I love this song cuz thats how a lot of real lovers feel when they be with people that don't understand that loving is not a weakness its strength and its stronger than anything imaginable. Ive been broken hearted a few times but i will say this don't ever let someone turn your love into hate or make you not want to love again cuz then you die on the inside. Always remember that God is Love in its purest form and He loved us so much that he allowed us to know what love is. Ya boy So Gloryuss
sometimes we can't control who we love.. but when you fighting and the other person takes u for grant you begin to wonder if it's worth fighting for, yet I'm still there .. just how love goes they say a person never miss what they have until it's going.. guess he knows I won;t walk away
If there were no woman on earth i would be a miserable lonely person. I wouldnt want to live any more. Woman make the world spin. Love you all with a passion. No other sex can replace you. <3 <3
once again i saying i wish i wasn't in love with you i wish i had a undo button cause i would sure undo our whole relationship because its filled with mostly lies
a beautiful song by a beautiful woman, it is a damn shame if your ass & breast is not hanging out you don`t get no recognition as a woman in the music industry, because kids (keyword kids) wanna see Beyonce`s and Nikki Minaj`s type videos
I play this song everyday when I think about my ex. My relationship crashed. He ignored my phone calls, in front of his friends. And all he wanted to do was make love. I get this song so much.
Just broke up with my Fiance, because i found out she was cheating on me. She's broken my heart, and listening to songs like this, slowly helps me do what i need to do to move on and get over it, even though it hurts so much. Why is it when someone has something so good, they do the stupidest things to mess it up!? Why?? Idt i'll ever figure it out..It just makes no damn sense!
I'm a man and my heart,love, and apology for what you all go through .sometimes a man just don't know and understand what a gift you all are to us for me you all are priceless and I love you all.... CJ
LOVELY,LOVELY SONG CAN'T HELP BUT TO LOVE THIS SONG SHE SAYING ALLOT!!! WE NEED MORE SONGS LIKE THIS ITS KINDA SAD THEY DON'T MAKE MUSIC "REAL" MUSIC ANYMORE WE NEED MORE "HEATHER HEADLEY'S" ,SWV ,XSCAPE, KELLY PRICE,MOKENSTUFF,TONI BRAXSTON'S..ETC NOPE MUSIC AT THE SAME!!!!
I absolutely love this song and video. I am currently happily married and not exp. the issue in this song. When I was younger I was going thru something similar and can relate.
I am happily married, the melody of this song just grab me as well...I just love her voice...my wife sings as well so she can appreciate the love I have for this song....beautiful voice
Geez the hardest thing is seeing so many broken ppl and yet I want it all ..... Im 29 years and yet to experience true love. Yet I think Im in love with one of my closest friends and he knows it and wants my heart when I cant have his............ It is so unfair
When this came out, I was happily married; but i could still relate because of some of my experiences in the past. I use to play it over and over because the melody is so beautiful.
@MsMariah209 You are young please don't waste your youth on someone who can't love you the way you know you deserve. It's hard to start all over, but doing so can be the most liberating thing u can ever imagine! The world is full of good men that are loyal please don't fall for any excuses for this terrible risky behavior! It could have been much worse than a baby!!! My heart goes out 2 u N this difficult time.
@MsMariah209 [Blank Stare] You are wayyyyy to young to waste your life with that loser. You should escape now before you have kids with him and feel obligated to stay.
@MsMariah209 my boyfriend told me that we have been together for 6 years. and the girl that he got pregnant and me are having our babies days apart. i made him leave and my best friend showed up three days ago and told me he would be my babies father. so i know how it is but there is always way for things to work out. dont let that get you down. god puts things in our way to show us we were too focused n something and should have paid attention to what was important. left your head up.
@MsMariah209 you deserve better. someone who knows your wroth. if a man cheats he doesnt love you. there are good ones out there.. just let him find you,, be blessed
@MsMariah209 sorry for u...but i truly understand..i was pregnant and about to give birth in a week and found out my boyfriend had just had another baby..i was devestated
@MzShani313 I am so sorry to hear that.. Some men just dont understand how much we give our all to them and they take it for guranted. In the end they will be the one hurting. You can bet your bottom dollar on that.
