I never met my dad before i would love to meet him even if he was a bad person i know it sounds weird to say. My mom she's on drugs and it's been pretty bad. So me and my mom's relationship has been really bad all my life.
yeah same here, i have a more close relationship with my father than my mother. And I know how I get into a lot of fights with my parents, be it serious or as a result of me and my stupid teen mood swings, but I just have to think of the 16+ hours a day my dad & mom work to keep our family alive. Then I shut up & I'm grateful.
@purerandomosity i hav the EXACT same situation as u. i'm close 2 my dad but at the same time i see my mom more cuz my dad travels alot. my mom is a perfectionist, and expects a lot out of me.
I have good relationships with my parents. I talk to my mom about anything (almost), and with my dad, well, he will randomly say ideas for the day and we'll go and do them (ie. One time he said "hey let's go to the mountains" and then we did). My dad smokes but doesn't know that I know, but I wrote a science essay about how smoking is bad for your health and the enviroment, and I think he's trying to stop now. But I wouldn't know for sure, because he doesn't know I know.
My relationship with my parents depends on the situation, like if I'm fighting with one I'll side with the other. But in my case right now,
im cool with both my parents :D but the weird thing is, I'm close with my mom and I'm close with my dad but my mom and my dad aren't close anymore ever since he cheated...
well mines....i honestly dnt even feel like my parents are my parents because they are always diong their own thing...sadly....and they never really spend time wit me n my siblings.
but yes i am very thnkful for my parents.because witout them i wouldnt b here
im trying to get close to my dad but the thing is i haven't seen him for 13 year like practically my whole life he just started calling me and telling me that he wants to be a part of my life i dont really want him to be but i want to give it a shot and give him another chance. Oh and me and my mom are not close at all we fight a lot and end up pissed at each other for weeks but we always end up making up. The thing is im scared some day we wont be able to repair that damage.
iv never reaqlly been close to either of my mom nd dad bcuz my mom is always stressing bout her jod nd my dad to nd they kinda don't like me buz oonce my dad told me to die nd my mom was right there nd she didnt say anything she jus walk way nd i really dont remember y he told me that...bout w/e nd my mom nd dad never really like my there brothers. well maybe lils one but idk....i really dont care that they hate me...but idk w/e it dose bother me well kinda idk w/e
i see my dad once a year. but hey, everything counts.
my mom has talked about suicide sometimes and thats disturbed me, even my grandmom.
i feel like im missing something in my childhood, being only 14. if i become a father i wont know how to be one cuz me and my dad are mostly like best friends.
My girlfriend broke up with me because I was always depressed and I was being harassed over the summer and I didn't want to tell her about it in fear that she would get hurt... It's all my fault that we broke up and I now can't forgive myself...
My relationship with my parents is pretty bad right now. They're always budding in on my life when I just want to be left alone. They don't let me do much ever since they found out that I cut... I really just want to go live with someone else...
My cunt of a father was abusive, and well, used to beat me up. He used too swear so much, it had an effect on my vocabulary when I was younger, (I constantly used to words, fuck and things).
My mum left him when I was 8, but I have to say my life has basically taken a turn for the worse since I turned 11.
My mum was depressive, (telling me she wanted to die an early death when I was 5). Still, too but it bluntly, I hate both of them and my brothers.
well sorry this is a late response lol cuz i saw this was uploaded like 2 months ago. i have problems with parents too. Like i dnt have a dad around he left i'm like the child with a different dad. so my mom only watches us but i used to cry all the time because i would be sick of my mother going out with different mens then this one man shes now sticking with, always off and on arguing with each other GOSH ITS FUCKING ANYOING.
and my mom the problem with her where not like a good mom n daughter bond thingie u say. like she dnt get me at all liek when she yells shse makes me pissed off well she always yell cuz when she talks regurlaly her voice is rly loud shes not death lol...but yeah she just dnt get me understand me at al idnt know how to explain.. SORRY haha
hmmm i understand about not being close with my mom or my dad ,we fought just about everday since i was 8 , but recently ive learned patience is a HUGE thing in relationships and its important to see and act on both sides of a story , also , try not to take too much stuff your mom says or does personally , like the majority of things people do , are all REACTIONS to other (maybe not so obvious)situations , not necesarily actions of thier own preference and choice... i hope that made sence lol !
My relationship with my dad.. is not very close He left me when i was 3 and I have been living with my single mother and sisster for the rest of my life My mom and I aren't so close either We would fight and I would be too embarrased to tell Her i love her the only person i have left to talk to is my sister but we fight constantly Like fist to fist D:
im not as close anymore with my dad cauz im doin bad in skool and i hate my skool is a charter skool so i guest im always stress and he always stress .also he is strik and the littlest things i do he always gets mad and he makes it realy a big thing ... but my mom is da coolest mom ever i want to move with her but she doesnt want me right now but she not that strik.p.s that feel so much better getting that out lolzzzzz give me some advie and help me plzz bye da way my name is noah
I've always been closer to my mom because my dad always used to yell and stuff at my brother and I when I was younger. Now that I'm older we actually fight I really hate him with all my heart..... I know that sounds bad but.... ( I don't mean like disipline yelling either everyones parents are like that but he would keep going until I completly broke down in front of him and he would keep going)
when i was little, i remember waking up and crying because my dad would always yell at my mom. my moms re-married now and shes way happier. i live with my dad and we dont really get along. i dont WANT to get along with him either. maybe its because i still resent him for when i was little.
ur really lucky 2 have a dad i dont have 1 he walked out on my mum when i was 3 and my realationship wiv my mum is an on off thing but most of the time we dont speak to each over so i kind of feel like i dont have anyone there 2 talk 2.
My parents have been fighting because my mother flirted with her friend Corey, and my dad thinks she is full on cheating. He wants to move out if things dont work out. Im not used to this. I have been listening to their fight, and my dad said that it wasnt the first time this happened. fml.
my mother is a bitch. it's actually gotten to a point where i don't even call her mom any more, i just call her by her first name. but i'm kinda cool with my dad. but i hate it when he gets pissed cuz it's always someone's fault and not his.
Any time he gets told to keep something quiet he goes and tells everyone :'(
I was with this guy once, and my mum told him to keep it quiet as my family say im too young for relationships and they dont aprove, so my dad went and told everybody and now i dont have family to communicate with. I just have my friends. I watch your videos, and i get the friend feeling, i think your really nice :D
By the wayy.. Could i have your msn? Mail Me Here?
I hate my dad, I wont even look him anymore. Hes always been an asshole and he was never there for me. My ma it's different, she takes care of me nd yeah shes always been there, but we never really talk anymore. I mean if we talk its just "hey...hows ur day...", but were still close.
my parents arent 2getha no more and live in differet towns and what i have noticed is that i seem to get along better with them when i am not with them!!
I don't really talk to either parents a lot. My Dad (kind of like yours) is always working but I'm closer to him. And me and my mum aren't close at all, and don't really have a good relationship. My parents are split too, but aparently my mum might move away for 3 years. Don't know how that's happening though. xD
Part in a play and even uploaded my voice on youtube. And thats all thanks to my dad :) Basically he funded my ispiration. Yeah I had to do this comment/lecture in two parts because It is soooooooo long :) Aaanyway, Thanks for reading or whatever,
I am closer to my dad too : ) We have this Craaaazy system thing going on right now so let me try and explain it to you, In the week, I stay with my mum because of school, after school on thursdays I go to town with my dad and every other weekend i go to my dads house. Complicated right :) Well I play guitar piano and i love to sing, and I was singing one day and my dad was like 'oh my goodness Jess you have a really good voice!!' and since then I have learned to play guitar, been the main...
we've been saying that for years and its only gotten us into MORE trouble! it really is a no win situation with women, I can't imagine how lesbian couples cope! :oP nice vlogs btw :)
My relationships with my parents aren't that 'poor'. Ever since my mom died, I don't talk to my dad much. But i'm trying and I'm going to be close to him, because lifes too short...y'know? But i was kinda close..
