talk to the deceasded to find out what happened to them. If you don't believe in that sort of stuff well don't bother however there have been cases that have been solved due to the fact that psychics where used. look up sensing murder and watch one of them to see what you might think of the possibilities of solving what you have lost.
colec018 1 year ago
@colec018 There have also been cases where it was a big hogwash. I would never pay a psychic. I know people who have a gift. (I have been told I have a few of the spiritual gifts.) She can retrace her sister's steps and talk to people once more. I have seen some startling new clues with people doing that, even a case where a witness was spoken to years later who failed to tell something.
imhotep1 1 year ago
TO be honest man, Crimes solved in the USA are high when there is a witness or someone tells the cops a clue. If no one saw a murder then most likely it will not be solved unless there was a Camera. Other than that sorry for your loss and Wish you luck finding the killer.
WhatsAfterThisPlace 1 year ago
You should call America"s most wanted
herstome5656 1 year ago
sad
samuraininja021 1 year ago
Beatiful!!!! We need to get our voices together! I had chills listening. I lost my duaghter at age 19 to a still unsolved murder. Please read about our travels. I will gladly tell yor story wen we are next out on the road in MArch, Maybe we could gather songs/poems, etc for al the unsolved without a voice!!!!!
Zpoet 1 year ago
who ever did this to ur sister doesnt deserve to live...i wish u the best of luck in finding ur sisters killer....im very sorry for your loss
eastlakrayzie 2 years ago
as long as violent people are protected, given a place to live, exercise. eat an protected (from what ?) apart from having people who love to give every killer or violent person all the care in the constitution. the constitution starts out by saying We the People, this people are not us, or people they are predator. You get what you cultivated.
56finlynodak 2 years ago
Im sorry and hope you find some thing out soon.
MonSwon 2 years ago
I'm very sorry for your loss. Your sister was beautiful. No one should ever have to lose their loved one in such a horrific manner. I pray that the guilty party is brought to justice and it's frightening to think that he is walking the streets.
6151RichmondStreet 2 years ago
this choked me up
my condolences for your loss
marc in nyc
silentfades 2 years ago
What a beautiful tribute.
Have contacted the Vidocq Society? They work pro-bono in helping to solve long unsolved murders. Vidocq has even been featured on America's Most Wanted.
ReviewCam 2 years ago
"Too trusting"- what's the world coming to? People who would cut another person into pieces shouldn't be allowed on the streets ever. Animals. RIP Diana +++
Odette321 2 years ago
not trying to be off the wall here..they found her arms in a dumpster?....what about the rest of her?...
Midnightryder7 2 years ago
They never found the remains. SHe was always too trusting of people and eager to make a friend. ALl they need to do is open the case and test the DNA of the remains against all the possible suspects. I have been trying for years to get the case eropened but with budget crunches etc cases like this have been tossed into a box at the bottom of some basement somewhere in the hall of records. RIP Di.
west7productions 2 years ago
I'm studying to be a private detective,so if this case ever comes around I'd be happy to solve it for you.
Sonicthebandicoot 2 years ago
I wish solving 17 year old murder was that simple, but the horribly inaccurate police work on the part of tucson detectives, as well as no solid help from anyone who cared about her, the case has little chance of ever being solved. I have solid suspects, and they have the arms, that they could DNA test easily then profile the DNA against that of everyone involved, but that requires that they would even reopen the case.
west7productions 2 years ago
It could be.I'm sure there's ben a story of an even older case that got solved. So don't lose hope yet.
Sonicthebandicoot 2 years ago
@west7productions Tucson cops are too busy harassing innocent civilians to spend time solving crimes.
ReligiousZombie 1 year ago
the frustrating thing is that they have closed Diana's case, technically. I have tons of infiormation about possible suspects but it is hard to get them to do anything about it. Even taking the remains that were found, could yield enough DNA to at least give us some idea of who the killers arent. rip DI.
west7productions 2 years ago
ide just like to say ver very insanly sorry for you and i know how it feals my grampa died so ya and i really hope your ok
bowman8787 2 years ago
So very sorry for your loss. Your tribute brought tears. Beauty from devastation .. what an awful price to pay.
