hahahaha. so you're saying she's a "heterophobic" for speaking out against the discrimination of gays? well, i guess then, according to your homophobic right wing views, that means that the MILLIONS of white people who fought for black equality in the civil rights era HATE themselves and all other whites. you're an idiot who wants to move this country backwards.
@tessssTy are you saying that Kathy is doing this for personal gain?that she's not allowed to have an outline of her speech? Are you saying that only gay people have the right to fight for gay rights? If so, you're just as ignorant as the people who say that God hates gays. You have no right to judge her for trying to fight for something she believes in and you have no right to discredit her for giving everything her all. You don't know who she is, so where do you get off?
We have three great allies in showbiz out there...Kathy, Lady Gaga, and of course, Cyndi Lauper. These ladies have worked thanklessly so to them I say, thank you.
Kathy Griffin, Pro-Military advocate...? Really? I hope this helps people realize what this is really about. This is an anti-military movement, not a pro-homosexual one.
As a military member YOU CHOOSE to Support and Defend the Constitution! The military exists to fight WARS People! There are things you will not like to do, like orders you do not like. Deal with it! Is this really happening? Kathy Griffin?! Who is SHE to talk? A celebrity.
@hasanchez1 A powerful voice in the gay community is who she is. She's not even gay. Also, defending the Constitution and approving of a shameful law are two different things. Yes, there are things you won't like in the military, but hiding who you are shouldn't be one. Also, yes, the military is there is fight wars, but the individuals in the military are the ones fighting whether they are gay or straight, white or black (or other), male or female. IIRC, no one else is forced to hide themselves
Okay a lot of people don't understand what "don't ask, don't tell" does. Don't ask, don't tell protects the gay people in the Military, NOT the straight people. There are a lot of lets call them "rednecks" in the military if they found out someone was gay, they would hurt him or even kill them. But as long as they don't know, that person is safe.
@leahywi Correct me if I'm wrong, but my understanding was that the overturning of this policy gives gay men and women the oppurtunity to serve in the miliary while being openly gay. There is no law that says they have to come out if they don't want to, especially if they think it will endanger them in any way. And from what I've heard from any friends I have in the military, a lot of people know who is gay and who is not anyway.
Yes there are, and yet the USA has the best military and theres a reason for that, its because we concentrate and more important things like the mission over sex. Sex should be the last thing we are worried about, the defense of our families and home and the defensless should come first. Not whether you get to have your lover in the shower with you or not. Be gay and join,its cool I just dont want to know and I dont want you to tell me!
You continue to base your argument on assumptions, nothing about what you are saying can be proven. "Gay's only want sex" "Gays only want Tutu's for their uniform". Cut the bullshit and let's be real. There are already strict regulations that prohibit any form of sexual behavior in the military why would a gay soldier throw their career away for a cheap thrill. Place your ignorance to the side for a second. Why are you are entitled to benefits for taking bullets but some soldiers are not?
@Zinthaniel Why not leave it up to the soldiers and veterens who have and are now fighting for this country to decide, civilians shouldnt get a vote untill the have the guts to raise their hands. Why should it be fair for a gay person to live with a possible significant other when a straight person cant, or even shower with people that gay person is attracted to, why cant a straight guy shower with women
What you don't understand these same views have been seen time and time again. No blacks, No Asians, No this No That, No women!. We have gone down this road before to many times, this is nothing new. When will we learn that equality is not a question? Why should a gay soldier die in battle for country that doesn't even like him? You say "Well that was foolish of him" But the reality is it happens and it's happening. Gay soldiers are dieing for peoples rights to hate them. How sad is that?
@Zinthaniel Your not really comparring skin color to sexual preference are you? Plus with women it has to do more with men wanting to protect women and having at least one parent home for children, both of which gays could care less about.Its more about having two people with the same sexual interests sharing the same sleeping quarters.
@Zinthaniel Its like putting a female in with a bunch of males. Sex shouldnt be the thing now, theres soldiers dieing over there. Let all soldiers, saliors and veterens vote, civilians shouldnt have a say because they wouldnt raise their hand to fight for their country.
why do you keep bringing up sex? It has no relevance to the issue. Be an adult, get your mind out the gutter, and realize that this is about the right for a soldier to live at peace when living his PERSONAL life. There is no debate. Anyone who is willing to run into battle gay or straight deserves to have their valor respected. A gay soldier, man or women, works just as hard as a straight soldier. Why do we continue to spit in their face? Open your eyes! the answer is simple.
@Zinthaniel Grow up dont be so blind and stop avoiding the subject, dadt has nothing to do with skin color, its all about sex and relationships. You have two people who may be attracted to each other living in the same sleeping quaters and showering together, repealing dadt alows them to be together and be open about it while living and working with other soldiers around them. Women cant sleep and shower with straight men why should gays get too?No one said gays cant fight.
