Thank for the video. You look attractive,but your bangs are distracting. A bit messy and unprofessional--simple to fix. Also , it's disingenuousness,not disingenuineness . I think the cause of all personality disorders is some kind of abuse/neglect. I have a friend who has it. She was from a large family and experienced a serious lack of attention/love ,causing her to feel abandoned & worthless. Another friend was abandoned to boarding school at 7 by a mother who treated him terribly.
"you are you, nothing else...." Paranoid, Schizoid, Antisocial, Histrionic, Narcissistic, Avoidant, Obsessive, Evil, Good, Words, Names, etc.... All of it, cannot encompass your being. "Words... symbols and sounds of something they are not." Remember, "you are you, nothing else." book of I
Cleopatra was a histrionic woman, so was Nero. people that for some reason fascinate me. this thing I believe also runs in families because I have like off my mind 8 relatives including myself that are like that. We love our grand entrances, our places in the family, we come out as the center of attention really easily. and I love it! it's true, attention is better than no attention at all.
Psychiatry was developed before 1900 in Germany to get rid of people complaining.First use of directed energy weapons can be seen in psychiatric literature from 1908, see Psychiatrie->Zur Klinik der Narkolepsie on my homepage.After murdering oponents in ww2,Psychiatry was relaunched in´45 to persecute+silence concentration camp survivors.
As a Doctor in a German nuthouse said:
Half the inmates are mad.The other half are secret service agents on training.
She sounds like she genuinely doesn't like people with this disorder. And don't pay attention to sture8808 too much, psychiatrists do need a certain amount of empathy in order to really understand where their patients are coming from. Otherwise they'd never be able to spot disingenuous emotions.
Well presented video. I've seen a variety of personality disorders, probably including HPD treated successfully with energy healing, such as Reiki. It takes a long time, but it teaches mother love intimacy in a way that talk therapy will never match. Anyone suffering with emotional distress would do themselves a world of good by getting a Reiki Attunement.
Fuck! I wish I knew about this before, then I wouldn't have wasted the past four years of my life...basically, all of high school on one fucking girl that would ruin me...what a bunch of bullshit. Makes me so angry and sad when I think of her, I'm pretty sure she has this because her grandfather died and she was never the same since then. fuck life
@BurninRubba305 and judging someones actions as normal (whatever that is ?) sounds subjective to me ,even if done by consensus its based on subjective social norms .
Anyway , so how do we falsify the assertion that histrionic personality disorder is real ? ah ,answer that . real science is based on providing falsifiable evidence ,I guess you know that ,mind you if you're a social science student you probably don't *sigh*
@Robocrat Hey they can be males too. Iv seen those types that cry to get women's attention or to win their affection. In my opinion, those kinds of men are worse because they know shedding tears will make them appear sensitive and gentle.
@TheJasonDR no its not.. an ESFP is normal. a histrionic is A LOT different. my friend has this disorder and her moods arent only outgoing.. theyre very wide ranged and dramatic like someone who is bipolar.. but this is actually worse than bipolar. shell go from EXTREMELY happy to calling her mom a cunt and getting in her face or crying because her dad didnt get her mc donalds.. its ridiculous. everywhere we go if i get a compliment she jumps in and says "BUT WHAT ABOUT ME?<3 hehehe"
@DerpPurple yeah ...hmm I have noticed that people with loving mothers tend to be N ...instead of S....also an over strict mother creates the ESTP and ISTP ...
@TheJasonDR thats so true haha... well. the more orderly loving mothers usually have N children... my moms loving but im aloud to do whatever the hell i want.. im ISFP.
@DerpPurple ...ok hmm..my dad had no mother but a strict father and a grandmother as a mother figure but was also incredibly strict and my dad is a womanizer and does not like creativity and fantasy stuff....like he would hate to watch harry potter but would rather watch some boring true story movie...also he is an ISTP..and George W bush has a similar background and is a ESTP... apparently a loving mother helps creates a curious intuitive boy
psychology's bullshit, trying to make simple shit like this into some complicated intellectual medical disorder. it's just a behaviour pattern that people develop that's all, no need to make it more complicated than that.
my ex wife's diagnosis was : Borderline Histrionic personality dissociative disorder.... for a long time I thought it was me... then the shrinks vindicated me... that was 15 years ago and she's still batshit in the head
This really sounds like those girls in middle and high school, who were usually cheerleaders, preps, their names are Ashley or Aubrey or Britney, their facebooks have a bunch of bffs and less than three yous, wear Hollister and A & F and AE, you can´t hold a meaningful conversation with them, theyre incredibly shallow, it´s all ``OMG did you see what Brad did at Ashley´s party, he would do that``. Basically the popular girls in school.
I dated a girl with this disorder for 7 years! I thought I was the crazy one until I discovered HPD. I didn't think people were capable of acting like she did if we were truly in love, and the first 4 years were the happiest of my life. Then it became a nightmare of cheating, lying and dramatics, she was exceptionally cruel and maniacal and was incapable of being honest and my own shortcomings kept me with her for so long. She will die pathetic and alone. Have a nice life Peti....
If you want to read the wild rants of the biggest most obscene narcissist in the history of mankind then go to @dimitrithelover on twitter. The size of this seduction guru's ego is beyond words. Trust me.
Obviously, you people do not live with any mental disorders.. I do not have HPD, but I do have anxiety, depression, and BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder).
It's not a thing that can actually be helped. I just don't understand why you guys are all making fun of this particular disorder. :/
Or maybe I just don't understand it... don't know..
I cant understand this lady, she needs speach therapy.Goes to show ya every body has some sort of a flaw to over come.I think you can find something mentaly wrong with anyone if you realy look for it.To try to label people a certain thing is wrong,damaging,and hurtful.
Well they don't start out fat but they will turn that way to supposedly to repel potential victims actually they freak about the things they do and then go into unconcious eating mode saw it also in her sister.The 2 i have known don't have female friends, thats competion .They don't like to compete for prey.I think that this disease is more widespread then is acknowledged.Turning every small issue into a fight is their way of deflecting the fact that somebody YOU know just tapped her.
@jbond5150 are you kidding me? Go to Orange County, CA. You'll see many super hot girls who have this disorder. The more lipo and plastic surgery they get, the worse their disorder becomes.
