@GooglFascists When did he say anything about his daughter having "sex vibes?" Why can't you people actually listen to what someone says and not project your own craziness onto it? He clearly said that he asked his daughter why she didn't want to be tickled, and she said it didn't feel good to her--even though she laughs. It doesn't feel good to me when people tickle me, either. It has nothing to do with a "sex vibe." Just because you and and your family enjoy it doesn't mean everyone does.
You know what,I,m happy for you that you were able to respect your daughter,s wishes about her not liking to be tickled ,but ,come on ,are you serious ,tickling a form of child molestation,I had to come on your site to see if you were for real or not ,but apparently you are,Tickling is not a form of child molestation or else everybody in the world wouldn,t be doing it to each other for decades,don,t give out advice about a topic that u dnt know anything about,seriously,please!!!
@Starchild798 He wasn't saying that the tickling is a form of molestation, he was saying that he stopped doing it when his daughter asked him to, because he wanted her to understand that no one has the right to do anything to her that she does not want them to do. It's great advice...
@Starchild798 He didn't say ANYTHING about tickling being a form of child molestation. I think you really need to watch the clip again and actually LISTEN to what he says rather than projecting your own feelings about the issue onto what he said and warping the message.
FarEastfighter, Salgosaib explains that he doesn't refer to adults, but to children and doctors behaviour towards them. He says that a child should recognize no authority over it's body and that the doctor should ask politely and if receives a NO then he should explain. Dudn't say we should teach them to argue, but to teach them that they have the last word over their body. In every occasion, even you, an adult, if a doc did anything with your body you didn't agree, you'd react!
I agree with you so far what you have mentioned. But the part that ı don't agree wıth is that the doctor part because you cant argue with the doctor or you cant ask for the doctor what to do. You choice to go doctor they didn't tell to go hospital. Therefore you have to do what the doctors saying.
Kudos to you for treating your daughter with respect and honoring her preferences. I think that will go a long way towards your daughter maintaining her own self-respect.
Suhail i understand your point but i don't agree with all what you said.
The arabic societies are the most clean society concerning children sexual abuse. i lived in lebanon for 27 years with only one incident of children abuse...in australia , everyday i hear about abuse incidents...
Hugs and kisses to your kids is very good bonding if done sparcely.
i think we all agree that hugs and kisses are good for bonding and creating a loving relation between a parent and a child.but when a child ASKS you to stop doing it,then you have 2 choices
one is to respect thier wishs which empowers thier confident and makes them more aware that they DO have control over thier body
or the other choice is to force your self and make your child feels like thier opinion dosent matter,and am doing what i want to do
I have 2 daughters & 3 sons, all grown. From babies all
my kids loved to be tickled. My 2 girls are less
sensitive to it but love tickling their brothers & I who are very ticklish.
My kids and I do tickles to this day but on the feet bottoms,
not intimate parts of the body. It is clean & fun. But children
are keen on sex vibes from adults once they reach age 7 or so. If they
feel a weird vibe they back off fast. Your daughter shouldn't ever get
that feeling from her father. Wassup Baba?
GooglFascists 8 months ago
@GooglFascists When did he say anything about his daughter having "sex vibes?" Why can't you people actually listen to what someone says and not project your own craziness onto it? He clearly said that he asked his daughter why she didn't want to be tickled, and she said it didn't feel good to her--even though she laughs. It doesn't feel good to me when people tickle me, either. It has nothing to do with a "sex vibe." Just because you and and your family enjoy it doesn't mean everyone does.
mdmann 6 months ago
@frejd baba is also in dari and farsi
Wh4tn0w510 8 months ago
Your daughter called you "Baba" does it mean you are Turkish? I can't recall another language where baba has the same meaning as in turkish.
Fjerid 1 year ago
@Fjerid In Bengali we call our fathers baba also. I believe it's the same in Hindi and Urdu.
TheAnaRayAna 8 months ago
@TheAnaRayAna Aha oke, thanks for the clarification :)
Fjerid 8 months ago
@Fjerid Sure thing :)
TheAnaRayAna 7 months ago
You know what,I,m happy for you that you were able to respect your daughter,s wishes about her not liking to be tickled ,but ,come on ,are you serious ,tickling a form of child molestation,I had to come on your site to see if you were for real or not ,but apparently you are,Tickling is not a form of child molestation or else everybody in the world wouldn,t be doing it to each other for decades,don,t give out advice about a topic that u dnt know anything about,seriously,please!!!
Starchild798 1 year ago
@Starchild798 He wasn't saying that the tickling is a form of molestation, he was saying that he stopped doing it when his daughter asked him to, because he wanted her to understand that no one has the right to do anything to her that she does not want them to do. It's great advice...
eddiehatred 7 months ago
@Starchild798 He didn't say ANYTHING about tickling being a form of child molestation. I think you really need to watch the clip again and actually LISTEN to what he says rather than projecting your own feelings about the issue onto what he said and warping the message.
mdmann 6 months ago
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aaa333ify 1 year ago
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aaa333ify 1 year ago
I can't get my Mom to stop farting in my face.
gozuichi 1 year ago
@gozuichi OMG ru serious?
aaa333ify 1 year ago
FarEastfighter, Salgosaib explains that he doesn't refer to adults, but to children and doctors behaviour towards them. He says that a child should recognize no authority over it's body and that the doctor should ask politely and if receives a NO then he should explain. Dudn't say we should teach them to argue, but to teach them that they have the last word over their body. In every occasion, even you, an adult, if a doc did anything with your body you didn't agree, you'd react!
99sra 1 year ago
I agree with you so far what you have mentioned. But the part that ı don't agree wıth is that the doctor part because you cant argue with the doctor or you cant ask for the doctor what to do. You choice to go doctor they didn't tell to go hospital. Therefore you have to do what the doctors saying.
FarEastfighter 2 years ago
Kudos to you for treating your daughter with respect and honoring her preferences. I think that will go a long way towards your daughter maintaining her own self-respect.
furyofbongos 2 years ago
Suhail i understand your point but i don't agree with all what you said.
The arabic societies are the most clean society concerning children sexual abuse. i lived in lebanon for 27 years with only one incident of children abuse...in australia , everyday i hear about abuse incidents...
Hugs and kisses to your kids is very good bonding if done sparcely.
wiglafwinter 2 years ago
i think we all agree that hugs and kisses are good for bonding and creating a loving relation between a parent and a child.but when a child ASKS you to stop doing it,then you have 2 choices
one is to respect thier wishs which empowers thier confident and makes them more aware that they DO have control over thier body
or the other choice is to force your self and make your child feels like thier opinion dosent matter,and am doing what i want to do
dana9aree7a 2 years ago
this is really good advice!! your right children should have authority over their bodies. I'm going to share this vid.
brinny776 2 years ago