doesnt like my mom or my family. so yeah i hate her & yeah soo....that my relationship with my parent. but thee sad thing is i really dont love my mom but i do have respect for her. :T
i would have to say im closer to my mom but not so much anymore. She lost her trust in me only beacuse i was out til like 8:30 & she thought i was really with some guy or on eof my ex's but i was with a friend at our school football game & then he hung out at thee park for a bit but its like whatever to me. i main be with my friends most of the time & talk with them & my dad left when i was younger & he does talk to me but i know he dont care, he only cares about his son & my step mom, his wife,
My mom moved out when I was around the age of seven...And my dad was constantly working. So, I had no choice but to live with my grandparents. I love my grandparents so it's cool. erm, i didn't see my dad too often since he traveled. But recently I've been able to keep much contact since he has a different job..and I just spent about 2 months at his house while recovering from a spinal fusion surgery. HA! I guess blessings DO come in disguise?(:
my mum and dad split when i was 9, after a physical abusive relationship,. ever since then, ive grown closer with both. and funny enough, i see my dad more now, while he lives away and is with a another women and has a son, im closer to him now than i EVER was..so i personally think its a good thing, it sounds selfish, but i guess its ok?
i see my dad once everyweek, when he tutors me, and sometimes takes me and my sister out to the city and stuff.
me i am 31 i still live with mom and dad ive lived on my own before when i was married and at other times in my life.i am disabled but able to take care of me but living at home is were i need to be. but it just depends on the day and how they are treating me as to how i get along with them. sometimes i get along with them fine other times i get upset with them and we have our fights and arguments. so ya i guess know matter the age we all can get into it with our mom and dad's
hey i love ur video's they rock big time. u said in this video that people might think your to young to know to much. but i say the age does not matter the older people can learn from younger people and the younger people can learn from the older people. i think ur a very smart and pretty young lady.i am not sure how old u are but i think u seem to be a very smart young lady you should give yourself more credit then u do :-) i cant wait to see your next video. keep on rocking.
I am having many of the troubles you are. It used to be good. Oh and dont shorten your videos. Its very inspiring watching you express your problems. :D
i am closer with my mom.But i love my dad my parents are separated but i only see my dad maybe twice a week and he just takes me to school and picks me up and then takes me to eat then brings me home i am close with my dad too but not as close as i am with my mom.
hmm, im closer with my mom than i am with my dad, but only just by a little, i used to be a really really big daddy's little girl, but then somehow we grew apart... so im closer with my mom now for some reason xD
you said, "i dident get to see my dad ,only once a year for like 2 years" lol i still love you <3 my idol. your so respectful and lovely. i havent seen my dad in a year
I'm very close with my Dad, and not as much with my Mom. Me and my Mom always get mad at eachother and, i dunno. It's just pointless. Life is too short. You should show your parents this video.. maybe it would help them understand.
parents work and then we turn 18 and leave the house, then they regret it because the years went by and they didn't pay attention to us. Thank god i'm a tattoo artist and i make my own schedule, i'm always with my kids
Both my parents work, so i basically raise my little brother. I wake up in the morning and they arent their, its like we live on our own and the only time they come home is to eat or sleep. I understand we have the things we have because they work so much, and i appreciate that but they say 'you guys are so ungrateful, you never want to spent time w/ us." like wtf you guys are never home. They've gotten in really big fights and they have like opposite jobs so they nvr see each other or us.
I was neve close to my mom I'm more like with my dad I think most of the reason why I'm not close to her is because I'm bi and scared about what shell think
My parents are fighting right now, too. Today my mom started throwing things around (the toaster) while my sister and I were at school. It was a disagreement about money and control. Idk, but my mom's really insensitive and selfish. I can't get along with her, and she insists I'm only nice when i want something. She's obviously been ignoring my tolerance of her attitude. I get along with my dad better. Like you. Sometimes I wonder if that's okay.
I had a hard childhood & hated my dad bcos he hit me. my mum was never there for me. She ended up getting really bad habits from my step dad, & now they've switched, although I have a connection to my mum - we always argue & she can be extremely selfish in general. My stepdad goes away every 2 wks, but when he's here & tries to plan things all my mum does is grumble and never appreciate anything. She can be really insensitive too - calling him fat when he's had problems with his weight for ages.
my parents never married and split when i was really, really young, so i don't really remember. i still get to see my dad, use to be every 2nd weekend now every 4th because of work. i get along alright with both of my parents, tho i fight with my mom a lot... she always seems to be trying to control me and make me do everything her way. i don't really feel that close to either of them so i always go to my best friend when something is really bothering me, my friends are my family (:
No, im not close to my dad. Okey, so we have always lived togheter, but he always works alot and when i was a little kid he didnt come home befor I did go to bed... often we didnt even eat dinner together... Now he often goes away for some weeks and acctually (heart less, I know...), I don't miss him that much, cause' It feels like I don't really know him)my mother is close to me, and i know she gets sad when dads not home... they often scream on eachother, but I know they Love eachother & Me...
Hey Kimmy! (: I love how you can get so close with people and let them open out on the internet ahha. Keep making videos, I love listening to your advice and stories!
mom had me at 16. left my biological dad & meet another guy. she always left me at home to go out. not even my grandma wanted to take care of me. the new guy felt sympathy and told her to leave me with him and his mom to handle me. and now, i live with my step dad (even though they never married) and my grandma. i go to mom's on weekend, to be with her and my 2 sisters sisters. 4 & 5 yrs old. couldn't handle me or herself yet she had 2 more. now she makes me babysit for her to go out. hate her
but yea same but im more closer to my mom then dad even though he lives with me. he is always working and well now a days it seems like he is always mad and bussy my parents are planing to get divorced..but..ehh the position im in is not that bad as other kids places with there parents and its okay to feel..bad? not the word im looking for but i understand its not that u feel ungratefull ur just confused? i guess?.but hopefully everything will go for the best! :)
my family is the typical family on the outside, close, and happy and such, but on the interior its totally flipped around. my mother has had some problems that i dont want ppl to kno about, and my dad is never around, but he and i get along easier. ive taken care of my whole family since i was 8, ive cooked, cleaned , gone grocery shopping, disciplined my sister, yadayada. and i fight with them 24/7, but i do appreciate and love them all. my mother and i dont see eye to eye either dont feel bad
Kimmy, when I was 8 months old, my parents divorced. I'm 11 now with my mom[single]. My mom married 4 people adn my older brother and I have different fathers as well. So, please don't worry about it :(. I mean my dad always tells me "Sophia do sports u suck ur bored all the time cuz of ur MOM. SINCE UR SO BORED UR GONNA DO DRUGS!!" and it kinda pissed me off D: my mom is working 24/7 too so i never see her. So don't feel like ur alone :)
i'm 14 and since i'm 9 i never seen my dad again....my s*epda is an AH..soo....me and my mom are cool...my li**le sis*er bornd sick...soo every one care abou* her more...
My dad doesn't work, and is home, almost all the time. And it drives me crazy. He's a bit like donald duck, explodes because of the smallest things! My mom works all the time, but yesterday i went out to eat in a restaurant with her. It was nice, but we didn't say much...
And also today, my dad made me cry, because of a fucking dishwasher.
Let's put it this way, it's like having strangers living in the same house. My parents are in their own world as are me and my brother. Surprisingly, I'm fine with it. My dad is a real prick, always has been. My mom is great and I appreciate her and all she's done but she's irritated almost all the time. I don't share anything with them, they don't care. That's my family.
Or any other little thing they find wrong with me they want to fight about with me... It's stupid but we're working on it, I just don't think my parents and I will ever be as close as other people.
Okay, sorry for such the long comment.. but i'm done.
alot of concerts that are cheap like the stephen jerzak concert was 15 dollars, and all time low, nevershoutnever etc. My parents hate me going to concerts, so they don't really let me go to them unless I don't have any homework, have a ride, don't get in a fight with my little brother for a week, don't talk back, get all the information about the concert a few days before, etc. It sucks that we fight about that, and the fact that I text to much.
Okay, so I guess I get along better with my parents then other people... but not alot. Like my mom and I fight over dessions I make. My dad just agree's with my mother. For example, I decided to go vegetarian for many reasons. They don't think I should be vegetarian, and don't really support my dession but they buy me my food and stuff just so I can eat with them at dinner. Then my parents know I love concerts, and my phone.. so basicly that means music and well my phone hah. So I try to go to
aww that's great your really opening up about your life to us (the viewers) (: . well........ im way closer to my mum compared to my dad. most days i don't even talk to my dad eg yesterday. i dunno i just feel awkward around my dad.. okay not awkward but like there's nothing to talk about... yeah .