My reason for writing is selfish; it is my hope you will understand, and perhaps assist me. My son was shot and died as a result. You took bold steps in your tribute .. and I wish to take similar steps. However, my goal is to raise public & press awareness of the circumstances surrounding the shooting.
With kindness,
TLC
The only way out is through
tlc4will 2 years ago
How devastating to discover your daughter is dead, mainly because of her severed arms. Ignore the village idiots like that Casey person. I'm sure you have good reason to suspect the ones named. My prayers are with the entire Vicari family, and all those who loved Diana.
mafaldacrumbwitty 2 years ago
Great and moving song and beautiful dedication !
Great Tribute !
I'm very sorry for your loss....
Thanks for share Rajesh !
Tadek59 2 years ago
2:01........who is that in the lower pic on the piece of newspaper?
acerb45666555 2 years ago
and his son Kenneth Jr., 22, a corrections officer, who is accused of tossing the bottle. They had been able to hunt down Groff—or so they thought—because of Megan's Law. "This law didn't stop no crime," Vicari says. "It created crime. And what if I'd been killed? I got two children of my own. What would Megan's Law have done for them? Nothing."
IS THIS WHAT YOU THINK MAKES YOUR NAME FAMOUS? IF SO CAN'T YOU SEE WHAT FALSE ACCUSSATIONS CAN DO TO PEOPLE? YOU ARE SLANDERING SEVERAL MEN.
CASEYFAN001 2 years ago
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rblwoaclu 2 years ago
black ski mask. "You're Michael Groff—you're a child molester," the man growled as he began punching and kicking Vicari.
When the dust settled and the police arrived, it became clear that Vicari had been the victim of a botched vigilante attack. Charged with burglary, assault, conspiracy and criminal mischief in the incident were the Handys' neighbors 52-year-old carpenter Kenneth J. Kerekes—who had allegedly been wearing the ski mask—
CASEYFAN001 2 years ago
Pennsylvania truck driver Tom Vicari would be the first to agree. When the heat failed in his Allentown apartment, he and his fiancée, Barbara Keller, spent the night of Jan. 9 with her cousin John Handy in nearby Phillipsburg, N.J. The couple bunked on a living-room sofa, sharing quarters with 25-year-old Michael Groff, Handy's live-in nephew, who slept on the floor. At about 1:30 a.m., Vicari, 41, drifted off to sleep.
Forty-five minutes later he was set upon by a burly intruder wearing a
CASEYFAN001 2 years ago
By the way you proudly mention the name Vicari was already famous for a very bad reason---what reason? What else has your family done?
CASEYFAN001 2 years ago
How can you just slander these mens names when clearly they cannot ALL be guilty? How would you like someone to make a You Tube site and say DEBBIE VICARI COULD BE A CHILD KILLER---MAYBE---DEBBIE COULD BE A HOOKER---MAYBE----HEY MAYBE YOUR SISTER WAS KILLED BY HER PIMP....HOW ABOUT I MAKE A WEB SITE SAYING THAT? How about I make a web site saying she died because she was a drug dealer? WOULD THAT BE OK? I think you are a complete BITCH for making a web site and naming people as you did.
CASEYFAN001 2 years ago
Mmm, have something to hide, Casey?
mafaldacrumbwitty 2 years ago
Cannot imagine what you and your family must be going through and my thoughts are with you.
imaliberal 2 years ago
Someday, somehow, the killer would be caught.....I'm sorry for ur loss.....the case maybe unsolved in this world...but i know he'll get his punishment from Allah of al his sins...maybe we're diff religion, but my prayer are with her....
May her soul in peace....
MeemeeMao 2 years ago
Your prayer is beautiful and I love it. What religion one is doesn't matter to me. That we have a God by any name and that he loves us and cares for us and we can pray to him for strength for us and others is what personally matters to me and that you are so kind as to do this for me and my family and sister is beautiful. Your words and kindness helps. Blessings love and thanks to you. I think we are really more the same than different.
