I lived this scene. Transferred from an elite Jewish school in LA, to a 'Christian Academy' (nothing to do with Jesus/everything to do with Football) in Shreveport. My year in Hell, esp. when I wouldn't do sports. But I did weight-train like crazy & came back from a summer in Sweden, tall, 'big', & suddenly muscular, & my bullies suddenly wanted my body (on the DL, of course). But family net worth had tripled & we moved to Mississippi & a bigger house/better school. Not everyone is so lucky.
middle school was the worst and i really dont understand why people act like that but just mellow out later. maybe its puberty that makes everyone act like an ass in 7th/8th grade? who knows.
Man, if this wasn't the biggest advertisement for home schooling, I don't know what was. I feel this character's pain, I was a geeky kid and was bullied, but not to the extent that she had to deal with.
great film. very strange though. not exactly the same as my pre teen life. I was a bit happier. it was when I was a bit older, when school life became harder. i hated it. but it wasn't all bad.
lol school in the 90s is obviously different from now. if tht bitchy girl had asked me if i was a lesbo, i would be like "hell yeah. i have a HUGE crush on you. want a kiss?" with a whole bunch of sarcasm in my voice. :)
@AGFashionAcademy don't say it with sarcasm. you should say it with conviction to show that you're thinking on a higher level than they are. they won't know how to react. scare them with craziness.
The movie is great. Its so funny but so cruel and sad at the same time.
It so reminds me of my own childhood at school. I was exactly like Dawn - ugly and unhappy and unpopular. And my parents were exactly shallow like her mother.
I am happy Ive been gone through this terrible time and I am still alive))
it's so strange. i actually think dawn is pretty. that's definitely an awkward stage, but even then it's still obvious that she'll be good-lookin when she's older. and ya know, this shit happens all the time in middle school/junior high. little immature girls think they're empowered when they use homosexuality as an insult to some poor sap.
her life is sad, people are just insensitive and she ain't ugly wtf? she doesnt deserve to be treat in that way. Sadly looks is the only thing that matters to most people
Oh wow good old middle school, brings back memories.and not good ones lol! Lets just say I am glad that middle school and highschool are a thing in the past...
Yeah I could see that. it's interesting in terms of her finding Heather's own identity, portraying this character and being aware of the subject. I wonder if she'd known yet that she was gay while playing the part and hadn't come out yet, since she was only 13. And if she ever related to Dawn as a character or not since Dawn was obviously interested in boys in the movie.
@marmadukesymesparker because it seems like the girl at the table was already alone and perhaps seen as a nobody or something at the school, and now the girl that everyone's making fun of comes to sit with this loner girl who might be seen as a loser, too, at school or something, but now she's making fun of someone who might also be coming from the same place she is, and now since that cheerleading squad has backed the girl up on her bullying the other, she gets a certain sense of approval.
@BloodyCatastrophee That's very inciteful of you to pick up on. I love this scene because it is exactly how people act in real life and not some idealized "after school" special where the two outcasts become allies and revenge on the bullies.
@Gr3mpy123 Oh, well thanks! yea, it's the one thing I quickly took notice of, and thought "wow, that's insane. funny/interesting whom it's coming from." yea, this movie's pretty brutal in that regard.
@BloodyCatastrophee It's not insane ; it makes perfect sense. If you look at the wider picture instead of blaming bullies and only taking pity on their victims then it's clear that the same social forces which form bullies affect everybody. There is no reason that the victim of a bully will not also bully someone else when they get the chance.
@grayguy911 yes, it is, if you're talking about Heather being and out lesbian now....just watched Life During wartime, worst film I have ever seen in my life and i liked Happiness.
Middle School was hell for me Dx in 7th grade it sucked ass I was the ugliest thing in the world, in 8th grade it got better but I was still teased once in a while (even though I have lots of firends) but then I moved halfway into the year to Texas and school was worse there! Im a freshman in Highschool now ... It's worse Dx I hate my school everyones prettier than me =[
Listen...EVERYTHING that happens in HS is meaningless. I moved to Memphis,TN when I was 12 and had no friends, but then I moved 1000 miles away for college and it felt like the biggest breath of fresh air in the world. So hang in there...HS is not the real world (especially in the South).
@krogdog Not true. Just because you didn't have a single friend, that doesn't mean that everyone goes through that. I feel like times have changed because I don't see bullying occur that often at my school. Most people are friendly and even the really weird kids (myself included) have at least a few close friends. I kind of drifted apart from my middle school friends during high school and a lot of bad stuff happened that same year...even though things were sh*tty they were still meaningful.
