am parents got divorce at a late stage in my life but for me it should of happen a long time ago, and it's sad that it did not work out but everyone is more happy now than back there so don't think it's the end of the world something good can come out of it. Thanks for the video
MY dad is divoreing today my dads leaving :'''( PLz respond i need advice And i love them both
and im worried that my dads gonna leave and have a happer erfamily with out me :( so i was crying and im crying righting this :C plz respond and im only ten :C
My friends parents are divorced and when I talk to her she always seems just so happy as if nothing in her life was very dramatic and hard. She may sometimes get in a fight with my other friend but the reason she would get into those fights was because it was her parents fault. When they kept on fighting it influenced her to be tough and to be very aggressive but it is a good thing that they divorced she now has a total of six half brothers and sisters and of course a best friend.
My parents divorced when I was 3 months old.:( They fought because my dad would constantly hang out with his friends. I also have a sister who is my half sister. My mom met a guy when I was 3 and she married him when I was 4 and now I have a Half Brother. :) Now I visit my dad lives in a home and is married. (I now have three step siblings.) So it doesn't really bug me. Thanks Brett for sharing your story too <3
I'm 16 and my parents are in a divorce right now.They basically fought almost all my life and they can't get along at all.It's hard that they are getting divorced and I will miss my dad, but I am happy that they are getting divorced. I actually wish they had sooner because it's hard to live with all the fighting,but it did make me a stronger person. I believe that I can still have a happy life when I grow up and that someone will make me happy and love me.Thank you Brett for being who you are <3
my parents got divorced 9 months ago. at first i was really upset but after watching this video you make me see a whole things in a completly new way. thank you brett. i would love for you too see this just so you know how much i appricate this video.
my parents aren't divorced but i have 4 half sisters and a half brother all from my parents previous marriages, it's quite a complicated family but i know that our family is extremely close i'd never class any of my sisters or brother as half at all! unfortunately none of my sisters have closer relationships with their fathers, but my dad is the best and all my sisters and my brother consider my dad as their full dad and we're all so content and happy and i'm glad you are too! :)
my parents divorced when I was 2, I'm 13 now and luckily my parents are still good friends, me and my brothers mostly live with my mum but on Wednesdays and Saturdays we stay at my dads, i love both mu mum and dad dearly and i can imagine life would probably be worse off for me and my 2 brothers if they hadnt separated cause my dad just couldnt cope as he is bi-polar.
I have been through 3 divorcals, and swap through 3 different houses almost every week... I have to move all around the state, almost every 7 days.. my parents constantly nag at me for playing video games/ doing nothing at home and not playing with my friends.. It is hard when my friends live in all different places and I can hang out with them for a few days then say "see ya in 3 weeks".. my "parents" are constantly nagging me about this.. What should I say to them?
Hey, Brett. My parents are not (yet) divorced, but my mom ran away to the east coast, leaving me and my dad and my sisters in CA. I recently moved in with my mom, and she's dating. He's a nice man, but being 19 and seeing my mom get cozy next to another (or any) man after seeing her unhappily married my whole life is just weird. She seems uneasy that it makes me uncomfortable. It's not her, or him, or anyone. It's just weird and new. Did you find it weird when your parents started dating?
My parents don't like each other no more and my dad want to go back to Mexico and I don't want that I understand that there's no leve between them I understand but I'm not gonna see my dad anymore if he goes back to Mexico I'm really sad right now and I'm 15 and I have a brother he is 8 that's the bad thing this is gonna hurt him soo bad:,(
my parents got divorced when i was 6. im 14 now. sometimes its difficult with a stepmom yelling at you for forgetting something at your moms house or accidentally bringing clothes back and forth. it can make it pretty stressful but at least my parents are now speaking to eachother. anyways im used to it now, and having parents being divorced is deffinitley not the worst thing in the world..
My parents got divorced about 5 years ago and theyre still pretty hostile twoards one another. This made me feel bedr though:) i teared up a bit. Its not easy but like u said it gets bedr.
Im glad my parents got divorced, my dad is a dick, hes a bad person, and i got a really awsome step dad a few years later who has been an amazing father!!!
My parents decided to get married when my mom found out she was pregant. I came a few months after the wedding and they were married for almost 10 years. They fought alot and my father was abusive and controlling, but she stayed for me. Im now 18 and I live with my mom and sister. My dad is now a huge ass. I wish my mom had left sooner. But, if she did, my mom would have never met and fell in love with a man, who unfourtnatly passed away 3 years ago, but my 4 year old sister came from that deal.
yeah my parents got divorced but my dad left dont know him never have not always the best desicion glad you have parents who actually care for you though!!! (:
My parents divorced when I was 2. I don't remember having a mom and dad in the same household. I am kinda glad that I didn't live with my dad because he has some very skewed views. I didn't want to inherit his racism or homophobia either.
My friend had/ is having a bad childhood because her mom and dad won't get divorced. Her dad is a cheating dick, and she's seen proof, showed the proof to her mom, even. Her mom doesn't let her do anything because she's afraid she'll make her dad mad. Her dad is nice to me but he's the worlds biggest dick to her.
My parents are still married, going on 19 or 20 years ^_^ There have been rough times but they've always worked through them. <3
I agree, divorce is not a bad thing. I probably would have had a way better childhood if my mom and dad did. I had a warped fucked up childhood. My dad was a major piece of shit. My mom should have left him before they even made me probably, but im here. been through shit, but Im a stronger person for what i've been through and I take my experiences that I have had in my childhood as a learning experience of not WHAT TO DO when you are a mom. Today, Im married with a 7 year old and i am so happy
I completely agree, divorce isn't terrible. My childhood would have been terrible if they stayed together! It can be a positive thing. Especially if you're little, more presents on birthdays!
that seems just like my parents man. they got divorced a few months before i was born and now 18 years later my mom literally lives 6 streets away from me and my parents are good friends.