Thank you again,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 2 years ago
@ladysongbird32 Girl spoken so wonderfully.... God may not come when you want him to, but he'll be there RIGHT ON TIME! Keep the faith, NEVER give up if you know in your heart. Justice be it in this life or the next is going to happen.
janika1105 10 months ago
I am very touched by your sweet memorial video of your loved one. I pray someone will be brave & come forward with information soon. God is so good; without Him carrying me, I would be lost. May Almighty God cont. to carry you too.
It might be too painful for us to go through
the trial.
sweetpea027 2 years ago
I'm vry sorry for your loss..
RIP
sesshoumaru8181 2 years ago
Thank you so very much.. It truly does mean a lot.
Love and blessings
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 2 years ago
I am sorry for your loss.
R.I.P From Denmark
shorteylove 2 years ago
Thank you very, very much from our entire family. It warms our heart sthat so many would come forward and bring their kindness to us this way as you have. It really is touching. Thank you.
Blessings and love and again, sincere thanks to you and yours,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 2 years ago
You're welcome. I hope you are going trough this fine, even if its hard.
shorteylove 2 years ago
R.I.P from Canada
smiles1972 2 years ago
Thank you so very, very much.
Your kindness and love touches our hearts tremendouslly.
Blessings and love from our family to yours.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 2 years ago
if there was a reason for the death penalty, this is it!! Good luck to you and your family. I hope you get the closeure you need. She was a beautiful young lady, she would have been pretty close to my age now, I was 22 in '92. I wouldnt know how to react....
TheRosettaStoned 2 years ago
I think you pretty much hit it on the head. I didn't know how to react either. Pretty much a numb state of being for quite some time. I just did. I was 23 when Di was murdered. As for the death penalty, I have given up with the politics of justice because it leads to too many arguments and only fight to keep dangerous crimnals off the streets so that less people are hurt. Sad but true statement. Thank you for your kind statement. I love what you wrote.
Love and blessings
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 2 years ago
my prayers are with you, trust God!
pedroinTemecula 2 years ago
Thank you so much for your prayers. The power of prayer truly can work miracles. Thank you for your beautiful words and thoughts.
Blessings and love from our family to yours.
May God bless you and be with you,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 2 years ago
it was a such a privilige to listen to your song. I lost a friend who was like a sister to me. I am 100 percent sure she was murdered. They closed down the investigation though
Blessings to you and Diana and blessings to my friend Eva-Marie.
mirika888 3 years ago
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend Eva-Marie. I hear of so many cases where it likely was a murder but it is closed as something other than. These are very frustrating situations. I am so sorry. Initially when Di was missing I assure you we were told that she was likely a runaway like everyone else is told. It is hard to get anyone's attention. My prayers and condolences are with you and your Eva-Marie.
Thank you for your kind words
Love and blessings
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 2 years ago
I am sure that the personn who did that to your sister will pay it a 1000 times harder. all my thinking for you and your family, she was gorgeous.
pascaloune24 3 years ago
I'm sorry for your loss. I understand how you feel. I had a cousin almost 26 years old who committed suicide almost 3 months ago and I never knew why she did it. I've spent the last few months screaming at myself wondering why. When what you love gets taken from you, all you want is to know is the truth. You have my condolence through this tragedy. Be strong for your sister and for your love ones.
RIP Diana
Love from Boston, MA
asianboiXXX 3 years ago
Hi,
First, Thank you for your kind words about my sister. Very appreciated, and you are right, it is so hard not knowing. The mind keeps going in circles. Next I want to offer my deepest condolences to you and to your family for the loss of your cousin. I once spoke to someone that went through a loved one's suicide and she mentioned the hardest thing was having nowhere to be angry except with the one she loved and miss so much which was devastating to her. Be well & Love and blessings to you.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss!<'3
Rest in peace Diana...
Love from Norway!
Heidi2710 3 years ago
Thank you so very much, your kindness is felt and truly appreciated.
Love from the US
Debbie Vicari - Diana's sister
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
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Heidi2710 3 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss and I hope, one day, you and your family will find some peace until you all meet again.
