I had a miscarriage a year ago. I never got to see my baby. and I never got pregnant again. I would give anything in the world to be a mom and to have that baby back.
I suffered a miscarriage just 2 days ago.The OB wanted to do a D&C. I said NO! It can permanently scar your uterus! After he made a snide remark, he went on to say that 95% of all miscarriages happen NATURALLY with NO complications.. But he was gonna give me a D&C anyways if I hadn't said NO!... Don't let them do it to you. Most doctors just want to get home in time for dinner without really informing the moms of their REAL choices. I'm recovering physically, but emotionally, it'll take time.
@hcmontessori In some cases like mine a d & c is necessary. You can only wait so long for a natural miscarriage to occur. If one doesn't then you can suffer an infection. My body carried on for a month without any signs of a natural miscarriage. I've gone on to have a health pregnancy. Without knowing someone situation I would NEVER tell them to go against medical advice.
@hcmontessori I agree sometimes you need a D&C or a D&E in my case. It cleaned out my uterus and I went on to have two healthy pregnancies and two adoable kids. Have hope, hang in there! Promise yourself, no matter what happens, you will be a mommy someday. I kept telling myself that and it really helped me stay strong.
Just wondering, how did you find out it was progesterone deficiency before your second pregnancy? I too had a missed miscarriage and found out the baby had died at 9 weeks and I'm scared for the next time we try... do you think it will be worth doing tests for it?
@Allyangerable I ended up having three miscarriages before they found out I had the progesterone issue. I had to get blood draws every week while pregnant to find out.
did you need to be put on progesterone before you got pregnant because im on miscarriage number 2.The 2nd one they did notice a very low progesterone level , but I dont think they put me on the suppositories until they noticed it and by then i think it was too late. So should i ask my docter about putting me on it before i get pregnant now? Thanks
@Mymichelle2332 I was put on it the minute I got a positive pregnancy test. It sounds like that may be what you need. I was the same way fine before but once I got pregnant it dropped. I was on 100 mg twice a day from the first positive test to week 13.
I know you posted this a while ago, but i just happened to stumble across your videos, and i have to say THANK YOU. I am just getting on here, but I will more then likely be posting a video with my experience. Its something that no one can really understand unless they have gone through it themselves. I have tried to talk to people who haven't been through this and they just don't understand it seems, and not to be mean they don't. They will tell you it gets easier and it doesn't!
I know how it feels because I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy and it feels horrible but then that feeling went away fast because 2 months later I was pregnant again.
I found out my babys heart stopped beating at 8wks4dys when i was suppose to be 11wks5dys along. I also had a D&C. I dont know how you feel about the loss of your child now, but I am sorry for your loss. I lost my baby girl 8 months ago, Its the hardest thing ive ever gone through in my entire life. I was going to email you but didnt know how! Im just looking for some support and dont know who to go to.
@alanaranae1 First of all commenting on how an IV would hurt during labor is the WRONG thing to say. I can tell you childbirth was not as painful as the first miscarriage and the infertility we struggled with for years.
@alanaranae1 Thats probably the dumbest comment Ive ever read. Childbirth is painful for everyone, whether you like needles or not, that has NOTHING to do with giving birth. Every woman has the right to carry a pregnancy to term and deliver a healthy baby. And no one should ever have to suffer the loss of a child. The fact that Sasha made a video about it to help others shows her strength. You should feel ashamed for implying shes too weak to have a baby bc she doesnt like needles!
Im sorry for your loss. I am almost 30 weeks pregnant and I already have a 7 yr old daughter who is my first (the pregnancy went perfect) and so far with my second daughter. As a mother, I feel for you but couldnt imagine what you went through. As for you not being married, who cares. Im not married, I am engaged but anyone who says mean things can go stick it somewheres LOL. Thanks for shareing :)
hun.. im soo sorry, we got the same exact story. august 27th of this year.. (friday) i was suppose to be 11 weeks, 6 days.. i went in to hear my angels heartbeat the first lady was lk i cant find it and laughed and said lets let the doc do it.. sooo my obgyn came in.. and my best friend was ready to record for my husband she couldnt find it, did a ultrasound, the baby was showin it was 9 weeks, 1 day.. and no heartbeat.. and my husband bday was on the 26th. im getting the surgery monday..
Miscarriages are such a difficult thing to deal with. Biologically wise, it is better to miscarry a baby who would end up being malformed due to chromosomal problems, but emotionally so many people struggle with it.
Bless the all of you struggling with this issue, and those who didnt give up hope.
@WetPants08 I understand what you mean however not all miscarriages are due to chromosomal problems. There can be underlying causes for miscarriage like progesterone deficiency which was my case.
so sorry for your loss, i experianced the same, i lost my baby at 9 and a half weeks, and only found out 2 weeks lator. was horrible, i ended up seeing the baby, was terrible. my husband and i are devastated.
I just want to know how you deal with it or if you did??? Cause its been a year already that i had my miscarriage and i havent got over it. When i think about it dam i still cry. i was 9weeks too.
Wow this is you... but it is the situation i am in right now.... i was 7 weeks wen i had my first US then i had some bleeding and went in when i was 11 weeks and it turned out there was no heartbeat and it had died at 9 weeks i decided to pass it on my own though i was sad and i cried i want to try again but my fiancee doesnt due to him goin to kuwait in oct. for a year... so im really depressed because i really wanted it which you understand but he wants me to wait for over a year.....ugh
im so sorry for your loss the same happened to me coincedently at 9 weeks sadly he was WAYYYY too small and he was alredy gone. hope you are feeling better now.
i went through the exact same thing, i had a misscarriage at 9 weeks and didnt find out until just shy of 12 weeks.. Around 9 weeks i felt something different, like i didnt feel like it was alive. I had no bleeding at all, just cramping.