@maskcamisha It has been a minute since I posted this. I have found peace and happiness:)) God is good!! It still hurt at times but I am healing in the process..
Talented indeed. However there was no market for talent and real vocal skills. As long as she keeps making single song and duets with other artists, and tours shell stay relevant in the R&B market.
i am in love with this guy he has my hear but for some resion he said we done but i love him so much don"t know wat to do everything i do i call his name
I love this song lord she can sing but it is more special to me because when it first came out my dad told me to check it out he loved this and everyone of her songs and so do I. I lost my father in April 2009 and now every time I hear her she brings he and I back together thinking of how he and I would sit around and play her songs over and over thanks Heather R.I.P Dan Banks your only daughter
I just wish I wasnt. Tired of heartaches. Love is too painful, sometimes is better not be in it. When you show you care and offer your heart to someone often times is just treated like garbage.
Love this song...Ladies if this song is relating to you...Put this man to the left and move on...Respect YOU..Don't give him the upper hand give him the middle finger.. because he don't deserve you..We women love for real and not saying they don't but count...He don't deserve you...Let him know you can have another in a minute and mean it...God's Delay is not his Denial...
Love is a beautiful thing when the feeling is so good...but everyone experiences heartache..and boy does it hurt!!!... but when you get through it,it's the best feeling in the world!!! Sing it Heather!!!!
I love this song. I can relate to it. I was engaged with man and felt this way everyday. I was with him for 3years. I slowly watched my happiness fade away with him. after 3year anniversary we tried to work things out. one month later before his a week before his birthday we broke up. it been 4months & we just got back in contact. I'm slowly distancting myself. I feel like this is one of the best decisions i ever made. love this song though.
@browneyedgal2389 A little advice...Put his ass to the left,...He doesn't deserve you..saw your profile and you are a very attractive young lady you could have another in a minute.....guard your heart ...3 years is a long time to be with a man that this song is relating to..You deserve better...it is easy said and done i no..but remember this... God's Delay is not his Denial...Be Blessed
@plutegirl I told him I cannot contact him anymore so I can heal from the breakup. I broke up with him he been contacting ever since. I honestly feel he's not the right one for me. im not even ready to him date again and tell guys i want a friendship most will either stop contacting me or become friends im trying to stay focused on school plus im a diabetic. im trying to get around postive ppl like friends but, its hard when dish them for a guy. i Thanks for the adivce
@mohanno23 I know how to explain but, I just feel in my heart that's he's not the right one and that i will be making a mistake by going back. Plus i don't chose to put up with him. there a big difference between loving someone and choosing to put up with them. maybe i will find someone who i chose that with. my mom wants us together but, honestly im putting up defend about it because i know he's not the one. he lost me because he didn't treat me right.
@browneyedgal2389.. I feel what you are saying. Follow your heart because the most important thing is that you are happy. Just because we love someone so much doesnt mean they are the right one for us. Its so hard to move on but it will get better. Stay strong!
@Sedu20101 Thank you so much its been 5months since we broke up. I decided to give him a second chance today. I hope all goes well and we work out but, if we don't then aleast I wouldn't have wondered. We talked about the reason why broke up and stuff. I still do not feel like he's the one for me though.
This song just puts me in that mood where i don't want to be where i don't want to be .. I love it has me in limbo Her voice is so powerful sends shivers and the words are so deep I guess alot of us could relate to this song in so many ways ..
@shakaama i doubt she was bashing men in this sing, she talks about that relationship most people go through, if you think people who are musicians,authors, actors are just out to change our mind then go dig a hole and stay there
I used to always wonder what this video was from that kept running in my head when I was seven, & now I realize that it's the video my mother used to watch
This is not a man hating song cuz just like women feel a certain way men do the same! This song goes both ways! Women do men wrong just like men do women wrong!! REAL TALK!!!!!!!!!!!
@townview33 And I wish I could go back To the day before we met And skip my regret I wish I wasn't in love with you So you couldn't hurt me it just ain't fair the way you treat me No you don't deserve me Wasting my time thinking bout you when you ain't never gon change
So you play me and take advantage Of the love that I feel for you
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So the song isn't just telling you a story, it wants you to agree with her, and say "yeah I hate men too, they all suck" TYPICAL.
