It's not about "friendzoning" it's about a heartless bitch that leads a nice guy on and then shits on his heart. I say this because I've experienced it..FML lol
lost count trying to see all the places I have been to that show up in this. The most striking is the karaoke bar, downtown LA on 1st street. ha there is a painting of a sailboat i distinctively remember from it. then the Smiths --brings me back. Morressy/smith sure can hit you, especially if you enjoy depression ha. Friend kept telling me to see this flick i was reluctant being a romance. finally got around to it after months. Fricken cried, it helped me deal with a loss. she married too
@ELMENDORFX I barely dated this girl, K, but her and I were just good friends. I blew my chance. She was saying ok, then I fenagled. Then she decided to marry someone else and did not look back. When she was gone, i was like, wait... what did I just do, why did i do that? then for a couple years I was kicking myself. I was hurting. When I saw Zooey put her hand on his at the end of this movie, I completely lost it. It was like K, speaking through this film, to me
@hormoaningblew That's true with a lot of music, I find. :) It's a part of humanity to want to relate and especially when it comes to disappointments and the like. Those negatives in relationships that are important can make people feel disconnected from humanity, music can be like a bridge.
@newthrash1221 watch i suggest it i had my doubts too but its more down to earth then most of the romantic comedy movies nowindays theyre fucking corny
"Most days of the year are unremarkable. They begin, and they end, with no lasting memories made in between. Most days have no impact on the course of a life..."
(LJS) Every day I spent with you was as remarkable as the last. The memories we made will last a lifetime. And I wish you well as we go our separate ways...
I"m 53 and have been a Smiths fan since the mid eighties and I love this movie. Don't understand some of the bitterness towards the movie from Smiths fans - they should be grateful that it introduced a new generation to their music. Of all people, Morrissey would understand the overwhelming grief felt by Tom Hansen.
does this cunt have to sing in every movie she makes? we don't care, we get it... you're a "quirky, arty, spunky" chick or whatever the fuck you want us to think you are.
the John Lewis version is number47 in the itunes chart right now! surrely we fans can get the orginal and the best in the chart this christmas, search "smiths please christmas number 1" facebook and join the page/petition!
the most meanigfull words were those at the ending:"i woke up a morning and i was sure of what i wasn't sure of with you" (or sth like this).. it happens. the fact that a rellationship may end doesn't mean that there wasn't any love. let's stop being so judgemental, our consiousness judges us enouph..
As someone who has been in the same position as the girl, I totally empathise with her. It was neither of their faults that it didn't work, they wanted different things. Summer told him she didn't want a serious relationship, which he didn't really take much notice of which is why he got so hurt. And like she said at the end, when she met the right guy, she was sure of what she never was with Tom. She liked him, but it just wasn't meant to be.
To all the young men out there (and women) who have watched this movie and were left almost clueless, this is a warning about Borderline-Personality types, just hope and pray you never get caught in the cross-hairs of these type of people.
@FormerlyKnownAsShun I don't think that it's a warning,but merely a reality check.Most romance movies end w/ the guy winning a girl over due to his wonderful personality,but that's not what happens all the time in real life.Sometimes, no matter how hard they try or however hard they try,they can't love you It's not that they don't want to,which you see with Summer who definitely wants to love Tom but she can't force it. And that's ok.People have to understand that life will go on and it'll be ok
@lephong Well said lephong, I agree. Having dealt with a similar situation as Tom, it was extremely sobering to watch. I feel the writer/director was aiming for both warning/reality check - or maybe they share the same essence? I am not disagreeing at all, again - well put!
its rare now n days to find a girl that like's the smiths or knows anything of the 80's i could understand that guy .. girls like that comes around every so often. cheers !! to all those rare ladies
@pennenbuisje so...you watched a youtube clip of the film and then read the comments, and assumed you wouldn't see someone commenting about said film. Hohoho
@slaughterNik23 yiu know what I have been calling every girl out of my league that for the last year,after watching the movie and you just reminded me,thanks
@maariahproductionz it happend to me on my first date. Still with the girl after 8 years , madly in love and parent of an amazing 2 years old little girl and we still love The Smiths
I think that they were both in "fake love". They never really had any sort of magical romantic connection; they just liked the same things. That doesn't mean you're in love.