I went in for a d.c and then found out i had an infection from the d&c when i got home.
Its comforting to no thaat someone has gone through the exact same thing as i have.
I know someone who went through 5 miscarriages before she had her oldest child! I also know someone who had her labor pains about the time that the baby was due, and so they took her to the hospital. When they were monitoring it they said that was where the heart should be beating...turned out that the placenta somehow detached from the wall of the uterus. :(
i commend you , you are so brave i too lost a baby at 9 weeks i'm pregnant again now and so nervous but i know GOD is going to bring this baby full term
I had a miscarriage when i was 16, i was 5 weeks, then i had a missed miscarriage when i was 17, i went for my 12 week scan, they told me my baby had died at 7 weeks, so i was carryin my baby for 5 weeks after it had died. That was hard to take in. I'm sorry for anybody who goes through this, but time is a healer, stay strong, one day your time will come. Don't blame yourself, sometimes their is something wrong with the baby, and sometimes your body is just not ready. But it is not your fault x
I am so sorry for your loss. My wife is going thru this right now, it's so painfull for me to watch her in pain, crying in the bathroom when she thinks I can't hear her. We found out she was pregnant on November 2nd I was worried and happy at the same time. She strated to bleed very lightly few days after. We went to the ER and they told us she was about 5 weeks, they saw gestational sac but no baby, they told us it might be too early to see anything. She was looking for a gynecologist, finaly
that's so sad. i'd have had an older sister...well, i don't understand what it feels like to miscarry, but i can imagine it must be the worst, because my mom told me how hard it was to get over it.
(and besides: although she was so young, she even got a name :) )
@sunflowertheory the same thing happened to me i didn't know i was pregnant until i was having my miscarriage & me and my boyfriend wanted to have a baby so bad i lost my baby at 2 months and 4 days. I waited Till I was hemorrhaging (bleeding a lot) the blood was about up to my ankles & it was nothing but tissue & blood. But I always wanted to know one question. When u have a miscarriage is it harder to get pregnant?
Sry bout your loss b4 i was born my mom had a another child but he/she died. If he she didnt die i proble wount be alive, i know it hurts like heck to feel that some1 has died that u never really new, but i know that My baby sister or brother is watching over me i feel his her prestents every day.
My mam had twins a boy and a girl and she lost them both. My mum said if they were born I wouldn't have been born. But like you I know my brother and sister are watching over me :D
i am so sorry i have had 4 miscarriages 1 pre-term labor and 1 full term labor i lost him at 9 months due to a 3 car pile up it has only been 8 months ago i just started walking 4 ,onths ago. so micarriages i uderstand i am so sorry nothing will replace your child in your heart my heart goes out to youuand your loved one
how old are you?? you look kinda young to even try for a kid. this aint a bashing in the least. not calling you names or anything. just curious and all. if you are over 18 well then your a very cute girl :) if not im too old lol and i didnt say that :).
I have been married for almost 9 yrs, and been trying to get pregnant for about 2 yrs now. We found out we were pregnant at the end of march. With in a couple weeks of being pregnant i had a miscarriage. I was suppose to be 7 weeks and my baby stopped growing at 4.6 weeks. So i was carrying it around for about 2 weeks before i miscarried. This would have been our first baby together. We will continue to keep trying. Your story gives me hope. Good luck and congrats on the baby boy. :)
well thats your problem right there you are trying STOP IT it brings to much stress to keep trying and trying relax itll happen god will aloow it when the time is right.
I'm sorry to hear this, my wife and I had our first miscarriage this past week, it was her very first time being pregnant. We've been trying for 7 years. :(
it's nice to see you smile and laugh after your miscarriage. your a very strong woman. i cried for about a month (or more) straight after my miscarriage. the DNC was painful and i didn't even get any pain killers. so i hope your pregnacy goes well. ur very lucky to be pregnant. me and my fiance probably can't have kids. so good luck!! XD i'm sooooo happy for you.
hey i know what you are going through, I lost my first baby at 16 weeks on January 22nd 2009 at 5 AM and my husband was there, and we cried, i still do, now the doctors think that some form of cancer may have caused my miscarriage. Im sorry for your loss, if you need a friend, you can friend me here.
i lost the baby on the monday i had been in labor for 72hours i was sooooo week after it all...im lucky that it all came away naturally n i dint have 2 have an op...it made me sad tho coz wen i wud go 4 a wee i wud have 2 push clots out of me n that hurt me emotionally and physically..i dnt no how ill get over it coz it was my 1st tym being pregnant n i wanted the baby more than anything...i no it must of been parts of the most-highs plan but im still hurting in n out
i just had a miscarriage on the 12th of this month i was 14weeks but i went in 2 labor with mine my waters broke on the Saturday, started having contractions Saturday night / Sunday morning by Sunday daytime i had been 2 the hospital in the most pain twice already..then Sunday night the ambulance came 4 me as the contractions were horrific...they gave me gas n air put me on a drip n took blood from me....it sooooo painful i truly belived i was gonna die it hurt that bad..im still grieving :-(
my mom had a missed miscarriage 2 months ago with my brother.she was supposed to be 13 weeks but the doctor said it only measured 11 weeks.i was with her at the ultrasound and it is incredibly emotional.i actually got angry with the doctor...anyway my thoughts are with you xx
continued: we went to the ultrasound anyways and i drank twice as much water as they told me to because i was so desprate. the only funny part was that they told me to pee 3 cups before they could do it. but i was just devastated. good luck
im sory it happend to you. i miscarried last december (grade 12) and i still get upset evry once and a while. i was also going to see the baby for the first time but the night before the ultrasound i got cramps and a messy miscarriage, i remember crying from sadness but also pain because ive never felt anything as painfull (physically) as that.