My parents divorced was finally done a few months ago...It took like 2 years for it to all happen, and I handled this thing and still do completely different then you. You think a lot more positive then me haha
When I 4-8 my mom separated from my dad because he had issues with pot. When he 'went to counseling', my mom returned to him, to find he really hadn't quit smoking. My mom has been going through the long divorce process for almost three years now, and it should be finished soon. My parents constantly fight and my dad isn't in the right place to support himself or either of us. This divorce is a positive thing, and knowing someone as great as you went through the same thing makes it easier. (:
My parents separated when I was 2 and when I was three me and my three brothers and my mom moved in with someone who recently became my moms wife. So I never really had a father and it always makes me angry when my friends complain about having to spend time with their fathers.
its okiee brett my parents r qoinqq throuqh a divorcee riqht noW. and tbh my parents r kinda in the same situatioN. unfortunatelyy its common but its part of reality anywaY... <3
Brett, im 13. and my mom wants to devorice my dad. we havnt lived with him and i'm happy. he steals money from us and everything. it really sucks. i just wanted tot let you know. that there is a reason for evrything. love you <3
Your perspective on life is so positive and uplifting Brett! My parents are divorced and I only ever saw the bad sides, but I guess your right, it's for the best and if they're unhappy then it's ok!
My parents got a divorce when I was like two and they didn't try to even hide the fact that they were fighting. They always fought in front of me and they did all the time until I turned about 13. Ill be 20 this year. My mom is now re married. She is miserable and my dad is single. They always still try to bring me into their misery, but I have always kept my head up. they have taught me how not to be when I get older. Thank you for being you, Brett. you are one person I defiantly look up to.
well my divorce was the best thing to happen to me and my four children. the sad part is he walked away 3 years ago and didn't want to be a father anymore. there for my children are suffering a loss.
What happens when your parents are separated but still obviously in love and neither of them have moved on even a little bit after over a year? It's a strange situation as absolutely NOTHING has changed in our family dynamic except my dad does not sleep here anymore. Even as a 19 year old I find this awfully confusing because I don't know what the hell I'm supposed to think about the situation..
My parents divorced when I was a around 14, and when I look back it was a good a thing. They were fighting all the time and both of them were miserable. I was okay with them being separated, but not being the go-to person to bitch about the other parent. My Dad was really good about it, my Mom not so much. I don't think she meant to but she did alienate me from my Dad for a few years. I'm only now rebuilding that relationship, which sucks since we used to be close and its hard to make lost time.
My dad left when I was 3, I never saw him again after that, So I don't really remember him. I admit, I was really bitter at first, but I've come to terms with it. Thanks Brett, for making this :) I consider you my friend even though we don't live by each other <3 lol you're awesome and I love your vlogs
When i was a kid my a dad run out if home and i felt like shit, even tho days later he came back. Now my parents barely speak to each other its not a bad thing, but definitely, they (and I of course) could been more happier if they have choose separeted ways, anyways the point is maybe in that time i couldnt see or understand that divorce its something good, just like you say, its not the end of the world!
My parents hate each other but are still married after 19 years and together they had and raised me, my older brother and my little sister as well as my half brother whom my mum had before she even met my dad.. I truly think that the fact they got this far is great
I lost my dad when i was a kid and now my mother is divorcing the only father I have ever known.I know they arent really happy together but it feels like the end of the world.I hope I get your perspective on this soon.
I am 35.. and my parents just seperated.. They were married for 40 years.. it's not that easy... but at least they went their own way in peace.. My dad moves to Bali and my mum keeps the house
Hey brett, my parents divorced when I was 7 and I have 2 older siblings as well but their divorce ruined our lives and family. I got depression and gained weight because I didn't understand it, my brother dropped out of school, my mom started drugs, my dad got DIU's from not being with us. it was all really bad and we lived in naperville, IL so it was a suburb life. even till today my dad is not allowed on my moms property and my mom has a mentally abusive bf which has driven me 2 insanity :/
i'm 17 and my parents got divorced when i was 7. but i never knew what was happening at the time because like you, they hid fighting very well. but the thing that made me sad was i asked them before if they were getting divorced because my friends parents were divorced. then about a year later they did. now my mom has a boyfriend living with us and my dad is remarried to a real bitch and i hate it. D:
My folks divorced when I was 17, but it was long overdue...
They fought for many years and hated each other. Though I feel it was a good thing, they should have done it many many years ago, but they said they stayed together for the children. The only thing I remember from that time in my life was the hateful remarks, infidelity, and lots of physical confrontations.
what about those kids that had to go through there parents being divorced and then one of the parents just left and the kid never heard from them again..is that still a win?
Happy almost birthday!! :) and i love that you posted this. As of now my parents are happily married, but when I was younger, they were separated for along time and I didnt know why at the time. but i think that the time that they spent apart, just doing theyre own things, helped them. :]
Thanks so much for this my parents got divorced when I was 4 and at the time I didn't understand but now tht I do I kno tht they r better off separate because they weren't happy together
Divorce is definitely not a bad thing.. In fact sometimes it's the best thing for everyone.. for the parents and the children :) I hate it when parents selfishly hand on and let their children see their ugly sides.. And in my experience unhappy/fighting parents often led to drinking and it was and still is just a fucking mess..
