I have heard the "what black men want" thing before and it somewhat disgusts me. Why do they think it is okay to put all of us black women into these boxes that make us seem angry, ghetto, and mad? I for one am a college grad, have no kids, and am on my way to law school. Black men need to stop bashing us and making it seem like we are inferior to other races because we wear weaves and are opinionated. All women, no matter color wear makeup and hair extensions..not just black women.
Just watched some of your hair reviews and this one. All I can say is I like your attitude April. I don't see nothing wrong with black women attitude because if we accept anything, we'll lose everything. Love the real talk. Keep up the vids :)
Black men dont want woman with bad attitudes, black men dont want Diva's like you, what a black man wants from a woman is what any man wants from a woman
Yeah guys are crazy. I know this girl she is 23 and i guess her guy is also and he gives her 30 dollars and runs around saying "i take care of mine. But every time his four year old "son" calls him he never answers. He never wants to spend anytime with him. Why dont men take care of their kids they make it seem like their doing them a favor. Like they made them crazy.
Yes...very true. I keep hearing that black men are feed up with our attitudes and aggression, when they made us like that. Let me tell u i hadnt dated black men for eight years and met my boyfriend and I was drawn...and he pulled me in. Now I remember one of reasons why I didnt. Black men can only see what you can do for them many times, and just take It is like having a two year old sayin giveme all the time.
Ask yourselves what exactly do yall bring to the table? Usually not much.
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@machaud1 You need to calm that crap down. She doesn't need to shut up, you need to find yourself another video to watch with your badass attitude. Her attitude is diva and her gap adds to beauty and individuality, while you go around on youtube videos making a straight up ass out of your damn self with some immature 11 year old nonsense.
I thought u was supposed to be addressing wat black men wants but it seemed like u turned it all around back to wat black women want..I love black women but i will not deal with a black woman like you...first of all the ciggarette is not sexy!!And you talk too much..black women like dont want a real man you want a push over to push over till u cant push him no more....Once again I love black women just not loud mouf black women!!
Yes, ya on point with this shit. However, I don't feel color has much to do with why men act like it. My Husband is black and I'm white(although ya couldn't tell lol). He don't be treatin me like a queen just cause I'm a "white chick."
If the dude's guna treat ya like shit, he's guna treat ya like shit. He got the bad bones in him already, reguardless of color.
But anyway, I LOVE ya realtalk videos. You make great points!... Now I'm bout to watch more lol :)
Hey april I just watched your video and you are so right. This man Im dealing with is giving me hell and cant understand anything other than himself and his own feelings. You should so have your own talk show.
I truely feel that the only way that a relationshio is going to work is if you have God in life. A man and a woman must pray together then you both the needs will be taken care of. Also its not want a person wants is what a person needs.
In my opinion the problem between men and women period is still communication. We are to balance each other out and deny self. It is and should be my pleasure that my woman is pleased and needs are met, never mind myself. On the same token, a women should deny herself and and focus on her man's needs(not what she thinks he likes). A man should not focus on what he thinks she likes but instead ask then act accordingly.
..saying that there aren't black men out there that deserve credit and "father of the year awards",but this whole "BLACK WOMEN ARE SO MEAN AND BITTER" gig is old. No one ever considers the fact that there are alot of black women out there who are being done wrong by men(esp their black men) and are left to raise children on their own with little or no help at all. I feel like you actions should speak for you,not your words. If you are a good man(black or not),it will show and....
Amen!!! Preach Sista Preach! In my opinion, instead of some of these black men pointing the finger and talking about what they want, they should try to put themselves in the shoes of what a black woman wants. Stop putting yourself on a pedal stool and thinking that your mere $80 of child's support a month should win you the "best father/black man of the year" award and start working on yourself as a man. If a man wants to pass me up for another race,then by all means do what you do. I'm not...
5 minutes of my life waiting for you to talk about what the title is.nice video but your intro sort off bores your viewers, considering people decide whether they want to stay and watch your video during the first minute of it. to me you look beautiful without make up and wig so i think you shoulld start the video earlier next time. but i love it. lol.
( coughing ) Girl you blew the smoke in my face ! Jking Your videos make me feel like I am sitting at the table talking with you. I don't have kids,I am in college,and I am a goody two shoes. Black guys still will dis my types of black female,because I am too goody goody. I don't know what the hell they want. They ask do I drink ? They don't want to good ones either. I never put black guys down,or aleast not in their face. I always remind them that I am the good one.
girl i like you. Im a man an i see some of the shit we do thank god i was tought how to treat a woman an i dont see nun wit weave. shit i put weve in my shit time to time.
how can i put this i cant stand judgemental ppl like u if thats her perference then thats her wat she got on is none of ur business or mines and i notice u put all five of her kids came from "MEN" of the same thug calibre.......u are just another dumb ass person wit to much time of ur hands who cares like i said if thats wat she likes than thats her and this is her opinion u A** dont watch it dummy if u dont like it!!!!!!!!!!! I CANT STAND PPL LIKE YOU UGH GET A LIFE U A**WIPE
Im feeling u on this, muffin. Im the type of girl that gives my black man 100% and get nothin in return. they are all starting to act alike. Im sick of it. I dont ever want to give up on finding a good black man, but I have thought about taking a time out, u know?
