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  • I no she liked it :)

  • Why would anybody molest you?!

  • I can relate to this so much. I wish I couldn't... but I can. Some of the things you said in this video... well it just feels like you've read my mind. I wish you the best. I admire you're bravery to talk about it. The fact that I was molested crosses my mind every day, even if it's only for a nano second. It haunts me. I never talk about it. I don't know what to do. I feel so wrong... every day of my life. Thanks for this video though... it feels bittersweetly nice to relate to someone.

  • i hope that sikfuk guy got shanked in prison

  • Don't blame yourself or spend the rest of your life having sex issues. PERVERTS ARE THE REASON MOLESTATION AND RAPE EXIST! And often their motive is to create another like themselves, because;a) Misery loves company and b) ' if everyone is doing it then I'm not a freak'. IT happened to a helpless child, don't dwell on it or the pervert wins. Living well is the best revenge!

  • i was 7 years old when i was molested i was raped/molested several times until the age of 11/12

  • I was raped by a boy named Adam. He leaned his head on my privates and then got closer and closer. I wasn't to sure what to do. I was only 11 and he was 18. I have only told my best friend who then afterwards touched me in bad places. Thank you.

  • i was also molested by my g-pa i was 13 it went on for a year i never told anyone he died last year from old age he was a nice person i was his favorite granddaughter my cousin forced me to have sex with him we were very close he just turned 16 yesterday seems like if i get very close to some1 in my family they would molest me D': no one knows what my g-pa or my cousin did to me cause it'll only chaos in my family my whole family thinks my family are weirdos becuz what my brother did to me im 16

  • @grandpagirl22 aww i'm so sorry it almost broke my heart to see ur name as "grandpagirl"

  • i was molested by my brother when i was only 9 years old and he was 16 years old...he didnt force me i went along with it becuz i was curious about sex everytime he would come in my room i would get scared i didnt want him touching me anymore it went on for i think 2 weeks?i told my mom but i have no memory of telling her or how it came to happen all i remember is what he did to me becuz of him i dont remember hardly any of my childhood.

  • @JuliaCuppcake321 I Feel Like I Constantly Need Attention From Him Or Sumbody ; I Jus Feel Soo Dirty):

  • A Cuple Months Ago My Step Brother Molested Me ; It Was On My Birthday, I Accidentally Fell Asleep In His Room, Nd At First I Jus Felt Sumone Touching Me, I Was Scared Nd Frozen I Didn't Kno What Tew Do.. I Thought At First Tht It Was Jus A Dream.. Bhut Then He Tried Putting His Hand Into My Pants, I Kept Moving Trying Tew Make Him Stop Bhut He Didn't ; Nd Another Time He Came Into My Room While I Was Sleeping Nd Acctually Fingered Me): I'm Soo Scared I Want Tew Tell Bhut I'm Terrified

  • @JuliaCuppcake321 You should not "feel dirty" or ashamed, and I too was molested as a child. Please contact 1-800-843-5678 and they will be able to help you. I can understand that you don't want to cause problems in you home but this is not your fault.

  • COnTINUED: i havent seen him since. And he only did it twice, i think. Not sure. Does that count?

  • @thriller1901 WHAT DO YOU MEAN DOES THAT COUNT! of course it counts, its your body and no one have the right to touch it! dont 4 a second think tht what he did wasnt wrong. Just know that even if it happened and it still bothers you today, you can stay strong and your not alone

  • I know what you mean;( i too was molested by one of my friends that i had known a great deal. I was 7, and i didnt know what was going on. I didnt tell until now, because since he was 11, i thought that it didnt count. He still touched me, but nothing was bare. I had a little common sense to not let him touch me on the bare parts. He wanted me to undress and show and touch me then, but i didnt let him. He touched me while my underwear was still on. Doesnt cover any excuses. I havent seen him si

  • mine was very bad and nasty wen i was a kid my own blood molested me it disgusting me now i have sick thought in my head i dont fukin like my past i was raised like miserable

  • i was what you're feel :(

  • big ass cat.

  • my stupid uncle molested me 2 days i dont know what to do.. who should i tell, i want to tell my parents but i cant.. i trusted him, we were really close until he what he did, what should i do.. he asked sorry but i didnt accept it, he told me he had lots of problems.. but i still cant get over of what he did

  • @eunhaeforever come talk to me there girl .

  • I was molested by my mom's bf's son. 1-2 times a week, for 4 years.

  • Her Mom Boyfriends deserves the Death Penalty and her mom deserves prison for letting this happend

  • Hey woman,don't let that son of a bitch destroy your life.My step father did about the same(not so badly though-he was molesting her but not plysicaly).When i got 18 i beat him till he dropped almost dead.You have a choise make your mind and do what's good for you.You can make it though it seems almost impossible.That goes for all of you women!As a man now i feel so angry about these so called "men".Shame.

