Well I believe that change has to be done within a person. There really must be a convinced heart, mind, body and soul that change is a MUST. However, is sexual orientation a must? Is being homosexual really a life risking trait? I find it so difficult and hurtful to see people trying to change their sexual orientation just because other people tell them that It is wrong to be homosexual. The real damage is being done by people who do not accept and embrace people as they are. Be you, Be happy.
A part of winning power over yourself is sometimes letting go. People who are overweight do not lose the taste for Twinkies just because the go to weight loss camp. There is a self defeating component in this kind of expectation and some of these organizations are going about it all wrong. What can set a person free is not indulgence but instead is in recasting their perspective. Think different. A creative man can find ways to make himself happy sexually even if he has unwanted desires.
Those Evangelical bigots who think that they are changing people from gay to straight are totally insane. They keep doing the same damned thing over and over and over against thinking that they will get a different result but all they get are more former ex-gays. Evangelical Christians who are outspoken anti-gay are some of the most tyrannical, hateful people I have ever met. They remind me of the Pharisees Jesus condemned.
haha. people are stupid thinking that we'd chose this lifestyle "fag" "dyke" "carpet muncher" "fudge packer" XDDD why would I chose to be ridiculed and beat up on? huhmm... well I hope that this "ex-gay" shit gets shut down because someday it's going to fuck someone up really bad
Educate Yourselves People: The American Medical Association, The American Psychiatric Association, The American Psychological Association, The American Psychoanalytic Association, The American Academy of Pediatrics, & The National Association of Social Workers have all stated that sexual orientation is NOT a choice and Can NOT be changed. Being educated degree holding professionals - I'm pretty sure they know what they're actually talking about. ;-)
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thats because you went with the wrong motive. I would go to meet other people who struggle like me. Its like saying, hey lets go jump the mountain and fly because someone else did. Homosex is a choice day by day, and to me its the hardest one. Israel
Ahh yes, the "exgay struggle" is heroic, daunting, and demanding...A Christopher Hitchens quote comes to mind "Self-Righteous, Self-hating, and Self-pitying"
Jej ben von Nederland? Ik kan Nederlands niet zo goed schriefen maar ik ken beter praaten. Anyway you are Dutch? Believe it or not there are some exgays in the Netherlands...amazing.
hoi mike, ja nederlands kan ook, maar ben zelf geen nederlander - is géén verbazing dat er ook hier exgays zijn, ik denk ze komen uit het reformatorisch hoekje.....
I'm sorry for you Israel. I don't think sex was/is supposed to be such a 'struggle'. We are what we are and some people waste their entire lives trying to be something else while all the time are miserable - apparently like yourself.
@jhr459 I love myself, but there are spects about myself that I do not like, thats a fact, if you say you like everything about yourself than either (A) your perfect or (B) your just as confused as someone in the closet... You say "I don't think sex was/is supposed to be such a 'struggle'"... really? Life is a struggle, nothing is easy... Remember when we childrens what were we told? You can be whatever you want to be when you grow up, I'm not done dreaming, I'm not done trying....
LMFAO GAys remain gays? You don't say! But LMFAO at Oggasteen! Keep it up bro! LOL The more chicks for me!
ADAM9999ify 6 months ago
Well I believe that change has to be done within a person. There really must be a convinced heart, mind, body and soul that change is a MUST. However, is sexual orientation a must? Is being homosexual really a life risking trait? I find it so difficult and hurtful to see people trying to change their sexual orientation just because other people tell them that It is wrong to be homosexual. The real damage is being done by people who do not accept and embrace people as they are. Be you, Be happy.
angelsnight 11 months ago 2
A part of winning power over yourself is sometimes letting go. People who are overweight do not lose the taste for Twinkies just because the go to weight loss camp. There is a self defeating component in this kind of expectation and some of these organizations are going about it all wrong. What can set a person free is not indulgence but instead is in recasting their perspective. Think different. A creative man can find ways to make himself happy sexually even if he has unwanted desires.