Ok well my dad is dead, which I dunno I mean if I would've had a father figure or him (which I never have) then I probably wouldn't be who i am today cuz they probably would've freaked so I think it was kinda meant for me not to have one cuz I can't stand being like....... controlled by adults beliefs when I'm my own person and they lack empathy. So with my mom..... I live with my aunt but lately I just like run over there cuz my aunt's house is just like too much. I never, ever share.....
my feelings with her like when my aunt's house is too much which i mean she leaves me alone cuz i'm a loner but... it's just me like i don't share anything with anyone. I'm just a really closed person so sometimes it just builds and it's like i gotta get out of here but i think it more like i wanna try to escape my life which isn't possible but anyways..... I'll be intending to share my feelings with my mom but I get there and I don't say like anything. I don't bring up any problems or anything.
Ok sorry almost done lol I am typing a lot. But anyways yes sometimes I stay with my mom it's like complicated. But..... when we are together for too long yes we fight and we have like yelling super loud...... super angry fights. Yeah....... so I run away there for like a day or two but if I stay too long we just don't get along we just kind of clash like...... tooth paste and orange juice lol hard to think of something. Bu t yeah we don't really have a connection but I dunno.
oohh you should get teamspeaker then you can go on youtube on the other person's computer,but it's on your computer. ya get my drift?? lol it's hard for me to explain
my parents are so crazy, not to rant but they overreact for the smallest things, they're hypocrticial, they're either fighting with each other (yelling at 6am) or yelling at me, and its raelly sad. i'm not close with them at all, and i used to feel bad,i still do, but i never know what a real parent is like. sadly.
I'm not close to my parents at all. In fact, we are very busy. Our relationship is like I live at their house. I thank them. And.. that's it. I try to avoid them. They bother me a lot. They don't love me really. Well.. most kids would say that, but I know because my dad told me. So.. that's our relationship.. I'm just going to wait till I'm 18 and go live my life the way I want it to be.
' btw hugo says hi ' lmao u didn't look too pleased when u said that.
I totally understand where ur coming from even though my dads away at work most of the time I feel closer to him and I love my mum too but I just argue with her a LOT lol mums can be like that they need to b pampered n stuff cos they go under a lot of stress too maybe it's just hormones? Don't worry u'll get over it :) xox
With my dad we'd joke and laugh all the time, and go cycling because we are into outdoor things and its like im a boy when im with dad. Then mum now, is we talk about personal things, about family, the future, people. Maybe because now my brothers older,he does his own thing and no longerthe cute little boy, and mum has no one to talk to. the only thing she doesnt understandabout me is my dreams, she thinks they are a little bizar and we get into arguments alot about that.
but dad on the other hand would pick me up and swing me round, let me pretend i was superman etc haha. But when i got older i started to develop a bond with mum. Now i get along with both my parents, but i get along with them in different ways, if that makes any sense? haha.
i was realllly listening to this, felt really personal like you was just there talking to me XD.
When i was younger i was always closer to my dad as well.i always felt my mum gave more attension to my younger brother. Whenever i reached out for a hug from my mum she'd push me away and tell me to grow up and not be so clingy, maybe because i was the older child. Which is why i never got hugged much as a kid by mum
I love me mum so much we are more like sisters! I havent always had it that way as we used to fight ALL the time , My parents divorced when i was 4 so yeah... and my dad lives really far away and we barely ever talk we have no relationship he does not get me at all. and sometimes he can be really mean to me (that sounds so childish but whatever) i would love to have a close relationship with my dad but if i had to choose i would choose my mum - i know thats really bad also but sshe is AMAZING
From my perpective, me and my parents are really far from each other =\ I can't really share like.. any PERSONAL feelings with them or else if feels so awkward =.= Me and my dad are really far apart too because I don't talk to him that much either even when he IS at home... I wish I was closer with my parents..
Im really Glad My Parents Are Still Togther. there have been times when they have started fighting were they have said that they were going to do that. i get along better with my mum i tell her everything but when it comes to my dad i dont me and my dad seem to fight with each other quiet alot over silly things. that why i hardly talk to him anymore my parents keep having fights aswell if its not 1 thing its always another but so far the fights have died down so there happy for the time being.
My mom and dad are divoreced cuz my dad cheated on my mom. They didn't told me of course, but my grandma did. And my dad doesn't know that I know. But I love my mom more even though my dad try's more. My dad isn't good at expressing his feelings. And I think I love my best friend (I'm girl and he's guy just so you know ;) I used to hang out with him alot but now he got to another school and I miss him sooo much. we've been talking alot but lately I feel like he's avoiding me. It makes me so sad
I'm not really close with my parents. I have arguments with my mum a lot of the time. I guess I'm more close with my dad because I kinda have the same humor as him. But overall, I'm not that close. I've just never been able to.
I'm pretty equally close with both parents, and I see everyday just how lucky I am, I know tons of kids who don't have good relationships with their parents, their parents are divorced, etc. I talk to both parents about typical problems; annoying classmates, unfair teachers, stupid friends, but nothing deeply personal. I can kinda relate to my dad more because he's more of a free spirit than my mom, and I'm just the eccentric one in the family. My mom copes with my weirdness, my dad understands.
My dad was always working when I was little and was never really home.. We only started bonding the past two or three years after all this time... My mom was heavily physically and emotionally abusive towards me when I was growing up.. Things have changed a lot since I was a kid and they're a lot better I guess..
Well, I think I am closer to my dad. I tell my dad things about school and stuff, while I don't really share anything with my mom. When I was younger my relationship with really really rough with them, so I don't even feel really connected with them even now. I do hide a lot of things from them which is not good, but I hope that our relationship will improve.
I think i'm closer to my dad because we have more emotional talks then me and my mom. My mom is always freaking out about things and never really listens. I think its because i have more personality traits inherited from my dad and he knows what its like. My mom just never seems to listen and give advice or anything. But I love them both more than anything because they've done so much and are here for me.
my mom i talk to her but i cant talk to her about thangs going on in my life my dad past away when i was 12 i wish i could still talk to him my mom have been not marryed sents i was vary young.
I am closer with my mom, But my dad shows me more love.
But I don't have trust with my parents I can't tell them everything. But lately i've been feeling lonely like I'm being left out. I am always busy cos of school activities. So when I do have time and want to spend it with them, they like deny it. I know this sounds terrible but I like it better when it's just me and my mom, even though my dad shows me so much love and care. I feel like a total ass, but is something that I believe in.
i'm definetly closer to my mum, i tell her everything where as with my dad the only thing i can talk about is what grades i got on what tests. My dad is closer to my brothers and favors them more. I think thats why i'm so close to my mum.
I'm definitely closer with my mom, just because she's always there and actually knows what's going on I know my dad loves me and I can have a good time and a really deep conversation every once in a while, but when something is really bothering me i go to mi mum ^-^
i guess I'm pretty close to my mom, but sometimes it's easier to talk to my dad because he doesn't explode as much. they both accept my opinions but my dad doesn't usually listen, my mom doesn't listen every second, it's not like i expect her to, but at least she tries:) my parents argue about stupid things when they could just easily resolve it, it just seems to me that a lot of parents get so rapped up in parenting that they forget that they love each other, & and that's why they fight.. :(
My parents divorced when I was 6 so I never was really close to my dad that much. But when he was diagnosed with leukemia four years ago, it made me appreciate him so much more. I realised that he's not actually going to be here forever so I made an effort to spend more time with him. He past away two years ago and I miss him so much, no words can describe the feeling. I hate that he's not here with me and my siblings.
Life gives, life takes =) I'm so grateful I still have my mum <3
WWEEELLLL. haha. I have pretty much the same situation as you. Except I h.a.t.e my mother. She is seriously crazy. and I'm not saying that just cause i'm a teenager. she seriously is. I love my dad sooo much. and my parents have been devorced since i was in about... 4th grade. I am now in 11th. I see my friends being really tight with their moms and on tv ya know all about mother daughter relationships. I often feel sad about that cause I don't have one. Its like I don't have a mother. but yeah.