I was exposed to this disease for over 3 decades.It gets worse over time and destroys everyone and everything near it. The woman i knew was an out of control sex addict (350-500+ )people easily. She destroyed jobs, homes,friendships everything and still she saw nothing wrong with herself or her actions.She's almost 60 and more sick then she was 25.
Hey, do you have any idea how advanced this woman's qualifications are? She's a Doctor of Psychiatry. Not junk science. Real evidence-based science. Every medical establishment in the world recognises the diagnosis she's describing. Show some respect. Watch and learn.
@emmabannenberg Real science is sticking someone in a CAT scan ,you can't get reliable unbiased DATA from a Psychiatrist I mean how does anyone measure attention seeking ,by the subjective opinion of a Psychiatrist ?
This video is pretty depressing when you realize that you have hpd and she said nothing works to fix it. Kinda depressing right there or is it the condition? Is is what e realization of having a personality disorder is. Are you making these behavioral choices or is it the sickness. How do I know myself anymore
This is my ex-boyfriend in a nutshell. he is so obsessed with people paying attention to him and will do anything to get it, including overdosing on pills. he was obsessed with modelling and acting for a while and now it seems like he has a new tattoo or hairstyle every week, even if they make him look like a total idiot. people make fun of him for these things but what he doesnt realize is that more than anyting he needs help.
Of all the comments I scanned through the majority of them contained horribly insolent statements that all professed the same ridiculously ignorant opinions - people with HPD are "crazy bitches" and/or "fucking annoying," and it's advised that you "stay away from them," which is basically advising they should be socially outcasted. Do any of you illiterate failures even know what a personality disorder is? Do you know what anything relating to -any- psychological disorder is? I've dealt with HP
I have blood in my urine, heart rate of 155, very low blood pressure, spinal injury, muscle spasms and the doc says It's a personality disorder. My ex husband was a sociopath so he created much drama and turned it on me. I was beat up and have had muscle spasms for a year.Finally my back gave out and I collapsed and my stomach is now in smasms along with my heart. I am finally frusterated at the doctors and so it's a personality problem.I hate attention and doctors yet I want attention ???
BTW it is SO easy to get sucked in by this intense 'emotionality' and neediness ... which traps any half-ways decent man into caring for a seemingly vulnerable woman, who is actually acting like a 3-5 year old child emotionally ... in my case a qualified veterinary surgeon ... which bears out the point that intelligence has nothing to do with it.
it really describes 70% of the women i got to know, i didnt say "of all women everywhere", just the ones i met
i think if you d ask a woman, she d say that most men she met were less social than her, i dont know about anti-social though...forget about the greater autism spectre.
masturbators? well yes, yes we are, we all (men and women) are to dif degrees probably
@stevenrmarcel There are specific criteria. Amazing this DSMV. If you had this you probably wouldn't know it you'd probably think that you were normal. A lot of people don't know they are ill. They're even surrounded by enablers in some dark corner like in a cult where interaction with outside world doesn't even happen. Who knows about those dark secrets in the corners light doesn't reach.
Damn, do I have that shi*. I mean, I'm usually the center of attention. I do get tired of people for reasons I believe to be understandable. I'm very emotional and I'm a little clingy at times. Oh well, it is what it is. And if there is no cure, why bother telling me. I bet God Knows the answer
If you're some too cool guy and you have a girlfriend that demonstrates ANY signs of HPD, and boys that's the trend these days in women, do yourself a favor. Get Out. Leave her. Snap out of it and break it off. The divorce industry is chalked full of those who would love to whisper in her ear all the rewards she'll receive if she divorces you. For you, it'll be all down hill from that point on.
I have hpd... people who know about it right it off as a harmless personality disorder. but it really isn't. I'm as manipulative as an antisocial, as seductive as a hypersexual, and as emotional as someone with bpd.
I definitely have this. I try to seduce every girl I meet and always am the center of attention. Sometimes I'll release wild goats during a dinner party.
not certain that this pertains only to women. I dated a man who could fall under this catagory; very attention seeking to making himself appear foolish He had a number of women stalking him. He was also very affectionate, but I couldn,t trust it because it was too much too soon. He never could make plans, never followed through with things and always had an excuse and lots of apologies for his behavior. Yup, I had to let him go. Very exhausting. No longer interested.
I see it as a form of manipulation or even sociopathy. I have seen people go to great lengths to please an HPD person or to cultivate an agreeable environment just to avoid having to deal with an episode.
In my experience worry is a form of emotional abuse and control.
@Gormaoul, people can compensate as adults by struggling through their impulses to act in ways that are self-indulgent and destructive to others and by using their experiences to be extra attentive to the needs of others. How''s that for a reason to continue living?
@Gormaoul, people can compensate as adults by struggling through their impulses to act in ways that are self-indulgent and destructive to others and by using their experiences to be extra attentive to the needs of others. How''s that for a reason to continue living?
These are the most annoying people on the planet! Even when you ignore this trait, and still put up with them, they will find a way to drive you off. Even when you try to get away from them, they stalk you, annoy you, and in some cases when they're dumb, try to cover the fact they're a criminal, by showing you exactly where to look and expose them!
@DanimalLawlz Probably, but I never made any comment about these folks. These are higher functioning people. People with this disorder who are also say, schizophrenic and are of lower intellect, are usually unable to use this to their advantage and are hard to like. Even if you want to, they drive everyone off with their maladaptive behavior. I know a girl like this; she's a nut job and refuses any help. She also doesn't see how it affects her kids and family in a bad way.
come to think about it, i know several people like this... Constantly lying about things that don't even benefit them and which make no sense. It's scary
I lived with a histrionic girl in college. Had to put up with her faking sickness, broken arms, etc, constantly manipulating people including me, trying to be sexy to the point of being grotesque and even stealing
This was a friend of mine, who acted like a best friend, but constantly manipulated EVERYONE. Played the victim, got lots of sympathy...it took a lot of ppl awhile to figure it out, but she ended up exposing herself hardcore...the lies really started unravelling when she decided she wanted my husband...that's when EVERYONE figured it out because the things she lied about didn't even make sense anymore. I feel bad for her...but you can't help someone like that.