@shakaama Well..I think she is saying that she regrets falling in love with him. But, then again, if you knew that then why did you click on the video?
@townview33 I'm sure Heather Headly, personally, probably has had a fantastic man in her life for years and years and wouldn't care about anyone else. I didn't know this song was like this. But, i actually look at what I listen to.
You might be surprised that there are people out there, that want to change your way of thinking, and they write songs, movies, books, magazines, tv shows, to get you to think the way they want you to think. I'm not having it.
@lulabell7253 nope, and there's no reason for you to get personal about someone else's song you didn't write or sing. why exactly are you defending something like this is the question.
@lulabell7253 i should compliment a man hating song? are you on some sort of mind altering drug? or is it that you cannot think for yourself and just accept that anything the music puts out MUST be worshiped by you? No this is not a "good song". or do you consider songs calling men dogs and no good, to be right up your ally?
@shakaama It's not really a man acting song. Anyone can relate to this song both men and women. Just because a woman is singing it doesnt mean its not relateable to mean. How shallow are you. And F.Y.I...I didn't call men dogs. I love men. If i didnt I wouldn't be with mine for the 4 years. Thank you. Convo over..
@shakaama It's not really a man acting song. Anyone can relate to this song both men and women. Just because a woman is singing it doesnt mean its not relateable to men. How shallow are you. And F.Y.I...I didn't call men dogs. I love men. If i didnt I wouldn't be with mine for the 4 years. Thank you. Convo over..
Sometimes we think of something like this would never happen us ladies. but, it does & it hurts so bad. :(
candyeyedropz 1 day ago
This Song Is Just The BEST NO OTHER SONG CAN TOP IT!
PLAYLIST3106 3 days ago
Beautiful! Just simply beautiful!
SmithZina 4 days ago
lol i still cry at the bridge.
1cederian1 4 days ago
The summer when this came out I felt this through and through. Love you!
ifluvinguiswrong 1 week ago
I'm Feelin' Heather Headly's Music! She sings w/ such emotion!
ansun6379 1 week ago
i love this song and she sure can sing..right when she started crying so did i.. soooo heart broken right now
skillfulStarlet 1 week ago
I love this song cuz thats how a lot of real lovers feel when they be with people that don't understand that loving is not a weakness its strength and its stronger than anything imaginable. Ive been broken hearted a few times but i will say this don't ever let someone turn your love into hate or make you not want to love again cuz then you die on the inside. Always remember that God is Love in its purest form and He loved us so much that he allowed us to know what love is. Ya boy So Gloryuss
Gloryuss4ever 1 week ago 4
this song hits my heart everytime I just wanna cry with her it hurts so much to love someone who just doesnt care
divineone8485 1 week ago 2
26 people are heart breakers that's why they clicked the dislike button
MissSGlenn 1 week ago
Once again I hope she comes out with another album. Music is so watered down now.
cheronica28466 1 week ago
I could listen to her hit that high note at 3:40 over and over again. Such a good song and she's beautiful!!
lovelylessa08 1 week ago
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PepsiColaa00 1 week ago
Don't love you anymore
CoutourKiKi 1 week ago
i remember this song i was in the same shoes until i found love but its hard to find a good man !! but i was hurt b4 & i know how it feel trust me
keemalove21 1 week ago
sometimes we can't control who we love.. but when you fighting and the other person takes u for grant you begin to wonder if it's worth fighting for, yet I'm still there .. just how love goes they say a person never miss what they have until it's going.. guess he knows I won;t walk away
2749097 1 week ago
one of my faves by her !
bribaybi3 2 weeks ago
This song is about my life. Broke up is so sad
Laguerreification 2 weeks ago in playlist YouTube Mix for Heather Headley
THIS BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYES
MyTrellytrell 2 weeks ago
If there were no woman on earth i would be a miserable lonely person. I wouldnt want to live any more. Woman make the world spin. Love you all with a passion. No other sex can replace you. <3 <3
MrTimbo305 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from HeatherHeadleyVEVO
my jam i use 2 replay my ex was a jerk so ya i feel this song now i got better
melissa5752 2 weeks ago
Love this song :)
babyleiloa 3 weeks ago
I LOVE THIS SONG IT GIVES ME CHILLS!
