@Babeontoast, do your self a large favor, get rid of the hate!! Instead work to create a balanced system, one that creates peace and justice. A system that is fair to all , instead of promoting a hate filled agenda. A fair shake, creates a feeling of justice and that makes it possible to have peace and working relationship. Men that don't want kids, can say no, just women can now.
Babeontoast, its obvious you did not pay attention. I am for equality, that means reproductive choice for men too! Most men want children and families. There ok with supporting and raising the kids. They do not want and will not accept the one sided arrangement. You are basically hate filled individual, that has does not understand that everybody had rights, that includes women. More and more women are becoming noncustodial parents ,should we take away their rights too??
You mean, no more bitter pricks wanting to control women who kicked them to the curb? Take a look around the world, boys, it's not women FAILING children. Be MEN for a change and look after your children. I'm tired of my tax dollars going to feed children abandoned by pathetic, rotten pricks.
The parenting contract and yes, that is what the courts call it, need to be mutual and fair. A contract , by legal, definition , is bilateral , ie two way. But the corrupt system had given all the choices and rights to the woman. Once men learn the law and it's called the "law of voids" you can cut off the money, power and control, women will then realize rights have limits and responsibilities atached , men will have rights and women will have to respect and abide by them.
@unclefixer Women still do the vast majority of child-rearing. If the father's rights nazis had their way, children can be raised on 50 or less a month. They are not interested in caring for the children. If you selfish, entitled boys want to raise the children after the divorces, get off your LAZY asses and raise the children BEFORE them.
This why we need to develope the "man's pill". Once men can say, no, I don't think I will have a child right now or have a child with you. Then you will see a change. Also men need to learn the law, band together and get rid of the biased system. Fact is, most orders for child support are void and you can get rid of them. This does not mean you don't have to provide , no you can just do it in a private arrangement, where you have rights that you can enforce. This might just stop the women.
@unclefixer So it's up to the selfish, lazy penises to take control of their lives? Golly.....so many women wanting to breed with those disgusting wimps and failures....NOT!!! Grow a brain, woman-hater.
It amazes me that most of the comments left are taking a black and white stance (not referring to race, btw, just contrast of opinions) I know for a fact that there are plenty of men out there that just don't give a damn and refuse to pay child support or make an effort to see the child (and then accuse the woman of keeping the child from him even when that's not the case). However, I also know for a fact that there are some women who refuse to allow visitation even with payment of child support
There is no reason to make this about blanket statements. Not all women are at fault in issues of child support/child custody, just as not all men are at fault in the same issues. Many times, it is a joint fault between the mother and father of the child.
@TheMsHotMama True but MOST of the time it is the fault of the woman since they are the ones, who for the most part, are the ones collecting child-support and/or alimony...
@TheMsHotMama MOST often it is the case. MOST. :) Truth is, these dudes don't want to see or provide for their kids as much as they claim. They just want CONTROL.
@BabeonToast I know they don't. My daughter's dad flat out left the country and told me that I could figure out how to raise my daughter on my own, he wanted nothing to do with either of us. I understand that that's not always the case, but I'm willing to bet that a lot of the men whining about men not having the ability to see their kids or not wanting to pay child support for fear of the money not being used for the kids, etc, are really just too scared to do what my daughter's dad did...
It's amazing how more tax dollars are use to enforce child support, but the child gets little or none. It's like.... No it is the system banking on the parents greed,but calling it a child's need. When the son commits a crime they sing that struggling single mother and daddy was never around to the judge. little does she know the judge could care less. Because he knows it is his system that orchestrated this outcome. They no longer need her now. She is the forever dumped dummy.
If a woman pops out a kid and the man never sees the child then it is not really his at all. It has his DNA but so what? It is her kid and she should have to pay for it since she is raising it and doesn't allow the father to see it whenever he wants. In no other circumstances does anyone get rights without responsibility. If you go on a business trip and want the right to not show recipts then you have the responsibility to pay for it yourself. Same concept.
@MrFalcon675 Woman also have the get out of mother free card. Its called the SAFE HAVEN LAW,, it allows mothers to abandon their child at disignated hospitals, police and fire stations. It was enacted to prevent infants from being thrown into dumpsters and garbage pails. NIce huh?