  • Break the Silence. At age 14, I was abducted, beaten and sexually assaulted by a previously convicted pedophile. He never went to trial because he was brutally beaten to death in the streets of Providence, RI in 1975. No one has been charged with his murder. For 34 years, less than a dozen people knew my story. Now the story of my abduction, beating and sexual assault followed by the unsolved brutal murder of my assailant is a novel. Men in My Town by Keith Smith available now at Amazon.

  • @keithsmithnj And you found the time to show up ur stupid book in this woman's story video.You are pathetic and he did well to you,as it seems you dont really carea bout anyone but your self....Shut the fuck up

  • I was tricked into giving my uncle a handjob when I was four xC

  • girl i now how u feel confused scared and so many other feeling most want 2 tell someone but they dont know how they will react so they keep it for years and they regret it at the end i know how u feel

  • yea excatly 3rd grade - 6th grade

  • plz visit my channel so we can talk .....we have went through alot and almost the same senerio , dont forget to subscribe.......it'll be ok

  • lol

  • i;m sorry this happened to you i no how how you feel , and to that he didn;t no better honey he was the adult he should no better .god bless you

  • We never get over it! Things seem fine for periods of time then WHAM there is a disgusting memory. It's really sad how many children really have been sexually abused.

  • Girl I know how it feels to have been throug what u went through he stole ur inocense but u know what ma u survived it ur a strong woman i went through this and never told no one because i was embarassed and afraid and im still dealing with it like you. but we strong... what dont kill us only makes us stroger. those people that comment negative things is only cause they never went through it.

  • So messed up they cant really have a relationship anymore. Sad

  • see ritualabuse(dot)us(backslash)r­itualabuse

    Proof That Ritual Abuse Exists

    Satanic ritual abuse exists all over the world. There have been reports, journal articles, web pages and criminal convictions of these horrific crimes against children and adults.

    There has also been an attempted cover up of these crimes by child pornographers, those with pro-pedophilia philosophies and those defending child molesters in the public or legal arena

  • Children are NEVER at fault for sexual abuse. It is the responsibility of the perpetrator, not the child.

  • I understand what your going through...Im not going to go into detail... sorry you got such a horrible response

  • Two of my uncles sexually molested me since I was still a toddler. I can vividly remember that, and feel very bad by what happened. I don't desire for anyone to go through traumatizing situations like the ones I lived.

  • And how would i deserve that?..you just wait until you have children.

    im only 16 now and saying that i deserved to get raped? please..grow up.

  • Hello,

    I'm looking for more stories to tell and many of you have already come forward.

    The project, which is expanded into written form as well.

    If your interested, I would like to speak with you over the phone so that we can talk more about this.

    please let me know as soon as you can, as I have pending deadlines.

    all the best,

    sandra c. roa

  • for all the ppl hating on this..yall r F*CKING BASTARDS..i was raped at 15 and even if the guy would have just kissed me and forced it..it would still bother me to this day u wont understand it..im sure uve felt uncomfortable around people i just dont understand how yall could be so shallow, its hard to talk about these type of things and for yall to bash her down even more after something like that is just low

  • I think this video was a great piece, it really covers something that a lot of people don't. I mean the sidebar was right, most victims know the people who molested or sexually abused them. It's so sad. I know that I can definitely relate to this story, and in saying that I can say that when you see that person that hurt you so badly, that's the only thing you can think about. It's so hard to be around that person, and more often than not, NO ONE except the victim and the perpitrator know.

  • @SadeBrightside true true everytime i look at my older brother he disgust me and always mad inside of me

  • it doesnt matter if its fake alot of fiction highlights abuse and other issues that people wouldnt talk about. at least this is sending a message acted or genuine

  • i am a victim too i know ur feelings of guilt and shame they always say its not your fault yeah you know its not but you cant help but feel so ashamed of it

  • Please don't think I'm insensitive, but was it more than just a kiss? Because I was kissed as a boy by a teenage girl & I was not offended at all. Maybe it's different for a boy. I don't know. It must have been more than a kiss. Not trying to be funny at all, but I remember wishing that a woman would teach me how to do it all. So maybe the experience is different for a boy. but when a man tried to molest me I was very repelled & revolted,does the sex,age or looks of offender make a difference?

