my grandfather died at age 92.. he had a massive heartattack which was basically unsurvivable, he survived it, and 3 days later they found a massive hole in his heart.. died that day..
im so srry. i know school is important but you should remember he is your family and family is real important. you should tell your school that u wouldnt want to miss but that u need to give ur granfather souport.
Im sorry to hear that but in my home city they of windsor they may have found a new drug 2 kill cancer I hope its out in time 2 save you grandfather, It is sad 2 know that som1 u love is dying and you cant 2 anything I know i lost 2 grandparents 2 cancer and i felt hopless I hope a merical happens for ur grandfather
Hang in there Haley. People have beaten "terminal" cancer. It often comes down to mind over matter, when the doctors say it is incurable that means it's curable from within. Please ask your grandpa to think only positive thoughts and watch or do only things that make him happy and laugh. He shouldn't talk about cancer or have anyone around him talking about it. "What you think about you bring about" have him contemplate good health and he will have it. It will be ok Haley, everything will be ok.
I know your situation so unfair and you are hurting. I don't think I am qualified to tell you what to do. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and from the responses you've gotten a lot of people are here to support you. God bless. John
family is always more important than money.. like im not saying you shouldnt go to school but in a time like this i would just say screw school gather up as much cash as i could and go see him
when my grandma was dieing of lung cancer i went up and visited her every weekend sometimes during the week
call and ask to talk to grandpa, every chance you get, tell him you love him. send him mail, write to him, if you can, do it for both of you! yes life is never fair, but life is a book and you are about to live/write a new chapter...you are in my prayers.
I've now as of January lost all my Grandparents. Luckily they all had lived a long life. You certainly need to let your Grandpa know how much you love him before he's gone. It will allow him to go, and allow you to always remember how much you loved and cared for him. You, and your family, and your Grandpa will be in my prayers tonight.
it will be tough to get through but you can do it, i personally don't know u but i can tell that ur a strong girl and also caring, you can make it through.This is going to be a difficult thing to do but you can do it hun. Good luck
One thing you gotta know is that my family has seen its fare share of deaths. Before I was born I had a brother who died in th e70's due to likemia cancer. After I was born I lost a sister because a drunk driver hit her. And I lost my mother and father due to naturall causes at the age of 19. I lossed a best friend back in 2004.
Point is, its never easy, its hard I know. You love them so much and you don't want them to go. You will get through this, I assure you, have faith in yourself. :)
This is going to hurt for a while but the important thing to remember is that it will pass and you are one special person. Truth is, its the people who go through life experiances who turn out to be great ones. Trust me, you will get over this initial shock and you will be doing better. I too didn't get to be there when my mom passesd away and I was angry afterwords. Again, I got through it and did the best I could. You can do this, you know you can, cause your one special person. Take Care :)
Remember all the great times you had with your grandfather. He had some special times with you I'm sure and he will always have these memories. The pain will ease over time, but just think of him and smile. He was your grandfather....you were so lucky. Take care x x
When I was born all my grannies and grandads had passed on. So I never knew them.
From what others have told me they're very special people, grandparents and I think I missed out on something big.
You seem to have some great experiences from your time with your grandad. You'll always treasure them and they'll make you feel good when times are bad.
God bless and try to be strong. Remember, your grandad would understand.
I really hope you find the time to visit your grandpa, maybe during the weekend so you won't miss out on school?
If it's totally not possible, try calling him and tell him all that's heavily lying on your heart. If you can't, a letter is also a good idea. Just let him know one way or another, that you love him and you're thankful for him being a part of your life.
It is very hard to let somebody go. And it is ok to be upset. You need to cry to let your inner pain out. I grew up with my grandparents - how lucky we are. Right?
How lucky we are to have them as blessings in our life's.
I have been in the exact situation, i didnt get to see mine off, so i now, you will cry, you will be upset for a while, you may blame yourself, but in time you will pass the sad stages, then anger, i promise you in time you will smile about the times you shared with him, dont bottle up your feelings, i did that and its not good place, talk to your friends, family and even us on utube about how your feelin we will help best we can xx Will xx
Well, I know how difficult it is. One of the toughest moments I had was when I learned my father had lung-cancer. With time all family got used to it so 9 months later, when he passed away, we reacted quite calmly. I think the trauma of the news concerning his health was much harder than that of his death.
I wish you could go to him.Maybe you can send him a card every few days, or make a tape or something were you are talking to him, and you tell him all the things you want to tell him.
sorry for your granfather but no words will help i have been in the same sitoution when my father dead.
only time cure everything slowly.
there is nothing to do just to be strong and keep going,life continue we all are gonna die one day,i am sorry to say such a hard words,but thats the truth really.
