i think the difference is that back in somalia, there were guidelines to how boys and girls interacted, but these days, everywhere not just western countries, people take it a bit too far, you can be friends with the opposite gender, the problem i think the elders have is promiscuity becoming a norm among young somali-which wasnt the case in somalia, people could be friends, close friends, but if they really cared about each other, they commit themselves to marriage.
u kno what suprise me tho .....how people say they hate somalian"s.......i mean les face it all of u who viewed this video are somalians and all u say is .."u hate somalians" wow
on 3:59 did she just said what is wrong with going to a night club..... She is discrease to somalians uuuuuf nayaaa clubs is for people whi have no respect for themselves.....that dancing at night u were talking about it was culturalll it wasant just to get laid...
I think people should stop disrespecting the lady in the green. She is just making valid points about the environment our parents and grandparents were raised in. It is a DISCUSSION after all. I do not think she compared dhanto to clubs by the way! She is a decent, hardworking and educated eedo masha'Allah. A real asset to the Somali community in Australia. P.s made respect to the eedo wearing Red!!
I hate somalis and their judgmental attitude! They don't look after themselves and look like a bunch of immigrants! You know Islam says look after your appearances but I guess they forget that and focus on War and Killing! I hate them! the old generation because they destroyed the country so there is nothing left for the you generations to come.
@munir2020ful Why are you so quick to generalize. You see a group of black people killing someone so all black people are killers. You see a group of Mexicans stealing money so all Mexicans are thieves. I suggest you take a course in "common sense 101" have a good day.
Is there any somali guy who will marry a somali girls who dated all kinds of guys. Only scavenger will marry a slut who went through dozens of men. In the west dating is equal to a free sex + WHY BUY THE COW IF YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE? ... Islam and somali culture protects girls from usury........ it's the choice of the somali girls if they want to be honored or to be used as sex object..... all i know is no whore with dirty mouth will be my wife - cuz i will not get marry from the west!
Somali women have all always been the freest of all muslim women & still is inside somalia today..u will be surprised if u go there today..u think u in the west,no kidding(ofc with the exception of the less than 20% shabab controls).It's only in the west u encounter some strictness among somalis,I can understand their concern,but send thm back home few yrs & see wat u come up with!!!
too much control creates psycological problems..think about dat.gender mixing has always been & still is very normal in somalia.Girls & boys see each otha openly(chat,go together,date)in somalia today...go check for urslv.It all depends on how u carry urslv....talking honestly & smartly to ur children is better than heavy handedness.Stability at home & 2 parents plays a big role on their upbringing.Consult with therapists(doctors) & don't be fanatic,it might work againest U.
i think no need to go to night club ,its for beer and kiss and then u can guess and all this stuff is prohibited so she should stay at home instead and have have fun by her own
Okay but that was in SOMALIA, this is the West you have to protect yourself from everything out them, Somalia is a muslim country you didn't have to be afraid of anything back then.
Islam is the last stable institution of the nuclear family. Take a look at the so called" free Western societies and you see where there man made values have ended them up; Rotten spoiled fat evil spirited youth who don't know who there fathers are, women walking freely like dogs on the street, scantily clothed like hookers, 99.9% divorce rate... And the list can go on. In Islamic societies for example, we are saved from gender confusion. The identity of a man and woman are very clear cut!
Excuse us.. interperetor/ translator... I think you should n't be the one who is translating for these People... unfortunately your are "KISS ASS" baised... and I am telling you lady DON NOT EVER DO that any more if you dont want be fair and say what is being said'''' you are lucky .. that I am not the one who you were interperetor for''
I'm white and I don't think I would corrupt anyone, all muslim families are different, all of my Muslim friends are allowed to go out but if you ask them about boys they don't even think about them. It's all about trusting your kids.
Muslims who come to the west have to be very careful when they bring their children because the western culture is very satanic and will corrupt your children. The culture of America, Canada, Australia, Europe any place white people live and rule will make your childen rebel against your wishes because the white people our rebels against Allah and have been that way for a 6,000 years. I'm a Black American Muslim man and I have lived in their culture all my life and I know their history.
@ShabazzAllah1 takbieer allahu akbar. Exactly bro. This is Allah;s Law . And it cannot be compromised by any man made retarded culture... Not even evil satanic white civilisation.
The world has changed i cant agree with ppl saying girls should go uit or not teach ur kids how they can be honest and carefull i have kids girls and boys i relate with the mothers. Some how when i look 10 years back when i used to go out my self it was fun but now !by the way my parents teached me to be honest and they gave me space ( not too much) coz when u limit the fun the kid is gonna do bad things when he/she gets a chance!! Allah ilmaha hanotoshiyo amin!!!
rofl about the mom detailn what the girl should do after school, pray, do her homework and read the Quran.You know Somali moms are not that strict its all game. How many times does my mom say that to me. I turned out fine, university graduate and workn on my masters inshallah.Wallahi its all about being able to assimilate to the West without compromising your religious values.Have faith in your kids build an open relationship and always know what they are doing,through communication
Walahi they are good moms, they might be strict from the outside but their straight up teddy bears, no one gives unconditional love then your mom. The Somali culture back home is incredibly diffferent but it wasnt that strict from what Ive been told. You can befriend boys you grow up with but they dont want you hanging out with them too much. Plus, Somali men(back home) are straight up aggressive, they dont know when to leave girls alone
Plus they dont want their girls to have a rep. even if the parents know their innocent about this, the parents will scare them strict. We gotta look at the intentions of the Somali parents, itès coing from a good place. However, the west is a big society, anonemity is ineveitable. For a girl to talk to a Somali boy, its not like a family friend or someone from your family will see you. I think good talk about dating and sex will stop the behaviour. Theres no shame in that.