You're speaking out your ass pal. There are already strict regulations that forbid any form of fraternization or sexual conduct. So how exactly could a relationship be formed in the military? The only person here who needs to grow up is you. Your desperate wish to shower with women only reveals your own sick perversion. The homosexual community want the DADT repealed not for sexual reasons, but so they can live normal personal lives when away from the military without backlash.
@Zinthaniel You need to join then you would understand. Men and women have to follow regulations on fraternization and sexual condcut and women live in different sleeping areas and stuff still happens, now imagine if they lived together with others?Having two people whether gay or not living together with others, things will happen ,when attracted to each other.
@Zinthaniel You think everyone follows regulations and think that people only worry about their jobs and rules, lets look at the priesthood, lets see theres rules there, gee I wonder how gay preists are doing there, I guess you never hear anything about sex there yup rules are followed. They just want to serve and do their jobs, that sure hasnt given the Catholic church a bad name
The regulations are strictly enforced anyone who violates them are punished accordingly, I know this because my father is in the military. There are more charges against STRAIGHT priest molesting girls than there are against gay ones. So I guess by that statistic alone, heterosexuals should be banned from the military? A church and a Military is night and day there is no comparison. You desperately try to use bigot stances to defend your point, but each time you fail.
@Zinthaniel Uhmm funny you dont hear anything about straight preists compared to gay ones? And i'm using examples of places where theres rules and regulations. You still have the issues of two people living in a barracks with other soldiers and wanting a sexual or intimate relationship. No different then having a female and a straight male living together in the same barraks with other soldiers. We need to keep dadt or develope rules for gays living situations
Assumptions . Where does this belief that homosexuals want intimacy in the work place come from? You're obviously homophobic. Militaries that allow gay soldiers to live freely without constriction on their personal life, have YET to face any issues with their policy. Why would it be different for America? DADT policy prohibits a gay man or women from living at peace when they are home. Get over this perverted notion of yours, and see the bigger picture. Inequality is not right.
@Zinthaniel Wow you must be a civilian, you dont undestand, a soldiers job isnt 9 to 5 like yours, and they dont leave after work and go home to their significant other. A lot of soldiers have to live with the other guys including sleeping in the same room of 5 up to 20 other men all sleeping in bunkbeds, or on a ship, sleeping in very tight quarters. You dont get a private life.You need to see the real picture.
You're insufferable. I understand the concept of living on base completely. Get off your high horse, because any average civilian knows this. It's also no secret that soldiers do eventually get to go home, they do get periods of LEAVE. So when these gay soldiers go on leave, they job is at jeopardy if they are caught with their significant other. That is not right, they should be able to freely live at peace when at HOME. Again! you fail with your rebuttal. Inequality is not Right!
@Zinthaniel And thats the only part of DADT that is bad what they do when they get home is up to them and I dont want to know what they do. Change some of the rules to DADT but dont get rid of it totally.Having no rules at all is wrong also. You need to join so you would understand. There is a reason 90% of all soldiers are for dadt. And no civilains dont know, you watch on tv but you dont understand at all
Only 51% of the military opposes the repeal. Please refrain from pulling facts out of your ass and use legit resources. You're saying that the DADT policy should be amended to only prohibit any form of sexual deviancy or fraternization of gay soldiers while on duty or on base..etc. Wow, It's like the lights are on, but nobody is home. Again! there are already regulations that forbid sexual behavior and fraternization. DADT is a pointless policy. Wake up! Smell the roses. It's called inequality
@Zinthaniel Funny all the other soldiers I know and work with are pissed about the thought of repealing dadt?There are regulations but that has to do with women, remember as far as the army knows there is no gays in! There has to be rules of conduct for gay men living in sleeping arrangments in military barraks, like kissing or holding hands.Or how about get rid of dadt all together and let women join in the sleeping quarters and showers too, hell we are all soldiers right
You and the friends apart of that 51% Are you claiming to know every single soldier in every branch of this military? The regulations covers all forms of sexual behavior and fraternization, regarding both sexes. I know know this, not only because my father is in the military, but it has also been publicly discussed. The military is fully aware that there are gays serving, who do you think fooling? Get over perverted thoughts of women, and understand that you already shower with gay men.
@Zinthaniel So your saying its okay for a gay man to enter the military to fullfil his fantacies of showering with a bunch of men and be openly gay, but a straight guy cant shower with a bunch of women? And if your so sure on your figures why not let the soldiers and veterens decide on dadt, leave the politicans out of it.Dadt needs to be changed but there needs to be rules that are for gay men, maybe they need separate sleeping/showering arrangments.