My grandpa died too. I know that its hard to hear that kinda news but miracles happen every day...and your grandpa is no exception. Though its a hard time its best to keep hope. Even if it doesnt seem reasonable its nice to hold onto something. You'll be in my prayers.
That is sooo sad I KNOW i lost a sister for same reasons 10 years ago so! i feel for ya BUT, if it can help, 1 thing you have to understand,is that he as had a great life and there will be NO more pain soon we HAVE to think of the person suffering here THERE in pain, and with GOD there WONT be no pain.Hang in there, and good luck.( a friend )
well.. all i can say is that life is life... sometimes it stinks, some others it makes you feel like jumping of happiness, but be strong... u seem to be a pretty tough girl ;)... my aunt has cancer, breast cancer... and wee are with her, for her 24/7... and we fight it together, cuz its easier that way!... but be strong! we might be far (all of us who commented on you vid) but we are with u! take care!
He is still here right now you can talk to him on the phone on the internet. Write to him send him a dvd or video tape telling him what he means to you.You can tell him about
your life and about favorite memories. If you have family living close to him ask them to tape him and send it to you. there are a lot of ways to be in touch with him even if you can't visit. The most important thing tell him now before it's TOO late.
I lost my dad to lung cancer 3 years ago I know how this exactly feels, the important thing is to stick to your family and friends in who love you in this tough time. I think about my dad every day
Can we get a new line besides "you're in our prayers"? Praying never did anything. Sad news. My grandpas are all dead too. It is what happens when you get old. Why don't you talk to him on the phone or have him come to you?
A least you got to know and have a granfather! Lost my father a year ago so much i wish I could have said to him before he passed. You both are in my Prayers.
He will come to u in your dreams & be with U. Have u ever heard of John Edward...he writes about the afterlife & helps us deal with death & how his spirit is always a part of U. Much peace in your difficult time.
I lost my brother a few years ago, it's tough. But as long as you stick with you family and help each other through this, it'll be okay sweetie! I'm sorry if that sounded corny or cheesey. I'm not very good at this kind of thing. But really I hope for the best for your grandfather and your family.
I'm very sorry to hear of your grandpa. It is always very tough to see a close family member go through something like this. My thoughts are with you.
I know what you are experiencing right now and I will pray for your grandfather and you. I lost my grandfather on one Christmas morning when I was 15 and can not tell you the hurt and sorrow that I felt from this and a shock at first as the family was not prepared for this and we celebrated together on Christmas Eve as a family. He did not suffer as he died in his sleep and that was a blessing. Keep the faith and pray.
Dipatti is right- go to a school counselor and arrange to take some time off to see your grandpa. You obviously love him very much, and both of you deserve to be with each other during these hard times. God bless, and never stop hoping.
Dear Halpal, I know how you're feeling. My dad died from cancer, also, both grandfather's. I, myself, am a cancer survivor, for now. Even, if through a card, let him know, how much you love him, and care about him.
I truly believe, that my loved one's, are waiting for me, in a place, that knows no sorrow.:c)
Halpal, don't know what to do? How about, gather all your information together and go talk to a school counselor. They know what you can and should do. They have had a wealth of experience with these things.
I pray that your grandfather knows the LORD and trusts in Him. In that case, when he passes on, he shall be with Christ forever after, and you, too, will know the way to go and be with him when your time comes.
God has made it really simple for us; nothing complex about this at all.
omg i sort of know what its like because i lost my grandpa and i barley seen him it might sound really mean but dont think about it as much as u r it will make u alot worse i am so sorry i hope your grandpa can pull of the lung cancer and if not he will be with u all the time
my grandfather died at age 92.. he had a massive heartattack which was basically unsurvivable, he survived it, and 3 days later they found a massive hole in his heart.. died that day..
AridSea 8 months ago
my grandpa just died, he had cancer and suffered long but now that he passed away he can no longer suffer
inomyguns12345678910 9 months ago
awww on monday is the one year anniversary of when my grandpa died. i miss him soo much ):
pinkchik234 1 year ago
@pinkchik234 I'm sorry for your loss. I miss mine too :(
Halpal90 1 year ago
My friends grandpa got shot yestarday after a robbery...
frostyaquatroopleade 1 year ago
awe... I still miss my grandpa... he quit smoking when he got cancer... soo sad...
ttaylors 2 years ago
I´m sorry for you and your grandpa.