@hydrogonian - Yes, but the anger they express is not faked. HPD and Narcissists revel in their anger. HPD can well be defined as a female or feminine personality disorder (gays), just as Narcissism is defined as male. It's a fair distinction although variants exist. HPD outnumbers NPD in the west, but HPD is generally more acceptable as a 'colorful personality type', while NPD can be more easily disquised or hidden, at least in the short run. Huge lack of empathy in each and are each dangerous.
Barely mentioned here is that it is a FEMALE disorder. When it involves men it is called NARCISSISM. It's purpose is MANIPULATION. The personality type SEEKS POWER and control, it's a learned behavior and it's a choice. The answer to the rest of us on how to deal with it is to RUN LIKE HELL from the incidence of the first outburst. Like narcissism it is rooted in very early childhood and almost impossible to change. Histrionic women and narcissistic guys overall love themselves. Run!
@LliasiAsbi You're a complete idiot and a heartless piece of shit. You fail to recognize that these individuals history of being severely neglected, harassed, and/or abused throughout their child and/or adolescent lives and desperately need to compensate as adults just to feel some sort of value, some reason to continue living. They haven't even LIVED for god's sake.
@Gormaoul I agree, it was a little far. But my sentiment remains the same. Truthfully, telling someone they have a disorder/problem/scar can in fact cause more damage than "healing".
We all tread through hardships. Sometime, you just have to man up and let the past be the past. Nurturing your scars is no good. You must forget them and move on, or learn from them.
There are real illnesses, then this. I have no tolerance for anyone who mistakes personality FLAWS with a mental illness.
@twt2007 - Here is some advise. Get another girlfriend. HPD is a learned behavior from early childhood. Rarely cured. Break off all contact as if she were a serial killer. Run like hell. Your only defence.
@JohnnyRock2000 she will probably become bored of her boyfriend before he runs away so just let the relationship run its course and get whatever you can out of it. rofl she doesnt care if you run away, anyway. plenty of fish in the sea!
@JohnnyRock2000 my exgirlfriend had disorder. threatened suicide, was absolutely crazy when we broke up and overall is the worst person i've ever met. this disorder is just an explanation for someone being a little bitch.
If you doo a move like 1:56, too respond unmoved by the drama, you have to make yourself 110% shure that it's Histrionic disorder, and not BPD you are dealing with.
Those two disorders can look wery simmilar a wide range of settings, and if you deal with a BPD it will only furyate the BPD paitient, and it can turn int a wery ugly and negative spiral for the BPD paitient.
Well, teenagers actually display high levels or symptoms of naricism, histionism, antisocialism and borderlineism, sometimes a combination of several. In other words, the cluster B. It's perfectly natural to their developpement unless it sticks and intensifies once they cross into adulthood.
@MichaelVoz Oh yes. Sorry, I thought you meant the woman who's talking about it! I suppose you're right, Phelps could be said to have histrionic personaility disorder, but if he is I'd say it has overtones of a masochistic complex. : )
damm im so proud being histrionic and narcissistic :)) don't know why but i love the way i am im so proud of me and i always gotta be the one the chosen the best...muahahaha but sometimes im tending to be evil muahaha...
I ve read a lot of these comments and for the ppl saying why ppl w/ "disorders" are labeled n etc. its because normal ppl can live in harmony w/ each other they can live life w/o desiring constant attention and praise where as these ppl well cause harm to ppl that care for them
hpd women are a PITA forr everyone they come in contact with outside of ppl they don't know and subsequentally entertain with their foolish drama antics in public, especially bars where they try to embarass men. they can be first class dumbasses.
LOL this is pathetic give me a break. Most of these signs can be connected to NPD, and then most of those signs, such as fear of criticism and rejection can be connected to APD...............etc etc etc..............and where do we get? nowhere, to the beginning of the circle.
We all have signs of personality disorders it seems, the only question is how extreme and far does it go......So obviously it is "normal" to have signs in an acceptive level
@glutamin111 hpd is closely related to npd. hpd is usu. found only in women. they use to have whats known as the "electra complex," but feminists had hissy-fits and removed it from the book.
@glutamin111 No there are people that literally have this and are complete drama whores and always doing very stupid stuff for attention. I know a guy who was diagnosised with this and it makes a lot of sense, because his life is messed up, he's completely disloyal to his wife, and always does something for attention even if it hurts him or makes him look really really bad.
you guys are F***kers I have this illiness and i didn*t wish for this to happen to me. yes I am very attention seeking and very irritating. i acted out just to get attention but i can still be very nice and live like a normal people.
Srsly, avoid ppl with histrionic personality disorder; their loud and bombastic attitude is extremely grating on the nerves. I once had this classmate who would send me flirtatious msgs (despite her already having a BF), and yes, she is very manipulative as well (ppl with histrionic PD are extremely easy to "read"). Do not give them the attention that they seek; soon enough, they will learn to keep their distance from u.
I can't help but to feel that many of the negative comments about this presentation, are made by people who haven't worked in a mental health setting before. Having worked as a mental health nurse for a while now, I can honestly say that patients with histrionic PD are the WORSE patients I have dealt with. This isn't a diagnosis that is given out haphazardly! Hopefully if any of you have met or dealt with anybody with HPD, you will be able to contextualise and undertsand this better. Great vid!
I can totally agree with you and am totally convinced that I know a person with Histrionic PD. I HATE her guts. Lol I just don't give in to her little theatrics. The worst thing for her is to be left by herself, or more so, to be totally ignored when in the same room... hilarious.
That was my sister up until she died of a drug overdose at the age of 34 years old. She died on August 23, 2009. it's weird to listen to this description, it's like listening to a description of her and her life! It makes me sad.
After looking at the comments on this video I am convinced that these personality disorders are based on culture/philosophy. Most of the comments focused on how pro-western culture/reason the asian lady was. There's also the idea that 'nearly everybodies crazy, so what?' as if things were always or have to be this way. It is disgusting to see such whimsical attitudes in play
Everyone here saying that most people have this have obviously never known someone with this problem. Yeah, most people have a few part of this going, but imagine someone who has all of these personality traits, and *absolutely nothing more* Literally every single interaction they have with another human they gear towards getting attention and praise. They *do not care* about anyone but themselves. It is absolute *HELL* to live with them. It's like interacting with an alien trying to be human.