MsJwillis12 3 weeks ago
I love this song it make me cry a lot
cutegirl9746 3 weeks ago
Man she is so good to the point that she can outwit Whitney Houston. Be able to sing broadway AND mainstream music.
WildWildWest30000 3 weeks ago
its a good thing she married a white guy so she wouldnt have to go through this in real life
nicole4897977 3 weeks ago in playlist Favorite videos
@nicole4897977 omigosh I don't condone that but that was toooooo funnyyy. LOL
hiddengoddessful 2 weeks ago
listen to every word she is saying,love sometimes is hard,but i still dont want to be s=no mans everything!!
bunnib203 3 weeks ago
once again i saying i wish i wasn't in love with you i wish i had a undo button cause i would sure undo our whole relationship because its filled with mostly lies
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a beautiful song by a beautiful woman, it is a damn shame if your ass & breast is not hanging out you don`t get no recognition as a woman in the music industry, because kids (keyword kids) wanna see Beyonce`s and Nikki Minaj`s type videos
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JUST HOLD ON UR TRUE LOVE IS OUT THERE B PATIENT
29greeneyedgirl 3 weeks ago
I play this song everyday when I think about my ex. My relationship crashed. He ignored my phone calls, in front of his friends. And all he wanted to do was make love. I get this song so much.
mocitygirl33 4 weeks ago
Someone that can say that they "love" you, but decide to lie and cheat and be deceitful really don't deserve you!
miaestelle 4 weeks ago 3
Just broke up with my Fiance, because i found out she was cheating on me. She's broken my heart, and listening to songs like this, slowly helps me do what i need to do to move on and get over it, even though it hurts so much. Why is it when someone has something so good, they do the stupidest things to mess it up!? Why?? Idt i'll ever figure it out..It just makes no damn sense!
miaestelle 4 weeks ago 2
@miaestelle awww hush u'll get over her
2166236 3 weeks ago
I'm a man and my heart,love, and apology for what you all go through .sometimes a man just don't know and understand what a gift you all are to us for me you all are priceless and I love you all.... CJ
cwalte38 4 weeks ago 53
@cwalte38 AMEN!
21KenyaSweetheart 2 weeks ago
@cwalte38 aww that was so sweet of u..thank u. hope u are sincere with it, if so u are one of the good ones
skillfulStarlet 1 week ago
@cwalte38 Thank you for those words, it helps coming from a man.
DedeW001 3 days ago
LOVELY,LOVELY SONG CAN'T HELP BUT TO LOVE THIS SONG SHE SAYING ALLOT!!! WE NEED MORE SONGS LIKE THIS ITS KINDA SAD THEY DON'T MAKE MUSIC "REAL" MUSIC ANYMORE WE NEED MORE "HEATHER HEADLEY'S" ,SWV ,XSCAPE, KELLY PRICE,MOKENSTUFF,TONI BRAXSTON'S..ETC NOPE MUSIC AT THE SAME!!!!
biggmoney713 4 weeks ago
I AM IN THIS POSITION RIGHT NOW!
mizundrstod 4 weeks ago
I love all of her music.
stingstungme 1 month ago
♥♥♥
PrincessRayanna 1 month ago
I love this song. My reltionship is full of regrets.
bowdenjal 1 month ago
i love this song i wish men would make there mines up an quit been a whore i love mines tuddie
quinmurrell 1 month ago
yes yes yes.....every woman felt like this at 1 point of time....BELIEVE DAT!!!!!
ressy91 1 month ago
I absolutely love this song and video. I am currently happily married and not exp. the issue in this song. When I was younger I was going thru something similar and can relate.
lorre187 1 month ago
See the 7 dislikes they have no taste such a great voice and she is so stunning <3
musiksoulchild 1 month ago
This has been a rough year for me it couldnt be any worst than it has been I love this man so much its hard to walk away!!!
yvonnerodriguez036 1 month ago
This song makes me sad cuz im the one that loves hard and always end up with a broken heart!!!
yvonnerodriguez036 1 month ago 70
she puts me in da mind of ray j sister ''brandy''
flychick765 2 weeks ago
@yvonnerodriguez036 i feel you! *sigh*
danilewis82 4 days ago
I really feel like this ..
fht7grbu 1 month ago
you make trinidad happy heather
renzypooh1 1 month ago
You cant help who u love, and its hard to take back ur heart when it yarns for someone who really dont deserve it!