I lost both of em to cancer. They´re better now and so am I...
Every ending is a new beginnig.
Take care
Shleppo777 3 years ago
Love, your school shouldn't do that.
I once got excused from final exams to go to my cousin's funeral.
Family emergencies are wayyyy more important than school.
<3
EricaEpidemicx0 3 years ago
I am sorry to hear about your grandpas condition. Both of my grandfathers died over a decade ago. here are some places you can visit that may help.
1)mskfirst. org,
2)HospiceCare. com
3)healthguidance. org/entry/1159/1/Terminal- Cancer-Patients-Fighting-Back-With-Omega-3-Fats. html - 86k -
MANSHOTS 3 years ago
im so srry. i know school is important but you should remember he is your family and family is real important. you should tell your school that u wouldnt want to miss but that u need to give ur granfather souport.
soccerqueen699 3 years ago
I'm so sorry haley, I'm thinking of you.
Nephtys80 3 years ago
im so sorry... if you need to talk, im here...srry if that sounds creepy..give people hugs...that allways helps
randombibble 3 years ago
forgot 2 add god bless
punk12234 3 years ago
Im sorry to hear that but in my home city they of windsor they may have found a new drug 2 kill cancer I hope its out in time 2 save you grandfather, It is sad 2 know that som1 u love is dying and you cant 2 anything I know i lost 2 grandparents 2 cancer and i felt hopless I hope a merical happens for ur grandfather
punk12234 3 years ago
i'm so sorry...
god bless you and your family
lostindisillusion 3 years ago
Much love & light being sent your way Haley.
Stu.
spiritualstu 3 years ago
Hang in there Haley. People have beaten "terminal" cancer. It often comes down to mind over matter, when the doctors say it is incurable that means it's curable from within. Please ask your grandpa to think only positive thoughts and watch or do only things that make him happy and laugh. He shouldn't talk about cancer or have anyone around him talking about it. "What you think about you bring about" have him contemplate good health and he will have it. It will be ok Haley, everything will be ok.
Killu610 3 years ago
to true my grandma was terminal and she beat it once but the of course she kept thinking about it and it came back ;(
punk12234 3 years ago
Very sorry to hear that punk12234 :(
Killu610 3 years ago
I know your situation so unfair and you are hurting. I don't think I am qualified to tell you what to do. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and from the responses you've gotten a lot of people are here to support you. God bless. John
ufcwannab91 3 years ago
family is always more important than money.. like im not saying you shouldnt go to school but in a time like this i would just say screw school gather up as much cash as i could and go see him
when my grandma was dieing of lung cancer i went up and visited her every weekend sometimes during the week
EpicFailureAtD2jsp 3 years ago
oh honey,
call and ask to talk to grandpa, every chance you get, tell him you love him. send him mail, write to him, if you can, do it for both of you! yes life is never fair, but life is a book and you are about to live/write a new chapter...you are in my prayers.
oldtroll52 3 years ago
I've now as of January lost all my Grandparents. Luckily they all had lived a long life. You certainly need to let your Grandpa know how much you love him before he's gone. It will allow him to go, and allow you to always remember how much you loved and cared for him. You, and your family, and your Grandpa will be in my prayers tonight.
jbolin000 3 years ago
it will be tough to get through but you can do it, i personally don't know u but i can tell that ur a strong girl and also caring, you can make it through.This is going to be a difficult thing to do but you can do it hun. Good luck
junkieof5yrs 3 years ago
One thing you gotta know is that my family has seen its fare share of deaths. Before I was born I had a brother who died in th e70's due to likemia cancer. After I was born I lost a sister because a drunk driver hit her. And I lost my mother and father due to naturall causes at the age of 19. I lossed a best friend back in 2004.
Point is, its never easy, its hard I know. You love them so much and you don't want them to go. You will get through this, I assure you, have faith in yourself. :)
1G0TP1NK8C1DB00TS0N9 3 years ago
This is going to hurt for a while but the important thing to remember is that it will pass and you are one special person. Truth is, its the people who go through life experiances who turn out to be great ones. Trust me, you will get over this initial shock and you will be doing better. I too didn't get to be there when my mom passesd away and I was angry afterwords. Again, I got through it and did the best I could. You can do this, you know you can, cause your one special person. Take Care :)
1G0TP1NK8C1DB00TS0N9 3 years ago
Remember all the great times you had with your grandfather. He had some special times with you I'm sure and he will always have these memories. The pain will ease over time, but just think of him and smile. He was your grandfather....you were so lucky. Take care x x
theonlysminor 3 years ago
i tried to write some words that could be of some help... in vain. but "Randy Pausch Last Lecture" crossed my mind.
i hope it might help you and your grandpa.
karimgenerous 3 years ago
When I was born all my grannies and grandads had passed on. So I never knew them.
