Why I feel Transexuals should be removed from the LBGT movement

[kuntyfacedbitch]

YESSSSSSSS PREACH ..

[whispersalt]

You brought up some really good, intelligent points. I wonder if you could be more specific in your rhetoric, though, for sensitivity's sake: "any man that is attracted to a transsexual is a straight man..." here i think you mean "and man that is attracted to a transwoman is a straight man." FTMs also have a lot of misogyny, misanthropy, and disrespect directed their way. Thank you for the video!

[CalamityMargaret]

Giiiiiiiiiiiiirl you are so wise! I am absolutely humbled by you. Thanks for this video. :)

[Radish6791]

You are truly and inspiration!!!

[QillerFox]

Ms. Chanel at best and always keeping it REAL

Hi5 over YouTube!!!! Couldn't have said it better than me

[aaronlamarmusic]

thank you mama nellie for that wonderful yet message of truth, everyone needs to respect each other despite race or gender. i think you need to talk about these negative gay families,ballroom families that is degrading and giving a negative outlook to people in the gay community. again thank you for that wonderful message and i love the look like always,

[adrina911]

You are so true gay men can be worster than straight people. All lot of gay men hate transsexual because of the man that find them attractive. Most of the men be no good but they will push the transsexual out in front of a bus for that man! Sad!

[TheNolo73]

Hello Chanel, I understand what you said and I agree.I hope however that transsexuals don't break away from the lgbt community because it takes a lot of inner strength to go through what you have gone through and that is an asset to the community and transsexuals, from what I know , are too small a group to fight alone.

[TheNolo73]

@TheNolo73 Fight inside the family for what you deserve but don't deprive yourselves of the benefits you can get as part of this group.I always think before I speak and don't accept BS from the people around me and they are the same too. Keep putting your foot down, I will too.Peace!

[SpookyElectric777]

you bring up a good point lgbt community is very hush hush about its own prejudices, racism and phobias. I guess they think people are buying that "we love everybody" mantra.

[Plumppeach4life]

AMAZING VIDEO!!! I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING U HAD TO SAY HON.

[BiancaLonden]

YESSSSSS men that likes trans women are STRAIGHT because trans women are WOMEN I totally agree!!!

[onedominicanfellow]

mama on video.....you are GAY mama no other classification fits you mama....if u sleep with men even if its only ones a year..u are gay mama love who u are and stop dividing to lgbt community and love your community....

[IsThatEtchas]

My LGBT community saved my life, if you think that there will then be T centers everywhere. You're deluding yourself.

[CARMELLAGABOR]

Amen Amen you better speak on it, I starting to feel almost like they gay community doesn't want us anyway.

[antikku01]

"heterosexual people gave birth to your gay ass" best quote :)

[sarkazzII]

"its life"

practice compassion...

[Jarodsaffo]

i loved it

[OhItsMarissa2010]

i 100% agree with you. sexual orientation and gender identity has nothing to do with the other. while i love the gays, bisexuals, and lesbians, all that is sexual orientation. the only thing we have in common is the fact that we're a considered a minority.

[Trippleg1993]

.I feel you all the way..and chile most of these children don't understand a word you are saying...I always felt that I was a transexual but I decided not to put my body through the changes. However I do feel and act more like a woman than a man.. Men who identify as straight respect my femininity..The gays act as if I don't exist. 98 percent of my friends are straight. And amen for being attracted to women more than men cause they are ridiculous. I wish I wasn't so physically attracted to them.

[TheHumorousAquarian]

omg its a vicious cycle, everyone is trying to put someone down to elevate themselves,

interesting.

[TheHumorousAquarian]

omg its a vicious cycle, everyone is trying to put someone down to elevate themselves,

interesting.

[TheHumorousAquarian]

omg its a vicious cycle, everyone is trying to put someone down to elevate themselves,

interesting.

[YoBoiNewnue]

i really didn't get a reason why TS should be involved in the LGBT community!

[kappaboy06]

@YoBoiNewnue so where do u think they belong

[DominiqueMcQueen1]

I totally agree with this vid!!

