Re: Black Women - Good Guys vs Bad Guys Part 2

[velocity8900]

I hear you man, if girls wanna go for thug stupid looking guys that look embarrassing when there out in public with there pants hanging on the ground then they will learn a lesson one day when they get knocked up by some dude that don't even care and some of these girls get killed form some of these dudes thats been in jail. These same girls may look good now but when they get older thats when there life is gonna be miserable because no guy is gonna want them, just don't worry about the help.

[kmack002]

Thanks brotha

[logician3]

Its over with 4 black folks N America. This was a good vid bro.

[MATT111MARTIN]

fukem 

[UnlimitedProdiction1]

I don't even deal with those girls anymore. There was a time I would chase after mo good girls but my dad told me to move on and don't let nasty bitches make me bitter. Then I'll end up hating women just because some girl don't like me

[AGElite87]

you right man i me and my friends are good guys and we always talk about shit like this!!!!!! keep going on man!!!!

[yetten9757]

I enjoyed listening to that, i am sure you have some strong points, i think hope and protecting your dream has alot to do with it. if i envisage marrying or dating long term a black man i should hold on to that. i know many intelligent black men who wont even try anymore because of all the sillyness, but i also know that us black women can exploit..

[spareld]

finally a good man lol I get your point and thanks you really sound like T.I he's my favorite rapper and he said real man don't gossip

[Ladyvisionary]

lmao....at the thought a nice guy watching Destiny Child Soldiers..thinking "damn, I need go outside with a wife beaters,

pants hang dow real low, dranking ol' E'

Ladies, WAKE THE FUCK UP!!!! Shit is not sexy!!!!!!

[noob3098]

bad guys are like bad lies why lie in a bed with a lie besides he'll die with his eyes open wide so just relax and keep your eyes open wide for the lies and don't trust flies because day will lie straight to your eyes don't be a lie like the bad guys

[111Treasury]

I know it exists. This is sad.

[GS350JPN]

I live in Japan. These girls here are players and many of them want a player. You should tell the brothers to travel to other girls. The guys need to step up their game. In Japan, many guys do not have sex with these Japanese women, unless these girls pay money. The women need some form of entertainment. Maybe the form of entertainment that the good guys are giving is not exciting enough. Have you been to Japan? If you can come visit. The family worldwide is becoming extinct.

[noob3098]

its true Bossdog05 im a nice guy as well and its true most girls do play with people feelings i when tru the same thing thats how i know day are just uselis puppets to there thug master

[spareld]

you need to realize those girls you were referring that wanted thugs wasn't good girls now you need to ask yourself what type of girls do you like?

[Bossdog05]

Hey, I love being a nice guy and aint shit going to change. I don't date much cause for one, most women out here are trifling bitches and they try to play with your feelings. But I do feel alot of blk women date thugs because they want a big thrill and they think they can change these men into good guys, but these bitches are just stupid and I just don't have the time to chase after no scandalous hoe if she's not going to give me anything in return. Hopefully we good men can find happiness.

[c00lwatter]

Agreed. Don't even try to change em cause in the end you can't. Talking to em is a waste of time. Bottom line, most people just ain't worth being in a relationship with. Period!

[thuglifegreg24]

DarcSeth237 made an excellent point about this same issue. The example he used was the song by Beyonce called "Soldier". Beyonce was basically saying she wanted a "soldier" or, in other words, a thug for a mate. The question is, why the hell would someone who makes money legally and seemingly was raised in a decent household require that her man be a "soldier"? She should have known better than to put this thought in other young black women's mind. That's a huge problem to me.

[thuglifegreg24]

Sadly to say, sometimes it seems as if the only word some of these black women can comprehend is the word, "money". I mean this literally. A lot of black women really are nothing but gold-diggers who love thugs, but then they feel mistreated when we as good black men decide to date outside our race. The thing that really bothers me though, is how the "thug life" is embraced in the mainstream media. That's one of the main reasons it's been so attractive to young black women.

[GKECU]

Sadly to say, sometimes it seems as if the only word some of these black women can comprehend is the word, "money".

They always hit me with these four magical words...."WHAT DO YOU DU?"

[thuglifegreg24]

You might still be able to luck up and pull her anyway, but the best way to approach a black woman is by being yourself. Most black women tend to be able to sense if a guy is being himself or not. The problem with black women who love thugs is that they're too materialistic. They go from drug dealer to drug dealer loolking for a way to come up and they're never truly happy in that lifestyle. Then, every other guy that comes along is expected to have "swagger" or she won't talk to him.