.. Yeah so Divorce for the win and let's hope some people see reason and go through with it .. Sigh:/
I really like your take on divorce. It definitely meant a lot to Stevo and I when you talked to us. Glad you made this video, I feel like it will help a lot of people out :)
<3 this Brett! nice to see a more serious but Brett side of view lol :) My parents also got divorced when i was 6 and im 21 and also got divorced lol vicious cycle life has but i think we grow to be different people and when we are those different people we dont like the other one as much haha anyways Happy Birthday!!! :D
Really refreshing to see your nongoofy side! You should totally do more of these, it was really great to here a different point of view on a serious subjects that affects a lot of youth! Your the man Brett!! Love Ya!
I totally agree. My parents are fighting silently for about 10 years now and they are still together. I can't help but be angry at my mother for letting me know everything from the beginning ( I was back than 10 y/o) way to much to handle for a little girl. I asked a few times why they don't just get divorced. I think my mother doesn't want to because she hasn't work and my dad because of my brother and me and the food on the table when he comes home. it's not a warzone but it isn't always nice.
However as time went on the wounds healed, and bridges were rebuilt. Now they function pretty well together and no one can say they don't care about each other still. If any kids here are going through this don't make it affect you too much. As time goes on they can and more than likely will stop fighting. Just be there for them.
Hey Brett great video. I agree whole heartedly a lot of times the best of option is to just end it. If a person can not make a relationship work by any means then why make yourself suffer. When my parents got divorced a few years ago it was pretty bad. My dad claims he never saw it coming and he was hurt, there was a lot of fighting and being a kid stuck in that felt terrible.
My parents separated when I was 8 or 9. My Dad actually moved into the basement and lived with us for a while and then we moved to another city without him and then we moved back and he was always in our lives so I never went through any issues with their separation. I knew my Dad loved me and would always be there for me. Unfortunately my mom got into an abusive relationship and she's gone now. And then I lost my Dad to cancer. They were amazing parents. I couldn't have asked for better.
My parents divoced when I was 2 so I grew up with it. I never really was sad or angry at them because I knew they were both happy apart. Now they are both remarried and even though I cant stand my step dad I love my step mom and all my other siblings that I now have. Me and my step sibling don't even consider ourselves step we love each other just as much as full blooded siblings. My parents are friends and now we have like one huge family and I love it. I would have my life any other way.
My parents got divorced early last year, my dad is still depressed over it and its annoying and yeah. so yeah, glad to see someone else went through the same thing :)
my parents are divorced. they got divorced when i was like 9 im 13 now it didnt really suck as i did miss my father. i barley talk to him or see him. i live with my mom its great but i would like to see my dad more often
I like these sharing vlogs. My parents never divorced they separated seven months later my dad passed away from a heart attack he was 61. My mom was unhappy in the marriage but I think if he had stayed alive they would have remained friends. They were never cruel to each other never had huge blow out fights my dad just never did anything really my mom raised my sister and me. He didn't die from the separation he had poor eating habits. I love him and miss him.
Very apt video Brett. My parents have been in an unhappy marriage for YEARS. Should get a divorced but choose not to because they think they can "work it out." After seven years I don't think so.
My parents were married for about 23 years and then they separated for about 6 years because they fought ALL the time. During their separation I lived with my dad which was incredible, not because I don't love my mom but because she is very strict and my dad is VERY laid back so I got to live my teenage years in just about the greatest way possible! Then when I finished highschool we all moved back in together and it has been amazing so far! The separation was a definite must for them both!!
haha how ironic. My parents just moved to separate houses today. Brett its nice to know someone i look up to can give me advice indirectly. haha dont know if that makes sense but thanks :)
@haracross3 Forget indirectly, THIS IS DIRECT! Stay strong through this new change. It may be weird at first, but things will improve over time (really).
@BrettTheiPhone I have some amazing advice when it comes to helping friends, family, or even people I don't know.. But this is one thing I never thought of. I always thought that divorce was because people were impulsive and it was a demonic (sorry if you're not religious) thing. I definitely change my outlook completely on divorcing now.
You ARE awesome, Brett. My parents never divorced, but they should've - they are so unhappy together. But they've been married like... soon 30 years. I don't think they know how to live without each other. I'm making sure not to follow their foot steps though, when my boyfriend and I started to get these really serious fights I left him. The sad thing is that it means my son don't have any father at all.
@Twinkle91 It's good that you have taken a step back from your family, have seen what your parents are going through and have applied the lessons to your own life. Even though you leaving your boyfriend comes with it's downsides, you & your kids will be happier for it. You're a good mom :-)
Same thing with my bff, her parents are great friends and even go on holiday together which i think is great and i'm happy for her. Nowadays people get divorced without really trying to work on their marriages though :/
My parents got divorced when I was 12 or 13, my little brother was 3 or 4 at the time so he didn't really understand at all and I was old enough to know it was for the better. However fastforward 5 years later (In about one month it will have been a year) my dad passed away so that's been a lot more of a hit than them simply getting divorced.
I definitely liked the vlog as always B the I, then again haven't disliked one yet. Can't wait to see you at Vidcon!?
Be there for my mom ?