Does histrionic personality disorder overlap with biopolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, and narcissistic personality disorder.
DontForgetIran2010 4 days ago
Thank for the video. You look attractive,but your bangs are distracting. A bit messy and unprofessional--simple to fix. Also , it's disingenuousness,not disingenuineness . I think the cause of all personality disorders is some kind of abuse/neglect. I have a friend who has it. She was from a large family and experienced a serious lack of attention/love ,causing her to feel abandoned & worthless. Another friend was abandoned to boarding school at 7 by a mother who treated him terribly.
Raina430 1 week ago
damn I hate that i'm always attracted to these kind of girls.
utmax85 2 weeks ago
@utmax85 These types of girls know their trade well.
DontForgetIran2010 4 days ago
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utmax85 2 weeks ago
The daily life of Kim Kardashian.
arenaskiez 3 weeks ago
@arenaskiez her and most female celebrities. hell, Winona Ryder shoplifted to get publicity.
DontForgetIran2010 4 days ago
What is wrong with the audio?
jesusluvsme12345 4 weeks ago
"you are you, nothing else...." Paranoid, Schizoid, Antisocial, Histrionic, Narcissistic, Avoidant, Obsessive, Evil, Good, Words, Names, etc.... All of it, cannot encompass your being. "Words... symbols and sounds of something they are not." Remember, "you are you, nothing else." book of I
pagayoyo9 1 month ago
my friend has this... she is absolutely out of CONTROL dude. out of control. i honestly cant handle it
DerpPurple 1 month ago
Cleopatra was a histrionic woman, so was Nero. people that for some reason fascinate me. this thing I believe also runs in families because I have like off my mind 8 relatives including myself that are like that. We love our grand entrances, our places in the family, we come out as the center of attention really easily. and I love it! it's true, attention is better than no attention at all.
snejanahanadovile 2 months ago
@snejanahanadovile the fictional character Scarlet Ohara from Gone with the Wind is also histrionic.
DontForgetIran2010 4 days ago
My Mother is a Histronic. I know all about it!
I have PMDD so at times I'm very enabling.
glamkitten24 2 months ago
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Psychiatry was developed before 1900 in Germany to get rid of people complaining.First use of directed energy weapons can be seen in psychiatric literature from 1908, see Psychiatrie->Zur Klinik der Narkolepsie on my homepage.After murdering oponents in ww2,Psychiatry was relaunched in´45 to persecute+silence concentration camp survivors.
As a Doctor in a German nuthouse said:
Half the inmates are mad.The other half are secret service agents on training.
Dubbed correctly, they are snitchers.
wwwtotalitaerde 3 months ago
These are awesome videos. I work in psychiatry and will recommend these to my students.
TheShirlock 3 months ago
Hey Rhoda, go Fuck yourself.
erenite31 3 months ago
LOL the way she describes these people makes me wonder whether she has any patients at all. She doesn't sound very empathetic...
HepburnFlicks 3 months ago
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You don't go to a psychiatrist for empathy.
sture8808 3 months ago
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She sounds like she genuinely doesn't like people with this disorder. And don't pay attention to sture8808 too much, psychiatrists do need a certain amount of empathy in order to really understand where their patients are coming from. Otherwise they'd never be able to spot disingenuous emotions.
AngeloNiklis 2 months ago
this is my mother. I can't even reason with her. I had to cut her off. People like this are leaches and will bleed you dry.
yummieyummie123 3 months ago in playlist personality disorders
all i have to say is 'wow'. knowledge is power
clivedavinci 3 months ago
2:12: did she say "disingenuineness"!?
stilicho2 4 months ago
*cough* Onision *cough*
NateTalksToYou 4 months ago 10
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TURE !!
hertot 1 month ago
Well presented video. I've seen a variety of personality disorders, probably including HPD treated successfully with energy healing, such as Reiki. It takes a long time, but it teaches mother love intimacy in a way that talk therapy will never match. Anyone suffering with emotional distress would do themselves a world of good by getting a Reiki Attunement.
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idonotwastenames 4 months ago
Fuck! I wish I knew about this before, then I wouldn't have wasted the past four years of my life...basically, all of high school on one fucking girl that would ruin me...what a bunch of bullshit. Makes me so angry and sad when I think of her, I'm pretty sure she has this because her grandfather died and she was never the same since then. fuck life
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LMAO 1:19 "How they feeeel about things" that was funny
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MsMamicha 5 months ago
@BurninRubba305 and judging someones actions as normal (whatever that is ?) sounds subjective to me ,even if done by consensus its based on subjective social norms .
Anyway , so how do we falsify the assertion that histrionic personality disorder is real ? ah ,answer that . real science is based on providing falsifiable evidence ,I guess you know that ,mind you if you're a social science student you probably don't *sigh*
sausage4mash 5 months ago
Basically bitches
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AizenSamaKingX 5 months ago
@Robocrat Lol!!!
BooksBySterling 2 months ago
@Robocrat Hey they can be males too. Iv seen those types that cry to get women's attention or to win their affection. In my opinion, those kinds of men are worse because they know shedding tears will make them appear sensitive and gentle.
DontForgetIran2010 4 days ago
this is actually an ESFP wtf
TheJasonDR 5 months ago
@TheJasonDR no its not.. an ESFP is normal. a histrionic is A LOT different. my friend has this disorder and her moods arent only outgoing.. theyre very wide ranged and dramatic like someone who is bipolar.. but this is actually worse than bipolar. shell go from EXTREMELY happy to calling her mom a cunt and getting in her face or crying because her dad didnt get her mc donalds.. its ridiculous. everywhere we go if i get a compliment she jumps in and says "BUT WHAT ABOUT ME?<3 hehehe"
DerpPurple 1 month ago
@DerpPurple yeah ...hmm I have noticed that people with loving mothers tend to be N ...instead of S....also an over strict mother creates the ESTP and ISTP ...
TheJasonDR 1 month ago
@TheJasonDR thats so true haha... well. the more orderly loving mothers usually have N children... my moms loving but im aloud to do whatever the hell i want.. im ISFP.
