Did you trying stretching first? Might loosing it up and help a bit. I have to get mine still >< So Im kinda talking outta my ass but just a suggestion.
You get a standing ovation!!!!! Congrats to you in all of your great success in transition!! Your gorgeous!!!!! You remind me of omarion :) keep up the good work handsome!!
Thank you for the clarification on packing... I've recently made my own binder because I didn't have the money to buy one (it turned out great; it's very comfortable!). Besides, I think I would cause quite a stir buying something like that, seeing as I do still live at home... =P I can get away with binding, because I'm already flat-chested, so my folks will just think I've gone back to wearing a bra. But packing... yeah, they may start asking questions. ^^;
@PerianArdocyl lol I know how you feel. My folks know, but it still feels strange to pack around them. I feel like its super obvious even though it may not be.
I love your piercings. I think I might get the same ones as you, I was definately considering an eyebrow piercing but you gave me a great idea for what kind of lip piercing I wanted. Thanks!
Did you say that you had a boyfriend? As in a boy that's a friend or what? I'm just wondering if there's other ftms that like guys, if that's normal :)
@ynr513studgang speaking for myself, i like its presence as it removes that empty feeling. 2, it does come in handy when i'm at clubs/parties. 3, i like the way packing looks. its subtle but is more for myself than anyone else anyway
soooo what do you use the packers for ??? just ta feel like you have a dick or tago ta the club and get dances from girls ...lol sorry if im joking im really curious
@hipstermatic different people do different things. I personally work out in privacy (home/dorm), so I don't bother wearing a binder.. or anything really. But some guys will wear a loose binder with a loose shirt. A tight bra and a loose black shirt. I'd say to keep askin' around. Sorry.
Wow This video was soo helpful thanks for making it...and i need to by a packer too...because i always have that self concious feeling that its juss empty space...and I want to be able to walk and feel a dick rub on my thights instead of air & wind and ishh....thanks tho
@laidbaqq that was hilarious ,i came across your videos searching for info about ftm, its good to know the side of a ftm .. i use to think differently about ftm me being lesbian i guess i just fell for the more so stereo-types and just didn't understand it but you and another youtuber kamari is his name really opened that up to understand the transgender community, good luck with your transformation,well your pretty much transformed well "are" a man ... thanks for "really showing" your journey
@DominiqueBordeaux Yup. Only thing is (I don't know if I mentioned in the video) it tends to puff up near the top in the middle. I'm not sure if the newer models - if they have any - do that.
People your gender identity has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. There are plenty of ftms who are mainly attracted to men, I am one of them. Stop trying to calculate our gender identity based on our sexual attraction... cause you'd be wasting your brain chemicals. Just deal with it! There's a whole wide spcetrum of gender identities and sexual attractions, some people don't even wanna be neither recognized sexes, and some people are asexual. Our world is colorful and beautiful that wa
This type of educating needs to be done during sex ed. But those classes are almost always taught from an imaginative version of cis-gender heterosexual views.
You're hot! LOL :D Sorry Trans-guy BroMance moment- I totally agree that alot of T-Guys seem to be more gay/bi- I have a female (Bio) partner but we both like bio guys too! :D let ya figure out why! Be proud of who you are and never let no one put you down!
I think you are cute. I'm a male who dates ftm's. Any ftm. Who wants to meet an understanding bro. Hard working fun to be with hit me up zxtwelve12@comcast.net
I'm asking this question because I want to know I'm not alone in this but you said you had boyfriend? As in biologically male?
I was thinking about transitioning and I know if I did I'd still be Pansexual but I had never heard of anyone transitioning and still liking the same sex.
I was wondering if this was the case with yourself or am I the only one?
@NefariousWTF it happens quite often and supposedly (from what I've seen and heard) more transmen are homosexual than heterosexual.
I'm pansexual too, btw. If he wasn't a cis guy, what difference would it make? But I actually didn't take claim to the label of pansexual until after coming out as trans. Before that, I predominantly dated and held interest in women.
@jackonmsn It makes me feel just a little better to see something brown and not pink/white in my pants. It may not be an actual extension of myself, but it acts and feels as one to my mind. The imagination is one hell of a thing. & actually, I considered the idea of converting it into an STP before purchasing it... I didn't exactly want to whip out a white willy. Regardless, it was a personal choice that made me feel that much better.
HGGGNNNNN damn, LMAO i'm a bit late, i bought the tanktop-like binder, i was totally looking at the one you have and didn't seem to find a lot of feedback on it, so i didn't go for it, NNNGH although i have quite literally.. err. 30 A? so it's not like i have anything to really bind down, i'm just incredibly dysphoric.
oh! and i'm glad to see this, people are like me. woo.