Really, she left me and my brothers. . .she was never there for me I love her but I have no idea who she is.
heyvicky1 2 weeks ago
Pauvre cassos !!!! Espece de connard, va te faire mettre ^^
nickythunder06 3 weeks ago
am parents got divorce at a late stage in my life but for me it should of happen a long time ago, and it's sad that it did not work out but everyone is more happy now than back there so don't think it's the end of the world something good can come out of it. Thanks for the video
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MY dad is divoreing today my dads leaving :'''( PLz respond i need advice And i love them both
and im worried that my dads gonna leave and have a happer erfamily with out me :( so i was crying and im crying righting this :C plz respond and im only ten :C
lpsstories 1 month ago
my parents told me tonight :(
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my mom and my dad got divorced but ended up getting married again to each other like 9 years later.
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cassandrabby101 1 month ago
My friends parents are divorced and when I talk to her she always seems just so happy as if nothing in her life was very dramatic and hard. She may sometimes get in a fight with my other friend but the reason she would get into those fights was because it was her parents fault. When they kept on fighting it influenced her to be tough and to be very aggressive but it is a good thing that they divorced she now has a total of six half brothers and sisters and of course a best friend.
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ashleylovesya101 2 months ago
My parents divorced when I was 3 months old.:( They fought because my dad would constantly hang out with his friends. I also have a sister who is my half sister. My mom met a guy when I was 3 and she married him when I was 4 and now I have a Half Brother. :) Now I visit my dad lives in a home and is married. (I now have three step siblings.) So it doesn't really bug me. Thanks Brett for sharing your story too <3
ckTwilight7777 2 months ago
I'm 16 and my parents are in a divorce right now.They basically fought almost all my life and they can't get along at all.It's hard that they are getting divorced and I will miss my dad, but I am happy that they are getting divorced. I actually wish they had sooner because it's hard to live with all the fighting,but it did make me a stronger person. I believe that I can still have a happy life when I grow up and that someone will make me happy and love me.Thank you Brett for being who you are <3
jansmitfan25 2 months ago
my parents got divorced when i was 10 and i was so happy.
ItsJuliaTaveras 2 months ago
It is a bad thing to get divorced -__-. Don't kid yourself. You did fail if you divorce!
786sami786 3 months ago
my parents got divorced when i was 6 yrs old and my sister was 9.
danabasas4 3 months ago
i just realized how many peoples parents got divorced looking at these comments :o
4Ownedproductions 3 months ago
my parents got divorced 9 months ago. at first i was really upset but after watching this video you make me see a whole things in a completly new way. thank you brett. i would love for you too see this just so you know how much i appricate this video.
littlemisshyper1787 3 months ago 3
@littlemisshyper1787 Read, understood & appreciated :-)
BrettTheiPhone 3 months ago 4
my parents aren't divorced but i have 4 half sisters and a half brother all from my parents previous marriages, it's quite a complicated family but i know that our family is extremely close i'd never class any of my sisters or brother as half at all! unfortunately none of my sisters have closer relationships with their fathers, but my dad is the best and all my sisters and my brother consider my dad as their full dad and we're all so content and happy and i'm glad you are too! :)
waffleironable 3 months ago
my parents divorced when I was 2, I'm 13 now and luckily my parents are still good friends, me and my brothers mostly live with my mum but on Wednesdays and Saturdays we stay at my dads, i love both mu mum and dad dearly and i can imagine life would probably be worse off for me and my 2 brothers if they hadnt separated cause my dad just couldnt cope as he is bi-polar.
loverponies98 4 months ago
I have been through 3 divorcals, and swap through 3 different houses almost every week... I have to move all around the state, almost every 7 days.. my parents constantly nag at me for playing video games/ doing nothing at home and not playing with my friends.. It is hard when my friends live in all different places and I can hang out with them for a few days then say "see ya in 3 weeks".. my "parents" are constantly nagging me about this.. What should I say to them?
distab 4 months ago
My parents just separated.....after this video was posted acute
puddingface11 4 months ago
Hey, Brett. My parents are not (yet) divorced, but my mom ran away to the east coast, leaving me and my dad and my sisters in CA. I recently moved in with my mom, and she's dating. He's a nice man, but being 19 and seeing my mom get cozy next to another (or any) man after seeing her unhappily married my whole life is just weird. She seems uneasy that it makes me uncomfortable. It's not her, or him, or anyone. It's just weird and new. Did you find it weird when your parents started dating?
Rawlyssa 5 months ago
My parents don't like each other no more and my dad want to go back to Mexico and I don't want that I understand that there's no leve between them I understand but I'm not gonna see my dad anymore if he goes back to Mexico I'm really sad right now and I'm 15 and I have a brother he is 8 that's the bad thing this is gonna hurt him soo bad:,(
chivaruben15 6 months ago
my parents got divorced when i was 6. im 14 now. sometimes its difficult with a stepmom yelling at you for forgetting something at your moms house or accidentally bringing clothes back and forth. it can make it pretty stressful but at least my parents are now speaking to eachother. anyways im used to it now, and having parents being divorced is deffinitley not the worst thing in the world..
xokatieruth27 6 months ago
i think my world might change cause i think my parents are divorcing
jakey200000 7 months ago
my did to i'm sorry god bless you
moviesbyzach 9 months ago
i'm did to i; m sorry
moviesbyzach 9 months ago
My parents got divorced about 5 years ago and theyre still pretty hostile twoards one another. This made me feel bedr though:) i teared up a bit. Its not easy but like u said it gets bedr.
XaviddancerX 10 months ago
my parents got divorced a few years ago. and i would say it made my life 100 times better
Zakkglenna 10 months ago
Your Jewish?
jasa159 10 months ago
Im glad my parents got divorced, my dad is a dick, hes a bad person, and i got a really awsome step dad a few years later who has been an amazing father!!!