DerpPurple 1 month ago
@DerpPurple ...ok hmm..my dad had no mother but a strict father and a grandmother as a mother figure but was also incredibly strict and my dad is a womanizer and does not like creativity and fantasy stuff....like he would hate to watch harry potter but would rather watch some boring true story movie...also he is an ISTP..and George W bush has a similar background and is a ESTP... apparently a loving mother helps creates a curious intuitive boy
TheJasonDR 1 month ago
psychology's bullshit, trying to make simple shit like this into some complicated intellectual medical disorder. it's just a behaviour pattern that people develop that's all, no need to make it more complicated than that.
ilikevines 6 months ago
my ex wife's diagnosis was : Borderline Histrionic personality dissociative disorder.... for a long time I thought it was me... then the shrinks vindicated me... that was 15 years ago and she's still batshit in the head
JerichoDitch2 6 months ago
This really sounds like those girls in middle and high school, who were usually cheerleaders, preps, their names are Ashley or Aubrey or Britney, their facebooks have a bunch of bffs and less than three yous, wear Hollister and A & F and AE, you can´t hold a meaningful conversation with them, theyre incredibly shallow, it´s all ``OMG did you see what Brad did at Ashley´s party, he would do that``. Basically the popular girls in school.
naturefan202 6 months ago
@naturefan202 aw come on man, seriously? who isnt shallow in high school? how does that mean theyre histrionic, theyre just dumb
limellexX 4 months ago
Histrionic is not a personality disorder. You just can't tolerate their behavior. That's all.
kmarinas86 6 months ago
I dated a girl with this disorder for 7 years! I thought I was the crazy one until I discovered HPD. I didn't think people were capable of acting like she did if we were truly in love, and the first 4 years were the happiest of my life. Then it became a nightmare of cheating, lying and dramatics, she was exceptionally cruel and maniacal and was incapable of being honest and my own shortcomings kept me with her for so long. She will die pathetic and alone. Have a nice life Peti....
christianizm 7 months ago
If you want to read the wild rants of the biggest most obscene narcissist in the history of mankind then go to @dimitrithelover on twitter. The size of this seduction guru's ego is beyond words. Trust me.
MrToronto2009 7 months ago
'disingenuineness'? I dont think that word means what you think it means...in fact, there is no such word lady...
MrTruthAddict 7 months ago
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there is indeed not such word as disingenuineness, she said disingenuousness...comes from the word
dis·in·gen·u·ous (dsn-jny-s)
adj.
1. Not straightforward or candid; insincere or calculating
emmabannenberg 6 months ago
@emmabannenberg LOL, I know what the correct word is. See 2:12 She said 'disinGENUINEness' and not the correct word.
She actually repeats the mistake at 3:40
MrTruthAddict 6 months ago
Obviously, you people do not live with any mental disorders.. I do not have HPD, but I do have anxiety, depression, and BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder).
It's not a thing that can actually be helped. I just don't understand why you guys are all making fun of this particular disorder. :/
Or maybe I just don't understand it... don't know..
KikyoChanXD 7 months ago
These people are hard to be around....takes lots of patience
MaryJane2nd 7 months ago
I cant understand this lady, she needs speach therapy.Goes to show ya every body has some sort of a flaw to over come.I think you can find something mentaly wrong with anyone if you realy look for it.To try to label people a certain thing is wrong,damaging,and hurtful.
kyriacos40 7 months ago
@kyriacos40 Really? She is speaking pretty damn clearly and articulately.
Eddiewyn 7 months ago
@kyriacos40 wtf? I think you're just looking for attention
MrTruthAddict 7 months ago
@MrTruthAddict histrionic, she is. :)
MyFuckinBlooDIsYourS 7 months ago
Had sex with a girl in the summer
she got pregnant
go back to school
turns out i raped her
or at least thats what she lied and said just for people to feel sorry for her.
BasementDweller09 7 months ago
Well they don't start out fat but they will turn that way to supposedly to repel potential victims actually they freak about the things they do and then go into unconcious eating mode saw it also in her sister.The 2 i have known don't have female friends, thats competion .They don't like to compete for prey.I think that this disease is more widespread then is acknowledged.Turning every small issue into a fight is their way of deflecting the fact that somebody YOU know just tapped her.
enfieldbullet2011 7 months ago
histrionic personality disorder = fat girl disorder
signs include:
- asking one of your 100 "best friends" for advice daily which is always a consensus which is ignored.
- turning every small issue into a major one which centers around how fat and disgusting you are.
jbond5150 7 months ago
@jbond5150 are you kidding me? Go to Orange County, CA. You'll see many super hot girls who have this disorder. The more lipo and plastic surgery they get, the worse their disorder becomes.
MrTruthAddict 7 months ago
I was exposed to this disease for over 3 decades.It gets worse over time and destroys everyone and everything near it. The woman i knew was an out of control sex addict (350-500+ )people easily. She destroyed jobs, homes,friendships everything and still she saw nothing wrong with herself or her actions.She's almost 60 and more sick then she was 25.
enfieldbullet2011 7 months ago
junk science ! all people are attention seeking we are social animals ,someone needs to take on this crap from social science !
sausage4mash 8 months ago
@sausage4mash
Hey, do you have any idea how advanced this woman's qualifications are? She's a Doctor of Psychiatry. Not junk science. Real evidence-based science. Every medical establishment in the world recognises the diagnosis she's describing. Show some respect. Watch and learn.
emmabannenberg 6 months ago
@emmabannenberg Real science is sticking someone in a CAT scan ,you can't get reliable unbiased DATA from a Psychiatrist I mean how does anyone measure attention seeking ,by the subjective opinion of a Psychiatrist ?
sausage4mash 6 months ago
Snooky?
tdittyx2x3 8 months ago
This video is pretty depressing when you realize that you have hpd and she said nothing works to fix it. Kinda depressing right there or is it the condition? Is is what e realization of having a personality disorder is. Are you making these behavioral choices or is it the sickness. How do I know myself anymore
razeal18 8 months ago
This is my ex-boyfriend in a nutshell. he is so obsessed with people paying attention to him and will do anything to get it, including overdosing on pills. he was obsessed with modelling and acting for a while and now it seems like he has a new tattoo or hairstyle every week, even if they make him look like a total idiot. people make fun of him for these things but what he doesnt realize is that more than anyting he needs help.
weareallanemic 8 months ago
Sounds like my aunt. She takes the most normal interactions and turns them into huge dramas.
auntstacey123 8 months ago
Of all the comments I scanned through the majority of them contained horribly insolent statements that all professed the same ridiculously ignorant opinions - people with HPD are "crazy bitches" and/or "fucking annoying," and it's advised that you "stay away from them," which is basically advising they should be socially outcasted. Do any of you illiterate failures even know what a personality disorder is? Do you know what anything relating to -any- psychological disorder is? I've dealt with HP
UsagiWolf 8 months ago
I have blood in my urine, heart rate of 155, very low blood pressure, spinal injury, muscle spasms and the doc says It's a personality disorder. My ex husband was a sociopath so he created much drama and turned it on me. I was beat up and have had muscle spasms for a year.Finally my back gave out and I collapsed and my stomach is now in smasms along with my heart. I am finally frusterated at the doctors and so it's a personality problem.I hate attention and doctors yet I want attention ???