I'm white and I have dated black men. But I've a lot of black women friends also. If a black man says something like black women do this or that. I won't let them disrespect black women in front of me. I tell them white and other women wear fake hair, wear plenty of makeup, get boob implants, collagen lip injections, tan, etc..I got hair extensions now. Almost everybody add stuff to their outside or make changes. I look at it like we're all human beings and black women are my sisters.
@BWABIESD1 I almost appreciate that but I have to be honest I feel a certain way about that...being white you cannot be truly passionate about defending the black woman and think you are out of line
April, You are a friend in my head! I watch you every week and it really lift's my spirits. I laugh, I cry and I learn something new everytime you are on. Keep doin yo thang Diva!
Oh & also (lol, see thats why they be sick of me) black men be havin the nerve 2 look at u side ways & give the dirtiest looks if they see a black woman w/a man of a different race. It's crazy! Many black men neglect they kids & they woman & get mad when someone of another color knows how to take care of us. I love black men but my husband is cuban. Yeah he got his issues too, but I'll tell anybody I love him 4 him & I never have 2 remind him that me & these kids come 1st (1 of which is not his)
I feel you on this! I've been told by black men before that I'm to outspoken and independent. I tell em like this, if men was takin care of they familys, black women wouldnt have to be mommy and daddy. Thats why I feel we like we are. You gotta be strong to survive. If a dude don't like it he need to take the time to prove that he got our backs so we can take a deep breath and relax. Be the women they God made us to be and not the men these boys r not bein.
Girrrrrllll tell it like it tis!!!! I like how u keep it real on ur vids! Ur right, its always bout what they want, like they're only one's on earth. Men may be stronger physically (SOME), but women are mentally stronger, an again SOME! Cause some of them act like they ain't got the sense God gave them either!
In addition, after you TAKE CAREof them like you said..they STAY ungreatful. Always say they want something and they dont! ..We are STRONG, as soon as we can "Hold it down" on our own..they feel they are not needed! As you said..they need to think about what they reallly want before they start making complaints!
I am over here clapping like im at service lolol! Thats right and can we add that BLACK MEN ..successful black man think just because we are black women we are trying to get them for their money...you being successful is NOT rare anymore ok! We are succeeding every day!....
i would have to agree with you April. . .i have met SOO many BLACK MEN who say "oh i don't want a woman with kids" but they ass have kids or they take a white woman with her kids. . .it's like are you serious??? especially out here in cali. . .that's all here is black women bashing. . .and it does hurt a bit cuz i looove me some black men. ..but its like damn dude you have to have some type of respect for black women your mom, grandma n greatgrandma is black
Girl I had that happen to me. I was with a dude for 4 years..he told me he had 2 kidz! Cool' I love kids lets roll. Girl but 4 years later I got pregnantt had my baby and found out this motherfucka had 5 kidz and now 7 including mine and his new baby. Dropped him with the quickest and have recieved a grand total of...(drum roll please).....$221.19 in the past 2 1/2 years. What the fuck is up with that shit!!??! But I'm good cause SHAWTY GOT HER OWN!!! LOL
that is what happened to my girlfriend she was going to marry this black man and a day before the wedding his wife called and said he was married and he had 5 other kids besides the ones my girlfriend knew about which were 3 more crazy girl
I agree with you April! I love black men too but they do get on my nerves when they are always nagging about what they want from a black woman. What about our needs? Oh yeah I will check out those 2 websites.
Girl i feel u cuz i got one thats pays 150 a month n bills and i pay 800 plus buy food plus buy stuff for my baby and things for my house and thats a month 4 me and he thinks were equal..i mean i have a job and all but shit i can do bad all by myself...Its crazy cuz i told him monday that we aint workin out and he has to pack his shit and go bacc to his mama house and suck her tities dry cuz im done
Damn! April, you gave them the business! I've been saying the same thing. They give themselfs too much credit for the random things they do. (then holla I take care of my kids)
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i feel u April. i hate the fact that black men bash us but when the shit goes left we are always there for the them holding them down. we take care of the kids and even keep there butts around when they are broke and down and out. we love and care for them even when they don't deserve it. gosh it is a shame that they have such high standards when half of them are not even worth shit. i am single and i plan on staying that way if a man can't except me for who i am and what i have screw him
You my girl. You are so right. We always have to hear what our men want and try and be their everything. But they don't try to do anything for us. We always have to play the role they want us to play. And then when we get tired and stand up for ourselves. Tthey try and throw in our faces that's why they go the other way. Our race is the only race that does not truly value their women for the most part. (There are some exceptions) You are a strong sista who has her s*@t together.Peace girl.
Diva, you hit it right on the head. I was at work and I was just berated by a BLACK man that was mad at his baby momma.....I had to tell him, hold on FOOL, I aint her and I got my own nigga to deal with so if you is mad at her then you need to deal with that. He was mad about the guess what......child support amt.......siiigh
i think you spoke for us all diva ... you from queeens and im from bx and we see the bullshit first hand not saying it doesnt happen anywhere else but it seems like ny men is the worse well some of them love the hair diva
tell it girl..either step you game up or stfd..im so sick of these so-called men..then they wonder why females always making songs about them not being shh..
If their was a damn petition for us Divas to sign so you can have longer time girl I would def sign it first! You took the words right outta my mouth! Loved it loved loved it, get em girl!