Dude! Dawn would've made a school shooting to these motherfuckers! Or better yet, be like Carrie and do telekinetsis to those mean motherfuckers! I know what middle school is like! It's a bitch! O_O I'm not fat or anything like that but they make fun of me anyways 'cuz they're a bunch of fucktards who have nothing to do but make other people feel bad to make themselves feel good. Assholes!
Ya know what? She kinda does. Is she like Kurt's sister or something? ^_^
It's sucks that Kurt died. I felt sorry for him. Sure, he did some drugs. But I also think it's Courtney Love's fault too! He married her and then she made Kurt's life into a living hell and then that happens! Kurt shot himself!
DAMN YOU COURTNEY LOVE! DAMN YOU STRAIGHT TO HELL, YOU FUCKING CRACK WHORE!!!!o__O
you managed to carry on a pointless argument with Sovietter, debating whether or not you're annoying. But I'm not going to say anymore, cuz if you reply, then my whole point will be stomped on. Tootles.
Omg I found that out when I was reading and interview with her and they're like "So do you have a prince charming" (or something like that...they were talking about Princess Diaries) and she's like "No, but I have a PrincESS charming!"
This movie is sad as fuck.
bobithasmitherson 1 week ago
The original Napoleon Dynamite... with a vag...
DoctorChibi740 3 weeks ago 2
I lived this scene. Transferred from an elite Jewish school in LA, to a 'Christian Academy' (nothing to do with Jesus/everything to do with Football) in Shreveport. My year in Hell, esp. when I wouldn't do sports. But I did weight-train like crazy & came back from a summer in Sweden, tall, 'big', & suddenly muscular, & my bullies suddenly wanted my body (on the DL, of course). But family net worth had tripled & we moved to Mississippi & a bigger house/better school. Not everyone is so lucky.
megaswenson 1 month ago
Dawn looks so sweet.
purplebanana1000 2 months ago
middle school was the worst and i really dont understand why people act like that but just mellow out later. maybe its puberty that makes everyone act like an ass in 7th/8th grade? who knows.
deactivated2011 2 months ago 3
school really is worst fucking time in a person's life
TheMasterGouki 3 months ago 2
this movie wasnt her in highschool, but middle school. same difference though.
oldgreggaliciousss 3 months ago
How ironic they called her a lesbo and I just read that the real life Heather Matarazzo is going to marry her female partner in New York.
ValleyGyrlTV 6 months ago
Man, if this wasn't the biggest advertisement for home schooling, I don't know what was. I feel this character's pain, I was a geeky kid and was bullied, but not to the extent that she had to deal with.
ValleyGyrlTV 6 months ago
@kurtywurty85 your kidding right, bullying is worst than ever, especially in middle school.
Newreligion100 6 months ago
Chanting lesbo what r they 6 years olds out on the playground
problemgirl1238 6 months ago
Thats rude my mom got called lezy loo by a lezbian.
susiegupton46 6 months ago
Why did that girl say she made a pass at her?
SusanBaudelaire 6 months ago
@SusanBaudelaire that girl looks like a lesbian not heather lol.
hisluckienstar614 6 months ago
great film. very strange though. not exactly the same as my pre teen life. I was a bit happier. it was when I was a bit older, when school life became harder. i hated it. but it wasn't all bad.
Rowan07001484 7 months ago
can someone please post the whole movie
54lilmeme 8 months ago
it's me
heavyshine 9 months ago
Wow, some bad memories came flooding back to me. I sure as hell DON'T miss high school!
MaggieLovesJimmy 10 months ago
i love this movie
thebjm1967 1 year ago
gee it would suck to have to sit in a cafeteria at lunch time.
missyxxmischa 1 year ago
lol school in the 90s is obviously different from now. if tht bitchy girl had asked me if i was a lesbo, i would be like "hell yeah. i have a HUGE crush on you. want a kiss?" with a whole bunch of sarcasm in my voice. :)
AGFashionAcademy 1 year ago
@AGFashionAcademy don't say it with sarcasm. you should say it with conviction to show that you're thinking on a higher level than they are. they won't know how to react. scare them with craziness.
omgeah 10 months ago
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Patrick200717 1 year ago
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Patrick200717 1 year ago
This makes me want to cry.
doodl3bugg13 1 year ago
LOL LEZBO LEZBO LEZBO, this movie was both funny and sad at the same time
GenericChristJesus 1 year ago
will someone please repost this movie?