@biffrod it's not her fault though, she wasn't sure if her and Tom's relationship was true love for her, and she even told him at the beginning she wasn't looking for anything serious. When she finally fell in love with someone, it must've been hard for her to break Tom's heart but she had to and the reason why she danced with him is because she still loves him as a friend and he's done so much for her so he has a special place in her heart
@hannahthecarter You're right; she did warn him. That's why I said he was clueless. But if she wanted to be just a friend, she should not have kissed him, seduced him, gone through the pretend we're married game at Ikea, and then danced with him like they were getting back together. He was crazy about her, just couldn't handle it. That's not how you should treat your friends. And you're also right about him doing a lot for her. She got all the benefits. All he got: a painful, confusing lesson.
@biffrod@biffrod why was it wrong for her to kiss him though? She was obviously attracted to him and you don't have to be in love to have sex. And near the end of the relationship, she had subliminally admitted they were an item, that's why she said "we need to stop seeing each other." that's something a couple would say. She was just afraid because of her past failure relationships and her parent's divorce. She didn't want to give herself completely away to a man until she was certain.
@hannahthecarter We can agree to disagree. I still say she played him, treated him very badly. To keep an open mind about it, I think it's interesting you don't see anything wrong with how she behaved.. I guess girls do this without even realizing it. Obviously, lots of them out there enjoyed watching her act this way - that's one reason the movie was such a hit
@biffrod actually, if I was in her place I would've treated him completely differently. In my opinion, I don't think that's how you should ever treat someone who loves you, it's not something I would ever do personally. However, there are different types of girls out there and it's not that I don't see anything wrong with how she behaved, it's just that I don't think it's neccesarily her fault.
@LDP060681 You may have a point there - now that I think about it, this kind of thing has happened to me a few times. But that doesn't mean I say, "OK, I can relate to this movie" - what I say instead is "That poor bastard" and "That bitch!" ha, ha
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wanderley1851 14 hours ago
This song, a t-shirt of Joy Division (Unknown Pleasures), I love that guy who has chosen the music.
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Javiera Mena increiblle an artist, unique.
TheNocturno2010 3 days ago
It's not about "friendzoning" it's about a heartless bitch that leads a nice guy on and then shits on his heart. I say this because I've experienced it..FML lol
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:forever alone:
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lost count trying to see all the places I have been to that show up in this. The most striking is the karaoke bar, downtown LA on 1st street. ha there is a painting of a sailboat i distinctively remember from it. then the Smiths --brings me back. Morressy/smith sure can hit you, especially if you enjoy depression ha. Friend kept telling me to see this flick i was reluctant being a romance. finally got around to it after months. Fricken cried, it helped me deal with a loss. she married too
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@ELMENDORFX I barely dated this girl, K, but her and I were just good friends. I blew my chance. She was saying ok, then I fenagled. Then she decided to marry someone else and did not look back. When she was gone, i was like, wait... what did I just do, why did i do that? then for a couple years I was kicking myself. I was hurting. When I saw Zooey put her hand on his at the end of this movie, I completely lost it. It was like K, speaking through this film, to me
ELMENDORFX 3 days ago
Loved the movie, hated Summer in the end,but poor Tom! The movie featured great music though!
SequinCoffee 5 days ago 7
I love both of them. he's my boyfriend and she's my role model. They would make the cutest couple :] The Smiths rock!
SpiralingDown99 1 week ago
Expectations|Reality.
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Smiths me faz retornar há um passado maravilhoso da minha vida que vivi.
Aprendi com um ouvir Meus primos Mais velhos ... desde quando eu tinha 7 anos.