I get along way better with my dad than my mom. I'm very greatful I have a mom and that my parents arent divorced its just I've never really gotten along with my mom. When ever I have a breakdown its usually about her. And I really like how my dad can always calm me down. I also dont see my dad a lot so it can be lonely without him and I really miss him. I get in a lot of fights with her too. Like today I just have a major fight with her... Sorry I kinda wrote a lot... ^^;
I'm closer with my mom than my dad. I know I can go to my mom for everything and even if she can't help me out, she tries. My dad and I talk but he is more of a taker. He calls when he needs money or he's lonely but doesn't really wanna talk much about me or how I'm feeling. He also lives in another state so I don't get to see him much.
marriage is a bit different then a boyfriend. Parents are life partners and their lives surround each other. The main responsibilities are either to each other or shared (for kids/ family), and thus, it can be harder if one of them feels like they aren't a huge part of their spouses life. Boyfriends have no obligation to dedicate their life to one person or a shared life... thus, marriage is helpful. :)
yeah, im really close to my dad like you are.... you seem like a very humble person yoooooou and you reminded me that i need to be less selfish.. but not about being in like a relationship thinger... just general or more so towards my parents
haha i just need to keep my thoughts, ideas, whatever to myself more i guess haha but thank you for that reminder, i try to remind myself daily about this stuff
I hate my father. I am no where near close to being family with him. I don't exactly like my mother, but I am grateful to have her around. I hate when they are together though.
I'm not close with mom or dad. Don't talk much unless me and my dad are alone or my mom and I are alone. I don't have many talks with my dad, but my mom gives me lectures ALOT but my dad he's only givin me a talk a couple times, I feel more "chill" with him.
Well my mom is... idk. She doesn't seem to care anymore. My stepdad always picks fights with me and jjust is generally mean. I don't know who my dad is, my mom had me when she was 17... :/
im not close to any of my parents at all. im always getting in trouble because im not cleaning the house and/or doing laundry. heres the funny thing, im in high school and im to busy with school work and im always in my room all day. and when im in trouble because of laundry ... it wouldnt be my laundry its typically doin my parent's laundry. also when ever i decide to have a life and go out [[i barely do]] i get yelled at because of it.
my parent dnt get me, and i dont get them. blah blah
I never met my dad before i would love to meet him even if he was a bad person i know it sounds weird to say. My mom she's on drugs and it's been pretty bad. So me and my mom's relationship has been really bad all my life.
rennemarie 1 year ago
yeah same here, i have a more close relationship with my father than my mother. And I know how I get into a lot of fights with my parents, be it serious or as a result of me and my stupid teen mood swings, but I just have to think of the 16+ hours a day my dad & mom work to keep our family alive. Then I shut up & I'm grateful.
MissHungrikins 1 year ago
i guess is life
mee000w 1 year ago
man i am been depress a lot but i guess is soposly is cusz i am teen,its too much for me too take & explain. . . .
mee000w 1 year ago
@purerandomosity i hav the EXACT same situation as u. i'm close 2 my dad but at the same time i see my mom more cuz my dad travels alot. my mom is a perfectionist, and expects a lot out of me.
vampiredragon791 1 year ago
I have good relationships with my parents. I talk to my mom about anything (almost), and with my dad, well, he will randomly say ideas for the day and we'll go and do them (ie. One time he said "hey let's go to the mountains" and then we did). My dad smokes but doesn't know that I know, but I wrote a science essay about how smoking is bad for your health and the enviroment, and I think he's trying to stop now. But I wouldn't know for sure, because he doesn't know I know.
ChronophobiacVampire 1 year ago
My relationship with my parents depends on the situation, like if I'm fighting with one I'll side with the other. But in my case right now,
im cool with both my parents :D but the weird thing is, I'm close with my mom and I'm close with my dad but my mom and my dad aren't close anymore ever since he cheated...
sexyblanket 1 year ago
SHANE DAWSON
hannahs12345678 1 year ago
omg moms lecturing....i hate it sometimes
well mines....i honestly dnt even feel like my parents are my parents because they are always diong their own thing...sadly....and they never really spend time wit me n my siblings.
but yes i am very thnkful for my parents.because witout them i wouldnt b here
onthemoon09 2 years ago
im trying to get close to my dad but the thing is i haven't seen him for 13 year like practically my whole life he just started calling me and telling me that he wants to be a part of my life i dont really want him to be but i want to give it a shot and give him another chance. Oh and me and my mom are not close at all we fight a lot and end up pissed at each other for weeks but we always end up making up. The thing is im scared some day we wont be able to repair that damage.
IRENEASAUROUSxxREX 2 years ago
iv never reaqlly been close to either of my mom nd dad bcuz my mom is always stressing bout her jod nd my dad to nd they kinda don't like me buz oonce my dad told me to die nd my mom was right there nd she didnt say anything she jus walk way nd i really dont remember y he told me that...bout w/e nd my mom nd dad never really like my there brothers. well maybe lils one but idk....i really dont care that they hate me...but idk w/e it dose bother me well kinda idk w/e
giannygarcia919 2 years ago
i see my dad once a year. but hey, everything counts.
my mom has talked about suicide sometimes and thats disturbed me, even my grandmom.
i feel like im missing something in my childhood, being only 14. if i become a father i wont know how to be one cuz me and my dad are mostly like best friends.
JUSTMYSKILLLOL 2 years ago
i'm starting to get notsoclose with my mom ever since me and my dad were in a car accident .
we're always fighting and sometimes i just can't stand her .
i know she's my mom but i feel like she didn't care i was in the hospital with whiplash and crushed ribs .
i felt like all she cared about was my baby cousins .
banditxlee 2 years ago
My girlfriend broke up with me because I was always depressed and I was being harassed over the summer and I didn't want to tell her about it in fear that she would get hurt... It's all my fault that we broke up and I now can't forgive myself...
My relationship with my parents is pretty bad right now. They're always budding in on my life when I just want to be left alone. They don't let me do much ever since they found out that I cut... I really just want to go live with someone else...
ShikaxIta 2 years ago
My cunt of a father was abusive, and well, used to beat me up. He used too swear so much, it had an effect on my vocabulary when I was younger, (I constantly used to words, fuck and things).
My mum left him when I was 8, but I have to say my life has basically taken a turn for the worse since I turned 11.
My mum was depressive, (telling me she wanted to die an early death when I was 5). Still, too but it bluntly, I hate both of them and my brothers.
Kind of shitty being 15,
HideoFTW1 2 years ago 5
well sorry this is a late response lol cuz i saw this was uploaded like 2 months ago. i have problems with parents too. Like i dnt have a dad around he left i'm like the child with a different dad. so my mom only watches us but i used to cry all the time because i would be sick of my mother going out with different mens then this one man shes now sticking with, always off and on arguing with each other GOSH ITS FUCKING ANYOING.
DaHvii 2 years ago
and my mom the problem with her where not like a good mom n daughter bond thingie u say. like she dnt get me at all liek when she yells shse makes me pissed off well she always yell cuz when she talks regurlaly her voice is rly loud shes not death lol...but yeah she just dnt get me understand me at al idnt know how to explain.. SORRY haha
DaHvii 2 years ago
My dad divorced my mom when I was 7.
Before that he wasn't there for any of my birthdays, or anything.
He's never been in my life.
And I'm pretty darn glad too.
ahhitsrachel1 2 years ago
My dad left when i was 8, and I haven't seen him since.
My mom and I get along alright... we're just not that close.
Polali173 2 years ago
but its good you and your dad have a relationship through the stress and working and stuff , i applaud him for that hun..
leostar4lyfe 2 years ago
hmmm i understand about not being close with my mom or my dad ,we fought just about everday since i was 8 , but recently ive learned patience is a HUGE thing in relationships and its important to see and act on both sides of a story , also , try not to take too much stuff your mom says or does personally , like the majority of things people do , are all REACTIONS to other (maybe not so obvious)situations , not necesarily actions of thier own preference and choice... i hope that made sence lol !
leostar4lyfe 2 years ago
u sed that u hadnt seen ur dad for once a yr for 2 weeks?!?!?!?! wth!?!
lol
JonasGirl168 2 years ago
she means that in a year she sees her dad for only 2 weeks. get it?
