When you can´t stop thinking of HIM (or her)

[janejohnson89]

I was dumped after an eight year relationship with my boyfriend. We were so in love for a really long time, but he changed after he went to university. Before he was a kind, funny, and loving person, but now all he thinks about is money. He has become very arrogant. He's an exact opposite person from who he was before. I miss him, the man I met. I'm still only 22, a great girl to be around, a loving person and good looking, but I don't want ANYONE else. How can I get over him and move on???

[N243LLA]

Your videos are very helpful. I was doing exactly what you stated. I was wanting him because he broke up with me. Really, I should have left this relationship after finding he was an alcoholic and abusive. I was obsessing about him but deep down inside I know it will never work. To move on, I have blocked him from being able to contact me by phone or text (no social networking blocking is necessary). If he wants to find me, he'll definitely have to come looking for me. I hope he doesn't.

[SelfHelpCollective]

Great stuff, again, Carolin - so true. And NOT just if you're a woman!

(One teeny criticism: this video in particular feels like your audience is women only - lots of him, him, him language! This is a problem for both men and women, though (as you know). And once a woman understands that men feel like this sometimes, it then becomes much less about 'men' (or 'women') and much more, as you say so beautifully in this video, about the individual person concerned!)

Thanks again :)

Steve

[BillyRichie]

This is all so true! thank you so much, exactly what i needed to hear :)

[yourimageunreels]

People need to keep their clothes on if they meet someone they like.

It's what Montel Williams said. Yes, he did.

[edielicristina]

Great video!! Really helped me, thanks! X

[oathandvows]

Explains why I'm only wanted when I am GONE fed up and done been sc*rewed over so badly that there's no chance, NOT valued when I am right there ( I've really just had it and cant be nice anymore. ) The warnings are never headed and when I am GONE I am GONE and NOW I will be sure to be GONE a lot sooner from now on!!!

[carolinlovecoach]

@oathandvows dear, why do you attract people who you need to chase...? If this always happen, what they have in common is you :) Look at your own patterns and make new choices.x

[oathandvows]

@carolinlovecoach Exactly why to be GONE sooner - before it gets to even feeling that way, Really I think many men are good at giving just enough to make you think "Maybe?" especially online because you cannot SEE them, I say really NO more guessing if I cannot really KNOW then it's a ( NO ) and time to move on. ( was a hard lesson to learn. ) And so often when someone says they are not gonna take you for granted it's just talk ( I say show me. )

[jaybee863]

where can i find your book?

[carolinlovecoach]

@jaybee863 hi sweet, which one of them? i´ve written find love, the guy guide and happy days in english. if you check my website and decide which one you want, you can just contact me and I send an invoice etc. thelovecoach dot info

[jaybee863]

how do you stay so positive? i truly do try to be like you . you are beautiful and smart and nice. You are my role model! im only 18 and i hope i can be like you! love jessica, from canada

[carolinlovecoach]

@jaybee863 Thanks sweetie. Staying positive is sometimes hard work, but it is rewarding. No one can feel amazing all the time, but the more devoted you are, the better you get at it :)

[imprezanic0le]

Can you please make a video about extreme jealousy?

[carolinlovecoach]

@imprezanic0le hmm, like when you are the jealous one?

[imprezanic0le]

@carolinlovecoach Yes, please. :)

[carolinlovecoach]

@imprezanic0le Video on jealousy is up and running, just for you :)

[VictoriasRoses]

Thank you! I feel the opposite though he doesnt want me now and I am insulted and I dont want anything to do with him! I wont lower myself to chase him. It does break my heart though because I love him. So long to him and it is his loss!

[bigtazzsmoke99]

Love ur videos & ur so pretty!!!

[Kellbee89]

your videos are so helpful for me! thanks again Carolin! <3

[Greatwhite75]

Thank you! Thank you! I've gone through this again and again, just wasting my time and energy on these types of women. So Thank you for making this video.

[tiaraawells]

thank you! I needed this

[iambery]

Thanks it's so true

[xoxomystyle]

what can i do about a guy i like and have been obsessing for 1 year he lives next door so that may be a reason why, and another reason is because sometimes he does things that gives me hope but i think he's just playing around

[atilecram05]

you are so so good. But when everything around you reminds you about that person (music, places,etc) is really really hard... Will keep trying.

[carolinlovecoach]

@atilecram05 Yes darling, I´m not saying it´s easily done... but that doesn´t mean you should not make an effort to steer your mind into a happier place. Compare with being on a diet; it´s not easy to stay away from chocolate, but you know it´s worth it... x

[ABCutie4]

Thank you! I really needed this :)