I was a little disappointed with the show. I wish they would have shown more of Diana instead of focusing on the poly curious girl. When they went to the poly meeting and she was talking to the older people I said to myself, "It's them I'm interested in!." Having someone on a show about polyamory that is not experienced with it was confusing to the viewers and left a really unclear message to people that don't know about the topic.
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The term "slut" was created by jealous girls and women. And jealousy is a learned emotion. I think people should be intimate (emotionally and/or sexually) with as many people as they want to, as long as there is no secrecy and everyone is okay with it.
Jealousy objectifies people-- makes them objects to possess, because it gives one a false sense of security. In reality, people have free will and the one thing you CAN'T control is whether someone else loves you (which is why we try to rope them into contracts and hang onto them using guilt). We need to give one another the freedom to live and grow as is best for each person-- THAT'S love. If it's really love in the first place, they'll keep loving you even after they find 'someone else'.
I would love any recommendations you could give me. If you'd just PM me with those, that'd be great. I've been married for 10 years, and I've recently gotten back together with my first lover, so I told him about how my husband and I are poly, and he actually thought that was cool, so we've been together since May. Since nothing ever worked out with the whole poly-thing in the 10 years of our marriage prior to this, we're still sort of babes in the woods when it comes to making this work.
I think people here should calm down. If anything, you should be thanking the Gay community, ACLU, LGBT, etc... for re-defining Marriage. They did you, we, us & the whole world a big favor.
I've been trying this with 3 guys we're all virgins well except one and we don't have sex or plan on it . It's all about the love we have . It's not an excuse to be slurry or promiscious like some of you are saying it's a lifestyle an maybe when I go to college or even after that I may settle down wth one person but as of now this is life .
@mwtillotson why do you say that guys are just being guys and yet girls are being sluts? there is a huge double standard to your language and it is unfair to us girls.
I didn't mean it in the double-standard kind of way. I'm trying to say that, basically, all guys are sluts, who are regularly incapable of controlling themselves and keeping their minds focused on the ones they're bound to.
There are more non-promiscuous girls than guys, which is why I make the differentiation of labeling the promiscuous girls "sluts", and guys as simply "guys".
@mwtillotson hm okay I can see where you are coming from. I'm not sure I completely agree with the choice in terminology but thank you for clarifying.
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you are so beautiful. the show was definitely inspiring. It opened up my eyes to a whole new world based on pure, honest love. In Texas its going to be hard to find partners because this state is so conservative but the search continues :) thank you darling!
I was a little disappointed with the show. I wish they would have shown more of Diana instead of focusing on the poly curious girl. When they went to the poly meeting and she was talking to the older people I said to myself, "It's them I'm interested in!." Having someone on a show about polyamory that is not experienced with it was confusing to the viewers and left a really unclear message to people that don't know about the topic.
rawrlaurlaur 1 month ago
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WOMEN FEAR INSECURITY - INSECURITY COMES IN MANY FORMS - WOMEN CAN BE INSECURE BECAUSE THEY FEEL LIKE THEIR LIFE IS DEFINED BY HAVING A BOYFRIEND, HUSBAND THAT WILL PROVIDE FOR THEM ALL THE TIME.
MEN FEAR DISAPPROVAL FROM OTHERS! MEN DON'T RELY ON A WOMAN'S DESIRE FOR YOU FOR YOUR OWN SELF VALIDATION!
IF U LIKE WHAT U R READING THEN VISIT MY FREE BLOG AT
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kayokogishitomi1 6 months ago
there is no sucn a thing as "fidelity" there are more divorces than marriages and the main cause of the divorce is infidelity
MrEriksalas84 11 months ago
me and my gf are looking for a girl to join our relationship
gfunkgfunk 1 year ago
The term "slut" was created by jealous girls and women. And jealousy is a learned emotion. I think people should be intimate (emotionally and/or sexually) with as many people as they want to, as long as there is no secrecy and everyone is okay with it.
preacher66666 1 year ago 8
Jealousy objectifies people-- makes them objects to possess, because it gives one a false sense of security. In reality, people have free will and the one thing you CAN'T control is whether someone else loves you (which is why we try to rope them into contracts and hang onto them using guilt). We need to give one another the freedom to live and grow as is best for each person-- THAT'S love. If it's really love in the first place, they'll keep loving you even after they find 'someone else'.