(Continued) I'm sorry you had to go through this like my sister did... she's due in feb 09'. I'm sorry for your loss... i know how hard it can be just comforting my sister.. The baby would've never survived, and would've came out stillborn, even if it survived in the womb.. and my sister would've ended up dying in labor.. to all the haters who message you or comment you, ignore them, they don't need to watch the video, nor know your personal love life. My sister isn't married either. God Bless..
My sister was 5 months along when she had to have a D&C. She was having a girl... so was i! I was 2 months ahead of her.. i felt terrible when i found out something was wrong with my niece.. Baby girl had a cyst on her bigger than herself, her ribs were squared shaped, not crescent like our own, and she was 3 weeks behind growing.. ribs went into her lungs, and put pressure on her heart..I can't imagine how my sister felt.. a year later, she's pregnant with a boy...
You are very brave for sharing this! As this video may have helped you, it has also helped many women who have sadly been in a similar situation, myself included. I can't comprehend why people would choose to leave nasty messages and call you rude names, but I know there are people out there who feel the need to do so, and whatever they say don't take a word of it to heart! Thanks again for sharing!
I am sorry about your loss, in fact just lastnight i went to the emergency room for spotting and they did an ultrasound (i was suppose to be 11 weeks) well the doc came into the room and told me that the baby died at 7 weeks along, i was devistated and cryed all nite lastnite, but i will be ok. It's my first miscarriage, i don't know what caused it. But i decided to let the miscarriage happen here at home
People who leave nasty messages are worth laughing at I am not married and we decided to get pregnant with my third his first child and went for and ultrasound to confirm due date and they told me they could not find a fetal pole so I had another ultrasound done 2 weeks later and it showed the same thing. It was really hard for us also. Dont let anyone get you down its your life not theirs. Best of luck to you.
I'm really sorry to hear that. I just found out that my friend's baby died inside of her. It's really painful and sad just to know that she was 2weeks away from her due date...I can just only imagine...
I realy feel 4 you, my miscarriage was just the same. I found out at my 12 week scan & your words really echoed my thoughts when you say 'those are the words you dread to hear'
i feel so bad for you maybe we an talk cuz i just had one and im only 14 i wanted it becuase abortion is not the answer and hey if you need to lets chat some time and this dude just got me pregnant and then he just left me
I had 5 miscarriages, I know how you feel! Miscarriage number 4 was like yours.When I went in at 13 weeks for routinecheckup, they couldn't find a heartbeat, so they did an ultrasound.My baby was dead,according to size it had died shortly after the ultrasound 4 weeks prior,I had a DNC the next day. they sent what they got out in and found that my babygilr as it turned out, had 3 sets of chromosomes instead of two! I still miss my little Melissa-joanne! Good luck to you, my hear tgoes out to you!
i find it so horrible that people are leaving you nasty messages. what the hell does marrisge have to do with grief over losing your baby. stay strong, i'm so sorry.
I am sorry for your loss, My Brother and His wife went through the same thing. But, She was 13 weeks. I am so, sorry. It is Hard I know. I went through this too. And I have 3 kids now.=) and I am not married. =)
I know of my cousins sister in law who had 2 miscarriages, but was able to carry to term the third time. sometimes, its our body rejecting a baby that isnt perfect, either genetically or physically. Baby dust to you.
I'm really sorry...I can't have baby's Lupus it doesn't really allow you to have baby's your body refuses to have them so if I did I would have a miscarriage or I would die from it but I think me and my fiance are willing to give it a shot may be hope but I hope you finially get to have baby..
Actually, you can have a child while you have lupus. My mom has lupus and she went through I think about 2 miscarriages, until she had me. I'm perfectly healthy and there's only I think around a 10-25% chance that your child will get Lupus also. Don't give up and have hope :D Good luck to you ^__^
I have just seen that you had another miscarriage. I am so sorry for you, I have been there myself and suffered a great deal.. If you wish, please send me a message. Good luck.
My cousin lost a baby recently. He and his fiance tried for over 5 years. The same thing happened as to you it was a missed miscarraige. They lost the baby very early on but it still hurts just as much.
im very sorry for your loss...i no exactly how u feel..i myself have suffered 10 miscarriages and last month had a failed ivf cycle.....stay strong...xx
i have 2 beautiful daughters and after having my second, our 3rd baby miscarried at 13 weeks gestation. it was very hard but now we are pregnant again and having a baby boy. so what im trying to say is soon one day your time will come to have a child. its hard loosing a child no matter how far along you are. im sorry for your loss.
i know everything you went through i had a miscarriage at 7 week and i dont think i wil ever forget it.. good luck i am trying agian.. so wish me luck.. ashley
i had a very traumatic m\c a few yrs ago i now how you feel,but i went on to have 2 kids so its possible to have a normal pregnancy after a m\c,it is very emotionally distresing though.
Thank for sharing.Your story is kinda like mine. My heart was broken when I heard the doctor said " It has no heartbeat" My husband wasn't with me at that time and when I called him (oversea call) he wasn't nice to me at all. I waited for almost a week until the baby decided to come out. It was painful from 3am-1pm and it was on my birthday! after that I went to operation room to get cleaned up the inside. Pain in my heart and my body but we want to try again.