Why do we join your movement? Better still, we need to get our collective asses off Youtube and start a movement to educate, inform and most importantly fight back.
"This is just one more reason that equality will not exist between BM and BW due to the warped sense of "justice" in the US! The courts favor women:hands down! justice,real justice, is a thing that most courts fall short on especially when it comes to women related issues!"
Intercourse, "recreational" or otherwise, can result in pregnancy. Birth control is not just the responsibility of females. Men do have a choice not to become fathers. They can either not have sex or have a vasectomy. Not all women believe in abortion as an option and once a child is born there is a responsibility for both parents to provide for the child. When child support is calculated the mother's income is factored in and payments are based on both parents income and are held accountable.
@1975tnrose I think your missing his point. Women have complete control over whether or not the child will even exist. Men do not have this option. Only when men have the same rights as women should they be held equally responsible. If I'm riding with you in a car, and you crash it, should I be equally responsible for your medical bills just because I was getting a ride from you. No. You had control of the vehicle and therefore should be responsible for the outcome of your medical condition.
@1975tnrose Men do have a Right not to become fathers? This is absolutely false. Paternity Fraud is an epidemic in this Country and innocent men are forced into servitude and slavery for children that arent theirs ALL the time. A vesectomy? Changes nothing for the corrupt Courts since Steve Berreras not only was snipped he was forced to pay $40,000 for a child tha was never born in the widely piublicized Phanthom Baby Case..
thank you i am in this boat.i am white and i thank you read my mind.my x moved off 100mi.and dont let me see my son.the so called law wont backup the court order and make her do her part unless i pay 1200.00$ to take her to court again.and if i dont pay thay well come pick me up and put me in jail just on her word.njce deal for men here in ar.keep up the good work.
If my bitch ever did that to me, I'd simply expatriate to another country and leave her with the child. It's not that hard to expatriate either, just learn a skill.
Tired negro, spewing tired shit. If you don't want to make a baby use a rubber, you stupid ass. Here is how negroes trying to justify not supporting his child...this is how negroe males do it, do it. Laughing stock of the world. black males are shameless. Black men are responsible for his.
@DeadSleepers Wrong it does not take two to make a baby. It takes two to get a women pregnant. The women makes the baby, has the right to have or not to have the baby, and therefore should be held more responsible.Haven't you EVER heard "More Rights, More Responsibility" growing up?Didn't your parents teach you this? How about your boss? Women now have more rights than men and should be more responsible in their actions and the outcome of those actions. Typical greedy women BS.
@Scott19seventy5 Wtf are you talking about? I was saying that we NEED to hold women accountable because in today's society that is lacking. All the baby factories and single mothers producing a majority of our nation's violent criminals on welfare is proof positive. I was actually AGREEING with single mothers being in the wrong.
@DeadSleepers Yea, I know what you were saying. I was just trying to make the point that women "make" babies, not men. I wasn't disagreeing with your need to hold women accountable.
I dont know if you are the only black man that is outraged, im white and I am outraged more specifically at your community and what your women are doing to your men, its fucked up. I dont want to sound racist, ive been around the world but black women in AMERICA are SOO different than black women in other countries. I love black women (really attracted to them) but I cant stand AMerican Black Women I know this isnt a black issue either just discussing it because its your channel
@MrAwesomesauce2 I concur brother, these chickenheads are out of control. Bunch of Oprah Jrs.! And by the way, I'm Black, so no racism charges. DOWN WITH FEMINISM, MENS RIGHTS MENS RIGHTS!!!!!!!
@MrAwesomesauce2 ...Well, just so that you know, the vast majority of American black females are not attracted AT ALL to WHITE AMERICAN MALES. Be clear on that. LOL
@MrAwesomesauce2 white guys like you need to speak up about this issue more. Just be warned you will be accused of being a bw hater, unfounded or not.