bKiwiD 1 year ago 11
@bKiwiD Couldn't have said it better myself.
preacher66666 1 year ago
So hot. Intellectual and gorgeous
Viper3220 1 year ago
I would love any recommendations you could give me. If you'd just PM me with those, that'd be great. I've been married for 10 years, and I've recently gotten back together with my first lover, so I told him about how my husband and I are poly, and he actually thought that was cool, so we've been together since May. Since nothing ever worked out with the whole poly-thing in the 10 years of our marriage prior to this, we're still sort of babes in the woods when it comes to making this work.
spidersbos 1 year ago
I think people here should calm down. If anything, you should be thanking the Gay community, ACLU, LGBT, etc... for re-defining Marriage. They did you, we, us & the whole world a big favor.
ImperialGenKlenner 1 year ago 4
I've been trying this with 3 guys we're all virgins well except one and we don't have sex or plan on it . It's all about the love we have . It's not an excuse to be slurry or promiscious like some of you are saying it's a lifestyle an maybe when I go to college or even after that I may settle down wth one person but as of now this is life .
MasochisticMaiden 1 year ago
It is an opportunity to love more than one person. You can love more than one person without it just being about sex.
thetwiparamore 1 year ago
So, it's an excuse for guys to be guys and for girls to be sluts. Got it.
mwtillotson 1 year ago
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@mwtillotson
"So, it's an excuse for guys to be guys and for girls to be sluts. Got it. "
WRONG! Polyamory is about love and relationships, sex is optional and not required to be polyamorous..
obaeyens 1 year ago
@mwtillotson why do you say that guys are just being guys and yet girls are being sluts? there is a huge double standard to your language and it is unfair to us girls.
snowingshelby 1 year ago
@snowingshelby
I didn't mean it in the double-standard kind of way. I'm trying to say that, basically, all guys are sluts, who are regularly incapable of controlling themselves and keeping their minds focused on the ones they're bound to.
There are more non-promiscuous girls than guys, which is why I make the differentiation of labeling the promiscuous girls "sluts", and guys as simply "guys".
mwtillotson 1 year ago
@mwtillotson hm okay I can see where you are coming from. I'm not sure I completely agree with the choice in terminology but thank you for clarifying.
snowingshelby 1 year ago
it's a sexual, romantic, and life orientation. Poly-rights now!!!!.... haha.
RockSolomon 1 year ago
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polygamy favours women and not men!
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2009abuabdullah 1 year ago
Im over here, look this way.
JustineandJason 2 years ago
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I would bang you.
Dgdino 2 years ago
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polyamorous? is that a new euphemism for being a slut?
fightingnate 2 years ago
perhaps. However, they much prefer to be referred to as ethical sluts. pick up the book (The Ethical Slut). i think that you will get it.
yanikv 2 years ago
is not beign a bitch actually you idiot.
I myself am poliamorist, so moderate your words cose they can sound offensive to me and polyamorist folks.
Polyamory is an orientation in witch you can love more peolpe at a time, so it means have multiple honest LOVE relationship.
inform yourself you dumbass shit.
Fake4x4 2 years ago
@Fake4x4 you cant even spell your own label....
milessbff 2 years ago
was a writing mistake you idiot, is POLYAMORY and is an ORIENTATION!!
Fake4x4 2 years ago
shut up asshole
FIGHTFANNERD3 2 years ago
Makes men and women feel better about not being responsible.
Zuhzuhzombie 2 years ago
The show was 100% staged and these update's were sad.
Why didn't they use real couple's!
SebastienCade 2 years ago
you are so beautiful. the show was definitely inspiring. It opened up my eyes to a whole new world based on pure, honest love. In Texas its going to be hard to find partners because this state is so conservative but the search continues :) thank you darling!
raindropelement07 2 years ago 2
lovin the show, please message me at cmgjmg8384 on yahoo messenger, definitely have some questions if ya dont mind...
play08chris 2 years ago
Beautiful Goddess!
Congratulations for the great episode and we love that you are courageously being out there!
You are our superhero!
TantraWarriors 2 years ago
Hey Goddess,
Great job on your video presentation(s) you rock.
blisscoach 2 years ago 2