<3
Chastrie 3 years ago
Thank you so very much, I am hoping we will :) Your kindness is truly appreciated.
Love and blessings,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I know this may sound horrific, but the two days that my Mom was searching for Diana, she just kept saying to me and praying to God, "please God, if we don't find Di, please let us find her body, let us find something, something so we know, don't let us be left in the dark." I see people with missing loved ones and my heart breaks for them. We went through hell, but at least we know. Now I am crying. I wish she were here. Blessings and love,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I can only imagine the week your family went through. And I am so glad it turned out the way it did. Thank you for sharing your story with me. You do know a huge part of what we went through because in those days a loved one is missing you imagine everything. Our minds prepare for the worst.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I know this may sound horrific, but the two days that my Mom was searching for Diana, she just kept saying to me and praying to God, "please God, if we don't find Di, please let us find her body, let us find something, something so we know, don't let us be left in the dark." I see people with missing loved ones and my heart breaks for them. We went through hell, but at least we know. Now I am crying. I wish she were here. Blessings and love,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
RIP Diana. I remember this like it was yesterday, very sad. My mom and her mom worked together at Tucson Medical Center and were very good friends. I still have one of the buttons with her picture as a matter of fact. God Bless.
doopey28 3 years ago
Wow, I am so so sorry to hear about Your loss, Your Angel. A beautiful name. TO think that someone was 20 MINUTES AWAY! But your story DOES give me hope and yes solving a case would bring about some peace for my family. My friend Danielle Parker was just on the news about her Mom's unsolved case also in Tucson, Arizona. It is truly so difficult. Her Mom's name is Gail Parker. I pray she also finds justice. Thank you SO MUCH for the myspace add and the hope. Love and Blessings.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
ok wow this actually made me cry... and making me cry isnt that hard but still good job.
i know how it feeels to lose someone i am related to a gilr who was killed in 1991 in seguin texas her name was Angel and her case was unsolved for 15 years until one day this guy that lived 20 minutes away was found and convicted. he was convicted by a man that was the father of someone that i hated... anyways theres always hope i will help as much as i can... i will add you on myspace...
tyty0blake 3 years ago
I am so sorry to hear about your Angel, What a pretty name! Your story does indeed give me hope and hope to others like me with unsolved murders. I just can't believe the perp was 20 minutes away! How that must have made you feel! Solving this case would resolve many issues in my family's lives. No more looking over my shoulder wondering if the next person I date is that person or if he/they are still casing us. It haunts me. Esp with the gory details. And justice for Di!
Blessings
Deb Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I can't even begin to think what you must be going through.
To lose your sister like that is horrific;and she must have been so frightened.And to still be waiting for justice after all these years..G-d!You are showing immense courage to show this;but it might jog people's minds;memories.Good luck Angel.
tuktukskagal 3 years ago
Thank you so much Tuks. It really is a lot. The recent resolution that the Walsh family got gives hope to families like mine. It really does. It also in some ways gives us permission to talk about the fact that there is always a hole until resolution comes. I know nothing will bring Di back but an answer could make me not afraid to talk to prospective dates, to walk down the street without wondering "is it them?" Plus just resoloving the murder. Last thing I can do for my sister. Luv to U TUKS!
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
This is so horrible. My love goes out to you and your family. The worst is not knowing who did it. There's no closure. Damn him to hell. If this life time doesn't get him Karma eventually will. Trust me.
marwarre 3 years ago
Thank you so very much for your words, They do mean a lot and I do appreciate them. We all do. It has been hard.Usually things are just fine. Most of the the time in fact but it gets to me and us at times... and at those times it helps when people like you reach out. So thank you. :) Love and blessings to you too.