JeJuIsland567 1 year ago
Actually the actress who played her is a lesbian.
shootthemessenger33 1 year ago
if that was me, you would have been looking at a bunch of cheerleaders on the floor screaming for me to stop beating them lol
Drakesxxgirl 1 year ago
The movie is great. Its so funny but so cruel and sad at the same time.
It so reminds me of my own childhood at school. I was exactly like Dawn - ugly and unhappy and unpopular. And my parents were exactly shallow like her mother.
I am happy Ive been gone through this terrible time and I am still alive))
NoMind87 1 year ago
@NoMind87 Same here
GenericChristJesus 1 year ago
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NoMind87 1 year ago
The history of my life!!!!
artkjj 1 year ago
To me it I would say the girl who looks like a boy with the long hair seems and looks more gay then dawn.
deanleerip 1 year ago
she should of said yea u want me to lick ur pussy?
millicent1990 1 year ago
it's so strange. i actually think dawn is pretty. that's definitely an awkward stage, but even then it's still obvious that she'll be good-lookin when she's older. and ya know, this shit happens all the time in middle school/junior high. little immature girls think they're empowered when they use homosexuality as an insult to some poor sap.
borderlinecelebrity 1 year ago 5
I really think oprah should narrate this scene
kikikyami 1 year ago 2
thats filmed in my school and were called the chiefs
devils3332 1 year ago
haha. she said that scene helpd her realize that shes gay :)
so cute :)
gaya1323 1 year ago
her life is sad, people are just insensitive and she ain't ugly wtf? she doesnt deserve to be treat in that way. Sadly looks is the only thing that matters to most people
angerdraw 1 year ago
umm...this is my cafeteria...hahaha they even have our team name and everything except were caldwell chiefs not frankiln chiefs
dancediva100 1 year ago
i like this movie (:
Hikaks 2 years ago 3
This girl looks exactly like I did as a kid. Creepy.
PyramidHeadOwns 2 years ago 27
Did you know there is a sequal? And it explains Dawn kills herself =[
JamieeTheGreat 2 years ago 3
@JamieeTheGreat Why the negative thumbs for this comment? It's true! In Palindromes they talk about how Dawn killed herself
geandily 2 years ago 7
thanks for spoiling it!
Detth2you 1 year ago
No no!
That happens between the end of this movie and the start of the second, sorry :(
JamieeTheGreat 1 year ago
Stop it!! :[
Detth2you 1 year ago
that cheerleader reminds me of Melinda Loveless... pretty weird
nagyaron86 2 years ago
@nagyaron86,
Yes! She does look like Melinda Loveless.
Melinda Loveless was a bit scarier though.
She was a real genuine sociopath.
ElectricShark 1 year ago
@nagyaron86 Oh my god me too, thought that I was the only one to notice the eerie similarity!
Sorchify 1 year ago
i can't hear what the mean girl said something "liar...." then the rest i can't tell my computer's all screwed up
RachyRach991 2 years ago
"She made a pass at me."
marmadukesymesparker 2 years ago
Poor Dawn
tellyisrubbish 2 years ago 5
Somebody oughta rape those cheerleaders and then kill those bitches! MWAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAA! >-D
Wolfgirl1998 2 years ago
is this a movie? or from a show? i never seen thise
cute2boot4u92 2 years ago
movie
Wolfgirl1998 2 years ago
I'd recommend watching all films by Todd Solondz
tellyisrubbish 2 years ago
besides that the mean girl looks more like a mean boy. Someone needed to put her in her place.
LiveRainbow 3 years ago 4
this scene made me sad...I think you can always find one friend...i mean i would not have done that to her.
LiveRainbow 3 years ago
i feel sorry for her in this scene...I would have been her friend :) I didnt know Heather Matarazzo was gay in real life though!