TheSassyred15 10 months ago
I agree :) I don't think marriage should be taken lightly as it seems a lot of people take it these days.
brerobertson 10 months ago
My parents decided to get married when my mom found out she was pregant. I came a few months after the wedding and they were married for almost 10 years. They fought alot and my father was abusive and controlling, but she stayed for me. Im now 18 and I live with my mom and sister. My dad is now a huge ass. I wish my mom had left sooner. But, if she did, my mom would have never met and fell in love with a man, who unfourtnatly passed away 3 years ago, but my 4 year old sister came from that deal.
singingirl818 10 months ago
yeah my parents got divorced but my dad left dont know him never have not always the best desicion glad you have parents who actually care for you though!!! (:
hadyen1114 10 months ago
My parents divorced when I was 2. I don't remember having a mom and dad in the same household. I am kinda glad that I didn't live with my dad because he has some very skewed views. I didn't want to inherit his racism or homophobia either.
aROARahVyePer 10 months ago
Aww, you are so sweet. I wish you the best:))
pinkyprincess06 10 months ago
these sbbppexppperiences
denta43211234 10 months ago
My friend had/ is having a bad childhood because her mom and dad won't get divorced. Her dad is a cheating dick, and she's seen proof, showed the proof to her mom, even. Her mom doesn't let her do anything because she's afraid she'll make her dad mad. Her dad is nice to me but he's the worlds biggest dick to her.
My parents are still married, going on 19 or 20 years ^_^ There have been rough times but they've always worked through them. <3
MissTaylorLeAnn18 10 months ago
I agree, divorce is not a bad thing. I probably would have had a way better childhood if my mom and dad did. I had a warped fucked up childhood. My dad was a major piece of shit. My mom should have left him before they even made me probably, but im here. been through shit, but Im a stronger person for what i've been through and I take my experiences that I have had in my childhood as a learning experience of not WHAT TO DO when you are a mom. Today, Im married with a 7 year old and i am so happy
cookiepuss1987 10 months ago 22
Well said dude. I really like your videos.
JoeyBawlz 10 months ago
"i was noy brought into this world because of a failed anything" sorry failed condom maybe? Loljkilubrett
ilikeshaynpeter 10 months ago
My parents got divorced when I was about 1.
My mum and my stepdad got divorced when I was 13.
If it weren't for those events, I'd still be a pathetic, wimpy, Asian kid.
AkityBakity 10 months ago
my parents got devorced when i was 2
StarFoxMadness 10 months ago 11
@StarFoxMadness Mine too.
aROARahVyePer 10 months ago
I completely agree, divorce isn't terrible. My childhood would have been terrible if they stayed together! It can be a positive thing. Especially if you're little, more presents on birthdays!
luckyme0131 10 months ago
@luckyme0131 ahahaha I wish my parents got a divorce!
cookiepuss1987 10 months ago
Thank you for being an inspiration and a strong person. You truly can bring up those that are down :) You rock Brett!
2mXm 10 months ago
My parents divored when I was 4-5 and it was hard at times but it was all for the best. And my dad got remarried and my mom dated, everyone was happy
GameDork8 10 months ago
that seems just like my parents man. they got divorced a few months before i was born and now 18 years later my mom literally lives 6 streets away from me and my parents are good friends.
NinjaPwnsAtLife 10 months ago
you ARE awsome!
ViciousBeautyNYC 10 months ago
it felt different, but it felt good...
ukejuke100 10 months ago
My parents divorced was finally done a few months ago...It took like 2 years for it to all happen, and I handled this thing and still do completely different then you. You think a lot more positive then me haha
Lexyxoxo11 10 months ago
My parents got divorced ON my tenth birthday. They both missed my party to sign the papers.
exibitions 10 months ago
When I 4-8 my mom separated from my dad because he had issues with pot. When he 'went to counseling', my mom returned to him, to find he really hadn't quit smoking. My mom has been going through the long divorce process for almost three years now, and it should be finished soon. My parents constantly fight and my dad isn't in the right place to support himself or either of us. This divorce is a positive thing, and knowing someone as great as you went through the same thing makes it easier. (:
hottieEMOgirl 10 months ago
My parents separated when I was 2 and when I was three me and my three brothers and my mom moved in with someone who recently became my moms wife. So I never really had a father and it always makes me angry when my friends complain about having to spend time with their fathers.
Ginny0595 10 months ago
Your birthday is in 2 days? Mines in 3! haha :P
schuyler777 10 months ago
its okiee brett my parents r qoinqq throuqh a divorcee riqht noW. and tbh my parents r kinda in the same situatioN. unfortunatelyy its common but its part of reality anywaY... <3
snakebytes19 10 months ago
My parents aren`t divorced but my mom was married before my dad and because of that I have an awesome half brother!!
ToWriteMusicOnMyArms 10 months ago
We Love You Brett <3
angelcattiff 10 months ago
Brett, im 13. and my mom wants to devorice my dad. we havnt lived with him and i'm happy. he steals money from us and everything. it really sucks. i just wanted tot let you know. that there is a reason for evrything. love you <3
DMeredith15 10 months ago
Your perspective on life is so positive and uplifting Brett! My parents are divorced and I only ever saw the bad sides, but I guess your right, it's for the best and if they're unhappy then it's ok!
Please thumb up so Brett can see this :D
Love ya Brett!