[nudedood]

Sorry but you really need to lighten up. It's ok to be sensitive. It's not ok to be so super serious about EVERYTHING. Get a sense of humor. Because there are $2 trannies out in the real world.

[Divotron101]

you are so right Chanel! as a feminine gay african American male, i understand the divide and derogatory things that are said about us. its sad that even within the LGBT family we have divides and segregations among us. I have a few transsexual friends and love and adore them for who they are. it takes courage to be who you truly are in a world that is based on labels, cages of identity, and minority segregations. I love and agree with you mama Chanel. Stay real&keep spread of information going.

[AmbitiousGirl86]

YES, school us Channel! I love u hunni :)

[sexxxyeye34]

Wow! This is soooooo deep. At times I maybe be silent but I'm still listening and learning Ms. Chanel. And I do recognize great teachings of morality and wisdom when I hear it. Everyday I am learning something new about human nature. Again, I say thank you so much for being the person you are. What you see is what you get with Ms. Chanel. No smoke and mirrors. I love it!

One love mama.

[babyjo1985]

IMB!!! see this along with every1 of your other videos (ive watched em all)....just. lets me know im doing the right ting by having you in my life via internet. im a 21 yr old transsexual & 4 sum odd reason the stuff you say in ur videos always makes me smile because i say the same thing rather it be with friends, family, FB or videos on YT. i agree with you 2 the highest percentage because we have yet 2 have a disagreement.

[kashmere805]

Whew! Miss Chanel!!! U r surely speaking the truth!!!! Thank u for ur awareness & sharing it! Bless u!!!

[nothingsimpossible77]

I think we all need to respect each other's journey #pointBLANKperiod.

Love you!

~NIP 77~

[NikkiLynettemusic]

I always thought that if u are Transexual woman who dates men then u should not be called gay. That makes no sense to me. I can understand why u feel the way u do about the topic. And u raised some interesting points that need to be heard.

[719police]

wow!!! i knew there was a reason im drawn to you, real recognize's real! preach! im learning so much from you its blowing my mind!! and when you said you dislike some men some time

and preferred us real women a lil more i blushed lol! you allready know i love me some you,and will protect you in the spirit realm and the natrual realm as well.love ur prayer warrior Lana ps cant wait for your next video.Shalom

[JollyJosh1089]

Another masterpiece and thought-provoking vid! 

[RaulQuintanilla]

sexuality? I would love to hear your story. You have many great things to say :)

[RaulQuintanilla]

I COMPLETELY agree with you 100%!! Gay people can be very judgmental, even towards me and I'm a gay male! I don't think anyone really understand transsexualism. To most people it is sexuality but I have been beating my brains out trying to get people (gay people included) to understand it's not!

Chanel, I respect you to the fullest and understand what you are tired of. I'm taking the initiative to get people to understand the same concepts you are talking about.

Will you elaborate on your bi

[kotosqopos]

I saw that video (I Hate To Work) I liked it, however I did not even notice while I was laughing what they said about trannies. I'm so sorry about that. I am gay, my closest friend is a tranny. I know trans and gays have some differences but after all as you said everything remains to love and respect even to honor. I don't know why some persons hold grudges, but I bet you're going to be more respected and accepted at LGTB movement than the straight people .. It's like gays vs lesbians story.

[nvncyble]

i'm one of them know it all gay kids of yours ma!

[CoolHotJus]

You should do a video about your views on the Maury Show's Man or Woman episodes.

[thruthealcove]

I'm so glad I know you & love you. It's always been about the PERSON for me, all that other stuff is just that, STUFF! This video is so on point & needed!!!

[ninetakesten]

I hear what you're saying. The family tends to take in all those who may be considered outsiders and I think they have good intentions. The problem is that somethings are just to large to fit in the LGB box and often get shoved to the side. I don't think the T should separate from the LGB though only b/c I think change will come from the inside out. We've still got a lot to work on including the LG relationship with B and Q(uestioning) people and the issues on that front.

[alphanumeric1971]

I think your allowing yourself to to easily offended by a few narrow minded individuals. You gotta let this stuff roll off like water off a ducks back.

[24claudius]

Y do gay men hate tgirls so much !! Do they envy us ?