Hoje tenho 35 Anos ... e me emociono principalmente com ESSA música.
Ela é uma das 5 músicas Mais Bem Feita Que JÁ Ouvi na Minha Vida.
O SMITHS ... MAIOR BANDA DOS ANOS 80 ... SEM Dúvidas!
CHEERS!
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gelleiah08 1 week ago
To die by your side is such a heavenly way to die * zooey voice*
mikaylabuyson 1 week ago 6
wish the two ended up together at the end of the film!!! gggggggrrrrrr.....
sav2206 1 week ago
when I listen this song, I remember my family, ...God bless!!!
egy923 2 weeks ago
I swear if one more person cannot distinguish between Zooey and Katy Perry, I am going to cry.
InflatableTuition 2 weeks ago 62
@InflatableTuition it's really tragic, but don't cry :)
TheNarkissa282 1 week ago
@InflatableTuition But u must admit they look so much alike haha..
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ValarAlp 2 weeks ago
Summer is heartbreakingly adorable.
XDoXD2 2 weeks ago
~to die by your side is such heavenly way to die
tesaarse 2 weeks ago
Nice job on the vid.. This movie makes a better pop video than it does a movie.
swanstep 2 weeks ago
I forgot how much of an effect this film and its soundtrack had on me the first time I watched its magic.
kitsch2spacea 2 weeks ago
great song but zooey deschanel singing it makes it sound sooooo hot
ASyxx11 2 weeks ago 3
katty perry?
F4naTIX 2 weeks ago
@F4naTIX i thought that when i saw the film also found it ironic that russell brands favorite band is the smiths and she looks like katy!
theonetruesanti 2 weeks ago
"I love The Smiths". Join our club, Summer. It's a lovely place!
jimmyunited 2 weeks ago
LOL the look on JGL face is priceless. the guy is in love after a 1 minute conversation. haha.
0123kid 2 weeks ago 4
amaizing movie! i love zooey deschanel ;)
GrzenioPL1 2 weeks ago
5 seconds of summer
"i love the smiths"
"yea, so do millions of other people"
"to die by your side is-"
"ugh, stop"
gsboss 2 weeks ago 4
@gsboss tumblr. <3
volcom7311 2 weeks ago
52 people found themselves in friendzone.
Moonchuckmoon 2 weeks ago 2
@hormoaningblew That's true with a lot of music, I find. :) It's a part of humanity to want to relate and especially when it comes to disappointments and the like. Those negatives in relationships that are important can make people feel disconnected from humanity, music can be like a bridge.
ari3lz3pp3lin 2 weeks ago
Awesome video! I'm really impressed.
ari3lz3pp3lin 2 weeks ago
en mi caso, voy 800 dias... u_U
julix2cfr 2 weeks ago
@julix2cfr 800??? ya déjala, o no has visto la película??? =S
666Mandalorian 2 weeks ago
@julix2cfr te entiendo. llevo más de 1000 u.u
xfuuunkyyy 2 weeks ago
@julix2cfr Yo estuve 364... hasta ayer
:-(
luisbuho 2 days ago
thumbs up if zoe deschannel makes u pissed off because of how gorgeous she is :P
10gdavis 3 weeks ago 5
@hormoaningblew Wuhu , your message just decreased my pain and grief!
misuniversal 3 weeks ago
the smiths + joy division = just great (in one scene the guy have a t-shirt with joy division)
iuliaan234 3 weeks ago
The smiths is ok,but iron maiden is better
folladordeprostis 3 weeks ago
@folladordeprostis
shut up you fucking faggot
Madferitleeds 3 weeks ago
@Madferitleeds fuck you nigga
folladordeprostis 3 weeks ago
Very overrated movie,but what is ironic is the smiths music,they are not popular in usa
folladordeprostis 3 weeks ago
Te odio PERRA!!!!!........
