Successful Black Men have went from being too good to not being good enough for Black Women?

[QBez1]

I just dont fuck with black girls hardly...i dont look down on them and think their hopeless, im just waiting for one to come and prove me wrong...which have not happen and dont seem like it ever will.

[BlackPerspectivenet]

"See y'all not going to full with me, I listen, I listen well." Ha ha, liked that.

You have a good an valid theory here. I definitely think you added another piece to the equation. Like when that sister in the ABC piece about "successful" black women not finding men said she had to have a man that's 6'5 and t hat's why she didn't have a brotha. LOL, there are hardly any 6'5 men on the planet. There are so few of those she was clearly just making up a standard that could not be reached.

[fairguynova]

What is wrong with short?

[Remedymp]

smoke and mirrors...

[artbunker]

You nailed it PINK its a coping device PURE PLAIN AND SIMPLE.

[215dro]

Exactly pink! Excellent points in this vid, they do not care if you are a blue collar worker that can give them a middle class lifestyle, shit if you have 10 degrees and can't hold down a job you are going to have problems with these types of woman moreso!

[OneSummerSky]

Successful Black Men have *gone* from...etc.

[SuperZeitGeist1]

Mr.Pinkk....I hear you man but allow me to shed some light here this is a fact that I am about to tell you about all females no matter what color they are....Women dont know what they want me tell them what they want period.

[rockb922]

What women say and what they do usually contradicts eachother. But we all learn the hard way

[blessednhm]

I agree with you so much that I could just hug you!lolAs a young black woman lacking in mature relationship experiences, I went into college thinking there would be a plethora of smart, handsome, mature men in my age range that I could have a shot with. Those type of men were there alright,both mature and immature, however it seem as if I was"undate-able". I had guy friends but thats as far as it went. Other black women I new whether gorgeous to ugly,sweet or nasty, complained of the same thing.

[nmr20067]

I had a couple. lol

[willia3r]

It may just as well be that all black women want is a regular brotha. The question is, why do they( the so-called educated ones) make it so freakin' hard to want to treat them like that?

Why can't I find a sista that's similar to myself, who works out(NOT FAT), is frugal with money, who likes videogames, who likes Japanese Anime, & can cook some food? Why the hard to get games?

Why is it that black women have to be darn near 40 years old before they come to their senses & be more outgoing?

[pcheron]

@willia3r lol amen brother

[cnell25]

Damn pinkk you went deep with this one!! excellent vid!!!

[Chicago1SilkyBaby]

I never thought about it....if thats what is in their sub-conscious mind....thats a hard life...i mean look at it this way, they can't win for losing....unless they turn into A WM lover....Or understand that society was not build to support the black family(seem like that part has been erased) but a progressive black man is....why don't other race's of women see BM that way Hmmmmm....

[Khemistry101]

Wow! A very insightful observation. It makes a lot of sense. Some females can weave intricate smoke screens....which only seem to further cloud matters...like the Dark Side. ;) 

[bigbadmo1985]

The only times these black women want the successful black man is ether he is a pure SIMP and or she can control he resources.

[esmooth100]

10:30-10:58 best part of the video well said.

[sumopub]

Why would you want a serious, serious relationship with a black woman anyway? Aim higher, my nigga!

[chrisinft]

I been saying this for a while now. A large amount of black women do this because they are in denial. They're not getting the attention and play from black men that they want so they develop high standards to explain their being single. They will not admit that nobody wants to kick it to them because of their attitude and lifestyle. I swear this issue is helping to destroy the black community.

[producer4real]

In other words, women love lying to themselves. I can get with that.

[400yearAfricanplan]

The outcome is not a coincidence,it is a result of what was planted so If anyone is REALLY interested in changing this they need to also look at the coming generation this one has done all it can but as you know old habits die hard.Yes black women need to understand our struggles but they don't have to accept it.Why would any civilization accept weak men?A college degree is not good enough!!We need to raise the bar!

[harkying99]

@400yearAfricanplan Pinnk isn't talking about weak men.He's talking about men that meet all of the black womans standards and those men still being told you aint good enough.

[400yearAfricanplan]

@harkying99 Not having a go just have offering a different perspective.I am actually a great fan of Pinkk. He always offers rare depth in regards to our issues but I think it always important to participate and give one's version of the topic.If you told you're not good enough then understand why,improve it and if its still not good enough then understand that women in general are NEVER satisfied.