Fulfill what fantasies? What gay man told you that was his fantasy? You're a bigot and you focus solely on self made allegations to support your argument. I've used facts through out this whole conversation. Gay soldiers are the ones being victimized here not you, their opinion is far more valuable than yours. They are the ones who die, and take bullets for this country. Survivors come home to bigotry, hate, and discrimination. On leave they have to hide in shadows to be with those they love.
@Zinthaniel There are less gay soldiers then straight, I would think the greater should out weigh the few. And they are okay to serve as long as they keep their private lives secret no one wants to know! And theres less hiding in shadows then you know. Why is it hard for you to let things be equal? Isnt that kinda hipocritical, that its okay for two gay men to be together and sleep in the same barracks or shower together but a straight man and women cant? Does a female body scare you that much?
A straight man can go on leave and love his women freely in public without a care in the world! His military benefits will not be revoked, his career will not be canned. Can we say the same for a gay soldier? Sadly we can not. Yes a straight man can not sleep with a women is his barrack, however, when allowed to leave base he can go butt wild, without caring who sees. A gay soldier must live a lie, day in day out. sex put aside, they can not love people they care about without being fired.
@Zinthaniel And thats where I agree with you there, they need to change dadt. Both sides need to give alittle, its called a compromise. Maybe house openly gay men and women away from straight men and women. I have a feeling if dadt is repealed that will rip our military apart. Its not right to force people to sleep with other people they uncomfortable with against their will because they fight for the USA. Both sides need to give alittle and politicans and celebs need to stay out of it
I guess that is understandable. However, I can only reiterate that other miltaries already allow openly gay soldiers to serve, and they have no issues with sexual harassment or fraternization. Still, with that said, we've argued long enough. Thanks for your understanding of what the bigger issue is regarding DADT, your concerns are also understandable. All in all, something has to be done to support EVERY soldier. It take a special kind of human being to be in the military, gay or straight.
@Zinthaniel I will agree with you there, and the other militaries are not our military, I have been in for over 20yrs and dont want to see the democrats in washington damage it, theres good people there. I think our country needs us all to get along, we are spread pretty thin now days. We need to work together and the more the better someone with different tastes will add a whole different point of view to a mission that may have not been seen by others.
I'm guessing you aren't happy DADT was repealed, I'm glad to see that it was and all the arguments like yours were put to rest. Even conservative republicans voted for it! Whoo.
@SebastienCade repeal it fine but at least have some rules governing gay conduct, or have male/female showers and sleeping quarters. Either way kathy is a nutcase, and should shut her big mouth
@gibletlover Not scared I know they are serving and I have friends who are gay, thats okay, its good to have them fight for their country also I just dont want to know about it or do I want to hear about what they do behind closed doors. I'm also saying if they can have their eye candy in the showers to look at so should straight guys and girls, fair is fair right?
@68chargerlover hahaha well you still sound homophic to me your talk about how you want seprate showers well sorry iam not going to go to a rosas parks age and fyi i dont think some of them want to look at your ding dong and by the way i have many straight male friends and they tell how many straight guys want to know the size of their friends penis course i would not so if you have insercurities about your self you need to well go to a surgen good luck its not changing.coco puff.
@gibletlover No I have no problems with gays serving and defending their country, infact I have some who are my friends,and i beleive dadt should have been changed or modified but not gotton rid of. I dont talk about my sex life to my fellow soldiers and I dont want to know theirs, its the mission thats top priority. And when two people who are attracked to each other M&F or M&M or F&F and LIVE and WORK TOGETHER trouble will happen.Straight soldiers dont live in the same quarters,Gays do!
@68chargerlover i understand what you are trying to say but I dont think you fully understand why everyone was so mad about dadt. First off, im a straight guy, but i fully agree with why dadt was frustrating for gays in the military. Its not talking about your sex life but that you cant even say that you have a bf or gf (being lesbian). if straight guys can talk about their gf and fiances, why can a gay talk about their lover??
@runnerboy081 So if its okay for gays to shower and sleep in the same quarters as sex they are attracked to or have feelings for why cant straight guys shower or live in the same quarters as females? does that seem unfair? I'm okay with repealing dadt but make it fair all around for all sexes, we are all soldiers male/female gay/straight. Have the same rules for everyone.
Kathy is nuts, shes like Obama and palosi. I dont think they should talk unless the have actually put their hands up saying they will die for their country. The decision for gay service should rest on all the soldiers, and veterens.The people against dont ask dont tell have never served.
@68chargerlover Are you blind? because I could have sworn that the soldier at the end of the video was not only against the policy, but also an actively serving in the military. Have you served yourself? What about the countless homosexual Americans who have put they hands up to die for their loved ones, and the many who have actually died? Did you forget about them?.. because I can assure you they are definitely against the policy.