Spending $100,000 on gaining child custody is not considered to be abnormal. Why must a man go bankrupt to gain access to his child? How does that money benefit anyone other than the family court system? It should be called the Family Liquidation Court
How can a woman legally de-parent a father and shut out the father's extended family from accessing their grandchild or nephew?
Right on. You are an important voice in a growing movement for men's rights. In the eyes of the law, women have more rights.
Consider that the family court system is a father-only extortion and judge-kickback system that forces fathers to spend a lot of money on lawyers, psychologists, monitors and other "experts". Lawyers may even take a cut of the child support award.
@shmiggen why is it that you go straight for th lazy man when most men want to be there for their kids but these nasty women just want money and to banash the man until the child get s to teenage years and then she can't handle him and then she wants the dad to swoop in and fix everything. Child support is a scam.
@SPIEDEL29 Shit, I don't even remember making that comment! Where are all the other comments? It looks like I was responding to someone, but who? Where is everyone? I never side with women in these matters. I think child support should be abolished. Huh. I don't recall making that comment, unless there is another shmiggen on youtube.
@Babeontoast, do your self a large favor, get rid of the hate!! Instead work to create a balanced system, one that creates peace and justice. A system that is fair to all , instead of promoting a hate filled agenda. A fair shake, creates a feeling of justice and that makes it possible to have peace and working relationship. Men that don't want kids, can say no, just women can now.
unclefixer 2 months ago
Babeontoast, its obvious you did not pay attention. I am for equality, that means reproductive choice for men too! Most men want children and families. There ok with supporting and raising the kids. They do not want and will not accept the one sided arrangement. You are basically hate filled individual, that has does not understand that everybody had rights, that includes women. More and more women are becoming noncustodial parents ,should we take away their rights too??
unclefixer 2 months ago
You mean, no more bitter pricks wanting to control women who kicked them to the curb? Take a look around the world, boys, it's not women FAILING children. Be MEN for a change and look after your children. I'm tired of my tax dollars going to feed children abandoned by pathetic, rotten pricks.
BabeonToast 2 months ago
The parenting contract and yes, that is what the courts call it, need to be mutual and fair. A contract , by legal, definition , is bilateral , ie two way. But the corrupt system had given all the choices and rights to the woman. Once men learn the law and it's called the "law of voids" you can cut off the money, power and control, women will then realize rights have limits and responsibilities atached , men will have rights and women will have to respect and abide by them.
unclefixer 3 months ago
@unclefixer Women still do the vast majority of child-rearing. If the father's rights nazis had their way, children can be raised on 50 or less a month. They are not interested in caring for the children. If you selfish, entitled boys want to raise the children after the divorces, get off your LAZY asses and raise the children BEFORE them.
BabeonToast 2 months ago
This why we need to develope the "man's pill". Once men can say, no, I don't think I will have a child right now or have a child with you. Then you will see a change. Also men need to learn the law, band together and get rid of the biased system. Fact is, most orders for child support are void and you can get rid of them. This does not mean you don't have to provide , no you can just do it in a private arrangement, where you have rights that you can enforce. This might just stop the women.
unclefixer 3 months ago
@unclefixer So it's up to the selfish, lazy penises to take control of their lives? Golly.....so many women wanting to breed with those disgusting wimps and failures....NOT!!! Grow a brain, woman-hater.
BabeonToast 2 months ago
It amazes me that most of the comments left are taking a black and white stance (not referring to race, btw, just contrast of opinions) I know for a fact that there are plenty of men out there that just don't give a damn and refuse to pay child support or make an effort to see the child (and then accuse the woman of keeping the child from him even when that's not the case). However, I also know for a fact that there are some women who refuse to allow visitation even with payment of child support
TheMsHotMama 4 months ago
There is no reason to make this about blanket statements. Not all women are at fault in issues of child support/child custody, just as not all men are at fault in the same issues. Many times, it is a joint fault between the mother and father of the child.
TheMsHotMama 4 months ago
@TheMsHotMama True but MOST of the time it is the fault of the woman since they are the ones, who for the most part, are the ones collecting child-support and/or alimony...
Leco070 4 months ago
@TheMsHotMama MOST often it is the case. MOST. :) Truth is, these dudes don't want to see or provide for their kids as much as they claim. They just want CONTROL.