serranokafka 4 weeks ago
@serranokafka AMEN
bati9rst 3 weeks ago
500 days of friendzone.
tiarini 4 weeks ago 4
@tiarini with benefits ;)
Alojzist 3 weeks ago
"Nobody loves him, that's why I love him" la película más que buena T_T
giulianaguillen 1 month ago
To die by your side is such a heavenly way to die... me encanta esta canción
giulianaguillen 1 month ago 3
pelicula de mierda me cago la cabeza,excelente pelicula
TheIgnacio10 1 month ago
Zooey nos rompes el corazón a todos los hombres! por eso te amo tantoooo
diearic 1 month ago
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Stupid movie.
Pettetje 1 month ago
500 days of Summer, the ultimate representation of friendzone.
DawgStudios 1 month ago 188
@DawgStudios It was hard watching this movie because of that.
FallGuy82 4 weeks ago
@DawgStudios let me correct you, sexfriendzoned :D
NeoChromer 3 weeks ago
this song and the film just together makes me so upset, reminds me of someone I wish was still in my life :c
catsandasians 1 month ago 3
i didnt watch the movie but i really like the song too
nooneveryimportant 1 month ago
@nooneveryimportant watch it now,best movie ever
TheIgnacio10 1 month ago
@nooneveryimportant YOU NEED TO SEE IT!!!!!!!!
dizzydog25 1 month ago
Summer: ♫To die by your side, is such a heavenly way to die.
I love 'em.
iambeamanalo 1 month ago
this is beautiful.
KawaiiKiko1 1 month ago
if this was the original trailer for the movie, i think i would have been more persistent towards watching this movie.
newthrash1221 1 month ago
@newthrash1221 watch i suggest it i had my doubts too but its more down to earth then most of the romantic comedy movies nowindays theyre fucking corny
midnitetoker01 1 month ago
@midnitetoker01 oh i've seen it and loved it, but i'm just saying...when i first heard of this movie i wasn't in a terrible rush to see it.
newthrash1221 1 month ago
this song, this movie.... just perfection...
killstrokedeep 1 month ago
Whoo! Best music came from England
Kayacarter100 1 month ago 2
love this song!! she's so hot!
MrRozzir 1 month ago
is dat the girl from New Girl tv series?
nuadeeforce 1 month ago
@nuadeeforce yes :) Zooey i love her!!!
MrRozzir 1 month ago
@MrRozzir she's not beutiful.... yet she is so adorable! love her haircut n dull attitude in that series tho...
nuadeeforce 1 month ago
@nuadeeforce yeah
VvMichelavV 1 month ago
0:49 The dream of every man * _ *
Grunge494 1 month ago
@048 The dream of every man * _ *
Grunge494 1 month ago
Supongo que así es como será mi historia....
Giostrikemaster 1 month ago
This guy act like a zero in this film. I'd have chucked her straight after we banged
benrfc 1 month ago
@s4leagueclip #Fo sho' what a shit film
benrfc 1 month ago
"Most days of the year are unremarkable. They begin, and they end, with no lasting memories made in between. Most days have no impact on the course of a life..."
(LJS) Every day I spent with you was as remarkable as the last. The memories we made will last a lifetime. And I wish you well as we go our separate ways...
In honor of my Summer...
cv718 1 month ago 2
this movie and this song are both awesome
parisloverful 1 month ago
im in love with that movie and with that song :) i love the smiths
it234561 1 month ago
I"m 53 and have been a Smiths fan since the mid eighties and I love this movie. Don't understand some of the bitterness towards the movie from Smiths fans - they should be grateful that it introduced a new generation to their music. Of all people, Morrissey would understand the overwhelming grief felt by Tom Hansen.
yamborac1 1 month ago
love this.
sreehari99g 1 month ago
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The Movie sucks.....Boring as hell =))
bilghiru1992 1 month ago
holy shit!!!
ichoosetowakeup 1 month ago
0:36 lol, i have the same joy division shirt
ledzeppize 1 month ago
And in the darkened underpass
I thought Oh God, my chance has come at last
But then a strange fear gripped me
And I just couldn't ask
asianXdevotchka 1 month ago 2
take me anywhere i dont care i dont care i dont caaaaarre
SuperMarvinramos 1 month ago 2
i miss you
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dirdybirdy4 1 month ago
If someone like Tom loved me i would never let him go. Stupid Summer.