[tssexychanel]

@24claudius I think its more they don't take the time to understand us as opposed to hating us.

[BAGPOOR]

Don't be offended by what some gay men say. For the most part, I think they're just talking shit and don't mean anything by it. 9 times out of 10, gay men have much love and respect for trans people, regardless of whether we understand your struggle or not. I understand where you're coming from, but I think it's important for us to stick together in order to gain rights for all. There's strength in numbers.

[tssexychanel]

@BAGPOOR Buddhism has taught me not to take anything personal and the girls are not exempt there is a video coming for them soon too cause so many of them are the same exact way. My hope is that we will all one day have a united front because we can not go outside of the community asking for rights and respect til we clean up our house first. I love you puddin thanks for watching

[TSsweetface]

i have said the same thing and feel the same way, that sometime girls transition just to get a man and all they really are is just a fem gay man who may look good as a woman, but their mind and spirit is not that of a woman, but just a fem man who wants str8 men.. just sad and pointless to go thru that just to get a man, and not even know or understand what out real and true struggle is about.. love this vid

[tssexychanel]

@TSsweetface I think we I go live next year we can have it as a discussion topic Imma wait til after the holidays to do any more live sessions I know folks runniing round busy and you know I love ypu puddin

[DeniseThompson]

You have such a wonderful way of making things clear and understandable. Thank you for your independent thinking and inspiring me. You even challenge my preconceptions.

Love you, Denise

[WordSmith79]

I love you for YOU. Period. YOU are amazing. Everything you said is the truth. I love the teaching. I love YOU. I can't express that enough. I don't even know what to say lol.

[tssexychanel]

@WordSmith79 puddin my creator is not letting me off the hook for my mission I give up what he will have me do must be done no need in strugglin with myself any more cause the will of the universe will be done regardless of my co operation so I might as well go with the flow and make my life easier I love me some you

[schildno5]

TELL IT CHANEL, DAMN IT! This is why I subscribed. Trans/two spirited people have been around way before the ball scene since time was born. There's the Hijra, and Berdache people from North America who were respected by entire villages & towns. Only in this day & age mainly this country alone has been programmed to despise real level headed trans folk.

[tssexychanel]

@schildno5 I always gag black people too who say this is a white thing even in Africa the transexuals were the medicine men and the spirit teachers they were the holders of traditions and the midwives

[schildno5]

@tssexychanel So true. Now the world wants to "cure" people. They'll be the first ones to say, "If somebody's gay it's ok with me... (which is fine) but trannies are just weird" yet talk to us when they think nobody's looking. And some, (not all) gay folk kill me with that "you're only different because you have breasts and curves, but you're still a man" b#llsh*t. I'm sorry. I refuse to be their entertainment just for the sake of some stupid Wednesday night drag show. Not now or ever.

[schildno5]

Child, please! I laughed at that video. Do they think ALL trans people are worth $2.00? They forgot we initiated Stonewall (True story) but wanna use the T to feel like they're doing something for us, and try to be the face of trans & intersex people. It's sad to think that lots of LGB refuse to see us as multi faceted people like anybody else.

[gwall121]

I love this Chanel ~ You said what needed to be say

So many LGBT people need to see this video my sister

You're a strong woman ~ I agree with everthing that

You said in your video ~ I'm so glad that you've

Recieve my email! Thanks for your reply Chanel

And your view on the matter! -gary <3 Thumbs Up & Favorite

Much Love!

[tssexychanel]

@gwall121 thanks for watchin puddin

[gwall121]

@tssexychanel Your welcome:)

You make so much Sense ~ You know about

Life ~ And, i vaule your words a lot!

-gary <3 Much Love!

[AudrinaLynn88]

Not a problem sweetie

[aligned576]

I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU!!!!­!!!!!