I TOTALLY know how you feel!! I had a miscarriage 1 week ago and it is so emotionally and physically draining experience. I'm so sorry for your loss. Oh, and I am TERRIFIED of needles too.....bloodmork, IVs the works!! HATE IT!!
this actually made me cry:( im 12 weeks and i have my second appt. tommarow....i dont knwo what id do if i lost it. im sorry u had to go through that and i pray for the best for u
i am extremely sorry for your loss, this video is very good tho,cause i had never known exactly what it was like to have a D&C because i chose to have mine delivered naturally. The hospital i went to was discusting and gave me literally nothing for the miscarriage, pain relief or ANYTHING. I made my decision and they sent me home, 1 and 1/2 weeks later i had him and had to bring him to the hospital for their "disposal" it was really disgraceful, they still gave me nothing for healing! x
i had to go through that with my second m/c except this one "fell out" when i used the restroom....i just had to flush my child away and my first one was thrown out like a piece of trash......i had no pain killers the second time around and to be honest the first one was more painful then the second......
My little sister's first pregnancy ended in a miscarrige (a boy) and now she has 3 more boys. You will go on and have more babies, just always remember god will only give you what you can handle.
thank you and i try to remember that everyday...in time he will bless you with what you truley desire if we are just paitient enough.........i live by that:)
Thank you for sharing your story of a MC, I had one last year at 6wks. We are just now starting to ttc again now.
sunnyflower27 4 weeks ago
I had a miscarriage a year ago. I never got to see my baby. and I never got pregnant again. I would give anything in the world to be a mom and to have that baby back.
honeyflash1 5 months ago
Aw i am very sorry about what happened, you are very beautiful too
Uhohranger 6 months ago
I'm so sorry you went through that, I had a mc in march @ 8 weeks. I didn't feel like talking about it even with family and friends who had mc'ed
lyp86 8 months ago
Omg I'm so sorry! I'm just twelve but my mom had five pregnancies and two of them were miscarriages. I feel so sorry. I hate needles too! :) Bye!
Chatelalexa123 9 months ago
I suffered a miscarriage just 2 days ago.The OB wanted to do a D&C. I said NO! It can permanently scar your uterus! After he made a snide remark, he went on to say that 95% of all miscarriages happen NATURALLY with NO complications.. But he was gonna give me a D&C anyways if I hadn't said NO!... Don't let them do it to you. Most doctors just want to get home in time for dinner without really informing the moms of their REAL choices. I'm recovering physically, but emotionally, it'll take time.
hcmontessori 9 months ago
@hcmontessori In some cases like mine a d & c is necessary. You can only wait so long for a natural miscarriage to occur. If one doesn't then you can suffer an infection. My body carried on for a month without any signs of a natural miscarriage. I've gone on to have a health pregnancy. Without knowing someone situation I would NEVER tell them to go against medical advice.
beautyisnteverything 9 months ago
@hcmontessori I agree sometimes you need a D&C or a D&E in my case. It cleaned out my uterus and I went on to have two healthy pregnancies and two adoable kids. Have hope, hang in there! Promise yourself, no matter what happens, you will be a mommy someday. I kept telling myself that and it really helped me stay strong.
Purrrsuasive1 2 months ago
I'm so sorry for your loss hun :(
Just wondering, how did you find out it was progesterone deficiency before your second pregnancy? I too had a missed miscarriage and found out the baby had died at 9 weeks and I'm scared for the next time we try... do you think it will be worth doing tests for it?
Congratulations on the new little one though!
Allyangerable 10 months ago
@Allyangerable I ended up having three miscarriages before they found out I had the progesterone issue. I had to get blood draws every week while pregnant to find out.
beautyisnteverything 10 months ago
did you need to be put on progesterone before you got pregnant because im on miscarriage number 2.The 2nd one they did notice a very low progesterone level , but I dont think they put me on the suppositories until they noticed it and by then i think it was too late. So should i ask my docter about putting me on it before i get pregnant now? Thanks
Mymichelle2332 10 months ago
@Mymichelle2332 I was put on it the minute I got a positive pregnancy test. It sounds like that may be what you need. I was the same way fine before but once I got pregnant it dropped. I was on 100 mg twice a day from the first positive test to week 13.
beautyisnteverything 10 months ago
I know you posted this a while ago, but i just happened to stumble across your videos, and i have to say THANK YOU. I am just getting on here, but I will more then likely be posting a video with my experience. Its something that no one can really understand unless they have gone through it themselves. I have tried to talk to people who haven't been through this and they just don't understand it seems, and not to be mean they don't. They will tell you it gets easier and it doesn't!
Dare2Dream0910 1 year ago
I know how it feels because I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy and it feels horrible but then that feeling went away fast because 2 months later I was pregnant again.
SuperSanchez21 1 year ago
I am so sorry honey :(
EmoElmoOnHigh 1 year ago
I found out my babys heart stopped beating at 8wks4dys when i was suppose to be 11wks5dys along. I also had a D&C. I dont know how you feel about the loss of your child now, but I am sorry for your loss. I lost my baby girl 8 months ago, Its the hardest thing ive ever gone through in my entire life. I was going to email you but didnt know how! Im just looking for some support and dont know who to go to.
jjunenelson 1 year ago
Im so sorry to hear that you have had a miscarriage... I really dont know what to say... Just that your in my thoughts and prayers xxxxxxxxxxxxx
martinamoylan 1 year ago
Sweetheart, I'm so sorry for your loss. Miscarriage is so hard.. people don't realize that it's as hard as it is.
But if you can't handle the pain of getting an IV in, the pain of childbirth will be 23423434 times worse.
alanaranae1 1 year ago
@alanaranae1 First of all commenting on how an IV would hurt during labor is the WRONG thing to say. I can tell you childbirth was not as painful as the first miscarriage and the infertility we struggled with for years.
beautyisnteverything 1 year ago 3
@alanaranae1 Thats probably the dumbest comment Ive ever read. Childbirth is painful for everyone, whether you like needles or not, that has NOTHING to do with giving birth. Every woman has the right to carry a pregnancy to term and deliver a healthy baby. And no one should ever have to suffer the loss of a child. The fact that Sasha made a video about it to help others shows her strength. You should feel ashamed for implying shes too weak to have a baby bc she doesnt like needles!