MsDezzyzRayz 9 months ago
I have one .. i have histrionic personality disorder ..
TheMarielmontalba 9 months ago
I think Paris Hilton suffers from this, ?????
bambolina2005 9 months ago
BTW it is SO easy to get sucked in by this intense 'emotionality' and neediness ... which traps any half-ways decent man into caring for a seemingly vulnerable woman, who is actually acting like a 3-5 year old child emotionally ... in my case a qualified veterinary surgeon ... which bears out the point that intelligence has nothing to do with it.
gerryhiles 9 months ago
I was in a 'relationship' with such a person for twelve years. Thanks to this video I finally understand how and why I got dumped and screwed.
gerryhiles 9 months ago
@stevenrmarcel
how is what i said a generalization?
it really describes 70% of the women i got to know, i didnt say "of all women everywhere", just the ones i met
i think if you d ask a woman, she d say that most men she met were less social than her, i dont know about anti-social though...forget about the greater autism spectre.
masturbators? well yes, yes we are, we all (men and women) are to dif degrees probably
4042516 9 months ago
@4042516 Good points. Agree with you.
gerryhiles 9 months ago
@stevenrmarcel There are specific criteria. Amazing this DSMV. If you had this you probably wouldn't know it you'd probably think that you were normal. A lot of people don't know they are ill. They're even surrounded by enablers in some dark corner like in a cult where interaction with outside world doesn't even happen. Who knows about those dark secrets in the corners light doesn't reach.
abby495 10 months ago
Damn, do I have that shi*. I mean, I'm usually the center of attention. I do get tired of people for reasons I believe to be understandable. I'm very emotional and I'm a little clingy at times. Oh well, it is what it is. And if there is no cure, why bother telling me. I bet God Knows the answer
Ambreia2930 10 months ago
If you're some too cool guy and you have a girlfriend that demonstrates ANY signs of HPD, and boys that's the trend these days in women, do yourself a favor. Get Out. Leave her. Snap out of it and break it off. The divorce industry is chalked full of those who would love to whisper in her ear all the rewards she'll receive if she divorces you. For you, it'll be all down hill from that point on.
worlukk 10 months ago
I have hpd... people who know about it right it off as a harmless personality disorder. but it really isn't. I'm as manipulative as an antisocial, as seductive as a hypersexual, and as emotional as someone with bpd.
KneezBees 10 months ago
well thats 11 out 10 women in the society
Auther4 10 months ago
I definitely have this. I try to seduce every girl I meet and always am the center of attention. Sometimes I'll release wild goats during a dinner party.
DanimalLawlz 11 months ago
not certain that this pertains only to women. I dated a man who could fall under this catagory; very attention seeking to making himself appear foolish He had a number of women stalking him. He was also very affectionate, but I couldn,t trust it because it was too much too soon. He never could make plans, never followed through with things and always had an excuse and lots of apologies for his behavior. Yup, I had to let him go. Very exhausting. No longer interested.
wlksupercrazy7 11 months ago
I see it as a form of manipulation or even sociopathy. I have seen people go to great lengths to please an HPD person or to cultivate an agreeable environment just to avoid having to deal with an episode.
In my experience worry is a form of emotional abuse and control.
agentspinnaker 11 months ago
Sounds like ADHD comorbid with borderline personality disorder. I've never heard of anyone getting a diagnosis of THIS disorder... -.-
AylaMM 11 months ago
Lol jiggy
hinessa 11 months ago
We used to call this disease;being a douchebag!!
jiggy14 11 months ago
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ohjujubeeme 11 months ago
seriously....this video describes 70% of the women i got to know since childhood.
at least 70%
4042516 11 months ago
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deenie216 1 year ago
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@Gormaoul, people can compensate as adults by struggling through their impulses to act in ways that are self-indulgent and destructive to others and by using their experiences to be extra attentive to the needs of others. How''s that for a reason to continue living?
deenie216 1 year ago
@Gormaoul, people can compensate as adults by struggling through their impulses to act in ways that are self-indulgent and destructive to others and by using their experiences to be extra attentive to the needs of others. How''s that for a reason to continue living?
deenie216 1 year ago
These are the most annoying people on the planet! Even when you ignore this trait, and still put up with them, they will find a way to drive you off. Even when you try to get away from them, they stalk you, annoy you, and in some cases when they're dumb, try to cover the fact they're a criminal, by showing you exactly where to look and expose them!
Dsmitherson 1 year ago
@Dsmitherson Sure, but Robin Williams and Jim Carrey probably used this disorder to their advantage
DanimalLawlz 11 months ago
@DanimalLawlz Probably, but I never made any comment about these folks. These are higher functioning people. People with this disorder who are also say, schizophrenic and are of lower intellect, are usually unable to use this to their advantage and are hard to like. Even if you want to, they drive everyone off with their maladaptive behavior. I know a girl like this; she's a nut job and refuses any help. She also doesn't see how it affects her kids and family in a bad way.