Deb Vicari.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I meant every word You, your family & especially your sister are in my prayers. Never give up. Please have a good Christmas and know your sister is with you My story is different than yours,in a nutshell... once in my life was a really horrible man. He got away with so many horrible things. The last days of his life were very painful and he was scared of dying because he knew he did wrong. I'm sure he's paying for it now and so WILL the man that hurt your sister. My loves with you Deb.
marwarre 3 years ago
Thank you again and I am so sorry for what happened to you. Thank you for sharing it with me. It seems you have dealt with it really well. In general I really do too. I just have my days :) I hope you have an absolutely wonderful Christmas too :)
Blessings and love and Happy Holidays :)Thanks again.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Anytime Deb:) I don't mind sharing it. We have to talk about it...It's been 20 yrs for me and it only feels like yesterday. The man I was speaking of was my father. He's passed and hasn't moved on (I know this but another story )probably because God won't let him. He's in misery for his own doings forever on the other side and so will that bastard get his for what he did to your innocent sister. Keep in touch
Love Marcy
marwarre 3 years ago
This is so incredibly tragic. I am so sorry for you and your family having to endure such horror. I have just one word for the person who did this - "KARMA". Thinking outside the box, have you had any dreams about Diana? Sometimes valuable information comes through dreams, cases HAVE been solved that way. As odd as that may sound. Whatever it takes, you know what I mean? Closure for Diana as well. Perhaps EVP would bring new information. Worth a try. Blessings.
beach90265 3 years ago
That is very interesting... When My Mom was alive she used to have dreams about Di but I haven't. Perhaps I wasn't open to it. Maybe I will open myself up to it. I hadn't thought of it. It is a good idea. Thank you so much for your kind words :) Even after all of this time, closure really would be nice. Blessings and thanks.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
You're right about dreams being the key to a murder,or any other case.EVP too.
Ihearyoucalling 3 years ago
Thank you for that affirmation,. I will open up to it for sure :)
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I cry everytime i see this. I couldn't imagine the pain. She was a beautiful women. But she is in a better place. No one can hurt her again. The people that hurt you sister should face a consequence worse than death. God Bless You. You will get through this because love will always be stronger and your sister is with you every day. Once again God Bless You
Mathwiz921 3 years ago
Thank you so very much. That means a lot. It makes it nice somehow to know that others care too. So your words comfort. I do feel her and when people like you say such beautiful things in a way it makes me feel like a piece of her is with me at that moment. So thank you. Blessings and love to you and may God bless you.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Im sorry for your loss.
I hope they catch that bastard.
Watch some of my weird videos,maybe it'll bring laughter and a smile to your face!
Ihearyoucalling 3 years ago
Thank you so much :) I truly appreciate your kindness. I will defnitely check out your videos. Laughter has been a HUGE part of what has gotten me through the tragedy. So weird videos are WAAAAY up my alley! Thank you for your kind words and your wonderful weird videos bringing the world laughter :)
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Your story brought tears to my eyes.This is truly a sick world we live in.
Ihearyoucalling 3 years ago
Thank you so much for caring. The world is defnitely crazy. Both sick and beautiful at the same time. From my sister's murder I have found both extremes. I have been thrown into the worst hell yet met the most incredible people I could have ever believed existed. The trick is to remember that normal days are still the norm. But not to forget that this does happen. It's sometimes hard to do. Thank you so much for reaching out, It means a lot. Blessings and love.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
im so sorry, my god your pain i wish i could say things will get better but i would be lying..your sister is okay now..she's with you everyday,,
aimeerenee2 3 years ago
Thank you so much for your beautiful and kind words. I do believe she is. God bless you for giving me such a gift of kindness :)
Love and blessings,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
once they find the murderer you should make them expirience what your sister did.
lololzak 3 years ago
You know, I would be dishonest if I said I had not thought about how I wished that upon this person or persons on many many occasions. Now that my Dad has finally started talking about it he has said it is the hardest thing he will do, not taking vengeance himself. His faith keeps him from doing so, at least he hopes. He hurts. We all do. But again, destruction must end somewhere and love must begin. Love WILL win. It is stronger. Thank you again so much and may God bless you.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Have you submitted this story to AMW or Cold Case Files? I really pray for your family. I think about the case and the fact that not only was your sister murdered, but the killer is still out there. And I agree with your position on the polygraph. Those things work on the notion that a guilty party has remorse or fear of being caught. Serial killers lack both, so passing a polygraph is a walk in the park for them. This has all the markings of a serial killer, but one on the move.
awd3atms 3 years ago
I haven't yet but I will find out the proper steps to do so and I will do that. It is a good idea. Thank you so much. IF the guy they initially convictied is actually the one, not only is he the killer he is free and on the streets. I am going to do a video soon introducing myself on camera. I will give info the public hasn't ever had. It's time to give it all out. I just can't hold back anymore. People should be safe. My safety at the expense of others. It doesn't compute.