MzMarioWms08 1 month ago
* S.W.C *
jingodable 1 month ago
Why do LOVE have to hurt? So, many mixed emotions.....
greenesunshine98 1 month ago
I am happily married, the melody of this song just grab me as well...I just love her voice...my wife sings as well so she can appreciate the love I have for this song....beautiful voice
tru72luv 1 month ago
damn i love this song... (grabs tissue and wipes eyes)...
MeshaLovesYall 1 month ago
great song..
silkyhair14 1 month ago
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i love this song!
ponchandra 1 month ago
4 real
Mzfieldss1 1 month ago
I can relate to this song i love it but now it makes me cry
18Jamf 1 month ago
i remember this song in high school listening to it w my g/f on "BET midnight" we still togehether now 9yrs later. good memories
angel & vicky
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Anlimema 1 month ago
Geez the hardest thing is seeing so many broken ppl and yet I want it all ..... Im 29 years and yet to experience true love. Yet I think Im in love with one of my closest friends and he knows it and wants my heart when I cant have his............ It is so unfair
Jesuslovechild1 1 month ago
Welcome home Heather sorry I missed the concert. Trinidad and Tobago loves you.......
Jesuslovechild1 1 month ago
When this came out, I was happily married; but i could still relate because of some of my experiences in the past. I use to play it over and over because the melody is so beautiful.
Tandiweh 1 month ago
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xThExFraNchise 1 month ago
i absolutely love this song i keep playin it over n over again. i cant seem to get enuf of it....
Sue07ful 1 month ago
I can definitely relate too!
ang3licvoices 1 month ago
i love this song and i love the emotion she put into this video..... ^_^
MultiDoglover897 1 month ago
Saw you in Tampa with Andrea. FANTASTIC!!
Would love to duet with you someday!
thepoetician 1 month ago
I love this song!!! Heather Headley is amazing!!
111MHerron 1 month ago
LOVE IT!
maviehb 1 month ago
I am twenty five married with no children. My husband told me he has a baby on the way one month ago. I definately feeel this song.
MsMariah209 1 month ago 24
@MsMariah209 You are young please don't waste your youth on someone who can't love you the way you know you deserve. It's hard to start all over, but doing so can be the most liberating thing u can ever imagine! The world is full of good men that are loyal please don't fall for any excuses for this terrible risky behavior! It could have been much worse than a baby!!! My heart goes out 2 u N this difficult time.
WomanNredd 1 month ago
@WomanNredd You are so right!!! Thank you for the comment
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 I kinda feel you on that kind of pain... My husband just left me ta' day, 5 hours and 24 mins ago...
babymaggz84 1 month ago
@babymaggz84 How are you holding up?
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 [Blank Stare] You are wayyyyy to young to waste your life with that loser. You should escape now before you have kids with him and feel obligated to stay.
msminnie89 1 month ago
@msminnie89 I escaped. Yeahhhhhhh!!!!!! Thanks for the comment
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 WOW SORRY TO HEAR THAT SMDH
LASHAWN120499 1 month ago
@LASHAWN120499 I was sorry to til I realized its his lost. Thanks for the comment
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 my boyfriend told me that we have been together for 6 years. and the girl that he got pregnant and me are having our babies days apart. i made him leave and my best friend showed up three days ago and told me he would be my babies father. so i know how it is but there is always way for things to work out. dont let that get you down. god puts things in our way to show us we were too focused n something and should have paid attention to what was important. left your head up.
dukee95 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos 2
@dukee95 There are some good men still out there huh!!! I think I found mine..
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209
AWWWW POOR BABY KEEP YOUR HEAD UP
19cambria 1 month ago
@19cambria I am a ok!!! Thanks for the comment..
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 you deserve better. someone who knows your wroth. if a man cheats he doesnt love you. there are good ones out there.. just let him find you,, be blessed
sistanikki4life 4 weeks ago
@sistanikki4life I think he has found me.. Thank you for the advice..