Allahu akbar masha alalh wlh Hooyada garbasarta gaduudan wadato waxey sheegta sida saxda eh hadii aan maskaxda ka shaqeysinane arintaas waxaa hubaal eh in uu gaal iyo muslimba isku raacayo qatarta ay leedahay dumar galigood meelaha habeenki wareego dhanka kale qoftaan ku heyso shaneemo baan gali jirnay iyo rag baan la dheeli jirnay dee taas daliil diini eh ma'ahan adiga hadad sameysayne ma'ahan micnaha in ay tahay arin wanaagsan waagas waad qaldaneed ee ilahaygi ku soo hanuuniyay ku mahdi ...
hahahah What the hella is wrong with this laday she is saying , Girls used to dance with boys before at Rural Area, and what is wrong girls to go night clubs and have fun... am saying go and send to ur daughters to night clubs and don't do FITYO....
i think once we use to have country and there was thousands of foreigners lived in our country but we never forced them to learn our culture so they have to respect our culture and the way we opbringing our girls we want best for them and no one nose whats best for a child than a mother no socialwoker or comunity group
@bureeqa6666 social workers are there to give power to the kids over their parents and to kick the father out of the house, few false allegations from the kids=the father is screwed and out the door...the mother is shltting in her pants fear of losing the kids to social workers.. now who's in control of this house hold... thats right ''THE KIDS'' the government loves this shyt all they have to deal with knw is the kids lol.. strong families=trouble 4 the gov.. population control if u ask me.
Great, like to see strong Somali mothers, worried about their children. keep your children in a firm grip and don't let the world and the devil and the streets take them from you. keep them in line and disciplined.
honestly these moms r deluted, no offence moms but whatever u say, ur lil gurls will go out n have bfs eithers, i reckon moms who control their daughters usually never win. i dnt get it, al these thngs were norml in somalia, then sudently we came to west thn parents get paranoid n become control freaks. never control ur kids, thats my advice, or they will go behind ur back n do al bad thngs, honestly.. best option is talk wit ur child, vry simple. dont pirison them in the house & tke fredom away
THIS IS VERY USEFUL VIDEO.. I HAVE A QUESTION FOR THESE MOMS EVEN THOUGH I AM AGAINST THE WHOLE IDEA OF GF/BF TOOCOZ OF THE ISLAMIC SECTOR BUT I JUST WANA ASK, what if i love a guy and we both want future nd marriage from each other, how are we suppose to get to know each other? u knw like his personality, future goals and his imman (faith),all that... i mean it aint like u can just marry anyone u meet or that says he love u! LOL some one give answer pls
the strengest thing is the lady who is interprating oo hadana gaalada la jirta. Waligeedba taas soomalida waalagu yaqaanay. marwaliba waxay lasafataa shisheeyaha.
@suraj905 i think she is a young gal and she dont know much about the
somali culture or even Islamic religion. She was just paying attention to the fun the kids should have, may be she will understand better when she grows older why our culture and religion is ALWAYS SUPERIOR.
@kakumazone5 I'm sorry that you called this lady young. She is no young, she is enough mature woman. I'm 19yo and i've never been to Somalia even Africa, i live in U.S.A. But i'm aware my Culture, i learned my language. Look at her face when she speaks English Sanka ayey taagaysaa. She thinks that she is way better than others who can speak English. She makes me sick, what an idiot girl!
Lol@sometimes their values(the kids) might be different the your values (the parents) but thats okay, because they have to learn about different cultures..Kulaha...Loooooooooool somalida ayanay aqoon! poor cadan miskinad
hey i'm somali and I have somali girl friend... waxyaabahaan oo kale aniga madax xanuun aa ka qaadaa wallahi, sidee horta gabar lagu baranaa hadii ee banaaka u soo bixin?? goormaa la is shukaansadaa?
masha allah waxaan tagersanahay mamma da waayo gabar wiilal ku faraq xirato ama habeenki suuqyada wareege gabar mahan gabar waa tii gurigeeda ku jirto kana adegto walidkena wax ka maqasho hadii ay intaas aheen god hakaaga jirto amaba yeeysan kuu dhalanba viva mamooyinka somaliyeed ee wanaagsan
I think people confuse between Bf/Gf and date so in somali community its quit different coz date has his own style and there's always gap between the couple and they always focus on future and how they'll get marry..but in B/f there's no gap at all the couple can do anything they want and they don't talk about marriage or long relationship coz the guy thinks this girl is player while he doesn't judge himself first so its cultural conflict that no one will mary a playgirl but a playboy is okey
mujahid thats true but its wrong to be too strict to ure children because you don't want them to feel imprinsoned == know ure limits but do not opress !
I dont get why havin' a bf is haraam...how the hell do u get married then?!...do u randomly pick a guy..without even datin'?!? thats just a BIG fkn MISTAKE!
handledare ....who said you cant have a boyfrienf ........enjoy your self my dear bad things only for bad people since you dont want to listen to good people's advice .
Listen to that translator..she compared night clubs to somali tradition dances between girls and guys...she must have lost her mind...how do u compare night club where all kinds of people who drink, might have HIV go there to a traditional reer miyi dancings....you wouldnt believe how some of the somali girls here act and dress and hang out with...parents need 2 get hold of their children esp. the girls...i hate 2 see my beautiful sisters with dirty foriegners or lost their culture and religion
handledare..i dnt have children...and ofcourse i have 2 worry about other people's children if they are Muslims..what affects another muslim affects all muslims...Muslims are one family...
my moms as strickt as you can possibly get but even she knows that its not forbidden to talk to guys, there's nothing wrong with a little socialization as long as both genders are out in the open and not by them selves.
i think parents should be worried, there's so many cases of teenage pregnancy, drug abuse and gang violence, if teenagers where just allowed their way with things i garantue you the somali comunity would be ruined.
our religion and culture is the only way forward :)
i think the translator lady is a bit absent minded to say the least.
its not the same in newzeland, australia or anywhere else in the modern world, back in those days in somalia there was something called "sharaf" and obedience to parents, so even if there where teenage druming and dancing in the moon light, they wouldnt go around touching, kissing and sleeping with eachother like the modern kids do nowadays.
i mean im 19 years old i have enough authority to speak on what kids do nowadays.