  • I have been through sexual abuse, 7 straight years of my childhood. {by my older brother 8 yrs older than i, he was in his teens, i was age 4 when he started sexually abusing me ended at 10yrs}... now as an adult i was raped by a different man... :( My heart goes out to you. I'm not afraid to speak of it, which is what I feel has helped me the most. I plan to one day be the founder of a Woman's rites organization, dealing directly on bringing the public awareness to what it should be!!!!

  • Well, you know i think it is absolutely disgusting and wrong but... Molestation is not just sex with a minor it can be kissing. Which can also have a huge effect on someone's life. But it has a different effects. So yes it does matter. Maybe this lady should be sad and screwed up but probably not the worst case out there. And keep in mind that if she didn't seem broken up as hell she would have been put in the video. BTW KissMeImPunk why so passionate about the subject? I think you have a story?

  • Hang in there. It gets better.

  • so i don't understand did the older guy have sex with her or just force her to kiss him?

  • Are you that fucking stupid?

  • Does it matter?! Either w3ay it's disgusting and wrong and heartbreaking for the victim!

  • me either

  • ohhhhhhhh so painfull.......pray to de god

    did not suffer other like u

  • I hope this helps to emphasize

    I hope this helps to clarify

    I hope you die

  • this video was sad and kinda painful for me to listen to what she was sayin and what happened to her

  • nobody deserves to be abused in any form, the people who are doing it are destroying our good society and should be ashamed

  • You have courage and you deserve peace of mind

    Be aware these people prey on the helpless You are blameless and I hope life turns in your favor

  • I am one male who experienced sexual abuse since I was a little kid up till my teens, by people in my family. It totally destroyed everything... which I am rebuilding slowly but surely... is scary... and very sad the ravages...

  • im so sorry

  • owch thats just nasty.

    fuckin sicko is NOT a nice person...needs at least psycriatitc help if not medieval torture

  • keep fighting.....local law enforcement should crack down on these types of things.....instead of harassing innocent people.

  • barvo ...claps..

  • wow i have heard about this be 4 but it takes a lot to put it on the web i hope u find peace with ur pass and may god bless

  • Courageous of you to tell this.

  • WTF!

    3 years!

  • i feel sorry for you babe

    im here

    ha

  • I would say poor girl, or sumthing like that, but past experience shows me that not many people appreciate someone else's pity because it drives home the point that you had a horrible experience.

    But i agree with mom9198, dont let the past shape what you will be and move on.

  • I agree, pity can be so glib but Monica if you're watching this, I'm sending you a big hug. I hate to see people in pain that someone else wilfully inflicted on them.

  • I AM REALY SOORY FOO

  • aww i love that cat

  • What does this have to do with StarCraft?

  • lolwut?

  • what the fuck are you talking about??!!

  • May I suggest a form of self-defence =)?

  • lolololo

  • Thank you so much for sharing your story and having the courage to put it on the web for the world to see. Don't let the abuse of your past define you. Rise above the abuse and LIVE your life for you and for your future. It's okay to grieve for the hurt child inside, and now become an empowered woman. Best wishes, and again, thank you for sharing!

  • The blame rests firmly on the MEDIA. Hollywood. Porn. Those that control the Media. Those that own the Media.

    Just my opinion.

  • Young lady, NEVER rationalize abusive behavior from an adult to a child. At TEN w/a needy mom,that ass locked on to your whole situation!

    Abusive people have VERY strong radar for needy people.

    Good for you to put this on the web! But NEVER allow yourself to be a victim in your mind. Your sweet innocense is still YOURS to value and to ultimately share with the one you love, butWhen you say "He didn't know any better" - WRONG!HE's a criminal and DO NOT rationalize his thought

    God bless you

  • this chicks got balls. if something like this had happened to me id be too much of a bitch put it on youtube, or anywhere for that matter. props nigga

  • thank you both for sharing this experience. I really hope that Monica finds solace and peace with her past

  • Guy who did this to her, must be hit 100 lashes, and hanged by crain in the middle of road...such a lame looser on face of earth...

  • she said she was 10 not 13

  • My full support for the person who made this vid. It happened to me from 2-10 years-old. It messes u up harsh.

  • Girl interrupted...

    The American experience.

    A heavy price comes with the sexual freedom of the American culture.

    Three quarter divorce rate plus the 20% molestation rate of daughters from dads/step steps.

  • Also, the expression of american women are greatly oppressed by the Good Old Boys in charge of the media.

    Even on the various women's cable network, this subject is now tabooed. On the other hand the American airwaves are flooded with false images of the perfect man, husband and lover.

    Reason why I dont support the Good Old Boy's brain washing media. Twilight, Notebook and other propagandas. Those images cripple our minds and make us volnerable.