Dsmitherson 10 months ago
Bloody women a their histrionic personality disorder.
ogrish84 1 year ago
come to think about it, i know several people like this... Constantly lying about things that don't even benefit them and which make no sense. It's scary
Elfendied11 1 year ago
I lived with a histrionic girl in college. Had to put up with her faking sickness, broken arms, etc, constantly manipulating people including me, trying to be sexy to the point of being grotesque and even stealing
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Dsmitherson 1 year ago
Can't cure personality disorders, only hope people wake up to themselves
monarofreak 1 year ago
Oh my god. This is exactly my mum. D:
desertsonata 1 year ago
This was a friend of mine, who acted like a best friend, but constantly manipulated EVERYONE. Played the victim, got lots of sympathy...it took a lot of ppl awhile to figure it out, but she ended up exposing herself hardcore...the lies really started unravelling when she decided she wanted my husband...that's when EVERYONE figured it out because the things she lied about didn't even make sense anymore. I feel bad for her...but you can't help someone like that.
dw9559 1 year ago 7
@hydrogonian - Yes, but the anger they express is not faked. HPD and Narcissists revel in their anger. HPD can well be defined as a female or feminine personality disorder (gays), just as Narcissism is defined as male. It's a fair distinction although variants exist. HPD outnumbers NPD in the west, but HPD is generally more acceptable as a 'colorful personality type', while NPD can be more easily disquised or hidden, at least in the short run. Huge lack of empathy in each and are each dangerous.
JohnnyRock2000 1 year ago
Barely mentioned here is that it is a FEMALE disorder. When it involves men it is called NARCISSISM. It's purpose is MANIPULATION. The personality type SEEKS POWER and control, it's a learned behavior and it's a choice. The answer to the rest of us on how to deal with it is to RUN LIKE HELL from the incidence of the first outburst. Like narcissism it is rooted in very early childhood and almost impossible to change. Histrionic women and narcissistic guys overall love themselves. Run!
JohnnyRock2000 1 year ago
Being a whiny self-centered cunt?
Treatment: An ass whooping
Duh.
LliasiAsbi 1 year ago
@LliasiAsbi You're a complete idiot and a heartless piece of shit. You fail to recognize that these individuals history of being severely neglected, harassed, and/or abused throughout their child and/or adolescent lives and desperately need to compensate as adults just to feel some sort of value, some reason to continue living. They haven't even LIVED for god's sake.
Gormaoul 1 year ago
@Gormaoul I agree, it was a little far. But my sentiment remains the same. Truthfully, telling someone they have a disorder/problem/scar can in fact cause more damage than "healing".
We all tread through hardships. Sometime, you just have to man up and let the past be the past. Nurturing your scars is no good. You must forget them and move on, or learn from them.
There are real illnesses, then this. I have no tolerance for anyone who mistakes personality FLAWS with a mental illness.
LliasiAsbi 10 months ago
this does not appy at al uim exyreemly offeneded at having been diagnosed as such
terrylov5 1 year ago
This applies to half the girls I dated.
humbledcowboy 1 year ago
Sounds like the average high-schooler.
rottmist 1 year ago
My girlfriend was just diagnosis with HPD. Its very hard to deal with it. we are not even living togather right now.
twt2007 1 year ago
@twt2007 - Here is some advise. Get another girlfriend. HPD is a learned behavior from early childhood. Rarely cured. Break off all contact as if she were a serial killer. Run like hell. Your only defence.
JohnnyRock2000 1 year ago 24
@JohnnyRock2000 she will probably become bored of her boyfriend before he runs away so just let the relationship run its course and get whatever you can out of it. rofl she doesnt care if you run away, anyway. plenty of fish in the sea!
OdeToNecrophilia 1 year ago
@JohnnyRock2000 my exgirlfriend had disorder. threatened suicide, was absolutely crazy when we broke up and overall is the worst person i've ever met. this disorder is just an explanation for someone being a little bitch.
RuralUproar24 11 months ago
@RuralUproar24 Thank you Dr. Phil for that deep and insightful analysis. I couldn't for a moment imagine why someone dating you would be suicidal.
acr08807 5 months ago
She seems like a very interesting woman.
shimokita2 1 year ago
i ahve the complete the opposite of this disorder i would rather have this
live1234561 1 year ago
I know so many people like this. Can you get them medication or something its freakin anoying.
anticliche321 1 year ago
@anticliche321 just don't meet them, if you can't tolerate them.
As it was already mentioned in the video - psychotherapy might help (if they, of course, are self-motivated to it).
MartinLoronzo 1 year ago
If you doo a move like 1:56, too respond unmoved by the drama, you have to make yourself 110% shure that it's Histrionic disorder, and not BPD you are dealing with.
Those two disorders can look wery simmilar a wide range of settings, and if you deal with a BPD it will only furyate the BPD paitient, and it can turn int a wery ugly and negative spiral for the BPD paitient.
Snabelfaen 1 year ago
Huh. No wonder nobody's ever liked me. Also no wonder why I bawled during the end of the last Lord of the Rings movie.
TheBeatlesRoooock 1 year ago
she sounds condescending @ 1:21....
Amono646 1 year ago
SARAH PALIN
FastSailR 1 year ago
Well, teenagers actually display high levels or symptoms of naricism, histionism, antisocialism and borderlineism, sometimes a combination of several. In other words, the cluster B. It's perfectly natural to their developpement unless it sticks and intensifies once they cross into adulthood.
yantest 1 year ago
Sounds like almost every teenage girl!
AIMASTAN 1 year ago
For those who are familiar with Will & Grace, Sean Hayes' character on that show is the poster child of this personality disorder.
yantest 1 year ago 2
My ex had HPD. Notice how I said EX. Crazy bitch.
RuckaInc 1 year ago
@RuckaInc LOL!
Greensleeves1984 1 year ago
Sounds like Fred Phelps.
MichaelVoz 1 year ago
@MichaelVoz How???
05005051 1 year ago
@05005051 Fred Phelps seems to have this personality disorder, as well as some antisocial characteristics.
MichaelVoz 1 year ago
@MichaelVoz Oh yes. Sorry, I thought you meant the woman who's talking about it! I suppose you're right, Phelps could be said to have histrionic personaility disorder, but if he is I'd say it has overtones of a masochistic complex. : )
05005051 1 year ago
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We should put them all on a boat... lol
jampie06 1 year ago
damm im so proud being histrionic and narcissistic :)) don't know why but i love the way i am im so proud of me and i always gotta be the one the chosen the best...muahahaha but sometimes im tending to be evil muahaha...