IM SOOOOO HAPPPY SHE AIINT MY MOOM!!!! REALLY!!! DAMN AM A SHEIKH GURL AND I PRAY AND RESPECT MY PARENTS BUT I HAVE A FREEDOM TO GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS(girls)! MY MOM TRUSTS ME BUT DAMN SIT IN MY ROOM ALL DAY DOING WHAT??????? THIS IS 2009 they are so 2000 late!
i find this Really harsh I know you having a boyfriend and doing certain things with is zina but thw women talking is sort of being a hypercrit like the somali culture dancing with the drum and Tbh Myself My Mum Does not trust me as much to go out with my friend i have to tell who and where were going but tbh sometimes i jst go out because i cant be kept in the house i have to go out and face the world
dhaqankii somaliyeed wuxuu isugu jiray wax wanaagsan iyo wax xun, markaa waxan ay soo daliishanayso ee ah ciyaar ragga dumarku wada ciyaaro habeenkii iyo timo la goosto iyo cinema la aado waa wax laga soo gudbay...... Mar kastnana dhaqanka Diinta islaamka loo eegayaa, dhaqankii Diinta Islaamka ka soo horjeedaa dhaqan maaha .
Hooyooyinka somaliyeed hambalyo sida aad u difaacaysaan dhaqanka iyo diinta.
@:45 WTH? Wth is that white lady saying? IN A NEW CULTURE? NEW CULTURE? We don't sell our values for some kaffir cultures SORRY! I am sure there are many people who are into this, but they are lost. But Alhumdulillah many are awakes! Alhumdulillah! More Muslimeen and Muslimeenah are becoming more practicing now Alhumdulillah. That includes me Alhumdulillah. EAT UR TRASH CULTURE! We don't need it! We have Islam to know what to do. Even our own backward cultures are to be rejected too! Islam only!
Waxaa mahad sanid leeyahey qofka inoo soo galiyey cajaladani waxaan madax u ahey urur la dagaalama dad dhaqan roga wada oo uu cadow-ga isticmaalo markii horey shacabka u maan heen wax can oo tusaya in qof kuu eg kulana luuqad ah in ey dhaqan rog wadaan maanta waxaan heley cadeen cad. cajaladani waan kaa duubaney karaali ahow walaal hadaad ka xumaatey waa wax umada eey u baah need in ey indhahooda ku arkaan goobaha aan dalka kuleey nahey oo idil baa lagu daabadaa ilaah hanaga qabto cadowga
The misunderstanding between the Somali parents and their kids lies what sort of relationship they share, you when they brought these kids to the west some of the parents still want to treat the kids as if they are in back home. What they need to realize is that this aint Somalia. They also need to teach them about Islam and the good things about the Somali culture but instead they teach them about qabiil and all that kind stuff may allah bless Somalis in exile.
I'm Sudaneese and my mom is exactly like the woman in the orange tobe. She doesn't let me go see movies with my friends and I'm eighteen years old. My friends at school complain about their parents setting their curfew until one in the morning! I'm a good kid, and my parents are lucky that I'm not going to act like Britney Spears or something when I move out, most kids who are imprisoned partake in ridiculous acts of rebellion.
lmfaoo thank God she ain't my mom... she jst way 2 strict on things looool.... plus da funny part bout dis iz dos parents who r so strict on their kids tend 2 be more wild and sneaky lol so idk wht she talkin bout doing homework n in ur room... more lyk jail room loooool
DHANTA dad jahiliin ah oo reer badiyo ah aa ciyaarijiray, hada diitaa lafahmay, yaa kuu baneeay in nin iyo naag isla daansaan abaayo, ILLAHY ka cabso oo toobad keen.
Actually.. that lady whos weearing the Orange thing! Is been very honest bout her openion.. and It's tru that Having Bf/Gf is not allowed in our calture. There is sthg called " Shukaansi" it's kind of date and hunging around and bullshi**, Cuz sex is not allowed with out not been married.. !! Cuz we are Muslims, and we have to do acording to our relgion.
u idiot hahah! having a boyfriend dosent mean u are sexually active...my mum told me that she had a boyfriend at the age of 16 but the only thing they ever did was talk and thats it
handledare..your mother was wrong if she had a boyfriend...But the term boyfriend today and what she meant is different....relationship like that is forbidden..if it was allowed..women wouldnt be ordered 2 cover their hair and body and men wouldnt be ordered to lower their gaze..so i dnt knw what your mother was..but she was wrong....dnt make the same mistake..
my mother was not wrong because she did not go behind her parents backshe was allowed to have a boyfriend but she did not go out with him they mostly stayed at her house jst talking..... nothing bad with that????
lady with da orange scarf THANK GOD YOUR NOT MY MUM =D i understand her concerns tho but i think shes being a litle 2extreme anyway thats my opinion .. nice video =D x
This is a very important document that reflects the realiy of somali people's lives. I understand the worries of the parents and their concerns. I also can relate to how the young ones must be feeling. However, i think too often, too much unnecessary control is placed on somali kids. We all know from exp that when that happens one will break laws. I have 5 nieces who r very decent grls with hijaab and if their friends r having a party, they go and come back on agreed time. Its all abt trust.