Thanks for taking the time to explain this! I'm not trans, but my boyfriend is, and I'm sure all the guys newly realizing themselves will really benefit from your video.
I stumbled on your video randomly just looking at fellow LGBT folks because they're my folks and I think it's really cool that you shared this with your audience. It's interesting because everything you're doing to get ready for your day is what pretty much everyone does. We get ourselves together to look our best as we see fit...and you do a great job of that...feeling the gray sweater vest! =)
wow the disrespect u get on here is CRAZY im so sorry on behalf of the stupid people in the world . im glad to see u being urself despite how people try to drag u down . theres sumthing VERY respectable about that . showin love :] peace !
@Clobberk112 dude, you're really annoying me now. You're persistent with your bs that you believe to be truth. I was never a "lady". Female, yes. But a "lady", no. It very much IS a smack in the face and I'd appreciate it if you'd stfu already. I hate to be rude but seriously, I've told you numerous times but you keep on....
Do you know the purpose of the man and women? We have to clean the planet up but right now we are too out classed right now. We know have the internet so now we can be accountable. h t t p : / / w w w . n a t i v e r e m e d i e s . c o m / p r o d u c t s / t h a n d a - p r o m o t e - f e m a l e-s e x u a l - d e s i r e s . h t m l you dont have to take my information but i just want to let you know that I care. I wish you good health
@Uniteme why would I dump my (then) bf because I'm transitioning? Gay men exist, don't they?
But no, I did not "plan" to be a gay male (or even a straight guy). I am pansexual. I have a video explaining what that is or you could even google it.
sorry i didn't mean any disrepsect this is first video of yours that i have watched. I should of watched few more vids before i started asking questions sorry.
How do you get people to not think you're butch. Because kids at my school (well my school before they kicked me out) think I'm a butch lesbian and I despise that label. I'm ftm and I don't want to be thought of as a lesbian.
I've built quite an amount of muscle and the top half looks like pecs but the lower you go, the more breast tissue there is (although, it is considerably less than before). The smaller, the better. But mine aren't small enough to simply turn into pecs as some guys have been able to accomplish.
Even after years on T, many guys still obviously have that extra fat beneath their pecs.
What are your measurements? I'm looking to buy a binder myself but I'm all the way in the Philippines so I'd like to be sure about the size I'm getting and all that. Since shipping is going to cost at least $22
@barnabas375 I really couldn't tell you in numbers. Pre-T, I wore a small but after T, a medium. before T, all of my shirts were XS or Small and I'd say I was a small b cup.
I believe on the site, they have a page dedicated to finding the right size for you.
I hate binders and my man=boobs are bigger than yours. I am all for a revolt of us trans-guys who say, "fuck it -- it might be a problem for all of you... but, its not a problem for me..."
Damn you one good looking guy. I can relate. I used ace bandage for awhile but it stretches out making it unusable and you can't breathe. I did have a few athletic shirts that did some compression with the bandage but when I get my chest as small as I'd like it, I literally feel like its out of place and I obviously can't breathe at all.
You look really good, dude. Great binding job! I have a similar binder, and I hate the fact that it goes that high up, too... I'd love to wear shirts that aren't that tight around the neck, but, oh well. Being flat is already more than enough. Good luck on your way, brother =)
I did it.. yes..i made a STP out of that soft packer..it works well... and i hate that i cant wear Vnecks..grrrrr..but anyways..jus chekkin out olda vids for better idea... ONE LOVE bruh!
I hate for lesbians to wear binders. I love women n I think a woman's body is gorgeous n shouldn't b tampered with. Especially not to look like a man's body. There r other ways 2 find comfort in ur body. BUT I'm not fully knocking it, I want all lesbians to b comfortable n confident w/themselves. So good luck 2 those who r trying to change their body ;) lgbt community still gon luv yall
@SexxiiBlaque Well, I'm not a woman and neither am I a lesbian so... that doesn't really apply to me or my fellow brother's. There are other ways to do a lot of things, but what it comes down to is what is right for the individual doing it, not someone elses idea of what is right.
I hate wearing anything that binds with a v-neck... what bra size are you, if you dont mind asking? i am... smaller than an A cup so i'm not gonna spend my money on a binder... but sometimes i wear an ace bandage but OH GOD IT HURTS. without anything to bind my breasts, i can't pass. at all.
@casualrobotable yea me too man. bra size? They were around a B pre-t but they've gotten smaller since T so.. *shrug* no idea. ever consider wearing a compression shirt from under armour or something similar?