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 Im not married but the one i only loved just told me the same. I feel you and this song as well.
Chuckie1 3 weeks ago
@Chuckie1 I feeel your pain honey. So sorry to hear that.
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 sorry for u...but i truly understand..i was pregnant and about to give birth in a week and found out my boyfriend had just had another baby..i was devestated
MzShani313 3 weeks ago
@MzShani313 I am so sorry to hear that.. Some men just dont understand how much we give our all to them and they take it for guranted. In the end they will be the one hurting. You can bet your bottom dollar on that.
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 omg! so sorry :( hang in there!
msstephensful 3 weeks ago
@msstephensful Thank you for the comment im good.. Things have worked out in my favor..
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209
Wow, I can't imagine how you feel after such a revelation. I'm praying that you'll find peace....keep your head up!
maskcamisha 3 weeks ago 3
@maskcamisha It has been a minute since I posted this. I have found peace and happiness:)) God is good!! It still hurt at times but I am healing in the process..
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
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johnnyabysmal 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 sorry home girl but things get better just pray
joneisha239 3 weeks ago
@joneisha239 its all good, just wasn't meant to be:)
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
@MsMariah209 karma is a bitch & im sure his baby moms is goin to be it
patrice804 3 weeks ago
@patrice804 you are exactly right. I told him something similar. Thanks for the comment:)
MsMariah209 3 weeks ago
Love Love this song:)
Hawaiianbby887 2 months ago
It's a song that we can all relate... because l know that l can.
hottsteppa1 2 months ago
Talented indeed. However there was no market for talent and real vocal skills. As long as she keeps making single song and duets with other artists, and tours shell stay relevant in the R&B market.
aky19832001 2 months ago
i am in love with this guy he has my hear but for some resion he said we done but i love him so much don"t know wat to do everything i do i call his name
scorpiokingish 2 months ago
this will always and forever be my song =)
missdreamin757 2 months ago
My favorite part 3:02 to 3:35 is when I blast my radio....
Sedu20101 2 months ago
she is singing some real truth here
laindiadeboston 2 months ago
I love this song lord she can sing but it is more special to me because when it first came out my dad told me to check it out he loved this and everyone of her songs and so do I. I lost my father in April 2009 and now every time I hear her she brings he and I back together thinking of how he and I would sit around and play her songs over and over thanks Heather R.I.P Dan Banks your only daughter
davismanagement1 2 months ago
i finf myself loving mostly all her songs. And thats because i havent heard em all.
Catwalkification 2 months ago
we all can thats y we listen to it
jodiann73 2 months ago
THIS IS SOME REAL SH#T!!! I FEELS DIS SONG EVERY TIME I HEAR IT`!!!!!
raywill708 2 months ago in playlist More videos from HeatherHeadleyVEVO 2
me too going through this right now in my relationship but sticking around hoping things get better
jodiann73 2 months ago
i feel and can relate from a mans view...my view she ran me through some shit and ive allowed her back twice but no more....
zuluwffw 2 months ago
Confession.......this song left me in tears a few times!
Zende1 2 months ago in playlist Liked videos
I heard this song on FB & tweeted it *_ *
Levicobx 2 months ago
i love how he turns up with flowers at like 3 am and she's like ....oh HELL no
yupmonk3yzrul3 2 months ago
I just wish I wasnt. Tired of heartaches. Love is too painful, sometimes is better not be in it. When you show you care and offer your heart to someone often times is just treated like garbage.
Sedu20101 2 months ago
Love this song...Ladies if this song is relating to you...Put this man to the left and move on...Respect YOU..Don't give him the upper hand give him the middle finger.. because he don't deserve you..We women love for real and not saying they don't but count...He don't deserve you...Let him know you can have another in a minute and mean it...God's Delay is not his Denial...
plutegirl 2 months ago
a song emotional like this will never get old
niklyn09 2 months ago in playlist soulz
What the hell happened to this girl? Where is she?
dasilver2000 2 months ago
Love is a beautiful thing when the feeling is so good...but everyone experiences heartache..and boy does it hurt!!!... but when you get through it,it's the best feeling in the world!!! Sing it Heather!!!!