I'm 23 and I came to the west when I was 7 years old, and I completely understand where the parents are coming from with their concerns and they're rights,,,,,,,Somali girls are actually given more freedom than compared to the other Muslim girls,,,,, Too much freedom damages ones respect for their religion and culture- and this is really the case we see in the west,,,,,,
Dhaanto done by men and women is haram just like going to the club,,,,,it's nonsense to justify going to club because the elders used to go to dhaanto.,,,,,The parents realised what they used to do is wrong and against our religion, and therefore they don't their to take the same or worse path they took themselves,,,,,,I didn't like the woman who was doing the interpretation,,she lack the essence of Islamic values even though she may only be wearing a headscarf,,,,
i really think the same, and dat lady she not only lack of essence of Islamic values but she can't even interpret properly or maybe she done it intentionally like if she's a shamed of what that Hooyo was saying
God help Ciyaalkeena wadanada gaalada ku nool runti brain wash ba la raba in lugu wada sameeyo , aaway Dhaqanki iyo Islaaminimadi iyo iixtraamki dadka naga wa wayn an o haynay we have the best Culture and the best traditions we dont need some CADDAN Lady to lecture us pisssssssssssss lugu yiri
its not easy 2 translate from english 2 somali man some tymz it doesnt make sense lols...i ave a problem wif dat when hooyo askz me 2 read 4 her 4real lols..but then again ur righ she keep laughin when ever the layz speakz in somali.. wat a cheeky cow
I'm sure every somalia girl at one point has been with a boy. It is understanding that it's against our culture and religion. We hade from out parents u dont mention the guy untill he is ready to marry u...we all do wat we want to do outside of the house right.
haraam, haraam, haraam ... an ignorant somali mother, she might even think that circumcising her daughter is not haraam... if she doesn't respect human rights Somalia is probably a better place for her...As regards somali culture I would really like to know what makes them proud to be Somalis?
First of all please don't insult the somali mother for how would you like it if yours was insulted? And circumcission is not haram the extent that the somalis go to IS haram. Everyone is proud of their culture for it has good as well as bad, What i like about my culture is that parents are respected....
circumcission for MALES is not haram, but no were in the religion is there found any sort of justification of any degree of circumcission on females, if u say so, than do produce your hadiths and ayas,if you can't than don't speak of it or it is counted as bidca(inovation), just a friendly advice:) too many somalis/ppl tend to speak on things they hear from others and regard it as facts,,,,, it never killed anyone to dobble check;) As-salamu alaikum
This is a very interesting topic, to see parents giving their perspective on this is very interesting to me. However, with all due respect these are "wishful" thinking. People are going to date regardless, we as somalis focus on just creating a perfect out of everything. This is not going happen. Rather they should focus on how not to cross the boundaries. When it comes to the religion, socalising of genders is haraam.
i think the difference is that back in somalia, there were guidelines to how boys and girls interacted, but these days, everywhere not just western countries, people take it a bit too far, you can be friends with the opposite gender, the problem i think the elders have is promiscuity becoming a norm among young somali-which wasnt the case in somalia, people could be friends, close friends, but if they really cared about each other, they commit themselves to marriage.
Msclaritygreen 4 months ago
u kno what suprise me tho .....how people say they hate somalian"s.......i mean les face it all of u who viewed this video are somalians and all u say is .."u hate somalians" wow
sacdiyo2 4 months ago
on 3:59 did she just said what is wrong with going to a night club..... She is discrease to somalians uuuuuf nayaaa clubs is for people whi have no respect for themselves.....that dancing at night u were talking about it was culturalll it wasant just to get laid...
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I think people should stop disrespecting the lady in the green. She is just making valid points about the environment our parents and grandparents were raised in. It is a DISCUSSION after all. I do not think she compared dhanto to clubs by the way! She is a decent, hardworking and educated eedo masha'Allah. A real asset to the Somali community in Australia. P.s made respect to the eedo wearing Red!!
Tuuwba 5 months ago
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Tuuwba 5 months ago
God bless these mothers!
BF/GF is foreign to Somali culture and foreign to Islam!
somalification 5 months ago 3
I hate somalis and their judgmental attitude! They don't look after themselves and look like a bunch of immigrants! You know Islam says look after your appearances but I guess they forget that and focus on War and Killing! I hate them! the old generation because they destroyed the country so there is nothing left for the you generations to come.
munir2020ful 7 months ago
@munir2020ful Troll.
myassin2009 4 months ago
Somalis thinks they are SOO good and above everyone else ! Reality check you don't even have a country anymore cause you lot destroyed it!
munir2020ful 7 months ago 5
@munir2020ful Why are you so quick to generalize. You see a group of black people killing someone so all black people are killers. You see a group of Mexicans stealing money so all Mexicans are thieves. I suggest you take a course in "common sense 101" have a good day.
myassin2009 4 months ago
@munir2020ful SO WERE IS THE HORN OF AFRICA WERE.....????? IS IT IN A FAIRYTALE IS THE FUCKING MAP LYING?
Ayan716 3 months ago
They go to a country, but refuse to assimilate........wow
Spiziked23 7 months ago
Somali people need to understand Black culture not only Somali culture.
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Is there any somali guy who will marry a somali girls who dated all kinds of guys. Only scavenger will marry a slut who went through dozens of men. In the west dating is equal to a free sex + WHY BUY THE COW IF YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE? ... Islam and somali culture protects girls from usury........ it's the choice of the somali girls if they want to be honored or to be used as sex object..... all i know is no whore with dirty mouth will be my wife - cuz i will not get marry from the west!
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IIdhuuq 8 months ago
Somali women have all always been the freest of all muslim women & still is inside somalia today..u will be surprised if u go there today..u think u in the west,no kidding(ofc with the exception of the less than 20% shabab controls).It's only in the west u encounter some strictness among somalis,I can understand their concern,but send thm back home few yrs & see wat u come up with!!!
nololwacan 9 months ago 3
too much control creates psycological problems..think about dat.gender mixing has always been & still is very normal in somalia.Girls & boys see each otha openly(chat,go together,date)in somalia today...go check for urslv.It all depends on how u carry urslv....talking honestly & smartly to ur children is better than heavy handedness.Stability at home & 2 parents plays a big role on their upbringing.Consult with therapists(doctors) & don't be fanatic,it might work againest U.
nololwacan 9 months ago
i think no need to go to night club ,its for beer and kiss and then u can guess and all this stuff is prohibited so she should stay at home instead and have have fun by her own
mariam370 9 months ago
Okay but that was in SOMALIA, this is the West you have to protect yourself from everything out them, Somalia is a muslim country you didn't have to be afraid of anything back then.