[thuglifegreg24]

I know I eluded to this point before in some of my earlier comments, but one thing I wanted to stress is that just because a black woman is appealing to you physically, doesn't mean she's a good mate for you. Another thing I wanted to mention before I forget is that, if you're a guy who doesn't hang out in the streets like most thugs do and you know that the black woman likes thugs that hang certain places or do certain things, you might wanna reconsider talking to that woman.

[thuglifegreg24]

I think a lot of good black men see these black women with thugs and envision themselves with those women. They see beautiful black women who could have possibly been their future wife with thugs and it hurts them because they see so much potential in these black women going to waste. I'm not gone lie. I'm guilty of feeling that way before, too. However, the final decision lies with the women. If a black woman doesn't see her own mistakes, she probably wasn't the woman you thought she was anyway

[thuglifegreg24]

Actually, I believe good black men should change their entire perspective on these black women. I think you have to look at the bigger picture. The point I'm trying to make is that if a black woman settles for the thug instead of the decent guy, then maybe she wasn't the type of woman you thought she was to begin with. This applies to all black women who love thugs, regardless of how fine she is. I think what happens is that many black men get blinded by the fact that the black woman is so fine.

[ShellB12]

I believe the source of the problem is the commercialization of hip hop culture which dominates 90% of the black community. If a young BW hears about a BM getting arrested for whatever, she will subconsciously assign him qualities like, confidence, swag, SIGHT UNSEEN. Why? Because the media and hip hop hype is very real, and makes people associate durags and gun toting, pants dragging dudes with swag and bling, even though its rarely ever true. Its all subconscious.

[ShellB12]

Nice guys, I believe, will never get as much action as bad boys/thugs, but I bet you my left nut that the quality of attainable women will always be better for the nice guy. Provided the nice guy understands that women respond to confidence,self assuredness, and humor. Once he knows this, a nice guy should have no problem getting a girlfriend, or even getting laid. You just gotta believe in yourself and step to whoever you want with confidence and assuredness. Trust me.

[dantej32]

accurate

[BruhMan09]

Most (not all) Black women will KNOWINGLY AND WILLING choose Bad Men because women are just insane like that. They believe these men are more "fun and exciting". When they finally wise up it's way too late. She's gained weight, had kid(s), looks are fading, and has a crapload of emotional baggage. Now they actually expected a good (black) man to just accept her. That's one of the many reasons why so many black women are single.

[ShellB12]

This wont change. Every generation of female goes through this phase. Just gotta look for the women that have their shit together and dont foolishly think that "REAL men are thugs" Women dont REALLY want thugs, they are only CURIOUS about them. The thug is flesh and blood like all the rest of us men, yeah, he bleeds too. Women put thugs in a different category for superficial and illegitimate reasons. Just pass these women by. One day they will be looking for mr . right but cant find him.

[c00lwatter]

Which is what I tell most people. They fuck bad boys and they marry nice guys. Not just black women, ALL women. They get into these marriages with men they don't respect. Men who want to REALLY be in a relationships should learn to be platonic with women worth being with and fuck the free pussies and leave em. Girls think cause you can be their "Friend" you don't have a dick, but let em step outta line and she what happens.

[BruhMan09]

That's very true Cool. What these women fail to realize is that men have been hip to that BS for quite a long time. This is one of the main reasons why so many women are single. Then these trifin females saying crap like "There are NO good men out here".

[spareld]

because it ain't no good man. look at how yall talking and you all call yourself good men. you gossiping worst then women do. if this is what so called good men bring to the table then hell naw fuck em all it just don't seem to me that bad black good men would gossip about bullshit stop chasing after these nasty ass women and get yourself a good woman!! it's so simple damn yall sound like a bunch of bitches

[BruhMan09]

Why TROLL around and comment on stuff people said a long time ago? Why use shaming tactics/words to try to prove a point? DarcSeth along with many commenters was just calling out Claudia Jordan and Sidekicks on their double talk BS. They talk about how they want a good man but earlier in that same show Claudia and her friends dissed good guys by calling them corny, boring, etc. and uplifted Badboys, Jerks, and other Losers by saying they were more fun and better in bed.

[spareld]

oh well that changes everything sorry!!

[Dawg85100]

hahahaha!!! u are on point. Even the smart and pretty black women are going for thugs. Destiny Child song is a perfect example. How you gone be makin ur money legit as a black women but then go make a song about dudes who make there money illegaly? So black women want Soldiers? but not the military ones? the soldiers who are in the streets? oh i get it know this is why white women have husbands and black women got "BABY DADDYS"

[headfonez]

Fuckety fuckety fuck. I agree with you even though you said fuck about 1000 times.