KarenAndIsrael 1 year ago
im sry for your loss i know the feeling i lost my baby at 7 weeks
AsianNinja17 1 year ago
Found out my baby has no heartbeat @ 7 weeks. Why why why????????
bus140808 1 year ago
same thing happened to me a month ago... I am very sorry about your lost, it is very dificult I am going through therapist but things are hard.
Mars5070 1 year ago
Im sorry for your loss. I am almost 30 weeks pregnant and I already have a 7 yr old daughter who is my first (the pregnancy went perfect) and so far with my second daughter. As a mother, I feel for you but couldnt imagine what you went through. As for you not being married, who cares. Im not married, I am engaged but anyone who says mean things can go stick it somewheres LOL. Thanks for shareing :)
hardcoreangel1984 1 year ago
hun.. im soo sorry, we got the same exact story. august 27th of this year.. (friday) i was suppose to be 11 weeks, 6 days.. i went in to hear my angels heartbeat the first lady was lk i cant find it and laughed and said lets let the doc do it.. sooo my obgyn came in.. and my best friend was ready to record for my husband she couldnt find it, did a ultrasound, the baby was showin it was 9 weeks, 1 day.. and no heartbeat.. and my husband bday was on the 26th. im getting the surgery monday..
shortyshay0869 1 year ago
I FOUND OUT MY BABY HAS NO HEART BEAT @ AT NINE WEEKS
MzPersonalitie 1 year ago
Miscarriages are such a difficult thing to deal with. Biologically wise, it is better to miscarry a baby who would end up being malformed due to chromosomal problems, but emotionally so many people struggle with it.
Bless the all of you struggling with this issue, and those who didnt give up hope.
WetPants08 1 year ago
@WetPants08 I understand what you mean however not all miscarriages are due to chromosomal problems. There can be underlying causes for miscarriage like progesterone deficiency which was my case.
beautyisnteverything 1 year ago
so sorry for your loss, i experianced the same, i lost my baby at 9 and a half weeks, and only found out 2 weeks lator. was horrible, i ended up seeing the baby, was terrible. my husband and i are devastated.
TheRuffianCrash 1 year ago
I just want to know how you deal with it or if you did??? Cause its been a year already that i had my miscarriage and i havent got over it. When i think about it dam i still cry. i was 9weeks too.
MENENA310 1 year ago
Wow this is you... but it is the situation i am in right now.... i was 7 weeks wen i had my first US then i had some bleeding and went in when i was 11 weeks and it turned out there was no heartbeat and it had died at 9 weeks i decided to pass it on my own though i was sad and i cried i want to try again but my fiancee doesnt due to him goin to kuwait in oct. for a year... so im really depressed because i really wanted it which you understand but he wants me to wait for over a year.....ugh
datrusteppa 1 year ago
im so sorry for your loss the same happened to me coincedently at 9 weeks sadly he was WAYYYY too small and he was alredy gone. hope you are feeling better now.
Angel dust.
ChainLetter15 1 year ago
i went through the exact same thing, i had a misscarriage at 9 weeks and didnt find out until just shy of 12 weeks.. Around 9 weeks i felt something different, like i didnt feel like it was alive. I had no bleeding at all, just cramping.
I went in for a d.c and then found out i had an infection from the d&c when i got home.
Its comforting to no thaat someone has gone through the exact same thing as i have.
Bless you.
TheVioletchild01 1 year ago
I know someone who went through 5 miscarriages before she had her oldest child! I also know someone who had her labor pains about the time that the baby was due, and so they took her to the hospital. When they were monitoring it they said that was where the heart should be beating...turned out that the placenta somehow detached from the wall of the uterus. :(
Bleechy!
drummerlead 1 year ago
The exact same thing happened to me. I was 11 weeks.
woundedhandsband 1 year ago
i commend you , you are so brave i too lost a baby at 9 weeks i'm pregnant again now and so nervous but i know GOD is going to bring this baby full term
brandini5000 1 year ago
I had a miscarriage when i was 16, i was 5 weeks, then i had a missed miscarriage when i was 17, i went for my 12 week scan, they told me my baby had died at 7 weeks, so i was carryin my baby for 5 weeks after it had died. That was hard to take in. I'm sorry for anybody who goes through this, but time is a healer, stay strong, one day your time will come. Don't blame yourself, sometimes their is something wrong with the baby, and sometimes your body is just not ready. But it is not your fault x
babygirlbb 1 year ago
im sorry for your loss i lost my baby son at 18 weeks x
siingleee 2 years ago
I am so sorry for your loss. My wife is going thru this right now, it's so painfull for me to watch her in pain, crying in the bathroom when she thinks I can't hear her. We found out she was pregnant on November 2nd I was worried and happy at the same time. She strated to bleed very lightly few days after. We went to the ER and they told us she was about 5 weeks, they saw gestational sac but no baby, they told us it might be too early to see anything. She was looking for a gynecologist, finaly
MARIFUB 2 years ago
your are so pretty. you are very young.
tinalovesbob2 2 years ago
that's so sad. i'd have had an older sister...well, i don't understand what it feels like to miscarry, but i can imagine it must be the worst, because my mom told me how hard it was to get over it.
(and besides: although she was so young, she even got a name :) )
mlelumiere 2 years ago
Im Really sorry Hope you feel better
NartiomalGuard 2 years ago
i'm so sorry this happened to you.
i had what was believed to be a miscarriage around this time last year. it was difficult.
i wasn't aware i was pregnant either, so if it was a miscarriage then i was around 2/3 weeks...
really bizarre experience. i wish i had some closure about what exactly happened. i want to have a baby so bad.
sunflowertheory 2 years ago 2
@sunflowertheory the same thing happened to me i didn't know i was pregnant until i was having my miscarriage & me and my boyfriend wanted to have a baby so bad i lost my baby at 2 months and 4 days. I waited Till I was hemorrhaging (bleeding a lot) the blood was about up to my ankles & it was nothing but tissue & blood. But I always wanted to know one question. When u have a miscarriage is it harder to get pregnant?