BabeonToast 2 months ago
@BabeonToast I know they don't. My daughter's dad flat out left the country and told me that I could figure out how to raise my daughter on my own, he wanted nothing to do with either of us. I understand that that's not always the case, but I'm willing to bet that a lot of the men whining about men not having the ability to see their kids or not wanting to pay child support for fear of the money not being used for the kids, etc, are really just too scared to do what my daughter's dad did...
TheMsHotMama 2 months ago
It's amazing how more tax dollars are use to enforce child support, but the child gets little or none. It's like.... No it is the system banking on the parents greed,but calling it a child's need. When the son commits a crime they sing that struggling single mother and daddy was never around to the judge. little does she know the judge could care less. Because he knows it is his system that orchestrated this outcome. They no longer need her now. She is the forever dumped dummy.
gmann1695 6 months ago
If a woman pops out a kid and the man never sees the child then it is not really his at all. It has his DNA but so what? It is her kid and she should have to pay for it since she is raising it and doesn't allow the father to see it whenever he wants. In no other circumstances does anyone get rights without responsibility. If you go on a business trip and want the right to not show recipts then you have the responsibility to pay for it yourself. Same concept.
MrFalcon675 8 months ago
@MrFalcon675 Woman also have the get out of mother free card. Its called the SAFE HAVEN LAW,, it allows mothers to abandon their child at disignated hospitals, police and fire stations. It was enacted to prevent infants from being thrown into dumpsters and garbage pails. NIce huh?
atmdaddy 6 months ago
Why do we join your movement? Better still, we need to get our collective asses off Youtube and start a movement to educate, inform and most importantly fight back.
sweetnsourjames1 8 months ago
"This is just one more reason that equality will not exist between BM and BW due to the warped sense of "justice" in the US! The courts favor women:hands down! justice,real justice, is a thing that most courts fall short on especially when it comes to women related issues!"
MrWINNSLAW 10 months ago
Intercourse, "recreational" or otherwise, can result in pregnancy. Birth control is not just the responsibility of females. Men do have a choice not to become fathers. They can either not have sex or have a vasectomy. Not all women believe in abortion as an option and once a child is born there is a responsibility for both parents to provide for the child. When child support is calculated the mother's income is factored in and payments are based on both parents income and are held accountable.
1975tnrose 10 months ago
@1975tnrose I think your missing his point. Women have complete control over whether or not the child will even exist. Men do not have this option. Only when men have the same rights as women should they be held equally responsible. If I'm riding with you in a car, and you crash it, should I be equally responsible for your medical bills just because I was getting a ride from you. No. You had control of the vehicle and therefore should be responsible for the outcome of your medical condition.
Scott19seventy5 7 months ago
@1975tnrose Men do have a Right not to become fathers? This is absolutely false. Paternity Fraud is an epidemic in this Country and innocent men are forced into servitude and slavery for children that arent theirs ALL the time. A vesectomy? Changes nothing for the corrupt Courts since Steve Berreras not only was snipped he was forced to pay $40,000 for a child tha was never born in the widely piublicized Phanthom Baby Case..
atmdaddy 6 months ago
@atmdaddy Call out the Surgeon General! It's an epidemic!! Poor deluded males being stripped of their sperm! Save the penises! Save the penises!
BabeonToast 2 months ago
thank you i am in this boat.i am white and i thank you read my mind.my x moved off 100mi.and dont let me see my son.the so called law wont backup the court order and make her do her part unless i pay 1200.00$ to take her to court again.and if i dont pay thay well come pick me up and put me in jail just on her word.njce deal for men here in ar.keep up the good work.
peacemaker350 1 year ago
If my bitch ever did that to me, I'd simply expatriate to another country and leave her with the child. It's not that hard to expatriate either, just learn a skill.
EelSacul 1 year ago
Tired negro, spewing tired shit. If you don't want to make a baby use a rubber, you stupid ass. Here is how negroes trying to justify not supporting his child...this is how negroe males do it, do it. Laughing stock of the world. black males are shameless. Black men are responsible for his.
