Sex is simply sex, insertion of a penis into a vagina. While making love is a totally different concept. Therefore, I will have meaningless sex for fun, but when the time comes, if and when, I do fall in love with a lady, it will have more meaning, that is when I will commit my life, soul, and heart to that one person, and sex will no longer be sex, but a union between me and my future wife. I don't expect her to keep her virginity for me either. It's called reality and 21st century =]
@curiousj120 its called the difference between moral and social sin! but anyway it is reality no doubt. Secularism has always accompanied unnecessary problems, you will no doubt compare your future wife with previous lays. but anyways Good Luck & God Bless~~~
@curiousj120 You have no idea how sad this is... Do you even know how much it hurts girls when you have meaningless sex with them and then things end? No. You probably don't. It's like having your arm ripped off. I don't care WHAT women say, we are all looking for love and acceptance. That can be disordered because of bad things that happen...but it's always the same. Think about some jerk tearing your future wife's heart out. I doubt you want that to happen. So maybe think about that next time.
@pain20000 You can only be so much, you can only do so much, you can only give someone so much. When it comes down to it, the greatest gift you can give, is all of you. Sex is a giving of your whole self. It is promising with your body that you have given yourself completely, wholly, truly to another person. Love is self-sacrificing (total giving of yourself). Pleasure should be a product of TRUE love. And no worries, if true love wasn't pleasurable, why would anyone want to truly fall in love?
I totaly agree with you! Sex is for married people only, but why is fornication exceptable? You know that everyone is having one night stands and also having sex in none married relationships, in real life and on TV & movies. Why do many make fun of virginity as it should glorified? I hear of no priest or minister condemning fornication today as too many want their freedom against God.
@RanMouri82 yah, because thats what i was taught. those emotions come and go along with the feelings, might as well enjoy when they come as long as you're honest with the ohter person what you're doing.
@delli2011 Being with someone only as long as it feels good seems really sad. It must hurt to have the other person lose interest and leave after sex. For many people, it happens the morning after.
@RanMouri82 yups, thats why you need to be careful who you do it with... having sex only in marriage and divorcing 6 months later as some have done is an even more worse thing in my opinion even though they could have saved themselves for marriage.
as a teen watching this, it makes perfect sense why I should save myself for marriage-besides, virginity is a gift you can only give once. Personally I'd prefer to give mine to someone who's willing to bind themselves to me through marriage, not someone who doesn't really love me.
Or, as they say in the 20th century: That shit is whack, bro. Sacrifice your desires and commit to live for the other person? That's slavery, or at best, servitude. If BOTH of you can get satisfaction from that, goodie. I wouldn't want a woman who doesn't have any ambitions of her own. You might want to let someone read these scripts before yoyu start filming, it would seem most of them are very poorly thought out.
I love be lectured, I mean counseled, about this subject by those who are choosing to wait (I assume, or they would be hypocrites) and thus have no base of knowledge to build from. This inexperience means they do not know if what they are preaching is best for them, let alone anyone else. This is coming from someone who waited for marriage. I see it very differently now that I have experienced sex. It is magical, but not sacred or godly as I was indoctrinated to believe.
@foodnetwerk Further, though you may love someone, that does not mean you should marry them. It takes much more than love to make a marriage work. It would be foolish to not fully investigate if you are compatible in all areas before making a commitment like marriage. Though we were virgins when we married, we both see it very differently with the experiences life has given us, and we would not have waited if we could do it over again. However, 9 years later we are happy despite these regrets.
"sex is only good true and holy, when you truly love each other"
True, sex is awesome when you're both in love. But marriage is not a condition for love. Nor is it for commitment. Marriage is promising something to "god". But if you think you wouldn't be able to hold a promise of commitment to anyone but to god, you're just kidding yourself. Or you're a really, really weak person.
@LouisvHarten The Catechism says: "The matrimonial covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament." So, it's a promise between the spouses before God that he assists us to live out through the graces of the sacrament.
@LouisvHarten Also, you said, "sex is awesome when you're both in love". I assume you mean, "when you love each other," right? Being "in love" is a feeling, whereas love is a promise and a virtue, lived out daily. Probably what you meant, but I thought I'd clarify.