A lot of black men are really little boys so they don't know how to function as a man. Us women learn to do what we gotta do especially when kids are involved, most of us. But most black boys never make that connection. And a lot of black guys do hide children, I found out my son's dad had a 6 year old a few states away while I was 5months pregnant. These black boys need to grow up. And us women need to leave them alone until they do. Cuz I want a man that has everything you described April!!
Now that's really real talk. I feel everything you've said and men want to complain about us being too strong but, at the same time when they've fallen off are end up in jail they expect for us to hold them down. They need to make up they're minds.
OH HELL!!! you done went and made the african american side of me come out! have my hand up high talkin about PREACH SISTA, PREACH!!! Yes, Amen!!! i could go on but I won't, you summed it up nicely...thank you Diva for this video xoxo
Girl u aint said nothing but the truth!! As much as black get a bad rep and struggled thru time us black woman has been thru the same shit...which is why we are so aggresive. Us black women catch hell no matter what, especially for being strong. April, good topic!!
Girl u aint said nothing but the truth!! As much as black get a bad rep and stuggled thru time us black woman has been thru the same shit...which is why we are so aggresive. Us black women catch hell no matter what, especially for being strong. April, good topic!!
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You got that right most of them are dirty as hell to us and yes, they want us black women to take care they as why their cheap, disrespectful and think we need to settle for less of course were stronger then them. Their the one's first to get a white women and, treat her like a queen , she could be fat as hell and, ugly butt, they love her ass.Oh Well, I got it off!!! appreciated
Preach!!! They always talking about what black men want, what about what we want, do we not matter? Whatever men think like that are fucking lame, I dont know any man that has issues with weave and if a man dont want a woman with kids, his ass better not have any.
U r tooooooo funny. U had me rolling when u said "especially BLACK ASS MEN!". i love dark men as well. I can't get enough of em. And u truly are right. black men shouldnt bash us black women if they have a strong black woman like urself by their side holding down the fort. luv gurl
I think that you are AWESOME, gurl you make my days. I talk about you and your vids all the time to my friends. You would think I know you personally. I really appreciate you getting back to use because you don't have to do it. Thanks so much
LOL.. YU A FOOL..LOVE iT!!. i'VE NEVER HAD A RELATiONSHiP WiT A BLK GUY.. BUT THE FEW THAT i TALKED TOO.. THEY TOLD ME iM TOO OUTSPOKEN... i WAS LiKE WAT THE FUCK YU WANT ME TO BOW DOWN.. i LOVE LOVE LOVE BLK MEN.. THEY ARE SO SEXY. BUT THE CHiLDiSH ASS GAMES AND WANTiN TO RUN SHiT i CANT DEAL WiTH... AND SOME JUST LiE ABOUT THE STUPiDiEST SHiT... LOL
U were on some real stuff here girl, omg, I feel u and agree they dont give us black women credit for the messes we have to clean up because of them. Shoot we are the strongest I think look at everything we have to do. Girl u just speak the truth. Love u n your videos. Keep them coming.
Black Men use that as a excuse to run to another race. He can have kid by a black women and she strugglin but then you will see them out carrying their biracial child on their head. Some black men seem to hate who they are and the race they come from.All the rest of the mess they say about black woman is a smoke screen. Black woman just aint going for no mess. Alot of balck woman have had to be mothers and fathers. i dont really care what a black man wants. he needs to be what I want.
Black men are the last ones to talk about having kids and good jobs. When I attended college the black male attendance was scarce. I work in the medical field and I dont see any black men working there except in janitoial.
Black men cant take a woman who can speak for herself so they try and find a woman who cant so they can feel more manly. Plus, they complain about not letting them be a man. Well learn how to fix something and do some yard work.
I love the eye make up :) More color ^^
amorefly 2 weeks ago
buttsex, where can i buy some
MeAndMyFriends247 2 months ago
I love you! Have you ever thought about doing a makeup tutorial?
DaniFancy 2 months ago
YOU BETTER PREACH and TEACH IT...SISTER! AMEN!!
spainishgirl 4 months ago
I have heard the "what black men want" thing before and it somewhat disgusts me. Why do they think it is okay to put all of us black women into these boxes that make us seem angry, ghetto, and mad? I for one am a college grad, have no kids, and am on my way to law school. Black men need to stop bashing us and making it seem like we are inferior to other races because we wear weaves and are opinionated. All women, no matter color wear makeup and hair extensions..not just black women.
pimpindymepiece 6 months ago
i luv how u b smokin dat cigarette nd cussin it's 2 funni but anyway u tlkin some tru shit!!!!keep up da gud work =)
ijadafields95 7 months ago
Girl!!! Preach!!!
blackbeauty100582 8 months ago
Just watched some of your hair reviews and this one. All I can say is I like your attitude April. I don't see nothing wrong with black women attitude because if we accept anything, we'll lose everything. Love the real talk. Keep up the vids :)
maria8404 1 year ago
I am learning so much about wigs.......and how natural it look.