Did he say, "You don't want your dick all loose and stuff"...? Hahahahaha. That's funny. Dude, you're great. And, you have a boyfriend? That's awesome. Most of the FTMs I meet like girls. Ha. Also, you're the first black transman I've seen. :)
You mentioned you have a boyfriend could u do a vid on that or have you. Like how does he label himself and vice versa im not tryna be an ass but Im just really ignorant when it caomes to this.
im not 18, but im tryna order one of those packers.the caramel. lol, anyway, when they ship it to your house do they make you sign that like, thing so they can give it to you? im ordering it onlines and goodvibes, what shipping did you do?
@MontesXavier hmmm no goodvibe didn't make me sign for it. They sent it in a plain brown box that I don't recall having anything "suspicious" on it. I did regular....
you are beautiful, intelligent, funny, and brave. thanks for being an inspiration and for sharing your story so that we can all learn to be kinder to ourselves and to others.
i kno u said tha binder stopped hurtn afta a couple wks an u cant do much physical activity but do u kno if n tha lng run if it will cause any medical probs or physical damage 2u?
I got that Underworks binder too but I put in on over my head (it looks great on you). For the first few weeks, it really hurt to put it on but I got used to it. I haven't gotten a packy yet but I'm looking into it! Good luck with the transition. :)
I thought I was the only person who wakes up in the morning and says WTF, and forgets that I don't have "anything down there". I'm gettting a packer really soon, so hopefully that will help.
but iv been using tight sports bras..and they work..but..theres still lumps there if ya know what i mean, as an A cup its not that noticable...but it makes me feel self-conscious. So im going to move on to T-Kingdom Binder. can i ask is it THAT much different? thanks for all the help x
I know what you mean, you know they're there and just feel like everyone around you knows too. But as for T-Kingdom, I have no idea. Never used them and I've only heard mixed reviews on them. Comes down to what you're looking for.
once agan! thank you SO much for the help! (im going for the binder! yay!.. fed up of worrying about it, i think it will make me feel better) btw when did you get your first binder? - if you dont mind me asking (you dont have to say)
just coz im only 16 so i was wondering if it comes with any complications?
I am neither of the things you mentioned, but I do have a boyfriend.
I'm a dude that doesn't discriminate on the basis of gender/sex. Pansexual. If you don't know what Pansexual is, either google it or check out my other video.
@ laidbaqq no way I'm pansexual teww -.-
madisnyder66217 1 week ago
If you sew around the hole, it won't give over time
UrMomWatchesThis 2 weeks ago
I stay googling all the discounts on underworks and everything else too. haha. cheers yo!
McNazzD 2 weeks ago
MY SEXUALITY IS PANSEXUAL!
laidbaqq 1 month ago
Just curious I'm learning so do u like guys? And thanks for letting people like me who have always been curious about FTM on your world...peace
bambam6231973 1 month ago
@bambam6231973 probably one of the most popular questions asked. I am pansexual.
laidbaqq 1 month ago
Pansexual.
laidbaqq 2 months ago
mmmm you have a boyfriend? Im confused? NOT JUDGING
missericacjohnson 2 months ago
@missericacjohnson I wouldnt be the only guy who dates other guys. But I am pansexual and this is old, we been broke up.
laidbaqq 2 months ago
@laidbaqq so are you now a gay male? Im not judging I'm 100% lesbian just trying to dig deep into GLBTQ world. . .
missericacjohnson 2 months ago
Did you trying stretching first? Might loosing it up and help a bit. I have to get mine still >< So Im kinda talking outta my ass but just a suggestion.
DisturbedAngel 4 months ago
who wants a pink dick? lol xD
xThisKissx 4 months ago
I love your personalty lol
Lionofthedeye 4 months ago
You're cute and funny! Your boyfriend is lucky.
Thanks for making this video to share with us. :D Lots of information.
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loverbaybe1 5 months ago
You're funny bro
aaabbhddgf 5 months ago
You get a standing ovation!!!!! Congrats to you in all of your great success in transition!! Your gorgeous!!!!! You remind me of omarion :) keep up the good work handsome!!
Vickys0sweeT 5 months ago
HELLO! WHERE DOES ONE PURCHASE A BINDER PLEASE> YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION FOR WE THAT ARE IN THE STRUGGLE. IRIE..JAZSOULJAH
JAZFLOW1 6 months ago
@JAZFLOW1 For underworks, Underworks . com There are other sites, but UW is the most popular.
laidbaqq 6 months ago
Putting on a binder after showering= AUGH
Somethingproductable 6 months ago 7
@Somethingproductable the worst shit ever.
laidbaqq 6 months ago
Thank you for the clarification on packing... I've recently made my own binder because I didn't have the money to buy one (it turned out great; it's very comfortable!). Besides, I think I would cause quite a stir buying something like that, seeing as I do still live at home... =P I can get away with binding, because I'm already flat-chested, so my folks will just think I've gone back to wearing a bra. But packing... yeah, they may start asking questions. ^^;
PerianArdocyl 6 months ago
@PerianArdocyl lol I know how you feel. My folks know, but it still feels strange to pack around them. I feel like its super obvious even though it may not be.
laidbaqq 6 months ago
I love your piercings. I think I might get the same ones as you, I was definately considering an eyebrow piercing but you gave me a great idea for what kind of lip piercing I wanted. Thanks!