@nikeplektrum Pretty sure they're full explication of axioms (the definition of love from the Catechism is: "To love is to will the good of another", and Jesus says "there is no greater love than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends"), followed by use of the substitutive property. One might contest the axioms taken as givens, or argue that they shouldn't be stated as "if-then" statements if they're not really conclusions, but I don't see fallacies here (although I'm not a logician)
Nnnngg. I'm struggling with this. We've kept chaste after a 6 year relationship. We're serious. It's such a challenge to not have sex before marriage and we're trying our best.. it probably won't be for another 4-5 years until we make plans to marry either.
But it's perfect timing for me to watch this video. Makes me take a step back for another chill pill. At least we're both on the same page when it comes to saving ourselves until marriage.
Great Great Great! I love your videos! So good. Thanks for not only spreading the Word and the Faith, but for not being afraid of putting your face with your words and beliefs. Courageous AND Catholics--gotta love you guys! =) May God richly bless you all for your work and your Faith in His Word and Church!!!!
what about the fact that the marital embrace is a *fulfillment* of those wedding vows... that it is free, total, faithful, and fruitful? YCM, you guys really rock- you're charming and witty, and I can't really expect a lot of depth in your short videos- but let's at least get out the big guns here, ok?
This is just not true. The best sex I have ever had was with a nasty girl that I didn't even like.
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Sex is simply sex, insertion of a penis into a vagina. While making love is a totally different concept. Therefore, I will have meaningless sex for fun, but when the time comes, if and when, I do fall in love with a lady, it will have more meaning, that is when I will commit my life, soul, and heart to that one person, and sex will no longer be sex, but a union between me and my future wife. I don't expect her to keep her virginity for me either. It's called reality and 21st century =]
curiousj120 4 months ago
@curiousj120 its called the difference between moral and social sin! but anyway it is reality no doubt. Secularism has always accompanied unnecessary problems, you will no doubt compare your future wife with previous lays. but anyways Good Luck & God Bless~~~
TheJazuma 3 months ago
@curiousj120 You have no idea how sad this is... Do you even know how much it hurts girls when you have meaningless sex with them and then things end? No. You probably don't. It's like having your arm ripped off. I don't care WHAT women say, we are all looking for love and acceptance. That can be disordered because of bad things that happen...but it's always the same. Think about some jerk tearing your future wife's heart out. I doubt you want that to happen. So maybe think about that next time.
kaitlynrae22 2 months ago
SO true this is a good video
WONDERWOMAN00557 4 months ago
Great job!
mikekc3 7 months ago
fuck that i wanna get laid why is it so important to wait tell marriage
the meaning of sex is pleaseuse
making love is different
pain20000 8 months ago
@pain20000 You can only be so much, you can only do so much, you can only give someone so much. When it comes down to it, the greatest gift you can give, is all of you. Sex is a giving of your whole self. It is promising with your body that you have given yourself completely, wholly, truly to another person. Love is self-sacrificing (total giving of yourself). Pleasure should be a product of TRUE love. And no worries, if true love wasn't pleasurable, why would anyone want to truly fall in love?
CatholicSuperFreak 4 months ago
@CatholicSuperFreak lok since then ive lost my virignity to a random person good by
pain20000 4 months ago
¿En algun sitio se pueden ver en español? Hay frases y cosas que no he entendedido y el video es muy chulo....
87RGM 8 months ago
I totaly agree with you! Sex is for married people only, but why is fornication exceptable? You know that everyone is having one night stands and also having sex in none married relationships, in real life and on TV & movies. Why do many make fun of virginity as it should glorified? I hear of no priest or minister condemning fornication today as too many want their freedom against God.
patsaxon 10 months ago
i used to think i only wanted a virgin, now i could care less and to me, waitingn till marriage seems abnormal
delli2011 10 months ago
@delli2011 Thanks for being honest. Do you know why you feel that way?
RanMouri82 8 months ago
@RanMouri82 yah, because thats what i was taught. those emotions come and go along with the feelings, might as well enjoy when they come as long as you're honest with the ohter person what you're doing.
delli2011 8 months ago
@delli2011 Being with someone only as long as it feels good seems really sad. It must hurt to have the other person lose interest and leave after sex. For many people, it happens the morning after.
RanMouri82 8 months ago
@RanMouri82 yups, thats why you need to be careful who you do it with... having sex only in marriage and divorcing 6 months later as some have done is an even more worse thing in my opinion even though they could have saved themselves for marriage.
delli2011 8 months ago
@delli2011 True, divorce is a major problem. Commitment's so important. That's what marriage is really about.