LilKidWiz 1 month ago 7
to die by your side, is such a heavenly way to die <3
coftroy 2 months ago
summer was a bitch
DenialGuys 2 months ago
do you remember "The Craft"?
cmaxbenavides 2 months ago
amazing video!! good job.
kurichor 2 months ago
this movie is amazing, and i love the smiths. this video is a fucking perfect match of both.
wob1111 2 months ago 3
awww tom and summer.
brianaburris21 2 months ago
Not even The Smiths can redeem this film.
blackorblue92 2 months ago 3
Esta pelicula es como mi vida
ajglaf 2 months ago 2
If someone said they loved the smiths to you..look the other way or you will have your heart broken...
VINCENTvids 2 months ago 163
@VINCENTvids always the fickle ones that u get lured into
meakins8 2 months ago
@VINCENTvids nope, not gonna happen. especially not if she looks like zooey deschanel
wookiemania94 1 month ago
@VINCENTvids so damn true.....
missygraceful 3 weeks ago
@VINCENTvids I hated Zooey after this movie, I haven't had a girl tell me she loves the Smiths since 1987.
jcschmieder 3 weeks ago
@jcschmieder lol...You shouldn't hate Zooey, the movie was shown in one perspective which was Tom's, plus she's to cute to hate.
VINCENTvids 3 weeks ago 4
@jcschmieder whaat is weird about this movie is the smiths music,the smiths are not popular in usa
folladordeprostis 3 weeks ago
@VINCENTvids Amen to that
bati9rst 3 weeks ago
This stupid fuckin' movie is just not worthy of such a magnificent song...
noozilander 2 months ago
yeah, u prob should see the movie before you speculate what its about... great movie great song...
irky69 2 months ago 11
Chris Hollywood sent me here (:
ThePortraitt 2 months ago
@ThePortraitt same here lol xD
xxxXPuRplEAnGelXxxx 2 months ago
I want a girl who loves Smiths!!!:))
TheKalamarko 2 months ago
@TheKalamarko Who wouldnt!x)
Zfagster 2 months ago
@TheKalamarko Oh hey ;)
mshellr 1 month ago
@mshellr finally,Dreams Come True Girl
TheKalamarko 1 month ago
3rd rock from the summer??
isnt that Tommy? or Im mistaken?
jonnytheoasisfan 2 months ago
does this cunt have to sing in every movie she makes? we don't care, we get it... you're a "quirky, arty, spunky" chick or whatever the fuck you want us to think you are.
yukmust 2 months ago
And I love the smiths. more than you do!
jonnytheoasisfan 2 months ago
the boy fell in love. the girl was honest. then reality. It was love that hurt him. Not the girl.
glendacangeles 2 months ago
INCEPTION. :|
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I love this movie so much and the soundtrack is pretty rad too :D
parisloverful 2 months ago
Hey guys at the start of the video, what headphones is the guy wearing? i really wanna know!
Linear500 2 months ago
@Linear500 Maybe UrbanEars?
KillingMissMarple 2 months ago
@KillingMissMarple Ah cheers buddy, that looks like them.