From what others have told me they're very special people, grandparents and I think I missed out on something big.
You seem to have some great experiences from your time with your grandad. You'll always treasure them and they'll make you feel good when times are bad.
God bless and try to be strong. Remember, your grandad would understand.
nacho1560 3 years ago
I really hope you find the time to visit your grandpa, maybe during the weekend so you won't miss out on school?
If it's totally not possible, try calling him and tell him all that's heavily lying on your heart. If you can't, a letter is also a good idea. Just let him know one way or another, that you love him and you're thankful for him being a part of your life.
Stay strong.
Huliatt 3 years ago
I love my GRandfather's remembrances...i have learnt all my devotion for Art,Beauty,Poetry,form him...and I never jnew him personally...
My dear angel...Conserve in your soul..very deeply...all that you have learnt of his winsdom..
so,he will be ever with you...at the same time he is with God...
Peter,thanks again...if i can do something for someone in this world,I make my day...
Nina
Ankhsnammon 3 years ago
It is very hard to let somebody go. And it is ok to be upset. You need to cry to let your inner pain out. I grew up with my grandparents - how lucky we are. Right?
How lucky we are to have them as blessings in our life's.
enikavicsos 3 years ago
I have been in the exact situation, i didnt get to see mine off, so i now, you will cry, you will be upset for a while, you may blame yourself, but in time you will pass the sad stages, then anger, i promise you in time you will smile about the times you shared with him, dont bottle up your feelings, i did that and its not good place, talk to your friends, family and even us on utube about how your feelin we will help best we can xx Will xx
Metube865 3 years ago
Well, I know how difficult it is. One of the toughest moments I had was when I learned my father had lung-cancer. With time all family got used to it so 9 months later, when he passed away, we reacted quite calmly. I think the trauma of the news concerning his health was much harder than that of his death.
seth669669 3 years ago
my heart is with you 'issy
isthatmusicicanhear2 3 years ago
I'm sorry to hear about your grandpa, Haley.
I wish you could go to him.Maybe you can send him a card every few days, or make a tape or something were you are talking to him, and you tell him all the things you want to tell him.
I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
Hug
Jolanda
adamkieslowski 3 years ago
i am sorry to hear about your grandpa
i am with adamkieslowski in every word
i know what you feel but be happy
shout999999999 3 years ago
I hope you'll be okay, always remember the good times you've had with your grandpa, and be happy, he'd want you to be happy.
Symbioteofadiety 3 years ago
sorry for your granfather but no words will help i have been in the same sitoution when my father dead.
only time cure everything slowly.
there is nothing to do just to be strong and keep going,life continue we all are gonna die one day,i am sorry to say such a hard words,but thats the truth really.
osama2000il 3 years ago
My grandpa died too. I know that its hard to hear that kinda news but miracles happen every day...and your grandpa is no exception. Though its a hard time its best to keep hope. Even if it doesnt seem reasonable its nice to hold onto something. You'll be in my prayers.
yoshiestar 3 years ago
That is sooo sad I KNOW i lost a sister for same reasons 10 years ago so! i feel for ya BUT, if it can help, 1 thing you have to understand,is that he as had a great life and there will be NO more pain soon we HAVE to think of the person suffering here THERE in pain, and with GOD there WONT be no pain.Hang in there, and good luck.( a friend )
newman20072008 3 years ago
well.. all i can say is that life is life... sometimes it stinks, some others it makes you feel like jumping of happiness, but be strong... u seem to be a pretty tough girl ;)... my aunt has cancer, breast cancer... and wee are with her, for her 24/7... and we fight it together, cuz its easier that way!... but be strong! we might be far (all of us who commented on you vid) but we are with u! take care!
johnniew3 3 years ago
i feel so bad for you. i hope your gonna be okay. :(
LittleShortPerson101 3 years ago
I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa but
He is still here right now you can talk to him on the phone on the internet. Write to him send him a dvd or video tape telling him what he means to you.You can tell him about
your life and about favorite memories. If you have family living close to him ask them to tape him and send it to you. there are a lot of ways to be in touch with him even if you can't visit. The most important thing tell him now before it's TOO late.
freezerain 3 years ago
I lost my dad to lung cancer 3 years ago I know how this exactly feels, the important thing is to stick to your family and friends in who love you in this tough time. I think about my dad every day
rayramis22 3 years ago
Can we get a new line besides "you're in our prayers"? Praying never did anything. Sad news. My grandpas are all dead too. It is what happens when you get old. Why don't you talk to him on the phone or have him come to you?