  • Unfortunately, abundant research indicates that this happens in *all cultures* and *all strata* of society. This includes oppressive cultures, and *cannot reasonably* be blamed on freedom.

    Right wingers like to use pedophilia as pseudo-justification in slippery slope arguments for their moralistic intolerances and phobias.

  • Saphistische, its comforting to our pride to think that, but if you check the U.N. records, American men are responsible for the vast majority of the child slavery in the sex industry. Over 500,000 children are kin napped and imported to the United States to meet the sexual perversion of politicians, doctors, lawyers, and business men. Wealthy educated men who can afford to buy the services of a child.

    Sorry to spoil your Hollywood image of America.

  • This has zip to do with my pride or a delusional rosy view of the US -- I'm Canadian.

    Here are official Canadian stats:

    1 in 3 females and 1 in 6 males in Canada experience some form of sexual abuse before the age of 18.

    80% of all child abusers are the father, foster father, stepfather or another relative or close family friend of the victim.

    Incestuous relationships last 7 years on average

    All countries, all social strata. 1 in 3 females would equate to 50 million American women

  • Its men (or women) like you that slow the awareness of equality for women. Cananda or where ever.

    Ignorance is a terrible thing.

    Ignorance mixed with pride and arrogance is even worse.

    You simply refuse to do your homework. God knows, that your instincts are more accurate then large groups of people who dedicate their lives to trying to help women.

  • You make too many assumptions, arcticsnow. I treat it (succesfully) and I have done my homework. I think that 50 million outweighs 500,000.

    You appear determined to personally demonstrate that pride mixed with arrogance is worse than terrible.

    If you have nothing intelligent or informative to contribute, then I'd advise you to STFU.

  • @Saphistische

    Is it your goal to find videos of broken women and to undermind their experiences?

    I hope you grow up and find a better hobby.

    And please, doing homework isn't about watching TV.

    I am done talking to the like of you.

    Maybe if I ignore you, you'll stop posting on this poor women's video.

  • arcticsnow, you really do exhibit the most extraordinary propensity for misinterpretation and ignorance. By all means, stop talking to me. This is exactly what I requested earlier.

  • @articsnow Yes, the numbers must be far less in other places where the odds of prosecution is virtually zero and being 10-13 means it is time to get married.... Come on!

  • Oh that poor woman. I just would like to know where this guy lives.......

  • I hope you are able to get past this, either through therapy or on your own. It is important for you to move on, even though it terribly painful. You deserve to have a good, happy and productive life. Don't allow this man's disgraceful actions to rob you of your own fufillment and happiness. You deserve happiness, joy and peace.

  • In mu opinion the most disgusting thing a human can do is to sexually molest a child in any way... For me is worse than murder or anything else... going through this life with the beauty of childhood memories darkened by the acts of a selfish molester pig must be unbearable...

    My respect to the people who lives like this and don't go crazy... hang in there!

  • you got that right.

  • well. this was a deep video. its depending the way you handle and manage yourself when your older. thats the hard part.

    but i gotta say. the aboriginal cultures(natives) went through alot sexual abuse and other acts of violence, even as very young children. This was during when natives went to residential schools.

    but aye. for the person in this video. hang in there.

    im not comparing, but your not the only one...its wrong to goe through that

  • give me his name and adress and I will send a couple of my friends with baseball bats to "talk" to him

  • Not only females get molested.....

  • A big majority are. Not only humans get 'molested'.

  • gay too lawl

  • i hope that guy gets raped for three years

  • maybe he was and then he did it to his girlfriend's daughter. It says victims repeat the cycle all over again.

  • Only some victims, almost always males, repeat the cycle. Female victims typically self-abuse.

  • Where did you learn that?

  • @BACXNorthDivision Sure, let us promote more violence. What happens when those guys who rape him get out? They will go on to likely commit even more rapes, this time with women!

  • last time i was going to buy food from my home town and one old man call me little girl becasle i was 9 year old but then i eveyday go buy things and he keep calling me and folowing me so i run fast as i can so i tell my mother and my mother say don't go and buy thing if you saw that man

  • that poor woman..

    I feel for her

  • FUCING GAY MAN

  • Even so, there are nice guys who are NOT pedophiles. Not everyone should be discriminated. Just aware.

  • that last comment was intended for fekman, and was from me, not the person it says its from

  • I see alot of demons on this page, I'm dustin off my nine for you MFs.

  • sad...

  • Google "EMDR" and find a therapist who performs it. You might find it very helpful. Love and Blessings to you.

    Dr. D

  • Im very sorry for u God bless u-I wouldnt trust my twin girls or my son with anyone

  • So sorry.

    Can you charge him with his crimes?

    Did your mother ever know?