Somalivlogger 9 months ago
Islam is the last stable institution of the nuclear family. Take a look at the so called" free Western societies and you see where there man made values have ended them up; Rotten spoiled fat evil spirited youth who don't know who there fathers are, women walking freely like dogs on the street, scantily clothed like hookers, 99.9% divorce rate... And the list can go on. In Islamic societies for example, we are saved from gender confusion. The identity of a man and woman are very clear cut!
uqiimu 9 months ago
Excuse us.. interperetor/ translator... I think you should n't be the one who is translating for these People... unfortunately your are "KISS ASS" baised... and I am telling you lady DON NOT EVER DO that any more if you dont want be fair and say what is being said'''' you are lucky .. that I am not the one who you were interperetor for''
lascanodsaaxdheer 10 months ago
muslims are retarded
honchoryanc 10 months ago
I'm white and I don't think I would corrupt anyone, all muslim families are different, all of my Muslim friends are allowed to go out but if you ask them about boys they don't even think about them. It's all about trusting your kids.
brittanywigston 10 months ago
Muslims who come to the west have to be very careful when they bring their children because the western culture is very satanic and will corrupt your children. The culture of America, Canada, Australia, Europe any place white people live and rule will make your childen rebel against your wishes because the white people our rebels against Allah and have been that way for a 6,000 years. I'm a Black American Muslim man and I have lived in their culture all my life and I know their history.
ShabazzAllah1 11 months ago 2
@ShabazzAllah1 takbieer allahu akbar. Exactly bro. This is Allah;s Law . And it cannot be compromised by any man made retarded culture... Not even evil satanic white civilisation.
uqiimu 9 months ago
lool I feel sry 4 who eva translates for somali mother. I skip half of what ma mum sayz. Kkkkk
aliya5 1 year ago
The world has changed i cant agree with ppl saying girls should go uit or not teach ur kids how they can be honest and carefull i have kids girls and boys i relate with the mothers. Some how when i look 10 years back when i used to go out my self it was fun but now !by the way my parents teached me to be honest and they gave me space ( not too much) coz when u limit the fun the kid is gonna do bad things when he/she gets a chance!! Allah ilmaha hanotoshiyo amin!!!
SuperSweetgirl4ever 1 year ago
rofl about the mom detailn what the girl should do after school, pray, do her homework and read the Quran.You know Somali moms are not that strict its all game. How many times does my mom say that to me. I turned out fine, university graduate and workn on my masters inshallah.Wallahi its all about being able to assimilate to the West without compromising your religious values.Have faith in your kids build an open relationship and always know what they are doing,through communication
Jiggahata1 1 year ago
Walahi they are good moms, they might be strict from the outside but their straight up teddy bears, no one gives unconditional love then your mom. The Somali culture back home is incredibly diffferent but it wasnt that strict from what Ive been told. You can befriend boys you grow up with but they dont want you hanging out with them too much. Plus, Somali men(back home) are straight up aggressive, they dont know when to leave girls alone
Jiggahata1 1 year ago
Plus they dont want their girls to have a rep. even if the parents know their innocent about this, the parents will scare them strict. We gotta look at the intentions of the Somali parents, itès coing from a good place. However, the west is a big society, anonemity is ineveitable. For a girl to talk to a Somali boy, its not like a family friend or someone from your family will see you. I think good talk about dating and sex will stop the behaviour. Theres no shame in that.
Jiggahata1 1 year ago
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Jiggahata1 1 year ago
Allahu akbar masha alalh wlh Hooyada garbasarta gaduudan wadato waxey sheegta sida saxda eh hadii aan maskaxda ka shaqeysinane arintaas waxaa hubaal eh in uu gaal iyo muslimba isku raacayo qatarta ay leedahay dumar galigood meelaha habeenki wareego dhanka kale qoftaan ku heyso shaneemo baan gali jirnay iyo rag baan la dheeli jirnay dee taas daliil diini eh ma'ahan adiga hadad sameysayne ma'ahan micnaha in ay tahay arin wanaagsan waagas waad qaldaneed ee ilahaygi ku soo hanuuniyay ku mahdi ...
socdaal 1 year ago
hahahah What the hella is wrong with this laday she is saying , Girls used to dance with boys before at Rural Area, and what is wrong girls to go night clubs and have fun... am saying go and send to ur daughters to night clubs and don't do FITYO....
xakiin6 1 year ago
i m somali and i have 5 girl friends hahaha
abaaycanshuur 1 year ago
i think once we use to have country and there was thousands of foreigners lived in our country but we never forced them to learn our culture so they have to respect our culture and the way we opbringing our girls we want best for them and no one nose whats best for a child than a mother no socialwoker or comunity group
bureeqa6666 1 year ago
@bureeqa6666 social workers are there to give power to the kids over their parents and to kick the father out of the house, few false allegations from the kids=the father is screwed and out the door...the mother is shltting in her pants fear of losing the kids to social workers.. now who's in control of this house hold... thats right ''THE KIDS'' the government loves this shyt all they have to deal with knw is the kids lol.. strong families=trouble 4 the gov.. population control if u ask me.
2008flawless 1 year ago
Great, like to see strong Somali mothers, worried about their children. keep your children in a firm grip and don't let the world and the devil and the streets take them from you. keep them in line and disciplined.
Gutsyndicate 1 year ago
somalida wax baa ka qaldan hadii an les shukaansan waa la walan laha sow ma ahan islanta kulaha gabadha yeysan bixin yaab wlhi
zilfaana 1 year ago
No shukaansi NO boyfriend heheheheheheheheehe
zilfaana 1 year ago
Cold Bloooded!!
syrianpitbull 1 year ago
debate kan oo kale iney ka qeyb galaan maba ahan lol
Ahmedabdi207 1 year ago
Lol I love my mum so much....I think that she's right about the bf/gf thing but I mean
sitting at home all day...that's just wrong and eqaul to prison.
