This is the only thing that's so difficult for me, and I am so afraid that it will lead to my distruction. Oh Allah swt, help me please. I don't want this anymore, I just want to be your good servant and believer, please help me Allah swt.
@5graffitiartist5 its like that everywhere unfortunately. And everyone is hardly dressed. Look passed, don't stare. If you see by accident, look away. Strengthen your iman and aim for Jannah, not the life of this world.
@5graffitiartist5 Then it's impossible, in your case, obviously. So as a consequence of being put in environments where the female nakedness is everywhere around you, insha'Allah the prohibition is exempted from you by virtue of being outside your control. Only thing you can do, in this case, is be patient. Are there are any one among them who are suitable for marriage? At least women in America generally aspire marriage, so don't miss the opportunity if it comes to you.
Where I live in Australia (Sydney, to be exact) even the term marriage is offensive and increasingly become a taboo among women (yes, even a number, Allahu alim how many, of the Muslim ones too) in my society! I'd rather see naked women who want to marry, then naked women (like here) that compound the fitnah by refusing to marry (EXCEPT: if you are an employer). Aohzubillah!
@Cepter Yes, that is the case in Melbourne and probably everywhere in the world right now. Both women and men are marrying much later in life. Women are naked and men have shaved their beards. And from that you could guess which way their characters and morals are heading too...
Yes its difficult but there are solutions...you can sit next to a male in your computer designing class,and otherwise keep your gaze down while you're at school....Allah always makes a way for his true believing servants...may Allah make it easy for you...Ameen.
Sheikh you talk about marriage as the cure. And alhdamulilah its true. But how can we get married??? how can we find people? when like me i dont know muslims, my family dont know muslim suiters for me, or other families.
You say i can not go and meet people, with intention of marriage at meetings. So what do you propose i do??????
excellent question sister. It's a question that so many ask. "how? who?"
and so in Australia, Melbourne, a brother who works well with the community has decided to attempt to address this problem. Muslims are plenty in number here, in comparison to other areas, alhamdulilah. So the issue is more that people don't know each other, or they can't find 'good' people. If I remember correctly, Sheikh Feiz is telling us to go out & meet only if we intend to seek marriage.
unfortunately it is indeed a common question, how who where???
The UmmahFilms brother (look for him on youtube if you don't know him) is also trying to address this issue in his own way. May Allah reward them for their efforts.
At the end of the day, I don't know what it's like in the UK, but stroll into the mosque, meet the sisters, when your father goes to jumuah, tell him to keep his eyes out. or other islamic gatherings. khair inshAllah. May Allah grant you strength and patience sister
Shukran for the reply. Here where i live is a small town, all my parents ever knowen, so most of the inhabitants are christian, or athiest. We dont have much connections to outside world or muslims in london. But like you said, where there are muslims its always hard to find the practicing one. Many are muslim but which of them practice?
My father is very shy about talking about marriage, he feels uncomfortable talking about it, especially when it comes to me. LOL.
Thank you for the kind words. I will remain patient, allah rewards those who are. And its all a test. Just be nice to settle down while i am young you know.
Thanks again,
jazakallah khier, may allah bless you, i make dua for you my brother.
A salama laycom sister. If you are not married yet I have found a hideeth explaing what you should do if you are looking for marriage. I will send this to you very soon. Stay patience sister, Our Lord will award you in full.
u must be a female, rite? because i hv noticed, to a religous guy, only females say 'i love him for the sake of Allah', because guys dont hv to say 'for the sake of Allah', because people wont get us wrong, but if a lady says that without saying 'for the sake of Allah', then people can get them wrong, which they will never want it to happen no matter what. Thats y i feel so, so am i right?
Another inspiring lecture Mashallah, thank you for uploading his second part series, that was fast. Keep bringing his lectures. I heard he lectures in PalTalk every sunday live, but I don't know where in PalTalk, you have any idea?
I know of another speaker , Brother Abu Hamza, who lectures sundays live. About 1 hour before mughrib, Australian Eastern Day Light saving time right now lol. Thats in the IISNA section under religion and theology or something like that. But I don't know about Sheikh Feiz. Last I heard he was back in Lebanon but that was a while ago.
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TheServiceWeb 3 months ago
This is the only thing that's so difficult for me, and I am so afraid that it will lead to my distruction. Oh Allah swt, help me please. I don't want this anymore, I just want to be your good servant and believer, please help me Allah swt.
AfghanpowerNL 9 months ago 3
May Allah give me strength
faizi786 10 months ago
salaam
how can i lower my gaze when i go to a free mixing highschool in america and i am 16 by the way.
girls are every in the school, look left, right, up, down everywhere. i have to sit next to one during my computer designing class.
so advice and please make dua for me for the angels do the make the same dua for you.
salaam.
