a lack of absolutes

[alifewithoutsolace]

i have also had girls who are secretly gay.all orientations have liked me(idk about absolute lesbians cuz im a boy)so if theylike me then they're not all bent r they...but i feel the same way when girls ask me wha tis my type i say the SAME thing- i don't , i can't limit myself to one type of girl or person. idk what i willl end up being. i barely know what i amnow. i feel like i resist myself alot. but i pay for it. idefinitly do. i feel it when i'm alone. iclicked ur vid becasue of the title.

[mitchumsport]

dec. 26-30 are the taint of the year

[jamlove89]

Im in that awkward "20" stage. lol..... one more year i suppose

[plooeyadmas]

hahaha i love the way your voice went at 0:32 when you went "ohyeahhhh" XD

[fatemoana]

im lesbian or queer but me i would date a ftm guy but lol i could fall for a guy great vido and you would make a cute elf lol :)

[whoisxiao]

Texas snow! I know

[loosegoose01]

Kade... I thought you were a biological guy,

You stun me, I'm so proud you made this vid :D

haha the elf voice... max a like???

I THINK SO MATEYY!!! xxx

[marisolvelazquez218]

Kade it's great that you can put ur experience on this topic. I think that no matter what ur sexual orientation is, there will always be this thought in ur head that makes u question urself. Some have the good fortune to know at a young age that they already who they are. Others it just takes time figure out, not only their sexual orientation, but their personalities.

AWESOME VID!!

:)))

[bri101ify]

LOL! Did NOT expect the elven accent! Hahaha! I know what you mean about the "spare" days between Xmas and New Year! Very interesting to hear your perspective on the whole "crush" issue - the advice to really question why you might feel that way and where the thoughts are coming from is awesome - and you're right, there are no "absolutes" in this.

[paragirl92RIOT]

hahaha...the elf voice makes you sound like Max from TLW. =]

[pinkblack179]

IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU!

[adri92239]

Love the new voice ^_^

[thistownisalive]

the longer hair makes you look a bit younger! although, i do like it. didn't even recognize you tbh. and the elf voice killed me it was hard to take this video seriously

[polkadot0tanktop]

I spent the whole first part of this video trying to figure out what happened to your voice lol!

You had lots of good things to say. I guess sometimes it might help people to stop feeling like they need to fall within "the lines." I'm a woman married to a man, have never dated another woman but I am attracted to certain women and I have found myself thinking you're quite attractive too so...it's just easier to have an openness when it comes to sexual preferences and identities, I think.

[kms2oo8]

Turning 20 means you don't have to be 19 anymore. Big deal for me, twin. My birthday's coming up, by the way. ;-)

[zzzzaah]

thank you for not doing the whole video in the elf voice.

[kaylayasmin]

thanks kade, i really loved the vid this week. as somebody who is also struggling with a "man crush" right now, i felt that your vid (and also mel's input on aj's vid) helped me the most. as much as it's understood that labels are just "there," i think we still have a long way to go before true sexual fluidity is accepted. it's a scary thing to forgo labels! as always, your views proved to be invaluable - to me, and i'm sure to many others.

[alexje90]

texas snow?

[jamexxxxxx]

i feel sorry for you to live with that voice

[beaverbunch]

it was definitely a computer effect. haha.

unless you were talking about the entire video. in which case.... thanks.

[jamexxxxxx]

no i am about computer effect

[Louise515]

Hi Kade - season's greetings! I'm a mtf and have always only felt attracted to women so consider myself lesbian. However, every now and again I do have man crushes in that I can find particular men attractive and interesting. But... I don't fancy them sexually at all! Happy New Year!

[metricdisco24]

I'm not sure how your crushing on a lesbian would be similar to you having a man crush... because... that would still be a lady. eh?

[xxcoolFreakxx]

yeah that didnt make sense

[beaverbunch]

i'm a straight guy. lesbians like women.

i was trying to show the contrast in sexualities and how wires can get crossed very quickly.

[viciousandchaotic]

'it could happen to ANYBODY' XD

but srsly you are amazing...

[eyeballgoop]

Nice work Kade. :)

[pete275]

texas snow? is that an euphemism for cocaine?

[beaverbunch]

haha. no, its definitely not.

it snowed this year in texas.

doesn't happen often.

[BasicallyHaley]

heya pete! :D

[OnlyGirlsLikeMe]

kade.. I prefer your other hair..

you look like a 13-year-old x_x

[beaverbunch]

just trying something new,

but thanks for the input!

[jeremy1350]

Always wise. Always good. Well said Kade. I hope you had a Merry Christmas.

Jeremy

[mmmass19]

i love you Kade. thanks for the advice

[skipperdoofus]

yes, the dallas white christmas was pretty epic.

[JessTy2008]

19 got left out of that count....that's depressing

[disbemissann]

Are you a woman-to-man transgender? That's incredible!!!

[voulezvous88]

sorry this isn't even what the video's about, but I laughed my ASS off when you said turning 20 is lame. I just turned 20 and TOTALLY agree!!!! hahaha good sense of humor there, kade.

[cornstarch27]

hahaha! i was like whaaat?! whats up with the camera? why does kade sound like that? nice voice :] 

mass Christmas texts are lame

[jessy692029]

love the elf voice!!

[ThePastIsTomorrow]

loved that voice for the intro of your video ! so cool kade !