Linear500 2 months ago
@Linear500 hey i was watching the movie the other day and i saw it was JL WESC, not UE. It's a swedish brand! :)
KillingMissMarple 2 months ago
I've never seen this movie !!!!!! Anyone know the website for it ?
jfjkfj 2 months ago
@jfjkfj 3w.cuevana.tv
gatobarriospoker 2 months ago
stay with the one you love :)
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the John Lewis version is number47 in the itunes chart right now! surrely we fans can get the orginal and the best in the chart this christmas, search "smiths please christmas number 1" facebook and join the page/petition!
hogyncapal 2 months ago
the most meanigfull words were those at the ending:"i woke up a morning and i was sure of what i wasn't sure of with you" (or sth like this).. it happens. the fact that a rellationship may end doesn't mean that there wasn't any love. let's stop being so judgemental, our consiousness judges us enouph..
TheNarkissa282 2 months ago 4
As someone who has been in the same position as the girl, I totally empathise with her. It was neither of their faults that it didn't work, they wanted different things. Summer told him she didn't want a serious relationship, which he didn't really take much notice of which is why he got so hurt. And like she said at the end, when she met the right guy, she was sure of what she never was with Tom. She liked him, but it just wasn't meant to be.
MrArturoui 2 months ago 5
melancholy movie
goldddiggaa 2 months ago
I love the movie, the song... una perfecta combinación.
500daysinpaz 2 months ago
I love The Smiths, therefore I have good taste in music :)
z3pp3lin15 2 months ago
@z3pp3lin15 good for you
oliwalsh1 2 months ago
@z3pp3lin15 Check mr. Noel Gallagher's live cover of the song. its not that bad.
He also released great album few weeks ago.
jonnytheoasisfan 2 months ago
To all the young men out there (and women) who have watched this movie and were left almost clueless, this is a warning about Borderline-Personality types, just hope and pray you never get caught in the cross-hairs of these type of people.
FormerlyKnownAsShun 2 months ago
@FormerlyKnownAsShun I don't think that it's a warning,but merely a reality check.Most romance movies end w/ the guy winning a girl over due to his wonderful personality,but that's not what happens all the time in real life.Sometimes, no matter how hard they try or however hard they try,they can't love you It's not that they don't want to,which you see with Summer who definitely wants to love Tom but she can't force it. And that's ok.People have to understand that life will go on and it'll be ok
lephong 2 months ago
@lephong Well said lephong, I agree. Having dealt with a similar situation as Tom, it was extremely sobering to watch. I feel the writer/director was aiming for both warning/reality check - or maybe they share the same essence? I am not disagreeing at all, again - well put!
FormerlyKnownAsShun 2 months ago
@lephong correction* they try or however you try
lephong 2 months ago
I hated this movie, but I love the Smiths :D
njavdelcampo 2 months ago
she is definitely crazy! and it really does sucks i wish that would not happen to me..
MrPoniong 2 months ago
its rare now n days to find a girl that like's the smiths or knows anything of the 80's i could understand that guy .. girls like that comes around every so often. cheers !! to all those rare ladies
midnitetoker01 2 months ago
Why the fuck did summer marry that other guy, she and Tom were perfect together
pennenbuisje 2 months ago 3
@pennenbuisje wow you've perfectly spoiled the movie for me. thank you!
malubayraymond 2 months ago
@malubayraymond sorry :s
pennenbuisje 2 months ago
@pennenbuisje so...you watched a youtube clip of the film and then read the comments, and assumed you wouldn't see someone commenting about said film. Hohoho
LiamSkimac 2 months ago
loved dis movee where the girl is dude n the boy is chick in d relationship :P
WatDHe11 2 months ago
<3333333333333
lovejesseordie 2 months ago
I love how you can tell this guy instantly wants to marry her because she likes the Smiths. Oh if only he knew...
FarrellMusic 2 months ago
Zooey shouldn't have made this movie, now I will hate her forever. (Kidding)
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yeah i know
happens the same to me
Renato4004 3 months ago
shes so beautiful :O
Diskobanger 3 months ago
i think its just about a dude who imagines and makes up a girlfriend in his head then gets pissed when she doesn't fit into his expectations.