[xnaughtypeoplesx]

bad guys are the kinda guys you date

good guys are the kinda guys you marry

and thugs are the kinda guys you cheat on your husband with when you get bored 10 years down the line.....

[ryland511]

what are u complaining about? all u really want to do is fuck anyway.

[LuvJonez718]

Real Talk!

[jambrandon531]

now i understand at 19 why black girls say im soft cause i dont have a jailrecord

[spareld]

bull shit!!! there is no woman that said that to you maybe one dumb fuck but don't say black women sai your soft cause you don't have a jail record because you make yourself look dumb

[MusicMaster850]

Bad guys will always win in this battle.

[coolbreezegirl27]

You did not get play in school because you wanted the black big booty slut that all the rest of the black men want, now all of a sudden we slim chicks are good for you now. like I said if it wasn't for my husband I would be dating white. he is the only good black man left. Black men want what every other man want, they are so freakin shadow,a couple of black females did them wrong, and now they hate black women.I guess rejection is a bitch.

[spareld]

I agree with you coolbreezegirl I think i'm going to change alot about the type of men I give a chance for now on if your not white your not right

[ThetruthistolD]

Black women love anyone who is involved with negativity but do they ever admit it no, never.

[Beryl333]

excuse me there are plenty of white woman on meth these days

[GetAClueNow]

whitebitchnigga, men do choose women, especially when they have a good education. Both men and women choose each other. If a woman wanted a man but he didn't want her back that mean he rejected her and with that being said, men choose to. I went to this dating site and notice that a lot of older BM males was looking for women too young for them. Don't you think that might be a problem? I'm just asking you a question.

[GetAClueNow]

Oprah also said her grandmother was her influence.

[whitebitchnigga]

My point is most sucessful blacks in America come from two parent households.And all those rapper you mentioned were raised by single mothers. And the last time i checked men don't choose women it's other other way around. get a clue you are on a different frequency than the enlightened black men here on YT.We are just telling black women that they play a part in the destruction of the black community.serious minded black men know the real deal

[spareld]

right on point

[GetAClueNow]

Beyonce, venus, and condi was raised by their mother as well so again, whats your point?

[GetAClueNow]

And please stop trying to pull a fucking blame card cause black men go out and do stupid shit! I come from a two parent home and one of my brothers still fucked up their lives. Dr. Dre married a White woman and look how his daughter turned out like ruff neck dude. Black women didn't ask black men to come out with gangsta rap. Black women didn't tell Tupac to put a fucking THUG LIFE tatoo on his stomach. This shit was used to scared the White man at first until they decided to make it seem cool.

[newboot1971]

Not one man ever DENIED that men have fucked up too. We hear about it all the time. Stay focused!

[GetAClueNow]

Just because they wanted some pussy from a black women? Did you just say that? Life ain't about getting pussy only. You know the difference between a black man and a white man? The black chase after the pussy and the white man chase after the careers and pussy.

[newboot1971]

Get a clue

[GetAClueNow]

And please stop thinking every BW who is with a no good BM is a thug! Obama, mariah, kimora, halle and alicia's dad must have been thugs to right? All walked out on them and their non-black mothers.

[whitebitchnigga]

Oprah,Serena and Venus Williams,Condi Rice,Beyonce all were raised by black father.

[GetAClueNow]

Whitebitchnigga, Oprah was raised by her grandmother and father so whats the point?

[GetAClueNow]

Shut up your ass look like thug! Why is that the men who act like thugs make claims that they are good guys. It seems like the ones who are either defending or not direspecting BW are the ones who act non thuggish. Whats up with that? You talk and look like a thug! cap to the side, white wife beater, cursing all the time. Yeah, you a thug.

[utamutam]

Black men HATE that "soldier" song lol... always makes me laugh when yall go at beyonce for that. i thought it was a corny song personally - i've only heard it once.

But yea, i'm not gonna front, of course there's a good number of black females who like the thuggish vibe or want a corporate guy with a thuggish edge (might not exist lol).

Doo rags are terrible, don't believe those broads. Grown men should never be seen out the house with that on.

[DarcSeth237]

In Africa, important values,traditions and even life or death instructions where passed to the village through musical expression. To people with African blood, music is more than words and beats. It penetrates your soul and is a powerful weapon for change. Bob Marley used music. Beyonces daughters will be single one day from the lack of BM and weep in their pillows at night form loneliness. BW that glorify thug culture and lay with vermon are traitors and condone our destruction.