Rmewfe1 1 year ago
Dayuuuuummmm....You took the words right outta my mouth. Girl, we must be kin.... ;-)
MzChevious1 1 year ago
You look fabulous!!! I learn so much from you about hair and make-up
kishasmrts 1 year ago
I have been saying this same shit for years!! Sisters, find u a white man!
msmonaco426 1 year ago
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Thank god i am not a black man because i don't want to deal with this disgusting things, by the way you're really ugly!
s3dooooooooooooooon 1 year ago
black men want white and asian women fact. so don't think about it too much haha
HARKE90 1 year ago
Black men dont want woman with bad attitudes, black men dont want Diva's like you, what a black man wants from a woman is what any man wants from a woman
MultiSnyderman 1 year ago
Yes, Diva....tell it like it is...
pjames1719 1 year ago
Yeah guys are crazy. I know this girl she is 23 and i guess her guy is also and he gives her 30 dollars and runs around saying "i take care of mine. But every time his four year old "son" calls him he never answers. He never wants to spend anytime with him. Why dont men take care of their kids they make it seem like their doing them a favor. Like they made them crazy.
wishywashygirl19 1 year ago
its funny how light skin girls love black women.
wishywashygirl19 1 year ago
Yes...very true. I keep hearing that black men are feed up with our attitudes and aggression, when they made us like that. Let me tell u i hadnt dated black men for eight years and met my boyfriend and I was drawn...and he pulled me in. Now I remember one of reasons why I didnt. Black men can only see what you can do for them many times, and just take It is like having a two year old sayin giveme all the time.
Ask yourselves what exactly do yall bring to the table? Usually not much.
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asymthought 1 year ago
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fuck fuck fuck shut the fuk up biaaaaaaaaaatch u dont know wat the fuk u on about ur takin about attitude u gt it bitch. gap tooth mofo
machaud1 1 year ago
@machaud1 You need to calm that crap down. She doesn't need to shut up, you need to find yourself another video to watch with your badass attitude. Her attitude is diva and her gap adds to beauty and individuality, while you go around on youtube videos making a straight up ass out of your damn self with some immature 11 year old nonsense.
Dark0Malkavian 1 year ago
Um It's Juicy COUTURE.
Not Juicy Cortee-ae or whatever the fuck you just said.
pepsigirl6 1 year ago
o Shit! I luv uuuu.
Da cigarette & errthin. Dat was Divalicious wow!
GeorgeouxDash 1 year ago
we have to have better jobs? huh. yall got to have a great jobs, just want to use a women.
prissy232 1 year ago 2
I thought u was supposed to be addressing wat black men wants but it seemed like u turned it all around back to wat black women want..I love black women but i will not deal with a black woman like you...first of all the ciggarette is not sexy!!And you talk too much..black women like dont want a real man you want a push over to push over till u cant push him no more....Once again I love black women just not loud mouf black women!!
bangbangslim83 1 year ago
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WAHHAA NIGGERRR!
My18YearOldAcc 1 year ago
Yes, ya on point with this shit. However, I don't feel color has much to do with why men act like it. My Husband is black and I'm white(although ya couldn't tell lol). He don't be treatin me like a queen just cause I'm a "white chick."
If the dude's guna treat ya like shit, he's guna treat ya like shit. He got the bad bones in him already, reguardless of color.
But anyway, I LOVE ya realtalk videos. You make great points!... Now I'm bout to watch more lol :)
MuaJade 2 years ago 2
First time viewing your videos. Love it!
giraffesrule1 2 years ago
stop cussin...geez!
Avalita07 2 years ago
well said diva well said amen!!!!!!
msyannaboo 2 years ago
snaps
SOliloquy890 2 years ago
Dis ere video beez all rayciss n sheit muhfugga, gnomesayin'?
oxthemovie 2 years ago
Keeps da bitchez, gibs me dat JENKEM!
badazzin313 2 years ago
Hey april I just watched your video and you are so right. This man Im dealing with is giving me hell and cant understand anything other than himself and his own feelings. You should so have your own talk show.
charmella26 2 years ago
I truely feel that the only way that a relationshio is going to work is if you have God in life. A man and a woman must pray together then you both the needs will be taken care of. Also its not want a person wants is what a person needs.
jalaibilla 2 years ago 3
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh am watchin all these videos today and you are ON POINNTTT with everything ur sayin TOOOO TRUE!!!!!!
tuaprincessa 2 years ago 5
Love the wig / make up
Ellexis88 2 years ago
In my opinion the problem between men and women period is still communication. We are to balance each other out and deny self. It is and should be my pleasure that my woman is pleased and needs are met, never mind myself. On the same token, a women should deny herself and and focus on her man's needs(not what she thinks he likes). A man should not focus on what he thinks she likes but instead ask then act accordingly.
luvNurkurvS 2 years ago
...a good woman(black or not) will appreciate that.
fiyahmakeupqueen 2 years ago
..saying that there aren't black men out there that deserve credit and "father of the year awards",but this whole "BLACK WOMEN ARE SO MEAN AND BITTER" gig is old. No one ever considers the fact that there are alot of black women out there who are being done wrong by men(esp their black men) and are left to raise children on their own with little or no help at all. I feel like you actions should speak for you,not your words. If you are a good man(black or not),it will show and....
fiyahmakeupqueen 2 years ago
Amen!!! Preach Sista Preach! In my opinion, instead of some of these black men pointing the finger and talking about what they want, they should try to put themselves in the shoes of what a black woman wants. Stop putting yourself on a pedal stool and thinking that your mere $80 of child's support a month should win you the "best father/black man of the year" award and start working on yourself as a man. If a man wants to pass me up for another race,then by all means do what you do. I'm not...
fiyahmakeupqueen 2 years ago
@fiyahmakeupqueen $80??? giirrlll they are crying over $40 LOL
kittykat60621 2 years ago
Your hair and eyes came out good.
leedime 2 years ago
5 minutes of my life waiting for you to talk about what the title is.nice video but your intro sort off bores your viewers, considering people decide whether they want to stay and watch your video during the first minute of it. to me you look beautiful without make up and wig so i think you shoulld start the video earlier next time. but i love it. lol.