5graffitiartist5 1 year ago
@5graffitiartist5 its like that everywhere unfortunately. And everyone is hardly dressed. Look passed, don't stare. If you see by accident, look away. Strengthen your iman and aim for Jannah, not the life of this world.
sarahapril9854 1 year ago
@5graffitiartist5 Then it's impossible, in your case, obviously. So as a consequence of being put in environments where the female nakedness is everywhere around you, insha'Allah the prohibition is exempted from you by virtue of being outside your control. Only thing you can do, in this case, is be patient. Are there are any one among them who are suitable for marriage? At least women in America generally aspire marriage, so don't miss the opportunity if it comes to you.
Cepter 10 months ago
Where I live in Australia (Sydney, to be exact) even the term marriage is offensive and increasingly become a taboo among women (yes, even a number, Allahu alim how many, of the Muslim ones too) in my society! I'd rather see naked women who want to marry, then naked women (like here) that compound the fitnah by refusing to marry (EXCEPT: if you are an employer). Aohzubillah!
Cepter 10 months ago
@Cepter Yes, that is the case in Melbourne and probably everywhere in the world right now. Both women and men are marrying much later in life. Women are naked and men have shaved their beards. And from that you could guess which way their characters and morals are heading too...
domaap3000 10 months ago
@5graffitiartist5
Yes its difficult but there are solutions...you can sit next to a male in your computer designing class,and otherwise keep your gaze down while you're at school....Allah always makes a way for his true believing servants...may Allah make it easy for you...Ameen.
tairanman 8 months ago
if one can not get married then fast..Inshallah
SIKM4N 1 year ago 3
Shukran :D
MuslimahMaroc 2 years ago
Sheikh you talk about marriage as the cure. And alhdamulilah its true. But how can we get married??? how can we find people? when like me i dont know muslims, my family dont know muslim suiters for me, or other families.
You say i can not go and meet people, with intention of marriage at meetings. So what do you propose i do??????
MuslimahMaroc 2 years ago 2
excellent question sister. It's a question that so many ask. "how? who?"
and so in Australia, Melbourne, a brother who works well with the community has decided to attempt to address this problem. Muslims are plenty in number here, in comparison to other areas, alhamdulilah. So the issue is more that people don't know each other, or they can't find 'good' people. If I remember correctly, Sheikh Feiz is telling us to go out & meet only if we intend to seek marriage.
domaap3000 2 years ago
unfortunately it is indeed a common question, how who where???
The UmmahFilms brother (look for him on youtube if you don't know him) is also trying to address this issue in his own way. May Allah reward them for their efforts.
At the end of the day, I don't know what it's like in the UK, but stroll into the mosque, meet the sisters, when your father goes to jumuah, tell him to keep his eyes out. or other islamic gatherings. khair inshAllah. May Allah grant you strength and patience sister
domaap3000 2 years ago
Shukran for the reply. Here where i live is a small town, all my parents ever knowen, so most of the inhabitants are christian, or athiest. We dont have much connections to outside world or muslims in london. But like you said, where there are muslims its always hard to find the practicing one. Many are muslim but which of them practice?
My father is very shy about talking about marriage, he feels uncomfortable talking about it, especially when it comes to me. LOL.
MuslimahMaroc 2 years ago
Thank you for the kind words. I will remain patient, allah rewards those who are. And its all a test. Just be nice to settle down while i am young you know.
Thanks again,
jazakallah khier, may allah bless you, i make dua for you my brother.
MuslimahMaroc 2 years ago
A salama laycom sister. If you are not married yet I have found a hideeth explaing what you should do if you are looking for marriage. I will send this to you very soon. Stay patience sister, Our Lord will award you in full.
Versal2011 2 years ago
Alhamdulilah for this video. Please, my brothers and sisters, keep seeking knowledge, keep doing good, and keep reminding yourself to do good.
305lmao 2 years ago
love this guy for the sake of Allah!
59700306 2 years ago 2
u must be a female, rite? because i hv noticed, to a religous guy, only females say 'i love him for the sake of Allah', because guys dont hv to say 'for the sake of Allah', because people wont get us wrong, but if a lady says that without saying 'for the sake of Allah', then people can get them wrong, which they will never want it to happen no matter what. Thats y i feel so, so am i right?
Munnabhai6664 2 years ago
lol, ive never noticed that. excellent point. sounds accurate ;-)
domaap3000 2 years ago
love this sheikh,, cos of him i have changed my life around completely,,,, he hits ur heart
mtidris 3 years ago 2
mashallah another great lecture.
muslim4ever44 3 years ago
Another inspiring lecture Mashallah, thank you for uploading his second part series, that was fast. Keep bringing his lectures. I heard he lectures in PalTalk every sunday live, but I don't know where in PalTalk, you have any idea?
Mumineen99 3 years ago
I know of another speaker , Brother Abu Hamza, who lectures sundays live. About 1 hour before mughrib, Australian Eastern Day Light saving time right now lol. Thats in the IISNA section under religion and theology or something like that. But I don't know about Sheikh Feiz. Last I heard he was back in Lebanon but that was a while ago.
domaap3000 3 years ago