@Zinthaniel Funny i'm in the military and I would say that 80% are for dadt.And the amount of gay soldiers who have fought for the country are very very little. If they repeal dadt then they should have unisex bathrooms, sleeping areas and showers for males and females. If a gay guy can sleep with a possible significant other or shower with what he likes to look at why cant a straight guy.Kathy should keep her big mouth closed unless she has actually fought for her country.
Your argument is Flawed. There are already gay service members in the military... more than you would believe, by the way. They are already taking showers next to heterosexual men. They are already sleeping in the bunk next to heterosexual men. Why is it such a far cry to ask for the right to live their personal lives without fear of dire consequences? Why? Lets be real here this has nothing to do with fears of being seen nude, it's homophobia at it's worst. Wake up, equality is not a question.
@Zinthaniel There are gays in the military I never said there wernt, but dadt keeps them from holding hands or kissing. Plus most gays in the military now arent flamboyant and you wouldnt know they are even gay. Tell me how it would go if a gay man anounced he is gay right before he goes in the shower, how would the straight guys act, would they stay in the shower or leave?If the get rid of dadt then they need to let males and females shower togther also make it fair for all.
There are already 25 militaries that allow openly gay men and women to serve in their ranks. None of them have had any problems. You can base your argument on a archaic "what if" hypothetical all day, I'm basing mine on facts. Over 15,000 gay soldiers, men & women, have been discharged due to this policy for being gay plain and simple. Many of them where highly specialized linguist or pilots. Millions of tax money thrown out the window. Try to evolve your mind, again equality is not a question.
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It bothers me how disrespectful towards others Ms. Griffin is. If you don't share her views, then you're a "nut bag".
Who do you think you are? You have a T.V. show. Big deal. Anyone with little or no respect for themselves can have a T.V. Show
It takes alot more to be elected and represent people. People like Michelle Bachman are actually making a difference in the world because the people from her district believe in her and the values she fights for.
I agree with you! tolerance is what we're after. I believe that Kathy is reaching for tolerance in her own way, but sometimes people are of those who are intolerant of them. In other words we want people to tolerate us but we don't want to tolerate them.
Michelle Bachman and Kathy Griffen are both tolerant people but are not tolerant of people who's views and opinions are different from theirs.
Any type of discrimination (intolerance) bothers me!!
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being Canadian and following this issue closely i remember it in 92 and it's the dumbest idea that Obama has.
It's worked fine.
It was put so well that they are in Iraq to defend a government who doesn't give them respect. If I heard the law was being repealed I would leave the millitary or get kicked out.
What an f-ing unjust and disgusting law. Dan you're amazing for keeping up the fight after going through so much! Thanks heaps Kathy for all the support, you're a trooper!
On you Kathy ! & Dan , am so proud of you doing this - have a friend in the military over there & hope this changes & makes life a bit easier for him.
It's such a dumb law - I know so many gay military in Australia & know they've been doing a damned good job. Good luck :)
yeahhh
eliote17 6 months ago
She looks like a man in bad drag.
MrBowhunter82 1 year ago
@gunzrkewl
hahahaha. so you're saying she's a "heterophobic" for speaking out against the discrimination of gays? well, i guess then, according to your homophobic right wing views, that means that the MILLIONS of white people who fought for black equality in the civil rights era HATE themselves and all other whites. you're an idiot who wants to move this country backwards.
AlmostaFlipinSkater 1 year ago 3
Kathy's awesome. Its a shame we have such douchbags making the decisions for this country.
cutes22 1 year ago
Again if you read from a script it does not make you credible!!
Again your not gay so you have no clue what your talking about!!
And if your only do this for personal gain just stop it you don't help the gay people!!
tessssTy 1 year ago
@tessssTy are you saying that Kathy is doing this for personal gain?that she's not allowed to have an outline of her speech? Are you saying that only gay people have the right to fight for gay rights? If so, you're just as ignorant as the people who say that God hates gays. You have no right to judge her for trying to fight for something she believes in and you have no right to discredit her for giving everything her all. You don't know who she is, so where do you get off?
DecadenceDawn 1 year ago
@tessssTy
Um straight supporters do far more for the gay community than any of us can do for ourselves. Kathy is amazing.
SebastienCade 11 months ago
We have three great allies in showbiz out there...Kathy, Lady Gaga, and of course, Cyndi Lauper. These ladies have worked thanklessly so to them I say, thank you.