2003myfavyear 3 years ago
Fuckin' cheerleaders...
spideylover 3 years ago 3
i saw this movie when i was 12 years old...:S..back in 1998
luzmilale 3 years ago 2
Oh wow good old middle school, brings back memories.and not good ones lol! Lets just say I am glad that middle school and highschool are a thing in the past...
shakedatazz87 3 years ago 5
i hate cheerleaders they can just go fuck themse;lves cuz thats all they know what to do
who do you think the football teasm sleeps with?
i haTE THEM!!!
gdlzn17 3 years ago
i hate them too gdlzn17
cute2boot4u92 2 years ago
Does anyone else find this scene ironic?
grayguy911 3 years ago 20
In what way is it ironic?
marmadukesymesparker 3 years ago
She's all insulted and upset about being called a lesbian and she recently got engaged to her girlfriend...
grayguy911 3 years ago
Yeah I could see that. it's interesting in terms of her finding Heather's own identity, portraying this character and being aware of the subject. I wonder if she'd known yet that she was gay while playing the part and hadn't come out yet, since she was only 13. And if she ever related to Dawn as a character or not since Dawn was obviously interested in boys in the movie.
urchinau 3 years ago
True...but it is really hard to find your own sexual identity at a young age.
grayguy911 3 years ago
Well then I am confused as to how it is ironic since Heather's only playing a character...
urchinau 3 years ago
@marmadukesymesparker
I'm guessing because the actress who portrays Dawn (Heather Matarazzo) actually IS an out lesbian.
starinapapercup 1 year ago
@marmadukesymesparker because the girl that played dawn weiner is really a lesbo. lol
SuperMinderella 1 year ago
@marmadukesymesparker because the girl that plays dawn weiner came out a while back and she really is a lesbo.. lol
SuperMinderella 1 year ago
@marmadukesymesparker LOL the main actress is a lesbian in real life.
lifehappens 9 months ago
i guess @grayguy911 says it's ironic because Heather Matarazzo (Dawn) actuallly is... you know... in real life.
IdontS2U 7 months ago
@marmadukesymesparker because it seems like the girl at the table was already alone and perhaps seen as a nobody or something at the school, and now the girl that everyone's making fun of comes to sit with this loner girl who might be seen as a loser, too, at school or something, but now she's making fun of someone who might also be coming from the same place she is, and now since that cheerleading squad has backed the girl up on her bullying the other, she gets a certain sense of approval.
BloodyCatastrophee 5 months ago
@BloodyCatastrophee That's very inciteful of you to pick up on. I love this scene because it is exactly how people act in real life and not some idealized "after school" special where the two outcasts become allies and revenge on the bullies.
Gr3mpy123 4 months ago
@Gr3mpy123 Oh, well thanks! yea, it's the one thing I quickly took notice of, and thought "wow, that's insane. funny/interesting whom it's coming from." yea, this movie's pretty brutal in that regard.
BloodyCatastrophee 4 months ago
@BloodyCatastrophee It's not insane ; it makes perfect sense. If you look at the wider picture instead of blaming bullies and only taking pity on their victims then it's clear that the same social forces which form bullies affect everybody. There is no reason that the victim of a bully will not also bully someone else when they get the chance.
Gr3mpy123 4 months ago
@Gr3mpy123 ?
mrfrogbutt1 2 weeks ago
@marmadukesymesparker because heather matarazzo is a lesbian.
knobylob 4 months ago
@knobylob wow, I did not know that. :o I suppose it Is pretty ironic. hm! *surprised face* crazy
BloodyCatastrophee 4 months ago
@BloodyCatastrophee lol
knobylob 4 months ago
@knobylob haha =)
BloodyCatastrophee 4 months ago
@marmadukesymesparker it's ironic because the actress who plays dawn is a lesbian in real life.
gerbils4evr 4 months ago
@grayguy911 yes, it is, if you're talking about Heather being and out lesbian now....just watched Life During wartime, worst film I have ever seen in my life and i liked Happiness.
philipsmog 1 year ago
@grayguy911 i don't see any irony. can you please explain?
cuddlys34bubble 1 year ago
@grayguy911 I didn't--until now!! LOL
tashahb79 6 months ago
lol pwned XD
MizShye 3 years ago
Oh yeah. Found it now. Hope it'll work
thanks anyway.
wiglypuff 3 years ago
-.- ugh that girle in the glasses look exactely like my step sis
TheTrueMetal9 3 years ago
i hate how evrybody is middle school has to go thru this at one point,honestly kids like that need to stfu
skippyproduction 3 years ago
Middle School was hell for me Dx in 7th grade it sucked ass I was the ugliest thing in the world, in 8th grade it got better but I was still teased once in a while (even though I have lots of firends) but then I moved halfway into the year to Texas and school was worse there! Im a freshman in Highschool now ... It's worse Dx I hate my school everyones prettier than me =[
heylie13 4 years ago 2
Listen...EVERYTHING that happens in HS is meaningless. I moved to Memphis,TN when I was 12 and had no friends, but then I moved 1000 miles away for college and it felt like the biggest breath of fresh air in the world. So hang in there...HS is not the real world (especially in the South).
krogdog 3 years ago 54
@krogdog this is middle school....