dajah9501 2 months ago
I love this song. I can relate to it. I was engaged with man and felt this way everyday. I was with him for 3years. I slowly watched my happiness fade away with him. after 3year anniversary we tried to work things out. one month later before his a week before his birthday we broke up. it been 4months & we just got back in contact. I'm slowly distancting myself. I feel like this is one of the best decisions i ever made. love this song though.
browneyedgal2389 2 months ago 29
@browneyedgal2389 A little advice...Put his ass to the left,...He doesn't deserve you..saw your profile and you are a very attractive young lady you could have another in a minute.....guard your heart ...3 years is a long time to be with a man that this song is relating to..You deserve better...it is easy said and done i no..but remember this... God's Delay is not his Denial...Be Blessed
plutegirl 2 months ago
@plutegirl I told him I cannot contact him anymore so I can heal from the breakup. I broke up with him he been contacting ever since. I honestly feel he's not the right one for me. im not even ready to him date again and tell guys i want a friendship most will either stop contacting me or become friends im trying to stay focused on school plus im a diabetic. im trying to get around postive ppl like friends but, its hard when dish them for a guy. i Thanks for the adivce
browneyedgal2389 2 months ago
@browneyedgal2389 U R Welcome Sweetie...Take care of U that's the most important thing you could ever do....
plutegirl 2 months ago
@plutegirl thanks i am doing right now. it diffucult to do but, I know i can make it. May god bless you.
browneyedgal2389 2 months ago
@browneyedgal2389 why do u feel he is not right for you what is it about him ?
mohanno23 2 months ago
@mohanno23 I know how to explain but, I just feel in my heart that's he's not the right one and that i will be making a mistake by going back. Plus i don't chose to put up with him. there a big difference between loving someone and choosing to put up with them. maybe i will find someone who i chose that with. my mom wants us together but, honestly im putting up defend about it because i know he's not the one. he lost me because he didn't treat me right.
browneyedgal2389 2 months ago
@browneyedgal2389.. I feel what you are saying. Follow your heart because the most important thing is that you are happy. Just because we love someone so much doesnt mean they are the right one for us. Its so hard to move on but it will get better. Stay strong!
Sedu20101 2 months ago
@Sedu20101 Thank you so much its been 5months since we broke up. I decided to give him a second chance today. I hope all goes well and we work out but, if we don't then aleast I wouldn't have wondered. We talked about the reason why broke up and stuff. I still do not feel like he's the one for me though.
browneyedgal2389 2 months ago
THUMBS UP IF YOU REALIZED IT WAS 11.11.11
TheCowabungacow 2 months ago
SHE LOOKS LIKE LAURYN HILL
Latrailm1 2 months ago
This song got me through a lot of crazy, crazy nights................
ladyluck789 2 months ago
its 2011 im still litsen to this song i could relate to this
MsPrettigirlrock 2 months ago 3
wow i just noticed that jensen atwood was in this video at 2:00. Love him so much in Noah's Arc :)
tipdryl 2 months ago
I LOVE THIS SONG
Emmalina23paul 2 months ago
i love this song! makes me think abt him....we met 4yrs ago and statr tlking 11mos ago but i wish i can go back and never meet him!
NicoleSaVoy 2 months ago
Heather!!! .....you stop that now.......... reaching into our minds, our hearts AND our souls............I am sooooooooo feeling you!
Mistyblu4U 2 months ago 4
I just loved her in The Broadway play The Lion King.
MrAllenc79 2 months ago
I LOVE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dababyboyinnc85 2 months ago
oopoo
jazzyis1able 2 months ago in playlist sad love songs
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jazzyis1able 2 months ago in playlist sad love songs
this is to prove how Trinidadians can become something big!! I love Heather she's a role model to me cause I'm a Trini Girl <3
ellabella536 2 months ago
a beautiful song. the way she sings it you can actually see the man she's talking about, it's easy to relate to.
nscottremix39 3 months ago
Real music..
nvrloveagain 3 months ago
They cut out the best part of the song at the end when she goes in accapella.
ThatwasTERRIBLE 3 months ago
Loveeee dis song...it takes me wayyy back :)
desheima08 3 months ago 3
I can relate to this video right about now.
lulabell7253 3 months ago 56
she is so georgous no homo i love dis shit
caressization 3 months ago
This Song Says Everything Of How Im Feeling Right Now , Love This Song !