BaddestPrincess210 1 year ago
I'm so sorry! Miscarraige is so so hard and sad. I just found out I'm miscarrying two days ago for the 2nd time in a row.
Halation2 2 years ago
god bless u, hope ull feel btter as ime heals
newcastlene4 2 years ago 2
xx,,, my thoughts are with u,
missJtube 2 years ago
my doc told me i wont make it to 3 months based on my stress and hormone levels..any advice? PLEASE!!!!
waynehersheykiss08 2 years ago
Sry bout your loss b4 i was born my mom had a another child but he/she died. If he she didnt die i proble wount be alive, i know it hurts like heck to feel that some1 has died that u never really new, but i know that My baby sister or brother is watching over me i feel his her prestents every day.
pokerface270 2 years ago 2
My mam had twins a boy and a girl and she lost them both. My mum said if they were born I wouldn't have been born. But like you I know my brother and sister are watching over me :D
JlNKS 2 years ago
i am so sorry i have had 4 miscarriages 1 pre-term labor and 1 full term labor i lost him at 9 months due to a 3 car pile up it has only been 8 months ago i just started walking 4 ,onths ago. so micarriages i uderstand i am so sorry nothing will replace your child in your heart my heart goes out to youuand your loved one
bjamietat2d 2 years ago
I guess you've probably heard that but... miscarriages can be due to chromosomal pathologies, you can acutally ask about that you doctor.
sfenou 2 years ago
That is very true. We do know the cause of the miscarriage now. This happened two years ago
beautyisnteverything 2 years ago
how old are you?? you look kinda young to even try for a kid. this aint a bashing in the least. not calling you names or anything. just curious and all. if you are over 18 well then your a very cute girl :) if not im too old lol and i didnt say that :).
mysubsbang 2 years ago
xoxo love goes to you xoxo
stevienickslover 2 years ago
I got a question is ther any way to know if your baby has a heart beat without going to the doctor.i am about 6 week and i am so sacred
verenice1990 2 years ago
I have been married for almost 9 yrs, and been trying to get pregnant for about 2 yrs now. We found out we were pregnant at the end of march. With in a couple weeks of being pregnant i had a miscarriage. I was suppose to be 7 weeks and my baby stopped growing at 4.6 weeks. So i was carrying it around for about 2 weeks before i miscarried. This would have been our first baby together. We will continue to keep trying. Your story gives me hope. Good luck and congrats on the baby boy. :)
shawlswife 2 years ago
well thats your problem right there you are trying STOP IT it brings to much stress to keep trying and trying relax itll happen god will aloow it when the time is right.
mysubsbang 2 years ago
I'm sorry to hear this, my wife and I had our first miscarriage this past week, it was her very first time being pregnant. We've been trying for 7 years. :(
salebowwow 2 years ago
I'm SOOOO sorry!! :(
ILuvRio4ever 2 years ago
im so sorry for your loss
culy12 2 years ago 14
oh im so sorry for your loss i couldnt imgain how u falt
hugz :)
Bubbly181 2 years ago
it's nice to see you smile and laugh after your miscarriage. your a very strong woman. i cried for about a month (or more) straight after my miscarriage. the DNC was painful and i didn't even get any pain killers. so i hope your pregnacy goes well. ur very lucky to be pregnant. me and my fiance probably can't have kids. so good luck!! XD i'm sooooo happy for you.
shyfairy24 2 years ago
i lost my baby a few days ago and i was 8 weeks. i know how you feel and im so sorry. its a very hard thing to go through.
KittenCorpse8 2 years ago
hey i know what you are going through, I lost my first baby at 16 weeks on January 22nd 2009 at 5 AM and my husband was there, and we cried, i still do, now the doctors think that some form of cancer may have caused my miscarriage. Im sorry for your loss, if you need a friend, you can friend me here.
beautifulbabe19 2 years ago
Me too 9 weeks, it's just totally shit, and there's no way to make the pain go away.
look up daily strength, support chat rooms for people who've suffered a miscarrige there are GREAT!
I hope that you are coping as best you can
HUGS XXX
beraucracy 3 years ago
so sorry for your loss
pleasedoenjoy 3 years ago
i lost the baby on the monday i had been in labor for 72hours i was sooooo week after it all...im lucky that it all came away naturally n i dint have 2 have an op...it made me sad tho coz wen i wud go 4 a wee i wud have 2 push clots out of me n that hurt me emotionally and physically..i dnt no how ill get over it coz it was my 1st tym being pregnant n i wanted the baby more than anything...i no it must of been parts of the most-highs plan but im still hurting in n out
Mar2ool 3 years ago
i just had a miscarriage on the 12th of this month i was 14weeks but i went in 2 labor with mine my waters broke on the Saturday, started having contractions Saturday night / Sunday morning by Sunday daytime i had been 2 the hospital in the most pain twice already..then Sunday night the ambulance came 4 me as the contractions were horrific...they gave me gas n air put me on a drip n took blood from me....it sooooo painful i truly belived i was gonna die it hurt that bad..im still grieving :-(
Mar2ool 3 years ago
Hey hunnie,im sorry for your loss.