ZHerman1129 1 year ago
Lt. Choi is pretty cute!!!
ch1aka2 1 year ago
Kathy Griffin, Pro-Military advocate...? Really? I hope this helps people realize what this is really about. This is an anti-military movement, not a pro-homosexual one.
sgtkpf 1 year ago
As a military member YOU CHOOSE to Support and Defend the Constitution! The military exists to fight WARS People! There are things you will not like to do, like orders you do not like. Deal with it! Is this really happening? Kathy Griffin?! Who is SHE to talk? A celebrity.
hasanchez1 1 year ago
@hasanchez1 A powerful voice in the gay community is who she is. She's not even gay. Also, defending the Constitution and approving of a shameful law are two different things. Yes, there are things you won't like in the military, but hiding who you are shouldn't be one. Also, yes, the military is there is fight wars, but the individuals in the military are the ones fighting whether they are gay or straight, white or black (or other), male or female. IIRC, no one else is forced to hide themselves
lordvalamor 1 year ago
Okay a lot of people don't understand what "don't ask, don't tell" does. Don't ask, don't tell protects the gay people in the Military, NOT the straight people. There are a lot of lets call them "rednecks" in the military if they found out someone was gay, they would hurt him or even kill them. But as long as they don't know, that person is safe.
leahywi 1 year ago
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leahywi 1 year ago
@leahywi Correct me if I'm wrong, but my understanding was that the overturning of this policy gives gay men and women the oppurtunity to serve in the miliary while being openly gay. There is no law that says they have to come out if they don't want to, especially if they think it will endanger them in any way. And from what I've heard from any friends I have in the military, a lot of people know who is gay and who is not anyway.
pescilinirosso 1 year ago
Kathy remains totally silent about the New World Order and the corrupt Frederal Reserve. She wouldn't dare to mention that...
Ranlon 1 year ago
WTF :S
gothiker 1 year ago
Yes there are, and yet the USA has the best military and theres a reason for that, its because we concentrate and more important things like the mission over sex. Sex should be the last thing we are worried about, the defense of our families and home and the defensless should come first. Not whether you get to have your lover in the shower with you or not. Be gay and join,its cool I just dont want to know and I dont want you to tell me!
68chargerlover 1 year ago
You continue to base your argument on assumptions, nothing about what you are saying can be proven. "Gay's only want sex" "Gays only want Tutu's for their uniform". Cut the bullshit and let's be real. There are already strict regulations that prohibit any form of sexual behavior in the military why would a gay soldier throw their career away for a cheap thrill. Place your ignorance to the side for a second. Why are you are entitled to benefits for taking bullets but some soldiers are not?
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Why not leave it up to the soldiers and veterens who have and are now fighting for this country to decide, civilians shouldnt get a vote untill the have the guts to raise their hands. Why should it be fair for a gay person to live with a possible significant other when a straight person cant, or even shower with people that gay person is attracted to, why cant a straight guy shower with women
68chargerlover 1 year ago
What you don't understand these same views have been seen time and time again. No blacks, No Asians, No this No That, No women!. We have gone down this road before to many times, this is nothing new. When will we learn that equality is not a question? Why should a gay soldier die in battle for country that doesn't even like him? You say "Well that was foolish of him" But the reality is it happens and it's happening. Gay soldiers are dieing for peoples rights to hate them. How sad is that?
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Your not really comparring skin color to sexual preference are you? Plus with women it has to do more with men wanting to protect women and having at least one parent home for children, both of which gays could care less about.Its more about having two people with the same sexual interests sharing the same sleeping quarters.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Its like putting a female in with a bunch of males. Sex shouldnt be the thing now, theres soldiers dieing over there. Let all soldiers, saliors and veterens vote, civilians shouldnt have a say because they wouldnt raise their hand to fight for their country.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
why do you keep bringing up sex? It has no relevance to the issue. Be an adult, get your mind out the gutter, and realize that this is about the right for a soldier to live at peace when living his PERSONAL life. There is no debate. Anyone who is willing to run into battle gay or straight deserves to have their valor respected. A gay soldier, man or women, works just as hard as a straight soldier. Why do we continue to spit in their face? Open your eyes! the answer is simple.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Grow up dont be so blind and stop avoiding the subject, dadt has nothing to do with skin color, its all about sex and relationships. You have two people who may be attracted to each other living in the same sleeping quaters and showering together, repealing dadt alows them to be together and be open about it while living and working with other soldiers around them. Women cant sleep and shower with straight men why should gays get too?No one said gays cant fight.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
You're speaking out your ass pal. There are already strict regulations that forbid any form of fraternization or sexual conduct. So how exactly could a relationship be formed in the military? The only person here who needs to grow up is you. Your desperate wish to shower with women only reveals your own sick perversion. The homosexual community want the DADT repealed not for sexual reasons, but so they can live normal personal lives when away from the military without backlash.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel You need to join then you would understand. Men and women have to follow regulations on fraternization and sexual condcut and women live in different sleeping areas and stuff still happens, now imagine if they lived together with others?Having two people whether gay or not living together with others, things will happen ,when attracted to each other.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel You think everyone follows regulations and think that people only worry about their jobs and rules, lets look at the priesthood, lets see theres rules there, gee I wonder how gay preists are doing there, I guess you never hear anything about sex there yup rules are followed. They just want to serve and do their jobs, that sure hasnt given the Catholic church a bad name