[LJouttaDallas]

say dog where is dat link

[CARIBBEANMAN81]

BLK women are living contradictions in every aspect of relationships

[whitebitchnigga]

It's INSANITY, and don't sugar coat I'd say 90% of young black girls like bad boy's and most of the rest date non black men

[jabron1973]

good video

[DarcSeth237]

Well said Brotha!

[GKECU]

Man's greatest motivating force is his desire to please woman! - Napoleon Hill (Think and Grow Rich)

Women have the ability to give life and to influence it.

[GKECU]

Proverbs - Chapter 21:9

9. Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

[kunsura]

I see that Claudia Jordan is trying to clean up and like Darc Seth said, the good black woman is not speaking the fuck up; sitting in the back and not saying a thing, but ready to bitch, when attacked! Don't let "fitting in" damage your standards. Well said DarcSeth237, one love, my man!

[DarcSeth237]

I fear for my future son to come. I pray and I will try to defend him from the propaganda of popular black culture, in which will turn a potentially great mind into a mindless thug wannabe! Pussy creates the drive in men. BW have the power to cut pussy off to thugs and losers but they condone & continue this ignorance by giving losers their most prized posession...pussy! POSITIVE BM are honored by other races EXCEPT in black america! BM get out of jail and gets laid!! BM graduates.. nothing!

[DarcSeth237]

The majority of American Women especially Black women, are the only woman on Earth that reward losers and criminals with pussy! I swear all of these females that love clowns like lil wayne,plies(BTW, BW support their albums,thus creating demand 4 more garbage music for women to buy) need to go to Brazil to the favelas. Those are real thugs down their in Rio, but the local fine Brazilian women stay away from them thugs. Lets send BW down there to get some real thug love. Why fake it,right?! LOL!

[crh2010]

you are exactly right darc!!!

[rookierazorback1]

To you Men:

keep Spreading the word.. Keep telling it like it is.. and whenever we can find proof of what we've been saying.. i.e Shows like C.Jordan... Save the shows, the proof, so people wont think we're talking out of our azzes and making shyt up...

[DarcSeth237]

Claudia Jones and her cast seem like smart beautiful woman but have fed into the popular fad of idolizing bad boys. Sure a couple of the cast members denounce bad boys yet they convey as if bad boys are the "exciting forbidden fruit" and good BM are the "boring, sexless last sensible resort". Young girls ignore us, "Mature" BW love us. Yeah to clean up their lives from being fucked and chucked in their 20's. BW,make wiser decisions in their youth not vice versa. Stop the 70% single problem!

[DarcSeth237]

SHREYA77, what does my cam have to do with the topic? If I really wanted a new cam I would buy one! I spend my money on shit like hummm my investment portfolio, have one? Still the message is their. I heard the show and I'm not deaf. They should have Celebrated Good BM and their intellect. Thugs are celebrated in all forms of media. Yet Claudia and company portrayed us as boring the first few minutes of the show. You are in denial, the men see the problem. Wake up, most BW chase losers!

[SHREYA77]

Your web cam is mad cheap step your game up.Did you even LISTEN to the show?bwahahahahaha!!!

[DarcSeth237]

Mrs Jordan is trying to clean up what she was saying/implying but like i said earlier the tone of their show was loud and clear to good black men. I got a question for claudia. How does "young girls" going for thugs make your arguments better? If anything BM are saying this is a MAJOR problem, instead your panel was calling good guys marriages "boring". Brazilian women dont find good guys boring and they look 200 times better than most of these thug loving aMerican woman, and they got asses.

[jasmith26]

Tyra Banks can eat a sack of baby dicks!!!!

[rookierazorback1]

This aint about Claudia Jordan.. She doesnt need to post a vid response or any of that. But the point is that there are BW who should know better that do sex, mess with low-character guys.. With the "dyck" being their Only redeeming qualities.... I implore black Men to save their breath, cause BW will never admit to it... They will insist it's just little girls doing that.. But when I still see Good BW in their 20's, even in their 30's, being guilty of what we speak about in the vids.

[fewfew2578]

I agree with Claudia! Why would any real woman what a thug??? Just because they are allegedly good in bed? It's not worth dealing with all of the other BS that comes along with dating thugs. I'm am also an attractive, successful, educated, black woman and I've NEVER in my LIFE dated or had sex with a GHETTO THUG...