[harkying99]

@400yearAfricanplan okay,but what if you're told you're not good enough and you know its total bullshit?I work a blue collar job.My money isn't great but I have a roof and I eat every day.When a sister tells me to step up my game it's usually about her,not me.

[400yearAfricanplan]

@harkying99 Then she's not for you!

[400yearAfricanplan]

Concentrate all if not most of your efforts on male empowerment because weak communities + single parenting + headless kids are mostly a result of weak males in the community.Weak I mean uneducated, poor and lack of self control and shame.Yes we have educated men, vibrant professional black men but it is not enough.I think at least 65% of our men are undisciplined lack sense of responsibility. Am I harsh?Yes but for a good reason.RE BRAND AND RECONSTRUCT THE broken bridge.Start with young boys.

[400yearAfricanplan]

Someone like Obama though was a huge plus in rebuilding the confidence and trust.The reason women used to adore us is because during struggles we actually protected them now they are sex tools and I saw a video of black guys encouraging and recording two black women fighting each other.They were laughing and applauded the winner?wtf?As a men you are the protector and provider and we are honestly failing a lot and succeeding less.It can change starting with you!BE PATIENT AND REBUILD THAT BRIDGE!

[400yearAfricanplan]

Pink elephant seems to me like he is an exception.Its crucial to have honest conversations and even more crucial to understand that women tend to complain a lot more than women in any culture.Euro men dominate the highest offices on the land and naturally women just like any species admire the dominant males.We need to understand that it is competition and as men we need to out perform our counterparts and expect to loose our women's trust when we loose a few battles.Win them back but be patient

[400yearAfricanplan]

I do not think the bashing is wrong because we have a culture of keeping emotions inside so this generation is using youtube to spew frustration,love and even confusion.You need to go into a crusade and convert them to blackmensim/Africanmensim again. Don't fight them women because to be honest black men mistreat women a lot and these are grown ups who saw their moms being messed with.A few of us in superior positions,prison, acting a fool on social network videos.You need to rebuild the bridge!

[willia3r]

@400yearAfricanplan

I disagree with your assertions. You're sounding too much like someone on some Steve Harvey/D.L. Hughley bullcrap. There is room for blame on both sides.

White men are abusive to their women too, but yet they are still the most desired men on the face of the earth. Stop using this "blacker than thou/Pro black" schtick of yours as a smoke screen to attack black men & at the same time let black women off the hook.

That type of crap has gone on long enough.

[400yearAfricanplan]

@willia3r You obviously don't understand what I am saying so until you do good luck with your way of thinking.hopes the blame game and finger pointing solves your black women issues.Steve Harvey/D.L Hughley wt?.I'm not even going to address that.I am a black man so I will never attack one of my own and I apologize if my words are not useful it was not intentional.Peace

[willia3r]

@400yearAfricanplan

Don't worry about me or any of the educated black men, worry about the millions of under-educated that will be born to women who choose NOT make good choices or even try to take personal accountability for those choices.

You say that black men should take charge without acknowledging the Feminist Movement which in effect took that leadership away. You can't solve the former issue without dealing with the latter.

That's what I will leave you with. God bless.

[Krazie316]

@willia3r It wasn't JUST the feminist movement when it comes to the black community. One must also take into account Willie Lynch.

It goes as such: Take the strongest head male of the family drag him outside and torture/beat/lynch sometimes rip him apart in front of his family.

The mother now single becomes independent and raises her daughters likewise and babies/shields and protects her sons.

I am just paraphrasing it for lack of characters in the 500 limit comment section......

[willia3r]

@Krazie316

I understand the whole philosophy behind the Willie Lynch. But that's been beaten to death.

The only point I was trying making is that in the here & now there has to be an acknowledgement that BOTH parties play a role in the depressing state of black male/black female relations. To say that black men should simply take charge & that's all is a big mistake.

For example if I took "charge" & decide to slap my wife for going out of control like the ol' days, I would be jailed.

[Krazie316]

@willia3r Ah I see, Yeah it's going to be hard to get back to the way it was when we could actually work together as true male/female dynamic.

There are those out there writting books about trying to break that "curse" trying to pull the black community back together, etc. But still we see black men leaving black women more and more for the very reason you said in your last comment and some

You see a lot of people living up-side down lives going after the same sex too which is ever increasing

[willia3r]

@Krazie316

Because fact of the matter is, most women biologically cannot be appealed to with logic, so if one has to take charge, sometimes force has to be used. Now you can that what I saying is cavemanish & unevolved, but my reply is would be that you can't have your cake & eat it too.