Thank you again.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
This is really a terrible incident.
It must be, that the murder falls into a trap. There must be justice. The murder should have a heavy punishment. He destroyed not only your sister's live, but also the lives of her family.
I hope and pray for an honest judgement, so you can come to terms with your sorrow.
God bless you.
Coby
cobyvanbreda 3 years ago
Thank you so much Coby and you are so right. In fact, an amazing thing happened yesterday. I talked to my Dad yesterday and I ended up writing a paper this morning I think I will read on a video I may do and upload here tonight or tomorrow. I titled it, "My Dad woke up today". I think he cried for the first time in nearly 16 years. For the first time I heard the Dad I knew before my sister's murder. I never thought I would see him again. Thanks for your kindess and may God Bless you.
D. Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I'll spread it around, good luck!
yankeesangel03 3 years ago
Thank you so very much, I truly appreciate that!
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
You are more then welcome!
yankeesangel03 3 years ago
also, just to say lie detector is not reliable at all! i'm sure detectives involved in this case are watching this teacher - they do not let "off the hook" potential maniac - base on some lie detector..no no! they are watching all creeps you mentioned - its a long waiting game. but it will and for good..
StasiaD14 3 years ago
Thank you so much. I truly hope so! It seems ludicrous to me to let a simple lie detector allow someone off the hook. He seemed to me to be the most likely suspect being the one tha had an actual tie with a possible motice. However I will say the detective truly bel;eives it is Lemuel Prion. And I have the UTMOST repsect for the detective. Others think it is still PRion as well. We will soon see. I need to call the and see the status of th DNA. I think I will call this morning. TY so much! DV
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
beautiful eyes she has..! it is good that you are still searching - sooner or later - he will be found! they always do some mistake that brings them to justice. no exception - he will fail too!
StasiaD14 3 years ago
Thank you again.. so much. I most certainly hope so. Though the years pass and the pain fades.. we always do want answers and though the word "closure" is a term that is sort of media used primarily, some type of answer would help. The murderer behind bars would make me feel safer. I hate living not knowing if I am going to run into the person. It's not fair. It really isn't. Why am I living in a prison walking the streets? This is not justice. TY again so much and God bless you. Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Hope you can find some release from your troubles soon and the person that comitted this horrific crime is made to pay,hard to believe that these kind of people are out there but they are, don't let him destroy more lives by neglecting your own,I am sure Diana would not want that for you. I mean this in the kindest way, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS from all your IRISH FRIENDS.
jessieok 3 years ago
Thank you so very much. Incredibly beautiful words and I shall heed them. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kindess and obvious caring. And may God bless you and yours as well.
Debbie vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
aaww! thts soo sad! but its very nice of u 2 write a song 4 her!
remi721 3 years ago
Thank you so much. The song poured out to a chord progression already in existence when I was practicing to sing at a pomc vigil 3 months after my sister's arms were found in a dumpster in Tucson. Then later in 2000 when I started to do music as a vocation Luis Payron asked me if I had ever written a song and I mentioned I had written lyrics and a melody to this. He said that was writing. The song has helped others who lost people. So here it is. It kind of wrote itself.
Thank you again,
DV
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
amazing
fredjhenzel 3 years ago
Thank you so much
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Super song and singing and wonderful cause!! God bless you and yours!!!
oldcountrytunes 3 years ago
Thank you so very much and May God Bless You
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
We are every one with you and you're familiy.
God bless her soul.One day he will give in him self because God will push him in to that.