ElloitsCass 6 months ago
Did you say that you had a boyfriend? As in a boy that's a friend or what? I'm just wondering if there's other ftms that like guys, if that's normal :)
sam0m1023 7 months ago
@sam0m1023 its completely normal, on susans.org they have discussion boards of ftms who are gay, bi, pan etc.
beardedlantern 5 months ago
@sam0m1023 he was my boyfriend. there are plenty of ftms who like other men.
laidbaqq 5 months ago
@ynr513studgang speaking for myself, i like its presence as it removes that empty feeling. 2, it does come in handy when i'm at clubs/parties. 3, i like the way packing looks. its subtle but is more for myself than anyone else anyway
laidbaqq 7 months ago
soooo what do you use the packers for ??? just ta feel like you have a dick or tago ta the club and get dances from girls ...lol sorry if im joking im really curious
ynr513studgang 7 months ago
If trans guys dont bind when working out what do we use to pass?
hipstermatic 7 months ago
@hipstermatic different people do different things. I personally work out in privacy (home/dorm), so I don't bother wearing a binder.. or anything really. But some guys will wear a loose binder with a loose shirt. A tight bra and a loose black shirt. I'd say to keep askin' around. Sorry.
laidbaqq 7 months ago
Hey laid, do you still wear these?
Thanks for sharing your journey.
vixxa 7 months ago
@vixxa yes I do.
laidbaqq 7 months ago
also why are the packers so little..lol they don't make big dicks "/
nzrockitgirl 8 months ago
@nzrockitgirl The largest I've seen is 6 inches, I just didn't want it to be that big.
laidbaqq 8 months ago
Wow This video was soo helpful thanks for making it...and i need to by a packer too...because i always have that self concious feeling that its juss empty space...and I want to be able to walk and feel a dick rub on my thights instead of air & wind and ishh....thanks tho
nzrockitgirl 8 months ago
girl or boy i'd date you.
justbreathhex 8 months ago
You are SO hot. :D Keep up the good work, man
danahutchinson5 8 months ago
Your adorable and Im so glad you shared this info! I needed it. :)
InjectMorphineIntoMe 9 months ago
damn i need one let me now where you git that from
BigMeech28 9 months ago
@BigMeech28 it is in the description...........
laidbaqq 9 months ago
lol @ "i'm fuckin tired" lol
kjenki11 10 months ago
@kjenki11 its a chore!
laidbaqq 10 months ago
@laidbaqq that was hilarious ,i came across your videos searching for info about ftm, its good to know the side of a ftm .. i use to think differently about ftm me being lesbian i guess i just fell for the more so stereo-types and just didn't understand it but you and another youtuber kamari is his name really opened that up to understand the transgender community, good luck with your transformation,well your pretty much transformed well "are" a man ... thanks for "really showing" your journey
kjenki11 10 months ago
@laidbaqq You are adorable.
Merrida100 9 months ago
It's weird how everyone recommends the 983. It seems like everything FtM recommends that one, and only that one.
TheEscapedBalloon 10 months ago
@TheEscapedBalloon that says something about it, doesn't it?
laidbaqq 10 months ago
@laidbaqq
It must mean it's an awesome binder.
TheEscapedBalloon 10 months ago
the stream of consciousness aspect of this video is HILARIOUS.
right on dude
spiceforce5 10 months ago
love this fuckin video very tru but funny
2real2burs 11 months ago
I will have to say Hot.
christa1369 11 months ago
@DominiqueBordeaux Yup. Only thing is (I don't know if I mentioned in the video) it tends to puff up near the top in the middle. I'm not sure if the newer models - if they have any - do that.
laidbaqq 11 months ago
People your gender identity has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. There are plenty of ftms who are mainly attracted to men, I am one of them. Stop trying to calculate our gender identity based on our sexual attraction... cause you'd be wasting your brain chemicals. Just deal with it! There's a whole wide spcetrum of gender identities and sexual attractions, some people don't even wanna be neither recognized sexes, and some people are asexual. Our world is colorful and beautiful that wa
shayneboi86 11 months ago
@shayneboi86
This type of educating needs to be done during sex ed. But those classes are almost always taught from an imaginative version of cis-gender heterosexual views.
laidbaqq 11 months ago
You're hot! LOL :D Sorry Trans-guy BroMance moment- I totally agree that alot of T-Guys seem to be more gay/bi- I have a female (Bio) partner but we both like bio guys too! :D let ya figure out why! Be proud of who you are and never let no one put you down!