RanMouri82 8 months ago
as a teen watching this, it makes perfect sense why I should save myself for marriage-besides, virginity is a gift you can only give once. Personally I'd prefer to give mine to someone who's willing to bind themselves to me through marriage, not someone who doesn't really love me.
daisymall13 1 year ago 8
life is not a dress rehearsal...religion is a hoax
imcrazy85 1 year ago
A part of marriage is sex, and if it turns out , your spouse is no good is bed , then marriage might just not work out lol
Vladgirl27 1 year ago
Or, as they say in the 20th century: That shit is whack, bro. Sacrifice your desires and commit to live for the other person? That's slavery, or at best, servitude. If BOTH of you can get satisfaction from that, goodie. I wouldn't want a woman who doesn't have any ambitions of her own. You might want to let someone read these scripts before yoyu start filming, it would seem most of them are very poorly thought out.
Daealis 1 year ago
I love be lectured, I mean counseled, about this subject by those who are choosing to wait (I assume, or they would be hypocrites) and thus have no base of knowledge to build from. This inexperience means they do not know if what they are preaching is best for them, let alone anyone else. This is coming from someone who waited for marriage. I see it very differently now that I have experienced sex. It is magical, but not sacred or godly as I was indoctrinated to believe.
foodnetwerk 1 year ago
@foodnetwerk Further, though you may love someone, that does not mean you should marry them. It takes much more than love to make a marriage work. It would be foolish to not fully investigate if you are compatible in all areas before making a commitment like marriage. Though we were virgins when we married, we both see it very differently with the experiences life has given us, and we would not have waited if we could do it over again. However, 9 years later we are happy despite these regrets.
foodnetwerk 1 year ago
"sex is only good true and holy, when you truly love each other"
True, sex is awesome when you're both in love. But marriage is not a condition for love. Nor is it for commitment. Marriage is promising something to "god". But if you think you wouldn't be able to hold a promise of commitment to anyone but to god, you're just kidding yourself. Or you're a really, really weak person.
LouisvHarten 1 year ago
@LouisvHarten The Catechism says: "The matrimonial covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament." So, it's a promise between the spouses before God that he assists us to live out through the graces of the sacrament.
supermanerickj 1 year ago
@LouisvHarten Also, you said, "sex is awesome when you're both in love". I assume you mean, "when you love each other," right? Being "in love" is a feeling, whereas love is a promise and a virtue, lived out daily. Probably what you meant, but I thought I'd clarify.
supermanerickj 1 year ago
Lol, all connections that say marriage is required in this video are logical fallacies.
nikeplektrum 1 year ago
@nikeplektrum Pretty sure they're full explication of axioms (the definition of love from the Catechism is: "To love is to will the good of another", and Jesus says "there is no greater love than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends"), followed by use of the substitutive property. One might contest the axioms taken as givens, or argue that they shouldn't be stated as "if-then" statements if they're not really conclusions, but I don't see fallacies here (although I'm not a logician)
supermanerickj 1 year ago
Nnnngg. I'm struggling with this. We've kept chaste after a 6 year relationship. We're serious. It's such a challenge to not have sex before marriage and we're trying our best.. it probably won't be for another 4-5 years until we make plans to marry either.
But it's perfect timing for me to watch this video. Makes me take a step back for another chill pill. At least we're both on the same page when it comes to saving ourselves until marriage.
TadakoXIII 1 year ago
Great Great Great! I love your videos! So good. Thanks for not only spreading the Word and the Faith, but for not being afraid of putting your face with your words and beliefs. Courageous AND Catholics--gotta love you guys! =) May God richly bless you all for your work and your Faith in His Word and Church!!!!
CatholicSuperFreak 1 year ago
what about the fact that the marital embrace is a *fulfillment* of those wedding vows... that it is free, total, faithful, and fruitful? YCM, you guys really rock- you're charming and witty, and I can't really expect a lot of depth in your short videos- but let's at least get out the big guns here, ok?
punkpersonified 1 year ago
Great video. Very witty especially with the whole sweeping her off her feet lol.
You did a great job conveying the true meaning of marriage. Keep up the good work old sport!
RosarioFanBoy777 1 year ago
That was a clever analogy! Keep posting, guys!
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