Jewish Courtship & the Shidduch system. Consider Judaism...

[CyberCounselingCentr]

great video!!!! great pictures and informational -kol hakavod- 

[tatycrfull]

The couple at 2:57 are like models, both of them beautiful, support shidduch!

[OhioYankee1862]

This guy is ridiculousness. HE does not speak the word and hes an angry man.

[OhioYankee1862]

IT IS NOT YOUR CONCERN TO BE ACTIVELY CONVERTING PEOPLE. WE ARE NOT CHRISTIANS AND WE ARE NOT MUSLIMS. WE ARE THE JEWISH PEOPLE. AND WE DO NOT DO THIS AS JEWS. OUR ONLY CONCERN SHOULD BE TO RAISE THE OBSERVANCE TO HASHEM FROM WITHIN OUR OWN. HASHEM HAS A PLAN FOR GENTILES AND FOR JEWS. WE MUST LOOK TO OURSELVES!

[ShlomoHaAvinoo]

Shidduch/matchmaking is against Halacha.The Gemara (Kiddushin 2b) cites the pasuk "When a man takes a woman [in marriage]" and explains "darko shel ish l'chazer al ha-isha," it is the way of men to pursue women [in marriage]. It is not the way of men, or shouldn't be, to enlist a band of agents, intermediaries, and attorneys to do the work for them. ''

funny how customs Get in the Way Of following the Rabbis.

[witchcraftlover]

oh my gosh , i didnt like that he said men effeminate cuz like im not a man yet like im fifteen but like im girly as hell! :) and loving it!!!!!! yay me! a girly boyyyyyy

[OrthodoxDarwinist]

I find it sad that Jewish people are so obsessed with inter-marriage. There's no other way to explain it other than outright racial contempt for the Goyim and a perceived need for racial isolation, much as Hitler felt for his people.... You guys have learned *nothing* from the past.

You are JUST as pathetic as those racist bigots in the 50/60s who spoke out against white people marrying black people.

[SmallSojourner]

@OrthodoxDarwinist Your words plainly reveal how ignorant you really are of TRUTH.

[Adam6275]

As a Jewish man I see again and again the hatred many Jewish women have to their own men. They really hate fathers and think men are unnecessary. I see religious women who respect Jewish women who marry nonjewish men and the nonjewish man as well. The blame for this are the Rabbi's who do not want to close this loophole of a woman who marries a nonjewish man and want to think they are victims and it was forced which isn't true in 99% of the cases.

[Adam6275]

To be very honest the Jewish religion itself has been influenced by pagan idea's just like other religions have. The Talmud has mixed up the roles of men and women. They claim it is the man's responsibility to bring children into the world and now they make it the woman's responsibility to work while the man learns. Both these idea's contradict the bible that clearly states that the man has to provide and the woman main obligation is to bear and raise children. The story of Adam and Eve.

[MultiPropagandaPanda]

@Adam6275 This is non-sense, men is obligated to make the first step to have children, simply because adam was before eve AND men is obligated to learn Torah, however women should raise children and keep modesty, shes also abligated to learn Torah, but not as much as men, the parnaza to your children comes from HaShem, dont worry, what do you think all the jews did before industry ? they worked on the field also and learned Torah, The story of adam and eve, was before sinai contract.

[Adam6275]

@MultiPropagandaPanda you said the story of adam and was before sinai contract.

So you are saying that the Sinai contract is replacement theology and replaces what happened beforehand. You have no understanding of torah. This is only to add requirements Jews have. It is not TO REPLACE ANYTHING THAT HAPPENED BEFOREHAND. That sounds like the replacement theology that some Christians have. And I guess if a family has many children you give the man the credit since he takes the first step.

[Adam6275]

@Adam6275 Where did you get your money from? You get it from God. Really. I doubt it. I'm sorry you hate men so much and clearly the men who you know who learn don't know anything since they don't even accept the first story in the bible but want to engage in replacement theology and think the demands made TO ALL NEWS INCLUDING JEWS is somehow no longer in effect.

[MultiPropagandaPanda]

@Adam6275 Look being rich is not the best thing, it is actually a test for stingy people, if your not rich its good, which means you gave enough tzdaka in life before, parnaza comes from HaShem, how much you make is how HaShem wants it, if you have realy strong faith in HaShem, and learn torah, he will maintain your survival, if you want to live luxury, which means HaShem want to burry you with richness, so hes not owing you anything in life after life. Thats simple.

[MultiPropagandaPanda]

@Adam6275 no, the Torah was before adam and eve, angels fighted Moshe, and said to G-d not to give them/jews Torah, give them anything except Torah, but the Torah added up more laws to the original, 6 then latter on the 7 of noach, but it doesnt mean, noach didnt knew how to slaughter and eat kosher, he knew, but never recieved any commandments on slaughter rules, except the 7 ones. adam had only 6, the contract at sinai added up more laws for the jews, which include to learn torah.

[BrishenAlston]

Less pressure and stress! This is definitely a plus in favor of Judaism. When I feel bogged down and a little overwhelmed by all the rules Judaism presents it's little things like this that make it seem worth it. Thanks for pointing this out. -BrishenAlston

[wowheed]

well done in allowing us to see the process.

[yamasnik]

geoasher023:

Dear brother, we dont need anyone to convert to judaism, we need the secular jews to repent! that's much more important!

if you could change your status it will be great.

more jews wont do any good if the "allready jews" are not orthodox yet...

[flute4hire]

I'm on the conversion path & agree with you to a degree. Something I have spotted is that alot of converts seem to be alot more religious than a lot of there born Jewish friends.

[yamasnik]

Agree.

I have no problem people that convert to judaism, if its for real then i'm more then happy.

the problem is that its agianst the jewish law to try and make someone convert, the person need to do it on his own!

well, if you are going to follow the law as it is, then good luck my friend, I hope we become brothers soon :)

[flute4hire]

my only problem is that reform is my only option at the moment thats the path i started my conversion with.

i'm starting to see that the orthodox option is the only option. an orthadox rabbi i am friends with on line has put a few of my concerns at ease.

[yamasnik]

I have no idea how someone came up with the reform style judaism lol, its really weird.

[flute4hire]

I can see why it came about but its not realy doing it for me at the moment. Its not much different from an anglican service in theory apart from whats been read out. i dont want to run it down as its helping me out at the moment but i can see the orthodox concerns.

[flute4hire]

@yamasnik I gave up Reform & am converting Orthodox now.

I have no idea how I'll marry an Orthodox woman though due to the stigma of being a convert other than finding a convert woman.

[yamasnik]

@flute4hire Bless you mate.

I belive that you'll find a jewish from birth woman that would be "interested" having a converted jew.

dont worry mate, just go for it.

[crasster1]

I'm not knocking you or Judaism. I agree mostly of what you say. Almost 100%

I get offended when you say "religious Christians" as if we were all one group.

Let me divvy out one group of Christians. The Amish.

They have a 2% divorce rate. That's 2 couples per 100 marriages. Their kids are humble & respectful, the husbands are masculine & wives feminine.

Do Torah Jews have a 2% divorce rate? I'm curious.

I believe in the Torah, but also am a Christian.

[badambrodman]

@crasster1 .06

[Chedvah]

Wow what a beautiful video........ach it makes you cry a bit.

[ThornUvDaath777]

btw, did you get my last message?

[ThornUvDaath777]

This seems...good. But if you decide not to do it this way, its not a sin is it?

[yamasnik]

The thing is that you can't touchany girl that you are not married to.

if you can handle that you will be fine.

[paulgem123]

Nice video Asher.