68chargerlover 1 year ago
The regulations are strictly enforced anyone who violates them are punished accordingly, I know this because my father is in the military. There are more charges against STRAIGHT priest molesting girls than there are against gay ones. So I guess by that statistic alone, heterosexuals should be banned from the military? A church and a Military is night and day there is no comparison. You desperately try to use bigot stances to defend your point, but each time you fail.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Uhmm funny you dont hear anything about straight preists compared to gay ones? And i'm using examples of places where theres rules and regulations. You still have the issues of two people living in a barracks with other soldiers and wanting a sexual or intimate relationship. No different then having a female and a straight male living together in the same barraks with other soldiers. We need to keep dadt or develope rules for gays living situations
68chargerlover 1 year ago
Assumptions . Where does this belief that homosexuals want intimacy in the work place come from? You're obviously homophobic. Militaries that allow gay soldiers to live freely without constriction on their personal life, have YET to face any issues with their policy. Why would it be different for America? DADT policy prohibits a gay man or women from living at peace when they are home. Get over this perverted notion of yours, and see the bigger picture. Inequality is not right.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Wow you must be a civilian, you dont undestand, a soldiers job isnt 9 to 5 like yours, and they dont leave after work and go home to their significant other. A lot of soldiers have to live with the other guys including sleeping in the same room of 5 up to 20 other men all sleeping in bunkbeds, or on a ship, sleeping in very tight quarters. You dont get a private life.You need to see the real picture.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
You're insufferable. I understand the concept of living on base completely. Get off your high horse, because any average civilian knows this. It's also no secret that soldiers do eventually get to go home, they do get periods of LEAVE. So when these gay soldiers go on leave, they job is at jeopardy if they are caught with their significant other. That is not right, they should be able to freely live at peace when at HOME. Again! you fail with your rebuttal. Inequality is not Right!
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel And thats the only part of DADT that is bad what they do when they get home is up to them and I dont want to know what they do. Change some of the rules to DADT but dont get rid of it totally.Having no rules at all is wrong also. You need to join so you would understand. There is a reason 90% of all soldiers are for dadt. And no civilains dont know, you watch on tv but you dont understand at all
68chargerlover 1 year ago
Only 51% of the military opposes the repeal. Please refrain from pulling facts out of your ass and use legit resources. You're saying that the DADT policy should be amended to only prohibit any form of sexual deviancy or fraternization of gay soldiers while on duty or on base..etc. Wow, It's like the lights are on, but nobody is home. Again! there are already regulations that forbid sexual behavior and fraternization. DADT is a pointless policy. Wake up! Smell the roses. It's called inequality
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Funny all the other soldiers I know and work with are pissed about the thought of repealing dadt?There are regulations but that has to do with women, remember as far as the army knows there is no gays in! There has to be rules of conduct for gay men living in sleeping arrangments in military barraks, like kissing or holding hands.Or how about get rid of dadt all together and let women join in the sleeping quarters and showers too, hell we are all soldiers right
68chargerlover 1 year ago
You and the friends apart of that 51% Are you claiming to know every single soldier in every branch of this military? The regulations covers all forms of sexual behavior and fraternization, regarding both sexes. I know know this, not only because my father is in the military, but it has also been publicly discussed. The military is fully aware that there are gays serving, who do you think fooling? Get over perverted thoughts of women, and understand that you already shower with gay men.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel So your saying its okay for a gay man to enter the military to fullfil his fantacies of showering with a bunch of men and be openly gay, but a straight guy cant shower with a bunch of women? And if your so sure on your figures why not let the soldiers and veterens decide on dadt, leave the politicans out of it.Dadt needs to be changed but there needs to be rules that are for gay men, maybe they need separate sleeping/showering arrangments.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
Fulfill what fantasies? What gay man told you that was his fantasy? You're a bigot and you focus solely on self made allegations to support your argument. I've used facts through out this whole conversation. Gay soldiers are the ones being victimized here not you, their opinion is far more valuable than yours. They are the ones who die, and take bullets for this country. Survivors come home to bigotry, hate, and discrimination. On leave they have to hide in shadows to be with those they love.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel There are less gay soldiers then straight, I would think the greater should out weigh the few. And they are okay to serve as long as they keep their private lives secret no one wants to know! And theres less hiding in shadows then you know. Why is it hard for you to let things be equal? Isnt that kinda hipocritical, that its okay for two gay men to be together and sleep in the same barracks or shower together but a straight man and women cant? Does a female body scare you that much?