TylerandJo1 1 year ago
@TylerandJo1 Thanks!
laidbaqq 11 months ago
you look amazing!!
xxxxx
riccobena 1 year ago
More power to you fam! And you straight looking like a way cute lil Wayne!!
1sexylesbn 1 year ago
@1sexylesbn I get that a lot.
laidbaqq 11 months ago
I think you are cute. I'm a male who dates ftm's. Any ftm. Who wants to meet an understanding bro. Hard working fun to be with hit me up zxtwelve12@comcast.net
taddow12 1 year ago
shit, you are sexy.
19nhamo90 1 year ago
Thanks so much for this video! Really very helpful, you give a lot of good advice.
PS What a cutie you are dayumn
sukiyaki113 1 year ago
@colieswo I am aware of that. Women aren't the reason I'm transitioning and neither are women my only attraction.
laidbaqq 1 year ago 30
I'm asking this question because I want to know I'm not alone in this but you said you had boyfriend? As in biologically male?
I was thinking about transitioning and I know if I did I'd still be Pansexual but I had never heard of anyone transitioning and still liking the same sex.
I was wondering if this was the case with yourself or am I the only one?
NefariousWTF 1 year ago
@NefariousWTF it happens quite often and supposedly (from what I've seen and heard) more transmen are homosexual than heterosexual.
I'm pansexual too, btw. If he wasn't a cis guy, what difference would it make? But I actually didn't take claim to the label of pansexual until after coming out as trans. Before that, I predominantly dated and held interest in women.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@NefariousWTF I am a FTM that is into males. You aren't alone.
elemtalalchemist 1 year ago
why does it matter what colour the packer is ? surely people dont get to see the packer
jackonmsn 1 year ago
@jackonmsn It makes me feel just a little better to see something brown and not pink/white in my pants. It may not be an actual extension of myself, but it acts and feels as one to my mind. The imagination is one hell of a thing. & actually, I considered the idea of converting it into an STP before purchasing it... I didn't exactly want to whip out a white willy. Regardless, it was a personal choice that made me feel that much better.
laidbaqq 1 year ago 4
@laidbaqq ye that makes a lot of sense.
jackonmsn 1 year ago
HGGGNNNNN damn, LMAO i'm a bit late, i bought the tanktop-like binder, i was totally looking at the one you have and didn't seem to find a lot of feedback on it, so i didn't go for it, NNNGH although i have quite literally.. err. 30 A? so it's not like i have anything to really bind down, i'm just incredibly dysphoric.
oh! and i'm glad to see this, people are like me. woo.
masterchiefette 1 year ago
Thanks for taking the time to explain this! I'm not trans, but my boyfriend is, and I'm sure all the guys newly realizing themselves will really benefit from your video.
Best of luck with your transition!
haerness 1 year ago
3:36 got that SAME ae shirt dude.
LYohz 1 year ago
I stumbled on your video randomly just looking at fellow LGBT folks because they're my folks and I think it's really cool that you shared this with your audience. It's interesting because everything you're doing to get ready for your day is what pretty much everyone does. We get ourselves together to look our best as we see fit...and you do a great job of that...feeling the gray sweater vest! =)
curlychronicles 1 year ago
glad to hear it keep doin u :]
MrReborn0 1 year ago
wow the disrespect u get on here is CRAZY im so sorry on behalf of the stupid people in the world . im glad to see u being urself despite how people try to drag u down . theres sumthing VERY respectable about that . showin love :] peace !
MrReborn0 1 year ago 29
@MrReborn0 Its certainly not as bad as it use to be, which I am thankful for although none of it really makes a difference.
But hey, don't apologize for others. They make the choice to do that crap themselves.
ty! peace to you too.
laidbaqq 1 year ago 2
This comment has received too many negative votes show
it kills me to watch some beautiful lady like you try to become a dude please dont look at that as a smack in the face.
Clobberk112 1 year ago
@Clobberk112 dude, you're really annoying me now. You're persistent with your bs that you believe to be truth. I was never a "lady". Female, yes. But a "lady", no. It very much IS a smack in the face and I'd appreciate it if you'd stfu already. I hate to be rude but seriously, I've told you numerous times but you keep on....
laidbaqq 1 year ago 8
but hey its your life do what you want to do, its already too late we as men have failed you females.