SuperTruthful 1 year ago
@SuperTruthful Regardless of race..it takes 2 to make a baby. If you are going to hold males accountable, hold the women accountable as well.
DeadSleepers 7 months ago
@DeadSleepers Wrong it does not take two to make a baby. It takes two to get a women pregnant. The women makes the baby, has the right to have or not to have the baby, and therefore should be held more responsible.Haven't you EVER heard "More Rights, More Responsibility" growing up?Didn't your parents teach you this? How about your boss? Women now have more rights than men and should be more responsible in their actions and the outcome of those actions. Typical greedy women BS.
Scott19seventy5 7 months ago
@Scott19seventy5 Wtf are you talking about? I was saying that we NEED to hold women accountable because in today's society that is lacking. All the baby factories and single mothers producing a majority of our nation's violent criminals on welfare is proof positive. I was actually AGREEING with single mothers being in the wrong.
DeadSleepers 7 months ago
@DeadSleepers Yea, I know what you were saying. I was just trying to make the point that women "make" babies, not men. I wasn't disagreeing with your need to hold women accountable.
Scott19seventy5 7 months ago
I dont know if you are the only black man that is outraged, im white and I am outraged more specifically at your community and what your women are doing to your men, its fucked up. I dont want to sound racist, ive been around the world but black women in AMERICA are SOO different than black women in other countries. I love black women (really attracted to them) but I cant stand AMerican Black Women I know this isnt a black issue either just discussing it because its your channel
MrAwesomesauce2 1 year ago 2
@MrAwesomesauce2 I concur brother, these chickenheads are out of control. Bunch of Oprah Jrs.! And by the way, I'm Black, so no racism charges. DOWN WITH FEMINISM, MENS RIGHTS MENS RIGHTS!!!!!!!
Superseadragon 1 year ago
@MrAwesomesauce2 ...Well, just so that you know, the vast majority of American black females are not attracted AT ALL to WHITE AMERICAN MALES. Be clear on that. LOL
SuperTruthful 1 year ago
@MrAwesomesauce2 white guys like you need to speak up about this issue more. Just be warned you will be accused of being a bw hater, unfounded or not.
TollFree999 8 months ago
here we go
you get her pregnant and refuse to help her
no one forced you to have sex - sex is performed to have children USE A CONDOM
so all women want to be mothers? wtf
women have to look after the baby that is a lot more than you paying money
no women will trick a man to get pregnant for child support ? gtfo
you chat so much shit i cant dont know whether to laugh or cry
you should have sex with men case closed
you dumb misogynist
aylix89 1 year ago
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@aylix89 Do you not understand his stance?
MrAwesomesauce2 1 year ago
Spending $100,000 on gaining child custody is not considered to be abnormal. Why must a man go bankrupt to gain access to his child? How does that money benefit anyone other than the family court system? It should be called the Family Liquidation Court
How can a woman legally de-parent a father and shut out the father's extended family from accessing their grandchild or nephew?
feministsAreCorrupt 1 year ago
Right on. You are an important voice in a growing movement for men's rights. In the eyes of the law, women have more rights.
Consider that the family court system is a father-only extortion and judge-kickback system that forces fathers to spend a lot of money on lawyers, psychologists, monitors and other "experts". Lawyers may even take a cut of the child support award.
feministsAreCorrupt 1 year ago
This is so right. Thanks for having the guts to say it out loud.
cllamont 1 year ago 7
Yes, I agree. There's only one problem: how to get men off their lazy asses and do something.
shmiggen 1 year ago
@shmiggen why is it that you go straight for th lazy man when most men want to be there for their kids but these nasty women just want money and to banash the man until the child get s to teenage years and then she can't handle him and then she wants the dad to swoop in and fix everything. Child support is a scam.
SPIEDEL29 1 year ago 3
@SPIEDEL29 Shit, I don't even remember making that comment! Where are all the other comments? It looks like I was responding to someone, but who? Where is everyone? I never side with women in these matters. I think child support should be abolished. Huh. I don't recall making that comment, unless there is another shmiggen on youtube.
shmiggen 1 year ago