    Yes, we all need companionship, but she would not have wanted you harmed in any way.

    I never would have thought it a risk, either.

    Where is the criminal, now?

  • Oh, and my apologies for the long and possible improperly typed posts, its 3 in the bloody morning. :T

  • Sorry about the long stream of posts, I just wanted to try and open up a few more minds. These type of people deserve a punishment, but I believe death is too harsh.

  • sorry, about the last comment, I think in order to tackle the problem we should just help prevent it so that future rapists have a chance at mental stability

    otherwise we're just repeating the cycle

  • Not saying all of these are trolls either, but I certainly do believe they are... -__-

    And for those who wonder why men look for younger girls (these types) I've read somewhere in the past there was a time when people this young and old were allowed to marry because the expected life-span was shorter than. Then there is the fact that we most likely see younger females as healthier and deep down everyone wants a healthy, and fertile mate (or soon to be anyways).

  • I heard that they reason men even abuse women in general is because they want to feel stronger than somebody and that many rapists ctually have mates or partners who they're actually sleeping with so it's not like they're doing it for sex

    I also read a majority of the people that commit those crimes do so time and time again and if they did it once, they might do it again so maybe death isn't the worst option

    (just my opinion) tho many seem to suffer horrible traumas

  • Another thing I should add , a lot of these people who make those negative comments are most likely trolls. In otherwords quit replying to them you're just amusing them with your bloody antics.

    And no, none of the victims deserve this, but saying to kill the molesters is also equally vile.

  • For those of you who keep threatening the molesters please realzie that there are some people out there who don't realize its wrong because they went through a similar ordeal and tried to relive these acts (this isn't true for everyone though, but this is what I was told by a teacher who said this from experience before...).

    Another thing, there are bad parents who allow children below the age of 12 to wear slutty clothing, its quite sickening really... -.-;;

  • I think people that dosn't have anything constructive to say should shut the hell up.

  • people who rape shud just get shot in their head no matter wat

  • Mine began as far back as I can remeber at the age of two.

    Therapy, time....It doesn't go away.

    No matter the age, how many times, etc.

    The basis is Always shame - Yet the shame is NOT OUR FAULT.

  • I've begun to think shaming someone is the ultimate power to have over someone. It's sad and that's what I think alot of abusers use over their victims.

  • Not true !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!

  • I'm also a survivor of child molestation. When I was five, he put me under hypnosis, when he molested me.

  • Can Someone Please EXPLAIN All The Horrible Comments ? I'm Lost On This One

  • Some people are ignorent and they really don't understand that it could happen to anyone.

  • people need power. if they're too weak to express it with individual freedom, they express it by tormenting others.

  • i was 12 when i had my....."experience"

    we were over seas and the guy was around thirty years old.

    fortunately for me it was only once and a stranger. But i remember knowing that in reality was sooo hot and feeling so cold

  • Things like this makes me sick of the human race, and all u retards posting messed up comments, Cowarding behind a screen name and acting like you just grew some balls, or you really mean what ur saying, either way in the end you will judge yourself or remain on the lowest level of human life, better known as scum.

  • I Feel exactly the same way, either women these days just too impatient or insecure to wait and find the right person, or to blind and cant see whats right in front of them. and ofcourse there are the sluts. lol

  • Good call.

  • woah woah not all guys only get married for that.

    Second income.

    XD no but seriously you'll find a great guy out there, places to avoid - bars, clubs, online dating, places where most guys are looking for just sex :)

  • What is with all you losers leaving rude comments? Guess you're only tough behind a computer screen, I doubt you would say your comments in a public place where people could actually look at you with disgust. Get a life!

  • This is very well done.

    The pattern repeats from childhood to adulthood in relationships.

    Let this be a message to all mothers. Keep an eye on your kids, even when it's inconvenient.

  • My heart goes out to the person in this video and everyone that has been through this.

    To: Everyone who has something disrespectful about this video, shame on you.

  • this comment goes out to FattyPattySoup aswell, i find what you have said morally wrong and appaling aswell, but im not going to blame you or ridicule you. Its your opion as this is mine, ignorance isn't bless as the old saying goes. Some people just cant help that they dont know better and its actually really sad to say that from your comments you fall into this category. Pleace do us a public favor get an education and possibly a consciance.

  • this society is DISGUSTING. Child molestation is APPALLING and ABOMINABLE.

  • Fuck all of you who are leaving these disrespectful comments. My own girlfriend had this happen to her when she was a little girl. Believe me it never goes away. it leaves scars that stay for many years. This lady is strong for speaking out.

  • @jasonbobbymiller Has it made her a nastier lover? Does she ever try to recreate those moments?