Clobberk112 1 year ago
@Clobberk112 At least thats one thing you're able to see.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
Do you know the purpose of the man and women? We have to clean the planet up but right now we are too out classed right now. We know have the internet so now we can be accountable. h t t p : / / w w w . n a t i v e r e m e d i e s . c o m / p r o d u c t s / t h a n d a - p r o m o t e - f e m a l e-s e x u a l - d e s i r e s . h t m l you dont have to take my information but i just want to let you know that I care. I wish you good health
Clobberk112 1 year ago
Why do the bad things plague the best of us I mean seriously. Im a guy just saying you look hella good just giving you a compliment.
Clobberk112 1 year ago
Ok If your transition to a male will you be dumping your bf? or you plan to be like a gay male?
Uniteme 1 year ago
@Uniteme why would I dump my (then) bf because I'm transitioning? Gay men exist, don't they?
But no, I did not "plan" to be a gay male (or even a straight guy). I am pansexual. I have a video explaining what that is or you could even google it.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@laidbaqq
sorry i didn't mean any disrepsect this is first video of yours that i have watched. I should of watched few more vids before i started asking questions sorry.
Uniteme 1 year ago
How do you get people to not think you're butch. Because kids at my school (well my school before they kicked me out) think I'm a butch lesbian and I despise that label. I'm ftm and I don't want to be thought of as a lesbian.
kentrie1994 1 year ago
@kentrie1994 tell 'em I'm a dude and they've mistaken my identity.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
wait your a female in t and u have a bf. I dont understand
2ndsunday1 1 year ago
@2ndsunday1 @2ndsunday1 I don't get how you couldn't understand that. What does my gender/sex have to do with who I am dating? Nothing.
My attractions are not solely based on my body. 0_0
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@2ndsunday1 I don't get how you couldn't understand that. What does my gender/sex have to do with who I am dating? Nothing.
My attractions are not solely based on my body. 0_0
laidbaqq 1 year ago
if you built up then your tits would look like pecs...right? Happens in fbbs.
nicepandas 1 year ago
@nicepandas fbbs?
and the word 'tits', I'm not too fond of.
I've built quite an amount of muscle and the top half looks like pecs but the lower you go, the more breast tissue there is (although, it is considerably less than before). The smaller, the better. But mine aren't small enough to simply turn into pecs as some guys have been able to accomplish.
Even after years on T, many guys still obviously have that extra fat beneath their pecs.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
y is it i always stumble accross vids of cute guys on youtube :P
therocpd 1 year ago
@therocpd hmmm good radar?
thnx
laidbaqq 1 year ago
1:49 ...not too fond of walking around looking like a pervert.
LMFAO :D
you're cool and funny lol. hahaha i love this video :)
FaeryEbony 1 year ago
thanks man I really appreciate your video. Its very informative and I'm looking to go thru the transition. good luck to you
brittanyharr 1 year ago
:) man respect
Heatherthepunk 1 year ago
What are your measurements? I'm looking to buy a binder myself but I'm all the way in the Philippines so I'd like to be sure about the size I'm getting and all that. Since shipping is going to cost at least $22
And what size did you get?
barnabas375 1 year ago
@barnabas375 I really couldn't tell you in numbers. Pre-T, I wore a small but after T, a medium. before T, all of my shirts were XS or Small and I'd say I was a small b cup.
I believe on the site, they have a page dedicated to finding the right size for you.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@laidbaqq Thanks, man.
barnabas375 1 year ago
loved it. keep on keepin on man.
ftmjames37 1 year ago
Strange the price difference between colors of packers...
utenannie 1 year ago
you pass for sure dude
evanalexander84000 1 year ago
I hate binders and my man=boobs are bigger than yours. I am all for a revolt of us trans-guys who say, "fuck it -- it might be a problem for all of you... but, its not a problem for me..."
omniandros2 1 year ago
@omniandros2 I think cisguys (usually bigger) have already been on that note lol we oughta chime in
laidbaqq 1 year ago
you're so cool, i love hearing you talk, you're awesome and funny and i like your channel. this was also really informative. good job!
vrock913 1 year ago 2
mhh mhh mhh
sjoelund1 1 year ago
@sjoelund1 Campbells soup is good.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
Damn you one good looking guy. I can relate. I used ace bandage for awhile but it stretches out making it unusable and you can't breathe. I did have a few athletic shirts that did some compression with the bandage but when I get my chest as small as I'd like it, I literally feel like its out of place and I obviously can't breathe at all.