RespectMyPretty630 3 months ago
This song just puts me in that mood where i don't want to be where i don't want to be .. I love it has me in limbo Her voice is so powerful sends shivers and the words are so deep I guess alot of us could relate to this song in so many ways ..
rcspbeauty 3 months ago
she is broadway! all the way fine.
JayEm74 3 months ago
@shakaama i doubt she was bashing men in this sing, she talks about that relationship most people go through, if you think people who are musicians,authors, actors are just out to change our mind then go dig a hole and stay there
kevinwifey2011 3 months ago
this song bring bac memmoriez
trentwatson26 3 months ago
My best break up song....
nesdulac 3 months ago
I used to always wonder what this video was from that kept running in my head when I was seven, & now I realize that it's the video my mother used to watch
WOW ^.^
EmpressSakama16 3 months ago
This has to be one of the most beautiful songs...So well put together...
YeahDasHim 3 months ago 2
beautiful lady with a beautiful voice right here
MrDopeboi187 3 months ago 2
choo dono nuting bowdis mane
terrynlynn 3 months ago in playlist terrynlynn's favorites
This is not a man hating song cuz just like women feel a certain way men do the same! This song goes both ways! Women do men wrong just like men do women wrong!! REAL TALK!!!!!!!!!!!
mrsmiller226 3 months ago in playlist mrsmiller226's favorites 3
typical, man hate song.
shakaama 3 months ago in playlist Heather Headley
@shakaama how?
townview33 3 months ago
@townview33 And I wish I could go back To the day before we met And skip my regret I wish I wasn't in love with you So you couldn't hurt me it just ain't fair the way you treat me No you don't deserve me Wasting my time thinking bout you when you ain't never gon change
So you play me and take advantage Of the love that I feel for you
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So the song isn't just telling you a story, it wants you to agree with her, and say "yeah I hate men too, they all suck" TYPICAL.
shakaama 3 months ago
@shakaama Well..I think she is saying that she regrets falling in love with him. But, then again, if you knew that then why did you click on the video?
townview33 3 months ago
@townview33 I'm sure Heather Headly, personally, probably has had a fantastic man in her life for years and years and wouldn't care about anyone else. I didn't know this song was like this. But, i actually look at what I listen to.
You might be surprised that there are people out there, that want to change your way of thinking, and they write songs, movies, books, magazines, tv shows, to get you to think the way they want you to think. I'm not having it.
shakaama 3 months ago
@shakaama I'm guessing u were hurt once. yea.....
lulabell7253 3 months ago
@lulabell7253 nope, and there's no reason for you to get personal about someone else's song you didn't write or sing. why exactly are you defending something like this is the question.
shakaama 3 months ago
@shakaama Why are you criticizing such a good song? How bout you answer that.
lulabell7253 3 months ago
@lulabell7253 i should compliment a man hating song? are you on some sort of mind altering drug? or is it that you cannot think for yourself and just accept that anything the music puts out MUST be worshiped by you? No this is not a "good song". or do you consider songs calling men dogs and no good, to be right up your ally?
shakaama 3 months ago
@shakaama It's not really a man acting song. Anyone can relate to this song both men and women. Just because a woman is singing it doesnt mean its not relateable to mean. How shallow are you. And F.Y.I...I didn't call men dogs. I love men. If i didnt I wouldn't be with mine for the 4 years. Thank you. Convo over..
lulabell7253 3 months ago
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@shakaama It's not really a man acting song. Anyone can relate to this song both men and women. Just because a woman is singing it doesnt mean its not relateable to men. How shallow are you. And F.Y.I...I didn't call men dogs. I love men. If i didnt I wouldn't be with mine for the 4 years. Thank you. Convo over..
lulabell7253 3 months ago
love this song words are very clear
sweetisjoy 3 months ago
i sooo want an umbrella like hers
SexyTigerLady 3 months ago
Produced by Jimmy Jam & Terry Lewis. The Flyte Tyme Production Crew.
eric2181965 3 months ago
she is absolutely gorgeous in every sense of the word
qbanchick17 3 months ago 2