NUSRPKINA 3 years ago
Thank you so very much. I pray that is the case and I think you may be right. God makes miracles happen. May he bless you and all you love.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
GOD BLESS, Her Soul & Your Family!
rebelstang 3 years ago
Thank you so so much and May he bless you and yours as well.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Our society at large STILL disrespects women.
Through popular culture and especially ponography, women are disrespected now more than EVER before. The womans movement is DEAD!
Men are encouraged to be misogynists.
Woman are THINGs to be used then thrown away.
So many men are raised hating women as NOTHING more than SEX objects.
Awareness of this HAS to be RAISED.
So sorry. She looked like a beautiful human being. GOD bless her and your family.
conservamom 3 years ago
Thank you so much. It is a very difficult world to live in. After my sister's murder I found out about a particular type of pornograpjhy that included dsimemberment. There was a serial dismemberment case where a guy was caught and afterward he had this type of porn in his possesion. We do need to be careful of what exists. You make some very good points. It is just hard to know where the line is. Thank you and thank you for your kind words about my sister.
May God bless you.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Thank you. I could not even begin to know completely understand what you have had to go through, all I can do is imagine. I also think as responsible woman we need to start a movement that really addresses these issues that impact us in everyday life.
I heard just the other day that now that some children are entering relationships as young as 10yrs old, little girls at even earlier ages are getting emotional and yes physically abused! NOT acceptable!
WE need to educate boys and girls earlier.
conservamom 3 years ago
Thank you so so much. One day I hope to make it to the UK. Such loving people there. My mother's side of the family is English and Irish. With all of the love coming from there I can see where she got it from. Thank you so much for your most kind sentiments.
Sincerely and with blessings,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I almost cried listening to that song and watching the video. Wish you all the luck of the world and hopes the guilty man gets to pay for this.
MetalcoresuxNsodoU 3 years ago
Thank you so much for your beautiful and kinf words.. Even I cry still watching the video. And I lived it. And I sing the song. But I put th pohoto of my sister at the end for a reason. Because I imagine her sleeping peacefully until I see her again. But it still makes me cry. I too hooe the guilty man pays for this. Your emotion and kindness touches my heart.
Thank you and may God bless you.
Sincerely,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Blessings for you too, sister. I am surprised you can sound so peaceful ,even after such event.I'd be shattered and I'd hate everyone, even God.
MetalcoresuxNsodoU 3 years ago
Hmmm, well first , thank you again for the blessings :) Second it has been almost sixteen years. Time helps, it allows for introspection. I chose to live and I do believe in God. I also beleive in humankind. Look at all the comments on this page. How can I not? One person cannot destroy the beautfy in this world. I choose to see what is still beautiful. My sister was one of them and so are many of those commenting. You are. I thank you for saying that though. And thank you for being part of it
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
That's quite positive and I'm impressed by it .Best wishes!
MetalcoresuxNsodoU 3 years ago
Thank you, and best wishes to you as well :)
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
god bless your sister. no mercy for her killer.
911TRUTHINATOR 3 years ago 2
Thank you so very much and may God bless you and all of those you love as well.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Accept my condolence for you're sister.And God wiil punish them and find them who killed you're sister.
NUSRPKINA 3 years ago
Thank you so very much, I do beleive God takes care of things, he does tend to them in his time. Thank you so very much and blessings to you.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Thank you so very much for your kind words and condolences. My family and I thank you. May God be with you and bless you as well.
Sincerely,
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
It might be helpful to post pictures if you have any of anyone that is suspected in this crime. People often change their names to avoid to getting caught.
sorry for your loss.
3swelldogs3 3 years ago
That is an excellent Idea, I was trying to figure out a way to add a new video with more information. I have a minor surgery first thing tomorrow and won't be back for a day or two. Once I am feeling ok from it I will get newspaper clippings back and if I can find anything from anyone I will do that. I will also talk to the old PI and the detective. Thank you so much for the idea. This is hard to do but means too much to me not to do it. Excellent advice. Thanks again so much.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
you're welcome...I will keep you in my thoughts and if I think of anything else I'll post a comment. I remembered that particular one because of that program with the missing children guy...they used to say that all the time about people changing their names.