RahmaCadeey 1 year ago
@RahmaCadeey awwwww is that ur situation atm?
krazie400 1 year ago
@krazie400 And my situation also!!!!
WhenBordomTakesOver 1 year ago
@krazie400 lol yup
RahmaCadeey 1 year ago
ilahow hooyoyinkeen ino daa masha allaha
ShamisQalanjo 1 year ago
honestly these moms r deluted, no offence moms but whatever u say, ur lil gurls will go out n have bfs eithers, i reckon moms who control their daughters usually never win. i dnt get it, al these thngs were norml in somalia, then sudently we came to west thn parents get paranoid n become control freaks. never control ur kids, thats my advice, or they will go behind ur back n do al bad thngs, honestly.. best option is talk wit ur child, vry simple. dont pirison them in the house & tke fredom away
Falisia11 1 year ago
lol.. A bunch of hypocrites
Casha16 1 year ago
THIS IS VERY USEFUL VIDEO.. I HAVE A QUESTION FOR THESE MOMS EVEN THOUGH I AM AGAINST THE WHOLE IDEA OF GF/BF TOOCOZ OF THE ISLAMIC SECTOR BUT I JUST WANA ASK, what if i love a guy and we both want future nd marriage from each other, how are we suppose to get to know each other? u knw like his personality, future goals and his imman (faith),all that... i mean it aint like u can just marry anyone u meet or that says he love u! LOL some one give answer pls
Falisia11 1 year ago
the strengest thing is the lady who is interprating oo hadana gaalada la jirta. Waligeedba taas soomalida waalagu yaqaanay. marwaliba waxay lasafataa shisheeyaha.
suraj905 1 year ago
@suraj905 i think she is a young gal and she dont know much about the
somali culture or even Islamic religion. She was just paying attention to the fun the kids should have, may be she will understand better when she grows older why our culture and religion is ALWAYS SUPERIOR.
kakumazone5 1 year ago
@kakumazone5 I'm sorry that you called this lady young. She is no young, she is enough mature woman. I'm 19yo and i've never been to Somalia even Africa, i live in U.S.A. But i'm aware my Culture, i learned my language. Look at her face when she speaks English Sanka ayey taagaysaa. She thinks that she is way better than others who can speak English. She makes me sick, what an idiot girl!
suraj905 1 year ago
Lol@sometimes their values(the kids) might be different the your values (the parents) but thats okay, because they have to learn about different cultures..Kulaha...Loooooooooool somalida ayanay aqoon! poor cadan miskinad
Somaliyad 1 year ago
Dhaqan kiinii ha ilaawina Soomaaliyeey, diintina na ha ilaawina, wayo labadaa wax baa ininka nigu muuhiimsan.
shishisennin 2 years ago
hey i'm somali and I have somali girl friend... waxyaabahaan oo kale aniga madax xanuun aa ka qaadaa wallahi, sidee horta gabar lagu baranaa hadii ee banaaka u soo bixin?? goormaa la is shukaansadaa?
sxb5551 2 years ago
I think that everybody have the right to enjoy because life is too short.
We are in USA, loool
placegoumayoo2 2 years ago
Right on hooyo's and aabo's.. Speak ur minds,,,, but then again do we ever listen? NO!!!!! We need BF's so we can become moms n dads just like y'all
siham2110 2 years ago
loool dis somalian womans r fresh 2 da limit lik lool hahaHAHA
TYSON6123 2 years ago
masha allah waxaan tagersanahay mamma da waayo gabar wiilal ku faraq xirato ama habeenki suuqyada wareege gabar mahan gabar waa tii gurigeeda ku jirto kana adegto walidkena wax ka maqasho hadii ay intaas aheen god hakaaga jirto amaba yeeysan kuu dhalanba viva mamooyinka somaliyeed ee wanaagsan
jinooleey1 2 years ago 3
waa hilib biisil gabadhu looooooooooooooooooooool
guled1 2 years ago 2
I think people confuse between Bf/Gf and date so in somali community its quit different coz date has his own style and there's always gap between the couple and they always focus on future and how they'll get marry..but in B/f there's no gap at all the couple can do anything they want and they don't talk about marriage or long relationship coz the guy thinks this girl is player while he doesn't judge himself first so its cultural conflict that no one will mary a playgirl but a playboy is okey
kartoonle 2 years ago 14
mujahid thats true but its wrong to be too strict to ure children because you don't want them to feel imprinsoned == know ure limits but do not opress !
reapowerover1 2 years ago 9
I dont get why havin' a bf is haraam...how the hell do u get married then?!...do u randomly pick a guy..without even datin'?!? thats just a BIG fkn MISTAKE!
MaRiiaN69 2 years ago
maria kkkkkkkk walal ure wrong lol boy/girlfriend is not permissable
reapowerover1 2 years ago
boyfriend is haraam....................but how will you know who you are marrying if you dont date?
siish 2 years ago 2
true say MujahidSomali. we muslims are 1 ummah we are united we should care about 1 and another........
Malikha86 2 years ago
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SoMa4lifeA 2 years ago
handledare ....who said you cant have a boyfrienf ........enjoy your self my dear bad things only for bad people since you dont want to listen to good people's advice .
freelife111 2 years ago
Listen to that translator..she compared night clubs to somali tradition dances between girls and guys...she must have lost her mind...how do u compare night club where all kinds of people who drink, might have HIV go there to a traditional reer miyi dancings....you wouldnt believe how some of the somali girls here act and dress and hang out with...parents need 2 get hold of their children esp. the girls...i hate 2 see my beautiful sisters with dirty foriegners or lost their culture and religion
MujahidSomali 2 years ago 3
you need to stop worying about other peoples children and just take care of yourself
handledare 2 years ago
handledare..i dnt have children...and ofcourse i have 2 worry about other people's children if they are Muslims..what affects another muslim affects all muslims...Muslims are one family...