BlackMaleRedemption 2 years ago
Thank u. I thought i was the only one that thought she could've left the first part out; or divide this vid into 2 vids.
ayisiennumero1 2 years ago
@ayisiennumero1 lol.
BlackMaleRedemption 2 years ago
Never mind, I saw your reply on another video that you are wearing mascara.
hmmmocha 2 years ago
Do yo have lashes on? If so, what style/number do you have on? You're make-up looks beautiful.
hmmmocha 2 years ago
Girl, gone puff that Newport!
FeistyFeeFee 2 years ago
i absolutely fucking love your videos. i love your wigs, your makeup and your opinions, keep 'em comin, beautiful.
cuppiecakess 2 years ago
PREACH, PREACH SISTA!!! I DIGS U
MsFatty79 2 years ago
( coughing ) Girl you blew the smoke in my face ! Jking Your videos make me feel like I am sitting at the table talking with you. I don't have kids,I am in college,and I am a goody two shoes. Black guys still will dis my types of black female,because I am too goody goody. I don't know what the hell they want. They ask do I drink ? They don't want to good ones either. I never put black guys down,or aleast not in their face. I always remind them that I am the good one.
MarquitaD111 2 years ago 3
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't help but keep responding. Everything you've said is true.
annoitedone831 2 years ago
Girrrrrrrrrrrl you crack me up! Thanks!
annoitedone831 2 years ago
You are so funny and you make my day because you are so real and that's hard to find these days. You need a talk show.
annoitedone831 2 years ago
girl i like you. Im a man an i see some of the shit we do thank god i was tought how to treat a woman an i dont see nun wit weave. shit i put weve in my shit time to time.
sage336 2 years ago
LOL at 5:36 girl u are so silly...i love it tho!! u remind me of my big sis!
KangaDee 2 years ago
Real talk!
malazzle2 2 years ago
I agree 100%!
MsNenetoocutiepie 2 years ago
Black men want white women.
PastRepeat 2 years ago
You look good girl..Rock that!
princesscut29 2 years ago
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u tend to connect black men with prison.
why is this?
plus u stated elsewhere that your husband is a thug?
or u planning on raising a new generation of thugs?
did all of your 5 kids come from men of the same thug calibre?
if so, how can u (and women like u) truly expect much positivity from the men in ur lives?
foul women normally follow foul men.
awhodatt 2 years ago
how can i put this i cant stand judgemental ppl like u if thats her perference then thats her wat she got on is none of ur business or mines and i notice u put all five of her kids came from "MEN" of the same thug calibre.......u are just another dumb ass person wit to much time of ur hands who cares like i said if thats wat she likes than thats her and this is her opinion u A** dont watch it dummy if u dont like it!!!!!!!!!!! I CANT STAND PPL LIKE YOU UGH GET A LIFE U A**WIPE
lacrystalw 2 years ago
I wish you would've done a part 2 to this because you hit on some stuff that really needed to be said. =}) love yah
N2theLord 2 years ago 3
THANK YOU!
NvrSettle 2 years ago
PREACH DIVA!!!
ndearose 2 years ago
you are so hilarious!!
mmkayaaaa 2 years ago
OMG!! Thank you so much for saying that!!! IT definitely NEEDED to be said!!!
JBeavers0178 2 years ago
Preach DIVA!!!
brwnbombshell12 2 years ago
Im feeling u on this, muffin. Im the type of girl that gives my black man 100% and get nothin in return. they are all starting to act alike. Im sick of it. I dont ever want to give up on finding a good black man, but I have thought about taking a time out, u know?
darkdonatellah7 2 years ago
april, every word out of your mouth was the truth.
fedicia1 2 years ago
lovin this video muffins and lovin u bye diva
QueenSauce 2 years ago
I agree 100% with this video!
cocoskin305 2 years ago
I'm white and I have dated black men. But I've a lot of black women friends also. If a black man says something like black women do this or that. I won't let them disrespect black women in front of me. I tell them white and other women wear fake hair, wear plenty of makeup, get boob implants, collagen lip injections, tan, etc..I got hair extensions now. Almost everybody add stuff to their outside or make changes. I look at it like we're all human beings and black women are my sisters.
BWABIESD1 2 years ago 42
good comment
fedicia1 2 years ago
@BWABIESD1 I almost appreciate that but I have to be honest I feel a certain way about that...being white you cannot be truly passionate about defending the black woman and think you are out of line
meneedmoney 1 year ago
@BWABIESD1 i love your comment very true
chickwitthagoodies 1 year ago
@BWABIESD1 thanks for speaking up for us.
EmpressElizabeth1920 1 year ago
@BWABIESD1 thank you
trinateam4life 11 months ago
April, You are a friend in my head! I watch you every week and it really lift's my spirits. I laugh, I cry and I learn something new everytime you are on. Keep doin yo thang Diva!