IrnBruHew 10 months ago
I love you, Brett.
hollistersunset24 10 months ago
My parents got a divorce when I was like two and they didn't try to even hide the fact that they were fighting. They always fought in front of me and they did all the time until I turned about 13. Ill be 20 this year. My mom is now re married. She is miserable and my dad is single. They always still try to bring me into their misery, but I have always kept my head up. they have taught me how not to be when I get older. Thank you for being you, Brett. you are one person I defiantly look up to.
KLKx2010 10 months ago
well my divorce was the best thing to happen to me and my four children. the sad part is he walked away 3 years ago and didn't want to be a father anymore. there for my children are suffering a loss.
rtzluv 10 months ago
condom fail!
adrianhardhead 10 months ago
twice divorced and it's just fine. I am happy now with my current hubby.
MadisonBogart 10 months ago
Jew
Vinnydonuts619 10 months ago
@PartianHD Happy Birthday! I'll be 23 on the 5th too....it's an awesome birthday.
carnicel001 10 months ago
What happens when your parents are separated but still obviously in love and neither of them have moved on even a little bit after over a year? It's a strange situation as absolutely NOTHING has changed in our family dynamic except my dad does not sleep here anymore. Even as a 19 year old I find this awfully confusing because I don't know what the hell I'm supposed to think about the situation..
blinkmeeeeeeeeee 10 months ago
Love you Brett. :)
Dugm94 10 months ago
Brett... I am not on board with the hand-mouth thing!
Undermedveten 10 months ago
hand mouth is just not the same :( #LOL
BingBonglol 10 months ago
My parents divorced when I was a around 14, and when I look back it was a good a thing. They were fighting all the time and both of them were miserable. I was okay with them being separated, but not being the go-to person to bitch about the other parent. My Dad was really good about it, my Mom not so much. I don't think she meant to but she did alienate me from my Dad for a few years. I'm only now rebuilding that relationship, which sucks since we used to be close and its hard to make lost time.
FlutterFoxFly 10 months ago
It seems a bit opportunistic that Youtube placed a big advert for Online Divorces next to the video...
SweetiesJr 10 months ago
you're so awesome ! you seem to love us by giving us advice and therfore we love you even more !!! <3
kaideka 10 months ago
I grew up having my mother, grandma, and aunt. I hear ya bud :)
eClickNick 10 months ago
i didnt like the hand mouth. it felt wrong. :'(
lucyyymcc 10 months ago
I'm the result of a crazy work party. So basically, a mistake. :/
littlemissfruit 10 months ago
stop filming and driving at the same time it Dangerous
Peter606 10 months ago
it's easier when yer older. I hope they are on reasonably good terms with each other. Just remember, its them who have the problem, NOT you!
TheRealNickBravo 10 months ago
My dad left when I was 3, I never saw him again after that, So I don't really remember him. I admit, I was really bitter at first, but I've come to terms with it. Thanks Brett, for making this :) I consider you my friend even though we don't live by each other <3 lol you're awesome and I love your vlogs
freakinpuertorican 10 months ago
When i was a kid my a dad run out if home and i felt like shit, even tho days later he came back. Now my parents barely speak to each other its not a bad thing, but definitely, they (and I of course) could been more happier if they have choose separeted ways, anyways the point is maybe in that time i couldnt see or understand that divorce its something good, just like you say, its not the end of the world!
odraudedarcklaw 10 months ago
My parents hate each other but are still married after 19 years and together they had and raised me, my older brother and my little sister as well as my half brother whom my mum had before she even met my dad.. I truly think that the fact they got this far is great
OmgRawrify 10 months ago
I lost my dad when i was a kid and now my mother is divorcing the only father I have ever known.I know they arent really happy together but it feels like the end of the world.I hope I get your perspective on this soon.
gleymmerei 10 months ago
Brett,
I need you in my life.
Bri
brilovexo 10 months ago
I am 35.. and my parents just seperated.. They were married for 40 years.. it's not that easy... but at least they went their own way in peace.. My dad moves to Bali and my mum keeps the house
alittleolder 10 months ago
Hey brett, my parents divorced when I was 7 and I have 2 older siblings as well but their divorce ruined our lives and family. I got depression and gained weight because I didn't understand it, my brother dropped out of school, my mom started drugs, my dad got DIU's from not being with us. it was all really bad and we lived in naperville, IL so it was a suburb life. even till today my dad is not allowed on my moms property and my mom has a mentally abusive bf which has driven me 2 insanity :/
rae60590 10 months ago
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BLACKBINLATIN 10 months ago
Wait wait wait wait... you didn't put us in your mouth, but into your hand mouth. That means you weren't holding your steering wheel with anything.
NicolasP200 10 months ago
i'm 17 and my parents got divorced when i was 7. but i never knew what was happening at the time because like you, they hid fighting very well. but the thing that made me sad was i asked them before if they were getting divorced because my friends parents were divorced. then about a year later they did. now my mom has a boyfriend living with us and my dad is remarried to a real bitch and i hate it. D:
llaurentaylorrful 10 months ago
it's odd that there's a "Break Up Ornament" right next to this video.
jenbren2009 10 months ago
Why are you always so worried when you see a cop/think you see a cop...whats in your car Brett?
meggamind 10 months ago
haha i thought i was the only who was happy my parents got divorced! lol
mmt0815 10 months ago
Lol Tuesday is my dad's B-day(:
WalrusFanatic555 10 months ago
@BrettTheiPhone Brett you're so nice to all your fans!(: We love you, and I'm sorry your parents divorced. Happy day early Birthday!(: (lol)
WalrusFanatic555 10 months ago
Happy Birthday Brett!!!