68chargerlover 1 year ago
A straight man can go on leave and love his women freely in public without a care in the world! His military benefits will not be revoked, his career will not be canned. Can we say the same for a gay soldier? Sadly we can not. Yes a straight man can not sleep with a women is his barrack, however, when allowed to leave base he can go butt wild, without caring who sees. A gay soldier must live a lie, day in day out. sex put aside, they can not love people they care about without being fired.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel And thats where I agree with you there, they need to change dadt. Both sides need to give alittle, its called a compromise. Maybe house openly gay men and women away from straight men and women. I have a feeling if dadt is repealed that will rip our military apart. Its not right to force people to sleep with other people they uncomfortable with against their will because they fight for the USA. Both sides need to give alittle and politicans and celebs need to stay out of it
68chargerlover 1 year ago
I guess that is understandable. However, I can only reiterate that other miltaries already allow openly gay soldiers to serve, and they have no issues with sexual harassment or fraternization. Still, with that said, we've argued long enough. Thanks for your understanding of what the bigger issue is regarding DADT, your concerns are also understandable. All in all, something has to be done to support EVERY soldier. It take a special kind of human being to be in the military, gay or straight.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel I will agree with you there, and the other militaries are not our military, I have been in for over 20yrs and dont want to see the democrats in washington damage it, theres good people there. I think our country needs us all to get along, we are spread pretty thin now days. We need to work together and the more the better someone with different tastes will add a whole different point of view to a mission that may have not been seen by others.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
@68chargerlover
I'm guessing you aren't happy DADT was repealed, I'm glad to see that it was and all the arguments like yours were put to rest. Even conservative republicans voted for it! Whoo.
SebastienCade 11 months ago
@SebastienCade repeal it fine but at least have some rules governing gay conduct, or have male/female showers and sleeping quarters. Either way kathy is a nutcase, and should shut her big mouth
68chargerlover 11 months ago
@68chargerlover your still saying support dadt beacuse iam still scared of homosexuals. thats all your sentences say.
gibletlover 7 months ago
@gibletlover Not scared I know they are serving and I have friends who are gay, thats okay, its good to have them fight for their country also I just dont want to know about it or do I want to hear about what they do behind closed doors. I'm also saying if they can have their eye candy in the showers to look at so should straight guys and girls, fair is fair right?
68chargerlover 7 months ago
@68chargerlover hahaha well you still sound homophic to me your talk about how you want seprate showers well sorry iam not going to go to a rosas parks age and fyi i dont think some of them want to look at your ding dong and by the way i have many straight male friends and they tell how many straight guys want to know the size of their friends penis course i would not so if you have insercurities about your self you need to well go to a surgen good luck its not changing.coco puff.
gibletlover 7 months ago
@gibletlover No I have no problems with gays serving and defending their country, infact I have some who are my friends,and i beleive dadt should have been changed or modified but not gotton rid of. I dont talk about my sex life to my fellow soldiers and I dont want to know theirs, its the mission thats top priority. And when two people who are attracked to each other M&F or M&M or F&F and LIVE and WORK TOGETHER trouble will happen.Straight soldiers dont live in the same quarters,Gays do!
68chargerlover 7 months ago
@68chargerlover i understand what you are trying to say but I dont think you fully understand why everyone was so mad about dadt. First off, im a straight guy, but i fully agree with why dadt was frustrating for gays in the military. Its not talking about your sex life but that you cant even say that you have a bf or gf (being lesbian). if straight guys can talk about their gf and fiances, why can a gay talk about their lover??
runnerboy081 1 month ago
@runnerboy081 So if its okay for gays to shower and sleep in the same quarters as sex they are attracked to or have feelings for why cant straight guys shower or live in the same quarters as females? does that seem unfair? I'm okay with repealing dadt but make it fair all around for all sexes, we are all soldiers male/female gay/straight. Have the same rules for everyone.