MujahidSomali 2 years ago
just worry about yourself....
handledare 2 years ago
OMG
Reqrezentin 2 years ago
my moms as strickt as you can possibly get but even she knows that its not forbidden to talk to guys, there's nothing wrong with a little socialization as long as both genders are out in the open and not by them selves.
i think parents should be worried, there's so many cases of teenage pregnancy, drug abuse and gang violence, if teenagers where just allowed their way with things i garantue you the somali comunity would be ruined.
our religion and culture is the only way forward :)
RedSeaCoral 2 years ago
i think the translator lady is a bit absent minded to say the least.
its not the same in newzeland, australia or anywhere else in the modern world, back in those days in somalia there was something called "sharaf" and obedience to parents, so even if there where teenage druming and dancing in the moon light, they wouldnt go around touching, kissing and sleeping with eachother like the modern kids do nowadays.
i mean im 19 years old i have enough authority to speak on what kids do nowadays.
RedSeaCoral 2 years ago
gabar hadana wiil loo ogoleen in eey wil sxb la noqoto bartio soo lagama yaabo sideeey gbadha ugu daba wareegayaan in eey lesbian noqdaan
gurmad 2 years ago
IM SOOOOO HAPPPY SHE AIINT MY MOOM!!!! REALLY!!! DAMN AM A SHEIKH GURL AND I PRAY AND RESPECT MY PARENTS BUT I HAVE A FREEDOM TO GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS(girls)! MY MOM TRUSTS ME BUT DAMN SIT IN MY ROOM ALL DAY DOING WHAT??????? THIS IS 2009 they are so 2000 late!
ayaniix3 2 years ago
i find this Really harsh I know you having a boyfriend and doing certain things with is zina but thw women talking is sort of being a hypercrit like the somali culture dancing with the drum and Tbh Myself My Mum Does not trust me as much to go out with my friend i have to tell who and where were going but tbh sometimes i jst go out because i cant be kept in the house i have to go out and face the world
muna044 2 years ago
that is the right think to do it
kaalay02 2 years ago
dhaqankii somaliyeed wuxuu isugu jiray wax wanaagsan iyo wax xun, markaa waxan ay soo daliishanayso ee ah ciyaar ragga dumarku wada ciyaaro habeenkii iyo timo la goosto iyo cinema la aado waa wax laga soo gudbay...... Mar kastnana dhaqanka Diinta islaamka loo eegayaa, dhaqankii Diinta Islaamka ka soo horjeedaa dhaqan maaha .
Hooyooyinka somaliyeed hambalyo sida aad u difaacaysaan dhaqanka iyo diinta.
mucaad2 2 years ago
@:45 WTH? Wth is that white lady saying? IN A NEW CULTURE? NEW CULTURE? We don't sell our values for some kaffir cultures SORRY! I am sure there are many people who are into this, but they are lost. But Alhumdulillah many are awakes! Alhumdulillah! More Muslimeen and Muslimeenah are becoming more practicing now Alhumdulillah. That includes me Alhumdulillah. EAT UR TRASH CULTURE! We don't need it! We have Islam to know what to do. Even our own backward cultures are to be rejected too! Islam only!
madina55 2 years ago 2
Waxaa mahad sanid leeyahey qofka inoo soo galiyey cajaladani waxaan madax u ahey urur la dagaalama dad dhaqan roga wada oo uu cadow-ga isticmaalo markii horey shacabka u maan heen wax can oo tusaya in qof kuu eg kulana luuqad ah in ey dhaqan rog wadaan maanta waxaan heley cadeen cad. cajaladani waan kaa duubaney karaali ahow walaal hadaad ka xumaatey waa wax umada eey u baah need in ey indhahooda ku arkaan goobaha aan dalka kuleey nahey oo idil baa lagu daabadaa ilaah hanaga qabto cadowga
b5t5j5 2 years ago
The misunderstanding between the Somali parents and their kids lies what sort of relationship they share, you when they brought these kids to the west some of the parents still want to treat the kids as if they are in back home. What they need to realize is that this aint Somalia. They also need to teach them about Islam and the good things about the Somali culture but instead they teach them about qabiil and all that kind stuff may allah bless Somalis in exile.
malihoezkilla 2 years ago
dude i love da accent hahah
malihoezkilla 2 years ago
the translator is talking like she doesn't know anything about the Somali culture or the Islamic religion!
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gabarsomaaliyeed 2 years ago
omg i Love this quote " Girls are like cooked meat, ready to be eaten"
kisses4allmyhaterz 2 years ago
I'm Sudaneese and my mom is exactly like the woman in the orange tobe. She doesn't let me go see movies with my friends and I'm eighteen years old. My friends at school complain about their parents setting their curfew until one in the morning! I'm a good kid, and my parents are lucky that I'm not going to act like Britney Spears or something when I move out, most kids who are imprisoned partake in ridiculous acts of rebellion.
xclusiv4321 2 years ago
lmfaoo thank God she ain't my mom... she jst way 2 strict on things looool.... plus da funny part bout dis iz dos parents who r so strict on their kids tend 2 be more wild and sneaky lol so idk wht she talkin bout doing homework n in ur room... more lyk jail room loooool
bang123wannabe 2 years ago
BISINKA !!!i Think this girl is very ignorant,
DHANTA dad jahiliin ah oo reer badiyo ah aa ciyaarijiray, hada diitaa lafahmay, yaa kuu baneeay in nin iyo naag isla daansaan abaayo, ILLAHY ka cabso oo toobad keen.
Shahiida 2 years ago
Actually.. that lady whos weearing the Orange thing! Is been very honest bout her openion.. and It's tru that Having Bf/Gf is not allowed in our calture. There is sthg called " Shukaansi" it's kind of date and hunging around and bullshi**, Cuz sex is not allowed with out not been married.. !! Cuz we are Muslims, and we have to do acording to our relgion.