[claudiajordan]

oh wow! Am I in a bizarro world where everything I said is misinterpretted? I said I DON'T WANT A THUG! Are you kidding me? The show doesn't glorify thugs. Don't just piggyback off of what 1 person said. Listen 2 the show then decide. Oh wow. This is sad. Peep the show. Then talk about what was REALLY SAID. Claudia Jordan doesn't promote dating thugs. This is silly and nonsense. Real talk. Grown Black women want a real GOOD man! little girls with nothing to offer want some knuckle head!

[Remedymp]

Post up a video response Ms. Jordan. That's the only way you'll get your point across. Good luck, cause it's going to be a battle of the sexes!

[slewasteman]

lol no no no miss jordan that is not what your said or certainly not what you implied on that show!!! What i heard was a group of women saying good men have small penises " oh they dont trow deep" "penis and balls in the condom" re teh teh! generalising all "good black men" and saying you prefer the thug type whos "ooo its exiciting it keeps you on your toes wanting moore" and when that woman rang up you didnt listen yo her! u were saying her marrige is boring!

[slewasteman]

cont... im just taking what you said! i know one of the women on your show was saying the likes good men, & i dont think it was you coz u was the drunken one making fun of people. but seriously ur 35 years old im 17, u need fix up your mentality quick time. Because ur just giving the go ahead for them thug type niggas!!!! to carry on what their doing which is a FUNDAMENTAL PROBLEM IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY!

and i really look forward to watching your video response to this.

good day :]

[rookierazorback1]

Men.. save your energies... These BW wont change and will fight u with all the energy that they have... At the end of the day, they will still be sexing derelicts and lowlives.. I hate to sound Grim.. But I dont give BW that much credit. And my dissapointment rest with the so-called women that should know better.. Case on Point.. Women like Claudia Jordan, Tyra Banks, and Any other women that have the spotlight and instead of trying to make a difference, feed into the stereotype.

[DarcSeth237]

Here me Black women, if you continue to celebrate these bad boys and thug animals in the ghetto, at the colleges, at the club YOU ALL WILL BE SINGLE! Simply as that. Every chance you get Black women you must reinforce to all of your fellow BW to denounce ignorance and refuse sex to scum ass brothas. We need at least over 90% of BW to participate aka the MAJORITY. Protest BCR, Bike week, superhead, nigga rappers like plies, stupid ass videos hoes. DO THIS NOW BW BEFORE GOOD BM LEAVE YOUR ASSES!!!

[ickyou]

I second to that very true statement. Man, I believe some of these black women are after the thugs, because they believe themselves to maybe not be good enough for a good black man. They seem to not want the utmost respect like a good foot massage - when her ass comes home from work, waiting there for her, instead of being out and about on the streets doing God knows what. They don't seem to want a man that would make a strong effort to be faithful to her and commited to making things right

[usernamehere84]

ok lets not go to far now.....lets not protest bike week lol

[aahronb]

Im going to buy a doo rag wear it all day,get a grill in my mouth,get a yankee hat and rock it to the side,sell drugs,wave guns all day,sag my pants,slap bitches just to get a black woman Ha Ha.

[DarcSeth237]

Claudia Jordan mentions that these "young birds" are the ones chasing bad boys not the mature women. She is right, and that is the problem in Black america. Most Black female youth only follow the trend of whats sexy to them in a BM. These young sistas are ruining their lives by dating these thugs and losers and even having kids by them only to become future baby mamas. Statistics show this in black and white! Young BW should have positive reprogramming when it comes to the Black male image.

[usernamehere84]

i sent srgtwilliepete the link

but no Claudia Jordan is 35 yr old and the other girls, except one, is over 30. and they seem to went to thugish man.

[aahronb]

Tyra Banks is a dumb lost sister.

[crh2010]

yea she thinks by being a skinny bolimic model shes a role model for black women..did u see her shit about black history..she is horrible...and her shows on how hard women have it..they ALL do it to themselves

[claudiajordan]

whoa! This is Claudia Jordan. And I host this show. DID YOU REALLY listen to the show??????> Not all of us said we wanted a bad boy. I certainly dont! I made the point that wanting a so called THUG is a young girls game. And U grow out of it. I don't want that and think its wack. Danisha also said she would never want a thug. You got to pay attention my friend! I want the cinderella story. YOU GOT TO LISTEN TO WHAT WAS SAID. No need for me to shut the fuck you...you got it wrong! FOCUS!!!