my mom had a missed miscarriage 2 months ago with my brother.she was supposed to be 13 weeks but the doctor said it only measured 11 weeks.i was with her at the ultrasound and it is incredibly emotional.i actually got angry with the doctor...anyway my thoughts are with you xx
PunkyBrewsterFan23 3 years ago
my mom had it today ..sorry for ur loss :(
lolita4ka 3 years ago
My auntie had a miscarriage this monday and Im so upset. she reached 16 weeks. :[
CRIESSSS
AubreeSoCrazehh 3 years ago
continued: we went to the ultrasound anyways and i drank twice as much water as they told me to because i was so desprate. the only funny part was that they told me to pee 3 cups before they could do it. but i was just devastated. good luck
atlascanada 3 years ago
im sory it happend to you. i miscarried last december (grade 12) and i still get upset evry once and a while. i was also going to see the baby for the first time but the night before the ultrasound i got cramps and a messy miscarriage, i remember crying from sadness but also pain because ive never felt anything as painfull (physically) as that.
atlascanada 3 years ago
(Continued) I'm sorry you had to go through this like my sister did... she's due in feb 09'. I'm sorry for your loss... i know how hard it can be just comforting my sister.. The baby would've never survived, and would've came out stillborn, even if it survived in the womb.. and my sister would've ended up dying in labor.. to all the haters who message you or comment you, ignore them, they don't need to watch the video, nor know your personal love life. My sister isn't married either. God Bless..
tyonts18 3 years ago
My sister was 5 months along when she had to have a D&C. She was having a girl... so was i! I was 2 months ahead of her.. i felt terrible when i found out something was wrong with my niece.. Baby girl had a cyst on her bigger than herself, her ribs were squared shaped, not crescent like our own, and she was 3 weeks behind growing.. ribs went into her lungs, and put pressure on her heart..I can't imagine how my sister felt.. a year later, she's pregnant with a boy...
tyonts18 3 years ago
You are an amazing person for sharing this.
You have a beautiful soul.
Barfrainbows 3 years ago
You are very brave for sharing this! As this video may have helped you, it has also helped many women who have sadly been in a similar situation, myself included. I can't comprehend why people would choose to leave nasty messages and call you rude names, but I know there are people out there who feel the need to do so, and whatever they say don't take a word of it to heart! Thanks again for sharing!
JoyScott2B 3 years ago
gd for you foor putting this vidio on . Also sorry about your loss :)
harrietcherrypop123 3 years ago
My old neighbor had a miscarrage. It's ok. You can gon with your life, and maybe have another baby.
Sethandnew233 3 years ago
can yuu please mail me id like too talk.. thank you x x
x12courtney12x 3 years ago
I just miscarried on Oct. 2nd. I was 7 weeks and baby died at 5 weeks. I'm so sorry for your loss..it's hard.
munkyhunny210 3 years ago
I'm really sorry for your loss, I just heard my baby's heartbeat stopped too, I was nine weeks along.
I understand your pain...
noasummer 3 years ago
hey can i talk to u about something like this if so message me.
badbootygirl 3 years ago
Sure :)
beautyisnteverything 3 years ago
I am sorry about your loss, in fact just lastnight i went to the emergency room for spotting and they did an ultrasound (i was suppose to be 11 weeks) well the doc came into the room and told me that the baby died at 7 weeks along, i was devistated and cryed all nite lastnite, but i will be ok. It's my first miscarriage, i don't know what caused it. But i decided to let the miscarriage happen here at home
somebodysangel99 3 years ago
People who leave nasty messages are worth laughing at I am not married and we decided to get pregnant with my third his first child and went for and ultrasound to confirm due date and they told me they could not find a fetal pole so I had another ultrasound done 2 weeks later and it showed the same thing. It was really hard for us also. Dont let anyone get you down its your life not theirs. Best of luck to you.
dodgegirl8613 3 years ago
I'm really sorry to hear that. I just found out that my friend's baby died inside of her. It's really painful and sad just to know that she was 2weeks away from her due date...I can just only imagine...
KenshiGirl 3 years ago
I realy feel 4 you, my miscarriage was just the same. I found out at my 12 week scan & your words really echoed my thoughts when you say 'those are the words you dread to hear'
1Jerbilina1 3 years ago
i feel so bad for you maybe we an talk cuz i just had one and im only 14 i wanted it becuase abortion is not the answer and hey if you need to lets chat some time and this dude just got me pregnant and then he just left me
SpencerLussier 3 years ago
I had 5 miscarriages, I know how you feel! Miscarriage number 4 was like yours.When I went in at 13 weeks for routinecheckup, they couldn't find a heartbeat, so they did an ultrasound.My baby was dead,according to size it had died shortly after the ultrasound 4 weeks prior,I had a DNC the next day. they sent what they got out in and found that my babygilr as it turned out, had 3 sets of chromosomes instead of two! I still miss my little Melissa-joanne! Good luck to you, my hear tgoes out to you!
Shaydensmom 3 years ago
i find it so horrible that people are leaving you nasty messages. what the hell does marrisge have to do with grief over losing your baby. stay strong, i'm so sorry.
<3
MrsDraven331 3 years ago
I'm really sorry to hear that i feel bad for you! Good Luck
boberin77 3 years ago 11
i feel so sry for u. i kno this must be a sad time for u. hope u are well.
xxnikki12595xx 3 years ago 3
I am sorry for your loss, My Brother and His wife went through the same thing. But, She was 13 weeks. I am so, sorry. It is Hard I know. I went through this too. And I have 3 kids now.=) and I am not married. =)
angee61883 3 years ago 2
I know of my cousins sister in law who had 2 miscarriages, but was able to carry to term the third time. sometimes, its our body rejecting a baby that isnt perfect, either genetically or physically. Baby dust to you.
mbiling 4 years ago 2
I'm really sorry...I can't have baby's Lupus it doesn't really allow you to have baby's your body refuses to have them so if I did I would have a miscarriage or I would die from it but I think me and my fiance are willing to give it a shot may be hope but I hope you finially get to have baby..