Janine (from S. Jersey)
JnWalla18 2 years ago 12
Oh & also (lol, see thats why they be sick of me) black men be havin the nerve 2 look at u side ways & give the dirtiest looks if they see a black woman w/a man of a different race. It's crazy! Many black men neglect they kids & they woman & get mad when someone of another color knows how to take care of us. I love black men but my husband is cuban. Yeah he got his issues too, but I'll tell anybody I love him 4 him & I never have 2 remind him that me & these kids come 1st (1 of which is not his)
truGEMini01 2 years ago 5
I feel you on this! I've been told by black men before that I'm to outspoken and independent. I tell em like this, if men was takin care of they familys, black women wouldnt have to be mommy and daddy. Thats why I feel we like we are. You gotta be strong to survive. If a dude don't like it he need to take the time to prove that he got our backs so we can take a deep breath and relax. Be the women they God made us to be and not the men these boys r not bein.
truGEMini01 2 years ago
Girrrrrllll tell it like it tis!!!! I like how u keep it real on ur vids! Ur right, its always bout what they want, like they're only one's on earth. Men may be stronger physically (SOME), but women are mentally stronger, an again SOME! Cause some of them act like they ain't got the sense God gave them either!
darknluvly702 2 years ago
I agree with your pov.Most black men want credit for shit they suspose to do
Leta589 2 years ago
Yes Diva April!!!
I totally agree with what you are saying girl.
and we look forward to your video too.
empresstmc 2 years ago
That color looks good on you. I'ms so scared to try color but I want to try. Just not sure what color to start with.
RoyaltyWigs 2 years ago
that blonde is looking hot on you! I thought u were afraid of lighter colors?
babbina 2 years ago
Now that was the realist talk I have heard in a long time! Preach it sista! That was just straight from the heart. Im glad someone finally said it!
Thanks
Diva
dluellen123 2 years ago 2
oh wow! I just checked out that website: Luxurious Hair Boutique
Some of the hairlines are undetectable, so realistic looking.
lisabella00 2 years ago
Yes April, this is TRULY REAL FREAKING TALK!
myztay 2 years ago
"juicy CARTIER"? lol! I STILL LUV YA! & FREAKIN LOVE HOW REAL YOU ARE IN YOUR VIDEOS! You are like my favorite to watch online! keep it up. LOVE YA!
cocoalovely 2 years ago
LMAO @ Martian!
Good Video Diva :)
hourglas39 2 years ago
yes April plz a make a part 2 of this topic.
KYMA88 2 years ago
oh yea Black men get it together. Im sick of their mouths. Black women are strong and we are always gonna stay strong they need to remember that
KYMA88 2 years ago
In addition, after you TAKE CAREof them like you said..they STAY ungreatful. Always say they want something and they dont! ..We are STRONG, as soon as we can "Hold it down" on our own..they feel they are not needed! As you said..they need to think about what they reallly want before they start making complaints!
Coretta23 2 years ago
I am over here clapping like im at service lolol! Thats right and can we add that BLACK MEN ..successful black man think just because we are black women we are trying to get them for their money...you being successful is NOT rare anymore ok! We are succeeding every day!....
Coretta23 2 years ago 2
you are so inspirational girl. love ya diva.
HollieLuxx 2 years ago
HONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We Need a part TWO!!!!!!!!! U had me catchin the Holy Ghost divaaaaaaaa
charpizzel07 2 years ago 3
Can we get a part 2 please?!
SinfulyBeautiful 2 years ago
THANK YOU, THANK YOU! Finally, the truth has been spoken.
SinfulyBeautiful 2 years ago
i would have to agree with you April. . .i have met SOO many BLACK MEN who say "oh i don't want a woman with kids" but they ass have kids or they take a white woman with her kids. . .it's like are you serious??? especially out here in cali. . .that's all here is black women bashing. . .and it does hurt a bit cuz i looove me some black men. ..but its like damn dude you have to have some type of respect for black women your mom, grandma n greatgrandma is black
jOilEdrKsCORPIo 2 years ago
Girl I had that happen to me. I was with a dude for 4 years..he told me he had 2 kidz! Cool' I love kids lets roll. Girl but 4 years later I got pregnantt had my baby and found out this motherfucka had 5 kidz and now 7 including mine and his new baby. Dropped him with the quickest and have recieved a grand total of...(drum roll please).....$221.19 in the past 2 1/2 years. What the fuck is up with that shit!!??! But I'm good cause SHAWTY GOT HER OWN!!! LOL
mizzme07 2 years ago 2
that is what happened to my girlfriend she was going to marry this black man and a day before the wedding his wife called and said he was married and he had 5 other kids besides the ones my girlfriend knew about which were 3 more crazy girl
jcamp5818 2 years ago
looks good
jcamp5818 2 years ago
Always 100% Truth; I love that about you!
skaydiva85 2 years ago
hahahaha omg u is hilarious but u speak da truth! omg i luv ya videos! gooo guuurrrllll
LMari388 2 years ago
I agree with you April! I love black men too but they do get on my nerves when they are always nagging about what they want from a black woman. What about our needs? Oh yeah I will check out those 2 websites.
jnellegirl 2 years ago
AMEN!! i love u April!!!
lissia1234 2 years ago
I have no idea what black men want bc Im married to a white man,but based on my experience with my own race I have to agree with you.
munsjvc 2 years ago
U always keep it real!! Thats why men have a issues with us. Preach!! Preach!!