Al hamdu lillah.
nuurka36 2 years ago 3
u idiot hahah! having a boyfriend dosent mean u are sexually active...my mum told me that she had a boyfriend at the age of 16 but the only thing they ever did was talk and thats it
so for all you ignorant people out there
boyfriend does not equal sex
handledare 2 years ago
handledare..your mother was wrong if she had a boyfriend...But the term boyfriend today and what she meant is different....relationship like that is forbidden..if it was allowed..women wouldnt be ordered 2 cover their hair and body and men wouldnt be ordered to lower their gaze..so i dnt knw what your mother was..but she was wrong....dnt make the same mistake..
MujahidSomali 2 years ago
my mother was not wrong because she did not go behind her parents backshe was allowed to have a boyfriend but she did not go out with him they mostly stayed at her house jst talking..... nothing bad with that????
handledare 2 years ago 2
That's right,i am in your side =)
TalkWithoutWordz 2 years ago 2
lady with da orange scarf THANK GOD YOUR NOT MY MUM =D i understand her concerns tho but i think shes being a litle 2extreme anyway thats my opinion .. nice video =D x
hayatamin101 2 years ago
gabadha hadii guriga lagu hayo way kacsanayaan sida Carab
They will be horny .... markaa inay Free yihiin ayaa la qaatay
THIS TOPIC IS FUNNY
Abufaas 2 years ago
waxaan ee kahadeyso inantu isku mid mahan.
dhaanto lawada ciyaaro iyo boyfriend layeesho wax isku mid ah mahan.
caruurta hanaga lumin kudhah .
WIILWACAN 2 years ago
u guys.. are cool..but u should ave come 2 uk lol shit aint normal
malihoezkilla 3 years ago
This is a very important document that reflects the realiy of somali people's lives. I understand the worries of the parents and their concerns. I also can relate to how the young ones must be feeling. However, i think too often, too much unnecessary control is placed on somali kids. We all know from exp that when that happens one will break laws. I have 5 nieces who r very decent grls with hijaab and if their friends r having a party, they go and come back on agreed time. Its all abt trust.
proudSomalisis 3 years ago 2
I'm 23 and I came to the west when I was 7 years old, and I completely understand where the parents are coming from with their concerns and they're rights,,,,,,,Somali girls are actually given more freedom than compared to the other Muslim girls,,,,, Too much freedom damages ones respect for their religion and culture- and this is really the case we see in the west,,,,,,
Caliyaabane 3 years ago 2
Dhaanto done by men and women is haram just like going to the club,,,,,it's nonsense to justify going to club because the elders used to go to dhaanto.,,,,,The parents realised what they used to do is wrong and against our religion, and therefore they don't their to take the same or worse path they took themselves,,,,,,I didn't like the woman who was doing the interpretation,,she lack the essence of Islamic values even though she may only be wearing a headscarf,,,,
Caliyaabane 3 years ago
am with Caliyaabane...
i really think the same, and dat lady she not only lack of essence of Islamic values but she can't even interpret properly or maybe she done it intentionally like if she's a shamed of what that Hooyo was saying
najmacadeey 3 years ago
God help Ciyaalkeena wadanada gaalada ku nool runti brain wash ba la raba in lugu wada sameeyo , aaway Dhaqanki iyo Islaaminimadi iyo iixtraamki dadka naga wa wayn an o haynay we have the best Culture and the best traditions we dont need some CADDAN Lady to lecture us pisssssssssssss lugu yiri
najmacadeey 3 years ago
its not easy 2 translate from english 2 somali man some tymz it doesnt make sense lols...i ave a problem wif dat when hooyo askz me 2 read 4 her 4real lols..but then again ur righ she keep laughin when ever the layz speakz in somali.. wat a cheeky cow
malihoezkilla 3 years ago
cheeky cow :)
handledare 2 years ago
I'm sure every somalia girl at one point has been with a boy. It is understanding that it's against our culture and religion. We hade from out parents u dont mention the guy untill he is ready to marry u...we all do wat we want to do outside of the house right.
samthehell1976 3 years ago
Oh My Allaah like my Ayeeyo camal .
Sxb waa wiilka shukaansato . caadi .
Somali dhib badana
this woman she ,s my like my ayeeyo .
Somalida dhanto aaddaaan jireen .
dhaanto reer baadi and Club night same .
PuntlandGurl4Ever 3 years ago
Wow...well done discussion, I really enjoyed watching!!!
hanan1800s 3 years ago 2
in my house the word boyfriend is not mentioned..simply hide or obey. end of decision lolz....
jugarit 3 years ago
haraam, haraam, haraam ... an ignorant somali mother, she might even think that circumcising her daughter is not haraam... if she doesn't respect human rights Somalia is probably a better place for her...As regards somali culture I would really like to know what makes them proud to be Somalis?
falk1503 3 years ago
If you are muslim then Asalamu3aleykum
First of all please don't insult the somali mother for how would you like it if yours was insulted? And circumcission is not haram the extent that the somalis go to IS haram. Everyone is proud of their culture for it has good as well as bad, What i like about my culture is that parents are respected....
quruxley100 3 years ago 3
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guleed13 2 years ago 3
circumcission for MALES is not haram, but no were in the religion is there found any sort of justification of any degree of circumcission on females, if u say so, than do produce your hadiths and ayas,if you can't than don't speak of it or it is counted as bidca(inovation), just a friendly advice:) too many somalis/ppl tend to speak on things they hear from others and regard it as facts,,,,, it never killed anyone to dobble check;) As-salamu alaikum
anwpep 2 years ago
q96........ this is Australia not the US... but it is All the same.
mrMADAALE 3 years ago
habraha san u hadlo gabdha jamecan ayaa ka waso & wax an la oqoon
warsame1010 1 year ago
welcome to america........
q96 3 years ago
This is a very interesting topic, to see parents giving their perspective on this is very interesting to me. However, with all due respect these are "wishful" thinking. People are going to date regardless, we as somalis focus on just creating a perfect out of everything. This is not going happen. Rather they should focus on how not to cross the boundaries. When it comes to the religion, socalising of genders is haraam.
Big up Madaale!Good job
black018707 3 years ago