ThisIsStupidist 1 year ago
@krogdog haha! i went to school in memphis and know exactly what you mean!! =D
hellomeimei22 1 year ago
@krogdog Not true. Just because you didn't have a single friend, that doesn't mean that everyone goes through that. I feel like times have changed because I don't see bullying occur that often at my school. Most people are friendly and even the really weird kids (myself included) have at least a few close friends. I kind of drifted apart from my middle school friends during high school and a lot of bad stuff happened that same year...even though things were sh*tty they were still meaningful.
kurtywurty85 8 months ago
@krogdog I have heard some horrible horrible stories about what school in the south is like.
JustSiouxMe 7 months ago
silly bitch should've gone to hassan's kebab van
EnForwardslashAy 4 years ago
Wow...the cheerleaders AND the goth kids are against you?? That chick was sitting alone, and still had the nerve to be picky.
TheLocNess 4 years ago 4
Dude! Dawn would've made a school shooting to these motherfuckers! Or better yet, be like Carrie and do telekinetsis to those mean motherfuckers! I know what middle school is like! It's a bitch! O_O I'm not fat or anything like that but they make fun of me anyways 'cuz they're a bunch of fucktards who have nothing to do but make other people feel bad to make themselves feel good. Assholes!
Wolfgirl1998 4 years ago 4
Or better yet, they should kill these bitches like how Angella Baker does to the campers being mean to her on Sleepaway Camp!
I can't wait to get those trilogies on DVD for my birthday this March! Wolfy's soo happy!(That's me! ^_~) ^-^
And why do they call her weinerdog anyways?!?
I like daschunds, you bunch of hate mongering bullies! ROOOOOOOOARRR!! I even got 2 pet wiener doggies too. ^-^
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
Oh wait I see why the call her that. Her last name is Weiner. Whatever!=P
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
the little girl looks like kurt cobain.
catdudeenemapants182 4 years ago 3
Ya know what? She kinda does. Is she like Kurt's sister or something? ^_^
It's sucks that Kurt died. I felt sorry for him. Sure, he did some drugs. But I also think it's Courtney Love's fault too! He married her and then she made Kurt's life into a living hell and then that happens! Kurt shot himself!
DAMN YOU COURTNEY LOVE! DAMN YOU STRAIGHT TO HELL, YOU FUCKING CRACK WHORE!!!!o__O
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
Holy mother of god, you're annoying.
Soviette 3 years ago
What are you talking about?
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
Oh. Well fuck you, you little bitch! O_o (stupid youtube should've organize the replies in the first place next time!)
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
Hahaha okay I changed my mind. Only because of the "fuck you, you little bitch!". Sorry for calling you annoying.
Soviette 3 years ago
okay. ^_^;;;
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
wow. it sucks that kurt cobain died, and courteney love is a whore, but do you reply to every comment that is slightly negative?
FrostedxRose 3 years ago
Uh no! What's your point?!
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
you managed to carry on a pointless argument with Sovietter, debating whether or not you're annoying. But I'm not going to say anymore, cuz if you reply, then my whole point will be stomped on. Tootles.
FrostedxRose 3 years ago
It just did. You sound like a fucking emo pussy who needs some sense of humor! Otherwise, go cut yourself and die, BITCH!!!! Tootles to you too!
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
well, allrighty then. before I go, can I point something out?
FrostedxRose 3 years ago
No you may not
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
whatever you say. tootles
FrostedxRose 3 years ago
Yeah fuck you too and good riddance!
Wolfgirl1998 3 years ago
It was nice hearing from you again. tootles
FrostedxRose 3 years ago
thats funny cuz she actually is a lesbian in real life
MissDaliciouZ 4 years ago 2
Omg I found that out when I was reading and interview with her and they're like "So do you have a prince charming" (or something like that...they were talking about Princess Diaries) and she's like "No, but I have a PrincESS charming!"
BleedingBeauty13 4 years ago
You poor baby Dawn Wiener, you looked so cute in the movie no matter what other people think.
JReed1985 4 years ago 3
all of Todd Solondz movies are messed :D lol
alpacino185 4 years ago