Ma3lst0rm 2 years ago
so true, thanks for your comment.
happyboy86 2 years ago
i notice there are a lot of these videos
i had a long email but i can't send it because freindlock is on ..... it's too long for the comment section
garycalgary 2 years ago
when that's the case gary, post it in several comments one after the other. I do it all the time.
jhr459 2 years ago
Those Evangelical bigots who think that they are changing people from gay to straight are totally insane. They keep doing the same damned thing over and over and over against thinking that they will get a different result but all they get are more former ex-gays. Evangelical Christians who are outspoken anti-gay are some of the most tyrannical, hateful people I have ever met. They remind me of the Pharisees Jesus condemned.
Rockymtntruth 2 years ago 3
damn what a hot guy.
oggasteen 3 years ago 10
I know right? so cute!
98orpheus 3 years ago 3
Yeah. Yummy. Glad he's on our side of the fence!
bearchewtoy75 2 years ago 7
haha. people are stupid thinking that we'd chose this lifestyle "fag" "dyke" "carpet muncher" "fudge packer" XDDD why would I chose to be ridiculed and beat up on? huhmm... well I hope that this "ex-gay" shit gets shut down because someday it's going to fuck someone up really bad
PshWhateverLol 3 years ago 4
aww.. he's handsome. Glad he isn't a gay-straight person, and just gay.
elprecipicio 3 years ago 4
he is hot
dannyjam 3 years ago 3
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Educate Yourselves People: The American Medical Association, The American Psychiatric Association, The American Psychological Association, The American Psychoanalytic Association, The American Academy of Pediatrics, & The National Association of Social Workers have all stated that sexual orientation is NOT a choice and Can NOT be changed. Being educated degree holding professionals - I'm pretty sure they know what they're actually talking about. ;-)
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thats because you went with the wrong motive. I would go to meet other people who struggle like me. Its like saying, hey lets go jump the mountain and fly because someone else did. Homosex is a choice day by day, and to me its the hardest one. Israel
izrah82 4 years ago
Ahh yes, the "exgay struggle" is heroic, daunting, and demanding...A Christopher Hitchens quote comes to mind "Self-Righteous, Self-hating, and Self-pitying"
mikemmlj 4 years ago 2
haha Hitchens, a genius, his comment on Falwell was classic (if you could give falwell an enema, he could have been buried in a matchbox).!!!
amsterdammed71 4 years ago
Jej ben von Nederland? Ik kan Nederlands niet zo goed schriefen maar ik ken beter praaten. Anyway you are Dutch? Believe it or not there are some exgays in the Netherlands...amazing.
mikemmlj 4 years ago
hoi mike, ja nederlands kan ook, maar ben zelf geen nederlander - is géén verbazing dat er ook hier exgays zijn, ik denk ze komen uit het reformatorisch hoekje.....
amsterdammed71 4 years ago
I would like to know if this what you say it's true. And if there is a proof you can get for me to see. I will thank you if you can or not.
miglix22 3 years ago
I would like you to post a link or some kind of help for people who suffer in this way, after all I'm affected too, but I struggle.
miglix22 3 years ago
I'm sorry for you Israel. I don't think sex was/is supposed to be such a 'struggle'. We are what we are and some people waste their entire lives trying to be something else while all the time are miserable - apparently like yourself.
jhr459 2 years ago
@jhr459 I love myself, but there are spects about myself that I do not like, thats a fact, if you say you like everything about yourself than either (A) your perfect or (B) your just as confused as someone in the closet... You say "I don't think sex was/is supposed to be such a 'struggle'"... really? Life is a struggle, nothing is easy... Remember when we childrens what were we told? You can be whatever you want to be when you grow up, I'm not done dreaming, I'm not done trying....
mikemass84 2 years ago
So, finally, we can say, that these people are just idiotic and have a mental and emotional disposition.
The Fact: Sexuality, in general, is biological.
FreakinTiger 4 years ago 2
Nice cameo appearance Scott! :)
Arthwork 4 years ago