Tesha410 2 years ago
preach the gospel according the black woman bible
black men embarass me wid they bully ish
they still in mental and emotional slavery
from slavery the black woman been taking care of the whole world-- she do what she do and raise her kids and live.
instead of uplifting our race the men talking ish it is my right as a woman to adorn myself as i see fit.
i love my black brothers-but being with other races also made me love my whole blackness
love ya my sis
graycious3 2 years ago
Girl i feel u cuz i got one thats pays 150 a month n bills and i pay 800 plus buy food plus buy stuff for my baby and things for my house and thats a month 4 me and he thinks were equal..i mean i have a job and all but shit i can do bad all by myself...Its crazy cuz i told him monday that we aint workin out and he has to pack his shit and go bacc to his mama house and suck her tities dry cuz im done
MONIEMAMA 2 years ago
GIRRRRRLLLL you are so real with it...I LUV LUV IT....in ur face BLACK MEN!!!!
TheWeaveologistDiva 2 years ago 2
Damn! April, you gave them the business! I've been saying the same thing. They give themselfs too much credit for the random things they do. (then holla I take care of my kids)
MissShannonable 2 years ago
Hey april , love ya ur the best and u told the truth. What do you think about BM getting upset with BW who are with WM.
kkmb423 2 years ago
hey april you should send in a request to be partners with youtube tell them how many views u get and rating and stuff and they'll respond back to u with an answer.
xxmissashleyxx 2 years ago
i <3 u april :)
babysparks66 2 years ago
HEEELLLLLOOOOO!!!!!
crazzigood 2 years ago
i feel u April. i hate the fact that black men bash us but when the shit goes left we are always there for the them holding them down. we take care of the kids and even keep there butts around when they are broke and down and out. we love and care for them even when they don't deserve it. gosh it is a shame that they have such high standards when half of them are not even worth shit. i am single and i plan on staying that way if a man can't except me for who i am and what i have screw him
misspinva 2 years ago
lol grl i have been rocking this new lace front and i get hit on even more now. grl it must be the hair!!!! your so fabulous April.
misspinva 2 years ago
girl !!!! I love Love them sites.
brownnadine 2 years ago
OMG APRIL! I LOVE what you said about BM. I could go on for days about this topic but I will refrain. Keep up the real talk Diva!
4evaheartbrkn 2 years ago
You my girl. You are so right. We always have to hear what our men want and try and be their everything. But they don't try to do anything for us. We always have to play the role they want us to play. And then when we get tired and stand up for ourselves. Tthey try and throw in our faces that's why they go the other way. Our race is the only race that does not truly value their women for the most part. (There are some exceptions) You are a strong sista who has her s*@t together.Peace girl.
Pianopraiser 2 years ago
Diva, you hit it right on the head. I was at work and I was just berated by a BLACK man that was mad at his baby momma.....I had to tell him, hold on FOOL, I aint her and I got my own nigga to deal with so if you is mad at her then you need to deal with that. He was mad about the guess what......child support amt.......siiigh
thelioness07 2 years ago 2
i think you spoke for us all diva ... you from queeens and im from bx and we see the bullshit first hand not saying it doesnt happen anywhere else but it seems like ny men is the worse well some of them love the hair diva
adoremedbeauty 2 years ago
Yes April !, i love you , you always tell it like it is
twigylegs 2 years ago
tell it girl..either step you game up or stfd..im so sick of these so-called men..then they wonder why females always making songs about them not being shh..
LENA305 2 years ago
2 snaps way up in air!
itshot123 2 years ago
Love D make UP diva !!!
MVP1904 2 years ago
dang, you did a great job on the makeup
Tell 'em diva, educate these fools
Stay blessed
Tru4Afrika 2 years ago
If their was a damn petition for us Divas to sign so you can have longer time girl I would def sign it first! You took the words right outta my mouth! Loved it loved loved it, get em girl!
One luv
cmuzita 2 years ago
A lot of black men are really little boys so they don't know how to function as a man. Us women learn to do what we gotta do especially when kids are involved, most of us. But most black boys never make that connection. And a lot of black guys do hide children, I found out my son's dad had a 6 year old a few states away while I was 5months pregnant. These black boys need to grow up. And us women need to leave them alone until they do. Cuz I want a man that has everything you described April!!
RockBottomDiva 2 years ago 3
Now that's really real talk. I feel everything you've said and men want to complain about us being too strong but, at the same time when they've fallen off are end up in jail they expect for us to hold them down. They need to make up they're minds.
nupanappylady 2 years ago
Tell em girl!
vivacious1083 2 years ago
AMEN!!!! Thats right April, I can testify 100% . Thanks for the word Diva.
mommieof52009 2 years ago
OH HELL!!! you done went and made the african american side of me come out! have my hand up high talkin about PREACH SISTA, PREACH!!! Yes, Amen!!! i could go on but I won't, you summed it up nicely...thank you Diva for this video xoxo
kandie731 2 years ago
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Girl u aint said nothing but the truth!! As much as black get a bad rep and struggled thru time us black woman has been thru the same shit...which is why we are so aggresive. Us black women catch hell no matter what, especially for being strong. April, good topic!!
blkmonarch 2 years ago
Girl u aint said nothing but the truth!! As much as black get a bad rep and stuggled thru time us black woman has been thru the same shit...which is why we are so aggresive. Us black women catch hell no matter what, especially for being strong. April, good topic!!
blkmonarch 2 years ago
you should check out ms lolas band aid method you can but certain type of band aids on your hair line and bond the wig on top of the band aids.. it sounds ghetto lol but its real neat and you cant detect it
xxxMzDivaxxx 2 years ago
Tell em diva lol
immaDstarra 2 years ago
i would LOOOOOOOVVVEEE if you had longer time!!!!! You are so cool
mizzgriff85 2 years ago 3
do u sleep in ur wigs
trina755 2 years ago
Preach to the men. Preach!!!!