jessieandbrad 4 years ago 3
Actually, you can have a child while you have lupus. My mom has lupus and she went through I think about 2 miscarriages, until she had me. I'm perfectly healthy and there's only I think around a 10-25% chance that your child will get Lupus also. Don't give up and have hope :D Good luck to you ^__^
DarkJoker99 3 years ago
Yes, I had a friend who grew up with lupus (it went into remission?). She had a beautiful baby girl.
missalissao 3 years ago
Hi,
I have just seen that you had another miscarriage. I am so sorry for you, I have been there myself and suffered a great deal.. If you wish, please send me a message. Good luck.
meralucuta 4 years ago 3
oo mannn..i love ur discription..dont care bout wat no one says hun...i am very srry for ur loss...all the best in the future..
aliyahh12 4 years ago 3
the same thing happened to me! i was devastated...my fiance was away at college when it happend so i couldnt see him!
britt10ny 4 years ago 3
im sorry to hear that. how are you doing now?
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
My cousin lost a baby recently. He and his fiance tried for over 5 years. The same thing happened as to you it was a missed miscarraige. They lost the baby very early on but it still hurts just as much.
applejaxs88 4 years ago 3
how old r u? i hope u have better luck in the futer
Mrsfunnybunny573 4 years ago
im very sorry for your loss...i no exactly how u feel..i myself have suffered 10 miscarriages and last month had a failed ivf cycle.....stay strong...xx
seymour122 4 years ago
aw hunny i see you have actually had 2 miscarriages
i had two miscarriages this year as well..i know how you feel
*(((((hug)))))
breezee0622 4 years ago
i have 2 beautiful daughters and after having my second, our 3rd baby miscarried at 13 weeks gestation. it was very hard but now we are pregnant again and having a baby boy. so what im trying to say is soon one day your time will come to have a child. its hard loosing a child no matter how far along you are. im sorry for your loss.
god bless
proudmommyto2 4 years ago
i know everything you went through i had a miscarriage at 7 week and i dont think i wil ever forget it.. good luck i am trying agian.. so wish me luck.. ashley
josh070389 4 years ago
good luck.......i hope you wont have to go through another like i did. best wishes and lots of hugs
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
i had a very traumatic m\c a few yrs ago i now how you feel,but i went on to have 2 kids so its possible to have a normal pregnancy after a m\c,it is very emotionally distresing though.
ASHLEY4500 4 years ago
i no how u feel. im very sory 2 hear. im 16 now and had a miscarriage about a month ago, it still hurts.hope u feel better soon x
Lindalepoo 4 years ago
Thank for sharing.Your story is kinda like mine. My heart was broken when I heard the doctor said " It has no heartbeat" My husband wasn't with me at that time and when I called him (oversea call) he wasn't nice to me at all. I waited for almost a week until the baby decided to come out. It was painful from 3am-1pm and it was on my birthday! after that I went to operation room to get cleaned up the inside. Pain in my heart and my body but we want to try again.
chasalia 4 years ago
You are so young and I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and bless you in the future.
ladydi5319 4 years ago
Im Sorry for your loss =( Im Currently 2 months Pregnant. Im soo sorry
playgurlbabi369 4 years ago
I had 1 this time last year and it happened the same wae urs happened. i know how u feel but it will get easier, hope the video helped u
PaulaxLuvsxAndrew 4 years ago
wow, losing a baby....geesh....that's gotta be tough....
NDstarz 4 years ago
I TOTALLY know how you feel!! I had a miscarriage 1 week ago and it is so emotionally and physically draining experience. I'm so sorry for your loss. Oh, and I am TERRIFIED of needles too.....bloodmork, IVs the works!! HATE IT!!
Boelens79 4 years ago
thanks im doing alot better now.......im sorry for your loss as well.....nothing can be said to make things "better" but i am really sorry :)
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
this actually made me cry:( im 12 weeks and i have my second appt. tommarow....i dont knwo what id do if i lost it. im sorry u had to go through that and i pray for the best for u
rectalpalyp 4 years ago
i hope things turned out ok for you........and thank you :)
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
i am extremely sorry for your loss, this video is very good tho,cause i had never known exactly what it was like to have a D&C because i chose to have mine delivered naturally. The hospital i went to was discusting and gave me literally nothing for the miscarriage, pain relief or ANYTHING. I made my decision and they sent me home, 1 and 1/2 weeks later i had him and had to bring him to the hospital for their "disposal" it was really disgraceful, they still gave me nothing for healing! x
lilmissfreakin 4 years ago
i had to go through that with my second m/c except this one "fell out" when i used the restroom....i just had to flush my child away and my first one was thrown out like a piece of trash......i had no pain killers the second time around and to be honest the first one was more painful then the second......
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
im sorry for your loss. i cant amagine what i would do if i had sufferd a miscarriage.
MissyLoveyou81 4 years ago
thank you and i hope you never do....this is one "club" i wish nobody had to join........
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
My thoughts are with you, hope you come through such a sad time stronger.
Kagatori 4 years ago
My little sister's first pregnancy ended in a miscarrige (a boy) and now she has 3 more boys. You will go on and have more babies, just always remember god will only give you what you can handle.
wildcatmagic 4 years ago
thank you and i try to remember that everyday...in time he will bless you with what you truley desire if we are just paitient enough.........i live by that:)
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
thats almost exactly what happened to me twice now....ive had 1 D&C and i passed the tissue this time...
ebaughman16 4 years ago
im sorry and i know the pain i lost my second baby as well......the exact same way you did
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had 3 D&Cs from March to April for retained tissue and it was a nightmare. I hope you're doing well.
therubberbandcom 4 years ago
thank you.....im doing better......
beautyisnteverything 4 years ago