PizzaPhobiaxoxo 2 years ago 2
My father died when i saw six weeks old and my mom...i left her because....i did......
timekillerqueen 2 years ago
DARNitsriceball 2 years ago
I'm very close with my dad and my mom and I just fight all the time! and my step dad is... well strange lol
LoveIsInTheRain0805 2 years ago
I'm not really close with my mom, or my stepdad. i dont "click" with any of them...
SKATERCHICK34576 2 years ago
why is youtube blocked in china?!
:c
rbgm12 2 years ago
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Kantasyxx 2 years ago
I'm not really close with my parents, in fact I actually feel lonely, but whatever I've managed to do well on my own...
kamaniisopi 2 years ago
im not as close anymore with my dad cauz im doin bad in skool and i hate my skool is a charter skool so i guest im always stress and he always stress .also he is strik and the littlest things i do he always gets mad and he makes it realy a big thing ... but my mom is da coolest mom ever i want to move with her but she doesnt want me right now but she not that strik.p.s that feel so much better getting that out lolzzzzz give me some advie and help me plzz bye da way my name is noah
Noah71396 2 years ago
I've always been closer to my mom because my dad always used to yell and stuff at my brother and I when I was younger. Now that I'm older we actually fight I really hate him with all my heart..... I know that sounds bad but.... ( I don't mean like disipline yelling either everyones parents are like that but he would keep going until I completly broke down in front of him and he would keep going)
XxGothicGummyBearsxX 2 years ago
when i was little, i remember waking up and crying because my dad would always yell at my mom. my moms re-married now and shes way happier. i live with my dad and we dont really get along. i dont WANT to get along with him either. maybe its because i still resent him for when i was little.
AEH10 2 years ago
ur really lucky 2 have a dad i dont have 1 he walked out on my mum when i was 3 and my realationship wiv my mum is an on off thing but most of the time we dont speak to each over so i kind of feel like i dont have anyone there 2 talk 2.
piddydo 2 years ago
My parents have been fighting because my mother flirted with her friend Corey, and my dad thinks she is full on cheating. He wants to move out if things dont work out. Im not used to this. I have been listening to their fight, and my dad said that it wasnt the first time this happened. fml.
Aiyonn 2 years ago
my mother is a bitch. it's actually gotten to a point where i don't even call her mom any more, i just call her by her first name. but i'm kinda cool with my dad. but i hate it when he gets pissed cuz it's always someone's fault and not his.
xblacktearxheartache 2 years ago
My dad is always too busy to do anything T-T``
we can't even go buy some cheese burritosD;
MuchachoBob 2 years ago
My dads an arse holee D':
Any time he gets told to keep something quiet he goes and tells everyone :'(
I was with this guy once, and my mum told him to keep it quiet as my family say im too young for relationships and they dont aprove, so my dad went and told everybody and now i dont have family to communicate with. I just have my friends. I watch your videos, and i get the friend feeling, i think your really nice :D
By the wayy.. Could i have your msn? Mail Me Here?
Love EmmaEmergency <33
TheToastManiac 2 years ago
I hate my dad, I wont even look him anymore. Hes always been an asshole and he was never there for me. My ma it's different, she takes care of me nd yeah shes always been there, but we never really talk anymore. I mean if we talk its just "hey...hows ur day...", but were still close.
musicalchick3 2 years ago
my parents arent 2getha no more and live in differet towns and what i have noticed is that i seem to get along better with them when i am not with them!!
AMB3Rjadee 2 years ago
I don't really talk to either parents a lot. My Dad (kind of like yours) is always working but I'm closer to him. And me and my mum aren't close at all, and don't really have a good relationship. My parents are split too, but aparently my mum might move away for 3 years. Don't know how that's happening though. xD
So complicated.
CTS5Z72 2 years ago
Part in a play and even uploaded my voice on youtube. And thats all thanks to my dad :) Basically he funded my ispiration. Yeah I had to do this comment/lecture in two parts because It is soooooooo long :) Aaanyway, Thanks for reading or whatever,
Jess x
snailsaregroovy 2 years ago
I am closer to my dad too : ) We have this Craaaazy system thing going on right now so let me try and explain it to you, In the week, I stay with my mum because of school, after school on thursdays I go to town with my dad and every other weekend i go to my dads house. Complicated right :) Well I play guitar piano and i love to sing, and I was singing one day and my dad was like 'oh my goodness Jess you have a really good voice!!' and since then I have learned to play guitar, been the main...
snailsaregroovy 2 years ago
i think the lesson that can be learnt here, is that women are bloody demanding! we guys need a break!
LiveAndLetDice 2 years ago
yea, even im a girl and i think guys are more mature, i agree most of the feminin race needs to CHILL.
5AliveFully 2 years ago
we've been saying that for years and its only gotten us into MORE trouble! it really is a no win situation with women, I can't imagine how lesbian couples cope! :oP nice vlogs btw :)
LiveAndLetDice 2 years ago
let me put it this way: i wish i was never born
kath0retart 2 years ago
My relationships with my parents aren't that 'poor'. Ever since my mom died, I don't talk to my dad much. But i'm trying and I'm going to be close to him, because lifes too short...y'know? But i was kinda close..
omg0wafflez0 2 years ago
doesnt like my mom or my family. so yeah i hate her & yeah soo....that my relationship with my parent. but thee sad thing is i really dont love my mom but i do have respect for her. :T
aissamarie15 2 years ago
i would have to say im closer to my mom but not so much anymore. She lost her trust in me only beacuse i was out til like 8:30 & she thought i was really with some guy or on eof my ex's but i was with a friend at our school football game & then he hung out at thee park for a bit but its like whatever to me. i main be with my friends most of the time & talk with them & my dad left when i was younger & he does talk to me but i know he dont care, he only cares about his son & my step mom, his wife,
aissamarie15 2 years ago
I'm closer to my dad. (:
My mom moved out when I was around the age of seven...And my dad was constantly working. So, I had no choice but to live with my grandparents. I love my grandparents so it's cool. erm, i didn't see my dad too often since he traveled. But recently I've been able to keep much contact since he has a different job..and I just spent about 2 months at his house while recovering from a spinal fusion surgery. HA! I guess blessings DO come in disguise?(:
kimixbrushedxred 2 years ago
my mum and dad split when i was 9, after a physical abusive relationship,. ever since then, ive grown closer with both. and funny enough, i see my dad more now, while he lives away and is with a another women and has a son, im closer to him now than i EVER was..so i personally think its a good thing, it sounds selfish, but i guess its ok?
i see my dad once everyweek, when he tutors me, and sometimes takes me and my sister out to the city and stuff.
vikki12307 2 years ago
me i am 31 i still live with mom and dad ive lived on my own before when i was married and at other times in my life.i am disabled but able to take care of me but living at home is were i need to be. but it just depends on the day and how they are treating me as to how i get along with them. sometimes i get along with them fine other times i get upset with them and we have our fights and arguments. so ya i guess know matter the age we all can get into it with our mom and dad's
jesusfreak95301 2 years ago
hey i love ur video's they rock big time. u said in this video that people might think your to young to know to much. but i say the age does not matter the older people can learn from younger people and the younger people can learn from the older people. i think ur a very smart and pretty young lady.i am not sure how old u are but i think u seem to be a very smart young lady you should give yourself more credit then u do :-) i cant wait to see your next video. keep on rocking.
jesusfreak95301 2 years ago
Wait... Hugo? is that ur bf?
GOSHxitzxRANDOM 2 years ago
my dad died when i was 4 :(
purpalishisgurl14 2 years ago
does it hurt to put contacts in?