68chargerlover 1 month ago
Kathy is nuts, shes like Obama and palosi. I dont think they should talk unless the have actually put their hands up saying they will die for their country. The decision for gay service should rest on all the soldiers, and veterens.The people against dont ask dont tell have never served.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
@68chargerlover Are you blind? because I could have sworn that the soldier at the end of the video was not only against the policy, but also an actively serving in the military. Have you served yourself? What about the countless homosexual Americans who have put they hands up to die for their loved ones, and the many who have actually died? Did you forget about them?.. because I can assure you they are definitely against the policy.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel Funny i'm in the military and I would say that 80% are for dadt.And the amount of gay soldiers who have fought for the country are very very little. If they repeal dadt then they should have unisex bathrooms, sleeping areas and showers for males and females. If a gay guy can sleep with a possible significant other or shower with what he likes to look at why cant a straight guy.Kathy should keep her big mouth closed unless she has actually fought for her country.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
Your argument is Flawed. There are already gay service members in the military... more than you would believe, by the way. They are already taking showers next to heterosexual men. They are already sleeping in the bunk next to heterosexual men. Why is it such a far cry to ask for the right to live their personal lives without fear of dire consequences? Why? Lets be real here this has nothing to do with fears of being seen nude, it's homophobia at it's worst. Wake up, equality is not a question.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
@Zinthaniel There are gays in the military I never said there wernt, but dadt keeps them from holding hands or kissing. Plus most gays in the military now arent flamboyant and you wouldnt know they are even gay. Tell me how it would go if a gay man anounced he is gay right before he goes in the shower, how would the straight guys act, would they stay in the shower or leave?If the get rid of dadt then they need to let males and females shower togther also make it fair for all.
68chargerlover 1 year ago
There are already 25 militaries that allow openly gay men and women to serve in their ranks. None of them have had any problems. You can base your argument on a archaic "what if" hypothetical all day, I'm basing mine on facts. Over 15,000 gay soldiers, men & women, have been discharged due to this policy for being gay plain and simple. Many of them where highly specialized linguist or pilots. Millions of tax money thrown out the window. Try to evolve your mind, again equality is not a question.
Zinthaniel 1 year ago
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It bothers me how disrespectful towards others Ms. Griffin is. If you don't share her views, then you're a "nut bag".
Who do you think you are? You have a T.V. show. Big deal. Anyone with little or no respect for themselves can have a T.V. Show
It takes alot more to be elected and represent people. People like Michelle Bachman are actually making a difference in the world because the people from her district believe in her and the values she fights for.
What about "Tolerance" Ms. Griffin?
Athlon76 2 years ago
I agree with you! tolerance is what we're after. I believe that Kathy is reaching for tolerance in her own way, but sometimes people are of those who are intolerant of them. In other words we want people to tolerate us but we don't want to tolerate them.
Michelle Bachman and Kathy Griffen are both tolerant people but are not tolerant of people who's views and opinions are different from theirs.
Any type of discrimination (intolerance) bothers me!!
layne85 2 years ago
I dont think people understand that the Bible is not the law of the land.
MrZebraZombie 2 years ago 17
@MrZebraZombie THANK YOU! I don't get it when I see protesters holding up bibles at anit-gay marriage/rights rallys its like wtf?!?
phantomtristan 2 years ago
They need to keep their fairytales and imaginary friends to themselves.
MrZebraZombie 2 years ago
I love Kathy. I freaking love her so much. Right on, woman.
ZenixTriquetra 2 years ago 3
EQUALITY!!! c'mon people...is it really so difficult?!?
RCasto 2 years ago 14
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being Canadian and following this issue closely i remember it in 92 and it's the dumbest idea that Obama has.
It's worked fine.
It was put so well that they are in Iraq to defend a government who doesn't give them respect. If I heard the law was being repealed I would leave the millitary or get kicked out.
garycalgary 2 years ago
What an f-ing unjust and disgusting law. Dan you're amazing for keeping up the fight after going through so much! Thanks heaps Kathy for all the support, you're a trooper!
HisNameIsJoey 2 years ago 8
"Peace out, you cuckoo puff"
lol Kathy couldn't be more perfect
drearyroads 2 years ago 40
@drearyroads HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA best ever!
QueerSwede1 1 year ago
@drearyroads a classic line lol
QueerSwede1 1 year ago
@drearyroads A classic line! hahahahahaha
QueerSwede1 1 year ago
"I am still speaking out, I am still serving my country and I am still gay." POW.
Thanks for uploading this, MetroWeekly!
AutomaticTLC 2 years ago 34
This makes no sense. You were a POW or you are a POW. Please elaborate.
noclip14 2 years ago
@noclip14 POW as in "POW, I SOCKED YOU IN THE MOUTH WITH MY POWERFUL COMMENT."
Not prisoner of war.
AutomaticTLC 2 years ago
@AutomaticTLC
I see, like old-school batman
noclip14 2 years ago
@AutomaticTLC
i love your user name
flymarco2 1 year ago
@AutomaticTLC made me cry
souljaLOVE 1 year ago
Thank you Kathy
fatkidbuu 2 years ago 6
On you Kathy ! & Dan , am so proud of you doing this - have a friend in the military over there & hope this changes & makes life a bit easier for him.
It's such a dumb law - I know so many gay military in Australia & know they've been doing a damned good job. Good luck :)
mhdickson 2 years ago 6
that's so awesome! Keep on the good fight!
winec00ler 2 years ago 7