36 Year Old Virgin With Life Long Severe Social Anxiety Seeks Therapy!

[gogetitlady]

do you only own muscle shirts



[RB902050]

@gogetitlady If you watch some of my most recent videos, you'll see I'm beginning to ditch the muscle shirts for more normal non 80s shirts.

[PeytonMadison1993]

i sted to get it 3years ago but not stopped talking all together i have a dinner out tomorrow and am worried they will get made if i dont talk x

[PeytonMadison1993]

please get intouch any one that knows any more about this or has been through selective mutism privatejenandash@gmail.com

[PeytonMadison1993]

what time of thing do they do to help you to get rid of your selective mutism x

[RB902050]

@PeytonMadison1993 I remember starting speaking at almost five years after not having said almost a word since being abandoned from my aunt at age 3 or 3 and half years of age. I think proper parenting and not having unplanned pregnancies can prevent selective mustism.

[NoLifegod]

So are you really a 36 six year old virgin? lol

[MrOptimo781]

haha ur funny and it was kool that u were having a good time while u were makin it.. u are a handsome guy ..and i know u guna come out like a winner out of this .

[doxie56]

It's good to see you smiling again as you have a very nice smile & you look happier. One thing I've noticed is that u get quite a bit of positive feedback from other men. This says a lot about you as men aren't prone to sharing feelings. They seem to find it easier to open up to you.. maybe because you are so open? As a female I can say that if I were to meet you in public somewhere I believe I would vey much enjoy talking with you. I would offer to email and/or chat but have NO idea how

[SovietRussia10]

You seem like a nice guy. We are all different. I find you a bit shy in this video. But some females might find that attractive. It's true.

[aceraspirehp93]

Hey man i feel for you man ! Your a great guy!! I have ocd which makes me have social anxiety! I have now become addcietd to cannabis now im ni anther bad situation ! its always a fukin hard time sometiems i hate being me but , like you i solider on! Take care from london UK!!

[NondualityAndScience]

i have a real problem with scowling around girls it sucks because not to be upmyself but im a pretty good looking guy so girls usually think im just up myself and dont realize im really terrified hahaha

[Maloperverso]

Few ideas: Drink beer when in social situations, get roomates (to get friends and become social), pay a prostitute to lose your virginity, do drugs in general!

[Ubegettintrolledup]

@Maloperverso ^^^This, and nothing but this...Sometimes you have to play the game to win. Do what your peers are doing, exactly how they are doing it, and conform....If you don't want to conform and still bitch about being lonely, then fuck you

[Your0nlyHope]

This is the epitome of courage.

[Warlock952]

@Sevensoulsid Go kill yourself. Nobody wants you here.

[SuperJakey92]

Hey, I just started this program called the Linden Method, so far its been pretty helpfull and ive read alot of good reviews about it. maybe take a look at it. lindenmethod . com

[RB902050]

@SuperJakey92 I'll take not of that.  Thanks!

[michaa808]

how do you finance yourself ?

do you have a job ?

[RB902050]

@michaa808 I work in a hospital surgery clinic checking patients in and taking their vital signs.

[skemsaren]

@RB902050 I bet that works with you really like you. You seem like a cool guy, healthy too!

[sleepfighter1]

I have exactly the same problem u do,and it has destroyed my life! I am about 5 yrs older than u,and though I am not precisely a virgin,I haven't dated in over a Decade! I'm beginning to wonder if,I can be cured,since this all I have known MOST of my life. It's frustrating,having a healthy heterosexual appetite,and not being able to do a damn thing about it because of this! It's gotten 2 the point that it affects my behavior in every Other aspect of my life.

[viviane5572]

creepy is your illness talking, extremely shy is true lol

your disease is challeging your intelligence when it's about your perception of your self and other people

[Sevensoulsid]

the way he looks at me, wow, just wow, so sexy.

[y3ko86]

@Sevensoulsid Oh do shut the fuck up

[Warlock952]

@Sevensoulsid Shut the fuck up. Insensitive wanker.

[Gorilla7222]

You will succeed eventually!

[millenniumman75]

Slow talk - it puts a little more emphasis on what you are saying - and it keeps you calm. You won't be in a rush for words.

A smile does go a long way, by the way. People will notice.

[livinglegend1187]

I'm in a similar boat to you. One idea I've come up with is to just record myself talking about anything.

Then you watch the video and pay attention to how you hold yourself, how you say things, your facial expressions and voice... These are things everybody sees but you don't normally get to see. Evaluate yourself and see what you dont like and what you do like. Then you can try changing to make yourself more personable and smooth.

[Alina674]

Oh my gosh, I do this too! I don't know if I scowl. but the talking fast part, I try really hard to slow down & to stop fidgeting too, but it's kind of hard to do. I try to practice & notice myself when I'm doing it, but it is hard to concentrate on that while talking & saying what you are trying to say without messing up on your words. I say "um" A LOT too!

[SAistheworst]

People are so cruel! There is absolutely nothing wrong with your titles. You are right when you said the more interesting a title is, the more views you would get. Lol I might try that on my vids x)

[MrMuscleBilly]

Remember Donnie your not alone in this. People nowadays have thier priorities in all the wrong places. If I could tell you one thing its NOT YOU its others. I have been battling this for years. People are like demons unfriendly, uncaring, dont know how to treat others. But I guess we're the anti-social ones? I know man this is way eaiser said that done but you just can't care what people think, dont let them ruin you and dont let them take rent in your mind. U are a cool guy. Feel free to pm.

[MrMuscleBilly]

You never scowl in any of your vids. I dont think your therapist knows what she talking about. I'm no PhD or anything like that but I sure you do and I do too when we get real anxious around people we have this don't f#*k with me look plus being muscular intimidates people like we are angry roid boys. My advice to you would be ditch the therapist and do your activities like your doing. Think of a real funny moment or joke in your life when talking to people and that will kinda relax you.

[INTPmetalfan]

Ya blink once in a while :)

Talking slow is a good tip, and always look like you just thought of a funny joke when our in the world. Smile and solid eye contact must be done. :)

[Josh360]

I've never thought you have looked angry in any of your videos...

[Josh360]

your titles are fine 

[Rubbersoulful]

Hiya, I have some advice for you. Please do not take offense but I have noticed you tend to stare continuously into the camera and blink very little, which could come across as angry or intimidating to some people. I would advice you break eye contact (or in the case of videos, looking into the camera lense) much more frequently, by looking away for a second or two after each couple of sentences. Apparently its good to hold eye contact for about 70% of the interaction. Just trying to help.