Wchik9 2 years ago
love your hair
narutoinpink 2 years ago
I am having many of the troubles you are. It used to be good. Oh and dont shorten your videos. Its very inspiring watching you express your problems. :D
Jarohe14 2 years ago
i am closer with my mom.But i love my dad my parents are separated but i only see my dad maybe twice a week and he just takes me to school and picks me up and then takes me to eat then brings me home i am close with my dad too but not as close as i am with my mom.
stephybaby33 2 years ago
i used to be daddyz lil girl but over the yearz things chang know im closer to well my mom
BrokenAngelx15 2 years ago
hmm, im closer with my mom than i am with my dad, but only just by a little, i used to be a really really big daddy's little girl, but then somehow we grew apart... so im closer with my mom now for some reason xD
but anyways, i love your videos Kimmy :)
xPIANOxMUSICx 2 years ago
urgg plz plz plz plz PLZ
make more make up videos!
i miss them
Twilightfreak410 2 years ago
I'm closer to my mom than I am with my dad, but I'm not that close to my mom, I dont really like to tell her much.. You are amazing by the way.!
YewRokkMuhNeonSoxz 2 years ago
you said, "i dident get to see my dad ,only once a year for like 2 years" lol i still love you <3 my idol. your so respectful and lovely. i havent seen my dad in a year
crystalluvs8080 2 years ago
she meant that she saw her dad 2 weeks in the year.
BrittneyCrunkkx3 2 years ago
I'm very close with my Dad, and not as much with my Mom. Me and my Mom always get mad at eachother and, i dunno. It's just pointless. Life is too short. You should show your parents this video.. maybe it would help them understand.
I may make a video response to this. (:
neondinosaurr 2 years ago
the blur and green in your hair is seriously awesome looking
rachelwolf128x 2 years ago
parents work and then we turn 18 and leave the house, then they regret it because the years went by and they didn't pay attention to us. Thank god i'm a tattoo artist and i make my own schedule, i'm always with my kids
irishangel707 2 years ago 2
Both my parents work, so i basically raise my little brother. I wake up in the morning and they arent their, its like we live on our own and the only time they come home is to eat or sleep. I understand we have the things we have because they work so much, and i appreciate that but they say 'you guys are so ungrateful, you never want to spent time w/ us." like wtf you guys are never home. They've gotten in really big fights and they have like opposite jobs so they nvr see each other or us.
BRiiAHkiDDO 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
stop ranting!
plz do make up video's again!
your style is much more interesting than your problems....
lisavanberkel 2 years ago
I was neve close to my mom I'm more like with my dad I think most of the reason why I'm not close to her is because I'm bi and scared about what shell think
Btw I love your videos :)
PandaLoLzZ 2 years ago
My parents are fighting right now, too. Today my mom started throwing things around (the toaster) while my sister and I were at school. It was a disagreement about money and control. Idk, but my mom's really insensitive and selfish. I can't get along with her, and she insists I'm only nice when i want something. She's obviously been ignoring my tolerance of her attitude. I get along with my dad better. Like you. Sometimes I wonder if that's okay.
xschizofreak 2 years ago
I had a hard childhood & hated my dad bcos he hit me. my mum was never there for me. She ended up getting really bad habits from my step dad, & now they've switched, although I have a connection to my mum - we always argue & she can be extremely selfish in general. My stepdad goes away every 2 wks, but when he's here & tries to plan things all my mum does is grumble and never appreciate anything. She can be really insensitive too - calling him fat when he's had problems with his weight for ages.
CherryLipsXx 2 years ago
my parents never married and split when i was really, really young, so i don't really remember. i still get to see my dad, use to be every 2nd weekend now every 4th because of work. i get along alright with both of my parents, tho i fight with my mom a lot... she always seems to be trying to control me and make me do everything her way. i don't really feel that close to either of them so i always go to my best friend when something is really bothering me, my friends are my family (:
SkyRocketRainbows 2 years ago
No, im not close to my dad. Okey, so we have always lived togheter, but he always works alot and when i was a little kid he didnt come home befor I did go to bed... often we didnt even eat dinner together... Now he often goes away for some weeks and acctually (heart less, I know...), I don't miss him that much, cause' It feels like I don't really know him)my mother is close to me, and i know she gets sad when dads not home... they often scream on eachother, but I know they Love eachother & Me...
limelyx 2 years ago
I understand your point and agree with everything that was said. And hopefully you're able to reconnect with your mom and dad!
DumemiruMetallic 2 years ago
you're never too young for love!
willszz 2 years ago
Hey Kimmy! (: I love how you can get so close with people and let them open out on the internet ahha. Keep making videos, I love listening to your advice and stories!
-- Alexis
xalexiss 2 years ago
i like your hair.
:)
SammieElisex3 2 years ago
mom had me at 16. left my biological dad & meet another guy. she always left me at home to go out. not even my grandma wanted to take care of me. the new guy felt sympathy and told her to leave me with him and his mom to handle me. and now, i live with my step dad (even though they never married) and my grandma. i go to mom's on weekend, to be with her and my 2 sisters sisters. 4 & 5 yrs old. couldn't handle me or herself yet she had 2 more. now she makes me babysit for her to go out. hate her
BoyScoutCookies 2 years ago
sorry to hear about the trouble
but yea same but im more closer to my mom then dad even though he lives with me. he is always working and well now a days it seems like he is always mad and bussy my parents are planing to get divorced..but..ehh the position im in is not that bad as other kids places with there parents and its okay to feel..bad? not the word im looking for but i understand its not that u feel ungratefull ur just confused? i guess?.but hopefully everything will go for the best! :)
ScreamOutNancy 2 years ago
ur hair looks green now!! lol. last time you told us you don't have green hair.
luevanlu 2 years ago
my family is the typical family on the outside, close, and happy and such, but on the interior its totally flipped around. my mother has had some problems that i dont want ppl to kno about, and my dad is never around, but he and i get along easier. ive taken care of my whole family since i was 8, ive cooked, cleaned , gone grocery shopping, disciplined my sister, yadayada. and i fight with them 24/7, but i do appreciate and love them all. my mother and i dont see eye to eye either dont feel bad
cruentasXlacrima 2 years ago
Kimmy, when I was 8 months old, my parents divorced. I'm 11 now with my mom[single]. My mom married 4 people adn my older brother and I have different fathers as well. So, please don't worry about it :(. I mean my dad always tells me "Sophia do sports u suck ur bored all the time cuz of ur MOM. SINCE UR SO BORED UR GONNA DO DRUGS!!" and it kinda pissed me off D: my mom is working 24/7 too so i never see her. So don't feel like ur alone :)
animecosplay145 2 years ago
i'm 14 and since i'm 9 i never seen my dad again....my s*epda is an AH..soo....me and my mom are cool...my li**le sis*er bornd sick...soo every one care abou* her more...
JapanRobyn 2 years ago
dont worry kimmi its not onli u
i am also not close to my parent's at all...i donno y...i wud love to have a close relationship with them but i jus can't have one....
emogal2 2 years ago
My dad doesn't work, and is home, almost all the time. And it drives me crazy. He's a bit like donald duck, explodes because of the smallest things! My mom works all the time, but yesterday i went out to eat in a restaurant with her. It was nice, but we didn't say much...
And also today, my dad made me cry, because of a fucking dishwasher.
KakatheStrange 2 years ago
PLZ make hair and make up videos....!!!!!
lisavanberkel 2 years ago
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bubblyprincesskelly 2 years ago
Let's put it this way, it's like having strangers living in the same house. My parents are in their own world as are me and my brother. Surprisingly, I'm fine with it. My dad is a real prick, always has been. My mom is great and I appreciate her and all she's done but she's irritated almost all the time. I don't share anything with them, they don't care. That's my family.
xXxVelvetBloodxXx 2 years ago
haha im about 14% close to my dad and 86% close to my mother
my dad is a alcoholic so yee
MiZzH0tTiE12 2 years ago
Or any other little thing they find wrong with me they want to fight about with me... It's stupid but we're working on it, I just don't think my parents and I will ever be as close as other people.