Amenat 1 year ago
oh no disrespect i just thought u would be into girls not guys. thats all.
monnnelle 1 year ago
@monnnelle I'm pansexual, so I like girls too... sex and gender are irrelevant to me.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@laidbaqq oh okay...i gotcha
monnnelle 1 year ago
you said u have boyfriend? really.
monnnelle 1 year ago
@monnnelle we broke up earlier this year. why?
laidbaqq 1 year ago
You look really good, dude. Great binding job! I have a similar binder, and I hate the fact that it goes that high up, too... I'd love to wear shirts that aren't that tight around the neck, but, oh well. Being flat is already more than enough. Good luck on your way, brother =)
GolicEye 1 year ago
@GolicEye thanks. I've actually been managing to wear V-Necks with it, just not really deep ones.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
your cute (:
bellausa11 1 year ago
nice vid
TheAj1987 1 year ago
nice vid
TheAj1987 1 year ago
I did it.. yes..i made a STP out of that soft packer..it works well... and i hate that i cant wear Vnecks..grrrrr..but anyways..jus chekkin out olda vids for better idea... ONE LOVE bruh!
LYRIKALTOMBOI 1 year ago
"never again" lol tru dat with ace bandage
Catpn 1 year ago
I hate for lesbians to wear binders. I love women n I think a woman's body is gorgeous n shouldn't b tampered with. Especially not to look like a man's body. There r other ways 2 find comfort in ur body. BUT I'm not fully knocking it, I want all lesbians to b comfortable n confident w/themselves. So good luck 2 those who r trying to change their body ;) lgbt community still gon luv yall
SexxiiBlaque 1 year ago
@SexxiiBlaque Well, I'm not a woman and neither am I a lesbian so... that doesn't really apply to me or my fellow brother's. There are other ways to do a lot of things, but what it comes down to is what is right for the individual doing it, not someone elses idea of what is right.
laidbaqq 1 year ago 6
you are so cute - hope you look more like a man when you get older sweet guy///
MultiShades 1 year ago
nice chepa way for the packer holder
TheCatBatman 1 year ago
PUT YO SHIRT ON
TRXlove1517 1 year ago
@TRXlove1517 I PREFER IT OFF
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@laidbaqq.ARD BITCH U FUCKEN HIPE AS SHIT
TRXlove1517 1 year ago
@TRXlove1517 what?
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@laidbaqq.U SAID U PERFER IT OFF AND I SAID ARD BITCH U FUCKEN HIPE AS SHIT IM NOT BOUT TO ARGUE WIT U ON YOUTUBE GIRL BYE
TRXlove1517 1 year ago
@TRXlove1517 lol argue over what exactly?
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@laidbaqq.NOTHIN JUST FORGET IT
TRXlove1517 1 year ago
Thank you. Your video and opinion was very helpful.
poetrytolive 1 year ago
This was the 1st FTM video I ever watched a 6 months ago. I just realized it!
hunkstatus 1 year ago
@hunkstatus oh my!
laidbaqq 1 year ago
I hate wearing anything that binds with a v-neck... what bra size are you, if you dont mind asking? i am... smaller than an A cup so i'm not gonna spend my money on a binder... but sometimes i wear an ace bandage but OH GOD IT HURTS. without anything to bind my breasts, i can't pass. at all.
casualrobotable 1 year ago
@casualrobotable yea me too man. bra size? They were around a B pre-t but they've gotten smaller since T so.. *shrug* no idea. ever consider wearing a compression shirt from under armour or something similar?
laidbaqq 1 year ago
@casualrobotable
I wear an Ace Bandage all the time and it doesn't hurt me.
kentrie1994 1 year ago
were you able to convert it to a spt
i can't find a video to show how
masterphantom05 1 year ago
@masterphantom05 I haven't tried and I don't think anyone has made a video converting this one into a stp :-/ ask KrisES46
laidbaqq 1 year ago
Did he say, "You don't want your dick all loose and stuff"...? Hahahahaha. That's funny. Dude, you're great. And, you have a boyfriend? That's awesome. Most of the FTMs I meet like girls. Ha. Also, you're the first black transman I've seen. :)
Thanks, by the way. This video helped a bunch.
jazosaurusrex 1 year ago
You mentioned you have a boyfriend could u do a vid on that or have you. Like how does he label himself and vice versa im not tryna be an ass but Im just really ignorant when it caomes to this.
KARMASULTRY1 1 year ago
@KARMASULTRY1 I made a video but it is no longer up. He doesn't really label himself, last time I checked and I'm pansexual.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
im not 18, but im tryna order one of those packers.the caramel. lol, anyway, when they ship it to your house do they make you sign that like, thing so they can give it to you? im ordering it onlines and goodvibes, what shipping did you do?