NYC032 3 months ago 48
@NYC032 Nope. summers just a bitch. an uppity better than everyone else super skank
slaughterNik23 1 month ago 2
@slaughterNik23 yiu know what I have been calling every girl out of my league that for the last year,after watching the movie and you just reminded me,thanks
arannya67 1 month ago
if someone said they loved the smiths to me .. the one.
maariahproductionz 3 months ago 101
@maariahproductionz it happend to me on my first date. Still with the girl after 8 years , madly in love and parent of an amazing 2 years old little girl and we still love The Smiths
jomanue 1 month ago 4
I think that they were both in "fake love". They never really had any sort of magical romantic connection; they just liked the same things. That doesn't mean you're in love.
acciodance 3 months ago 4
@acciodance you're totally right
BrianDanielMay 3 months ago
great moviiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiie!!!!!!! xD
Secondchancesable 3 months ago
♥ zooey
♥ the movie
♥ the smiths
coincedence? :))
shairadelapena 3 months ago
@shairadelapena
no, they making the film like that just for you :b
Renato4004 3 months ago
...and thats my life :/
javierkenjutsoka 3 months ago
I really wanted to like this movie, but there's just too much suffering.
The guy is clueless - he just can't bring himself to face the situation.
And the girl, she's horrible - she knows how he feels about her, but
she strings him right along anyway, kissing him in the copy room, dancing with him when she has a guy she's going to get married to, dreadful.
As soon as they break up, she finds somebody to do all the things she wouldn't do with him: commit, fall in love. Crushing for the guy.
biffrod 3 months ago 4
@biffrod it's not her fault though, she wasn't sure if her and Tom's relationship was true love for her, and she even told him at the beginning she wasn't looking for anything serious. When she finally fell in love with someone, it must've been hard for her to break Tom's heart but she had to and the reason why she danced with him is because she still loves him as a friend and he's done so much for her so he has a special place in her heart
hannahthecarter 3 months ago
@hannahthecarter You're right; she did warn him. That's why I said he was clueless. But if she wanted to be just a friend, she should not have kissed him, seduced him, gone through the pretend we're married game at Ikea, and then danced with him like they were getting back together. He was crazy about her, just couldn't handle it. That's not how you should treat your friends. And you're also right about him doing a lot for her. She got all the benefits. All he got: a painful, confusing lesson.
biffrod 3 months ago
@biffrod @biffrod why was it wrong for her to kiss him though? She was obviously attracted to him and you don't have to be in love to have sex. And near the end of the relationship, she had subliminally admitted they were an item, that's why she said "we need to stop seeing each other." that's something a couple would say. She was just afraid because of her past failure relationships and her parent's divorce. She didn't want to give herself completely away to a man until she was certain.
hannahthecarter 3 months ago
@hannahthecarter We can agree to disagree. I still say she played him, treated him very badly. To keep an open mind about it, I think it's interesting you don't see anything wrong with how she behaved.. I guess girls do this without even realizing it. Obviously, lots of them out there enjoyed watching her act this way - that's one reason the movie was such a hit
biffrod 3 months ago
@biffrod actually, if I was in her place I would've treated him completely differently. In my opinion, I don't think that's how you should ever treat someone who loves you, it's not something I would ever do personally. However, there are different types of girls out there and it's not that I don't see anything wrong with how she behaved, it's just that I don't think it's neccesarily her fault.
hannahthecarter 3 months ago
@biffrod thats what women do. every guy over 20 accepts this as the price for getting sticky fingers.
LDP060681 3 months ago
@LDP060681 You may have a point there - now that I think about it, this kind of thing has happened to me a few times. But that doesn't mean I say, "OK, I can relate to this movie" - what I say instead is "That poor bastard" and "That bitch!" ha, ha
biffrod 3 months ago
this video makes me enjoy the song less.
lumberjack988 3 months ago
I really hope that one day I'll find a guy like Tom so we can listen to the Smiths all the time. Plus he's really cute.
ZappaRamba 3 months ago