Okay, sorry for such the long comment.. but i'm done.
sweeneytwilightgrl 2 years ago
alot of concerts that are cheap like the stephen jerzak concert was 15 dollars, and all time low, nevershoutnever etc. My parents hate me going to concerts, so they don't really let me go to them unless I don't have any homework, have a ride, don't get in a fight with my little brother for a week, don't talk back, get all the information about the concert a few days before, etc. It sucks that we fight about that, and the fact that I text to much.
sweeneytwilightgrl 2 years ago
what a hot asian chick...must be half cauasian
TheCityofGod 2 years ago
Okay, so I guess I get along better with my parents then other people... but not alot. Like my mom and I fight over dessions I make. My dad just agree's with my mother. For example, I decided to go vegetarian for many reasons. They don't think I should be vegetarian, and don't really support my dession but they buy me my food and stuff just so I can eat with them at dinner. Then my parents know I love concerts, and my phone.. so basicly that means music and well my phone hah. So I try to go to
sweeneytwilightgrl 2 years ago
aww that's great your really opening up about your life to us (the viewers) (: . well........ im way closer to my mum compared to my dad. most days i don't even talk to my dad eg yesterday. i dunno i just feel awkward around my dad.. okay not awkward but like there's nothing to talk about... yeah .
yankyLOVE22 2 years ago
Ok well my dad is dead, which I dunno I mean if I would've had a father figure or him (which I never have) then I probably wouldn't be who i am today cuz they probably would've freaked so I think it was kinda meant for me not to have one cuz I can't stand being like....... controlled by adults beliefs when I'm my own person and they lack empathy. So with my mom..... I live with my aunt but lately I just like run over there cuz my aunt's house is just like too much. I never, ever share.....
IwantBlood 2 years ago
my feelings with her like when my aunt's house is too much which i mean she leaves me alone cuz i'm a loner but... it's just me like i don't share anything with anyone. I'm just a really closed person so sometimes it just builds and it's like i gotta get out of here but i think it more like i wanna try to escape my life which isn't possible but anyways..... I'll be intending to share my feelings with my mom but I get there and I don't say like anything. I don't bring up any problems or anything.
IwantBlood 2 years ago
Ok sorry almost done lol I am typing a lot. But anyways yes sometimes I stay with my mom it's like complicated. But..... when we are together for too long yes we fight and we have like yelling super loud...... super angry fights. Yeah....... so I run away there for like a day or two but if I stay too long we just don't get along we just kind of clash like...... tooth paste and orange juice lol hard to think of something. Bu t yeah we don't really have a connection but I dunno.
IwantBlood 2 years ago
ehhh. I'm no close to any of them.
Maybe more to my mom, but not really. Never really talking about anything I guess.
shatteredindespair 2 years ago
Im close with my mom we can talk about anything... im kind of close with my dad but we dont really bond anymore... its kinda weird.... =/
darkethefreak 2 years ago
oohh you should get teamspeaker then you can go on youtube on the other person's computer,but it's on your computer. ya get my drift?? lol it's hard for me to explain
MIZZwOAH 2 years ago
stressfull and i always get intp random fights :\
ShaneDaswon=:D
mampuslu123 2 years ago
my parents are so crazy, not to rant but they overreact for the smallest things, they're hypocrticial, they're either fighting with each other (yelling at 6am) or yelling at me, and its raelly sad. i'm not close with them at all, and i used to feel bad,i still do, but i never know what a real parent is like. sadly.
sudheshnam 2 years ago
HAI HUEGO ! :D
lol ; Yeah ; not close with my mom ; anddd my dad passed away years ago .
: /
JustAnotherSperm8D 2 years ago
Why is youtube blocked in China?
criminaleeinsane 2 years ago
I'm not close to my parents at all. In fact, we are very busy. Our relationship is like I live at their house. I thank them. And.. that's it. I try to avoid them. They bother me a lot. They don't love me really. Well.. most kids would say that, but I know because my dad told me. So.. that's our relationship.. I'm just going to wait till I'm 18 and go live my life the way I want it to be.
animeluver1XD 2 years ago
' btw hugo says hi ' lmao u didn't look too pleased when u said that.
I totally understand where ur coming from even though my dads away at work most of the time I feel closer to him and I love my mum too but I just argue with her a LOT lol mums can be like that they need to b pampered n stuff cos they go under a lot of stress too maybe it's just hormones? Don't worry u'll get over it :) xox
plepor 2 years ago 2
I can totally relate to you with you having problems with your mom. Its the same with my mom and I, and we fight all the time.
envythepalmtreeishot 2 years ago
me too :(
sudheshnam 2 years ago
With my dad we'd joke and laugh all the time, and go cycling because we are into outdoor things and its like im a boy when im with dad. Then mum now, is we talk about personal things, about family, the future, people. Maybe because now my brothers older,he does his own thing and no longerthe cute little boy, and mum has no one to talk to. the only thing she doesnt understandabout me is my dreams, she thinks they are a little bizar and we get into arguments alot about that.
ShrivelledmushroomS 2 years ago
but dad on the other hand would pick me up and swing me round, let me pretend i was superman etc haha. But when i got older i started to develop a bond with mum. Now i get along with both my parents, but i get along with them in different ways, if that makes any sense? haha.
ShrivelledmushroomS 2 years ago
I don't talk to my dad because he's an irresponsible parent.
But I'm lucky that I have a mom. I'm really sorry that you and ur parents have been arguing so much.
BELLATRIXxDAUGHTER 2 years ago
i was realllly listening to this, felt really personal like you was just there talking to me XD.
When i was younger i was always closer to my dad as well.i always felt my mum gave more attension to my younger brother. Whenever i reached out for a hug from my mum she'd push me away and tell me to grow up and not be so clingy, maybe because i was the older child. Which is why i never got hugged much as a kid by mum
ShrivelledmushroomS 2 years ago
I love me mum so much we are more like sisters! I havent always had it that way as we used to fight ALL the time , My parents divorced when i was 4 so yeah... and my dad lives really far away and we barely ever talk we have no relationship he does not get me at all. and sometimes he can be really mean to me (that sounds so childish but whatever) i would love to have a close relationship with my dad but if i had to choose i would choose my mum - i know thats really bad also but sshe is AMAZING
BimboBarker08 2 years ago
From my perpective, me and my parents are really far from each other =\ I can't really share like.. any PERSONAL feelings with them or else if feels so awkward =.= Me and my dad are really far apart too because I don't talk to him that much either even when he IS at home... I wish I was closer with my parents..
MizzFishy 2 years ago
Im really Glad My Parents Are Still Togther. there have been times when they have started fighting were they have said that they were going to do that. i get along better with my mum i tell her everything but when it comes to my dad i dont me and my dad seem to fight with each other quiet alot over silly things. that why i hardly talk to him anymore my parents keep having fights aswell if its not 1 thing its always another but so far the fights have died down so there happy for the time being.
namine4roxas 2 years ago
same its stressful
cupcake178 2 years ago
My mom and dad are divoreced cuz my dad cheated on my mom. They didn't told me of course, but my grandma did. And my dad doesn't know that I know. But I love my mom more even though my dad try's more. My dad isn't good at expressing his feelings. And I think I love my best friend (I'm girl and he's guy just so you know ;) I used to hang out with him alot but now he got to another school and I miss him sooo much. we've been talking alot but lately I feel like he's avoiding me. It makes me so sad
babbeltje5678 2 years ago
I'm not really close with my parents. I have arguments with my mum a lot of the time. I guess I'm more close with my dad because I kinda have the same humor as him. But overall, I'm not that close. I've just never been able to.
ChildOfTheNight91 2 years ago
i love you so muuch you are amazing
is it ilegal in china and wow you speak really good english
you are a role model
Millieeeeeeeeeiscool 2 years ago
i love it when kim talks a lot.:)
im okay with my parents , but my parents together is not okay.
they barely talk to each other when they are living under the same house.
lol , pretty werid,.
xbishyx 2 years ago
I'm pretty equally close with both parents, and I see everyday just how lucky I am, I know tons of kids who don't have good relationships with their parents, their parents are divorced, etc. I talk to both parents about typical problems; annoying classmates, unfair teachers, stupid friends, but nothing deeply personal. I can kinda relate to my dad more because he's more of a free spirit than my mom, and I'm just the eccentric one in the family. My mom copes with my weirdness, my dad understands.
JuliusPetunia 2 years ago
My dad was always working when I was little and was never really home.. We only started bonding the past two or three years after all this time... My mom was heavily physically and emotionally abusive towards me when I was growing up.. Things have changed a lot since I was a kid and they're a lot better I guess..
mywingsareyours 2 years ago
where did you get your choker?
iiTZzMALiiA 2 years ago
she got it for a present. she doesnt know
Inandaroundurmouth 2 years ago
Well, I think I am closer to my dad. I tell my dad things about school and stuff, while I don't really share anything with my mom. When I was younger my relationship with really really rough with them, so I don't even feel really connected with them even now. I do hide a lot of things from them which is not good, but I hope that our relationship will improve.
cberrycupcake 2 years ago
love this video :]
your so pretty!