MontesXavier 1 year ago
@MontesXavier hmmm no goodvibe didn't make me sign for it. They sent it in a plain brown box that I don't recall having anything "suspicious" on it. I did regular....
laidbaqq 1 year ago
Where can I get a packer without my mom knowing?
damian32694 1 year ago
@damian32694 possibly a local sex shop. many places online also do discreet shipping, if that's one of your options.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
you are beautiful, intelligent, funny, and brave. thanks for being an inspiration and for sharing your story so that we can all learn to be kinder to ourselves and to others.
lissaaylene 1 year ago
@lissaaylene thanks :)
laidbaqq 1 year ago
great video
ANFjace 1 year ago
@ANFjace thanks.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
hey i was just wondering if anyone has ever tried putting 2 together?
i like the balls of mr. limpy and the shaft of the good vibes one and i'm gonna try to melt them together. do you think it will work?
xxjasondanielxx 1 year ago
what size did you get?
queersomething 1 year ago
small but I'm nearly 20 pounds heavier now so.. I've recently ordered a medium.
laidbaqq 1 year ago
Yea I got a small but I don't think it fits... It's fucking hard to get on lol. I made a video about it. yours looks better lol.
queersomething 1 year ago
i kno u said tha binder stopped hurtn afta a couple wks an u cant do much physical activity but do u kno if n tha lng run if it will cause any medical probs or physical damage 2u?
SML4LYFE 1 year ago
only if its too tight or if I bind too long
laidbaqq 1 year ago
yeah bro, the ace bandage hurt like a BITCH. i have cuts under my arms from that shit. ugh.
CSULB15 2 years ago
your legitimately funny, dude.
CBoyd101 2 years ago 5
I got that Underworks binder too but I put in on over my head (it looks great on you). For the first few weeks, it really hurt to put it on but I got used to it. I haven't gotten a packy yet but I'm looking into it! Good luck with the transition. :)
tomboyluvsyanni9876 2 years ago
Yea I can do that now that its stretched out.. but sometimes its too tiring to do. I especially hate putting it on after showering.
thanks
laidbaqq 2 years ago
Thanks for the video!
I thought I was the only person who wakes up in the morning and says WTF, and forgets that I don't have "anything down there". I'm gettting a packer really soon, so hopefully that will help.
Good luck with everything man. ~PEACE~
287robot 2 years ago
nah apparently phantom penis isn't rare with us.
and good luck w/ the packer, thanks.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
Wow. Hot. I'd go gay for you! haha.
P0mt3 2 years ago
lol oh wow uhm thanks
laidbaqq 2 years ago
You're welcome.
P0mt3 2 years ago
You can convert-as you said...BUT you can't burn it. You have to cut a hole down the shaft.
maf1214 2 years ago
what did you use to cut the hole?
manupalace 2 years ago
Long scissors.
maf1214 2 years ago
@maf1214 was the inner core easy to remove. or was its stuck to the rest of the packer.
manupalace 1 year ago
Goodvibes is the only company left that has other colors besides pink. (that I have found)
I have the same binder and man it cuts up under my arms!
maf1214 2 years ago
:) ur so adoreable !
britmusic17 2 years ago
lurrrve your vids! very helpfull ^_^
but iv been using tight sports bras..and they work..but..theres still lumps there if ya know what i mean, as an A cup its not that noticable...but it makes me feel self-conscious. So im going to move on to T-Kingdom Binder. can i ask is it THAT much different? thanks for all the help x
DizzyXrainb0w 2 years ago
lol @ lurve. thanks.
I know what you mean, you know they're there and just feel like everyone around you knows too. But as for T-Kingdom, I have no idea. Never used them and I've only heard mixed reviews on them. Comes down to what you're looking for.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
^_^
once agan! thank you SO much for the help! (im going for the binder! yay!.. fed up of worrying about it, i think it will make me feel better) btw when did you get your first binder? - if you dont mind me asking (you dont have to say)
just coz im only 16 so i was wondering if it comes with any complications?
thanks x
DizzyXrainb0w 2 years ago
personal question with the best of intentions..
when your with your boyfriend do you still feel like a man or does it make you feel at all girly? or feminine
Maria259 2 years ago
I feel far from feminine when I am with him.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
u bi? or straight? u a stud n u got a bf? im confused
sexyfemmepurple1 2 years ago
I am neither of the things you mentioned, but I do have a boyfriend.
I'm a dude that doesn't discriminate on the basis of gender/sex. Pansexual. If you don't know what Pansexual is, either google it or check out my other video.
laidbaqq 2 years ago
Well-said, Xay, my boy! God, kid-o, I love ya--u're frickin' cool! U r just so adorable!
BourneArgonaut 2 years ago