MrSlimYoShady 1 year ago
people like you tend to be boring
Hiphopisntdead1 1 year ago
@Hiphopisntdead1 could be, but i can't do anything about it...cuz i like the way i am and everyone else seams to lioke me
MrSlimYoShady 1 year ago
@MrSlimYoShady
You're not funny, or clever, you are foolish and immature, you sound like an idiot.
Tayuya12611 1 year ago
@MrSlimYoShady cool story bro
Robocrat 1 year ago
I also feel its best to gradually point out these ppls symptoms from the disorder so they can relize when they are doing wrong a stop it themselves
newnimprovesT3 1 year ago
I ve read a lot of these comments and for the ppl saying why ppl w/ "disorders" are labeled n etc. its because normal ppl can live in harmony w/ each other they can live life w/o desiring constant attention and praise where as these ppl well cause harm to ppl that care for them
newnimprovesT3 1 year ago
i know someone who is exactly like this
foste328 1 year ago
Definitely one of the more annoying personality disorders...
kawaiitoboe 1 year ago 24
sounds exactly like me :(
cullysipes 1 year ago
sounds like Todd Anderson of Portland, Oregon.
78Divini 1 year ago
sounds like my ex-husband lol
GreenLucifer666 1 year ago
Very informative!
Theinsomniac826 1 year ago
@hotmessify, perhaps you ought to look to your own attitude
EyeLean5280 1 year ago
I love this woman!
EyeLean5280 1 year ago
She's Dr. Rhoda Hahn, she's not diagnosed with HPD. she's just discussing the symptoms of HPD.
yacebel 1 year ago
There's nothing wrong with her attitude. That's just how medical professionals are trained to talk - straightforward and clearly.
raveninaforest 1 year ago
hpd women are a PITA forr everyone they come in contact with outside of ppl they don't know and subsequentally entertain with their foolish drama antics in public, especially bars where they try to embarass men. they can be first class dumbasses.
dictionar1 1 year ago
LOL this is pathetic give me a break. Most of these signs can be connected to NPD, and then most of those signs, such as fear of criticism and rejection can be connected to APD...............etc etc etc..............and where do we get? nowhere, to the beginning of the circle.
We all have signs of personality disorders it seems, the only question is how extreme and far does it go......So obviously it is "normal" to have signs in an acceptive level
glutamin111 1 year ago
@glutamin111 hpd is closely related to npd. hpd is usu. found only in women. they use to have whats known as the "electra complex," but feminists had hissy-fits and removed it from the book.
dictionar1 1 year ago
@glutamin111 No there are people that literally have this and are complete drama whores and always doing very stupid stuff for attention. I know a guy who was diagnosised with this and it makes a lot of sense, because his life is messed up, he's completely disloyal to his wife, and always does something for attention even if it hurts him or makes him look really really bad.
78Divini 1 year ago
@78Divini
haha no shit you know a guy? ever thought about him just being a fucking idiot without giving him specialized medical names for his defective nature?
i know narcissistic personality disorder is very real. Other ones im not that interested in
glutamin111 1 year ago
you guys are F***kers I have this illiness and i didn*t wish for this to happen to me. yes I am very attention seeking and very irritating. i acted out just to get attention but i can still be very nice and live like a normal people.
Lingling610 1 year ago
caca
nat11311 1 year ago
looked promising but the audio quality just isn't up to snuff...passed on watching it
jahrleriksen 1 year ago
Srsly, avoid ppl with histrionic personality disorder; their loud and bombastic attitude is extremely grating on the nerves. I once had this classmate who would send me flirtatious msgs (despite her already having a BF), and yes, she is very manipulative as well (ppl with histrionic PD are extremely easy to "read"). Do not give them the attention that they seek; soon enough, they will learn to keep their distance from u.
melvinthedeathless 1 year ago
Hmm...there is always never a cure. : /
DrBCorwen 1 year ago
I can't help but to feel that many of the negative comments about this presentation, are made by people who haven't worked in a mental health setting before. Having worked as a mental health nurse for a while now, I can honestly say that patients with histrionic PD are the WORSE patients I have dealt with. This isn't a diagnosis that is given out haphazardly! Hopefully if any of you have met or dealt with anybody with HPD, you will be able to contextualise and undertsand this better. Great vid!
PhiskerHangers 1 year ago
@PhiskerHangers
I can totally agree with you and am totally convinced that I know a person with Histrionic PD. I HATE her guts. Lol I just don't give in to her little theatrics. The worst thing for her is to be left by herself, or more so, to be totally ignored when in the same room... hilarious.
bottledmalice 1 year ago
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bottledmalice 1 year ago
OK so every politician and person on TV is a fuckin' head case! so what?
kryckeestrooff 1 year ago
my brother must have this!
SoYahYah 1 year ago
That was my sister up until she died of a drug overdose at the age of 34 years old. She died on August 23, 2009. it's weird to listen to this description, it's like listening to a description of her and her life! It makes me sad.
shellyk411 1 year ago
HPD ftw!!
RotaryP7 1 year ago
thanks for the videos! im currently taking psychopathology and this is very helpful!
izzyliu88 1 year ago
Enlightening.
dspenc1 1 year ago
After looking at the comments on this video I am convinced that these personality disorders are based on culture/philosophy. Most of the comments focused on how pro-western culture/reason the asian lady was. There's also the idea that 'nearly everybodies crazy, so what?' as if things were always or have to be this way. It is disgusting to see such whimsical attitudes in play
clubsandwedge 1 year ago
@clubsandwedge Do you have Bi-Polar?
JollyMunkie 1 year ago
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clubsandwedge 1 year ago
sounds like my sister has histrionic disorder
arvoreen73 1 year ago
is this have any connection to bi polar?
DaddyPopsicleMCcrave 1 year ago
Everyone here saying that most people have this have obviously never known someone with this problem. Yeah, most people have a few part of this going, but imagine someone who has all of these personality traits, and *absolutely nothing more* Literally every single interaction they have with another human they gear towards getting attention and praise. They *do not care* about anyone but themselves. It is absolute *HELL* to live with them. It's like interacting with an alien trying to be human.
EvilSeedlet 1 year ago
@EvilSeedlet
The person I know acts like a spoiled, tantruming child. Like the kind you see on Super Nanny. UGH!!
bottledmalice 1 year ago
I think most people in my school's drama class have this.
lBlueShadowI 1 year ago