3swelldogs3 3 years ago
I very much appreciate that, thank you again :)
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
So very sad...may God comfort your heart and may justice be done and the killer caught so you can have some closure..peace
peacechild61 3 years ago
Thank you so very much. Blessings and May God be with you.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Shit man i just don`t know what to say.I am sorry for your loss, and i hope the murderer is caught!And i am sure your sister is looking over you and your family.
maxi4492 3 years ago
I am so sorry that you have to go through this loss and no sign of closure. May the murderer be caught and justice done
irishxxkelt 3 years ago
Thank you so so much irishxxkelt. We are hoping and prayig for closure and I think this is going to help us get it. Your kind words and wishes mean so much. Your taking the time to write them down here is most appreciated. Thank you so very much!
Blessings to you and yours.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
You have given me and my family a beautiful gift. Thank you for that. And thank you for thinking of my beautiful sister Diana. I do miss her. There are many like her and I don't pretend she is any better than the many that are murdered and in situations similar to hers but she is one of them and it would be nice to get answers. October 24th will be 16 years. I thank you and my wonderful brothers and sisters in Great Brittain. From the bottom of my heart. God bless you all.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Reading what happened to her sickens me to the pit of my somach. I hope that one day her family might find justice and closure. God bless.
britishboy7 3 years ago
Thank you so very much. I just recently spoke to my other sister Angie and my brother Brian who still live in Tucson Arizona. My Mom has already passed away in 2000 and my father is very ill so I haven't told him of the recent DNA. My brother is hopefull as is my sister. We have not given up. Your support means a lot to us. Thank you so much.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Thanks for sending on. Blessings,
Jim
JimQualls 3 years ago
Thank you so much Jim.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
There is so much evil in this world. So many psychos are loose in our society.
Makes you wonder about the people you see everyday on the street!
skeetereze 3 years ago
I lost my sister unexpectedly also. You have my sympathy and respect. This is a great song. God rest her soul.
lookhearsee 3 years ago
Thank you so very much and I am so so sorry to hear of your sisters untimely demise. My deepest sympathy and sorrow. May she rest in peace and may God bless you.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Thank you, to lose a loved one under any circumstance is tragic, but to lose you sister and not know who did it must be torture. I admire your dedication to her memory and your quest for justice. God bless you in your efforts. Sincere regards.
lookhearsee 3 years ago
Thanks for sharing this. My condolences.
Will pass it on. Wish you the best of luck for closure on this ordeal.
jefeisdguard 3 years ago
THank you so much jefeisdguard. I appreciate both the condolences and your passing it on. I truly feel answers will come with more people passing the word. My most sincere thanks. Blessings.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
I'm very sorry for what happened to your sister. Dont' give up the search. I pray justice comes to you and your family.
gnrlusr8 3 years ago
Thank you so very much. Your prayers and those of others I truly beleive are what is going to bring finality. The kindness I have seen here has brought me to tears and has brought me some renewed faith. I just can't thank the people here enough. Thank you so so much.
May God Bless you
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Hi, Yes I would also like to offer my deepest condolences for the loss of your dear sister, my thoughts and prayers are with you.Thanks
1kewldude3 for this deeply moving video.
Travers54 3 years ago
Thanks for sharing this, I will pass it on to my friends too.
LadySongBird32, no one could ever imagine what you are going through, I am so sorry for your loss, but know this, Diana is at peace now and in a better place. God Bless You.
CHIEFINFIDEL 3 years ago
Thank you so very much Chief. Your words,kindness and blessings are very appreciated. She is in a better place. I suppose it is I that is selfish and misses her. But the thought crosses my mind about who is out there still hurting others. Now that DNA exists I can't just sit back. It's tough. And I do miss her. I only let it in sometimes. Thank you for your beautiful kindness. May God Bless you.
Debbie Vicari
ladysongbird32 3 years ago
Beautiful song.
bonnyfrombrum 3 years ago
Thank you so much.
ladysongbird32 3 years ago