My folks divorced when I was 17, but it was long overdue...
They fought for many years and hated each other. Though I feel it was a good thing, they should have done it many many years ago, but they said they stayed together for the children. The only thing I remember from that time in my life was the hateful remarks, infidelity, and lots of physical confrontations.
arklightbabybear 10 months ago
my parents got divorced when I was three. I feel your pain. ._.
DetectiveKittyCat 10 months ago
what about those kids that had to go through there parents being divorced and then one of the parents just left and the kid never heard from them again..is that still a win?
CaptainMoon12 10 months ago
Happy almost birthday!! :) and i love that you posted this. As of now my parents are happily married, but when I was younger, they were separated for along time and I didnt know why at the time. but i think that the time that they spent apart, just doing theyre own things, helped them. :]
OHhaiKRISTEN 10 months ago
it's my birthday in a few days...
cipfom 10 months ago
Thanks so much for this my parents got divorced when I was 4 and at the time I didn't understand but now tht I do I kno tht they r better off separate because they weren't happy together
cecilrahn 10 months ago
Divorce is definitely not a bad thing.. In fact sometimes it's the best thing for everyone.. for the parents and the children :) I hate it when parents selfishly hand on and let their children see their ugly sides.. And in my experience unhappy/fighting parents often led to drinking and it was and still is just a fucking mess..
.. Yeah so Divorce for the win and let's hope some people see reason and go through with it .. Sigh:/
NamelessPencil 10 months ago
i wish i at least liked my step dad -.-
AwsomeAreck 10 months ago
thnx, great video. I almost agree totally :)
buildyourself2010 10 months ago
steve and chris from the show Steven and Chris?@ LOL. XD.
xCraigg 10 months ago
My grandparents have been happily married for 65 years.
My parents have been happily married for 43 years.
My sister and her husband have been happily married for almost 20 years.
I'm 37. I got married at 20, divorced at 22. But got 2 great kids out of the bargain.
I couldn't be happier.
MsBin74 10 months ago 18
Sorry to hear man x
clarkcooley 10 months ago
I am here due to failure. A failed comdom! LOL!
onyxman8 10 months ago
Same story as Mine.Im 14.
3 kids , jewish family, when i was 9 they got divorced..
U need too look on the bright side here :)
you'll have at least 2 Houses. :)
LiorziProduction 10 months ago
I really like your take on divorce. It definitely meant a lot to Stevo and I when you talked to us. Glad you made this video, I feel like it will help a lot of people out :)
Chrisislame90 10 months ago 2
<3 this Brett! nice to see a more serious but Brett side of view lol :) My parents also got divorced when i was 6 and im 21 and also got divorced lol vicious cycle life has but i think we grow to be different people and when we are those different people we dont like the other one as much haha anyways Happy Birthday!!! :D
KatrinaK2007 10 months ago
Really refreshing to see your nongoofy side! You should totally do more of these, it was really great to here a different point of view on a serious subjects that affects a lot of youth! Your the man Brett!! Love Ya!
fabulousityblog 10 months ago
awesome video , you made some great points
pcgamerguy1234 10 months ago
getting punched in the nose or my stomach makes me wanna KILL someone
KlownKrooK 10 months ago
I totally agree. My parents are fighting silently for about 10 years now and they are still together. I can't help but be angry at my mother for letting me know everything from the beginning ( I was back than 10 y/o) way to much to handle for a little girl. I asked a few times why they don't just get divorced. I think my mother doesn't want to because she hasn't work and my dad because of my brother and me and the food on the table when he comes home. it's not a warzone but it isn't always nice.
19Evelien90 10 months ago
Happy..birthday ?! Yaaaaaay ! And what do you think if Rebecca Black and Justin Bieber sing a song together ?!
lamxung5000 10 months ago
25? Wigga you least thirty.
koivosk 10 months ago
However as time went on the wounds healed, and bridges were rebuilt. Now they function pretty well together and no one can say they don't care about each other still. If any kids here are going through this don't make it affect you too much. As time goes on they can and more than likely will stop fighting. Just be there for them.
someonelookingout 10 months ago
Hey Brett great video. I agree whole heartedly a lot of times the best of option is to just end it. If a person can not make a relationship work by any means then why make yourself suffer. When my parents got divorced a few years ago it was pretty bad. My dad claims he never saw it coming and he was hurt, there was a lot of fighting and being a kid stuck in that felt terrible.
someonelookingout 10 months ago
My parents when i was 6
BlameChrisTV 10 months ago
My parents got divored when I was like.....6 months?or 7........ Thank You Brett,Thank You for making me feel less alone :D
Lololuce04 10 months ago
My parents separated when I was 8 or 9. My Dad actually moved into the basement and lived with us for a while and then we moved to another city without him and then we moved back and he was always in our lives so I never went through any issues with their separation. I knew my Dad loved me and would always be there for me. Unfortunately my mom got into an abusive relationship and she's gone now. And then I lost my Dad to cancer. They were amazing parents. I couldn't have asked for better.