Nbaker27 2 years ago 3
this is why i love you your real and get straight to the point xx
summermonroe20 2 years ago
You got that right most of them are dirty as hell to us and yes, they want us black women to take care they as why their cheap, disrespectful and think we need to settle for less of course were stronger then them. Their the one's first to get a white women and, treat her like a queen , she could be fat as hell and, ugly butt, they love her ass.Oh Well, I got it off!!! appreciated
Trampth2260 2 years ago 3
You're right...my mum didn't know my step dad had kids for a long time!!
enugbv 2 years ago
CHHHHUUURRRCCCHHHHH!!!! You better PREACH!!!
uabgurl205 2 years ago 2
Preach!!! They always talking about what black men want, what about what we want, do we not matter? Whatever men think like that are fucking lame, I dont know any man that has issues with weave and if a man dont want a woman with kids, his ass better not have any.
AtlantaAngel84 2 years ago 3
THAT REALLY NEEDED TO BE SAID DIVA!!!!
msjohnson2134 2 years ago
U r tooooooo funny. U had me rolling when u said "especially BLACK ASS MEN!". i love dark men as well. I can't get enough of em. And u truly are right. black men shouldnt bash us black women if they have a strong black woman like urself by their side holding down the fort. luv gurl
thyckshawtii 2 years ago 3
Preach Girl! Preach!!!! You kept it real on this real talk..... 4REAL
shehasavoice2 2 years ago
I like this look! The hair and the eyes are working.
Thanks for the shout out! Smooches.
shehasavoice2 2 years ago
Lol YouSeriously Said A Martian I Love You Girl haha
MakeUpJunky09 2 years ago
April you are so real everything you said was real that's why I watch your videos
58cocopuff 2 years ago
April,
I think that you are AWESOME, gurl you make my days. I talk about you and your vids all the time to my friends. You would think I know you personally. I really appreciate you getting back to use because you don't have to do it. Thanks so much
rayrene3 2 years ago
LOL.. YU A FOOL..LOVE iT!!. i'VE NEVER HAD A RELATiONSHiP WiT A BLK GUY.. BUT THE FEW THAT i TALKED TOO.. THEY TOLD ME iM TOO OUTSPOKEN... i WAS LiKE WAT THE FUCK YU WANT ME TO BOW DOWN.. i LOVE LOVE LOVE BLK MEN.. THEY ARE SO SEXY. BUT THE CHiLDiSH ASS GAMES AND WANTiN TO RUN SHiT i CANT DEAL WiTH... AND SOME JUST LiE ABOUT THE STUPiDiEST SHiT... LOL
ech322 2 years ago
I thought u would like the Channel one too...but the Yellow is hot...I seen all its point of views too...I liked the fourth one in...nice..
MercedesGames 2 years ago
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MercedesGames 2 years ago
"And handle his business, in the bed or whatever" lma0 g00dness woman i love your channel!
Petitemiss30 2 years ago
Preach honey!! I am glad you put it out there!
sexyvaqt 2 years ago
U were on some real stuff here girl, omg, I feel u and agree they dont give us black women credit for the messes we have to clean up because of them. Shoot we are the strongest I think look at everything we have to do. Girl u just speak the truth. Love u n your videos. Keep them coming.
SEXILADICHELE 2 years ago
Ok now you say the damn thing! Preach on Preach Mrs April Black Men can be a hot ass mess!
BabyTigga23 2 years ago
Black Men use that as a excuse to run to another race. He can have kid by a black women and she strugglin but then you will see them out carrying their biracial child on their head. Some black men seem to hate who they are and the race they come from.All the rest of the mess they say about black woman is a smoke screen. Black woman just aint going for no mess. Alot of balck woman have had to be mothers and fathers. i dont really care what a black man wants. he needs to be what I want.
armywifenluv 2 years ago 4
girl your hair looks so nice luvz it
Jessabby09 2 years ago
Gone then Rev. April, halleluyer!!!!!
townsj 2 years ago 2
lol girl you made me laugh I thought of Madea!
BabyTigga23 2 years ago 3
eww who shave theyre hairline?? lol
thanks i feel a lil better about my situation but i wish i could be strong like u...but im 18 so i guess thats something i gotta learn.
strawberryvines 2 years ago
PREACH!
shanihw 2 years ago
Black men are the last ones to talk about having kids and good jobs. When I attended college the black male attendance was scarce. I work in the medical field and I dont see any black men working there except in janitoial.
Black men cant take a woman who can speak for herself so they try and find a woman who cant so they can feel more manly. Plus, they complain about not letting them be a man. Well learn how to fix something and do some yard work.
ksha 2 years ago
Haha I started calling my little sister diva !Love your videos!!
stephaniewelch91 2 years ago