GoldenDynamo 3 years ago
A least you got to know and have a granfather! Lost my father a year ago so much i wish I could have said to him before he passed. You both are in my Prayers.
MrStormE 3 years ago
youre in my prayers, i really feel for you girl. it'll get better though, it always does. just hang in there, alright?
ncn8ochaser 3 years ago
oh i'm sorry to hear that it's breaking my heart too :( but best of all to you girl
zailaach 3 years ago
He will come to u in your dreams & be with U. Have u ever heard of John Edward...he writes about the afterlife & helps us deal with death & how his spirit is always a part of U. Much peace in your difficult time.
imafishgod 3 years ago
im very sorrt to hear about your grandpa =[ sometimes life is sad =[ my prayers will be with you and your entire family
kriskater 3 years ago
Life is soo kind in one hand and soo cruel in another!!
I wish him all the luck in the world! and i pray for his quick recovery!
Be strong! we are all praying for you!
checkoutmyprofile 3 years ago
I lost my brother a few years ago, it's tough. But as long as you stick with you family and help each other through this, it'll be okay sweetie! I'm sorry if that sounded corny or cheesey. I'm not very good at this kind of thing. But really I hope for the best for your grandfather and your family.
KendallHartz 3 years ago
I'm very sorry to hear of your grandpa. It is always very tough to see a close family member go through something like this. My thoughts are with you.
nek1555 3 years ago
I know what you are experiencing right now and I will pray for your grandfather and you. I lost my grandfather on one Christmas morning when I was 15 and can not tell you the hurt and sorrow that I felt from this and a shock at first as the family was not prepared for this and we celebrated together on Christmas Eve as a family. He did not suffer as he died in his sleep and that was a blessing. Keep the faith and pray.
markcnews 3 years ago
my grandpa is dying too
koolkitty654 3 years ago
Dipatti is right- go to a school counselor and arrange to take some time off to see your grandpa. You obviously love him very much, and both of you deserve to be with each other during these hard times. God bless, and never stop hoping.
Phanatical92 3 years ago
Dear Halpal, I know how you're feeling. My dad died from cancer, also, both grandfather's. I, myself, am a cancer survivor, for now. Even, if through a card, let him know, how much you love him, and care about him.
I truly believe, that my loved one's, are waiting for me, in a place, that knows no sorrow.:c)
You are in my prayer's!
Thanks Peter, for sharing this video!
May God bless, and comfort you!
GinMillBill
ginmillsinger 3 years ago 2
ok.. thank you...
jeselyn567 3 years ago
Halpal, don't know what to do? How about, gather all your information together and go talk to a school counselor. They know what you can and should do. They have had a wealth of experience with these things.
I pray that your grandfather knows the LORD and trusts in Him. In that case, when he passes on, he shall be with Christ forever after, and you, too, will know the way to go and be with him when your time comes.
God has made it really simple for us; nothing complex about this at all.
dipatti 3 years ago
I'm very sorry this is happening to you and your family.I pray God will help you through this.dear.5*****'s.Shirley
broncose1 3 years ago
Be strong. May fate be with you and may you bne strong no matter what happens in the future.
luvmetender009 3 years ago
& also im going through the same thing w/ my aunt.
xxTaylorAnnexx 3 years ago
I am so sorry. I will keep you and your dear grandfather in my prayers.
mykiskoart 3 years ago 2
aww im so sorry. ill pray 4 him tho.
xxTaylorAnnexx 3 years ago 2
omg i sort of know what its like because i lost my grandpa and i barley seen him it might sound really mean but dont think about it as much as u r it will make u alot worse i am so sorry i hope your grandpa can pull of the lung cancer and if not he will be with u all the time
tomahawk5000 3 years ago 2
I cannot even try to explain it.
Words cannot.
This is a very sad video.
I am very sad for your Grandfather.
Its broken my heart.
I'm going to say a special prayer, RIGHT NOW.
1992peter 3 years ago 5
I'm very sorry, it's hard to lose your family, Stay strong if you can
SonicGeneration 3 years ago 4
damn that sucks, it wasnt tough on me when my great granma died but i hardly knew her.
stopmotionguy39 3 years ago