EtherAmi 10 months ago
oooops i meant wouldnt my bad XD
teddybear20223 10 months ago
My parents divoced when I was 2 so I grew up with it. I never really was sad or angry at them because I knew they were both happy apart. Now they are both remarried and even though I cant stand my step dad I love my step mom and all my other siblings that I now have. Me and my step sibling don't even consider ourselves step we love each other just as much as full blooded siblings. My parents are friends and now we have like one huge family and I love it. I would have my life any other way.
teddybear20223 10 months ago
My parents got divorced early last year, my dad is still depressed over it and its annoying and yeah. so yeah, glad to see someone else went through the same thing :)
TheAussieBrooke 10 months ago
My parents were divorced when I was 4, my sister had a baby at 14. I live with my dad and my mum is down the road....and, I'm gay.
toadysnf 10 months ago
great way to look at it Brett. very insightful.
shapman87 10 months ago
my parents are divorced. they got divorced when i was like 9 im 13 now it didnt really suck as i did miss my father. i barley talk to him or see him. i live with my mom its great but i would like to see my dad more often
parkermanify 10 months ago
I like these sharing vlogs. My parents never divorced they separated seven months later my dad passed away from a heart attack he was 61. My mom was unhappy in the marriage but I think if he had stayed alive they would have remained friends. They were never cruel to each other never had huge blow out fights my dad just never did anything really my mom raised my sister and me. He didn't die from the separation he had poor eating habits. I love him and miss him.
justinnsurf 10 months ago
off topic. U should really stop recording urself while driving... haha we wouldn't want u to have an accident. we want u forever! ^____^
Zelda8525 10 months ago
Hey Brett! Thanks for sharing! I hope my kids grow up to have the same outlook as you! You're awesome!
MrMoVids 10 months ago
Very apt video Brett. My parents have been in an unhappy marriage for YEARS. Should get a divorced but choose not to because they think they can "work it out." After seven years I don't think so.
lupe556 10 months ago
my parents had a fight today (even though they are divorced) so thanks for the advice, i'll keep it mind :)
idonthaveone9 10 months ago
My parents divorced when when I was nine and it was hard having step parents. It still is.
Did you have to deal with step siblings? If you did, how did you deal?
LadyHavok70 10 months ago
My parents were married for about 23 years and then they separated for about 6 years because they fought ALL the time. During their separation I lived with my dad which was incredible, not because I don't love my mom but because she is very strict and my dad is VERY laid back so I got to live my teenage years in just about the greatest way possible! Then when I finished highschool we all moved back in together and it has been amazing so far! The separation was a definite must for them both!!
catou007 10 months ago
haha how ironic. My parents just moved to separate houses today. Brett its nice to know someone i look up to can give me advice indirectly. haha dont know if that makes sense but thanks :)
haracross3 10 months ago 47
@haracross3 Forget indirectly, THIS IS DIRECT! Stay strong through this new change. It may be weird at first, but things will improve over time (really).
BrettTheiPhone 10 months ago 53
@BrettTheiPhone thanks. means a lot :)
haracross3 10 months ago
@BrettTheiPhone I have some amazing advice when it comes to helping friends, family, or even people I don't know.. But this is one thing I never thought of. I always thought that divorce was because people were impulsive and it was a demonic (sorry if you're not religious) thing. I definitely change my outlook completely on divorcing now.
flybikes29 10 months ago
@haracross3 It's not ironic it's coincidental, but I feel for you anyway :).
korisx 10 months ago
i dont even know who my biological father is, he left when i was 2 and im now 21 and i still don't know who he is
idlerocker1337 10 months ago
@PartianHD Yay Ryan! Happy B-Day to BOTH of us :-)
BrettTheiPhone 10 months ago 12
@BrettTheiPhone i love you
misshajra07 10 months ago
You ARE awesome, Brett. My parents never divorced, but they should've - they are so unhappy together. But they've been married like... soon 30 years. I don't think they know how to live without each other. I'm making sure not to follow their foot steps though, when my boyfriend and I started to get these really serious fights I left him. The sad thing is that it means my son don't have any father at all.
Twinkle91 10 months ago 29
@Twinkle91 It's good that you have taken a step back from your family, have seen what your parents are going through and have applied the lessons to your own life. Even though you leaving your boyfriend comes with it's downsides, you & your kids will be happier for it. You're a good mom :-)
BrettTheiPhone 10 months ago 35
Same thing with my bff, her parents are great friends and even go on holiday together which i think is great and i'm happy for her. Nowadays people get divorced without really trying to work on their marriages though :/
JustJamieXO 10 months ago
Even though my dad was previously married..and we ALL get along. both families.
it's awesome.
dux14 10 months ago
My parents get along so well.. and I just thought it was that way for everyone.
But I love your great attitude :)
dux14 10 months ago
My parents got divorced when I was 12 or 13, my little brother was 3 or 4 at the time so he didn't really understand at all and I was old enough to know it was for the better. However fastforward 5 years later (In about one month it will have been a year) my dad passed away so that's been a lot more of a hit than them simply getting divorced.
I definitely liked the vlog as always B the I, then again haven't disliked one yet. Can't wait to see you at Vidcon!?
MattersToMe3 10 months ago
Good too see you have such a positive out look on life :)
thebloodshedbrothers 10 months ago
Wow Brett my parents are divorced and I also think I'm awesome we have soooo much in common :) lol
AlisonVirginia 10 months ago
Yeah, my parents got divorced when I was 16 and it wasn't that good.
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PuRpLe98MoNkEy 10 months ago
You SUCKER punched my brain, Britt!
hutness 10 months ago
yea..mine did too at that age!
TERRORKLOWNS 10 months ago
OMG we have the same birthday =]
daccord1 10 months ago
I'M SORRY TO HEAR THAT MAN! CHEER UP!
ryanj74 10 months ago
im streaming p0rn right now so your video is taking very long to load... ill watch it once iv jizzed.
NICHOLASSA1 10 months ago
Brett I adore you
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@MrWeedman2012 ya..... so?
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