I think i'm closer to my dad because we have more emotional talks then me and my mom. My mom is always freaking out about things and never really listens. I think its because i have more personality traits inherited from my dad and he knows what its like. My mom just never seems to listen and give advice or anything. But I love them both more than anything because they've done so much and are here for me.
MickiWearsFletcher 2 years ago
good luck with your family ^_^
EmilysBloodycorps 2 years ago
my mom i talk to her but i cant talk to her about thangs going on in my life my dad past away when i was 12 i wish i could still talk to him my mom have been not marryed sents i was vary young.
EmilysBloodycorps 2 years ago
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!accidently rated this 4 star D: wanted to rate 5 :(
LuluLiefdeHaat 2 years ago 2
I'm not really close to my parents , but maybe dad a bit more , i love him more ... he understands me ,,, i really love him =]
xxbetaneaxx 2 years ago
I am closer with my mom, But my dad shows me more love.
But I don't have trust with my parents I can't tell them everything. But lately i've been feeling lonely like I'm being left out. I am always busy cos of school activities. So when I do have time and want to spend it with them, they like deny it. I know this sounds terrible but I like it better when it's just me and my mom, even though my dad shows me so much love and care. I feel like a total ass, but is something that I believe in.
spootsgirl 2 years ago
I'm not close to either
: /
arianarox1726 2 years ago
i kow the feeling. s:
HardcoreLup 2 years ago
i'm definetly closer to my mum, i tell her everything where as with my dad the only thing i can talk about is what grades i got on what tests. My dad is closer to my brothers and favors them more. I think thats why i'm so close to my mum.
TrainTracks61 2 years ago
I'm definitely closer with my mom, just because she's always there and actually knows what's going on I know my dad loves me and I can have a good time and a really deep conversation every once in a while, but when something is really bothering me i go to mi mum ^-^
Smexyflower 2 years ago
i guess I'm pretty close to my mom, but sometimes it's easier to talk to my dad because he doesn't explode as much. they both accept my opinions but my dad doesn't usually listen, my mom doesn't listen every second, it's not like i expect her to, but at least she tries:) my parents argue about stupid things when they could just easily resolve it, it just seems to me that a lot of parents get so rapped up in parenting that they forget that they love each other, & and that's why they fight.. :(
ohmigoditsL 2 years ago
My parents divorced when I was 6 so I never was really close to my dad that much. But when he was diagnosed with leukemia four years ago, it made me appreciate him so much more. I realised that he's not actually going to be here forever so I made an effort to spend more time with him. He past away two years ago and I miss him so much, no words can describe the feeling. I hate that he's not here with me and my siblings.
Life gives, life takes =) I'm so grateful I still have my mum <3
nooramarja 2 years ago
I hate my family C:
vampirechibiofreno 2 years ago
I cant really pick who im closer with im basically close with both of my parents equally, but me and my mom fight more, but we r still really close.
RockerChick2772 2 years ago
I don't even live with either of them, and I'm 15. I live with my Aunt so I don't mind. And I haven't seen my dad in 3 years
FANGGS 2 years ago
WWEEELLLL. haha. I have pretty much the same situation as you. Except I h.a.t.e my mother. She is seriously crazy. and I'm not saying that just cause i'm a teenager. she seriously is. I love my dad sooo much. and my parents have been devorced since i was in about... 4th grade. I am now in 11th. I see my friends being really tight with their moms and on tv ya know all about mother daughter relationships. I often feel sad about that cause I don't have one. Its like I don't have a mother. but yeah.
marinoxx93 2 years ago
I get along way better with my dad than my mom. I'm very greatful I have a mom and that my parents arent divorced its just I've never really gotten along with my mom. When ever I have a breakdown its usually about her. And I really like how my dad can always calm me down. I also dont see my dad a lot so it can be lonely without him and I really miss him. I get in a lot of fights with her too. Like today I just have a major fight with her... Sorry I kinda wrote a lot... ^^;
coswalk 2 years ago
i think its rude if someone told you its rude to be on msn while making a video . LOL
RhianaM 2 years ago 3
Well, I think it's rude to tell people they're being rude when they tell people it's rude to be on msn while they are making a video :P
Shryce 2 years ago 3
I'm closer with my mom than my dad. I know I can go to my mom for everything and even if she can't help me out, she tries. My dad and I talk but he is more of a taker. He calls when he needs money or he's lonely but doesn't really wanna talk much about me or how I'm feeling. He also lives in another state so I don't get to see him much.
mami31685 2 years ago
my mom has a bad habit of ticking me of 24/7 so id say im closer to my father =]
MsPrettyInPunk 2 years ago
marriage is a bit different then a boyfriend. Parents are life partners and their lives surround each other. The main responsibilities are either to each other or shared (for kids/ family), and thus, it can be harder if one of them feels like they aren't a huge part of their spouses life. Boyfriends have no obligation to dedicate their life to one person or a shared life... thus, marriage is helpful. :)
choowee 2 years ago
i never like talking to my dad :/
even though hes always around..
he's just so mean and explosive.
but im extremely close to my mom,
but that just seems to make him even more mad.
xXcamiidollXx 2 years ago
yeah, im really close to my dad like you are.... you seem like a very humble person yoooooou and you reminded me that i need to be less selfish.. but not about being in like a relationship thinger... just general or more so towards my parents
haha i just need to keep my thoughts, ideas, whatever to myself more i guess haha but thank you for that reminder, i try to remind myself daily about this stuff
barkingtriscuits 2 years ago
I'm closer with my mom and I barely talk to my dad even though he's home everyday all the time :/
lovelyxxdisaster 2 years ago
LOL that was so shane dawson but....
Im not that close with my mom either.
But its not that unusual to be closer with your dad..
Like you know Daddy's Girl :)
slc92833 2 years ago
my family is very close.
TMTH4CanDyINA 2 years ago
im not too close to my mom and im starting to get closer with my dad right now
deb123shmeb 2 years ago
Im not close with anyone in my family.
Toxiication 2 years ago
I hate my father. I am no where near close to being family with him. I don't exactly like my mother, but I am grateful to have her around. I hate when they are together though.
brokenempathy11 2 years ago
you saw him once a year for 2 weeks ?? lol
rockstarr1212 2 years ago
I'm close with both my parents, but personal things I usually tell my Mom.
abrokenstory1 2 years ago 2
I'm not close with mom or dad. Don't talk much unless me and my dad are alone or my mom and I are alone. I don't have many talks with my dad, but my mom gives me lectures ALOT but my dad he's only givin me a talk a couple times, I feel more "chill" with him.
I get in trouble with my mom all the time.
plaidedpants 2 years ago
SAME
XxTinaluvsuxX 2 years ago
Well...for me its the opposite. Im closer to my mom?..but not like close close like u and ur dad.
She thinks i dont care about her..and all dat..but i actually do..and i suck at expressing it so i guess dat explains why she thinks dat.
and for my dad..well...i kno dis sound bad..but i dont like him..
Hes a good man. and good person, but i just dont like u said 'connect' with him. it just doesnt happen.
heyhiello 2 years ago
SAME TOTALLY SAME
i know exactly what youre talking about :p
wow im randomn.
anisasykes 2 years ago
haha x]
heyhiello 2 years ago
Well my mom is... idk. She doesn't seem to care anymore. My stepdad always picks fights with me and jjust is generally mean. I don't know who my dad is, my mom had me when she was 17... :/
itsCatherineBABY 2 years ago
im not close to any of my parents at all. im always getting in trouble because im not cleaning the house and/or doing laundry. heres the funny thing, im in high school and im to busy with school work and im always in my room all day. and when im in trouble because of laundry ... it wouldnt be my laundry its typically doin my parent's laundry. also when ever i decide to have a life and go out [[i barely do]] i get yelled at because of it.
my parent dnt get me, and i dont get them. blah blah
AniimeJunkiie 2 years ago