If a black man is to have TRUE leadership, that leadership & deference should be given ALL THE WAY or not at all. Becaues halfway just isn't good leadership, & what going on now is the result of that.

[willia3r]

@willia3r

Now you can "say" that....is what I meant. Another Faux pas on my part.

[Krazie316]

@willia3r Now I'm not saying we have to be subject to his philosophy but look at the real world.

But I also like how Thugticcian put it concerning black single mothers.

He said something kinda like: If it can be shown that black single mother actually are beneficial to children he'll have no quarrel against it. But fact is MOST single mothers are only good for creating the next generation of baby mommas and prison fodder.

[willia3r]

@Krazie316

I just want to how would you & others like you address black men "taking charge" if most black women cannot be appealed to with logic. As it stands now, many black women will be quick to call law enforcement(extension of white male control) even if a brotha simply talks to her agressively.

That situation right there automatically cuts a black man's balls off metaphorically. We all know the problems & causes, like Willie Lynch, but where are the solutions? That's my point.

[400yearAfricanplan]

@willia3r God Bless

[chenderson30]

And with the statements and slogan's that Black Women make about Black Men..It's clearly stated,"WE DON'T CARE IF YOUR SHIT IS TOGETHER!THE WHITE MEN IS STILL OVER YOU!So this is a clear that Black Women are happy complaining and praising a group of men in general who don't want them at all.Black Men this is a clear sign to,STOP DEALING WITH BLACK WOMEN!These womena re born to be unmarried and lonely,Be happy and let them complain

[harkying99]

@chenderson30 have you also noticed that the sisters who seem to be the angryist and the most asshurt are the ones that were never checking for you in the first place?

[chenderson30]

@harkying99 Yeah,I notice it,I've always notice this,Its just been a stupid journey to nowhere...There just breeded with pure ignorance,Thats why I'm saying,Black Men if they want to be alone,Leave them alone.

[chenderson30]

I understand what you're saying,Actually I saw SWP'S video on this topic and what Mindspirit said to Kap..To me,the whole thing sounds like dealing with a Robot that has malfunction,One minute it'a this and the next minute is that,Which is clear that black women like Mindspirit,Alex K.Tylor and alot of other Black Women do'nt know what they want,Or just wasting Black Men's time,Makes me wonder why are we even having these conversation to fix what's broken.

[willia3r]

@chenderson30

Great points.

It seems to be pretty difficult to appeal to a lot of black women with logic, & if you try the corporal punishment route, expect the law of white men & feminism to NOT ONLY throw the book @ you, but bury you under the jail as well.

Seems that the average brotha is damned either way when dealing with the average sista. But to hear some "pro-black/blacker-than-thou" types, we black men should simply "take charge" & that's all, stay tune for details...if @ all.

[Krazie316]

@willia3r Nobody shows it better that Tyler Perry. I can't stand his plays because they're soo one sided favoring women.

In MOST of his plays if it's the woman doing wrong or cheating, the man has to either learn to forgive her or she just get's a slap on the wrist.

But let the man be the one, now we gotta tar and feather the bastard and completely destroy and break him down.

[willia3r]

@Krazie316

Yeah, you are right on that one. On the one hand, I don't want to hate on Tyler because he is a black man who made good for himself & is providing jobs in my city. On the other I hate how TP is making his money by being a complete Man-gina & making movies or co-signing onto movies that throw heterosexual black men under the bus @ every opportunity.

But I'm not gonna hate too much. He's only giving the ignorant masses what they want, which is the emasculation of a black man.

[Krazie316]

@willia3r I also hate that he purposely chosen men to help/for the purpose of these "so called" Christian women to lust after their bodies.

I think except for the homosexual part This episode of the boondocks wraps up Tyler Perry in a nutshell:

shadowandact. com/?p=25789

[chenderson30]

@willia3r That true my brother.Ca'nt deny that logic.

[WildL23]

Say man, why you call yourself pinkkelephant?

[ZOOBEE79]

videos on YOUTUBE can be recorded up to 15 mins now

[Mhendeb]

Like I said, Black Women want their cake and eat it too. They'll come up with any excuse to justify their actions or lack there of.

[Chicago1SilkyBaby]

so true!!....i will think about this....