[hollyhoodjoe123]

U need to start posting your show on YouTube. You'll generate alot of views.

[juliandeathgod]

All valid points made,all i see around me are black guys wanting to have that "thug" facade, when half are just decent guys.

btw-its 180 not 360 :).

peace

[SrgtWilliepete]

I hate that shit 2 - why the fuck u gonna have a doo rag for and wear it all day - that shit's for waves - what the point in wearing it all day if u tryin to show just that waves!

[luvphatass]

Good vid bruh.I'm curious to know something though. Its a guy with screen name garybooker & i'm curious to know how he does with the ladies. He's seems to be highly intelligent....Do you ladies dig that type of man???

[BRAZEN08]

you're on point like a sharp knife & the truth is cutting people up

[DarcSeth237]

Any person that comes on my page that says "NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN DO (FILL IN THE BLANK)is a fuckin numbskull! Most, NOT ALLLL of BW lack the capacity to listen to the complaints of BM. Society is looking at American BW as the most undesirable women on the planet, yet they cover their ears to what their men are saying. I hate to say it but good BW and the bad BW are the same to me because the good dont speak out against the bitches fucking shit up for them! We might as well say ALL BLACK WOMEN!

[jjjessijess2]

Depends on what type of women you are searching for. I am a senior in college who will hopefully be going into med school soon. I am MOS DEF not checking for a thug...since there are alot of guys trying to be thugs lately I've been dating white men. Don't believe everything you hear...I would take a decent man over a thug any day!!!

[kuunami]

that's another point I was about to make. I seems like the educated black women that are well spoken, classy and cultured only date white guys. Just on youtube alone I've seen a lot of examples of this.

[jjjessijess2]

Aye...if you wanna put ALL BLACK WOMEN in a box...more power to you!!!

Shit, I'll get my degree marry a white man and say F*CK all Niggas, (that will be one thing I and a white man will have in common, lol.)

[kuunami]

When you say stuff like that, you put yourself in the category that you just said not all black women belong in. You're missing the whole point. Nobody here is saying that we don't like black women. In fact it's our love of black women and desire for black women that causes us to discuss these issues. Trust me the black men who have no interest in black women don't even bother with these discussions.

[kuunami]

If you are the type of woman who doesn't fit that negative description of a black woman then you have a big advantage over the rest of the women in that there are smart educated black men out there who are looking to meet a black woman just like you. Instead of getting mad, realize that these discussions are not about you, they're about how to get more of the women to be like you.

[SeanD44]

Yep, and if he hangs your ass, that'll be one less self hatin' black woman. lol

[crh2010]

Ur right I am sick of these women saying we are weak because we dont wanna wear baggy jeans or talk some game...if you want a game player then you get played!! Dont cry women its YOUR FAULT YOU GET WITH ASSHOLES!!!

[jjjessijess2]

Not All sistas are like that!!!

[hiclaude]

The majority are. A lot of them change after pushing out a few babies and realizing the error of their ways. Too late... No good black man wants your babies and mental/physical baggage.

[GKECU]

"I wear this doorag for waves"....lol....yea I feel you. It's sad because these are the same women who complain that there are no good men. All of them don't act like that....but a lot.

[DarcSeth237]

I cant understand how other races of woman here in the USA and other countries have NO problem finding good successful Black man, usually on their first or second attempt. BW are supposed to know their men better than any other female you would think. This just proves that Positive,stable BM in America are not in demand with African American women. ANY RACE OF WOMAN CAN SPOT A GOOD BLACK MAN! Evidence shows that the MAJORITY of BW just dont want us, so becky comes in and scoop us up.

[kuunami]

I can guarantee that probably 90 percent of the young educated black men who exclusively want to date black women are single. Good educated black men are the most unwanted group in America and that's why there's no incentive for black guys to get educated and self improve.

[rdokoye]

No their not, their highly sought out by 'other' women, women that like black men usually prefer the educated type black males.

[kuunami]

I agree and that's my point. If an educated black man says to himself that he only wants black women, he'll be waiting a long time because a large percentage of them don't like hood/thug types. Thats why you see a lot of educated black men date outside the race, not because they don't like black women but because they have no other choice.

[rdokoye]

True, if these black females want the hard working, intellectual black males to prioritise them, then they know that which is required of them.

The mere fact that their not doing that which is required to get these so called intellectual black males to gravities towards to them, says to me that...maybe they just, DON'T, want decent guys unless it's more convenient for them. I.e. single parenthood.

[WTFLosAngelesHi]

You hit the nail on the head with that post.