[tssexychanel]

@aligned576 I love you more my pumpkin

[asana1973]

Often times people confuse sexuality, gender and orientation..3 different issues..yeap..you contend with people outside of the community as well as within...powerful address..yea when the roles get flipped around it's confusing..for example..you get hit on by gay men so often that you start thinking all men are gay including the "straight" ones..deep deep deep..love it ms t s sexy chanel

[tssexychanel]

@asana1973 thanks so much puddin

[asana1973]

@tssexychanel ps i am beginning to think that transgender, transsexual, and tran identified should be pulled out from the "mainstream" lesbigay..Transgender also meaning perhaps even a straight person who doesn't align themselves with traditional gender values..many "sub-strates" from the community get displaced..without a net or home..there are different sets of behavioral codes, easy to confuse and we all dont experience the community or discrimination the same way..for sure..

[AudrinaLynn88]

So true! I agree with this as well, I just posted a video about why the word tranny is offensive. So I agree with this 100%

[tssexychanel]

@AudrinaLynn88 I have got to go check that out thanks for watching puddin

[Yanadew]

Practice Radical Compassion! Well Sister, This Message should last till Christmas; and well past Kwanza!

[tssexychanel]

@Yanadew Thats my personal daily practice on my path to becoming a better person daily love you puddin

[FitElady]

I'm glade you re-addressed the topic Ms. Chanel :)

I thought about this difference between sexual orientation and self identity awhile back, and understand your statement. I think people refuse to accept individual differences, so it would only make sense, in some minds, to put all the "odds" together.

But everyone is made in their own unique cloth...we definitely need more compassion, and less ignorance.

[tssexychanel]

@FitElady Thats why I only idendify as transexual its so true what you said people who don't understand us define us and have no real clue about us and its just what they did made the catagories gays, lesbians and other the umbrella transgender catagories includes everything from crossdressers to drag queens to transexuals this is a misindetfication for us

[sweetnsexyts]

Another great post!

[jadesm]

Transexuals,Gays,Hetero's etc all deserve respect simply because we are human. I do understand how you feel because had Eminem said "Dont look at me like im a two dollar nigger nigger" or "Fag Fag", all hell would break loose. Also we have to remember that sometimes you have to be tolerant of other people's ignorance and not deposit their opinions into our minds. You know as well as I do Chanel, that what he puts out there, he will most definately get back.

[tssexychanel]

@jadesm Awesome comment

[tssexychanel]

@tssexychanel why thank you my angel I miss you

[TruthSerum101]

Part 1

I'm sorry to see you upset. I'm constantly learning about this topic but here is my take:

This subject is very complex & although it is tempting to oversimplify, many gay women & men are also in a struggle with who they are. Their plight goes beyond "sex acts," it crosses over into the emotional; e.g; there are lesbians who have never had sex with a woman. Humans are judgmental, it's not a gay or straight thing. Being oppressed does not render one exempt from doing the same.

[tssexychanel]

@TruthSerum101 I love you so much and your open mind. I totally agree with you. I don't expect people to understand my life it took me 15 plus years in therapy to understand myself. LOL Everybody understands sex cause its a physical thing not being see the internal turnmoil of the transperson people think we are just men with mental cases LOLI try to be understanding thats why I share my story here to educate people

[TruthSerum101]

Part 2

Tranny is a confusing term because it can refer 2 transvestites & the transgendered. The labels overlap 2 some degree. There are also straight men/women who "cross-dress," the androgynous & the intersexed. Their issues R different but closely related because they share "nontraditional" gender struggles. Educate us about the differences between cross-dressers & transgendered, who R often mistaken 4 each other. R drag entertainers offended 2? I just learned about gender dysphoria this year.

[tssexychanel]

@TruthSerum101 I will definately be doing some videos about True Transeuxulism and the history of transexualism because people would be shocked to find out all cultures since the beginning of time had trransexuals and until recently people revered transsexuals people saw them as something special magical or spiritual

[JahairasMission]

Bravo, sis. The realities are NOT the same at all. Incidentally, I've always found it interesting that the "T"s are the ones who were the catalyst for the LGB movement, and yet we somehow got relegated to the back of the bus. Go figure.

[tssexychanel]

@JahairasMission so true the girls were the ones who started the action at Stonewall yes now we are just tags on the end of everyone elses important issues. The gay community never gives a piece of the cake to us just a few of the crumbs left over. Gay peope accept us like most famiilies who accept that crazy cousin no one ever talks about. I want real respect not just to be tolerated. Especially from my brothers